Help with TRP

bppg · 2014-09-13T17:12:26+00:00

This is going to be long, but it will help.

First of all, you are 16. Monk mode is not the best approach at your age. You should be focusing on balance. You have 4 pillars in your life right now. They are as follows: Health, Financial, Education, Social. Each pillar needs to be balanced to achieve maximum potential. Lets break down each pillar so that you may see what I mean.

Health:

Currently you state you are small. You are 5'10''. this is above average height. You are 125lbs. You are lanky and have a high metabolism. To counteract this you need to consume calories in mass. I'm talking like 4-6k in a day depending on any physical activity you may do. This will allow you to gain weight. You will need to intake protein as well the general rule is 1g per pound. You better like chicken and shakes because those are going to be your best friends.

Next, routine. This is dependent on your schedule. You probably go to school from 7-2pm. After that you may have extra curriculars or even a job. Generally you should try to work out at the same times daily. This also helps build discipline and consistency in your life. Look up strength training routines and start there. If you can do 5 days a week that is great. Do not be intimidated by the iron. You will grow to love it as soon as you feel the testosterone coursing through you.

Now that was specific advice, I want to go back and talk briefly about the overall need for health in context to your life and the world we live in. If you are strong and fit, your body will naturally take on a more confident stance. You will feel better and look better. You will be more respected and to an extent feared. It will be easier to do and get the things you want because you look the part of a capable man. Women will want you. The whole thing is a cascade effect. The TRP mindset naturally starts to accelerate if you have been practicing its tenets.

In short, lift. Get jacked. Life is easier.

Financial:

The second pillar in your life. This is new to you as you are just entering the working stage of your life. In this stage you need to remember you are low man on the totem pole. You WILL have the shit jobs. You WILL make shit money. This is unless you already have a skill and you can capitalize on it. For example: When I was 16 I worked at dairy queen. It sucked balls. So instead I went around my town and put flyers for computer repairs in the mailboxes of my towns folk. That became my income. If you have a skill then find a way to monetize it.

In addition, you will begin to learn how to manage money. How to develop a budget. How money actually works in the world. You'll learn what it feels like to have and have not. The sweet is sweeter then you have tasted the sour. You should take a stroll over to /r/personalfinance and study what is written.

You should also be spending as little as possible on girls. You can get them in bed or in your car or behind a fucking bush for little to no money. It's about the atmosphere you create and not the actual places or activities. Example: 10$ date = Stargazing at beach. All you need is gas money. Invest in yourself. Be selfish. This is the one time in your life where people do not expect you to act selflessly.

Education:

Third Pillar. You should be achieving to your capabilities academically. Do not be discouraged if you are not a top tier student. School is rigid and lacks the ability to engage different learners. I was terrible in school, but once I entered a trade I could apply my passion physically and I ran with it. Get the grades if you can. Start reading. Read everything you possibly can. Stay current with world events. Brush up on history. Read about your body and mind. Learn how to develop your capacity for deep thought and critical thinking. I will keep this section short because I know it has been pounded into your brain since birth anyways. The only disagreement I truly have is with college. Don't fall for the trick. Expensive school does not equal high paying job. Go cheap or go home.

Social:

Lastly we have social. This is a very important pillar and why I saved it for last. Monk mode isn't the answer. High school is prime time to experiment. People change on a dime at this age. Social groups constantly shift and Ms. popular is now the school skank with no respect. By senior year she is on top again and "forgiven". It's all a load of horseshit but it will be a good primer for how people work. You need to gain strong male bonds. Join sports teams or anything that builds this tribal culture. These guys will go to bat for you and will help influence you in a hopefully positive direction.

The other reason I saved this pillar for last is because it is only enhanced when you are balancing the other 3 pillars. Together they build a high SMV and will allow for easy pickings of the girls you desire.

To end the section I will say you need to do this: Focus on you first, then your brothers, then your plates. This all comes in time and through consistent practice.

Conclusion:

Get Jacked. Get Money. Get Skills. Get Smart. Get Tribe. Get Girls.

Not in that order. This should start to feel natural as you progress. It is part of normal development.

To answer your final question, NO. AWALT. However, some can be trained to become red pill women and it's fucking awesome when it works out.

Good luck my brother. This is the beginning of your life. Do yourself a favor and stop to appreciate it while it's infront of you. It goes by very quickly.

IIItsLukeII · 2014-09-13T14:19:55+00:00

In pretty much the same situation as you, I found TRP about 2 weeks ago. First thing to do, is lift. Then lift some more, and more. Look up stronglifts 5x5 and get a gym membership, you'll never look back. Read all of the sidebar material and completely ignore girls for a while until you raise your SMV an gain more confidence. Don't take shit from anybody, not even your 'friends'. If they say/do something you don't like, call them out on it, don't let them walk over you. Above all though, just focus on yourself. Don't care what other people think about you anymore, just try to improve yourself.

Movonnow · 2014-09-13T14:24:00+00:00

I decided to go monk mode 8 months ago.

What you need to do is simple: set your long term goals and adopt daily habits that will help you reach them.

And then do them daily.

Common sense advices:

work-out. Weights or bodyweights, it's up to you to decide.
you are still in high school, get awsome grades
get out there and start accumulating real life experiences

Kaelteth · 2014-09-13T14:46:25+00:00

Dost thou even hoist heavy objects against the force of gravity?

Step one: Get out and lift bro :)

BluepillProfessor · 2014-09-13T15:57:30+00:00

The Red Pill religion begins by attending services at the Iron Temple several times a week. The importance of this cannot be emphasized enough. Those muscles you build now will give you an advantage and greatly increase your health and energy- for the rest of your life. Do it. Do it 3-5 times a week. Lift to exhaustion. Lift HEAVY weights. Just do it and don't quit. Make it a habit.

5'10" is NOT small. You can bulk up easily. Lift. Drink hi calorie energy drinks- muscle milk, etc.

Read the Book of Pook before you exit Monk Mode.

Yes, you can get a happy honest marriage now that you have unplugged and know the truth about women. Establish a strong, dominant frame, attract the girl of your dreams, and hold that frame for the rest of your life. No problem.

sir_wankalot_here · 2014-09-13T14:27:42+00:00

are there any women who arent totally emotionally and primitively run

Human beings in general are emotionally and primitvely run, just men and women run on a different set of emotions. The level of stupidity on this subreddit is sligbtly lower then average by a few percentage points.

My dog is more intelligent then most people.

chakravanti · 2014-09-13T15:05:24+00:00

PROTEIN! Not kidding. Protein an nutrition. You can fix your DNA for real. Lift, run, think big. It works. Eat like a pig. Stick to fat and protein. Don't skip the veggies but grains are overrated.

john1443 · 2014-09-13T15:22:46+00:00

A little off topic: since OP stated 5"10' is small and one RP principle seems to be "be tall"---what is actually considered tall according to TRP?

redpillbanana · 2014-09-13T16:19:45+00:00

Cant add too much to the already great advice here - but this is a great cheat sheet for getting big: https://imgur.com/PbcH9C1

ogrethebuffoon · 2014-09-13T17:14:51+00:00

You're not naturally blue pill bro. You were conditioned unnaturally into believing in unicorns and putting pussy on a pedestal. Remember that you're just reclaiming your birthright by swallowing TRP.

You're also not naturally small. You just haven't lifted properly while eating properly in order to put on muscle. Go read Four Hour Body to get started.

How you were in the past and how you are today does not mean that's what you'll be in the future when you make new decisions, take action, and change your mindset.

And to answer your question... No. AWALT. You can have a healthy marriage if you balance alpha with a bit of beta.. But why would you really want that? The risk is too high.

donkeyotee · 2014-09-13T18:53:43+00:00

I'd like to add that 5'10" at your age is above average. Men continue to grow taller through their early twenties. I put on another two inches between 16 and 22.

Title	Help with TRP
Author	TitanLooksss
Upvotes	7
Comments	20
Date	September 13, 2014 1:42 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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