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Discussiondoyadum/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:42 PM
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Discussiondoyadum/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:14 AM
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Just some added context- We have like more than 30 layers of social classes. The anglo indians (Brits living in india) Have British culture of clubs.partying etc. With time things have changed. Earlier partying like this was considered as a sin but suddenly it's a okay , with new generation being parents. So it get very confusing everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:46 AM
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My best guess is he's a converted muslim.( I am not muslim but I don't hate them too, i just don't like the converted ones). He's black and most probably illegal migrant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:40 PM
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I don't know what green pill you took but very similar feelings this side too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:37 PM
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Yeh internet sometimes get very polar
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:34 PM
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I apologise , immoral might have been a very harsh word that I used.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:33 PM
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My great grandmother was a flapper, and this was in the 1920s! Can we also factor in the fashion that has changed over the years , earlier by the 80s they didn't have that skin tight very uncomfortable and revealing clothes considered appropriate for clubs( i might be wrong on this part) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:31 PM
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I guess that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:29 PM
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Well the wisest thing to do in life is to do nothing. But I do get your point though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:27 PM
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But in the UK amongst White British people if you said you thought single women shouldn't dress in revealing outfits or go clubbing you would be viewed as weird. Yes I know, the man that got caught is most probably immigrant(he's black ), however I too have seen demeaning comments more from white men , now idk if it's brit or not. ,but they sure are white as cotton.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:25 PM
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There was the same reel on insta from a page of women and the comment section was filled with calls for creep , arrest him , punish him etc. And the same reel on the men page. And the comment section was filled with saying" these are the women that are going to be mothers and hide from their children what despo attention seeker they were" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:16 PM
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I think that's exactly what she said .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:11 PM
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Can you find that thread . I as a man think - even if you think the women are being "sluts" what that guy is doing is more disgusting than that. Though there isn't technical logic to it but what he did is clear that he's doing it out of hatred. He's trying to convey a message "look here are sluts , shame them."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:09 PM
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You can say it's immoral to record them like that ,just like you can say it's immoral for the women to dress and go to club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:06 PM
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The controversy - https://www.indy100.com/tiktok/manchester-nightlife-women-tiktok-account This is the dummy video link- https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IK5cqy_LWzY
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:04 PM
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Why is it weird I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:56 PM
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I personally don't think it's wrong to record a creep. You have given a good comparison though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:56 PM
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Where is the hypocrisy? You slept your way through time ,why do you think she'll accept that behaviour of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:02 AM
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I'd be honest, I didn't get the conclusions of other thread you mentioned Though your last sentence could make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:00 AM
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Nvm , this looks like an interesting topic to research on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:28 PM
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I read a study about porn once that said the more degrading content is actually liked by men who tend to have a higher regard for women. I understand the reason. Could you somehow give the link for that article.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:16 PM
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But let’s face facts, a lot of the dudes wouldn’t give two-shits about “hookup culture” if the girls they thought weren’t pretty were the only ones doing it Can i just say that Its the average looking girl that hook up more , The pretty ones are so secure that they don't engage in this culture mostly ,they have a really great long term boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:03 PM
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By that logic I can say The loudest girls screaming against “ privileges” know damn well that they don’t have it in them (for whatever reason) to be part of it. So they try to “shame” others in a lame attempt to try and hurt enough people’s self esteem that they’d instead “settle” for the more “trad-con” life. It's almost like saying" look man i can fit entire apple my mouth at once , you cant , you are jealous of how wide my mouth opens "
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:53 PM
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To be very fucking honest , i am not scared of getting raped , i am scared of death , women are afraid of both . Not to mention the victim blaming that comes after rapes . I am not scared of someone touching me inappropriately . I am very much sure that when it comes to fight like animals I can beat half of population
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:48 PM
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I mean he laid out indicators not a checklist , there are some things that are deal breakers and something that can be adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:45 PM
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You couldn't have put this better , it's like our desires and sense of right or wrong doesn't always matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:39 PM
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I think most men in the west are just sleeping around, as much as they can. Just a follow up question, are these the same men that complain " no good women around"? If yes , why the hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:37 PM
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i casually dated for the better part of a decade but eventually met someone i wanted to get serious with. What was the connection like? Was she okay with you casually dating for a decade?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:35 PM
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I kinda get it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:33 PM
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Thank you for your time too , it was a pleasant conversation and I'll keep your insights for any opinion i make in future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:56 PM
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I understand that the identity is linked to the action of sleeping with a bunch of people, but does it have to be an identity? I think I can say for majority people it have to . Some find another reason to make peace If you sleep with 3 people or 20 people, does it change anything about your true identity as a person? If you are comparing number 3 and 20 then , hell yeah. I can understand that a person in 10 year span liked 3 people, but 20 , how low should you feel to switch as fast. But if I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:29 AM
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But taking away that analogy….why is disgusting to have slept with a bunch of people in the first place, whether it is easy or hard? Having something be easy to obtain shouldn’t make you disgusting just because you have decided to partake in it. Same reason why do people marry , can't they live together have children without labeling it and making laws around it? Same reason why you as a women will try to avoid being in the room full of men ? Same reason why people wear bikinis and shorts on bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:59 AM
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Or I think we can say that the same way women are jealous of men for their privileges , men are jealous of women for their privileges?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:23 AM
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I get the jealousy part. For some reason, when women sleep with a bunch of men it’s “disgusting” but when men sleep with a bunch of women it’s considered cool. For the reason part- as many comments mentioned it's difficult to sleep with bunch of women hence the outcome is perceived cool. Whereas it's easy to sleep with bunch of men it's "disgusting". One comparison could be , it's really hard to build muscles and an aesthetic body therefore it's "attractive" whereas to be a fat person the easies…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:17 AM
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You literally noticed that there's no word for a man who sleeps with whoever he wants, Yes there isn't a derogatory word for that . The word fuck boy exists but doesn't come anywhere near calling a lady slut etc. And you've missed the whole level of misogyny in that, and wondering why women choose to put their standards where they do? There are also words like "incels" that could be used for a man . Heck even simpler words like "virgin looser" is enough. Can I say there is misandary in that? And…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:11 AM
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do you think there's a shortage of guys who will be willing to lie for sex? Very fair point I get that. The probability of being a fuck boy is lower than being a probability of being a slut. I get it now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:59 AM
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Look around man , marriages are not failing , some parts of usa maybe but look at Europe even though with large feminism movements the marriages are held there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:47 AM
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I get it why you say that , i should have been clear that I am not from the west. The westernization started mearly 30 years ago , my culture believe heavily in monogamy and I understand how people from west have very different opinions of things. From the child hood , the concept of dating is introduced and kids aren't really appreciated to stay within the family
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:34 AM
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I don't think most men aren't manwhores due to a lack of want, it more that they're incapable for whatever reason. In my observation it's easy But extremely immoral . As a man to become like that you have to lie and have to behave like a douche you'd never want near any female of your family or friends. You know the "greasy" ones . The "heartless cold bastards". The one most men recognise at first glance and women still fall for them . The majority of them aren't attractively looking or rich .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:30 AM
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Okay i get it , your best way to keep on with life is to have prostitutes . I kinda get that , but i also think that having prostitutes all over will even slimmer your chances of getting a good girl. But as you said you have left hope , i understand your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:23 AM
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And that indicators will be???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:20 AM
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Just a thought, have you ever considered to find and cherish someone lower than your standards? Passport bro's are getting very common these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:15 AM
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If fucking is all that matters than i guess your life choices suit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:12 AM
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Yeh that's what I am aiming to explore. Could you kindly explain what are the points I am making well and what parts I am missing. I am pretty sure I am finding it hard to see the " bigger picture" and it'll feel good knowing I landed an opinion on one of my thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:07 AM
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Near 60 ,why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:02 AM
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Okay i get the sex part and what about the care part? Even if you pay a whore to act as a perfect girlfriend you for sure know she's not for real , it's just your money speaking. If you like this arrangement then it's fine though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:54 AM
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Okay i get your point sex being transactional Just to be clear the "whore" here in my post means "sluts".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:40 AM
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Every woman can become a whore, not every man can become a whoremonger. Thats why. That's a great reason . Just to be very clear does this reason is enough for you to justify certain types of women in your life. If not - how do you make peace with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:34 AM
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Because I want a stable relationship and children, not meaningless hedonism? To be very honest as per my belief after a point of time majority of women will be in a stable of relationship and could give you a children. My question is can you and will you look past her (if there are) previous relationships and hoe phases. There's still a few out there that aren't, might as well give it a try. I appreciate the optimism . However what makes you sure that she's not the lying. I have seen many women …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:29 AM
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Wait so how come you'd be red pill? Don't you want monogamy etc??? Or am i missing something here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:23 AM
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Well I could not find a derogatory word for a male who fucks every other female, basically male version of a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:22 AM
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