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It's whoever is MORE willing to leave. Like whoever will put up with less shit from the other person. By worship her I mean shower her with compliments. Showing you're willing to leave is subtle. Like not sweating her too much. It's like the difference between how you would treat a celebrity, and how you would treat a homie. Don't worry about how she feels every second. Insecurity is good and bad. It sucks to experience for her and you if she wants reassurance, but it's still necessary. Beauty i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:01 PM
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It's just a different animal. Unruly women are annoying and uncomforting, unruly men are dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:13 PM
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It's very unlikely though because they're weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:04 PM
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I wouldn't say it's allowed. Women can get in trouble, it's just men are much more unlikely to protest or report them. I think a lot of it goes back to the fact that men rape women, and women can't, and don't even desire to rape men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:57 AM
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Maybe 3000 years in the future, if society get's very mature and advanced, we will be able to appreciate ass and tits in a non-sexually-aggressive way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:39 AM
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It depends on your vibe as a man. I hate to say it but it's true: the power in any relationship is in the hands of whoever is more willing to leave. If you worship her for her looks then she will think she's better than you, she will feel overwhelmed with options; it won't be good. But if you can tell her she's beautiful and still not give a shit if she leaves, then you have the power regardless. That's the only way to do it. And she will always be insecure because a big part of why you like her…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:32 AM
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There's just too many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:27 AM
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This is prejudice by low expectations. It's misogyny. I try to go in the opposite direction a little bit. I make a conscious effort to shit on girls when they deserve it, and I defend guys when the masses go against them. Let's be the change we want to see in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:25 AM
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You're totally right. I've been technically sexually assaulted by women multiple times, and it's just kind of acceptable. And to be completely honest, I'm not sure if women should get better or if men should be allowed to get worse. I've gotten my ass slapped by women without my consent and it wasn't the end of the world, so maybe we overreact when it happens the other way around. The problem might be that the majority of men who are willing to do something that wild are creepy are socially unad…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:15 AM
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Hoop up culture is lit if you get play, but still probably not as good as being in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:57 AM
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This is the liberal narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:01 PM
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I was talking about lifts and elevator shoes. And it could be physicality, but if you have great hygiene, a good physique, and a good haircut then you're definitely above average which makes me think that's not it. They probably aren't attracted to the personality you project and how you carry yourself, but then learn to settle for it hence the "but it grew on me". You might not have a strong frame and masculine persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:32 AM
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When a girl wears makeup is that deception? What about when they wear heels, same shit. If you don't want to take the advantages offered to you because of some stupid made up code of honor, then you probably don't want it that bad. It sounds like you have a nice group of friends, that's good, but there's always a hierarchy even if no one abuses their power, and you're certainly not anywhere near the top if they're all piping except for you. Based on the "his personality grew on me" thing, it sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:25 AM
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Always stay well groomed with a fitting hairstyle, and you can also wear elevator shoes or lifts if you're not that tall. I don't know what your situation is exactly, so all I can do is guess. I doubt your issue is your appearance. Do you carry yourself in a masculine way? Are you a leader of the group (or high up) or are you an entertainer. Being funny is an attractive quality but there's a huge difference between that and being a clown. If you have a more feminine/friendly/funny-man type of vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:37 AM
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Girls will put you in three categories: boyfriend material, a hookup, or unattractive. To be attractive you need to look good (workout + style), and be cool (social status + social skills). Now if you bullshit with them and aren't aggressive with getting what you want (sex, for most guys) by taking them on a bunch of dates while hoping they let you hit it, they'll see you as boyfriend material. You're a safe option for them, and they'll have half or most of the leverage in the relationship. Mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:42 PM
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Being smart and rich doesn't make you charming or sexy. Drug addicts do way better with women than you're average by-the-book working man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:22 PM
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Yeah that's money, but building amazon doesn't make you confident or charming. He's a multi billionaire and married to a girl who's not that good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:21 PM
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Because they put themselves out there. It's mostly a numbers game. And confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:39 AM
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Boyfriends and casual hook ups are completely different so you would need to specify.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:38 AM
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1 easy. But I'm cheating too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:34 AM
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Leo is a cultural icon. That's way more status than being a rich loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:28 AM
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Dicaprio has way more status.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:27 AM
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The FDS is way too far, but all men should only let the girl fuck him if he gets to fuck her. How do women fuck us? Make us take them on dates and pay for their meals. Don't be her hoe and let her waste your time in money without getting any fuck. It shouldn't happen more than a couple times before you tell her you'll be having sex or not talking anymore. Give her the options, but stick to what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:09 PM
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fr
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:06 AM
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The vast majority of women don't need to be told. Just like the vast majority of men don't need to be told they need a place to stay, a car, and a decent job if they expect to be taken serious long term. Everyone knows relationships are transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:50 PM
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For men it's almost entirely about sex. Women might not like that fact but that's just what it is for us. Never tolerate a relationship you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:28 AM
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Men choose bluepill because it's comfortable, safe, and basically all they know, but it will leave you lonely and miserable even if you have other bluepill fake friends around you. Redpill is real, it activates people's emotions, and is what turns women on. The vast majority of men can never be full redpill, because it's not in their nature, but you can take parts of it and see success from it if you're willing to leave your comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:26 AM
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It's not about looks, it's about who has more options. If the guy can get sex, he has power. If the woman get get relationships, she has power.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:09 AM
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Women like guys that other women like. Pretty much as simple as that. If you want women to desire you then they need to see that you have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:06 AM
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Patrice started it with the Black Phillup Show. All that shit comes from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:03 AM
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I don't usually hear my guy friends rate themselves, but the low ranking guys often times have no idea how low they are, and the higher ranking guys either don't realize or are just too humble to rate themselves accurately. Average looking girls seem to always rate themselves around 8 or something, and high ranking girls bounce between complete narcissism and self hate. That's my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:00 AM
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It's not even that though she can tell all her friends and still be awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:32 PM
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I can't speak for adults but do they really? There was a girl in high school who was apparently obsessed with me but I never got that feeling from her while actually talking to her. I feel like some girls are really good at flirting and making their intentions known, and then most girls (just like guys, at least my age) just have horrible social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:20 AM
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The ones who are charming are doing just fine, I promise you. Fat girls can totally hook up with good looking guys, because a guy being good looking doesn't mean he's on top in terms of attractiveness. There are tons out there who are still down bad and would love to fuck a fat girl. However, a guy who has an abundance of options (through being charismatic and having status) will not be hooking up with fat girls. I feel like we're going in circles. I wish I could use the people in my life as exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:37 PM
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You can try and tell me my life experiences didn't happen, but they did. And they weren't fat girls. This is why most guys don't take dating advice from women. You don't realize the power of charm until it works on you. Being pretty as a guy means nothing if he has no game and no charisma. There's an endless amount of good looking guys who have no success with women, I know plenty. Do I know any outgoing and charming men who do poorly with women? I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:19 PM
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I know fat guys who hook up a lot, way more than my pretty boy friends. Those fat guys weren't not attractive because they were fat, it's because they were simps and garnered no respect. A women will not respect and therefor not be attracted to a guy who only knows how to keep her with gifts and money. Looks are a nice accessory for men, but looks by themselves will get a guy NOWHERE. I know this, I'm good looking, and I have many good looking guy friends and it doesn't mean we're having our pho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:12 PM
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Men and women are not the same. Women are wayyy more psychological and social than men. A fat guy who's dominant over a girls personality and knows how to flirt will ALWAYS beat the stud guy who's introverted/nervous/not confident. Why do you think so many good looking guys have no confidence, because that's not how women judge men, at least not past high school, but even there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:00 PM
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nah man. women aren't physical like men are. You can be a fat guy but if you have personality, money and status, you're still killing it. For women there's nothing they can really compensate with because men want a girl that gets their dick hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:49 PM
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but they are not the women the vast majority of men are attracted to, no matter how much money or status.The rock is still beating 99% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:44 PM
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Not true at all, lots of fat men have great partners compared to fat women. It's more equivalent to money or maybe height
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:24 PM
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This is spot on height for men = fat for women wealth for men = being pretty for women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:21 PM
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maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:00 AM
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thanks I wouldn't prefer the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:19 PM
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Yeah why were you never successful did you at least have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:34 PM
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what held you back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:33 PM
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you should start making an effort
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:29 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:19 AM
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that's right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:47 AM
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After paying your bills money will never be more satisfying or pleasurable than relationships and sex. If you disagree you don't know the first thing about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:22 AM
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yeah you say something stupid and you basically said it in front of your whole floor
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:19 AM
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money never made anyone happier. friendships, relationships, and sex do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:15 AM
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did you meet outside of school?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:10 AM
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college is definitely better this is spot on. just careful you're not too forward and don't creep out a girl in your dorm like I did 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:06 AM
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having no social intelligence and experience is a huge turn off. the longer you put this shit off the harder it's going to be to catch up to all these people who've had multiple friend groups, relationships, dates, one night stands ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:03 AM
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it is not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:56 AM
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Yeah people fuck like crazy just go to parties and have good energy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:51 AM
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Great idea for being a virgin for life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:49 AM
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we got hands 👐
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:03 AM
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thats how humans are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 06:47 PM
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That's good for you. Unfortunately most men can't just laugh off not having the main thing that gives them value, their masculinity, and not getting any respect from their peers because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:41 PM
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I'm sure you have but you don't have to make shit happen in your love life, and so you don't understand the feeling of being constantly met with rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:32 PM
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no I'm not sure sometimes fearing for my life is worse than constantly feeling worthless. But thats the ops point our experiences are not even close to being the same. I fantasize about being objectified
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:30 PM
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the frequency is not comparable. Women almost never approach guys because rejection destroys your self esteem and sense of worth. We go through that constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:18 PM
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Almost no women get robbed raped or murdered on dates. However all men face a lot of rejection you can't just compare both like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:57 PM
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Yeah but almost all women don't get robbed, raped, or murdered while pretty much all men get rejected a lot. That's not a fair comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:56 PM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:52 PM
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this sounds terrible though. So if your not born with perfect genetics and you don't have surgery you're basically fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:36 PM
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It's so stupid it has so many rules you can't even ask a genuine question
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:33 PM
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I don't even think you were out of line women are just more sensitive
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:23 AM
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I've made this mistake a few times this is a funny fucking thread though
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:19 AM
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It's the people that frame themselves as "pro-life" and then support a president who's responsible for the deaths of hundreds of thousands of Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:51 PM
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FOR REAL. Women don't want to be with boring guys even if they're pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:19 PM
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i wouldn't punch a friend completely out of nowhere tho
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:17 PM
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You gotta exploit their insecurities right back
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:25 PM
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Push first and initiate the fight surprise punch is a bitch move
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:25 PM
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Wow, I just started recently. I feel a bit more clear headed hope to see more improvement,
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:20 PM
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I feel that man. Meditating is always good for learning how to deal with anxiety too. And going to therapy is definitely worth it if you think you have serious anxiety I'm sure there's effective ways to combat it.
/r/seduction08/01/21 05:19 PM
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nah for sure but exposure therapy works. The more you confront your anxiety and push through it, the easier it gets. It definitely takes work and thats the shit a lot of women don't realize but you overcome it.
/r/seduction08/01/21 04:55 PM
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New to reddit. This shits fun, its like twitter but more egalitarian and open to everything. Sometimes I waste a concerning amount of time arguing with random people about random shit though it's definitely addicting.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 04:41 PM
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Not his standup really but I like him
/r/askTRP08/01/21 03:23 PM
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Had the same experience. Got to live it up now and never let pussiness corrupt your decision making !!
/r/seduction08/01/21 02:58 PM
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My friend group argues a lot so usually the truth prevails lmao. It's a mix I think I'm the only one who knows about trp but some are definitely more red or blue pill than others despite us all being pretty liberal. Some shit is just so obvious to the male experience.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:45 PM
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very true. And fellow men don't realize having free abortions is a GOOD THING that shit protects us.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:09 PM
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Hell yeah. Me and pretty much all the men I know like being providers. Women don't want to be the bread winners. As much as the radical left wants to act like gender differences don't exist they obviously do. Not saying you should vote for or trust the republican party though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:15 PM
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This is some paranoid shit. We still got the first amendment and college lefties have virtually 0 power they don't even vote.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 08:41 PM
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None of your examples ring as exceptionally consequential nor has toxic femininity been a commanding force in my life outside of my relationships with women. What are you even arguing for? Like what do you want? Toxic masculinity describes something that exists so people are going to keep using it. If you want to start complaining about toxic femininity because it's apparently such a threat to your existence then go for it no ones stopping you.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 08:51 PM
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Yeah basicaly you say that men express more toxic masculinity than women do....obvious as men tend to be more masculine than women so bad part (extrem as agression) of it is more likely to be displayed men. Exactly. But toxic feminity as you define it is based on lies and deception which are not deception if it is seen How are you supposed to see it as spread as visible violence? This would be a problem if women were colluding together trying to take over the planet but even that's only somethin…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 08:15 PM
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I'm talking about this nonsense about words. Toxic masculinity is a perfectly valid term for what it is. This is the exact shit young lefties are doing with their "offensive terms".
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 07:47 PM
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I shouldn't have to explain to you how global society since the agricultural revolution has been extremely patriarchal and has been almost entirely led by men. Who are the most vicious nationalists? Always men. You don't have to look at the highest men, look at gang violence. It's not women doing that either. Why are you making me argue something so obvious about the world. Men have way more violent tendencies than women because they don't mindlessly defend their pride like that. That's the diff…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 07:44 PM
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cmon this is college campus bullshit
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 06:02 PM
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Bro, we don't say toxic femininity because we just call them bitches it's not that significant on a large scale outside of people's personal lives. Meanwhile you have entire cultures and societies that are led by men trying to conquer each other because as men we fantasize about violence that shits in us all. The world is still mainly run by men toxic masculinity is just a larger force.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 06:00 PM
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Oh so it's a sensitivity thing? Is this our n word now? Where is this even coming from I've never seen a regular person get called toxically masculine in public or online outside of some shitty twitter circles like considering all the violence and war in the world it makes sense to use it it's just an accurate and precise term: masculinity to a toxic degree.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 05:50 PM
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Toxic femeninify: being manipulative and deceitful and passing that off as feminine Toxic masculinity: being violent, territorial, or homophobic to instill a dominant sense of masculinity its pretty simple they both obviously exist. Sometimes this sub is worse than the lefties I know yall hate so much
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 04:00 PM
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this sub is too fucking much sometimes
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 03:38 PM
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While it's not any of the things you described, it definitely exists. Why do you think boys are so afraid of being thought of as gay? Why do you think young men constantly fight each other just to assert their dominance? Why do you think wars happen over stupid bullshit? It's all a twisted sense of masculinity aka toxic masculinity. I'm not one of these liberals who pretends like masculinity isn't a good thing that should be aspired to, but it has negative aspects that we're all vulnerable to.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 03:04 PM
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Go for it bro! Reverse gold digging cmon
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 02:46 PM
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the pleasures tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 03:19 AM
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yup
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:24 PM
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^
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:24 PM
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but its also the only way to get pussy rn
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:23 PM
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sean connery defends hitting women
/r/askTRP21/12/20 09:12 PM
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Female attention is pretty nice because you know you're presenting yourself well. Even if its not girls youd fuck its a huge confidence booster
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 09:04 PM
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this was helpful I've prob done that too many times lmao
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:58 AM
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you're a beast
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:50 AM
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This is certainly the case, and there's a biological reason. Sex, and by extension reproducing, is easy for a man in the biological sense. We nut 4-14 times a week anyway, it's not hard, and whether its in a vagina or in a sock, that's our end of the deal plain and simple. Women have it a bit different. They have to spend the next 9 months being pretty much entirely useless to grow the next human inside of them, and then that's the child that they're emotionally burdened with raising until they …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 12:36 AM
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"Lets just be friends" may be a shit test but "im not seeing this go forward" sounds pretty damn conclusive
/r/askTRP19/12/20 12:03 AM
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Everything that a woman does isn't a calculated decision by the ministry of feminism, it's just what they wanted to do. You can either play the game or be sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:37 AM
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yeah pretty much. im friends with girls in my social circle or group but unless im pursuing im not really going to do shit alone, because really it has nothing to do with them having a vagina, because I wouldn't wanna be with a man who acted like them either. fewer women have high levels of t so they're usually relatively more sensitive, less aggressive, and just often don't harbor the same interests. call me misogynystic, but you feel how you feel and make friends with the people you like. that…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:07 AM
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Vulnerable not very specific but I feel like it can go either way depending on the situation or what you're being vulnerable about. Yeah if you're talking about something that makes you seem like a pussy that's one thing, but if it's something that's like "wow he has the balls to be that open about that" it goes completely the other way. Like if you say something most guys wouldn't talk about and say it with confidence that can be a big plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 09:13 PM
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I can second the singer part. I got a lot of attractive lead roles in highschool plays and girls thought i was so attractive even though I was very much a pussy. Honestly confused tf out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 09:01 PM
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mmmmm seems like theres a point ur tryna get at but wont ill wait till u figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:12 PM
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being vulnerable can go a long way with certain people
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:19 AM
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gotta talk it out could be anything, but jealousy's a mf. this sounds like the manifestation of an insecurity if you genuinely have no idea where its coming from
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:08 AM
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ive been told im a 9 by multiple ppl, but theres just certain kinds of girls i never match with. rarely match with blonds, seems like most of the girls i do match with and especially have chemistry with are anti social to some extent. ive gotten a small handful of 9s/10s but they usually dont respond and never help the conversation bc they basically match wjth every guy they swipe right on. if you can show you have an amazing personality or are extremely funny that helps a lot. From my personal …
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:53 AM
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dump her
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:35 AM
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idk incel ideology but if u got a counter point lets hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 04:11 AM
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idk i mean we still have one of the wealthiest economies in the world. would you rather live in china withering away in an iphone factory for 15 cents an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 03:51 AM
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men are much more attracted to appearance over personality and thats the difference. If a girls hot, every guy is going to want to fuck her no matter what. On the other hand, even if a guy is really attractive, if he's creepy, anti social, unfunny, he'll never get laid. Thats why aging isnt as big a deal for them, but charisma is 100x more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 01:11 AM
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