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doriangreat/r/seduction02/01/14 09:29 PM
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doriangreat/r/seduction13/05/13 08:27 PM
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This is all great advice. One more thing for date prep, clean your house and your car! Even if you throw everything in the closet.
/r/seduction02/12/19 12:34 AM
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Wrong When you approach a girl it’s a binary choice. She’s not comparing you to hundreds of guys, she’s looking at you and thinking, “this guy: yes or no?” ...She might be comparing you to one or two guys she’s seeing or likes, but that’s it
/r/seduction26/12/18 02:33 PM
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One increasingly common trend in my area is a "woman's bathroom" and a "family bathroom". So women have access to both rooms, and men have to use the one labeled as a family bathroom. Men are not the priority.
/r/MensRights04/09/16 01:56 PM
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Isolate her , "hey girl, follow me over here for a second" Go to an empty area, being playful all the way. "This should work" Eye contact. When she asks what you're doing there, say "I didn't want to do this in front of our friends" If she is keeping eye contact, dive bomb in for that kiss
/r/seduction12/05/14 11:41 PM
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ASAP. In my experience, 7 days or more makes a second date nearly impossible. 3 or more makes her colder, especially if she's hot. My advice: -vaguely mention she seems cool and you want to see her again towards the end of the date (after you've started getting physical) -follow up the next day by inviting her out again (or inviting her in) -take her out that night or the next day. Don't do another first date: use the momentum and rapport you've built to make it intimate
/r/seduction23/01/14 06:53 AM
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I have a checklist I run through for date ideas. Your idea hits them all: opportunity to build trust: check opportunity to demonstrate value: check cheap: check multiple locations: check opportunity for touching: check opportunity to escalate in private: check Yep, this is a solid date idea.
/r/seduction02/01/14 11:01 PM
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I'm a 20 year old who lives in the suburbs, so my options are somewhat limited. My standard is: dinner, pool, dvd at my place. Other dates: coffee, walk in park, video games at my place lunch, mini-golf, "come check this thing out" at my place. checking out christmas lights, snowball fight, etc I like to do one activity for talking, one activity that is competitive or active, and then one activity that is in a private setting.
/r/seduction02/01/14 09:31 PM
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Exactly. Like Oprah and Kate Upton are both HB10s. A girl might normally be an HB6, but an HB8 on her birthday.
/r/seduction26/12/13 11:20 PM
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Alright, you've done meditation for 180 days, right? That takes discipline. I challenge you to use the same discipline to go a week without making excuses or being negative. Say yes to new experiences and be fun. If you're still the same by the end of that week, PM me and I'll buy you a pizza.
/r/seduction19/12/13 10:34 PM
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Oh jeez, you used tinder?? Fuck man... Better go live in the woods as a hermit and marry a moose. Why are you so negative and needy? Be positive and go for the little victories. Expecting to find love as a needy virgin is like expecting to destroy a death star with a tiny x-wing fighter (ok bad metaphor). You're clearly a smart dude, so you must know that your head isn't right. That comes off in your vibe, and girls can sense that shit.
/r/seduction19/12/13 10:03 PM
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What the hell does this even mean? "Rejection" is a word for when she's not interested. Your pinterest quote is bumper sticker garbage.
/r/seduction22/10/13 04:41 PM
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Can we make this a thing? I enjoyed that, and picked up a couple things. I'll do what I can to contribute.
/r/seduction01/10/13 04:13 AM
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It really, really depends on the person and the text. Sending a girl stuff like "Hey, whats up?" "Cool, I'm just chilling. What did you have to eat?" will cost you almost always. However, funny and entertaining texts will earn you points, and keep you on her mind. "Hey! I just saw something crazy that reminded me of you!" for example, is not a bad thing. You are definitely correct that most people go overboard because they are insecure.
/r/seduction17/09/13 06:58 PM
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Last year in my Judo class. It's hazy. think I said something like, "after beating me up like that, you owe me dinner" or something. Believe it or not, she was a masochist and it got weird real quick.
/r/seduction11/09/13 03:33 AM
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I've never seen or heard this anywhere. Are you saying I should drive to another campus? I don't understand. Of course you should practice at your school. Just don't be creepy, and it won't be creepy.
/r/seduction09/09/13 01:34 PM
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"No, I'm ok, thanks"
/r/seduction07/09/13 10:55 PM
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Sidenote. Most "nice guys" aren't actually nice guys. -If you're only being nice to her because you want to fuck her, you're not a nice guy. -If you expect a woman to like you because you were nice to her, you're not a nice guy. -If you tell her what you think she wants to hear, instead of what you really think, you're not a nice guy. I've got a bunch of these. I feel like Jeff Foxworthy.
/r/seduction02/09/13 06:52 PM
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That's pretty clever. Would have helped me back in the day. Nowadays I like to brush her hair back and touch the back of her neck. But that's just me.
/r/seduction01/09/13 05:44 AM
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My favorite place is the dining hall at my school. I go to the dining hall alone a lot, and I started to notice a good amount of girls do too. They don't expect it, but usually appreciate company
/r/seduction21/07/13 04:57 PM
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I almost feel bad, he's got such a delusional view of his reality. Yo OP, stop bitching about dick size and go talk to a girl. Worrying about how the sex will be when you can't even talk to or dance with a broad is like worrying about winning a spelling bee when you don't know how to read.
/r/seduction15/07/13 05:24 PM
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In addition, try not to talk about WE RAPE. Weight, Exes, Religion, Abortion, Politics, Economics
/r/seduction14/07/13 04:17 PM
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Just be genuine, have no agenda, give her the freedom to feel comfortable. Example You: "Hi nametag, real quick! Do you like coffee?" Her: yes, kinda, whatever (Who says no to that question?) You: "Cool, I noticed you from my table over there, and I have this theory that you're an interesting person when you're not working as a waitress. If I could get your number, we could test my theory by getting coffee" This has a bunch of pua stuff in it that make it work. If anything will work, this will. …
/r/seduction12/07/13 11:19 PM
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If you don't see her again within a week of the first date, 95% chance it's over. 3 days or less is best. Can you call or text her? If so, do it now.
/r/seduction12/07/13 12:49 AM
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Thanks man. But it doesn't even seem to matter what I say as long as it's ridiculous and challenges them a bit.
/r/seduction13/05/13 10:40 PM
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Escalate to discredit. "It's true, I'm just a mild mannered reporter for the daily bugle" or whatever. Then flash the girls a conspiratory grin, like they're in on a joke your friend doesn't understand. Girls aren't stupid. They'll see he's being a prick. Use it to your advantage.
/r/seduction13/05/13 10:39 PM
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DO NOT get a bike for the girls. Get one because you love riding. You won't be able to handle a passenger for months, and it's something you have to commit to. I love my motorcycle, but the girls I've gotten with it have little to do with why. And as serux pointed out, only a certain group are super into it. Good girls need to be seduced into riding with you.
/r/seduction08/05/13 04:16 PM
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Looks good! But a couple of things... You wrote more than she did. Not a huge deal, but aim for 50/50. You didn't qualify or challenge her at all. Probably not an issue, but the "You do ____? That's awesome!" thing gets old if that's your reaction to everything she says.
/r/seduction11/03/13 11:50 PM
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Apparently it's stdmatch.net. My bad, I've never been on the site personally
/r/seduction15/02/13 04:40 AM
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Stdmatch.com. This isn't the end for you, my friend!
/r/seduction15/02/13 01:36 AM
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It's not easy to get over. I have a tip though. Instead of looking back and thinking about the girl you lost, look ahead. Repeat to yourself, "I'll find another one" It could be that cute girl at the store. Your soul mate could be that redhead who just dropped her purse. Go find another one! By focusing on the past, you could be missing out on someone amazing.
/r/seduction29/01/13 04:07 AM
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Yo! I got this one! The box is your ego, the key is your passion, the lining is your self image, and the three items are things that are significant to you as a person, or things important to you growing up. After all that, ask her to bury the box. Where she buries it tells you where she feels comfortable. Then ask if you can hold on to the key for her. Source: I think I played this last year, but a lot of that is made up.
/r/seduction19/01/13 02:40 PM
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Dont say the drunk one. Any guy who tries to hook up with you after you say that is trash.
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:40 AM
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You're going about it wrong. There is far more to it than kino and setting a sexual tone. Before doing either you need to be cocky funny like your peers are. Being sexual and touching her before she's attracted to you is creepy. I'm not surprised it kills the vibe.
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:38 AM
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I love James bond but I hate this article. It's written backwards, like the author came up with the concept first and streches bond's attributes to try to make them fit Plus, the article looks at attraction like an AFC. "you need to be handsome and tall, stand in a corner, don't smile, and the women will sniff you out and fuck you" the shit pick up has proven either wrong or not important. I personally believe bond gets laid from his one liners and smile.
/r/seduction08/01/13 06:38 AM
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Two truths and a lie. It's where you have her come up with 3 things about herself, 2 truths 1 lie. Pay attention to where her eyes move as she says them, and tease her about her statements as you try to get a read on her. Stuff like "You're a Yankees fan? I hope that one is a lie, i thought you seemed intelligent!" Crap like that to get her laughing, engaged, and qualifying herself. For fun, when its your turn, make all 3 lies. It's a game! You're a former cowboy who worked as a male stripper un…
/r/seduction07/01/13 05:05 AM
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In my opinion seddit puts too much faith in the number close. It's a good move to pull when you want to see her again, but getting it after talking to her for a minute like this likely won't lead to anything. It's better to get it when you're in the middle or towards the end of a memorable conversation. Otherwise you're just some dude who made her give up her number. A number close is only as good as the method used to get it.
/r/seduction03/01/13 05:11 PM
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Stop looking at girls for worth/value. Girl's like a man they "think they can change", but they don't want a project. Fix yourself outside the realm of seduction before trying to seduce more girls. Oh, and cut off all contact with the girls who have "friend-zoned" you (even though the friend zone isn't a real thing, it's something guys have invented to justify co-dependency with a girl who isn't interested)
/r/seduction15/12/12 05:48 AM
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A lot of people hate Tyler, but this video is pretty spot on. Watch the whole thing: video
/r/seduction10/12/12 04:57 AM
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Go do some form of this by yourself: http://www.youtube.com/user/SimplePickup Its fun.
/r/seduction07/12/12 02:51 AM
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It's a shit test! I've learned to tell her to "Shut up and stop saying ridiculous things" It does seem a little harsh, but it'll be incredibly reassuring to her, without sounding dishonest or like you're only telling her what you think she wants to hear.
/r/seduction07/12/12 02:32 AM
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I've done both, and I know which works better. But yeah, I guess it could be misinterpreted by a girl reading it off a computer screen.
/r/seduction06/12/12 03:17 PM
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Yeah, I'm pretty sick of, "I have approach anxiety. Advice plz?" and "Thank you so much seddit I talked to a girl my journey is over!!!"
/r/seduction06/12/12 06:34 AM
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Are you a girl? You wouldn't interpret it that way if it was said with confidence and a smile (the only way to say it) I'm not changing it because most girls love it when the guy tells them how things are going to be.
/r/seduction06/12/12 06:28 AM
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Exactly. But there are downsides to consider with each: If you don't pay, she might think you're cheap or don't like her. If you do pay, she might feel like you want her to "owe you something" or you "expect something later" Which is a turnoff. When I pay, I like to say, "You'll get the next one." It's a great compromise and if she agrees, she's subconsciously already agreeing to another date.
/r/seduction06/12/12 05:49 AM
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Try slydial first to listen to her voicemail directly. Sometimes she'll say her name in the message and you're off the hook. Or call her from another phone, ask if John is there. When she says no, say "well who am i speaking to?" Boom. Just disguise your voice (easy to do since she doesn't know you that well. Worth a shot!
/r/seduction05/11/12 03:54 PM
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So you think insecurity is a natural state of mind? I don't. I think it's something society teaches us. We're taught that if you're good at something, you're supposed to be modest. And you're never gonna be cool, funny, handsome, thin, or muscular enough no matter what you do. Isn't it better to smile and say "there's nothing fundamentally wrong with me, I'm just a little shy. I'm gonna go change that by talking to that hot girl, and not be hung up on my own bullshit"?
/r/seduction27/10/12 10:37 PM
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I have a mantra I like to repeat to myself whenever I can't stop thinking of a girl. Just this, "find another one." Like it's something you're ordering yourself to do. Repeat that when the thoughts start creeping in. It's over, you lost, but you will find another one. So find another one. This random chick is nothing special.
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:33 AM
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You're always going to find reasons why you suck at getting girls if you look for them. Stop it. Everyone has their shit.
/r/seduction20/10/12 04:34 PM
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Will do. I wouldn't credit him for something I developed separately, though.
/r/seduction18/09/12 07:19 PM
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Seriously, everyone on here tells you to "just approach and be confident" ...like the right words are just gonna come to you as your throat dries up, your knees get weak, and your brain is screaming at you to run away. Hope I helped some people out with mine.
/r/seduction17/09/12 11:23 AM
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I have no idea who that is.
/r/seduction17/09/12 11:16 AM
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I agree, this is something I need to work on. I know all about conversation threading, but I have trouble with openers.
/r/seduction16/09/12 10:29 PM
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Good point. I feel like I need to replace it with something, though. ""Hi, you're really cute and I'd be kicking myself all day if I didn't come say hi to you" Sounds like I'm commenting on her rather than talking to her.
/r/seduction16/09/12 10:26 PM
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TL;DR Guy is acquaintance with an extremely hot girl from work. They go out for coffee date, he gives shallow replies when she looks for depth. He gets clingy as she backs off. He is shocked when hot girl eventually gets boyfriend. <---Hope that clears some stuff up for you, man.
/r/seduction16/09/12 06:51 AM
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Although he painted himself into a corner, I think there is a way out. If he were to pull her aside at some point and say, "There's something I need to tell you." Her mind will be racing with 'is he gonna break up with me?' 'Did he cheat on me?' big stuff. Then something like, "I'm 22. I lied about my age to seem more mature. Pretty immature, huh?" Will throw her for a loop and they may even laugh it off.
/r/seduction16/09/12 03:31 AM
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Honestly, in my opinion, this is pretty backwards. Few women are comfortable approaching (or feel like that's their job). Men are hunters, not gatherers. It's not beta at all to approach a woman and wow her by being confident and interesting. If you can just sit around at a bar and consistently pull women, all power to you. But you're gonna be doing the same thing dozens of shy, unconfident guys do.
/r/seduction16/09/12 02:37 AM
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Always assume attraction, proceed from there. Make it her job to tell you if she isn't into you, and you won't be friend zoned.
/r/seduction13/09/12 08:58 PM
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You're probably gonna be nervous as hell, so keep it simple. Pick a girl out. She'll be with other girls, and some of her friends will be dancing with guys. Make sure to pick a girl who will feel secure dancing with you, especially in front of her friends. Start walking toward her. Not too fast, but confident. Once you start walking, don't stop or slow down. Tap her on the shoulder or touch her back with your palm. Two words, "Wanna dance?" If she says yes or sure, jump on it. If she says no or …
/r/seduction13/09/12 04:37 AM
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