| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 681 | A Woman's Touch | REMINDER 👑 | driftinglochawe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 254 | Ashling Murphy: She was living her life NOT "She was just out running" | MALE DEPRAVITY | driftinglochawe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:52 AM |
| 137 | If Women Behaved Like Men In Bars | FDS HUMOR | driftinglochawe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 12:22 AM |
| 87 | Glamour UK: The celebrity couples with big age differences (A whole lot of YIKES) | NAH, SIS | driftinglochawe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:04 PM |
| 63 | Five Women Take On South America's Highest Peak | DW Documentary | QUEEN SH*T | driftinglochawe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 30 | Paul Bullion (🧡I like ginger witchers and I cannot lie 🧡) | FINE AF FRIDAYS | driftinglochawe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:18 PM |
| 23 | Neneh Cherry - Manchild | FDS ANTHEM 🎶 | driftinglochawe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Meanwhile on r/AskReddit... | MOOD FOR LIFE | driftinglochawe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:46 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 61 | I don’t have lunch with my colleaguesGood grief, who discloses they ate cold spaghetti for Valentines?! I agree with a previous comment about single Valentines being the best but at work I would be cautious about who you disclose that with. Of course be polite with a good dose of grey rocking. I would also reflect and take a good long think about would you want to end up think that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 07:30 PM |
| 7 | A single people’s group on the book of faces wants us to be nicer to the Y chromosome.They lost a man? Shouldn’t they get a search party together and call mountain rescue or Interpol? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 08:50 AM |
| 113 | "I just can't believe someone hasn't put a baby in you already!"Aww Bob! I can't believe you haven't gone for that follicle transplant already! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 07:39 AM |
| 241 | Textbook Terrible V-DayC r y s t a l y o n i e g g Dude, why are you like this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 02:41 AM |
| 148 | “I think about her as my daughter. I’m worried I might be physically attracted to her.”This is horrifying. Isn't this human trafficking? This disgusting manipulative man is taking advantage of a very vulnerable young woman and why won't the wife leave? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:47 AM |
| 18 | I know somebody already posted about this but I just want to show how many people think that this kind of nastiness is okay! Sorry if it's not okay to post this again. 🤢🤢🤢[Dueling banjos intensifies] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 07:05 PM |
| 65 | Cautionary tale - a man will literally take your kidney and cheat on you with no remorseI've got a rusty spoon you can borrow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 07:22 PM |
| 274 | Ashling Murphy: She was living her life NOT "She was just out running"Another awful and tragic loss of a woman who was living her life. This is being compared to the circumstances of Sarah Everard, again a woman living her life but so happened to be walking through South London late at night in comparison to Ashling Murphy who was out running mid afternoon. What does it matter?! These woman are trying to exist. Is it so much to ask to stop killing us just for existing? I am angry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 02:00 AM |
| 43 | Anyone else experiencing the desperation going on in OLD right now?Happy New Year! Love to you Queen and your darling puppy! The clowns need to find another house to haunt! xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 03:26 AM |
| 21 | Anyone else experiencing the desperation going on in OLD right now?Happy New Year my dear Queen! xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 02:53 AM |
| 168 | Anyone else experiencing the desperation going on in OLD right now?I'm spending NYE with my fabulous girlfriends and the most trouble I'm having is what I should choose for the five course dinner. Obviously the cheese platter to finish on... but don't get me started on the wine pairing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 02:40 AM |
| 98 | STORYTIME: "Parking Lot Peril" Safety Tips I Always Follow and Trusting Your InstinctsHappy New Year Queens! I'm glad you're safe! What a thing to happen! I absolutely agree, men never ask women for help or advice. I had a strange instance where I had been Christmas shopping a few weeks ago and instead of driving I had taken the train. When I returned to the train station a man behind seemed to fall. My FDS kicked in and I shuffled away because I've seen men use this as a tactic to touch me. There were woman of a similar age group around who vocally asked 'Are you ok? Do you need… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 01:42 AM |
| 5 | From all of us at FDS, we wish you happy holidays and have a wonderful new year!Thank you! Hope the wonderful mods have a fantastic and well deserved time off! FDS has changed my life for the better and I’m so grateful for our community ❤️ Long live the Queens! See you all in 2022 xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/21 01:05 AM |
| 19 | From all of us at FDS, we wish you happy holidays and have a wonderful new year!What’s he going to get you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/21 12:59 AM |
| 57 | Rejecting men is harder on women than menI’ve been rejected and sure it’s rubbish. Do you know what I do? I listen to my sad Spotify playlist and drink too much wine. I’ve rejected “men” and have had to involve the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/21 12:57 AM |
| 5 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.https://youtu.be/QpeoW2mvwp4 And there it is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:37 PM |
| 10 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.Le Creuset is the business! Love the limited editions - the Star Wars and Harry Potter ranges are fire and I don’t even care for Star Wars or Harry Potter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:27 PM |
| 135 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.Reminds me of being at the supermarket the night before Valentine's Day - dudes literally panic buying the saddest looking £10 rose bouquets and a box of After Eights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 03:48 PM |
| 101 | Story TimeThis is similar to what I experienced with an ex years ago. I called him out on his lack of dates, gifts, and general shitty behaviour. All of a sudden he started making an effort but inevitably it petered off after a few months and back to square one. Also getting over 'being mean' as well after being on the FDS path for nearly 18 months and I'm seeing so much positivity from it. First of all you're not 'being mean'. You're being assertive, setting boundaries, and protecting yourself and your p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 05:22 AM |
| 21 | I don’t have a car and I live with my mom but if you pick me up and cook for me I’ll send you to rehab (respectfully). Found on a Facebook group I’m in and… wow I’m so glad I’m married.W A T | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 07:06 PM |
| 620 | He found me.They're not happy. An abusive ex of mine tried to add me on a social media account after years of no contact where he had photos of his current happy relationship and family. Except I knew his Reddit username and I saw all the posts where he belittled his partner and children, extensive posts of the dead bed variety, and even an admission of a drug problem with criminal convictions. Utterly pathetic. Block him and focus on yourself and your healing. Be kind to yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:17 AM |
| 138 | I have no wordsI would be furious too if my supposed SO went through my luggage to take out something that benefitted my appearance and I enjoyed. He even says himself he likes her because she's 'low maintenance' - seems likes he trying to take the first steps in controlling her. But what concerns me most of all, is this dude potentially capable of tampering with her birth control or medication down the line? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:50 AM |
| 81 | Thanksgiving red flagsWhy? Are they incapable of cutting up vegetables and preparing a turkey? I'm in the UK so we don't have Thanksgiving but the next big holiday will be Christmas with a similar get together with family over a big meal. I'm the best chef in our immediate family and I enjoy cooking but no way am I going to spend all day peeling potatoes, cooking pigs in blankets, serving drinks etc. I get in everyone else to prepare the veg, cook party food, pour drinks whilst I oversee the final steps - seasoning v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 04:42 AM |
| 126 | A warning against having children with NVM. Can’t even join a pregnancy sub without seeing this shit. Oh but it’s okay because she can work on her “insecurities” and of course ComMunICaTe! 🙄Those replies are tragic. Hold on whilst I just bury my head in the sand and occasionally scream into pillow whilst I’m putting my body through hell to bear your child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 05:16 PM |
| 53 | Just wow. This dude let his girlfriend’s friend get him hard in a restaurant (he almost orgasmed) and is now blaming that friend for “doing this to him”. The commenters: “this is sexual harassment, you should tell your gf to stop being friends with herrr!!!”And then everybody clapped!1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:08 PM |
| 21 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:Ok, so despite working up to 100 hours a week, this dude has the time to go on Reddit and blast his heavily pregnant wife? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 01:52 AM |
| 154 | Piggybacking off of the not clapping back at men who neg you post. What are some examples of negging that men have done to you?This is years ago and when I did a specific mixed sport and I’m also into photography. I brought my quite nice and what I could afford mid range digital SLR camera to a competition to take some cool action shots. In between competing I would take some shots of my friends and or have them take some of me. Mid way through I had this absolute scrote from our club come up to me smiling and trying to be oh so charming who had come with his SLR camera. He then proceeded to tell me my brand and model w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 01:28 AM |
| 3 | FDS when you're down on your looksI know this feeling very well and I wouldn't rush back into dating yet. From your post I feel you still need to like and love yourself more. There's been so much great advice on the comments already about looking after yourself physically so I'd like to add in looking after yourself mentally and emotionally. This includes dating yourself - you don't have to wait around for someone else to see that new film or show with, go to the cinema or theatre by yourself. Enjoy a particular cuisine? Take yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 05:32 PM |
| 22 | How To Know Better That The Older Guy Isn't A Friend, He's Preying On YouI had something similar happen to me recently where my work hired in a specialist contractor in the form of an older male probably late 40's in comparison to myself mid 30's. Thankfully a short project but I instantly felt he was singling me out - constantly wanting to chat to me, laughing way too hard at my jokes and I enjoy being witty. Time to grey rock and become the most boring person alive... "Any plans tonight?" "Yes, gonna do a load of laundry tonight." Don't offer up much detail and try… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 11:00 PM |
| 83 | “The idea that a woman can live a happy fulfilling life without a man is nonsense.” Did I hear him correctly? Did these words really just come out of his mouth? Ladies, make sure your life is successful, happy, and fulfilled without a man, or risk ending up with one like this.I can happily defend myself from dinosaurs, thank you very much! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 06:03 PM |
| 136 | Perspective | For years, I pursued men and got nowhere. Then I learned how to sit in the passenger’s seat.This is something I'm learning; it does not make you meek or submissive. As women we are encouraged to go beyond and over nurture when we should be taking our foot off the accelerator pedal and having men make the effort for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 04:34 AM |
| 149 | OLD: Who needs personality when you’ve been on a boat, caught a fish that one time or go to the gym?My favourites are looking angry at your friend's wedding, leaning against a fancy car which you clearly don't own, out on the town with the lads (which one are you in the group photo??!), and posing with a wild animal doing your best Joe Exotic impression 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 02:15 AM |
| 105 | Every LVM's apology ever, to a t. Bonus points: doesn't include an actual apology :)This is fine art! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inHaha! A fabulous coping mechanism, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-inThank you for reply and advice! Nothing more than texts happened but I think I'm just a tad embarrassed this happened within my friend's circle rather than some random dude I could easily block and delete. I will enjoy the engagement party and wedding and celebrate my friend's happiness but stick close to my friends and absolutely no one night stands! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 05:06 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Check-inLooking for a bit of advice please. About a year ago, mere weeks before I discovered FDS, I went to a close friend's housewarming as she was moving in with her SO. I was then introduced to SO's friend circle and one dude caught my eye. We got along fairly well and I then asked him out (OH YES, I want to hurl my past self into the sun!). We messaged for a few weeks but it fizzled out and my friend later said the dude mentioned that we lived too far apart or whatever to make it work. A year later,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 07:50 PM |
| 166 | Okay so ik I already made a post about something similar but I came across ANOTHER post of Facebook (this must be where all the LVM and pickmes are) that proves my point of men wanting to use women and normalize it. I’m showing proof because scrotes were in my messages acting stupid.That’s how I found my cat… still not got a job though 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:32 PM |
| 217 | If he pulls away, don't give him space...If he wants space, give him directions to NASA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:57 PM |
| 14 | Thank you!!I’m so sorry this happened to you but keep safe and glad you’ve blocked this foul person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:47 AM |
| 53 | Thank you!!This is assault. Report him to the police please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 09:49 PM |
| 69 | It’s pathetic that this level of scrotery is so normalizedWould rather have a geriatric cat. And also at least it would love me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 12:52 AM |
| 332 | LVM’s idea of a first date is going to her residence, expect a home cooked meal and most likely sex.I know we’re supposed to block and delete but this is hilarious 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 08:55 PM |
| 46 | They really don't see a difference between rape and infidelityI wonder if this hadn't been about rape and a 'mere' violent assault would he have felt like this? If this had happened to my partner, friend, or family I would be looking at taking the law into my hands and seeking out the perpetrators, which I know isn't right but I wouldn't be crying victim on Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 06:18 PM |
| 11 | I am enraged.Exact same situation as you. I used to do the majority of cleaning and emotional labour till I found FDS last year and I just stopped. I clean up after myself and only myself. I don't bother offering him dinner if I've cooked too much. I don't bother with his birthday or Christmas because he doesn't get me anything. My next step would be to sell our current place and have my own property but my job and therefore financial situation isn't great at the moment. Good luck with your side hustles, you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 11:16 PM |
| 38 | if you're in doubt remember all those lies: "men's desirability peaks at age 50. But women's desirability starts high at age 18 and falls throughout their lifespan."The British Museum would like their mummy back thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 07:17 PM |
| 181 | We need to start talking about pick me teachers who use girls to keep the bad boys in class behaved. Because I definitely experienced this and it was terrible.This resonates with me. I got bullied at school and whenever I stood up for myself I was the one in trouble. My younger sibling was being bullied by a boy so I chased him around the playground till he feigned an asthma attack and once again I was the one in trouble. This is probably a huge part of the reason I don't want to have children if this is the environment they have to go into. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 06:54 PM |
| 23 | Proof FDS works... I just discovered you can access blocked numbers! Look at the coffee dates. Swipe for the guy that asked me out to mcdonalds and what he messaged after being blockedFree dinner strategy 👌😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:58 PM |
| 97 | 33 women by 21. These are the men who will dunk on promiscuous women for a body count they were traumatized into and the sexual encounters they did not enjoy but endure. His poor gf, you can't turn a hoe into a husband (he's also active on cheater/porn subreddits lol)Ugh, the term ‘body count’ makes me think serial killer. Then there’s the hypocrisy... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:35 PM |
| 20 | Future of scrotesNice to see the guy who left his wife of 32 years T H R I V I N G! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:55 AM |
| 52 | He is rightHis should get prime position on the fridge! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 12:10 PM |
| 40 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?There's also the time aspect of it - most guys will probably need less than 10 minutes to shower and achieve a good level of hygiene. For me and probably most women it's more like 20 minutes and I shampoo twice, condition, exfoliate, facial wash, shower gel, shave, then once I'm out I'm onto body lotion, deodorant, and facial skincare. Then it's another 45 minutes to dry and style my hair but I do it because I respect and want to look after myself. I have no interest in being a one woman bio-haz… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 11:05 AM |
| 5 | I need to vent but I also need adviceI had something similar happen to me at the weekend where I have this creepy old man who lives in the next building to me try and force his way into my building. I pushed him out and had to call the police. I don't know if he's been cautioned or anything all I can do is when I'm out have a pocket knife and some homemade cayenne pepper eau de parfum in my bag and if I see him near my property is to immediately call the police. My property has a garden and I'm planning on having friends over next … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 01:25 AM |
| 58 | Men don't want a FWBThis is it. Concise and straight to the point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 40 | Men are grossI find it really funny that whenever someone does a ask what changed your life for under $50 USD post, a bidet from Amazon usually comes up. Currently redoing my bathroom at the moment and a Japanese toilet is top of the list! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 10:42 PM |
| 34 | “What do you bring to the table?” is a question men use as a set up to devalue women—it is never sincereI brought the table and the chairs and you will be very lucky if I let you sit at it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 47 | Why is it...But Bob, you can't swim and you get seasick. Also we are not going axe throwing on our next date night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:58 PM |
| 22 | I love how we women in FDS make jokes on men's expense as retaliation and lurkers immediately jump to call us hypocritical when we are merely holding a mirror back at them.I’ll be honest, when the concept of Hot AF Friday came up I was conflicted. I love how FDS is a female only space and having that seemed initially a bit jarring. In hindsight I’ve dated the not so good, pretty bad, and downright ugly. I make an effort and take pride in my appearance so why shouldn’t I hold a man to the same standard? I shall post on Friday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:55 PM |
| 234 | If he isn't putting effort into celebrating your life, leave him behind. Men like this exist.The last one broke up with me shortly after my birthday via text message when I brought up the fact he hadn't done anything for it but buy me a cheap necklace from Amazon. But he paid extra for Sunday delivery... dude we've all got Prime and you couldn't be bothered to look at my wishlist. That was 5 years ago and now I celebrate every year with close family and friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:24 PM |
| 8 | I legit cackled... 🤣FDS Space Program anyone? To boldly go where there are no dudes ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 08:37 AM |
| 23 | The scrote and the stoneJosef Fritz has entered the chat... JESUS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 08:19 PM |
| 32 | I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit.Welcome! You can do this! In regards to your CV/resume, can you have friends give references or put you were travelling, studying, caring for a family member? I don't know where you are but in the UK a good way of refreshing skills is going back to college (community college in the US I believe). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:54 PM |
| 85 | A Woman's TouchPS5 balanced precariously on a breeze block? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 10:03 PM |
| 219 | A Woman's TouchThis instantly reminded me of that song, "A Woman's Touch" from Calamity Jane. There's a male interior design sub reddit which I find interesting to peruse. The majority of it is dudes who've made that leap from having flat mates to having their own place and looking for interior ideas from their peers. Fair dos! But on occasion you get the above - the newly separated or divorced ones who've either moved out or their partner has and have been left with next to nothing. The commenters on this wer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 48 | Women cannot escape being judged either way because of makeupWhat you need to do is send the numbers on how much make-up is suitable to NASA and they'll send the results back in about 8-9 months. Easy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 06:57 PM |
| 16 | The Bar is...nonexistent.Ugh... time to release him back into the wild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 63 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.I'm glad she got out too and I really hope those disgusting thugs get thrown in prison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:48 PM |
| 260 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.This happened in Dublin - https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/cctv-captures-moment-woman-falls-24029654. This is attempted murder. I've seen similar incidents with teenage thugs allowed to roam where I live in Scotland because conductors haven't been making ticket checks on trains due to social distancing. It's made me avoid using public transport in the evenings and weekends because it's so unsafe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:33 PM |
| 3 | On today's episode of "scrotal recall"Chad, an enigma wrapped in mystery stuffed in a turkey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:58 AM |
| 11 | A guy once told me, "I'm the last thing you need right now." Then got mad when I said, "Okay."But uh, let me check my crumpled napkin here. Ahem, the right woman can change a devil!1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:38 PM |
| 46 | My philosophy on menThis is it! Protect your peace! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:00 AM |
| 33 | Every “girls should make the first move!!” Post in a nutshell 🌰 🥜Madness is doing the same thing over and over but expecting a different outcome and what have I done over and over? Yup, I thought I was being a bona fide liberal feminist by being the pursuer muddled and dismayed by the low standard of men who on occasion would attempt to pursue me that I had no interest in. Bloody hell, I was doing this up until 8 months ago mere weeks till I found FDS. A close friend entered into a long term relationship which came with a social circle expansion and I attempt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 08:05 AM |
| 36 | Forgive the shitpost, but this is a mood: When FDS describes what most men are really like2 Downton 2 Furious needs to have the Dowager Countess’s origin story! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 63 | This will never not be funny.Edwina, bring me the anatomy book! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 05:02 PM |
| 20 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?Does it also have 'Free Candy' scrawled on the van? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:16 PM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI just bought a fancy smart watch and low and behold there's a Reddit for it! Cool, I'm thinking I'll read some user experiences and reviews of the features. There are dudes complaining they're allergic to the brand's silicone strap... that's a sweat rash. Yeah you have to clean it every so often, imagine that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:06 PM |
| 162 | LVM Gift AlertTo my husband, divorce papers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:13 PM |
| 56 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himI'm literally out here reaching advanced levels of chemical engineering and alchemy for skincare in order to stave off wrinkles and acne. YET men can't achieve basic hygiene. I'm doing it for me these days, not them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:10 AM |
| 22 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”That’s some Quantum Mechanics right there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:55 PM |
| 75 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”Joking aside, this is ridiculous. If I had a SO and they had a pet they were devoted to I’d do everything to get in with the pet - spend time with them, buy their favourite food, walk them etc. YOU ARE JEALOUS OF A CAT LIKE HE’S SOME EX WHO YOUR GF IS STILL PALS WITH LIKE 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 09:51 PM |
| 98 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”We’ve hit apex jealousy Queens. Pack it up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 09:35 PM |
| 27 | This right here.If by right woman, you mean an exorcist then by all means! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 02:33 AM |
| 24 | What in the pickme hell did I just readNew drama coming next week on Netflix... don't think there's gonna be a 2nd season though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 27 | School tells girls they can’t decline a danceThese are 11/12 year olds? Sure let them get dressed up but they're still children. Let them jump about with their friends and eat too many sweets! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Silver Lining Of This PandemicIf I'm ever in a situation where a dude is standing behind me or too close, I'll stand side on so I no longer have my back to them. If I see someone staring at me out of the corner of my eye, I usually decide to adjust my contact lens, blow my nose or cough loudly - generally be a bit gross. Sometimes my umbrella accidentally opens. If it's a young dude under 25 being weird you can download an app onto your phone that emits a high frequency sound and set it around 14,500 Hz - lol I don't hear an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 08:14 PM |
| 31 | A clown in his natural habitat[Dueling banjos intensifies] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 11:57 AM |
| 13 | An infuriating example why we dress to impress only ourselves and NOT LVM/NVM!!There’s preferences and then there’s being an absolute eejit. It’s 2021, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:38 PM |
| 25 | Can you ladies imagine this?This! A football team in my city won their championship game today. Despite being a closed game with no crowd because we're in a strict lockdown there were hoards of mainly male fans roaming the city drinking and setting off fireworks. I picked the worst day to pick up a prescription and instead of my usual Sunday afternoon of a long relaxing walk round town it was an anxiety ridden gauntlet of getting in and out. Sure there were plenty of police around but these fans have potentially set lockdo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:11 PM |
| 8 | Choose Your Fighter: The “men comparing women to inanimate objects because they cannot fathom women as being any more than just objects for their own gratification” edition!Men need to stop going 'American Pie' with their food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 05:55 PM |
| 31 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?I prioritise myself now without the voice in the back of my head saying I'm being selfish. I no longer seek out a relationship especially being that girl who would ask out guys that inevitably have little or no interest in me (bye libfem!). Also it's a pandemic and my country is in a heavy lockdown, I don't want a coffee in the park or some random dude in my house. But the biggest thing has to be realising I'm probably not asexual and that my thinking on that has been the result of previous boyf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:03 PM |
| 59 | Turn the tables on male gaslighting, except it’s not cute when they’re angry because it’s actually life-threatening.A personal favourite! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:02 AM |
| 165 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!Is he going to propose with a Tiffany's paperclip? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:48 AM |
| 30 | Scrote wants something casual but wants to choke you and exploit your trauma. 🙄 The repulsiveness and audacity is off the charts.Hey boys! I’m into cast iron skillet play where I get you on the back of the head and then I REDACTED to your REDACTED and then REDACTED. We could get some brunch in the morning 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:12 PM |
| 238 | 50-50 is a lie.Up to 24 weeks in the UK and anytime to ditch a scrote. But always the sooner the better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:15 AM |
| 16 | “I’m part Viking” Avoid Men Who Fake Their Ancestry or Try to Claim Their Ancestors Accomplishments As Their OwnOoft... don't get me wrong I like the aesthetic of say a 6'3 man who takes care of himself with flowing locks of red hair and a nicely trimmed beard but if he turned round and said 'I'm part Viking' I think the cringe would kill me. Well I've decided I'm part Victorian. Catch me and the ladies down Claridge's for afternoon tea and champagne followed by a spot of fencing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:40 PM |
| 7 | How lvms are created :(My mum has done the exact same thing with my brother. He was always the favourite and could do no wrong. I returned back to my home city from living across the country several years ago and decided to retrain in my career and go back to uni. Shortly after that with help from my parents I was able to get a deposit on a flat. My mum had this idea of myself and my brother living together as cool young flatmates in the city but I think she was sick of him living with her and my dad. The place was a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 223 | She's in a "traditional marriage" but works full time AS WELL AS acting like his servant... Someone save this womanIs he 'traditional' as well? Is he back from a war or off to one next week? Has he mowed the grass, fixed the car, installed a new patio? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 12:17 PM |
| 7 | Out of all the Valentine’s Day stories I’ve seen, this is up there with the worst.Book him a vasectomy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 09:38 AM |
| 154 | The moment when a ZVM realizes he’s Zero Value 🤦♀️😂Is this the synopsis for a new episode of Black Mirror? Dudes are gaining self-awareness... maybe even sentience? ALSO THAT EDIT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:51 AM |
| 3 | Probably posted before, but it's trueA stray man you say? Instantly reminded me of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-Jk0E4alrY&ab_channel=AuntyDonna | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:03 PM |
| 6 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.Ok so reading over the other replies in this post, perhaps don't block him as of yet but don't respond to his messages either in order to build up evidence if need be. Also if you're feeling unsafe over the weekend do you have any family or female friends who could stay with you or you could go to them? If this dude does show you don't have to open your door to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:56 AM |
| 34 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I'm so sorry you're going through this but if he's been sending messages to you like this, surely this is evidence you can show your friends. Also would your friends genuinely think he's being a good guy by going after you so soon after your break up? Above all you deserve to be safe and happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:38 PM |
| 85 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.You don't owe this dude anything. Block and delete. But if he has the audacity and stupidity to show up at your house, call the police! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 27 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.Block and delete. You're not his therapist or GP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:22 PM |
| 13 | Here are awesome RED flags to watch out for when vetting men. Found them in a Kristen Leo video. Link is in the caption.You've made my Friday with RED FLED, RAG FLAG, and RARF FLARF - the exasperation is absolutely there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:05 PM |
| 10 | How to NOT date women in 2021!!Gotta have a quick look in the bargain corner and then grab a hot dog and ice cream then jump in the Aston Martin up the road 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:03 PM |
| 30 | This shit 🤮Jesus Christ, why isn’t the advice along the lines of buy her favourite Lush products, order in from her favourite restaurant, bottle of her favourite champagne, set the scene with candles and music. But no, we get this. This is not love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:49 PM |
| 67 | How to NOT date women in 2021!!Lose him in Ikea 2021 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:34 AM |
| 35 | It’s 2021Previously on The Last Kingdom (A NETFLIX ORIGINAL SERIES)... my name is Uhtred Son of Uhtred and I have sworn to slay David son of Dave after word was received by eight of his wives that he was planning a coup on Winchester and we can't have that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 02:31 AM |
| 9 | British FDSers-sign this official government petition to criminalise deep-fake porn!Signed! I'll share it on my socials too. Thanks for posting this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:57 PM |
| 66 | Found on another sub but I think it fits hereI ain't out here to perform exorcisms on dudes... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:34 PM |
| 22 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍This looks like a kid's pack lunch... minus the weed though. Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:32 PM |
| 22 | This is so disturbing. Who even thinks like this?I see that argument all the time on dead bedrooms and it just galls me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:50 PM |
| 14 | Man rode jet ski from Scotland to Isle of Man to visit his partner during quarantine. Had never used a jet ski before and it took him 4 and half hours to get there. Just shows us that if they want it, they'll make it happen, ladies 👏👏👏 (yes I'm aware he broke the law... Not clapping for that)This is wild! 4 and half hours on a jet ski through the Irish sea described as particularly rough and is extremely cold even in summer. Then he walks 25km once he reaches the island to his partner's house... someone option this to Hallmark and set it at Christmas! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:57 AM |
| 3 | “Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll spend the rest of your life with”This a thousand times! I seriously miss my self dates due to this being covidy times. Usually I would go to the cinema, restaurants, theatre, ballet, museums, hillwalking, and I've even taken myself on solo holidays. It's so liberating just being able to do whatever you want. I've had friends balk at the idea of doing things on their own but are you seriously going to wait around your entire life to be invited or taken along by someone else??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:44 AM |
| 7 | #Dump His Ass! 2020 🔥 😎Well Anon, like the other poster said do the required sterilising and look forward to the fabulous ring you pick out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:35 PM |
| 86 | Question sent in to a radio station 🤮 Why would anyone even think it's ok to propose this way?I'd feign internet connection issues but also four years? Y I K E S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 09:07 PM |
| 84 | The partnership is about working together 🤗 he's making the mess, and I am cleaning it. But seriously, I can't imagine how harmful it is for the young girls to hear such things said by an authority.Well Chantal, I was also able to spend about 100 hours thinking about me and making sure I was safe, secure, and comfortable. Was also able to squeeze in 10 seconds tidying up after myself too! HIGH FIVE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:51 AM |
| 3 | It was my birthday yesterday. Treated myself by making a romantic red velvet cake from scratch😊 it was a quarantine birthday but being self-partnered was the best thing that could have happened.Happy Birthday! Hope you're having a wonderful day! That cake is a piece of art! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:08 AM |
| 87 | Male Gold Diggers (flip for second image)Plot twist: it's an empty box | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 10:37 AM |
| 22 | Today on LVM: we must be grateful for macaroni art otherwise *wE doNt vALuE tHem aNd iTs UnHeaLthY* 🤦♀️I think, no, I know I'd go ballistic if some dude gave me macaroni art as a gift and also it's a waste of perfectly good pasta. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 11:02 PM |
| 12 | He thinks his dog's breed is "Great Pare of Knees". I am done.This is some quality r/BoneAppleTea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 02:25 PM |
| 32 | TeeheeYes! I love it! 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 08:48 PM |
| 119 | TeeheeSure darling, I’ll get you a PS5 and you can get me a Nvidia 3090 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 08:27 PM |
| 9 | This is why you shouldn't trust men who pursue you long distance and ALWAYS trust your instinctsSorry this happened to you. Nearly fell into a similar situation a few months ago. Let me quote some quality Shakespeare; “Words, words, words.” 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:27 PM |
| 12 | Has anyone told a real life friend/family/acquaintance about FDS?I have a work friend who's in her early 20s who's venturing into dating for the first time. At first she was giddy at any guy who would message her but I told her about FDS. She's now taking her time, exercising her boundaries, and at the first sign of a red flag she'll block and delete. She's also grown more confident and assertive in the short time I've known her and I'm really proud of her! I'm in my 30s and my god I wish someone had told me about FDS at her age - would have saved so much tro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 01:51 AM |
| 62 | Read his bio- They. Tell. On. Themselves.Wow. Just what I look for in a partner - animal cruelty. That poor dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:13 PM |
| 3 | "New in town""New in town" - Dude, did you get run out of the last town you were in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:21 PM |
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