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Outer Game dpjglad/r/seduction23/09/25 01:17 PM
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Inner Game dpjglad/r/seduction26/06/25 08:37 PM
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Inner Game dpjglad/r/seduction02/09/25 10:57 PM
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Logisticsdpjglad/r/seduction22/07/25 07:35 PM
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Outer Game dpjglad/r/seduction22/10/25 12:52 AM
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This is pretty much exactly what I had in mind. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:58 PM
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Fantastic advice all around. Thanks!
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:55 PM
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What does indirect game entail? Is that simply asking normal non-flirtatious questions to open off such as where you’re from and what you do etc.?
/r/seduction23/09/25 01:47 PM
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Yep I do it with friends as well as dates. I think of it as just common courtesy especially when my social plans are ending later at night
/r/seduction03/09/25 08:06 PM
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Sometimes it is sometimes it isn’t. More often than not they honestly just forget. If I don’t hear back after 45 mins to an hour I just say something like “hope you got home safe”. If they simply forgot to respond they’ll then respond nicely and say thanks had a good time or something like that and I’ll do what I said earlier. If they don’t respond this second time I immediately assume they’re not interested and I stop trying.
/r/seduction03/09/25 08:05 PM
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If they don’t come back with you, I typically tell them to text me when they get back safe. Once they respond I say something along the lines of: “I had a great time and I’d love to do it again. How about [date/time]?”. Doing it this way on the same night has never been an issue for me.
/r/seduction03/09/25 01:03 PM
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I think you’re missing my point. I don’t struggle with enjoying myself and having fun, but by solely doing that it’s creating the expectation that people come to me, which they don’t. So I need to bridge the gap between enjoying myself/my surroundings and putting myself out there.
/r/seduction02/09/25 11:53 PM
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I’ve been trying to mostly do that and simply go to places I enjoy the music and am happy to dance by myself and have fun regardless of the people around me but that isn’t translating into results when I’m psyching myself out of making any actual approaches.
/r/seduction02/09/25 11:44 PM
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I greatly appreciate the offer and would love to take you up on it but I’m stuck with family doing touristy stuff all day and nighttime is the only time I’ll be able to be out and about independently unfortunately. I’m a 6’0” 27 yo guy. Also average fitness nothing special but not fat.
/r/seduction02/09/25 11:43 PM
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It’s not that one night going well will reinforce the idea that it’s all gonna be successes from here, as much as the idea that my first night of success will prove to myself I’m capable of replicating that in the future and I feel like a night out on vacation is lower stakes from a psychological point of view and seems like a good starting point. It’s hardly like if nothing happens tomorrow I will internalize the idea that I’m incapable of it but I feel like tomorrow is as good a time as any to…
/r/seduction02/09/25 11:42 PM
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I just bought that book last week after seeing it mentioned here before. I haven’t started it yet but I will definitely this week
/r/seduction23/07/25 12:07 AM
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Ironically our only inside joke is talking about “red or green flags” which originated from sharing dating horror stories we’ve both previously experienced lol
/r/seduction23/07/25 12:00 AM
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Any recommended readings or resources to help change my mindset so I’m not getting down bad over failed romances in the future? lol
/r/seduction22/07/25 11:53 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction22/07/25 11:34 PM
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Great advice. Thanks so much I will do exactly that. While I’m here, any good books or resources you recommend on improving my game and/or improving my self value? Definitely something i struggle with in general, as you can tell from the needy vibes my texts clearly give off
/r/seduction22/07/25 10:37 PM
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I don’t have social media so I can’t do the first half. Would unsolicited plans without the instagram buildup come across differently than if I was posting being out and about, or is the sentiment the same regardless?
/r/seduction22/07/25 09:55 PM
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Intriguing like what?
/r/seduction22/07/25 09:24 PM
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Does someone wanna talk me out of sending the following text to her? Hey… I know you said you weren’t interested in this but I thought I’d give it one last shot and see if you wanna grab drinks this week? I understand what you said about personalities only aligning as friends but I honestly didn’t get friendship vibes from when we hung out in person, and I didn’t get the impression you did either. I know I’m a lame texter and that probs contributed towards things but I def felt like the vibes in…
/r/seduction22/07/25 09:24 PM
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Any suggestions on that front? Should I probe for some clarification on the question thing? Disregard everything that’s happened and just pitch plans? Idk lol
/r/seduction22/07/25 09:05 PM
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I did not, I am trying to figure out how to go about it, or if I shouldn’t even bother. I feel like I have nothing to lose but I don’t know how to reopen the door without looking desperate
/r/seduction22/07/25 08:56 PM
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Kino? Not familiar with that term. I did escalate flirting and tease in person, but I can never translate flirtatiousness into text I struggle with it every time it’s honestly why half my situationships end anticlimactically
/r/seduction22/07/25 08:50 PM
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I know I should probably just walk away but it feels like a missed opportunity and I don’t want to give up too easily if there’s a shot at recovering
/r/seduction22/07/25 07:41 PM
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“Yeah I think we did get along well in the friendship side of a relationship. I find to translate to a relationship, personalities have to be more aligned than in friendships. Regardless of Covid/my friend I would have come to this conclusion at some point and I don’t want to lead you on or put more energy into something I just don’t see working”
/r/seduction22/07/25 07:38 PM
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I appreciate all this advice it’s super insightful! I will add tho that I don’t actually struggle with rejection honestly I usually take it in stride. If anything, I struggle with working up the nerve to do the initial approach. When I do talk myself into it and it goes my way, great! When it doesn’t, I usually don’t get too hung up on it. I think I struggle with acknowledging my own self worth and that causes me to psyche myself out of initiating in the first place, despite the fact that a fail…
/r/seduction27/06/25 12:13 AM
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Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:10 PM
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Thank you!!! I’ll have to get out there and give it a shot
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:09 PM
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Thanks for this advice! Any suggestions on what I should practice and how to do so? You mentioned one example by saying “practice flirting by going and doing it” but anything else you’d suggest? Flirting is only one specific example of the overarching issue, so any suggestions on other skills to hone and how to hone them would be great
/r/seduction26/06/25 08:58 PM
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