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Thank you for sharing this.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/15 06:52 PM
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Congrats, continue to be a great First Mate and he will continue improving as a Captain :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/15 06:41 PM
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I thought her Comedy Central show was satirizing the modern woman as well... But maybe not?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 02:44 PM
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Awesome! Thanks for setting this up!
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 07:23 PM
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Thank you for your post, it was very insightful
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 07:21 PM
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When I'm with my SO, I feel safe&protected so it is easy for me to let my guard down and be playful/naive. But I would not necessarily act like this out of the presence of my SO. For example, at my job I need to be efficient, self-driven, and independent. I could care less if my fellow workers see me as "feminine enough" - my SO's opinion is what matters to me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 10:07 PM
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Very well said, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 10:01 PM
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My #5 of "act feminine" was meant to exclude nasty personality traits, but yes morals/character is definitely important in any sort of relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 09:56 PM
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haha, dont get me wrong I love sexy time with my SO!! I agree that I worded that poorly, whoops!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 09:53 PM
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Yes, but it makes me more appreciative of my female friends with RPW tendencies. Also it has helped me cut toxic friends out of my life permanently.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 08:47 PM
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I can only speak from the perspective of my relationship, but here it goes... My SO has limited time, since he is very busy with work and his manly hobbies. In his free time, he usually either spends it with me, his guy friends, or by himself. So in this regard, my SO's time is very valuable to him, and he spends it accordingly. I understand when he is out at the bar with his guy friends, he might serve as their wingman and end up talking with chicks. This does not bother me because his "time" i…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 06:59 PM
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Well my class's average age at the start of pharmacy school was like 23 years old so I guess I have a pretty young class. We had a handful of older married people in the beginning. Our class is two thirds women (many single at some point) so maybe the increase attention from women in our class played a role. Not entirely sure..
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 09:03 PM
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As a fellow pharm student, I've noticed an interesting phenomenon among the younger (22-27yo) men in my class... Most dumped their LTR while in pharmacy school (their SMV increased disproportionally to their SO's). Sounds like you might have been dating after that point tho - either way the answer is No, you should not forgive him. He played you once he will play you again. On the bright side you can consider yourself lucky that this happened at 9months instead of 2+years or something? Cut your …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 08:39 PM
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Haha I guess my argument was that there's less distractions in the winter (less fun things to do) so it is easier to make time to go to the gym. Also delayed gratification in the sense that people want to put time in at the gym in the winter so they look good in the summer and can do fun stuff instead of going to the gym when the weather is nice. But yeah maybe he does hold the popular opinion :) We both agreed this morning it was the silliest of debates lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 08:32 PM
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My BF does dread game a lot ( I don't think he purposefully does it, it's just kind of built-in to his personality). At first it made me feel hurt. But then I realized that I trusted him, so i no longer felt hurt. I wouldn't say I feel threatened now because I am in kickass shape. When I wasn't in so good shape, it really got to me, and surprise! It motivated me to get into kickass shape. And now I think it's reverse dread game because now my BF has increased the amount time he spends at the gym…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 05:12 PM
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My dad gave me advice on dating once, he told me: "never meet a guy at a bar, they've only got one thing on their mind" I met my current SO at the bar (on a Tuesday!) and we've been happily together for almost 2 yrs plus both my parents love him :) although I will admit my SO probably did have "only one thing on his mind" when he first met me. He was quite charming and invited me back to his place but I politely declined and called a cab. We went on a date about a week later where he paid for di…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/15 03:50 AM
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My boyfriend always teases me (in a cute way) for not being able to finish all my food (I have a small stomach)- he thinks it's adorable.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 04:46 PM
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Thanks for the recommendation! I will be adding this to my reading list.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 07:58 PM
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In addition to all the advice here about staying physically young, I believe having a youthful emotional state (ex: not bitter, mean, jealous) can also help.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 07:26 PM
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I'm struggling with making a major life decision right now. I'm graduating in May, so I'll need to get a job soon. Right now my options seem to be a great, enjoyable job far (~2hrs) from my SO (but near my family) or a really really crappy (albeit well-paying) job in the same city as my SO. I've been LTR with my SO for the better part of a year and it's been OKAY... But I don't want to be away forever. We both don't want kids at this point, so "settling down and starting a family" isn't really t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 02:43 AM
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A few of my friends have had success on match.com - I think since it is a paid service, you will have more luck if "young professional" is your type. One had previously tried OkCupid with nothing but a bunch of bad dates to show for it. OkCupid seems to attract the students and "nerdy" computer type guys (in my area, at least). IMO the paid service sort of weeds out the younger (immature) guys and the guys without a good, stable job. Plus, there won't be as many women for them to sort thru to fi…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 03:08 AM
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Most subreddits have reduced quality with more subscribers... Unfortunately
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 02:48 AM
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I have not read it, but will now. Thanks for the recommendation!
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 08:58 PM
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I agree with many of the comments here. Responding in a "playful" manner is by far the best response. Even if you are jealous, don't let it show (in a negative light at least). For example, my SO attracts some female attention from time to time when I am out with him. We go to more "young professional/professional bars" so there aren't exactly a bunch of young, blonde college chicks running around (which is what I am...) so when these girls give him attention I keep my cool (by remembering my go…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 08:57 PM
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I am posting this article because I believe the article resonates some RP ideas, and I think it's a good starting point for a discussion of balancing our spouse and our children. I am neither married nor a mother (someday I will be, hopefully!), so I don't have personal experience, but if some of you could share your experiences that would be great!
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 07:58 PM
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That's awesome! I'm gonna try to make it a habit one day at a time EDIT: it's early and I can't spell
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 12:57 PM
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I'm actually a very positive and happy person most of the time - I guess my face just needs to show it :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 12:55 PM
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She ended up on one of the TVs while I was at the gym. I used my disgust for her to push my workout to the fullest!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 04:03 AM
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Honestly, I believe that being "innocently feminine" in nature (innocent, sweet, kind, respectful, optimistic) portrays a "relationship" vibe. I mean, how many "sluts" or "gold-diggers" do you see who give off a "innocently feminine" vibe on a regular basis? Yeah they could "fake it until they make it" but hopefully by now your human interactions can help you weed out the non-genuine people you meet.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 02:56 AM
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Congrats on the weight loss! First off, I would recommend focusing on raising your SMV if the men you are currently attracting are not attractive to you. You are still young so your body will be very receptive to fitness/dietary changes. Second of all, increase the amount of time spent going to public places (by yourself or with friends). Random encounters do happen ... But staying at home won't help.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 02:42 AM
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Hitting the gym 3x/week = being active 3x week
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 02:55 AM
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If you already work out regularly this post wasn't meant for you :) Just getting into the habit of going to the gym is the first habit most beginners need to make
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 02:54 AM
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Can confirm. Started lifting 2 months ago - I now regret not starting to lift 10 years ago
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 02:53 AM
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I strive to be feminine, and I embrace my feminine qualities. Anger is not feminine, and anger does nothing except make me miserable. You're not going to fix this in 1 day. Think baby steps. Honestly reading up on Buddhism has improved my perspective on life and how to be more resilient in stressful situations. I don't identify as a Buddhist by any means, but I find many teachings to be helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 04:40 AM
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Agreed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 04:28 AM
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Woman here. Less than 5% of the Asian/Indian guys I know lift weights. They are all scrawny, nerdy, non-athletic type. The 5% i do know that lift weights, they have average or above average success with women. Just an observation (yes I know this is a small sample size, subjective, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 04:17 AM
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I agree some women are seeking validation and for others they have separate (normal/rational) objective! I would hate to be entering high school right now - imagine how awful teenage girls are now with cyber bullying !
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 03:45 AM
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Letting him enjoy his vacation in Florida with his buddies!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 03:09 AM
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It's weird because the majority of "selfie addicts" on my facebook newsfeed are either married or engaged...
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 03:05 AM
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Wow thanks for the insightful response! I enjoyed reading it and agree with everything you said. You are much better at getting your point across/ verbalizing ideas than I am! I was, for the most part, referencing women who use social media as a substitute (or crutch) for normal interaction. I believe social media can be used productively as well, as you described above. People can use social media however they want, obviously, but I believe your comment accurately describes RPW's viewpoint on t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 03:52 AM
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When I was dating, I was actively looking for a LTR. So yeah I went on dates with a few guys but never escalated past a 3rd date if a relationship didn't develop (no sex, just dates in public places). So it makes sense to keep your options open until you find a guy that 1. You are attracted to/know you want to date and 2. This guy is willing to commit to you. A guy who is on his 1st or 2nd date with you is not gonna care if you went on your 1st or 2nd date with a guy a few days ago. Are you supp…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 02:43 AM
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Obesity is just one way a person's"lack of control" can manifest. They cannot control their caloric intake to match their caloric use. There are other facets of control and self-discipline that can also manifest in non-obese people. For example, lack of control over delayed gratification. Aka being lazy. People play video games compulsively instead of being productive because video games make me happy NOW and they don't want to be productive even tho they know it needs to be done. This can manif…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 11:05 PM
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Haha I love Kanye. Yeezus verse: "Have you ever asked your bitch for other bitches?" And I imagine him asking Kim K. For a threesome with some hot bitches (maybe not even with her) for Christmas and her saying "ok" because... It's kanye.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 06:29 PM
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When I start feeling myself getting wound up I take a mental break and think about a few things: Can I change the outcome of the situation? (usually the answer is no) For example: We are running late, we are going to be late, I cannot change this fact. Or I wore the wrong thing to an event. There is no point in worrying over something I cannot change. Worrying will only have negative effects. The best possible outcome will be for me to not worry. For example: shoot I didn't realize all the women…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 04:29 PM
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Thanks for the advice! I obviously have more research to do but getting in the habit of going to the gym 4 days/week minimum is a good starting point I guess!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 04:18 PM
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The good news is that all my squats n such have really improved my butt! My SO approves (much more ass grabbing going on) Best of luck to you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 04:17 PM
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It's something that crossed my mind - but I would only do it after getting married and if my SO was eager for me to do so. I wouldn't mind have fake boobs if they only even made me a B or C cup! But that decision is a long time away anyways, but thanks for sharing your experience!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 04:15 PM
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Wow thanks for taking the time to write such a detailed comment! :) thanks for the advice too!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 04:10 PM
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Well I lift weights twice a week in hopes of toning up my arms/shoulders/back but it's not the focus of all my workouts. Cardio and core strengthening are always in my workouts. I agree it doesn't "magically" happen that way but the inches are fewer and the weight is the same so it was meant to be a generalized statement.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 08:49 PM
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Well you know the old saying: why buy the cow if the milk is free? I think you should end it with him but be honest and rational about it when you do. Try not to get emotional - he will respect that and it will set you apart from his other plates. Do not expect him to want anything more than a plate. If he does, then great, but either way focus on improving yourself as a woman and the rest will follow.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 08:24 PM
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You are so much better at putting things into words than I am! This explains my current and previous relationships to a T.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 08:17 PM
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Yeah well if I posted on a fitness sub I'd probably get nasty comments due to my comment history on this sub (as I have in the past) But thanks for pointing out the potential benefits, those never occurred to me!
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 08:12 PM
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This is so accurate. In today's world, innocence/happiness/kindness is a very attractive feminine trait - partially because it's become so rare!
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 02:07 AM
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I was incredibly shy around men my first few years of college. Then I did a few things that boosted my confidence which included : becoming more feminine, getting fit, dressing better, being more overall productive. My boost in confidence and overall improved self led to more attraction from men. All the attraction was nice... But it just didn't give me them tingles. Then I met him. Indeed I was shy when I first met him, but as long as you aren't TOO shy (think socially awkward) it's often seen …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 03:59 AM
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How about a Doctor of Pharmacy? Rated one of the best professions for women for several reasons: Part-time pharmacists are very common (some places give full benefits at 20hrs/week) especially in community pharmacy Staff pharmacists rarely work more than 40hrs/week Hospital pharmacists come into contact with many young/student male healthcare professionals Residencies are optional, possible to earn your degree in 6 years Worth a thought? Best of luck!
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 10:36 PM
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Ignore them. This response is considered the culturally appropriate response in most European countries.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 04:57 PM
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Masculine, knows how to fix stuff, stable (in terms of job, relationships, financially), intelligent, confident, and lastly... "playful" (I think that's the right word?)
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 01:12 AM
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Just a common theme I've noticed across Western society (more so, but not exclusive to, women) is that when they feel inferior to someone, they either (1) talk shit about said person, (2) rationalize that the other person isn't really superior ("she has OCD that's why her house is so clean"), or (3) rationalize that their image is the superior image (see: fat acceptance). any rational person would assess if the ways that they are inferior are important to them, and if so, make a change to improv…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 12:41 AM
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Is feminism just a population-scale shit-test that so many men are failing because they lacked proper male guidance growing up?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 07:44 PM
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College campus = much feminism (at my college at least)... But I feel like a good RP man could "mold" them (aka bring out their RPW instincts). But you are right in that there is a larger pool of women there in general.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/14 05:03 PM
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Growing up, I was definitely in the ugly/average-looking group (think tomboy and chubby). Then, a year or two into college, I slowly started making changed that impacted my appearance as well as my self confidence. Working out, eating right, growing my hair out, figuring out what products make my hair look good (that took me like 21 years lol), and buying more feminine clothes. Then slowly, I noticed guys began to give me more attention (of course I was like a deer in the headlights and failed m…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 08:11 PM
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My life is so much happier and less stressful since I've adopted a new life perspective!! It takes time to change, but the end result is worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 08:05 PM
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Low carb, no processed foods. Lots of veggies and healthy fats. And I go running 5x/week. I should starting doing some simple upper body strength but running is my go-to
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 08:55 PM
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Good insight.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 07:06 PM
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This is the funniest thing I have read in a very long time!!!!! Awesome
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/14 12:50 PM
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Nagging is a form of disrespect. If a woman doesn't respect her husband, how can she be in a happy relationship? How can the man be happy knowing that his wife does not respect him? Simple as that.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/14 12:46 PM
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You can be in shape and well-maintained but if you are bitter at age 30yo, no one is going to enjoy spending time with you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 03:57 PM
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more running now that the temperature is finally above freezing, gotta be in tip-top shape for swimsuit season! pursue current hobbies or start a new one buy spring/summer clothes
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/14 03:43 PM
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Most important piece of life advice here: don't sweat the small stuff! Makes life more enjoyable!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/14 03:33 PM
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This was my thought as well. If you were responding to the 2's rudeness with politeness, that's where you may have gone wrong. You shouldn't tolerate rude behavior from any woman either a 1 or a 10. The 6.5 may have seen this as a weakness/turn-off and definitely not a turn-on to any woman.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 02:58 PM
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My youth Cooking SCUBA certified (this is a big part of his life, so it was important to him to be able to share it with his partner) The ability to recognize and live within my means My lack of entitlement Willingness to listen to him vent about work and cheer him up My intelligence (but he is def smarter than me by far) My dedication to staying fit Ability to socialize with his friends My loyalty My long hair (or more broadly, my dedication to being feminine) I accept responsibility and don't …
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/14 03:55 PM
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New hobbies, thru mutual friends, co-workers. Try volunteering someplace with people your age or joining a local organization. It's hard, but better than the alternative of not trying.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/14 03:31 PM
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It comes as no surprise to me that the nastiest, most-controlling women bosses I've run across all have one-thing in common: they are not in a relationship with a RP man. Their lack of being fulfilled in their personal life is projected onto their work life, where there treat their "competition" with contempt, because she is in full hypergamy mode due to her relationship (or lack of one). I've also had very kind, smart, responsible women bosses, that were in happy relationships in which their ma…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/14 03:28 PM
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Ah, Hemingway swoon He would be disgusted at the lack of masculinity and adventure of many men today.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/14 03:16 PM
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You personal opinion of yourself is unhealthy and will only impair your ability to meet a quality guy. Start learning new things and making new friends, improve your health, and if you don't think that will do enough to change anything, there are many therapists that deal with this stuff all the time. Many, many women have unhealthy self-esteem issues. So what if you are "odd-looking"! There are many things you can do to either change that or accept it and make the best of it!
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/14 03:09 PM
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I doubt she's gonna wanna put back on that weight once realizes all the extra attention she's getting from her husband or just other people in general. Plus, working out is addicting. If she had done this by just diet alone, it would be very, very hard to maintain her weight. That being said, I'm sure there is at least one woman "friend" in her life that will act resentful towards her new weight loss. Hell, I'd be suspicious of women bringing cake or donuts to work (if she is a working woman). S…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 03:03 PM
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I think an 'amused mastery' response would be the most ideal option here. Passing a possible shit test while not making the situation worse by adding to her anxiety/emotions
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 11:22 PM
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creeps aka men (who they don't know) with low SMV
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 11:19 PM
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It's been going well, very consistent. His birthday is coming up, and I think I have thought of some great gift ideas for him that will make him very happy :) He had been a little strapped for cash recently, but that's okay since I'm used to my standard of living being pretty low as a college student.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/14 03:00 PM
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He goes on ignoring me and my bad mood or he teases me about being "crabby" That being said, I'm rarely in a bad mood and when I am it is not extreme and it is very short-lived.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/14 02:54 PM
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I just read the results if a large study/survey the other day and it found that overall, couples who don't have children have happier marriages. That scared me, hah
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/14 08:45 PM
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Very well said.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/14 08:43 PM
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Same! I get super cranky and try to get food ASAP
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/14 08:36 PM
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Maybe the difference is that I'm dealing with women ages 23-27 usually? I can agree that most forms of advice are wasted on ages 16-24ish lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 08:27 PM
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I've always found it silly that some women are "turned-off" by me dating an older guy yet they find the time to complain about how their same-age or younger boyfriends are "too immature" and they "feel like their mom"
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 07:57 PM
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Pretty good list, but the offering to take his shoes off made me laugh. I can only imagine the laughter my SO would have if I offered to do that. Maybe I'll just offer to massage his feet instead
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 07:53 PM
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I have found that the "wake-up call" approach is only successful if a person is genuinely interested in changing. For others stuck in their ways, I have found that living my own happy life (sort of like a role model) makes them begin to question themselves why they are so unhappy, and I can drop knowledge into convos without causing alarm. Which after that begins to take hold - maybe a wake-up call is appropriate. Then again, this observation is based only on my personal anecdotes.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 07:49 PM
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That's a nice way of putting it. It almost takes the same tone of a fem-nazi blogger bashing the male sex or something. Maybe that's why it's off-putting to me , the author herself doesn't come across as feminine enough to me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 07:44 PM
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I agree it's a start, and I'm glad that this article is bringing light to the issue at hand. It's great to see this in a national newspaper. Maybe these types of tone are needed to gain attention/traction.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 05:23 PM
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Like I said, I agree with the content but I don't think the delivery is going to persuade non-RPW that the content is beneficial to them.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 04:41 PM
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IMO, these entitled b*tches are doing both us and guys a favor by staying out of LTRs. Their perspective on life/relationships would surely lead to a toxic combo. The main downside is those poor college freshmen who look up to these girls and think that's the "right" way of doing things.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 03:32 PM
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I agree. The style she used was very off-putting to me, even though I agree with her ideas. Because of her style, unfortunately, I don't this article is persuasive enough to change anyone's mind.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 03:28 PM
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I see it as they hate that these feminine women that are "setting the bar too high" Being feminine and looking great all the time takes a lot of work and motivation, and is not for the lazy. Changing the image of what is beautiful is easier to them than getting their lazy asses into gear to try to be beautiful.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 10:42 PM
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you are absolutely correct. you can tell a lot about a relationship just by observing men or women talk (or not talk!) about their SO when they're not around.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 03:54 PM
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I admire your courage to overcome what must have been very strong negative emotions towards men, given the abuse. I hope RPW values lead you to a happy life and future (or current?) relationship free from unhealthy fear/resentment and full of compassion and healthy emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 04:03 PM
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My mom is my hero, especially in terms of RPW. My mom grew up on a dairy farm, so "entitlement" probably wasn't even in her vocabulary. My gma and gpa were very strict in terms of chores, cooking, working, school, etc and my mom carried these values with her to her marriage. We were lower middle-class and even though my mom had more education than my dad and made a higher wage, she chose to only work part time (3 days a week) so she could also be a homemaker and take care of the house, me, and m…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 03:57 PM
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I can't believe that people continue to use the "overweight does not equal unhealthy" argument when 99.9% of the time it does.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 10:03 PM
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Somewhere along the lines... We forget that the majority of people judge other people based on their character - not their gender. So yeah if you walk around shtting on everyone and acting like an entitled btch, people are going to hate you. The problem is that some people (bluepillers) will continue to let you walk all over them and you will never learn the consequences of your actions and never be given a reason to change your ways... /end rant. Sorry, had a bad experience with one of those ty…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 10:00 PM
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He is your"boyfriend" and not your husband. Sounds like you are tremendously unhappy and in a very unhealthy/complicated relationship... Time to move on IMO...
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 09:56 PM
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I'm INTJ and my partner is ENTJ. After reading the descriptions, I'd say they are very accurate.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 04:47 PM
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Just think of how happy you will feel after completing your rearrangement!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 04:05 PM
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It's been super cold outside , like highs in the 5-15 degrees, so I haven't been able to run. I'm going to a wedding next weekend, and I would like to get back down to my goal weight before then... So that means me sucking it up and putting on my cold-weather running gear and hitting the (slushy) pavement. I've lost 3 lbs thru diet alone but to lose the other 2lbs I know I'll have to add some cardio... Brrrrr..
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 04:03 PM
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Haha, are you me? I'm 23 as well, dating a 29yo I found it's easier to work it into the convo when somehow marriage/children/pets are mentioned, like while watching a movie. Here's how mine convo happened: Me and SO watching movie Cute puppy appears in scene I make my "awwwww that puppy is sooooo cute" comments SO: "I like dogs, but they seem like too much work... I have a busy life and sometime they are just inconvenient" Me: "well... Kids are a bit more than that... Does that mean you don't wa…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 03:55 PM
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Thanks! I never thought reddit would have female fashion advice, hopefully they will be helpful! And not shun me for posting in this subreddit frequently....
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 05:24 PM
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Haha, I love watching football! It's funny because my SO hates watching sports. He politely offered to watch a game with me once and he looked like he was in so much pain the whole time! Never again! He does say I look cute in my oversized jersey that is pretty much a dress :) That being said, I always choose doing something productive over watching my team play on Sunday, unless the score is tied in the 4th quarter, of course.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 05:13 PM
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I was talking about this idea with my SO a few months ago. I told him that I thought "married couples should have separate bank accounts for their own personal spendings and a shared bank account for bills, services, emergencies, etc." He told me that he was very much against this idea and that there should only be one bank account for a married couple. Over the past few months, I now understand the importance of submitting financially to a husband that is trustworthy and intelligent. Husbands w…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/14 06:28 PM
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I posted this article because I think it does a good job of explaining to younger women, who are maybe interested in RPW viewpoints, why it is important to: not confuse sexual value with relationship value - it is far easier to have sex with a "hotter" guy than it is to get him to commit. seriously consider what is more important to YOU - marriage or a career. You should not be criticized or threatened for pursuing your own happiness (I'm looking at you, fem-nazis). I understand that these may b…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/14 06:05 PM
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Wow. Great read.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 05:52 PM
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I think anytime someone gives a gift with the expectation of something in return, they do not realize the true intended purpose of "gifting" something. My SO made it very clear he thinks mandatory gift giving is silly and defeats the purpose of a gift.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 07:39 PM
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I can see how this approach would work with a girl who thinks they are hot shit and have been out on a pedestal their whole life. But would this approach work for a girl that is self conscious, a "late bloomer", or maybe shy compared to her other friends when interacting with guys?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:50 PM
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I used to be a "feminist". I even cut my hair short (worst mistake ever) and was lazy (gained a few pounds). This was after a pretty bad break-up so around ages 19-21. It also didn't help that I live on an incredibly liberal campus. I was rejecting my feminine side, but to be fair, I was a late bloomer. During this time, I was also depressed. I couldn't understand why guys wouldn't just accept me "the way I am". Then I grew my hair out, started working out, starting realizing the value in paying…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 03:15 PM
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I was really happy to hear that she followed her husbands wishes AND he was very appreciative of it - made her more confident and happy through his approval! Sounds like a recipe for a successful relationship!
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/14 05:46 PM
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Great read! Now I feel the urge to go shopping...
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/14 05:44 PM
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We are talking about equality in terms of biological (usually). First wave feminism is a lot different from the current feminist movement. Many could argue that the current feminist movement has moved past the point of equality and is trying to position women in a superior position. Do I believe women should have the right to vote? Of course! Do I believe people should be paid in reference to their quantity and/or quality of work as opposed to race/gender/age? Most certainly. Do I believe that e…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/14 10:42 PM
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Ever since swallowing the red pill, even hearing/reading the word "equality" makes me cringe. We as women should embrace the positive differences (aka be feminine!) while being mindful of the more "negative" things that makes us different as well (irrational, emotional) so that we can better ourselves and our relationships! Claiming everyone is "equal" just turns a blind eye to all the "positives" that work in our favor while simultaneously letting the "negatives" go unchecked. I feel that if so…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/14 10:31 PM
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I have a question about female bonding. Is it just that it's harder for a girl to bond with a guy who is "less alpha" than a guy she's had in the past? Or is there just a biological explanation for bonding with the guy you lose you virginity to? I view it as, the more guys a girl has slept with, the higher chance that the girl has slept/bonded with someone more alpha than you, and her bond to you is lesser compared to if you are the "most alpha" guy she has been with. But if there is more to it …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 10:21 PM
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I, too, have a demanding school/workload (although not as demanding as yours, and with a shorter time-span). I've observed some of my female classmates that often complain about not being able to find men. They usually have either one or two predicaments: They spend an excessive amount of time stressing over their coursework and their grades. Classic type-A "I need to be in the top 5% of my class!" Don't get me wrong, grades are important, but so is a social life to a young woman who wants a hus…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/14 09:34 PM
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But...but... What about their INNER beauty?!? /s
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 09:17 PM
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He can fix anything, loves to hunt, and has a giant aquarium with thee cutest little fishies in it. The first 2 show how attracted I am to his manly qualities and the third (aquarium) is because my heart absolutely melts when he "baby talks" to his fish while feeding them.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/14 09:08 PM
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I don't know why this was down-voted? Camping is fun! I like to experiment with a new "camper-friendly" recipe each time. Cast-iron on a fire makes me feel like a pioneer or something.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/14 09:02 PM
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My SO loves guns, I guess I was just wondering if there was any RPW context to it other than it's just very fun :D! I've been to the shooting range a handful of times. Semi automatic pistols are my favorite. Unfortunately the city I live in is waaaaay too liberal and the police chief signs very very very few permits authorizing concealed carry licenses. Stupid loopholes.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/14 07:33 PM
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Love the suggestions, but I am curious of the reasoning behind 13 & 14?
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/14 07:14 PM
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Obvious troll. You think you are self-righteous and can't take any criticism. Why are you even posting here..
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 10:33 PM
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Great post! Well-written and very insightful!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 03:51 PM
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Ooooh books! I forgot about those, haha. I guess I have been just so unbelievably busy this past year. I want to start reading more often as well.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/13 03:31 PM
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4-hour Chef by Tim Ferris. Sold on amazon ( http://fourhourchef.com )
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 09:47 PM
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I chose to include the weight thing because I think I read somewhere some people's libidos can drop if their activity level drops and vice versa. And no I haven't asked him about past winters because that just seems like an odd thing to ask, I wouldn't really know how to phrase it. I think he was a "womanizer" before our relationship started, so I guess my fear is that he's going to get bored with just "one woman" - but he has indicated to me that he plans on getting married someday. I know I ca…
/r/askTRP30/12/13 09:42 PM
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Cool! I like the fashion concept. What's great about the book I'm following is almost everything is paleo (but he also gives non-paleo substitution options for those not so strict in their dieting).
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 09:34 PM
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Hey, I'm following the sidebar rules (this is r/asktrp not r/theredpill last time I checked). If I wanted some watered down beta bullshit I would have posted in r/relationships.
/r/askTRP30/12/13 09:31 PM
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I can't remember the article or blog post, but there was something about you can raise your SMV by being mysterious/not giving away too much info about yourself because the girl fills in the blanks herself and if you are in the right frame, she may assume you have higher SMV than you actually do. I think this is where limiting your access on facebook/social media has its advantages. It genuinely makes me more intrigued and curious about a guy, and gives me the sense that he has way more importan…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 09:14 PM
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I don't think she was meant to be portrayed as like-able in this movie, hence TRP theory that abounds.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 05:48 PM
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I did this a lot more often when I was younger and unhappy with my life. I had burned a lot of friendships and was in a bout of depression. At some point I stopped feeling sorry for myself, rebuilt friendships that mattered, and became a happier, better person overall. In my opinion, just being happy and optimistic greatly diminished this occurrence for me.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 08:00 PM
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My boyfriend will sometimes pinch my belly fat (everyone has belly fat if you PINCH it!) as if he's commenting on it but he doesn't say anything. I don't really think he means anything by it, just his way of playfully teasing me. I usually just playfully slap his hand away and continue whatever I was doing (I'm pretty comfortable with by body image). Do you think your fiancé was just playfully teasing you and maybe just took it too far? Or you took it the wrong way? The way you described it seem…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 05:20 AM
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Is it any wonder that so many high-achieving young women, despite all the happy talk about their academic success, find themselves in the early stages of their careers in chronic uncertainty or anxiety about their prospects for an emotionally fulfilled private life? When an educated culture routinely denigrates masculinity and manhood, then women will be perpetually stuck with boys, who have no incentive to mature or to honor their commitments. And without strong men as models to either embrace …
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 02:58 AM
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Well I'm talking about the past here. I'm in a LTR right now. Previously I had no knowledge of RP ideas until after I was already in a LTR. I was honestly looking for someone to be in a relationship with, and I went on dates with these guys to see if there was attraction. As soon as I determined that there wasn't, I was honest about it. I don't see how going on dates with potential guys you genuinely see as a future boyfriend is considered having orbiters. Isn't that female strategy? To determin…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/13 08:07 PM
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Hm, interesting point. I guess I never thought about it being interpreted like that. I would just go out to a public place with these guys for dates and never went home with them or took them home.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/13 09:23 PM
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One of the strategies I have successfully used in the past was to keep on dating (not sleeping with!) other guys until commitment has been secured. This way, if he is truly interested in a relationship, he would be more apt to define the relationship as to not lose you to another guy. If he was merely in it for sex, he wouldn't be trying to win you over emotionally. Another benefit of this strategy is it keeps you from becoming emotionally attached too quickly, and the guy may feel inclined to b…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 10:20 PM
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Sounds about right
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 10:08 PM
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Same thing kind of happens to me, but only because I'm dating an older guy (I think). When I was first meeting his friends, sometimes when they got drunk they would ask how old I am. Since I thought it was a rude question, I always responded with "how old do you think I am?" They usually say 25/26 (my bf is 28 and I'm 23) and then they scoff when I say I'm 23 and make jokes like "is it legal for you to be in this bar right now?" Etc. His friends are mostly younger 30s older 20s so I feel like th…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 03:23 PM
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Great read! Idk if I would classify this as "game" but rather how women can create and maintain a successful (happy) LTR - since these are mostly tips pertaining to situations in which you are already in a relationship. 7 is something I need to work on. My roomies often find themselves complaining about their boyfriends and I feel kind of like a jerk saying "oh my relationship is perfect" and instead just throw in a little complaint or two - but why should I be ashamed of being in a great relati…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 11:10 PM
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Great insight! Have you applied this to any other aspects of your relationship with success?
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 11:04 PM
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I think the point he was trying to make is that sex is very important to men. Even if women aren't in the mood, this can't go on forever. They should want to make their partner happy, even if they aren't in the "mood" for it. Obviously this does not apply to every situation, but a woman's constant rejection in the bedroom is not healthy for the relationship. Women want emotional validation and men want sexual validation. And no, this is nothing like rape. This is about being in a functional rela…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 11:00 PM
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So then, fellow redpill women, when should it be considered appropriate to "put out"? after a few (what's a few?) dates or only after commitment has been secured? Or take everything case-by-case since everyone is different? EDIT: grammar
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 08:07 PM
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Yay paleo! Feel free to share any awesome recipes! My favorite it paleo chili
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/13 03:15 PM
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As a woman, that sounds creepy over everything else. And mmm cheese and meat is really gonna make me feel sexy (not). Bottle of decent wine (or craft beer) with homemade meal is gonna be 100x more appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 06:42 PM
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I think if your relationship is going well and you're happy and he is willing to commit long term, I'd say stay with it. What are your thoughts?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 07:37 PM
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She's definitely not getting younger. She told me recently she wants to have at least 3 kids, so that was another reason I told her to reach out for more commitment. Her boyfriend is 26 and graduated a year ago and has a great paying job. The problem is he jetted of to Alaska for a 2yr job stint because it's been his dream ever since he was a kid (props to him). Looking from her perspective however, by the time he moves back, she's going to be 26/27 (downswing in value) and he's going to be near…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 03:15 PM
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unfortunately, no. that website is run (mostly) on submissions from recent college grads looking to boost their social media presence. There is a strong feminist presence, as you can image, given the source of the articles.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/13 10:01 PM
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The more I seemed to explain it the more they agreed. I even went on a mini-rant against feminism that went over well. Discussed "the wall" and urged my roomie to get more commitment from her current boyfriend while she's still young (she's 25, they've been dating 1.5yrs)
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/13 09:49 PM
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This is a timely post for me, since I literally just introduced my two roomies to RP last night. Of course I didn't start out with hardcore viewpoints, but kinda slowly started with: "I think it's very true that women don't like nice guys". Of course they were immediately like "I don't think that's true", which I followed with "Remember when you dated Mr. X, but for some reason you weren't attracted with him and dumped him? But said that he never did anything wrong and he's a really nice guy " A…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/13 03:46 PM
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It's ok! Thanks (sincerely) for all your work as a moderator! I bet it's a rough job, especially for RPW, but someone's gotta do it :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/13 03:40 PM
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Ten years of doing jack shit = working on his career and education so that one day he'll make a bunch of money. He'll be sooo lucky to be able to spend it all on you (in a sexless marriage)! /endsarcasm
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/13 03:27 PM
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oh no, of course not!
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/13 02:57 PM
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This article reeks of entitlement, I don't even know what to say. It's so easy for me to forget that this viewpoint is commonplace among many women.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/13 02:43 PM
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I mean, you can have open discussions on here. As long as it's related to the RPW viewpoints. Don't let one or two people's viewpoints on non-RPW related things deter you!
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 09:55 PM
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I'm an advocate for understanding the principles behind different schools of thought, generally it helps me reaffirm that I'm making an educated choice. Being exposed to only one thing (religion, political party, etc.) is dangerous and causes an army of misinformed (ignorant) information. This can be seen throughout history (look at North Korea). What would be ideal is if they presented both feminism and RPW ideas unbiased and allow women to make their own decision, but this is not the world we …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 08:37 PM
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Have you ever read the book "It starts with Food" ? I HIGHLY recommend it if your are looking for some non-pharmacological therapies to add-on to your current therapy. (Always discuss dietary changes with your doctor first). It teaches healthy food mentality, and isn't about calorie counting. Just changing the way you look at food can greatly impact your overall health. After reading this book, I made some minor dietary changes, the main one being my breakfast 90% of days consists of cheeses veg…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 08:00 PM
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Sounds good on paper, but I would like to think that one person's unicorn is not the same as another person's unicorn. There are so many intangible things that factor into attraction and chemistry. That said, there are definitely basic characteristics that gives someone potential to be a "unicorn" To answer your question, no, I do not think I'm a unicorn nor do I think the majority of women here think they are either.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 07:54 PM
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Unfortunately, this usually takes trial and error for a young girl to learn, especially if she hasn't had the opportunity to observe close friends go through this dilemma . The more knowledgeable girls are on this topic, the better. Giving him sex isn't going to make him want to be in a relationship with you. What surprises me the most, however, are the girls who can't seem to learn from their mistakes, and refuse to apply the past to their current situations.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 06:30 PM
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I guess I re-read the post. Seems like your BF is forming some sort of an emotional connection with this woman - which is NOT OKAY. In my above post, I was speaking of random interactions, in which physical attraction likely plays the main role. If your BF is seeking additional emotional relationships other than from you, it looks like he may just be seeking validation from other women. again, NOT OK. It seems like you suggest she is initiating all of this, if this is true, it in theory wouldn't…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 01:30 AM
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Ah this is something I've thought about at many stages in my current relationship. I've come to terms in it in this way: We've never broke trust with each other, it is still 100% intact. Hopefully, we are all dating someone who is desirable. Chances are if they are desirable to you, they are desirable to other people. My boyfriend is very charismatic and will engage many random people in convos at the bar. Sometimes he will help a friend out and play his wingman. IMO, showing that you are not th…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 01:26 AM
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honestly, the majority of the general population lacks critical thinking.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 01:08 AM
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Yeah reading thru the up-to-date comments, the majority seem to agree they are both acting like children.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 10:05 PM
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These are all great points, and examples can be seen everyday, people just choose to ignore them. One girl I know has been dating this (beta) guy for years - they are going to end up married. She seems nice, not one to flirt or cheat. But one night out with my classmates, and my (relatively alpha) friend is picking up on her gina-tingles for his strong personality and give-no-fucks mentality about validating this girl. He has no problem placing his hands all over her the rest of the night. And o…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 06:42 PM
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I think I got pretty lucky in the fact that a lot of the women in my graduate class are genuine and nice. We share a common ground where we don't take ourselves too seriously. Honestly before I got accepted into my graduate program, it was hard as hell finding women that I wanted to be friends with, a lot of the time they were just too annoying! Maybe it's the fact that we are all more mature now? Not sure, but I'm comfortable with my current roomies having my back and I know they are genuine pe…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/13 10:54 PM
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Welcome to the USA! Where the women are either fat, entitled, or both! *sigh
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/13 12:19 AM
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I will admit the only time I feel pity is when the parents are so irresponsible that their children are clinically obese by the time the hit adolescence =/ poor kids, being set up for a life full of misery and health problems. That's no way to live. In my mind it should be considered child abuse, think of the long term implications.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/13 12:17 AM
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that analogy was so gross yet so hilarious!!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/13 12:07 AM
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Oh right, what I was trying to say is it was a lot more detrimental kind of stuff in my friends relationship, I didn't mean to imply I thought you needed to end your relationship. I was just hoping to find some advice to give her on here
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 08:47 PM
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My friend is currently struggling with something like this, to a point where she might end the relationship. She's tried several strategies but none have worked...
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 07:59 PM
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Ah yeah, I could have left out the cigar/scotch thing. It's just what happened the first night I met him, but doesn't define who he is. A few guys I know agree that when they invite a girl back to their place, it's almost a test to see if she is girlfriend material. Why would they want to date a girl who sleeps with a man she just met?
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 04:11 PM
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That's cute :) This is how I felt at some points in the early stages as well, but I'm glad I stuck around!
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 04:06 PM
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And some of my other comments have pointed out, I realize should have gone into more detail explaining why he is such a valuable guy. Intelligence combined with 'real world' applications - a great plus that comes with dating an engineer. Financially responsible - pretty much a necessity in today's world. Living in debt would probably ruin many relationships. Genuine - this is where his friends stepped up to the plate for him. They make fun of him for his womanizing behavior, but more than one ha…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 03:30 PM
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Old relationships, guys kind of set the precedent that they would "need my permission" to do things, so naturally, this is what I began to expect. This relationship is a complete 180. The first few times he would do something, that I didn't even necessarily even have a problem with, I kind of thought "hey it's kind of shitty he didn't ask me first" - and looking back, that type of thinking just seems ridiculous. He wouldn't take any of that. He makes it very clear that I'm very special to him bu…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 03:23 PM
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Maybe I didn't go into enough detail describing him? He is financially independent, very intelligent, physically fit, and very emotionally stable. I didn't realize the importance of listing all those qualities, just kind if assumed it would be accepted that he was worth the risk
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 03:18 PM
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I didn't "allow" him to court me, in my eyes, he was out of my league, and I was lucky to have caught his attention.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 03:14 PM
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Sure. He took the lead for all our dates. He set expectations for how he expected me to act (without outright telling me, most of these things are hard to explain, since usually it's just mannerisms and everything). We never argue. As we started dating, it became obvious that he was going to do what he wanted to do, when he wanted to do it. So again - this was not something I was used to, and my old self voice in my head was saying "hey, you should be upset, he didn't ask for your permission bef…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 03:13 PM
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I don't like him because he smokes cigars and drinks scotch. We could have gone somewhere for soda and pretzels, wouldn't have made a difference. I like him because he is intelligent and hard working (I think I mentioned that somewhere in my post - if I didn't, I should have). He can literally fix anything, you know how awesome that is? Being able to fix everything yourself? Anyways, I guess it comes down to preferences. It doesn't bother me if his sexual history is extensive (he's clean so that…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 03:03 PM
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I let him call/text me first to set up dates. When he did ask me out, I said yes (not too eagerly, but a simple 'yes' rather than giving him the run-around can speak volumes that you are interested while not coming off as desperate) I didn't have sex with him the first few times he tried to initiate. It was pretty clear we were going to have awesome sexual chemistry when we did eventually hook up. I honestly just can't sleep with a guy without getting to know him more first. So self-control and …
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 12:09 AM
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Exactly. Until they experience it, then it changes them.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 08:13 PM
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As a woman, my BF has fostered an environment where I feel the need to continue to improve (or maintain) my physical fitness, my looks, and my style. How does this not improve my life? I feel that feminists (or just non-TRPers) would complain and say that my boyfriend only likes me for my looks and he is objectifying me. this is false. He likes me for my combined looks, personality, and intelligence. If I lost either of those, I can assure you I would be kicked to the curb pretty quickly. I want…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:26 PM
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Can I ask where abouts you live? I find that social pressures and peer competition in big cities and college campuses kind of drive up the "attractiveness" of people in general. Smaller towns and cities have fewer social pressures and thus, less attractive people.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:12 PM
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It almost seems that he was jealous of your BFs situation, that HE (your BF) could get the girl without giving up the shirt on his back for her, that she actually wants him for more than material things. Sounds like this cashier is in a deep denial of what a healthy relationship is.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:03 PM
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I think you stated everything perfectly. But I probably won't be posting in TRP very often, I think I'll keep to lurking. Everyone thinks I am a troll when I provided insight to why I enjoy my relationship with a guy that has TRP mentality, as if a girl isn't supposed to enjoy this mentality.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 05:51 PM
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That makes sense, I understand now.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:22 PM
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The worst kind of guy is a "feminist" - one who wants blended gender roles in the relationship. Gender roles have existed for centuries, and in terms of relationships, they served a very important purpose. I wish more guys accepted r/theredpill mentality. You don't know how much shit I've dealt with in the past from beta guys who are just as guilty of "giving up" their male roles as girls are of "taking over" the relationship. I'm dating a guy with a r/theredpill mentality, and it's amazing. My …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 01:24 AM
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Yeah, I fail to see your point? I'm dating a guy with a r/theredpill mentality, and it's a fucking breathe of fresh air. All my other relationships didn't work out and I couldn't understand why, but now I do. Gender roles matter. Once they start blending together shit gets fucked up. Girls shouldn't be in charge of the relationship, and a guy shouldn't let the girl take charge.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 01:09 AM
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Because I want more people to accept the r/theredpill?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 12:57 AM
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I understand the "I don't give a fuck" attitude completely, but to someone checking out the community to see what it is about, it's pretty off-putting. Just thought a main goal was to spread the word and maybe start a new era of thinking beyond our individual lives. ... Who am I kidding, this is fucking reddit.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 12:47 AM
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"after she dumps him when she graduates" - you think she would be willing to move in with him if this was truly her "master plan"? If so, sounds like he's got a case of crazy-gf and there's no cure for that other than to dump her. I'm just surprised the majority of people in this community seem to think this "dump him when I graduate" is a common occurrence. I don't know of anyone in real-life where this is the case, other than a guy dumping his gf once he became a doctor.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 11:11 PM
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Thank you. It seems like this community has been overrun with people making brash comments with no logical follow-up or meaningful discussion. No wonder people hate us. Maybe if we laid out our arguments logically, we could get more people on our side.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 10:39 PM
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That's because usually guys aren't attracted to older, more financially stable women. They're attracted to young, college-aged women, so naturally, this scenario happens more often.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 10:37 PM
-5

Relationships are different from friendships. They're been together for 3 years and are finally moving in together, sounds like they envision getting married at some point down the road. To me, the 200/600 split seems unfair, since this girl probably couldn't find ANYWHERE to live for $200, sounds like she has another source of income - loans. The problem with loans is, well, her money she is paying would actually be more than her BF's amount in the long run due to interest, so this creates an i…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 10:17 PM
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