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I laughed my ass off when he said that haha
/r/MensRights12/02/16 04:03 PM
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There's a stickied post explaining the rules for submitting threads here. If you're going to be a part of the community adhere to the standards.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 07:44 PM
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Statistically they do have higher IQ's, and from an evolutionary point of view I can see the argument for it.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 03:25 PM
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I just read Bilzerian's wiki page and I'm assuming the large sums of money were from his father's trust fund? Everything else mentioned monetary wise was things, in my opinion, he worked for. But I agree with your assessment of him.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 02:50 PM
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I'm assuming you meant to ask what kino is on the guy's comment that mentioned doing it. Either way, kino is where you escalate with light and small touches. Hand on lower back, when you talk you lean in and put your hand on her arm, etc
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:38 AM
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I mean your answer really didn't add anything to OP's question. Who gives a shit. Are there not bigger problems in the world? That could be used for any question asked about Sexual Strategy. That's probably why someone downvoted you, and if you felt the need to make an edit about it - you're so far from swallowing the pill it's comical.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:06 PM
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I have mine turned on. Girls get really pissed when you read their message 10 hours ago and don't respond.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 01:32 PM
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Lurk More. And if you ever want an actual response on here make sure this wall of text you wrote is well-written and formatted better.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 01:07 PM
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/u/TheOneWhoKnows gave you the perfect answer. I'm just going to add to lose the oneitis for the girl that "distantly" knows you exist. If you understand the concepts of TRP then you know it's important to have an abundance mentality and to let go of the beta oneitis you have for this girl.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 01:04 PM
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The only thing that is ever at the grocery store when I'm there that early is senior citizens :(
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:41 PM
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Maryland representative here. Would love to get some info on it Bob
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 09:41 PM
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Not every woman is put into the situation where they are an international star and then a nobody in the blink of an eye. I agree this isn't normal behavior but her situation and lifestyle wasn't "normal" either. I view this as more of an extreme case of a woman doing anything and everything for those tingles.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 06:02 PM
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Yes be nice to everyone unless they give you a reason not to. I can tell you haven't read How to Win Friends and Influence People even though that book is recommended at every opportunity to list good TRP books.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 01:27 PM
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Jesus man, Abundance Mentality. Read the sidebar of TRP and then ask questions when you understand that.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 01:20 PM
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Alright Dad_Fister.. As /u/invok3r said don't shit where you eat is the main fucking issue with this. There's not enough details in this post to know exactly "why" she left but it doesn't matter. If you genuinely don't care as you've stated then you wouldn't be worrying about if you fucked up or not. Seriously though man don't shit where you eat, especially with your boss' girlfriend.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 05:04 PM
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I don't personally know any books that were written solely on frame, however this TRP book list is probably going to give you everything you want and more. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3at8mt/collection_of_some_trp_audio_books_and_pdfs/
/r/askTRP04/08/15 05:34 PM
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Day 3 | 11:30 PM to 6:30 AM - 7 Hours of Sleep
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 05:50 PM
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Day 2 | 3:30 AM to 10 AM - 7.5 Hours of Sleep
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 08:54 PM
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Day 1 | 1:30 AM to 9:30 AM 8 Hours of Sleep
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:44 AM
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I will be accepting this challenge. Great post and improvement idea for the community Bob!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:46 PM
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First of all: Tired of always ending up in situations where I want LTR with a girl and they just want to smash What lol. Anyway here's a really good Monk Mode post
/r/askTRP30/07/15 03:30 PM
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Simply by talking to her and making her "not feel alone" is an emotional support beam for her. Well at least Grifter32 likes my personality and is there for me
/r/askTRP29/07/15 05:37 PM
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I think it will be very difficult and you will end up paying for a place to stay the majority of the nights. Don't bank on Tinder for much other than bitches fishing for validation.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 04:59 PM
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Dammit man I just want to know why your flair is Special Olympian.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 02:07 PM
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Dude seriously why is your flair Special Olympian lol
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 03:25 PM
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You're probably going to have the result that everybody already commented saying you would have, but if you would like to see for yourself r/AskFeminists might be a spot you could get some type of hamstering answer from.
/r/MGTOW28/06/15 02:34 PM
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Why is your flair Special Olympian?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 05:35 AM
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She wants attention, but not aggressive "we should fuck" attention. In her mind, you're supposed be her orbiter that always compliments her; but in a way that's respectful and praiseful. I did feel weird/creeped reading that conversation. Radio Silence, and go approach other girls is a good step. If she reaches out to you again there's a slight chance because she's stepping into your frame, but it's still highly doubtful that this dynamic will ever be different so move on.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 11:33 PM
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Women can never understand the "double standard" of why it's okay for MEN to have a high partner count but why it's so terrible for WOMYNS to do it too. Your post was spot on JP. Women don't appreciate or value what they've always had available.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:21 PM
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I consider mine pretty balanced for the most part. I definitely was a little shit when I was a kid, but I specifically remember getting praise from both parents for different things. I think praise from my father was more difficult to attain so I'm more drawn to male validation than I am to female. Commonly you can look at any child, and say that whichever parent was more distant they're drawn to want more praise from. There was a post the other day about a guy almost getting fucked over paying …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:34 PM
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Ahhh sounds about right, good old NAS Pensacola. Those 9 month deployments are no joke; hopefully Norfolk wasn't too bad for your first duty station out of school.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:18 PM
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Being military, stories like this always get me heated again. It's sickening to think of what that guy went through. You can be the most AlphaMcAlphaness Man in the world, won't matter much when you're getting fucking bamboo shoved up your finger nails. edit: Notice that this happened in 1973, AWALT doesn't change.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:08 PM
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Just curious... Differently configured in what way?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 05:37 PM
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It's just a process man. Gain more self-confidence. If you aren't working out, go to the gym and start. Have you read anything about Monk Mode yet? I would suggest you follow these steps: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2mwrzw/monk_mode_summoning_willpower_with_what_how_why/
/r/askTRP19/06/15 01:21 PM
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Being angry is alright. There's nothing wrong with being angry. To answer your last question; I do not care if she's fucking another guy, because I am fucking multiple other women. I don't define my self-value off of what she does with her pussy. I define my value by the other awesome shit I do in my life. When women and sex don't hold as much importance in your life you find you get a lot more of it.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 12:05 PM
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So here's my secret weapon that I've never had a negative response on. "Oh my God, I almost wore that exact same thing tonight. That would have been embarrassing." I literally say this to every single girl I meet and it always goes over well. And then you can turn it into a neg too, saying why you would have pulled it off better. This is a lot of how you say things though, if you aren't naturally a good conversationalist and funny I could see it coming across as creepy. But it works for me.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 06:38 PM
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It's better to hangout with friends who you actually enjoy being around. Don't worry about the other people in the group. Worry about improving yourself to the point where you have the same aura no matter the people around.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 12:29 PM
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Yea I went through your history to see if you had any bearing on actually helping people in this community improve. And gender is important because you don't ask a fish how to be a fisherman. I agree birds of a feather flock together; which means someone who recognizes they need improvement isn't the same as your BP neckbeard/white knights/SJW. I have/had no problem with FPH, I think anyone who isn't working to make themselves better is weak and doesn't help improve society at all.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 11:51 PM
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Yea I was thinking the same thing that or r/thanktrp would be a good fit for it also.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 03:37 PM
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That dude(I actually think it's a female) isn't a TRPer just you know. She/He lurks apparently but has never added to any worth while discussion so don't take anything he says to value. Tough love is good at times if it's constructive and that wasn't, keep doing what you're doing man. You define your self-value, nobody else does. edit: And appently he/she posts on BluePill so yea there ya go man.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 02:11 PM
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Depression is tough man. I think the majority of men, especially those that found themselves in TRP can connect with that to some extent. It's okay to have hobbies and to enjoy your time in those things. The main thing is to not find your identity in anything other than yourself. Women don't define your value as a man. I noticed you didn't mention you work out. It's tough to get started and it's tough to go do it everyday but it's worth it man. I promise. Find something you're really passionate …
/r/askTRP15/06/15 02:01 PM
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The anger phase isn't an inherently bad thing. I completely agree this dude is a troll, and isn't worth helping but for the dudes actually improving the anger phase is essential and shouldn't be written off. Check out this post on the anger phase if you haven't already. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/35k0uf/on_anger/
/r/askTRP12/06/15 01:34 AM
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This was painful for me to go through...
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:04 PM
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I don't know, anybody that can describe themselves as the Jar Jar Binks of something can't be that bad lol. Anyway, it seems like everybody already gave you a lot of really good advice. I would say to work on getting hobbies and things that you're passionate about. It's easy to talk about things you actually care about.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:34 PM
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Just go with what you want man. If you want to be in a social frat then do it. It all comes down to how you want to invest your time in college because Greek Life can be extremely busy if you really let that be your character.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:44 PM
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I have a friend who only ever dates ham beasts. I don't get it. I shudder anytime he brings one around. I can hear their cankles dragging on the ground and the sweat dripping off the pizza they have saved for later in between the fat rolls.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 02:39 PM
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I would suggest going over to /r/marriedredpill and lurking through the posts over there (if you haven't already.) Maybe reach out to some of them to see how they handle it. I would suggest lifting and really pushing yourself in the gym. Not only will this give you the testosterone that will help with sex but when she notices you getting more fit and attractive her hamster will start spinning and she'll wonder why you're doing that. In a relationship; bettering yourself is passive dread game. Ho…
/r/askTRP26/05/15 06:32 PM
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People are always so shocked when I've said I don't believe in the Rape Culture that is trumpeted by the mainstream media. I rarely mention my views on it, because of the ostracization it entails. The ones I have mentioned it to that haven't had their hamster running at hyper-speed usually end up in agreement. The "What If Brad Pitt did it?" is a very good reasoning tool. Some more self-aware females have even agreed with me when I've made that point. Like I said though, I don't mention it frequ…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:12 PM
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Best part of the original thread is a comment saying the girl who fucked her professor cares about her schooling like Forest Gump's Mom lol
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 02:27 PM
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Gotcha. So basically if you have a dog go to a dog park for an example of using a "prop" that fits the environment. Makes sense. Thanks for the tip.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 03:04 PM
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Naw man. This is a hookah basically you smoke flavored tobacco through it. Hookah Bars are just a place where you go and order a flavor of hookah(tobacco) they bring it out, and you relax and smoke it.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 11:30 AM
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/u/wingnut is a mod for RPW dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 09:13 PM
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I can see the benefits of that. What type of locations do you usually go to for day game? As far as the BS involved in night game, now that I'm more consciously aware of what's going on I kind of enjoy the "hunt" and what it entails. I never let it determine my mood or anything though. I went to the Hookah bar with my boys because I enjoy smoking hookah and the environment. I am more interested in some day game tips if you have some.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:15 PM
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There's a rule of relationships where you never make plans with someone further in time than the amount of time you've known them. So basically don't plan on going to a wedding 6 months away with a girl you've been seeing for 2 months. I think I came across the 72 Hour rule of thumb on TRP when people were talking about Tinder game. So I applied it to any girl that I've just met. Until they prove that they aren't flaky I always stick to this rule.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:05 PM
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Thanks man, I can't remember where I originally heard/found that out but it's always been true in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 11:20 AM
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This is honestly the best response. I just laughed my ass off at it lol
/r/askTRP10/05/15 02:18 PM
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Sexual Strategy is Amoral. Which means; that's your choice. The fact you're considering it means you don't have a problem with doing it. Don't message her on facebook would be the advice you'll get from anyone on TRP. BB message girls on facebook. Go out into the world and approach, there's a lot other warm holes and some of them might not have boyfriends for you to ponder the morality of hitting on them.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 05:01 AM
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I understand completely what you're saying. You want the "stop doing this. and do this." I really think that the "respected as a man" just comes from your self-worth recognition and how focused you are on your mission. Like I said I don't know you or your story but when you're continually working to reach your goals and passion it changes the way you carry yourself and people pick up on it. Your mission is your life. Develop what you're passionate about and bust your ass to achieve it. The other…
/r/askTRP10/05/15 04:58 AM
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Interesting. Personally I would have to see it to be able to pick out what women are keying on that is putting off that vibe. If you're really good friends with the guy who you're referring to as "natural" with it. Ask him what it is since he would know you and your personona better than anyone on TRP. I've had several friends ask me for advice in that area, and it's never weird or anything. Women fuck "ugly" dudes all the fucking time. Don't put so much blame on your looks, if you're in shape t…
/r/askTRP10/05/15 04:42 AM
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I thought this same thing whenever I read through the article. /u/Quotidian just posted a link above to a social experiment where this guy goes up to mothers and asks if he can try it out on their children. Guarantee if the guy didn't have a symmetrical face and wasn't in decent shape that the females wouldn't have allowed him to, more or less even talked to him.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 01:41 PM
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I really can't imagine someone walking out of a movie because a female character in it was too feminine. Like how would she explain why she left to whoever she was with? "OH my Gawd, that bitch was so feminine and weak. She like took care of him and cared enough to do things around his home. That's disgusting." Fucking women man lol
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 06:40 PM
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I see your point and agree. I guess I wouldn't do it out of necessity but out of generosity. Just a personal moral thing I suppose, I like to think if I can help people (men or women) with little to no actual impact on me then I try to do it.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 07:52 PM
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Personally I think that everything is a process. I don't see a problem paying for things (like Dinner) with a girl as long as she doesn't expect it, and you're at the point where she has proven she has enough value to spend the $8 on her chicken salad. That's probably not the most TRP view. But if she's doing everything you want, and you're maintaining frame throughout the interactions then I don't see paying for small things as too big of a deal.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 02:04 PM
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That Vodka idea doubled with the "who gets what" aspect of it is a really good idea for house parties. Definitely will be trying that lol
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 06:35 PM
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Right lol. I was like sooo is OP Bubba or Lieutenant Dan?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 06:21 PM
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My understanding is that we use that rule as a "safety net" to show the reddit admins that we aren't targeting, witch hunting, or vote inflating other subs. Since TRP has a bad rep it's easier to play nice and do our own thing. Plus if the content you're linking to gets taken down on reddit we have the archived location so the rest of TRP can still view what you wanted to share. I'm not sure if that is the official reasons, but that was the conclusions I came to.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 03:26 PM
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Don't directly link to another part of reddit is the rule. Use a site like https://archive.today/ to post content onto TRP. And you can't just "link and go." Give at least a couple hundred word examination of why you think the content is worth sharing with 100k+ subscribers.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 03:01 PM
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The ultimate disgrace a man can feel. Being mocked on Tumblr. :( /s
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 12:14 AM
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One of my coworkers who's from California has to support his ex wife until she finishes college. That started when she was in the first semester of her bachelor's degree. She's about to finish her masters. It's been a long road full of vagina money pay-outs for the guy.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 12:28 AM
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nitpick: I think it depends on the type and location
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:42 PM
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As you said; Texting is for logistics. You should be too busy with the rest of the things in your life to be texting her all the time.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:44 PM
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I'll agree with that. In my personal experience, I've come across far more women who have undesirable flaws that make them poor choices for LTR's than I have a woman so desirable that she has unlimited options. Almost all women have unlimited sex thrown at them in their 20s, going off TRP ideas men are the gatekeepers to commitment while women are the gatekeepers for sex. As some of the other users pointed out, you're pointing towards an Alpha Widow development. I agree completely with you, but …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 02:58 PM
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Don't be surprised if you get a barrage of downvotes; but yes of course, there is always exceptions. However, in the realm of AWALT high partner count is a good indicator that guys don't stick around after banging her. You could also throw in that she traveled all through Europe and the pacific in her early twenties and so she never was around enough for a real LTR. You can make as many "exceptions" as you want, but AWALT is AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:24 PM
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Tinder follows two very important rules. Be attractive Don't be unattractive Plus with the changes they've made to force Tinder Plus caused a huge decrease in use by females. I wouldn't bug too much on not getting success from it. Definitely go with what /u/spooky-clinic said that sounds like a solid game plan. Also, do some cold approaches, the more you do it the easier it gets.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 11:22 AM
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People are quick to hate man. Don't let anyone AMOG you for being happy and grateful for your progress. Keep pushing yourself and improving, that's what it's all about.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 08:11 PM
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Her loving husband receives her nagging, her lies, her disrespect, and the top of her head when she won’t look up from her cell phone. But at least she actually likes him. Almost every "help save my marriage" post I've seen has displayed this part perfectly. It's always "She says I'm a great husband and father but she feels nothing for me." Women know what a "good" man is supposed to be. It must suck knowing exactly what's best for you but being too disillusioned to be happy with it.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 06:06 PM
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Damn now I have to go watch that movie. Classic.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 05:14 PM
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One of my friends recently just returned from a trip to Japan and he told me that the women there were more into him (white, European decent, not really in shape) there than he had ever experienced before. He had pictures and videos so I know he wasn't lying about it. I would say they already are looking elsewhere and a good percentage of them at that.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 05:50 PM
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Actually the idea is to ask all of them at once.. I use this with all of my first dates and have had really good success with it. Like extremely good success.. Part of my general conversation is that I'm really into psychology and read a lot on the subject. I then blatantly tell them about the study and the 36 questions and ask if they would be down to do it. As I ask them I always end with "now there's a good chance you're going to fall madly in love with me." with a half-smirk. They always are…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 05:16 PM
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They took away your shipmate card lol
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 04:19 PM
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I know exactly what you're talking about, I was like naw I haven't dabbled in that field but then I read this and it made me lol and whisper "dammit" haha well played
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:22 PM
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Read this article, it gives a good perspective on how some men compartmentalize their relationships. http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/02/06/the-relationship-boxes-concept/
/r/askTRP29/01/15 04:16 PM
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I'll agree with you on that. I don't think the 36 Questions is why anything happened, but I don't think it hurt. It seems like a decent structure to have going into a first meeting with someone, especially if your approach is comfort game.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:05 PM
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Tinder is a decent tool, but it's really easy to waste time on there as compared to actually working on bettering yourself. I would much rather go for cold approaches at clubs and whatnot. The game I've used that's worked for me has been to find out similar interests and to build off of those. A lot of women on there are just looking for validation and don't actually want to meet anybody. There's a few really good tinder game posts on TRP that I would suggest reading before messing with it at al…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 02:12 PM
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I think it's a good starting point to build off of, it gives you an idea of something to talk to them about that actually is conducive to the night. It skips past the stupid "first date" type of questions. Check out /u/bsutansalt comment where he linked to how to implement the questions into comfort game. It's a really good strategy if it fits your personality.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 02:01 PM
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So basically I don't really push comfort game when I'm interacting with them on tinder. It's too taxing on time with a high chance you won't actually meet up with the girl. Typically when I'm talking to them on tinder I don't escalate the conversation (which is different than what I always read from other people) but it's worked for me. I try to find someone on there who can actually have a conversation and I try to capitalize on common interests. Example: Last night I matched with a cute Asian …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 01:53 PM
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I see what you're saying, so I'll try to clarify my point of view on it. I didn't use it as a gimmick or trick. It's a gaming strategy, of course the goal is to have sex with her, and if you look on the sidebar click on the post "Sexual Strategy is Amoral." I was honest with her about everything and didn't do anything that would have left her worse than when I found her. The "science experiment" is just a tool to force conversations with substance. Yea the majority of my natural game strategy is…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 01:36 PM
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Yea I mean like I said as soon as she invited me to her place to cook I knew I was good to go. I just tried to provide the interaction and things I noted since it's always possible to fuck up a good thing before it happens.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 01:15 PM
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I get what you're saying. I mean when I read FR's I take everything with a grain of salt and just try to apply what I can from them, even if I think something is bull shit; if I can find some sort of truth or a new concept in it then I take it as a win.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 01:10 PM
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Just read through it. That's a really cool approach, the hoop analogy made that click really well. Thanks man, definitely something I will consciously try out!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 07:48 PM
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There's really nothing you can do personally for him. It doesn't matter what anybody says nothing is just going to "click" and make it all better and make sense to him. The biggest thing he needs to do is realize his self-worth and value. When he realizes what he's worth he'll be able to let go and move on. It takes time. From what you posted it sounds like he's been on the right track for everything. Just be a good bro and be there, that's about all you can do.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 08:52 PM
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Awesome interpretation. I highly doubt I would've picked up on that if I had been in your position. Just another reminder to always improve. Thanks OP!
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 05:15 PM
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Literally thought the same thing.. This screams troll..
/r/askTRP21/01/15 03:04 PM
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Are you trolling? Like I don't even know where to start..
/r/askTRP21/01/15 03:02 PM
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It let me get to it just now, so you might try it again.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:44 PM
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As /u/I_like_big_titays stated it sounds like you aren't ready to approach yet. But seriously don't facebook message her. Work on yourself and getting enough confidence to where something like this shouldn't even be a question.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 01:52 PM
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I agree completely. But some cookies sound clutch right now. Damn.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 09:38 PM
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I agree with /u/fnordsnord another easy answer is "She didn't think it would work out the first time, and she was right. I'm happier now and have other things I have to focus on." Since she did the original breakup there's no reason anybody should shame him for not wanting to take her back.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 08:35 PM
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Just replaced it, I don't know what happened with the original.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 06:21 PM
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Well a rule for shit tests is to agree and amplify if you can't simply ignore it. So I would probably agree that she's hot and talk about how hot she is that it makes it retarded and irrational. Almost make her feel dumb for even asking you that question. You have to present it correctly though, but that should give you an idea on how to answer it. Seriously though man if you read "all the answers" you should've picked up on that one, pretty simple I think. They all follow a similar structure.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:11 PM
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Everything you said is so spot on. The key component is not getting complacent. Always strive to better yourself. I really hope OP takes what you said and applies it.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:08 PM
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Here's the thing, the fact that you still harvest some feelings for her means she has some control over you. Even if those feelings are anger and obviously you want revenge, but when you dip into that it's such a slippery slope. It's really easy to find yourself losing all progress you made since the breakup as soon as you get back with her. It's too dangerous to risk it in my opinion. So like everybody else said. Nope not worth it. Focus on continuing your success and completely get over her. T…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:27 PM
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Nobody on this sub will be able to give you a step by step on how to "man up" in this situation. You need to determine what you want from this "acquaintance" and go from there. Don't rely on alcohol to be your confidence booster. Gain confidence in yourself and it won't be a problem. Part of being AF is not caring if something is awkward. It shouldn't be awkward ever because women aren't a big deal and there's always going to be more of them. Keep reading man, and focus on building yourself to b…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 04:18 PM
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Just let it happen. I stated this on another post: It's much better to have her upset because she doesn't think she is good enough for you than to have her start going out looking for other AF because you're not enough. Don't. Change. A. Thing.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 04:13 PM
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Awesome links gave me some perspectives to look into!
/r/askTRP05/01/15 04:11 PM
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You won't be able to game women until you fix yourself. Gaming women doesn't fix you or make you a better man. Focus on getting healthy. Lose weight. Gain social skills and go from there. Don't make excuses for why you can't do something. Accept your situation for what it is and improve yourself. And it's okay to do chores for your Mom, unless you're trying to "game" your Mom there's no reason not to be a good son.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 04:07 PM
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People don't seem to realize that TRP isn't a mindset because we "want to be different" or "hate women;" but because the formula fed to us from fairy tales and society is wrong. I wish they were right. Glad you agree on that.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 03:06 PM
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Well since she is still reaching out to you, it should be relatively simple to spin her as a plate. She obviously is interested. The way you're describing the situation though seems like the oneitis is pretty prevalent. It's possible to do, but when you have even a little oneitis for a girl it's an extremely slippery slope. If you try to plate this girl you must maintain frame at all times. You have to constantly remind yourself that you don't want an LTR with her and all the reasons she is just…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 08:43 AM
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Yea you're totally fine man. Don't get it in your mind to put her on too high of a pedestal by too much comfort, or she'll lose the mindset that you are better than her. It's much better to have her upset because she doesn't think she is good enough for you than to have her start going out looking for other AF because you're not enough. Don't. Change. A. Thing.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 01:13 PM
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Your ability to pull women doesn't define your success as man. It sucks to be stuck in depression man. Take the start of 2015 as your opportunity to say fuck 2014 and be determined to first and foremost better your mental state. Find things that make you happy. You gotta find your escape. Video games, books, poetry, etc.. Mine is music, if I didn't have that I know I would be in a pretty bad place. You'll find when you continue to grow a healthier mindset that your business life will improve as …
/r/askTRP04/01/15 01:01 PM
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I wouldn't contact her. When you do, it puts her in the control position. Wait it out, or at least give it some time before you reach out to her. Don't catch oneitis on a ONS. If you feel like you're starting to (and it happens sometimes) you have even more reason to not have contact with her.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 12:56 PM
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So did you develop some oneitis for this girl, or view her as a possible LTR? I would say she obviously should be a plate for when you're in town.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 12:49 PM
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I would bet that she already realizes that you are in a better place than her in life, hence the recent development in a friendship becoming a romantic one. Keep in mind that a lot of females will ride the CC until they start losing their ability to do so (age, loss of smv, a child being born). When that happens they pull in one of their beta-orbiters who are better off in life and attempt an LTR where they continue to run shit. My bet is that she did this with you, thinking you would be a "good…
/r/askTRP04/01/15 12:44 PM
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found out earlier this week that she has been talking to some other dude which in itself doesn’t get me worked up because I mostly don’t give a fuck and would rather be alone and work on myself Then break off the relationship. The overall disrespect and the fact that you're constantly playing dad to a kid that isn't yours (and one from the post you don't even like lol) isn't conducive to a healthy LTR. In a beta move on my part, but mostly to make her feel like an asshole, i decided to do the di…
/r/askTRP04/01/15 10:38 AM
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Go to /r/theredpill and look on the sidebar. Everything is right there.
/r/askTRP26/12/14 07:33 AM
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If you want to be with her and love her then why did you cheat?
/r/askTRP23/12/14 03:35 AM
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One of my best friends in real life actually turned me to the sub and suggested I create a redpill specific account. The shit heel won't give me his username because ya know "interwebs are anonymous" stuff but if you read this you ass-clown, thanks brother.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 09:33 AM
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Inception Motherfuckers hahah. I like this strategy, I've always tried to drop plates by forcing them to do the breakup but never had a go-to strategy for it other than drop contact. Thanks for sharing this OP.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 12:15 AM
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I like this concept. I think part of the motivation for doing this approach when you're in such a deep rut and extremely vulnerable is the betta in you is hoping that "this will show her, and it will be better when she reaches out." type thing. Hopefully by the time the contract ends or she does relapse to reach out you're in a better place where you can retain frame. So for guys reading this because they're going through it right now I would say to really do it for yourself, and not to do it to…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:12 AM
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The paragraph about your art coming first is so spot on. Well done OP I hope a lot of people read this and really soak it in. A lot of wisdom inside of it. I'll be sure to check out your blog btw!
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:47 AM
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So to me it sounds like there's a lot more you need to start working on other than your escalation game. Check out this post on monk mode and do everything in that. As far as game goes watch some RSD videos to get a baseline on some escalation techniques. Hope that helps man.
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My golden rule when setting up new dates is never make plans with someone further than 72 Hours in advance. When plan something out much further than that she's moved on to someone newer and more interesting. The 72 Hour rule helps prevent flakes and allows you to still have some mystery going in. I find it a little weird that neither of them responded to your message. But if you want to make plans with them then I would say yeah text them tonight; but don't try to plan something out two weeks f…
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You can't conclude that if you're alpha you won't get cheated on. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3axfye/dirty_sheets/ You can be the most AlphaMcAlphaness dude in the world, shit happens. As far as a good LTR? Eh, it takes a lot more than a girl being sexually attracted to you for her to be LTR worthy. She sounds like she would be an incredible Plate, but if you're wanting an LTR there's a shit ton of variables that have to align with your end goals.
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Alright, so there's a split in TRP with guys who like to text bitches non-stop(Dirty Talk bros) and guys who say only use it for logistics. I only use it for logistics. Personally I'm too busy to be attached to my phone talking about nonsense with some girl. I learn about people in person. If you set up a date and both confirmed it I wouldn't text her until like an hour or so before the scheduled meet up. If she flakes on you within that hour or doesn't show up she wasn't worth your time (Abunda…
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Yea man one book you definitely need to read is No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover. Basically the book goes through exactly what you've described. Also here is another link to a bunch of TRP reading list books/audiobooks/pdfs
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Hey IM this doesn't have much to do with TRP but I just wanted to let you know your website is "uncategorized" from the tags. The tags basically help with search optimization, but certain networks don't allow access to uncategorized sites. Just thought I would let ya know man!
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Man there's too much in here for a simple response. First, you need to lurk more. I don't know how long you've been reading TRP but I'm willing to bet it wasn't until recently. Why are you the one trying to have these serious conversations about "defining" the relationship and what not? That's a female trait. The fact you're trying to do that shows your lack of abundance mentality and thinking that by constraining her to some plan or word will hold true in the future. Women don't go off their wo…
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So probably the easiest answer is this, Hobbies & Interests. Take a cooking class; meet other students and learn something self-sufficient. You have a dog; go to a dog park and meet people. If you like coffee a generic spot is, of course, coffee shops. I'm assuming the reason club/bar scene girls aren't your type is because you're looking for more of an LTR. Find people who share the same interests as you, just don't be afraid to approach when you see something that peaks your interest.
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I had never came across this breakdown before. Good analysis and information; is there a main TRP post somewhere that goes into this more that isn't on the sidebar?
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