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Check out Hank Moody in Californication. Good example of someone who does what he wants and doesn’t give a fuck what anyone thinks. Also his banter with women is worth noting. He does show a lot of blue pill characteristics with his kids Mom but his alpha traits outweigh that.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 01:12 AM
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Have been reading TRP since late last year and been in a LTR 2 yrs now. It has definitely opened my eyes. With regard to Advice #1 - This past Valentines Day I did not buy her a present, did not get roses and only paid for dinner that night because it was my turn (we share paying when we eat out). Last 2 V Days I did a present and sent roses and picked up dinner at more expensive places. The result: she didn’t say a word and we still had awesome sex. And when I got home that night she texted me …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 12:51 AM
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What I love about TRP is that it is up to us as individuals to use the information we read as we see fit and how it relates to our lives. I think living our lives lying about everything is horrible advice, however, there are instances where white lies, exaggerating facts and leading someone to believe something that may not have actually happened can definitely benefit us. A simple example is a resume when we are on the job hunt. Sometimes these small lies can mean the difference between getting…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 06:10 PM
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When I was in the US Navy I was stationed in Norfolk and met a HB7 Filipino girl. She became very attached very quickly but would not put out so I dumped her. She kept writing me how her family values were very high and sex before marriage was inappropriate in her culture. I didn’t care and she was still dumped. Funny thing was she kept pursing me hard (Stalking level) even though I had a few plates I would go to because she wouldn’t put out. She was living with her aunt and uncle who was also i…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 10:29 AM
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Check out pornfree subreddit as well. More lenient with fapping but committed group about staying away from porn.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 10:39 AM
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Thank you didn’t look at it from that perspective. Of course I would like things to stay the way they are but that’s unrealistic thinking. Something will change at some point and I need to continue lifting and working hard and be ready when it does.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 11:04 AM
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Also in a LTR (2 yrs now) and discovered TRP 4 months ago. We don’t live together so applying the first few levels of dread has been easy to do and has made a positive difference. She is the hottest girl I’ve ever been with and I made the typical mistakes early on (like always being available) and found myself frustrated with her when she wasn’t always as available. Applying dread has not necessarily saved the relationship as it was fine but by slowly applying it I have experienced more initiati…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 06:46 PM
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The title says it all! I’ve been in a LTR for 2 years now and since finding TRP I find myself caring less and less about how and why she acts the way she does. And not getting upset about what I can’t change is definitely the key to maintaining sanity. And guess what has happened? More attraction and willingness to please on her part. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 12:04 PM
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I’m divorced and after spinning plates for a few years and hitting the gym hard I entered into a LTR 2 years ago with a former model who is 12 years younger. I JUST found TRP 3 months ago and have been consuming everything I can. Don’t agree with everything said here but I have started to implement dread. She seems quite committed but if I believe in AWALT it’s just a matter of time before my turn is over. Anyway have actually seen some positive results with dread and not trying to change too qu…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 03:55 PM
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Not trying to be an animal. Just the best version of me I can be. And today is push day at the gym.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 07:12 PM
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I have always been someone she could come to about her problems and I have done my best to be supportive by listening. If you've ever read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus the book talks about how women do not want a solution to their problems, they just want an ear. This is good advice for blue pill guys but not how I intend to live anymore and lately I've been challenging her more. As an example she complains a lot about finances ("I don't make enough" "it's so expensive to live" "I nee…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 12:41 AM
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I hang out with some guys that would probably benefit from TRP but have kept it to myself for many reasons. I can't remember exactly how I came across it but at first it seemed toxic. I didn't subscribe at first but I returned a few more times and eventually "got it" and now read something everyday (sidebar, new posts, old posts, recommended reading, etc). My point is I was looking for something and I found it by searching on my own and appreciate much more than if someone would have sent me the…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 12:17 AM
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At work: being around a bunch of women I sometimes tried to relate to them and get on their level. I realize now I’m supposed to be different and maintain my frame as a man and not give two shits about their problems. I also quit giving any kind of complaints and hold them to a higher standard with their work. No more free passes. Some of the younger hotter ones are starting to smile at me more but just keeping the DGAF attitude with them too. My LTR: things here needed to change. I have become …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 07:45 PM
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Thank you for this great post. Been here 3 months now. I found TRP on my own and so glad I did. Was married once and now in a LTR. I also work around a lot of women and was about to go crazy before using what I’ve learned on TRP to manage myself better at work and maintain frame around all the drama and talk about babies and other girl stuff. I’m noticing a huge difference in the way my co workers and g/f are responding to me; they know something is different but I think they like actually the c…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 10:44 AM
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Your title says approaches but the synopsis’s sound like you were more involved with them. I really like the concept but more detail with specific situations would make for a much better field report.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 05:25 PM
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Google “No more Mr Nice Guy PDF” and you can read online for free
/r/askTRP05/02/18 02:00 AM
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Think of approaching like starting a new game of words with friends. Start off with “Hi” and then let things take their natural course based on what you have to work with.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 12:14 PM
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Move on to someone else as she is only saying this for one of two reasons: She really has a b/f. In this case your best move is to find someone who doesn’t. Why get involved with someone knowing they are currently fucking someone else. You’re just signing up for drama by trying to game her anyway. She doesn’t but is not interested and is using this as a nice way of saying get lost. Respect that and move on.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 12:05 PM
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It’s not but you should move a little slower than at a club or on the street as you will see them again around campus
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:15 AM
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If you are pale eat lots of carrots and beets for color. And of course good for you.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:31 AM
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Good list. Need to add lift weights
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:14 AM
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The good: * Got a position I wanted at work. Basically told them that’s what I want to do now and made it happen * Keeping it moving at the gym. Been going religiously for 6 years and will never quit * My No Porn badge is at 28 days. Quit for longer last year but I binged the shit for a few months * Learning to take more control with my LTR. She can be aloof and non committal at times so learning to tell her when and what we are doing rather than ask her what she would like to do on dates Needs …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 09:21 PM
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Maybe she was one of those chicks that stayed a virgin until 18 or 19 and now can’t get enough. A girl like that can be fun for short term
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 01:01 PM
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I think the big mistake here was asking her to with you. Sounds like you did it for your own convenience. Part of being a man is keeping your own four walls until you have been in a LTR for a while (like 2-3 years) and are absolutely sure you are ready to go to the next level. It’s cool though just file as a lesson learned and move forward. Once you move out of your parents place and are on your own you will guard it against something like this ever happening again
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 12:37 PM
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What a freak! How old is she?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 12:22 PM
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This post offers absolutely nothing.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 02:25 AM
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This video was published in 2011 so those numbers on porn usage are sadly even higher today. As guys of all ages jerk off until they develop PIED and have no motivation to approach and seek sexual relationships women will become even stronger in the world and will shame guys for their excessive porn use and inability to to satisfy their needs. As part of taking TRP all beta characteristics should be avoided with a special emphasis on social media and porn as these demotivates us. And the last th…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 11:04 AM
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I was on a double date once (friends g/f set me up) and my chick’s ex comes to our table (tables within a bar) and slides his arms across the table sending glass mugs crashing onto the floor. This is at a nice place so him and his Chad buddies get bounced before my friend and I could do anything. She was the same as your girl, at first mortified but then apologetic and said she wouldn’t blame me for not wanting to continue seeing her. I definitely took her up on it as I didn’t want a psycho ex i…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 01:26 AM
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Saw a HB9 at the gym tonight and thought the same thing, she’s just a girl working out just like every other girl and probably thinks she still needs work ( I hear this from my LTR all the time). Telling them they’re hot, beautiful, gorgeous or any other synonym will either validate (which we don’t want to do) or just be words that mean nothing. So except for rare occasions that they maybe got dressed up for a special event there is no reason to comment about a girls looks. Definitely approach a…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 01:06 AM
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If you haven’t seen Califorication watch every episode twice. Hank Moody is the ultimate DGAF master and his banter with women is on point.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 06:31 PM
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Good field report. This is why I came here - to learn better game from those with real experiences. The DGAF attitude has been serving me well lately too. Most women experience guys trying too hard to impress them and just by applying this alone more I see a positive difference. Thanks for the post!
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 06:25 PM
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Yaaa I’ve become a hard core red pill alpha that can get even hotter women b/c I have a cute girlfriend. Or at least that’s what this post communicates to me.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 05:47 PM
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Cool hope it helps. It helped me understand better how to make necessary changes w/o actually changing who I am. If that makes sense.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 01:12 PM
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I agree with not giving up hi seat just b/c the girls were attractive. I don’t agree with how he elaborated on his profession and somehow used it to justify not giving up his seat. This could have been perceived as arrogant. A better response would have been “when I decide to leave the seats are yours” and just leave it at that. Any chick who argued any further would be an entitled bitch and and would have deserved to stand.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 12:26 PM
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Being bad and being mean are two different things. You want to attract girls not hurt their feelings. As already posted read No More Mr Nice Guy. There are pdf versions online and prob in a library where you live.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 01:21 PM
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Date someone for at least 2 years before moving in together or proposing marriage. If you are not 100% sure she is right for you don’t do either.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 02:17 AM
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To me neediness is when you have no life outside of your g/f - depending on her for 90% or more of your happiness and entertainment. Wanting to see her after a bad day is not being needy imo
/r/askTRP12/01/18 01:19 AM
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I have a bad cold and skipped the gym today. No harm in recovering before getting back into my routine
/r/askTRP11/01/18 01:17 AM
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Your lessons are spot on! I’m older and I have made beta moves like putting a g/f before work opportunities. Putting your own needs first will get you everywhere and the sooner you learn this the better off you will be in the end. I would also recommend that guys go way out of their comfort zone like your example of going up to a group of hotties. I’ve done this with mixed results but the common denominator is they are all very impressed with someone having the balls to do it. In one case a grou…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 01:10 PM
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