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dubbsix/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 06:45 PM
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dubbsix/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 04:19 AM
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Listen, still dealing with this. Its been months since her and I signed a mediated settlement agreement and her side still wont sign and keeps finding crazy reasons not too. They waited until the last minute to tell us they had a conflict on the day of court, but luckily we were able to speak to the judge and Proof up the settlement to where the judge granted by divorce BUT I still have to wait until at least Aug 19th for my ex to sign the decree. Bogus.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 02:36 AM
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Oh sue can. She’s just enjoying having me pay the mortgage a little longer while she piles away cash
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 12:13 PM
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She’s got a year to refi. But if she doesn’t then I’m back to fighting with her for that too. But one battle at a time for now
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 04:03 AM
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Im in Texas. Oh yes that sounds so much like what I am dealing with. I guess sadly this isnt rare for us to be strung along. I will take that into account. I am hoping to hear back from this attorney this upcoming week to see where the progress is. I may instruct him that enough waiting for them to respond. Send in the decree and see what happens. The hard part is I feel you are shouting at a brick wall. Like these guys seem to do things when THEY feel like it and not when I want him to. I liked…
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 03:06 AM
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Sounds like you had to pay double to get things done. That is how I feel as well with trying to research things and push stuff forward. Its a good idea but its a bandaid for having a suckass atty. I do appreciate the feedback though. Im just saying we shouldnt have to pay a guy a butt tone of money and then have to seek additional help.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 02:48 AM
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Aye that is great advice and not something I ever considered!
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 01:31 AM
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Yea she’s getting the house. Cars is in my Name. Our agreement is that I would pay off the car as a form of additional spousal support. It’s the mortgage payment that’s the problem.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 12:23 AM
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Yea my guys not going to do that and I think it may be a lot to ask of him to be fair. We just need to either get it signed or go to trial…. Which seems crazy because we already signed an agreement lol
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 12:21 AM
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I agree there. That is the plan. I have had a signed mediated serpent agreement for 30 days. If he can’t get this wrapped by end of this month I’m looking for someone else to finish this.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 12:18 AM
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Yes. I think it just incentivizes her not to do anything. Why would she you know.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 12:15 AM
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Yea thats the plan. Im hoping there is some good new next week or I might just loose my shit on my lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 09:55 PM
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Yea most likely what may end up happening. My lawyer is done man. He doesn’t wanna take this to trial I can see it in his actions. I definitely picked the wrong guy for this.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 09:32 PM
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Well that’s the point. We have already signed a mediation agreement one that cannot be overridden by the judge. All I need is for them to respond with “ hey reviewed the decree and no changes needed” and then send to the judge to sign.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:47 PM
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What’s the worse that can happen.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:21 PM
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I do have a lawyer but he his not fighting to get it done. I keep calling him and seeing no action. I am considering hiring someone else but seems like a waste just to get them to sign the damn paper.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:16 PM
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Gotcha. Yea most of that has already been transitioned over. I have to believe that there is some way to get this done. Literally all is needed his her review and then the judge can sign and we are divorced. I’m considering not paying the house and force her to take me back to court so to get them all in the same place and ask why they are ducking finalizing.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 08:09 PM
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Sorry not following. What do you mean
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 07:53 PM
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Yea, that is what my lawyer is trying to do. I tend to worry alot about this coming back to get me until its all over but other than the judge changing nothing else about her condition has so im semi confident the ruling wont change. Just never know... until its all signed and done with.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 09:38 PM
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I am and actually it took me 40+ years but I feel like i've finally learned what I want from a partner and have went about this experience quite different. Guys I will tell you, if you wanna get to know the next woman in your life abstain from sexual activity until you get to know them. I know it sounds crazy but just being able to focus on getting to know them and not sacking them makes a huge difference and before you get too far into the physical you may learn that person just isnt what you e…
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 04:45 PM
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Honor your responsibility to take care of your kid and proceed with the divorce. If i had done this in my relationship 18 years ago I wouldnt be fighting in court right now.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/22 04:59 PM
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Only advice is get a lawyer to protect yourself. Going through a divorce myself at the moment There are a lot of good sites such as https://texaslawhelp.org/family-divorce-children
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/22 04:54 PM
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Do no favors during your divorce. You will only regret it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/22 04:42 PM
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Been there, going through it now. You have to realize that you've been with one person for a good while and enduring the stresses of divorce. Take it slow, allow yourself time to heal before even going there with the new lady. Maybe your body is telling you that you need more time.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/22 04:41 PM
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