How soon should there be a second date?

doriangreat · 2014-01-23T06:53:15+00:00

ASAP. In my experience, 7 days or more makes a second date nearly impossible. 3 or more makes her colder, especially if she's hot. My advice:

-vaguely mention she seems cool and you want to see her again towards the end of the date (after you've started getting physical) -follow up the next day by inviting her out again (or inviting her in) -take her out that night or the next day. Don't do another first date: use the momentum and rapport you've built to make it intimate

RagingOrator · 2014-01-23T13:43:50+00:00

When your schedule allows.

Dating should only be one aspect of a busy life, and the fact is you shouldn't make yourself available whenever you think it would suit her.

You can use a little texting to keep the rapport built, but let's be clear here. The harder something is to get the more valuable it is. If she knows she has access to you whenever she won't respect you for it.

cookem8 · 2014-01-23T22:01:46+00:00

Whenever it's convenient for you as a busy man. Definitely don't give her the impression that you're just waiting around to see her. I wouldn't wait longer than a week to set something up though.

worldclassmathlete · 2014-01-26T16:21:35+00:00

Second date should be fit into your life. Make her feel that seeing her is important, so you will fit her into your busy awesome life.

Personally, I like the casual follow up, cooking dinner, lunch date, something light and fun, so you can smile and charm.

2-3 days after is where I like to "fit her into my schedule."

Title	How soon should there be a second date?
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Date	January 23, 2014 6:06 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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