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I’ve shaved my head before and I don’t look good bald
/r/askTRP18/10/19 08:51 PM
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Yeah this makes a lot of sense and is what I’m afraid of. It’s had a pretty brutal effect on my appearance.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 07:03 PM
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Thinking about using finasteride and rogaine. Balding is fucking horrible.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 05:48 PM
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Any hair replacement systems you recommend?
/r/askTRP18/10/19 05:42 PM
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A lot of people are saying “just do it” but as someone who had severe social anxiety it is not always that simple. Would you tell someone who has a phobia of roller coasters to “just get on it bro”? No, phobias are complex and require strategic action to reduce the fear conditioning response and extinguish the fear. I would recommend taking baby steps through an exposure therapy program. First, ask 5 hot girls for the time. Keep repeating this until you feel comfortable with it. Then, you can bu…
/r/seduction08/07/19 09:40 PM
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I’d argue that it is an essential component for reducing approach anxiety. Clinical research on exposure therapy shows that there are two major components to successfully reduce the social phobia of a patient. The first component focuses on the irrational probability of embarrassment, while the second focuses on the irrational cost of embarrassment. Let’s use a guy who’s afraid of talking to girl as an example. Component 1: “I’m gonna fuck this up.” Often times, a guy is scared of talking to gir…
/r/seduction06/07/19 11:06 PM
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Here’s the truth: Looks matter A LOT. But it’s also true that you can still be successful with women regardless of your looks. Are you going to have to work much harder than good looking tall guy? Fuck yes you are. If you want to succeed at this you have to have thick skin, persistence, and a burning desire to succeed. You have to be willing to take all the insults, blow outs, looks of disgust, and all other rejections with a smile on your face. If you get knocked down, you get right back up and…
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:29 AM
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I agree, but I have the opposite experience when gaming during the day. The hotter girls are nicer and less bitchy than uglier ones. At night when the alcohol is flowing and every guy is shamelessly hitting on them with no game, the shields come up.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:30 AM
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Because the girls who say they don’t like gym pictures don’t speak for all girls. I remember doing research on posting gym pictures when I first made tinder. All the girls online said it was douchey, don’t it, blah blah blah. Did it anyway. Literally tripled the number of matches I got and with hotter women. Granted, I was ripped to shreds and I’d recommend getting into that level of shape before posting one. I even had this hot girl match with me and say I “was a douche” for posting that photo.…
/r/seduction29/06/19 06:23 PM
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Awesome thanks!
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:05 AM
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Hi, the San Francisco telegram link doesn’t work. Tried on the computer and iPhone and it just says “Sorry, this group doesn’t seem to exist.”
/r/seduction25/06/19 07:57 AM
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I would find a private place for you guys to sit down next to each other, like by the beach or in the park. Then put your arm around her. If you’re walking or hiking you can put your arm around her shoulder, her waist, or try to hold her hand. Forget about kissing for now. Just focus on establishing some physical touch. The kiss will come naturally after that. Don’t worry if it’s kinda awkward or you’re not that smooth with it. It’s OK. It’s not always gonna be smooth but what matters is that yo…
/r/seduction25/06/19 06:50 AM
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I’m gonna go against the grain here and think you should lie. But the lie should be believable, don’t exaggerate too much. Instead of having a GF in middle school say you had one in high school. If you were only dating her for a month say you dated for a year. At least it’ll look like you have some experience. Plenty of people lie to their SO’s and get away with it. There was a guy who kept the fact that he was a wanted murder away from his wife for 30 years. She only found out when the cops kno…
/r/seduction25/06/19 06:38 AM
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Let me give you a piece of advice that is going to change your life: Stop looking for signs from women before you approach them or make a move. I fell into this trap and eventually it just turns you into the male version of an attention whore. You’ll begin to crave these “signs” from women and need them for validation before you ever make a move (if you even do). You will begin to over analyze every single sign you think you get from women which is a waste of time and prevents you from taking ac…
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:38 AM
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I mean another theory I have is that you come off as more genuine when you approach women you are very attracted to. If you approach average looking women for “practice” you come off as disingenuous and girls can sense it, thus the rude or weirded out response.
/r/seduction23/06/19 10:39 PM
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No it isn’t that obvious. Initially I thought since they get approached more frequently that they’d be more bitchy since they get tired or annoyed of it. And less attractive ones would be more receptive since they’d be flattered since it rarely happens to them. But what you’re saying makes sense too.
/r/seduction23/06/19 08:44 PM
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Yeah the post mainly applies to daygame, guess I should have made that more clear. I definitely have girls throwing themselves at me or being very touchy in club environments. During the day you rarely see any of that.
/r/seduction21/06/19 08:30 AM
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Thanks man, and geez girls flirt with you at the gym? The only time I’ll have girls open me, blatantly flirt first etc. is in nightlife environments. The most I’ll get during the day is girls checking me out. I never get approached especially at the gym. You must look like a male model or celebrity. There was one time I was walking and a girl catcalled me outside of a car asking how big my dick was. But that was a rarity, only happened once ever.
/r/seduction21/06/19 12:39 AM
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I can tell you from experience that many girls like it if you approach in the right way (charming, respectful, not pushy etc.). I’ve had girls thank me for approaching them and tell me they wished more guys would do it.
/r/seduction09/06/19 05:08 PM
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Yeah but if you scroll further down you’ll also find comments that are very negative towards cold approach, calling guys who do it “creepy”.
/r/seduction09/06/19 04:58 PM
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You are right and what you said makes a lot of sense. I honestly feel bad for the men that see comments like that and then decide not to do anything. They are missing out on the women who would love for a guy to confidently approach and sweep them off their feet
/r/seduction09/06/19 04:53 PM
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