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MALE DEPRAVITYdonttakemelightly/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:13 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdonttakemelightly/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:32 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdonttakemelightly/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:30 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYdonttakemelightly/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:53 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdonttakemelightly/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:26 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdonttakemelightly/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:10 AM
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She filmed people dying/ambulance not being able to access people in a tone deaf way by posting on social media And they are together and pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:26 AM
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Because Kim and Pete dating is a decoy/distraction from the absolute shit heap Kylie and Travis Scott are in after Astroworld.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:17 AM
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Thank you too, I'm not perfect and definitely say things I don't mean at times. Have a safe night xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:53 AM
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I see your point. I personally choose not to use language the majority of males use to refer to women, but it is your choice to speak however you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:58 AM
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Oh goodness 😳 with peace and love please don't refer to women (and or sex) as "pussy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:34 AM
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Agree 100%, none of this post seems authentic or natural. Dating really shouldn't be as complicated as this post suggests. After a while, all this act will slip away revealing your true character. Women like honest men that like being themselves. Simple as that.
/r/seduction17/05/21 11:16 PM
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He couldn't even bother to hand write it to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:45 AM
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My dream is to live in an all woman neighbourhood/village where we live communally and support one another. No one is a stranger. Unfortunately I don't think that will ever come true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:57 AM
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Oh no not cats, wine, and no bum ass man in my life, literally three of most favourite things in the world what ever will I do 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:15 AM
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The mods on this sub are amazing, and put up with so much negativity and abuse just to protect us. I'm forever thankful to them for shielding us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:51 AM
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I love being like other women. I am made up of hundreds and hundreds of generations worth of DNA of other women. My likes, interests and hobbies are learned and moulded from other women. I paint my nails because I liked how another girl did hers, I style my hair because I watched a YouTube tutorial on how a girl styles her hair. I listen to songs because I heard other girls sing them. I wear rings and jewels that have been worn and handed down through my family that other women have worn and lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:57 AM
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Can comfirm, I left my abusive low value ex because of this sub! Stay mad scrotes 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:11 AM
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Made the exact same face as above ^ While wearing an ill fitting suit jacket with jeans and sneakers. I'd broken things off with him 3 weeks before his friend died. He didn't take no for an answer and messaged, called and harassed me for weeks. His friend (our mutual friend) died and he used it as an excuse to try and get close to me again. I had to in person again tell him to leave me alone, he then went and told everything we knew that I broke up with him on the day of our friends death... Eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:18 AM
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The last guy I was seeing very briefly would always pull this face in photos and it was so unattractive I once said "why can't you just act normally when we take a photo?" and he was so confused and said I'd hurt his feelings 😂 I said "well why do you put your eyebrow up and pull a duck face? You make every photo look ridiculous." and he sulked about it for the rest of the day saying I just think he's ugly 😂 He couldn't even pull a normal face the day of his friends funeral when they took a grou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:05 PM
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That's great! I'm so glad your new little friend is happy and you're happy as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:27 AM
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Beautiful animal ❤️ Also I'm sure you already know this and I mean no rudeness or disrespect, but just be mindful of cats wearing collars. They're so nimble and constantly climbing/dismounting that they have been known to - surprisingly not uncommonly - hang themselves accidentally. It's a terrible thing to happen. Cats are only aware of what is their own anatomy, added accessories such as collars can severely inhibit their natural movement and abilities. Of course accessories such as collars, c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:21 AM
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Pick me's are literally insane, how on earth can women act and think like this? Do they really need attention and validation from men so badly? I'm astounded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:43 AM
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I wish they'd realise how damn good it is being single rather than in toxic relationships. 0 anxiety and no one to worry about? Yeah I'll take it thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:37 PM
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Fortunately yes, everyone was very supportive of her leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:00 PM
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As far as I read in this she never threatened him, she simply went to go do it then decided not to. She also admitted to having other things going on. I'm sure you've heard of the straw that broke the camels back. If I misread it please let me know. This sub also isn't for male sympathising, just so you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:14 AM
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It is truly disgusting. I wish her nothing but strength and the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:05 AM
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My bum ass ex boyfriend, who had no job or any education, would constantly belittle my university studies and my job. I worked AND studied full time, he did nothing but play video games and take government payments, and yet in his mind what I did was completely useless. I actually will never understand the mind of a NVM because how can someone actually be so illogical?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:22 PM
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I love how he's always depressed 🤣 "that's signs of depression" or it's signs that he's an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:19 PM
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My ex would do this, and also scream how much he wished I was a man so he could hit me. I'm 5'5, he is 6'5. Then he would strangle me until I'd choke. Took me so long to leave him. I thought I loved him very much. Now I just love myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:51 PM
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I had an ex that PEED on ME in the shower once when we were getting ready! He thought it was funny. It smelt awful and I felt really grossed out by it and he told me to lighten up. We broke up soon after that, and I don't shower with men anymore 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:57 AM
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Yeah it's ugly asf. He's an actual loser 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:43 AM
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I would have left after the first instance of this happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:38 PM
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Oh wow, she has a perfect opportunity here to leave and save herself from future hurt, but she completely ignores it. That's such a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:31 PM
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"I'm a female myself" yep this was definitely written by a man pretending to be a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:31 AM
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I saw the post I think she's talking about. a girl had a causal hookup and the boy kissed her forehead. She then later texted him quote "if casual hookup no in love with me.... why forehead kiss????" (I have no idea why she spoke that way.) He then replied and negged her saying she had a big forehead. Women out here are really publicly embarrassing themselves for what? Low value hookups and unsatisfying hetero sex? Ok.. I'll pass but thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 02:11 AM
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I practically never get cat called anymore (25) but literally alwaaaays got cat called from 15-17. I've never thought about this until now. Oh my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:30 PM
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She does all that and all he can offer her in return is terrible unsatisfying hetero sex? Wow. Lucky girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:28 PM
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I guess she is her own heartbreak. And she's going to feel heartbroken regardless so why not use it for good. I say good on her for owning it and not allowing it to swallow her up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:09 AM
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I will find it and send it to you. I actually found her video to be quite educational about bras and breast shape. It was such a shame to see this scrote turn it into something about him 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:58 PM
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Yesss I not once romanticised the most recent man I was seeing, it kept everything completely clear and I could see everything at an arms length. He soon showed me all of his issues and what little of the attraction I had for him disappeared. Over, block and delete. It is so refreshing to have this clarity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:13 PM
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So.. Where exactly do I find a man that will say this stuff to me? 🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:10 PM
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"I hate gold diggers ugh" why scrote??? They're not targeting you living in your mother's basement 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:28 AM
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Beyonce's character in Obsessed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:25 AM
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I always say "did you seriously just send me a picture of a child's penis??? Are you a paedophile!? I'm reporting you for distributing child porn" that normally scares them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:30 AM
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Today I was called a "butt hurt feminist" because I laughed in a scrotes face when he said he would "do terrible terrible" things to a beautiful actress we were discussing. I said she wouldn't in a million years, and apparently that makes me a butt hurt feminist. Pretty sure it makes me a realist but ok. Men really are so very fragile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:21 PM
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The man I was dating up until I ended it the other night, has been in therapy since he was 15 (we're nearly 30). He was... Just too unstable. Too mentally unwell. Even with all his therapy, he placed an enormous burden on me trying to make me fix him, lol sorry boy but no. He seemed so HV until his emotional issues started falling out of him over the last week, so I promptly ended things. I'm also not very attached or interested so wasn't a big deal to me. But it makes me wonder, I obviously fee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:40 PM
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My ex wouldn't even let me use lube because it "insulted him" hahaha honestly I still laugh about it today... Men are so fragile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:03 AM
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Ew what a broken and damaged man. Take your things and leave, block delete bye 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:02 AM
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Anyone I've ever dated/had a relationship with that didn't work out, most of their friends too. Any man that dares address me in a rude/lude manner on social media. Over 100 easily. It's so easy to block people from your life, even when social media makes it difficult for us to be private. I keep all my social media completely locked down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:00 AM
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You gotta own your shit. That's all there is to it. It isnt the first shameful/embarrassing thing you do and it won't be the last. We're all human. That's all there is to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:57 AM
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Yes I have a lovely 10 month old puppy and a beautiful cat that sleep on my bed with me. I love them very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:55 AM
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"you're so different to other women!" Um excuse me, don't put down other women to try and compliment me because it's rude. And also, no I'm not different to other women. I'm exactly like other women. And I'm very happy to be that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:03 AM
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I sort of consider myself Christian as well, unfortunately in my later years of life I've questioned it due to the deep set misogyny within the religion. Christian men use it as an excuse to be misogynistic as well. Very unfortunate. I'm still figuring out how to love my God while moving away from the traditional "Christian" term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:01 AM
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I was born in 1995 so I understand. All men my age have consumed disgusting amounts of hardcore pornography and all my boyfriends have been porn addicts not willing to give it up for me. At this point I honestly think there is no hope. There will be no man I find acceptable or worthy of me. I have accepted I will never marry, will have to start a family on my own, sleep on my own and die alone. Oh well, at least I can look after and love myself. Don't need any man to do that for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:43 AM
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I literally said any job is a job, no matter how small. I never undermined working men. Check your facts. Respectfully I think you seem too jaded to other women's opinions. I have already said my good day to you, please do not reply to me again, it's disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:40 AM
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That's fine. You dont have to continue reading or being apart of this discussion if you do not wish to be apart of a general and open conversation. Have a good day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:33 AM
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I didn't downvote you? I'm happy to have an open conversation. No need to take the defensive because others disagree with you. And you're supposed to be a FDS strategy coach? With that attitude? Seems really low value to me. Perhaps take the advice and learn from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:30 AM
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Sorry but no. please read what I said. Do not date unemployed men. date. Please read that word again. Do not date unemployed men. If your partner has lost his job, that is a different story. Again, I said date. There are also so many jobs out there, men are just picky and choose not to do them. Where I live, you get paid $890 a fortnight to be unemployed, I've experienced it before. Many women have experienced unemploymed partners. If you want to level up as a woman. Be employed. Make money. Be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:26 AM
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I said don't date unemployed men. This implies no previous commitment. It is also extremely easy to be employed. Do not fall for their excuses and lies. Anyone can stack shelves. Anyone can work in a warehouse. A job is a job, no matter how small.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:01 AM
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Never date an unemployed man, they're literally trash 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:51 AM
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Who cares what he does with other girls. I'm too busy focusing on my own life, not others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:46 AM
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No why would I? I hang up and they can call me later. I also don't date my friends or family so it's not really relevant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:46 AM
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I don't stay on hold period. My time is my most precious resource and I won't waste it being put on hold. Don't take my time lightly because I sure as hell don't. Next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:40 AM
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It's actually so shameful she not only does this, but has to post it online to prove something? Prove what exactly? Needing online validation is so pitiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:14 AM
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I'd rather my partner watched porn than be raped by a stranger... I can dump the shitty partner. Getting over a trauma like rape is nothing to be taken lightly. I see you've posted a lot of anti-porn posts all around reddit, thats good. I agree with them. But I can't help but think you've been recently hurt by a partner and porn? I'm very sorry to hear that if that's the case. And I hope you're okay and healing. You may feel violated because of his betrayal and that's terrible. Good luck on your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:57 AM
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Umm.. Thats quite a lot different because he's performing a sex act on his own/with someone else. It's not rape if your partner has sex with someone else, it's cheating. But if someone performing a sex act upon you without consent then that would be rape. That one person's anecdote doesn't speak for the whole community of women that have been raped either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:10 AM
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I see what you're saying about the idea of consent. For example I never want to sleep with a man that watches porn, I only consent to a physical relationship that is porn free. If he tells me he doesn't, then we become intimate and I later find out he does watch porn, then that is a betrayal and a breach of my consent. But I wouldn't feel raped, I would feel betrayed and cheated. Rape is a strong word, and women that have gone through something as terrible as rape need that word to stay as stron…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:56 PM
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They should be thinking of their own health, and their own pleasure, not what some dumb ass male thinks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:45 AM
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Yasss girl risk colon cancer and bowel cancer, anal fissures that can lead to shit poisoning your blood stream!!!1! Because his 30 seconds of jack hammering and consistent lack of respect is so hot and desirable 🤤 please fuck my ass until I need my bowel removed and have to shit in a bag for the rest of my life!!!1?! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:34 AM
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I am 'demisexual' if that's what the young ones are calling it now, but you'll never ever catch me calling myself that. How ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:55 AM
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She should know her value by blocking and deleting him, not posting about her validation HE gave her. OP even said he wants to meet up with her. Come on, we all know the signs a mile away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:13 PM
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No, just naive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:29 AM
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Girl... Men lie. Period. Men never change. He's not "just wanting to meet up/chill" whatever. You didn't change him. I'm sorry but your pickme vibe of "I changed him" needs to leave this chat. Like don't be fooled by his lies. Don't think you're special because some low value scrote said you are. You're special for so many different reasons. Don't try and rub it in women's faces that you "changed" him, you were the "reason". Girl you're 100% amazing, but don't be fooled. He's pinning you against…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:13 AM
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