dpr42 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
90	Why being yourself and playing a numbers game just makes the most sense if your actually looking for a meaningful relationship	Inner Game	dpr42	/r/seduction	15/09/20 06:17 AM

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3	How do I talk about the topics that she is interested in that are also meaningful I personally believe you’re worried too much about losing her. You should be polarizing and filtering her out for yourself. If what you find interesting is boring to her then you really don’t want her anyway do you? Also you don’t have to just talk about your self the whole time but I’ll get to that in a sec. I was guilty of your mindset and it’s because I wasn’t confident that I could find another girl once I was already talking to one. First off, if your texting her, stop that. Unless you guys…	/r/seduction	16/09/20 02:45 AM
2	How do I talk about the topics that she is interested in that are also meaningful I think you have the wrong mindset friend. My advice, talk about what you are interested in and find meaningful. If she’s interested in talking about that then great! You guys are probably good match. If not? Oh well, don’t think about it too much. Find a girl who is! It sounds like you are focused on one girl in this post. I hope I’m wrong but I’ve been there. It’s tough but you shouldn’t need to “start making her feel good” for her to start initiating conversation. If you do, then she probably…	/r/seduction	16/09/20 12:54 AM
6	Just be a man “Don’t overthink, ask girls out, and move on quickly” is honestly the best advice anyone can hear to attracting women. Once I started adopting this mindset, I realized it really wasn’t all that complicated and there’s a lot of bullshit on this subreddit.	/r/seduction	16/09/20 12:41 AM
1	Why being yourself and playing a numbers game just makes the most sense if your actually looking for a meaningful relationship It honestly sounds like you are advocating for guys to talk to as little chicks as possible and put all their eggs in one basket with one girl. I’m saying don’t waste time where you don’t need too. You’re also missing my message that you attract who you are. If you don’t put effort into your appearance then you will probably attract a girl who also doesn’t put effort in her appearance. So if you want a girl who puts effort in her appearance then you should as well. Also wearing poor fitting clot…	/r/seduction	16/09/20 12:35 AM
2	Why being yourself and playing a numbers game just makes the most sense if your actually looking for a meaningful relationship Very true. Thanks!	/r/seduction	15/09/20 06:46 PM
3	Why being yourself and playing a numbers game just makes the most sense if your actually looking for a meaningful relationship I think you are misinterpreting what I am saying. First off if your goal is just to get laid then my post isn’t really for you. If that was the case, I’d argue that working on your social skills and growing some balls is the most important thing. But if you’re looking for a meaningful relationship then it shouldn’t matter if you’re awkward or weird. Find a girl who is the same awkward and weird as you. It might take 1000 girls to find her but that’s why we play a numbers game. You attract who yo…	/r/seduction	15/09/20 06:44 PM
1	Why being yourself and playing a numbers game just makes the most sense if your actually looking for a meaningful relationship I use social media, dating apps, and bars/clubs. However, it could literally be anywhere that’s just the easiest path for me. You can talk to girls anywhere.	/r/seduction	15/09/20 06:31 PM
2	Why being yourself and playing a numbers game just makes the most sense if your actually looking for a meaningful relationship This is kind of the point of my post though. You’re looking at it like he missed out on that girl but I see it as he wasted as little time as possible with a girl who wasn’t what he was looking for. This is why I said a numbers game is important. Because in order to have this attitude you need to not be worried about turning girls away because the girl who WILL talk about BDSM and torture sex in 10 minutes will respond positively to you and she could be the very next girl you hit up. However, yo…	/r/seduction	15/09/20 06:29 PM