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Yeah he isn’t a mentally or emotionally well man. I almost feel sorry for him and he almost understands how messed up he is but he should know he’s really not the best person to be giving out advice to impressionable young people.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 03:17 PM
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He's clearly a very damaged person and freely admits he suffered from abuse and neglect as a child. I actually see that time and time again with men like that. He isn't mentally healthy and not someone anybody sane should be listening to.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 10:21 AM
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I think if you're married especially with kids then pull your weight, don't be another kid for your wife to look after, your an adult not a kid. If you fail to be a partner to her you'll make her life a misery and she'll get resentful.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 10:18 AM
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A superficial glance at a person might mean they look more attractive at first look, that's not restricted to men, women think that about women too and men. You might notice a girls beautiful hair but miss that her face is plain, you might notice a mans lean, fit body but not notice his wrinkled face and thinning hair. Everyone has experienced meeting people who at first glance are not so attractive but later you do see how attractive they are after getting to know them, this goes for men as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:10 AM
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Best of luck to you, you poor man :( I wrote a long answer to a previous comment of your's here but deleted it when I looked at your previous posts and saw all your posts about wanting to commit suicide, thats why I won't engage you any more. I don't believe its ethical to upset you any further.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 08:58 PM
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No you are deeply wrong, and everything you say shows how unhelpful your faulty thinking is. I do have counters but I just don't think it is ethical to interact with you given your current state. If you are in therapy you need a better therapist / doctor and perhaps medication, you need better help. You should also take a break from internet forum use and touch some grass as they say. Best of luck to you.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 08:39 PM
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I'm sorry you are wrong but you are clearly mentally unwell and so I don't want to indulge you any more. Seek help if you haven't already.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 07:31 PM
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Lol, no! I don't want to be mean but honestly society isn't going to collapse just because nobody wants to touch your weenie, its really not that powerful.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 06:03 PM
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Well thats not going to happen, you don't have any control of things like that so its useless to dwell on what you can't change. Here is an article you may find enlightening https://medium.com/@ossiana.tepfenhart/women-are-quietly-quitting-dating-and-theres-nothing-we-can-do-about-it-e8a95edd6542 The truth is that for a lot of women dating, relationships and men don't offer them very much, they can earn their own money, buy a home or even have a kid alone. When men come into relationships withou…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 05:59 PM
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He uses Hypergamy which is a misnomer and he uses his video's narrative to say hey guys its not your fault, its women are being too picky. He is constructing and attractive but false narrative and he isn't helping anyone with it.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 05:44 PM
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I disagree with you I think a lot of men are angry and frustrated but aside from a few seriously disturbed individuals I am not seeing a major collapse as a result, you might feel that because your life is strongly impacted by this but society won't collapse just because you can't get a girlfriend, that is projection.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 05:42 PM
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Everyone is entitled to dignity and a basic degree of human respect and I do agree that a good society provides food and shelter for those in trouble but you can't compel another person to love someone or to have sex with them, that is a huge infringement in that persons basic human right of bodily autonomy. Would you really want women to be forced to live with and sleep with a man they did not love, to have to fake caring about them because the goverment stepped in a mandated that she do so? Th…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 05:39 PM
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They always seem to base their whole world view on that one ok cupid study which isn't real life and ignore the fact that Ok Cupid also had a study showing that men also spent the most time looking at the profiles of and contacting the youngest, most attractive women even if they did email a larger number of different women there focus was mostly on the young, hot girls. This should prove one thing, online dating is an unnatural situation which turns dating and love into a consumer experiance wh…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:38 PM
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I'm sure for lots of girls too, life isn't a fairytale!
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:33 PM
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Yep, he deleted it very quick. I would have been ok with him coming back at me or something or just leaving it up there but it feels like he wants to keep tight control of his narrative and doesn't want anyone offering an alternative to his readers. I don't know maybe his channel is kind of black pill?
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:31 PM
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Its probably correct to not debate further as it seems like no matter what anyone says about this you will find a way to spin it to suit your point of view, we can all do that but thats not very productive. The truth is we all have genetic advantages and disadvantages, some outliers will have especially poor genetics and some will be lucky and have better genes than average most of us are in the middle.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/22 04:12 PM
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Your projecting so heavily here.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 08:07 PM
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So when I first met him he was so shy he could hardly speak to me, but fair enough I knew he wasn't stupid, that he was just quiet and thoughtful. But its not like high genetic quality is this one thing, he is short by many peoples standards, he has terrible eye sight. His family are carriers for a rare genetic disorder. Some people will be beautiful but not so bright, some will be smart but not so pretty.(provided they had a choice) would have been more about looks or just fancying each other, …
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 03:42 PM
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I do agree that men need safe spaces to talk and support each other without being drawn into an ideology that will radicalise them but I also don't see anything stopping men doing this for themselves. This is how many women's groups come into fruition just in someones front room with a pot of tea. I know thats not always easy to do but even things like sports teams can be great for finding connection. I do agree we need better mental health support for everyone and we all need to be kinder to ea…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 03:08 PM
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Its very difficult to engage with your comment when you call feminisim poisonous and misandric when feminism is defined as advocacy for women's rights. I think you seem very much still in the grip of red pill thinking.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 03:01 PM
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Yeah it was absolutely shocking to read that, perhaps this thinking is why some members of that community become violent themselves?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 02:57 PM
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Haha thats pretty funny! Yeah Rich Cooper is a pompous old fool and he's a massive huckster. Too bad people actually give him the money to do his grift for a living.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 02:54 PM
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Yeah that algorithm is shady af.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 02:51 PM
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Yeah I've seen them use that phrase, don't ask a fish how to catch fish, ask a fisherman. Like what has that got to do with anything? Also I have never at any point seen any proof that even the PUA's get a lot of women, not once.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 02:49 PM
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Mediocre man means some different to women than what you think it does. Read any female forum like mumsnet and see what women complain about in regards to men. It’s stuff like porn addiction, escort use, misogyny, substance abuse, gamblin, constantly hassling them for sex, not helping with the kids, leaving a mess everywhere, being selfish, checking out of family life, workaholic behaviour, excessive time and money spent on hobbies to the detriment of the kids and family life, being unreliable, …
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 11:01 AM
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Yeah this is an issue, I once tried to console a male colleague that he wasn’t ugly and he ended up obsessed with and stalking me. Ya gotta be careful all those IOI red pill guys are on about are probably women just trying to be nice most of the time. We get burned one too many times and then our defences go up, we don’t smile at men or compliment them we just keep our head down.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 10:45 AM
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Just because you “feel” something doesn’t make it true. What you are doing is making excuses for yourself to just give up and blame anyone and everything but yourself.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 10:36 AM
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I think a lot of women get messed up when they read red pill ideas because of internalised misogyny. Justpearlythings isn’t some trad wife, she’s an internet shill looking to cream off some of that money simps throw at guys like Rollo Tomassi, if she were better looking she would probably be doing only fans. You just need to be authentic and true to yourself, have your standards for the kind of treatment you’ll accept in a relationship and stick to it. Don’t get emotionally invested into someone…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 10:26 AM
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If SMV as portrayed by the red pill were true then 21 year old girls would all be marrying and sleeping with 40 something year old men but in reality this very rarely happens (much to the chagrin of 40 something red pill guys). In reality people pair off with someone around there own age whether they are 25 or 45.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:52 AM
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I do wonder how much some of these red pill gurus actually believe what they preach. I mean how many of them actually live a red pill lifestyle? Isn’t Rollo Tomassi long term married? Wasn’t Donovan Sharpes wife a single mother when he married her and she is shock horror, older than him! Troy Francis PUA guy seems genuinely miserable most of the time. I think the majority of them are shills and hucksters. They want you to stop simping for women and to simp for them instead. It’s a grift, a scam …
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:41 AM
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Yep, this is correct. Only damaged traumatised women fall for this shit. It’s very sad to think of all the damaged people out there making each other’s lives even worse.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:32 AM
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That is an amazing video, he comes off as such a clown, which is exactly what he is.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:29 AM
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I definitely think this is the case at least to some extent. They project their own sexual desires and way of quantifying the world onto all women. I also wonder if there is an element of neurodiversity at play here as well. That some people struggle to thrive socially due to brain differences and as a result need to endlessly quantify and create a (bogus) theoretical roadmap they feel will help them understand and engage with others? In other words it’s a maladaptive coping strategy?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:27 AM
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I’m sorry but his is nonsense. When I met my now husband I was a student who had just started a summer job in a factory. He walked into the canteen and for me it was love / infatuation at first sight. FYI he was 5 foot 8, and wore glasses so hardly the archetypal Chad. I fell for him because he was cute, sweet, thoughtful, loving, he was just easy to be with, we had common interests, we were from similar backgrounds. It turned out he was an engineering student but at the time I wouldn’t have car…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 09:09 AM
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Hmm I've wondered that myself, that many might be homosexual.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 11:26 PM
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What's the real evidence for thus other than anecdotes? What about the stats that show men are far more likely to leave their spouse if they become seriously ill while women are more likely to stick by their ill spouse? Does that make men disloyal by nature? You can't just take extreme examples and then extrapolate it as representative of inherent traits to all women or all men butbthats just what red pill snake oil merchants do, they are blowing smoke up your ass.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 11:06 PM
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Some women and men freak out about aging, they may or may not be single, they might get surgery or dress "young" someone like Rollo Tomassi is a bit like this, dresses like he's still young despite looking a lot older than his years with a cats bum mouth. Is he a post wall man? He's certainly not sexually or otherwise physically attractive. Everyone ages and everyone will have anxieties about that but concepts like "the wall" are conceived to belittle and dehumanise women. Women 50+ still find l…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 10:46 PM
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It's not most men so please don't worry, it's definitely disconcerting to realise that even a small minority of men fundamentally hate women and don't see us as human but most guys are decent people. Just always pay attention to his actions and how he treats you, watch out for abusive behaviours that try to undermine your self esteem especially when your dating. That's a big red flag for abusive tendencies.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:19 PM
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I really have my doubts that any of the red pill guys have any success with anyone but extremely damaged women who are perhaps drawn to men who will treat them badly. Perhaps its all just a negative cycle reinforcement? But yeah most every woman will pass on these men the minute she catches a whiff of those views.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 09:00 PM
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Well quite! I get it though unrequited love or limerance is tough, it hurts. Most of us have been there and it sucks and it can derail your life if you let it but ultimately its something you do to yourself. You are the one that indulged in fantasies that activated your reward system and got you hooked on the idea of the Relationship way before you actually knew there was any hope for it, you are the one who clings on to that fantasy even after the rejection occurs to ensure maximum suffering. R…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:57 PM
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Well I think Women are more likely to leave poor relationships than in the past but why do they leave? In many cases due to poor behaviour by their spouse, cheating, substance abuse, porn addiction, checking out of family life through work addiction or excessive time spent on hobbies as a way to shirk family duties, not pulling their weight domestically, leaving all the mental load to women. Of course women can be the asshole as well but often the tendency is to see women initiate more divorces …
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:46 PM
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