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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Do girls like to get picked on by guys? Girls like a challenge. If you say nothing but nice things you're boring. If you say something funny but slightly off-color or insulting, she'll want to respond in kind, and if you just smile or agree it'll piss her off just a little bit, which gets the juices flowing, which is where you want to be. Don't be mean or ugly, but not totally nice either. You want conflict. There is no sexual attraction without conflict.	/r/seduction	29/01/22 03:19 AM
1	Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the street Suit yourself ~	/r/seduction	28/01/22 05:38 AM
2	Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the street Good for approaching her, and don't worry if she hasn't texted back. You can try again in maybe a week or two; not too soon, and this time forget about complimenting her or telling her you want to get to know her; you've already done that. Tell her there's an event you'd like to attend, something public, a trade show maybe, a local group doing something at the mall, a car show, whatever, and maybe she'd like it too. Not a date, or movie, or dinner, nothing like that. Something you'd like to see …	/r/seduction	26/01/22 07:47 AM
-1	My coworker lately has gotten used to stare at me, and we just look right in each others' eyes for a long time Say, would you like to grab a cup of coffee after work? She'll take it from there. She wants you, don't screw this up~	/r/seduction	23/01/22 11:59 PM
3	So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you? My point is, if you're trying to avoid it you just get more of it. If you "don't need girls like that", then for heaven's sake don't PUT UP with girls like that! Shine 'em on and find another!	/r/seduction	22/01/22 08:04 AM
4	So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you? No, you must accept conflict in a relationship. If you try too hard to be nice, you're boring. Give a girl a challenge. Be nice, but don't try to be nice all the time or agree all the time. Show her you have a personality and opinions that are your own.	/r/seduction	22/01/22 07:24 AM
1	[deleted by user] Excellent.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 07:38 AM
1	I went on date with this girl couple times, she suddenly said we better just to be friends? Say OK, I hope you figure it out. If she contacts you again, challenge her. Ask her what she's doing, and tell her you don't like it. At this point she needs to prove herself to you, while you need to show her you won't be pushed around. Be polite, but don't put up with it.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 06:11 PM
-8	Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected? Ask her. Say, "why do you do this? I don't like it. I feel like I'm being played." Let her know you won't be jerked around. See how she responds.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 01:05 AM
2	[deleted by user] Hold your horses! Talk to some other women and let her see you flirting with them. Give her a challenge. It's a test; she doesn't know who she wants and you need to back off and let her come after you. Jealousy is a threat, don't go there.	/r/seduction	13/01/22 03:21 AM
3	Just had a convo with a girl I work with. Did I do ok or am I overthinking things? You're doing fine. Relax. Don't worry about that "don't get into a work romance" crap either. There are hundreds of other jobs; the right girl is special.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 06:40 AM
1	How to actually enjoy yourself at night club? You want to be noticed, but be relaxed about it. One way to approach a girl is to set up some minor conflict. Sit next to her and announce that you don't like whatever song is playing, for whatever stupid reason~not that you hate anyone, just prefer something else. You've just set up a challenge. Women are accustomed to men trying to be agreeable, trying to make a good impression, and that's boring. Let her know you're an independent thinker. She can try to win you over, but she has to work for …	/r/seduction	10/01/22 02:49 PM
3	Why does it always seem to go that as soon as you lose interest in someone they become more attracted to you? Give women a challenge. If you're trying to play nice all the time, you're boring. Show them you're not.	/r/seduction	09/01/22 10:54 AM
1	[deleted by user] Excellent!	/r/seduction	09/01/22 09:46 AM
3	Why all the games and shit tests? (M17) You're trying too hard. Relax. You have to joke around, even piss her off a little bit. Disagree with a popular opinion, show that you don't care what everyone thinks, tell her that her favorite singer sucks. She'll notice you. You've given her a challenge, and she wants a challenge; most guys are so afraid of saying the wrong thing that they're boring. Don't be boring, whatever you do.	/r/seduction	31/12/21 05:50 AM
1	[deleted by user] Learn another language, play an instrument, master a craft, read books, get in shape, keep a positive attitude, talk to people and don't be afraid to be loud. Ask questions. Everyone knows something you don't, and you know something they don't. When people try to act superior, ask them something they don't know (or tell them). When they seem to feel inferior, find out what they know that you don't. Everyone and everything is interesting. Find out how.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 08:11 AM
2	[deleted by user] Absolutely true, but any knowledge or mastery of a craft or art qualifies as well.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 08:00 AM
1	On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year? Been married a long time now, but in my 20s about 6 a year.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 05:38 AM
2	[deleted by user] You need to feel you can trust her, which at least for now you don't. Break up, and see what happens. You may get back together, or not, but don't push it. You need to clear your head.	/r/seduction	26/12/21 07:03 AM
4	[deleted by user] Just tell her you prefer pussy and how nothing's better than wet, warm pussy lips around your dick. She's hot for you. Encourage her.	/r/seduction	14/12/21 07:57 AM
0	[deleted by user] She's bored. You need to fight about something. Tell her that her favorite singer sucks, and don't back down. Conflict is essential if you want to get out of the friend zone.	/r/seduction	12/12/21 02:43 AM
3	How to approach girls in the club? If there's several in a group, talk to the least attractive one first. She'll love you for it, and the others will see you're not just picking out the prettiest one; they'll start to compete for your attention. If you kind of halfway ignore them, they'll seek you out the next time, too; make it a challenge for them, think about the future~	/r/seduction	22/11/21 06:38 AM
7	I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindset Oh god you reminded me of the creepiest thing EVER; I found a tape of some guy apologizing to some girl and telling her he thought maybe God might give him throat cancer so he couldn't sing his songs, for lying to her~	/r/seduction	19/11/21 05:56 AM
1	How to know if you have a good first date? People have different needs at different times. Whatever it is you want, she's not ready for that. Nothing wrong with you, it's just timing. Don't bother trying to be friends, that'll happen or not, and if you don't want to go there, don't~but don't be mean or pissed off, just busy. She may become intrigued. If not, no harm, no foul, no loss.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 05:12 AM
5	Frustrated when girl shows interest, but no date You talk to everyone but her, and don't talk about her to everyone. You want her to wonder what you're thinking; be a man of mystery.	/r/seduction	20/06/21 08:18 PM
7	Frustrated when girl shows interest, but no date Ignore her. You want her pursuing you, not you pestering her. Whether she's worth it or not is another question.	/r/seduction	20/06/21 08:15 AM
0	[deleted by user] Say: Gosh, I've known you for (x time) now and I'd really like to ask you out!	/r/seduction	20/06/21 04:46 AM
3	If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wasted I think that's inexperience. Everyone goes through it, some earlier than others. Some have a first girlfriend/boyfriend at 14, others 24. It's more important how many; if someone's only had one or two they'll tend to invest more emotion, even if they're much older. Someone who's been married for years and then divorced will tend to have the same romantic attitudes they had when they married; you can basically subtract their married years from their age to find their romantic age.	/r/seduction	15/06/21 11:52 PM
2	Eye contact, relaxed and expansive body language are key to projecting masculinity. Despite what modern society says, women respond respect dominant, masculine behavior Also important: You need not be afraid of conflict, in fact you should welcome it. If you're not confident enough to disagree when she challenges you, that's a test, and if you let her push you around it's friend zone at best. Let her know that you won't agree with everything she says and you become a challenge; she'll want to pursue you rather than vice-versa.	/r/seduction	14/06/21 04:58 AM
2	Woman gave me her number a week ago is it too late? Naw, a week's OK. Call her up. Don't explain, that's not relevant. You're just busy, and not needy like her old boyfriend. Talk awhile and line something up.	/r/seduction	12/06/21 03:04 AM
5	Where should I start? Just keep it up. Practice makes perfect.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 07:00 AM
1	How do I get back at this child? What's your point?	/r/seduction	11/06/21 06:58 AM
1	If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with others Turn off the TV, etc. I didn't have a TV in the house for about 11 years; learned to make jewelry, crafts, musical instruments, did my own sewing, repaired all my appliances and vehicles, built a house, read thousands of books.	/r/seduction	10/06/21 07:18 AM
2	Need help dealing with groups, how to get into one, isolate, etc. Approach the ugliest girl first. She'll love you for it, and the others will compete for your attention.	/r/seduction	05/06/21 03:42 AM
1	How can you tell the difference between friendliness and attraction? Argue a little. You need to understand the game. Assert yourself, get her pissed off at you over something stupid. Friend zone just means you're trying too hard to agree with everything she says, and she's bored. There's no spice, no attraction without conflict, only porridge.	/r/seduction	05/06/21 03:37 AM
1	The follow up. Keep it short and specific. "Do you like (sport, singer, food, place)? "Get to know you" can sound creepy and a little stalker-ish, especially if she's had problems in the past (Why does he want to know me? Is he making a list? I don't want another guy like Fred following me around! Etc.)	/r/seduction	05/06/21 03:21 AM
1	What's a cool but affordable attraction to have in your pad to entertain/entice guests? For parties~	/r/seduction	01/06/21 12:46 AM
1	What's a cool but affordable attraction to have in your pad to entertain/entice guests? Board games are good; have a variety with some more intellectual (Trivial Pursuit, etc.) and some just silly kid stuff. Card games like Uno are fun too.	/r/seduction	31/05/21 03:32 AM
4	It was a nice ☕️ date but we had our differences. Oh hell yes. "Lines" are just a test. Don't push her. She'll change her mind, eventually~but it might be six days, weeks, months, six years, whatever. It's not a race. Flirt with other gals, and let her see you~and not just pretty girls; in fact if two or three are hanging out strike up a conversation with the ugliest one; she'll be grateful, the others will notice and they'll compete for your attention! Your gal will either come around or won't, and in the meantime you'll have fun and might mee…	/r/seduction	30/05/21 10:58 AM
3	It was a nice ☕️ date but we had our differences. Give it a week or two while you watch Groundhog Day. Be like Bill Murray, ask her what she wants in a man and tell her how you're really close~but don't be overly eager. Ignore her a little bit; she has to want to see more of you, not less.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 02:01 AM
1	What women wants... Nothing wrong with Barbie. Everyone you'll ever meet knows something you don't, including Barbie.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 01:49 AM
1	Near a busy city, but not close enough to feel comfortable drinking Bring a blanket~	/r/seduction	30/05/21 01:43 AM
1	Tip For Nerdy Intelligent Guys Superficial isn't superficial if it screws up your life.	/r/seduction	26/05/21 05:07 AM
12	Tip For Nerdy Intelligent Guys The "real" you is what you decide to be. If you decide you're ugly (too fat, wrong hair, stupid, etc.) that's what you'll be. If you decide you're handsome (well dressed, muscular, clean etc.) that's also what you'll be. Try to make the "real" you someone you want to be, someone you like. It's a choice.	/r/seduction	25/05/21 08:57 AM
1	A rejection of modern dating methods - Delete your apps post pandemic I actually have dated an international model. The key is, she may be gorgeous, but she's just a girl. Be a little bit of a smartass; don't drool over yourself. When I met her, I told her that her favorite singer sucked, and argued a little, which she wasn't expecting. We ended up going out and had an on-and-off relationship for about five years.	/r/seduction	23/05/21 12:10 PM
4	Why you are not attractive, and how to be it. Excellent advice. I'd add that romance is a game; a game with a serious purpose, but still a game. If played rightly, with respect, everyone wins and nobody's badly hurt, but break the rules and everyone ends up miserable.	/r/seduction	21/05/21 05:58 AM
1	Women will respect your courage Realize that sexual attraction comes from excitement and friend zone comes from boredom. Don't try to be too nice to her. Disagree. Get her a little bit mad. There's no attraction without conflict.	/r/seduction	27/04/21 03:27 AM
1	Have you guys dated someone that had lost her fiancé a couple of years ago ? Are there things you would advice others to do/not to do? I have. Her long-time boyfriend had died of cancer a few months before. It didn't go well; I tried to be understanding but she was way too sad and I couldn't help much, or relate much. She had some self-help, positive thinking type books her boyfriend had been reading and she was going to throw out; I wanted to see them first and she just broke down and ran sobbing to the bedroom, for a long time. I should've just let her throw them away.	/r/seduction	29/03/21 04:47 AM
3	Field report : Cold approached two people This is true. I was the smallest, youngest kid in class and had no girlfriends at all until I was 2 years out of high school, but then I seriously tried to get better at approaching girls and by my mid-20s had no problem and in fact dated an international model for awhile. That was decades ago and I've been married for nearly 40 years but when I met my wife one of the first things I told her was that I'd talk to whoever I wanted, male or female, and I still have more women friends than men.	/r/seduction	28/03/21 07:58 AM
1	Field report : Cold approached two people Excellent!	/r/seduction	28/03/21 07:45 AM
1	Effective ways to sexualise a date or interaction that is stuck in platonic territory? If you wanna go there, sure! I was thinking more like saying her favorite singer sucks, but the main thing is to hold an opinion she doesn't, and don't back down.	/r/seduction	27/03/21 05:53 AM
1	If you're having trouble, don't be afraid to read a book on seduction!! An old book from a long time ago, but excellent: How To Pick Up Girls.	/r/seduction	27/03/21 02:07 AM
1	Effective ways to sexualise a date or interaction that is stuck in platonic territory? Disagree on some little thing. No conflict, no excitement.	/r/seduction	27/03/21 02:02 AM
1	IM SOOOOO PISSED Depends on the state.	/r/seduction	06/03/21 10:43 AM
1	A woman's POV Gotta say something, even just "Howdy!" It's a habit to cultivate. Also helps to be slightly snarky and funny~when I first met my wife, she asked where I got my shirt, because it "looked like 1964". She didn't care about the shirt, she was just trying to get a rise out of me~and it worked!	/r/seduction	05/03/21 10:17 AM
1	She's not the prize, and neither are you Whatever, slick.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 03:35 AM
1	She's not the prize, and neither are you Not for me~I want fun, excitement, AND romance. The whole package. Day one.	/r/seduction	01/03/21 03:13 PM
2	She's not the prize, and neither are you Nope. Romance is a game. You can say it's not, but you'll be wrong. If you don't think she's the prize, you won't win, and if you think you're not the prize, you'll never even get started. It's a game. Learn how to play. Do it, or lose.	/r/seduction	01/03/21 06:12 AM
1	Probably the best cheat code I've ever found I was an interpreter/translator for 20 years. Being able to rattle off a few words in another language is definitely GREAT advice!	/r/seduction	17/02/21 08:30 PM
1	I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value. If you're asking who's "high value", you're not.	/r/seduction	16/02/21 06:26 PM
1	What should I do? Well then that's tricky~ Wait a few days at least. The worst thing you can do is seem desperate or needy.	/r/seduction	12/02/21 06:45 AM
1	What should I do? Wait a week or two and then send a short, friendly message. She'll either reply or not, but either way remember that you're doing fine and there are other fish in the sea. Don't chase after her too hard, that looks desperate.	/r/seduction	12/02/21 04:58 AM
1	For the successful men on this sub, what seduction tips do you have for a late 20's woman? I didn't know her before that evening; she was an acquaintance of an acquaintance. There'd been four or five of us sitting at a table for maybe half an hour, drinking a beer or two. The others were gone for a few seconds and she simply picked up my hand and put it in her blouse! 😊	/r/seduction	12/02/21 01:54 AM
3	For the successful men on this sub, what seduction tips do you have for a late 20's woman? Touching a man is absolutely the sexiest thing a woman can do, and the bolder the better! A light touch on the back of his hand is good, but brushing your titties against his arm or back is a thousand times better! One of the most direct moves I got from a woman (and most successful, for her), was a gal who, early 30s when I was late 20s, while sitting beside me, picked up my hand and slid it under her blouse onto her bare tit! I hadn't really noticed her beforehand but I certainly did then! We …	/r/seduction	11/02/21 07:03 AM
1	Conflict is essential. Yup.	/r/seduction	03/02/21 06:54 PM
2	Conflict is essential. Exactly.	/r/seduction	03/02/21 06:53 PM
1	Conflict is essential. Nah, that's just for starters. If she doesn't notice you, you're out of luck, and if she's hot she gets a lot of guys telling her how great she looks but not many giving her a hard time. I once met an international model. I disagreed with her about something. We dated on and off for like five years.	/r/seduction	03/02/21 04:43 AM