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/r/seduction05/08/16 10:14 AM
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Sign up to a dating site because it sounds like your not cut out for this at all, and don't intent to learn
/r/seduction30/07/16 02:34 PM
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Lets not resort to name calling. Maybe I could learn a thing or two from him your right. I'll join a club of guys who meet up to talk about Japanese cartoons and then go smoke some weed with them in that derelict building after. Sure be real to yourself, but just realise most people think its fucking weird. I'll field test this life tonight and let you know how I get on.
/r/seduction05/02/16 04:03 PM
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The type of girls I want to attract into my life do not want a man who goes to cartoon club, smokes pot in derelict buildings and hasn't got the balls to take the lead and kiss her when he wants to. Each to their own though, this is just my opinion. It's effectively a man child. I don't know how old he is, young I'd hope. Your right though, own whatever you do and have a DGAF attitude about it, but seriously....
/r/seduction05/02/16 02:14 PM
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Anime club? Smoking pot in an abandoned building? Telling her you want to kiss her but don't know how? Sorry buddy but this wasn't solid at all. It worked and I'm honestly happy for you bro, but you need to step up your game. Tell stories that demonstrate value, take the lead in a situation. This is harsh as fuck I know, but it's what I thought so thought I'd share. Edit: spelling Edit: Oops, guess I better apologise to all the weed smoking anime fans that I pissed off below. keep doing your thi…
/r/seduction05/02/16 12:32 PM
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I've just had a discussion with some guys over this exact subject, check my post history. There's a difference of opinion on the matter but it's good discussion, it should give you examples. It basically boils down to whether or not you have plans/a social life yourself. I have tons of things going on in my life, whether it's dates I've got planned, friends I've arranged to do things with, concerts, tattoo appointments, some time to do some writing, time to myself, etc. This weekend for example …
/r/seduction05/02/16 09:48 AM
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Fair play to the guy though, at least he did something.
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:13 PM
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Taking her availability and changing my schedule to accommodate it seems needy to me. Giving her two days of the week your free is hardly over kill. I'd rather her chase me, maybe that's abundance talking. Either way, gonna agree to disagree. Keep doing your thing man.
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:03 PM
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Amen
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:50 PM
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Maybe I've not been clear enough. By that I mean, here's when I'm available, which one works for you? That's it. You should have a fun active life going on behind all this seduction stuff.
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:14 PM
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Go to a proper salon then and spend some more money on a better cut. Complaining on an Internet forum isn't gonna do anything for you is it bro! Sorry if this seems harsh, but your the one in the drivers seat (or barbers seat)
/r/seduction04/02/16 03:57 PM
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Yeah definitely always be leading, that's our job. I don't know about other people but I have shit going on and I know when I'm free or when I want to do something. With that in mind, it doesn't really matter about asking when she's free, because those are my only options. Putting it out there cuts through a few texts back and forth, if you know when your free that is. I'd rather put my cards on the table, as opposed to letting her pick one from the deck. It doesn't matter though if it works! Li…
/r/seduction04/02/16 03:48 PM
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Best advice I can give you is take a deep breath, relax and shoot the shit. You don't need to be way out there in terms of 'awesome and different' during your conversations, you just need to keep it flowing while not asking too many questions. Interested beats interesting, so focus the interaction on her. If you find yourself doing most of the talking, back off and let her ramble for a while. Make statements on things she says, share your own stories and opinions on her responses. Weave sexual t…
/r/seduction04/02/16 11:46 AM
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Just rinse your dick under the tap when you get home and dry it with a towel. No offence but did you really need to ask a group of guys how to wash your wiener after a night out? You shouldn't be smelling that bad either man, hygiene on point before you go out, that includes trimming down there.
/r/seduction04/02/16 11:36 AM
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Awesome read man I'm happy for you, congrats and keep it up! Loved the mention of LSD as an eye opener. I had quite the opposite reaction while tripping on magic mushrooms and realised I didn't like who I was or where I was heading, this was the catalyst for my own journey and wow am I thankful. While your right there wasn't really anything ground breaking in here in terms of secrets to start doing well/getting results, that doesn't take away from the point you made that not everyone's doing it.…
/r/seduction04/02/16 11:29 AM
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Definitely some solid advice for people struggling to get this right. I understand where you're coming from asking when they are free, but I've had better success being more specific with my own availability. "Ok sweet, I'm free Tuesday and Thursday after 7" to me just sounds better and puts the ball in her court. Not only does this prove you have an actual life too and your not just pandering to her, but also cuts out the going back and forth saying days that aren't suitable. Just my opinion on…
/r/seduction04/02/16 11:10 AM
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In Mark Mansons words this would be described as 'needy' as your trying way to hard.
/r/seduction03/02/16 10:42 AM
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Thanks for reading! I know exactly what you mean bro, and I think that’s an awesome point that a lot of guys here would benefit from knowing. This isn’t rocket science, it’s just a combination of being ‘real’ and putting yourself out there. Mark Manson’s – Models describes this as being ‘vulnerable’. The only thing I will say is that you need to have your shit together for this to be easy, which I guess you have as well. When you’re not trying to fool someone into liking you and you’re just bein…
/r/seduction03/02/16 09:22 AM
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Thanks for reading and dropping by! Glad you enjoyed it, definitely more to come in the future.
/r/seduction03/02/16 09:21 AM
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Thanks for reading, glad you enjoyed it. I guess it comes down to having an understanding of social calibration. How you act when talking to dudes is obviously a lot different than when talking to chicks, but it should be easier. You don’t need to worry about escalation, sexual tension, Kino and all those things. You just focus on having a laugh, showing interest in them in some way, while bringing a good ‘vibe/energy’ to the interaction. For example, how I got invited into a group of 12 people …
/r/seduction03/02/16 09:21 AM
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Thanks for reading and glad you found it inspiring. It’s only been 3 weeks for me of actively doing this kind of thing, but from now on it’s a lifestyle change and something that doesn’t stop and keeps progressing. First week I just hit up a bar during the week and didn’t have anywhere near this level of success. I chilled in a few bars and had some drinks, made friends with a musician in a jazz band. Then went to a rock bar, tried to game a hot bar girl, number closed outside as I was leaving a…
/r/seduction03/02/16 09:20 AM
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Thanks for the feedback man. Really looking forward to taking this even further.
/r/seduction02/02/16 11:27 PM
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That was my aim the first weekend and I really enjoyed it, awesome night for me. Go for it, Good luck!
/r/seduction02/02/16 11:25 PM
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Sorry buddy
/r/seduction02/02/16 11:22 PM
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I understand where your coming from about going out solo, but in my limited experience, unless your wingman is occupying your targets friend, your pretty much on your own anyway! Don't get me wrong, having friends to fall back on if things don't work out is definitely a comfort thing.
/r/seduction02/02/16 08:11 PM
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that shit apparently. I think he meant the
/r/seduction02/02/16 07:45 PM
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Cheers bro, we're just getting started. The success is addicting, we all can do it.
/r/seduction02/02/16 06:05 PM
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Check out some of my stupidly long winded replies below, they will help you get out of that mindset buddy. Thanks for reading.
/r/seduction02/02/16 04:39 PM
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Ahh I'm no help then mate, sorry. Im in the UK. Just go to a rock bar, surprisingly that's where you find rock chicks! ;)
/r/seduction02/02/16 04:35 PM
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Thanks for your feedback buddy, but I can’t help but feel you’re greatly over simplifying this to justify your own demons. when I approach a girl, I'm not saying to myself "I read this book on how to do it, I'm gonna smash this shit now!" It doesn't work like that in real life. I have been a very shy person my whole life, but I decided that you know what? I could be gone tomorrow and if I did? Would I be happy with the life and choices I made. I had never approached a girl like this in my life u…
/r/seduction02/02/16 04:18 PM
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If you'd like to PM your city I will check for you? Any rock bar would work. You have to go to the places where the people you want to meet will be. I like tattooed rock chicks, so that's where I like to be, but not strictly.
/r/seduction02/02/16 03:57 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to read it! Knowing you found it inspirational is definitely enough motivation for me to write more from future experiences. Put the books down for a while, get yourself a self development strategy put together, action it and then get yourself out there. Good luck.
/r/seduction02/02/16 03:16 PM
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My pleasure, thanks for reading. Remember: The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it Jordan Belford (Wolf of Wall Street)
/r/seduction02/02/16 01:36 PM
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Thanks buddy! I'm 24
/r/seduction02/02/16 01:21 PM
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Looking for deep meaningful conversation and a niche fetish on tinder? You can't just put everything on the table straight away, it's too much. If you specifically only want that type of sex/hookup, maybe join a BDSM community? If not then naturally weave this into flirty conversation when you meet someone. Best part of your post was the last sentence, the rest comes off a little cringey. I'm into those topics of conversation don't get me wrong, but there's time and a place dude.
/r/seduction02/02/16 11:09 AM
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Sounds good regardless man. I did a similar thing last weekend and gained tons of social proof by being a social guy in the club and meeting tons of people, but like the comment below, it didn't get me laid as I didn't lock down one. It was fun though and I had a good night. Meeting one tomorrow for coffee. Just out of interest, how are you opening most of these sets? Do you have a routine or are you just saying something random Each time?
/r/seduction29/01/16 04:20 PM
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Real Social Dynamics, Google it and you'll know exactly what it's about in 2 minutes.
/r/seduction26/01/16 10:13 AM
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Yeah I tried to do something similar to appear unphased by it, shit test or truth. Ahh well, one of many right?! Gonna get back out tonight with it being Friday. Gonna try get at least a few approaches done, hopefully out with some friends this time too.
/r/seduction22/01/16 02:53 PM
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Ahh right no worries. Yeah you probably shouldn't do that! Thanks for the advice/feedback dude, much appreciated.
/r/seduction22/01/16 01:38 PM
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Sorry man I'm a little confused with your response. It's just you say you would always acknowledge the whole group as to not make anyone feel left out, but in your example with a girl doing it you say she's be more likeable if she just engaged the one she's interested in instead of saying hi to everyone then ignoring them to talk to the one guy. Unless I've read it wrong lol
/r/seduction22/01/16 01:21 PM
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Thanks for the advice man. One question, when your out by yourself at bars etc, when approaching groups what do you usually do, just say " I noticed you across the room and thought you were cute/wanted to say hey" or situational opener? Suppose first approach states your intentions better and sooner, would be interested to hear your take on it though. Also, would you still go for 2 sets when alone even though you can't really isolate without her friend cock blocking you for stealing her friend l…
/r/seduction22/01/16 12:41 PM
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Sounds like wise words man, thanks. Especially that last part as that's exactly what I'm trying to do. I want to be social and not be going out to just pick up women. Don't get me wrong, it's good if it happens but for me it's a combination of getting out, having fun and then having the skills I need to actually pull the trigger when I want to.
/r/seduction22/01/16 11:32 AM
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You did just that! Thanks dude. Your right I need to be doing what I did with the bar girl with a few sets a night. Guess I'm just getting comfortable with the idea of being out by myself, which is all new to me. I'll get there in the end I'm determined.
/r/seduction22/01/16 11:26 AM
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Thanks man, it's a start and got me out of the house, even if I didn't actually approach anyone in the conventional sense.
/r/seduction22/01/16 11:22 AM
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All I can suggest is if you aren't already, workout. I'm a tall guy myself (6'2") and work a 9-5 in front of a computer, so can find myself slouching with bad posture at times. Since starting /r/bodyweightfitness I've noticed that my posture has improved and when I walk I'm more confident in my movements. I think this is a combination of actually correcting my posture naturally and being more confident in my body as I'm 'pumped' more often due to the workouts. If your not working out, try doing …
/r/seduction22/01/16 12:07 AM
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