Where should I start?

doovinator · 2021-06-11T07:00:10+00:00

Just keep it up. Practice makes perfect.

PompousSchmuck · 2021-06-11T10:16:40+00:00

Tell you what, even if you look good, they dont just fall down on to you. Granted, at 5"8 and 150 lbs I get attention, but its:

a. Usually not the attention I am actively seeking

b. Dudes

So while it might help, its not the end all be all thing. I find that having shit going in your life makes you more interesting to interact with - and makes you much less inclined to make women run away because you're too needy. Should've seen to look on some of the girls I told yesterday I am not returning to Thursday evening dances due to other commitments - some of them literally asked if they will see me on other occasions.

Anyway - get your shit together, physically - 15%> BF, gain some fucking muscle - but don't stop the cold approaches - otherwise you'll end up like me, getting flirted at and not knowing how to handle it.

BadMawma · 2021-06-11T07:31:00+00:00

Start by doing it anyway, even if you’re nervous. It may take some pressure off approaching them if you consider it practice for when you’re ready. Sense of humor goes a long way! And look into intermittent fasting.

anyantinoise · 2021-06-11T10:33:43+00:00

Might as well practice talking/approaching now, it’ll take time to lose weight. Might as well not waste it..

Title	Where should I start?
Author	dragon_loyalty
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	June 11, 2021 5:50 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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