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How is she chasing other girls away? In my experience women tend be be MORE likely to be interested when they think you're already withsomeone. You should probably spend less time around her and stop acting like a boyfriend in every way except the physical aspects but having this girl around is not bad. Just be sure to tell them very quickly after meeting them that you're just friends. Reverse the whip and use her to make yourself look good. Don't spend any money on her and don't be her girlfrie…
/r/seduction18/08/18 04:35 PM
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Go to the dog park. Stay out of the bars. I mean, as a place to find women, it's terrible.
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:18 AM
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I'm betting you're more attractive than the average guy your age.
/r/seduction27/07/18 01:44 PM
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You need to set up and enforce boundaries. If you don't want to be FWB with a girl then don't.
/r/seduction28/05/18 06:01 PM
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You just need to know one thing. Eat that boo-tay ass.
/r/seduction08/05/18 01:58 PM
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You just described every place I've ever worked. It's not just within the school system. My ex wife was an art teacher and couldn't understand why the other art teachers snubbed her. She would get passed over constantly for classes she wanted to teach. She couldn't understand that the reason was those other women were spending their down time bonding and gossiping and otherwise securing their place in their group. While they were doing that she was off campus coaching diving. It probably didn't …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 02:56 PM
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My go to source for info on supplements is Examine. They source actual scientific studies and have an easy to read chart that shows how effective the supplement was as well as how consistent the results were. They also list any possible side effects or precautions. https://examine.com/supplements/ashwagandha/
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 01:25 AM
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It took me a while to understand. For a lot of women it's not just about height. They think tall guys are anatomically proportional. That is, they think tall guys have big dicks. It seems to make sense. I have a friend who dated an Asian guy for months. She later drunkenly told us a story about it. She said he delayed sex for months. She said when she finally saw his penis she laughed. He got pissed of course and she thinks he's gay. Her last two boyfriends and her current boyfriend are/is black…
/r/seduction27/02/18 09:04 PM
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I hear about people going to jail for failure to pay child support all the time but I've never seen it. My sister got herself knocked up, probably to trap him, from a guy and he quickly bailed. He hasn't paid child support in 5 years. The gets out of it by just tossing $20 her way every now and then. They can't garnish his paychecks because he works the types of jobs that are off the books. I doubt he'll ever go to jail over it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 09:59 PM
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Step one. Get a gym membership and start lifting heavy. You can start with the 5 by 5 and work from there. You need a serious body chemistry adjustment that comes naturally from picking up heavy shit. Step two. Fake it until you make it. Within 6 months you'll notice a dramatic difference in self confidence, ambition, and drive just from your hormones getting in line from the lifting. Use this and just start striking up random conversations with strangers. These are the most important things you…
/r/seduction26/11/17 04:51 PM
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My Ex wife texts me about the dogs a couple of times a year. She kept them. They're just an anchor for her. An excuse to get closure or see if I still give a shit about her. I'm reasonable but firm. I decided that if that's what she needs to feel better about her choices it doesn't take anything away from me other than a few seconds of my time. I never contact her. It's always her texting me out of the blue. Actually it started after I ran into her while out and about after not seeing her in yea…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 09:15 PM
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Improvements. Started going to bed super early. Waking up and resisting the temptation to start the day with a wank. Started doing 20 pushups in the morning at the beginning of the week and I've worked my way up to 25. Ten years ago I could crank out 50 in less than a minute. My goal is to get there again. Took steps to start budgeting and prepping meals in the morning since I have that extra time. this way I have more control over what I eat and I'm not eating fast food. Saving money. Stopped w…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 11:31 PM
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Well shit. What's a man supposed to do? Just stand passively and wait for a woman to come and rip his clothes off? Because at this point that seems to be the only way a man can avoid being accused of harassment or rape.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 04:54 AM
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Step one Be attractive. Step two Don't be not attractive. Anyone who says all you need to go is just say "hi" has never really had to deal with rejection.
/r/seduction16/09/17 06:46 AM
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Here's a little story about how powerful even just a bit of evidence is to keep you out of legal trouble. TLDR got talked into a threesome with girlfriend and her friend which my girlfriend changed her mind during then got pissed and broke up with me when I brought it up again then had to get a lawyer when a cop called me threatening to charge me with assault. Pictures taken with an early camera phone saved my ass. Had a girlfriend with a hot friend who was always flirting with me. Sometimes in …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 05:01 PM
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I think that's not the type of thing you say with a text. If you want to be upfront about your feelings you could just wait until you get a chance to say it in person.
/r/seduction22/07/17 02:06 AM
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It's only creepy if they're not attracted to you. Don't hit on every single one that you think might be cute. I made this mistake when I was young. You'll get the reputation of a male slut without any of the benefits. Don't be too nice. You don't have to be a shit head to every girl or cold towards them. Just look out for your best interests. If a girl needs a ride and it's on your way then she can ride for free. If it's out of the way she can pay for gas or better yet find someone else to give …
/r/seduction05/07/17 06:10 PM
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You need to learn string theory. A cat is only interested in the string when it can't get the string. If you lay the string at a cat's feet it loses interest.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:29 AM
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My ex girlfriend quit her job when she found out I had twice as much money in the bank as she makes in a year. She then got upset when her christmas present wasn't expensive enough. Quiting her job and expecting me to take care of her was the last straw. From now on I'm just going to keep that information to myself.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 05:43 PM
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Don't tell ANYONE you know about that money. Suddenly everyone will have an emergency or you'll owe them for made up shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 04:58 PM
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I think it's funny that someone would think that mixing races leads to birth defects. The more similar someones DNA is to yours to higher chance there is that shared recessive traits will come out in offspring. This is why blond men prefer blond women. It's a way for them to know they aren't wasting their time and resources raising someone else's kid. Blond hair and blue eyes are recessive traits along with red hair and green eyes. However so is mental retardation, autism, and most congenital bi…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 03:25 AM
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I graduated high school at 17. So I was 17 and graduated for 6 months before I turned 18.
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:40 PM
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If there's nothing against the law then go for it. You're still young and there's no point in denying your attraction for each other because of something so arbitrary as a few months. I remember when I was 18 there was a very mature for her age, at least physically, 16 year old that I was interested in. We ended up dating for a few months which was legal in Texas. Anyway, after we broke up (because she didn't have time for a boyfriend) my buddy who had been giving me shit for dating her started …
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:38 PM
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I've got a buddy who's wife's sister is relentlessly pursuing him. He thinks he might be able to fuck her without it blowing up in his face. I have only ever told him he's crazy if he thinks that. In my experience women think that just agreeing with whatever their friend wants to do is being supportive. They hardly ever call each other out on this kind of bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:06 PM
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She'll probably tell them that he was abusive and controlling and didn't trust her. These will be the same friends who were encouraging her to cheat on him.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:38 PM
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What she meant was arrogant She had already made a snap appraisal of you before this probably based on superficial information readily available to her. She decided that you were beneath her. If you had asked more timidly or nicely she would have said you were too nice. That's not the reason she rejected you though. All else being equal, if you had had an opportunity to build social proof before talking to her she might have changed her mind. Either way, its really rare to be able to go up to gi…
/r/seduction11/02/17 08:18 PM
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Also, avoid being raped.
/r/seduction31/01/17 02:06 PM
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Myself.
/r/seduction31/01/17 02:05 PM
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I would told her she has to buy a round for everyone. That way she's not just owing me but everyone else a drink. Makes it more difficult for her to get out of paying it back. I'd also announce to everyone that she's offered to buy a round and take their orders.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 03:13 PM
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Back when I studied PUA techniques I came across a post called the Shock and Awe strategy. In a nut shell it's just skipping past all the other bullshit once she starts giving indications of interest just suggest going to her place or her coming to your place. I'll tell you right now that shit works. The first HB8 bartender I pulled was pretty much just me suggesting I go to her place to sleep it off when she said something about me being careful not to get too drunk. Of course she said "I don't…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 11:11 PM
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Or get fat. Nothing makes you feel better than seeing her turn into a hippo.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 11:37 PM
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Why buy one when you can just borrow your friends car?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 04:23 AM
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I think I was stronger then I thought and just hadn't been pushing myself. I've been doing grip training to get away from the straps. Not sure when I should start using a weightlifting belt or if I even really need one.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 07:24 AM
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I want more of a functional strength. I'm picking heavy shit up from on the ground much more often than I'm pushing heavy shit away from myself. I've always been very skinny and had trouble putting on weight. As a result I've had chicken legs for most of my life. I've increased my deadlift over the past month from 200lbs to just under 300lbs after I started using wrist straps. I don't feel like I'm going to lose my grip but my knuckles feel like they're in a bind without them.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 05:15 PM
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If it gives you any hope I had a digestive problems caused by an undiagnosed H. Pylori infection. The ulcers in my stomach and esophogus made me think I was having a heart attack. Took two years to get the correct diagnosis. I'm 5'10" and at the time I weighed 168lbs 12% bodyfat. I had been lifting for 7 years. I was benching around 225. By the time I started recovering I was 130lbs and weak as shit. Oh, and my wife suddenly wanted a divorce durring all this. She blamed me and said it was becaus…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 03:10 AM
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It's being advertised by people in my town as an actual rapist convention. Some people seem to think this meetup will include raping what ever random women might stray too closely.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 10:52 PM
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I'll try. Let's say I get in my car and drive 100mph to work. So I get there 10 minutes early. So the result is I saved time and got to work early now I can get a little more sleep or have time to get more work done whatever. Long term it will catch up to me. To say what I did was a good thing because the results were positive for me is being results oriented. Let's say Im wearing my seat belt and driving the speed limit obeying all the traffic laws and I'm hit by a drunk driver. If I had been d…
/r/seduction04/01/16 11:00 PM
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Approaching women is a numbers game. The more you approach the more likely you will meet someone you like who likes you too. Also, the more practice and confidence you will get. You can be results oriented in your methods or process oriented. When playing a game where you are putting in a lot of volume the process of your approach is very important in the expected value that you will get from the time you invest. I really can't think of any situation where being results oriented would be the bes…
/r/seduction04/01/16 04:48 PM
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Yes. Between the options of being results oriented and process oriented in a game of statistics I'll choose process oriented any day.
/r/seduction04/01/16 08:13 AM
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It's good that you tried. You can't be results oriented. That is just because you fail doesn't mean you played it wrong but in this case there were lots of things you could have done better. First off don't give her your number and ask her to call you. It's like waiting for OP to deliver. Even if she does/did like you she will not be likely to be the aggressor. It's up to you to sack up and ask for her number. Better yet, have something interesting going on and invite her then get her number and…
/r/seduction04/01/16 12:08 AM
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If that same 25-30 guy owns or manages a popular bar or restaurant he would be plowing fresh young women every week because he is now relevant to their status.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 11:01 PM
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You forgot plastic surgery to get rid of that Jew nose.
/r/seduction26/12/15 02:10 AM
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So strange how, with a combined income of over $110k in a part of the country where the median house hold income is $45k, we were somehow always broke. We both had new cars and a very reasonable mortgage. No crazy credit card debt or anything. Probably went out to eat a little too often. Well one day I sat down to try to figure out where all our money was going. I found that there should have been an extra $900 a month that wasn't accounted for. So I asked. "What are you spending this on?" That'…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 10:01 PM
1

So many women at the dog park. It's so obvious that they are there to meet men. They will only stay for a few minutes if they don't see a guy they're interested in.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:00 PM
0

Go join the Marines. They'll straighten you right up.
/r/seduction17/05/15 06:19 PM
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I live in Texas. I might take a trip to Mexico next year.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:01 PM
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I remember reading an article about a study that showed the more attractive a guy considered himself the more likely he would have unprotected sex/ an STD. The more attractive a woman considered herself the less likely it was for her to have unprotected sex or an STD.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 09:58 PM
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A lot of the articles in men's magazines are written by women.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 09:48 PM
3

Because everything is disposable now. We don't fix this we throw it away. Too many people think these things are beneath them. I had a roommate who was going to school for computer science. He asked me were he might be able to get a job to make a little extra money since the money he got for scholarship and whatever little money his family was giving him wasn't cutting it. I suggested he go to the work corner. He could work a couple of days a week and easily add close to $400/mo to his pile of d…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 12:33 AM
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I'm 34 and pulled two 19 year olds from one of the few 18 and up places last night. I'm not particularly good looking or swollen. I just noticed that they were both looking bored and asked if they wanted to go to a different place. Grabbed one of their phones and put the address of a house party into Google maps and said meet me here. It was all about frame and seeing an opportunity. One was 7.5/8 the other was a 6/6.5 Just don't even make age an issue. Don't bring it up. I have no idea how old …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 06:01 AM
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My buddy went as Santa Claus. So many women sat on his lap to their pictures with him. At one point after 1 am this chick asked "why is your leg wet?" He said "because I pissed my pants" About 6 months later that girl recognized him and showed him the picture on her Facebook page.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 06:58 PM
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The fallacy of escalation of commitment
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:33 AM
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Bartender. You deal with lots of different types of people in lots of different situations. To the 21-24 crowd you are like a minor celebrity. Women are always looking for ways to improve their social status and dating a bartender is an instant promotion for them. Also, you will see so many different shit tests and guys crash and burn on the other side of the bar you'll be able to see a shit test coming from a mile away.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:24 AM
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I'd like to add that 5'10" at your age is above average. Men continue to grow taller through their early twenties. I put on another two inches between 16 and 22.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 06:53 PM
1

Its a movie but Five Easy Pieces
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 07:40 PM
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Arrogant, asshole (from both men and women), patronizing (not sure if they meant patronizing or just that I tend to talk down to people), I have also gotten sweet, cute, dorky, funny, creepy, and a many more.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:54 PM
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About 8 years ago I got a new job that paid almost twice as much as I had been making. Anyway, I had to wait for direct deposit to start up at the new place so that meant personally depositing checks for a few weeks. Over the course of a few days I received my last paycheck, a check that paid our all unused vacation time, and a check from my new job. Each day I happened to get the same teller. This girl was a 9.5 easy. By the third day she was smiling at me when I walked in and treated me way di…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:48 PM
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Why do you think it would have been nice to meet her under different circumstances? You know she's a thief, a liar and maybe a little crazy.
/r/seduction10/07/14 12:37 PM
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What does this have to do with Red Pill?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 05:55 PM
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I think its because it increases their perceived value of you. Its all about value and perceived value. Women value different things from men than men value from women. We evolved so that men valued young, fertile, healthy, women who could have kids and take care of them. Women evolved with us. They wanted men who could provide and protect. Early this meant the males with the most physical strength would mate with a multitude of females then as our social structure become more complex the things…
/r/seduction08/01/14 02:36 PM
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Have a buddy who went to school for drawing and painting with a minor in marketing. He kinda fucked around for a couple of years he graduated then got a job building sets for a TV show making six figures. Doing what he loves getting paid.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 11:08 PM
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