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4

You'll be fine. That's in the average range
/r/seduction13/08/19 10:07 AM
5

Efficiency is key Don't waste your time Maximize your time Play the numbers game Don't be afraid to fail Don't be afraid of rejection Learn from your mistakes
/r/seduction21/06/19 12:05 AM
6

Make sure they're worth your time
/r/seduction16/06/19 03:58 PM
10

Make it clear when you make the date not after.
/r/seduction15/06/19 07:19 PM
1

She was not loud or nagging. She was very physical.
/r/seduction13/06/19 11:16 PM
1

My ex was a short girl and very dominant lol
/r/seduction13/06/19 10:30 PM
1

Too bad I'm ugly AF ....
/r/seduction13/06/19 03:32 AM
2

I like the girls who respond to my jokes with sarcasm.
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:25 PM
1

I appreciate all of your advice. I'm just not very attractive unfortunately. And online dating is fairly superficial. So I'm trying to compensate with hustle.
/r/seduction13/05/19 02:55 AM
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I think I have one of those.... :( but it's just me against a marble tiled wall in the opera bathroom. With a nice collared shirt on. Still gotta find a way to ditch the selfies.
/r/seduction13/05/19 02:52 AM
13

Makes me feel better about my dating profile lol
/r/seduction12/05/19 06:08 PM
2

I'm just ugly lolol
/r/seduction11/05/19 06:26 PM
-3

Women have fake nails, fake hair, pushup bras, and makeup. Dudes have different tools to be promiscuous. But it's the exact same thing.
/r/seduction09/05/19 09:28 PM
7

I've tried this before a few times. For me it just killed the momentum rather than increase it.
/r/seduction09/05/19 09:27 PM
9

Even if half of it doesn't work the other half will. And that's a lot better than some dudes will do on their own
/r/seduction09/05/19 09:25 PM
5

It can work. Many other variables to consider though. But if your vibe / energy projection is good then words aren't super important.
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:19 AM
1

No selfies ? I dunno if I have pictures of myself other than selfies lololol
/r/seduction05/05/19 06:52 PM
1

Late twenties ? Advanced age ? Ridiculous !
/r/seduction04/05/19 11:04 PM
1

What's your actual success ratio ? Start tracking it ! I'm close to 10 percent successful on my opening. So 90 percent of approaches are instant rejects. But that's not bad in my experience. And then of that 10 percent 90 percent never result in a date. So it takes like 100 approaches to get a date. And I'd say only half of my dates result in any meaningful 'action '.
/r/seduction04/05/19 10:54 PM
1

Yeah man. I'm just not very attractive. But I am very charming. Apps are all about that profile pic
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:23 AM
1

Depends on the girl.
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:16 AM
3

Take it super slow. Dont scare them away. Try to match their energy level. The hard part is increasing their energy level and getting them to open up.
/r/seduction01/05/19 08:57 AM
1

As a fat guy wiith muscles i will agree 100 percent
/r/seduction28/04/19 08:03 AM
1

So what's your endgame? If you can't seal the deal then don't even try. you're wasting everyone's time. Especially your own.
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:55 AM
3

Be more aggressive. Signal sexual interest. Not social interest.
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:51 AM
1

Accents can be very sexy. Don't worry about it
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:36 AM
1

I find balance is important. If she's high energy I project calm. If she's calm I project higher energy.
/r/seduction15/04/19 11:36 AM
3

I'm not a great looking guy lol I really do have to chase
/r/seduction15/04/19 10:21 AM
1

Ah I see Yeah never take a backward step :) but don't be afraid to walk away
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:27 AM
1

Beta shaming ?
/r/seduction02/04/19 10:54 AM
1

Same advice as to white guys. Or black guys. Race isn't a big deal. Or at least it doesn't have to be/ shouldn't be. If anyone wants to make a big deal out of it they can go pound sand
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:54 AM
3

Smile and leave with dignity. Let her know you won't stoop to her level and will remain a gentleman no matter what.
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:21 AM
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If you act like a friend you end up in the friend zone. If you don't want to be just friends then don't act like a friend Act like a romantic interest. Show your intent. You can do this in a nice way. But not in a friendly way
/r/seduction22/03/19 10:35 AM
1

Very true. And I have very bad luck there for that reason
/r/seduction20/03/19 05:33 AM
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Just tell her you'll call your other girl who has cash. Tell her she always buys you stuff but she's not as pretty. If only she'd be willing to invest in you it might pay dividends in the long run. Make her jealous and reconsider your value and her potential competition. She might get mad temporarily but long run it'll be better. As long as you don't overdo it (if this is bad advice please tell me why )
/r/seduction19/03/19 11:12 AM
1

Women are naturally more socially intelligent in our society they're used to manipulating people. Usually just to defend themselves from catty bitches. But still they get more social excercise than men do. On average.
/r/seduction19/03/19 10:58 AM
1

My experience is confidence is number one. Humour is number two. Looks number three. But that just describes me lol that's what I'm familiar with because those are my tools and assets. I suspect incels are the opposite. Instead of only seeing the good in themselves like i do. They focus on the bad in themselves. (Not to say i dont see my own flaws but I try to disguise them rather than fixate on them )
/r/seduction19/03/19 10:56 AM
1

I can't speak to accusations. Never happened to me. I have no experience there.
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:12 AM
1

As long as I can be heard yes. Very loud music basically kills my game lol
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:11 AM
1

I would say 75 to 90 percent chance. But there are many factors. And a lot of it is pure luck.
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:22 AM
1

How cute is the guy ? How drunk is the girl ?
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:21 AM
1

What if you're below average looking ? I have very good charisma but am not much to look at.
/r/seduction13/03/19 05:24 AM
1

What do you mean by intimidated ? I'm a big scary looking dude. So when girls are intimidated by me it's because they think I'm gonna rape them. I have to be very quiet and mellow to counter this. But I suspect that's not your problem
/r/seduction13/03/19 05:01 AM
1

list them on your dating profile. talk about them face-to-face. never list things face-to-face as it is too formal and cannot be remembered anyways.
/r/seduction07/11/16 02:21 AM
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i legit didn't want any hookups lol so i was trying to 'calm them down' but they have been very aggressive so far...
/r/seduction03/11/16 03:47 PM
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i've only used POF. I'm not good looking enough to pick-up on Tinder lol
/r/seduction01/11/16 06:48 PM
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And yet they acted like they wanted to hookup. The psychology is in fact why I asked the question though...
/r/seduction01/11/16 03:11 PM
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Not all RedPill advice is bad. A lot of it is about basic self improvement and confidence. But some of it is.... yeah, really bad.
/r/seduction01/11/16 02:34 PM
0

nothing wrong with that. my approach is very different. as my goals and means dictate.
/r/seduction01/11/16 02:32 PM
2

yes for sure! I always play a game with myself where I try to learn as much about the girl as possible while she learns nothing about me, or as little as possible. Maintain the mystery! Intrigue her. Make her work to figure you out. And you do know what kinda work I'm talking about right? ;)
/r/seduction01/11/16 11:52 AM
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lol yeah man. never listen to her mouth, listen to her BODY LANGUAGE! :) mouths lie, bodies don't.
/r/seduction01/11/16 11:38 AM
1

get some interesting hobbies then man lol
/r/seduction01/11/16 11:31 AM
1

The best advice I can think of is; listen and share. Listen to what she says then share something interesting and pertinent, then move on to her again. back and forth. You don't want it to FEEL like an interrogation. you need to break up your pacing
/r/seduction01/11/16 11:08 AM
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It depends a bit on your approach. I usually say something like 'Interesting is my type. Unique and different. And the thing I love most about that 'type' is that it's a 'non type' you cannot go looking for it, only hope for discovery' You're giving an answer (but not on which is likely to DQ you), showing yourself to be open-minded, daring her to impress you, and implying that she is interesting.
/r/seduction01/11/16 10:53 AM
1

10 is my go-to number. and for every 10 number assume 1 date. If you can beat this; great. But by setting it conservatively you won't be disappointed if you don't live up to it.
/r/seduction01/11/16 10:46 AM
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If the girls you are treating as friends like you so much; start treating all girls like that. you've found a winning formula now just apply it in the proper area. Your story in fact reminded me of my early dating life. Now I treat all women as 'just friends' and sometimes the harder you try to put them into the 'friend zone' the more aggressive they become in pursuing you.
/r/seduction01/11/16 10:45 AM
1

You're not coming on strong enough man. Be very clear in your romantic intent. Not by saying it, but by doing everything but saying it. Make it as clear as possible without spoiling the romance by outright saying it.
/r/seduction01/11/16 10:43 AM
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meet up ASAP. establish a physical, and visual connection ASAP make it sensual. Put a face to the name. Not interesting? No worries; talk about her. Women love to talk about themselves, they find themselves fascinating. Ugly; do the best you can with what you have. Haircut, gym, diet, shave, nice clothes, good posture, fresh breath, body language. Every little bit helps. A thousand small steps eventually add up to a lot of ground covered.
/r/seduction24/10/16 08:29 PM
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same here. i pointed out to the mod i was trying to help and had positive group karma, with a long history of posts contributing to the community. didn't even bother to respond to me.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 10:44 AM
1

there are two kinds of asians; 'classy asians' from china, korea, and japan. and 'jungle asians' from everywhere else lol jungle asians are as you describe philipinas. classy asians as you describe 'orientals'
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 10:17 AM
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my best tool; not giving a fuck always be confident, always be happy, always hold the power. never be needy, never be clingy, never care what she thinks or wants. women love this
/r/seduction23/10/16 09:55 AM
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you can be a 1 and get a 10 if your game is strong enough; yoda level game man. short, old, and ugly; but powerful
/r/seduction23/10/16 09:43 AM
1

what have you done to keep yourself out of the friend zone? if you've not been up front in your intentions you likely are in the friend zone. be up front. or be friends. there is NO in between. the man who tries to stay in between finds himself swept into the friend zone
/r/seduction23/10/16 09:41 AM
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only 30 girls in 6 years? thats wacky man... why so few? it has to be something you're doing wrong. you're either messing up the date. or you're messing up the setup to the next date. evaluate your techniques and methods.
/r/seduction23/10/16 09:38 AM
1

how would your behaviour change if you knew this? would it change your goals in relation to her? generally treat all women as if they want you. works great for me.
/r/seduction23/10/16 09:12 AM
1

Too long! leave her wanting more. leave her on a cliffhanger. just give her a taste! 2 hours! you gave her everything man! why would she want more? As soon as you start hitting a good connection; leave. make her want to get back in touch with you! not the other way around
/r/seduction23/10/16 09:10 AM
1

the techniques which work most often are the ones that work on the most people. our techniques work best on 'average' girls. any skew one way or the other, in any area, will throw off our game. with the possible caveat that hot girls have been studied in more detail and our techniques may be slightly skewed towards them...
/r/seduction23/10/16 09:07 AM
1

trial and error? why learn by subtraction? isn't the quickest way to learn by researching first? others have already DONE the work you just need to read their findings; what could be easier? Invest in your future man. An ounce of preparation is worth a pound of cure. PREPARE to succeed. set yourself up for success. Does none of this ring a bell?
/r/seduction23/10/16 09:06 AM
1

seduction can help you in ALL interpersonal relationships. it's just about understanding people, including yourself.
/r/seduction23/10/16 09:02 AM
1

this thread needs more posts lol my guess (as a rookie) would be; if she's not comfy talking about herself, talk about yourself and then transition into talking about her. so you could talk about your favourite film for example and then ask her what her favourite film is sound reasonable? or rookie error?
/r/seduction23/10/16 08:44 AM
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'lets take it slow babe. no pressure. no worries. just whenever you're ready' i often find this line drops their guard and they wanna smash right away lol if you do the right setup first, and keep the tension high. your words should reassure and relax, but your body language says 'i want you NOW!' works good for me :)
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:22 PM
1

no way man. do it NOW. the gym is great but you need to be able to win them over with your personality looks don't matter. do the best you can with what you have, try to be stylish, but your personality is gonna be like 75-90% of your 'game'
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:19 PM
1

pacing man. when it slows down too much; say something. when they're talking; just listen. if you know it's a reject; bail ASAP! ASAP!
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:15 PM
1

online dating is very different. you cannot use your body language or read hers. you cannot hear her voice or inflect yours. it provides major barriers. but it does allow for volume lol and a receptive audience.
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:08 PM
1

i usually try to offer contrast. if my pal is a 'nice guy' then i try to be a 'bad boy' or the other way around. that way the girl has a choice. we're not in direct competition. but to be fair; i don't have much experience as a wingman.
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:05 PM
1

ask her to buy YOU a drink. too many girls will try to use a guy for free drinks. i won't front to that. she'll appreciate your confidence, and your challenge to make her prove that she's interested in you.
/r/seduction10/03/16 12:45 PM
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