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that you're just projecting your own internal psychological issues You're projecting!!!!!!! Said the neckbearded autist redditer who doesn't even understand what Freud meant by a projection. Your long response is awfully defensive. I seem to have stepped on an eggshell you didn't like. One last thing, I know a few redpill users in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 07:35 AM
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You need to learn to hold frame bro. Beta tells are obvious when you're this insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:36 PM
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Nope, I am just a denialists worst nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:41 PM
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Hahaha no. That sounds like the ultimate way to Tommy Wiseau your conversation. "Anyway how's your sex life?" My comment about that is based on uni compus where feminine pretty boys had more of a sex life than more masculine average looking guys. Although masculine guys who played sports did well (due to status) but that's expected. Otherwise feminine dudes win.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:39 PM
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Studies have found that our faces (both men and women) are becoming more feminine. Also in one of my previous posts I proved that women prefer younger men. So I fail to see how looking older and more masculine makes you more attractive. If anything it's being sexually selected to look more feminine for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:36 PM
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Mark Manson The self help guru? I don't think he's a bodybuilder or has the exercise regime to parade with his shirt off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:26 PM
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I'm not particularly masculine but I don't fall into the feminine side either. I'm in the middle, similar to most guys on this sub tbh. Neither masculine or feminine. preferred" to your mr chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:24 PM
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Tom Hiddleston Had to look him up and realise that's Loki from Thor haha And LOTS of women, especially younger and/or quieter ones, really go in for the sensitive Mr. Dreamy types--fangirls were heartbroken when Ed Sheeran got engaged, for instance. Yeah exactly, being sensitive is preferred by women these days. Unless you're really ugly or low status it works well. Masculinity Week always smacks of how many guys on here have a very crude understanding of masculinity. I define masculinity like s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:22 PM
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Have they done studies on millennial women? Perhaps a difference between boomers and millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:18 PM
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Sure looks wise but I'm more talking about his attributes rather than his looks or even fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:17 PM
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Well I work in engineering so I coalesce with blue collar and white collar people all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:14 PM
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industries like recruitment and finance and sales where even your entry level is very competitive and masculinity is encouraged. Women are as competitive as men for getting jobs and work in those fields today. Are they masculine? Women often make better salespeople in certain fields because people trust women more so they can make more deals. Nothing to do with being like Donald Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:12 PM
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Your definition of masculine seems to come from the type of job they work, If you could read properly I explained traits of masculinity in the beginning and even throughout. Not to mention university is where you will have the easiest time to get laid. Send that to r/theredpill , they're the ones who need that reminder you came here to hope to get validated. What validation would I get out of this site? I come here for a laugh and commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:08 PM
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Connor Murphy actually has the same psychology as an insecure hot girl looking for likes and validation on Instagram. I know you didn't say anything about him but that's what came to mind when you talked about bodybuilders taking their shirt off. There are women who are attracted to masculine men. But maybe those romance novels where the protagonist is ripped appeals to a minority. Good looking pretty boys are what make the most money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:03 PM
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Good point but those are men at the top in upper management/executive roles. Not your average basic bitch corporate slave. He's a submissive bitch to those above him, no masculinity is allowed or will be tolerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:59 AM
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Dunno, don't care tbh. Good luck finding a woman in a big city around 30 years old with less than 100 guys as a count. So you know, I guess there's always the amish community.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:57 AM
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I dunno man I think women are sexually less attracted to masculine men these days. Otherwise more masculine blue collar workers would be having more sex and giving women the best orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:50 AM
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You think Harry Styles or Zac Efron types aren't cleaning it up? We live in a pretty safe world so women don't need as much protection. The main threats of today will be cyber rather than some guy mugging you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:48 AM
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Have you considered that women may actually like today's society and hate the nuclear family themselves? Brainwashing only works so well. You may lead the horse to water but the horse still drinks it because it feels the need for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:29 AM
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Yeah being a quant, especially a quant analyst sounds pretty tough. Much tougher than most engineering jobs (at least intellectually). Quant developer sounds like you code the trading/analyst platforms if I'm not mistaken rather than come up with the models. But yeah it's pretty tough in finance, especially since it's all performance based and the models only kinda work at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 05:07 AM
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And yet I have female friends who tell me this is exactly how it works even though many women (like yourself) will deny it. Who's right and who's lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 07:26 AM
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She doesn't need a hundred dicks in her past to realise a guy's no good in bed. True, you also don't need experience to know shit tastes like shit. But if you've tasted awesome steak, the other steak that's not as tasty you eat won't live up to the past will it not? It's not necessarily quantity it's more about quality. But the majority of women have easy access to high quantities of quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 07:19 AM
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Possibly true, although remember the boomers who whine all day about millennials being soft and weak are mostly saying that to feel like they're better. It's a "kids these days thing". When you were a senior in high school you probably looked down on the freshman and thought that they're worse than when you were a freshman. We also live in a time where you don't really need to be particularly strong to survive with our advanced technology. Gone are the days toiling in coal fields, now we toil in…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 07:04 AM
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Well the more partners a woman has had the more you've got to compete with as a man. If you can't satisfy a woman like her exes Chad Thundercock or Brad Thickstick your relationship is doomed from the start. I don't disagree it's an insecurity thing. But insecurity has evolved with us for a reason, it's a defence mechanism so you avoid a bad situation before it gets worse. Hence the insecurity of these "low value males" you berate. Not every man is a stud who can deliver mind-blowing orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 06:56 AM
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The reason I often point out the bullshit involved with STEM is because I am an engineer lol. "Just major in engineering bro, you'll change the world." Meanwhile your job involves just maintaining what already exists. Worse if you work in tech as you're just debugging dog filter apps for teenage girls. The hard part about most engineering jobs is dealing with other people. This is backed up by pretty much everyone I know too. You're not going to work on the future unless you either do it yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:45 PM
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There are still a lot of poor women with low education Have you heard about the upcoming Roosh world tour 2018? If you sign up now the entire manosphere will help you find a mail order bride from China. Finally all of your time working on your game will be rewarded!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:40 PM
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Don't even need that. Most tech/engineering jobs require you to use like 5% of what you learnt in college/uni. They're not particularly technically difficult. Most engineers end up gunning for management anyway. Only a minority of STEM jobs are technically difficult and those usually require PhDs as they want someone very specialised in a niche field.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:32 PM
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Medical schools and similar programs often have more women than men these days. Depends though. Medical school is a tonne of debt and if you only end up as a basic bitch GP it may be very overrated. If you wind up as a specialist or a surgeon you'll be rackin in the dough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:30 PM
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And thats one of my biggest things. What is a high N count ? The partner count you stop and realise "holy shit, how am I going to compete with all those guys". This number will depend on the guy, it could be one, ten, one hundred or one thousand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 10:42 AM
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Yeah I suppose the housing market can be tough on a single income. Luckily in any given area where housing prices are very high (cities) there's tonnes of options for these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 10:10 AM
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Yeah now that women don't need men financially you need to actually provide sexual attraction or validation to be interesting to women. Unless you have a loaded bank account and go for golddiggers of course. Gone are the days when your job was everything. It's no wonder why men are more obsessed with their looks than ever before (metrosexual pretty boys, gym bros on roids etc.). I read that plastic surgery has tripled for men in recent years (but women still use it more of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 07:02 AM
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What about us 5'10 guys? Off to Thailand where you can day-game in Bangkok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 06:58 AM
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I see redpillers in the comments here are mentioning that /theredpill only works if you are average. But if you are average you don't need redpill strategies because you'd already do fine. Self improvement only works if you don't need it. An ugly autist lifting weights is like painting a turd gold unfortunately. Not to mention many of their pieces of advice to attract women are useless and make little difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 06:52 AM
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I think women who slept around with like 500 guys and have no pair bonding ability probably had none to begin with. Those women probably genetically are predisposed to live a "life in the fast lane" lifestyle. They live for the short term thrills and excitement over anything else. I think they call it a high time preference (or is it low I can't remember?).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 06:31 AM
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Yes the numbers decrease but she'll still find someone. People who make good incomes or belong to upper classes generally wind up with each other, especially these days. They call it assortative mating. There's more than enough guys who makes 100k a year where she would live. Those guys are not going to marry a waitress, they're going to marry a woman in their class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 03:18 PM
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30-35 year old driven career women living the sex and the city tinder caroussel life in urban areas suddenly waking up and realizing it's now or never for kids is so predictable Unless these women are gunning for Christian Gray they shouldn't struggle to find a husband. They have tonnes of options available and they can pick their favourite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 03:09 PM
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I never said that 100% of men are unhappy and 100% of women are happy as anything. What I'm saying is that if you'll find someone hopelessly unhappy it's a guy and even the most unhappy women are somewhat content even if they're overall miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 03:07 PM
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They could always move somewhere else. I hear it's always sunny in Philly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 02:51 PM
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Your female friends could always break up with them or just simply ignore them and go for more masculine guys (plenty of them if you know where to look). But that sounds like too much work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 12:26 PM
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Yeah I agree that most tech/STEM jobs aren't hard, but that's true with all jobs. What's hard is dealing with other people, not the job itself unless it's manual labour or high intensity medical type stuff. But still HR jobs involve less work and you get paid the same. The whole STEM majors earn more is pretty bullshit, unless you're in the top 10% of your field. You can plan your weekend in a HR position rather than debug a new dog filter app.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 12:01 PM
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I hear women complain about how feminized men Define feminized. I see women having no problems dating feminine men as long as they're hot or popular/interesting. Who cares if they can't change a tire?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:56 AM
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I'm not going to reply to this because you are really emotionally invested in proving in your mind that I am a horrible human being with no compassion so you can feel like you're far more virtuous (and consequently superior) to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:32 AM
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Well I once read that female depression skyrockets after 30 in numbers (for women who develop depression). Manospherians will say it's because of the wall but even 45 year old single mothers have plenty of guys fighting over her. So their depression isn't because of no male attention. Could be lifestyle with obesity and being overrun with too many things to do. Too much pressure. Maybe the genetic problems finally kicked in? Post partum depression. There's so many potential causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:27 AM
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Your talking like the money ​these women get is even enough to live off. These women use Plenty of Fish too, plenty of providers there ready for a real woman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:24 AM
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Girls go to college to "find themselves", have a wonderful time, fill the quota and reap the benefits of the scholarship that was granted to them. Guys go to college to have non-zero chance of paying back their future mortgage loan, and, depending on a nation, to try dodging the military draft. And these guys end up spending all this money on college just to enter a corporate position where they are lectured all day by HR women (those same girls who partied all college). Just major in STEM bro s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:20 AM
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Middle aged single mothers in welfare lines look pretty happy too. Not as happy as young pretty women sure but at least they're getting that baby bonus. The men who are down on their luck getting unemployment benefits seem to be absolutely miserable and some lost hope away from ending it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:09 AM
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Interesting, but women seem to be enjoying their lives more than men. Also do these reports mostly look at women over 30? Happiness is also a tricky thing to look at because it's based on perception, these women could have it good yet be unsatisfied. Depression is also tricky because depression could be due to genetics or due to your life being in shambles and feeling like you're stuck in a prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:03 AM
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Ok I do admit I have never lived extensively in a small town in my life, I have grown up in a city (well the outer suburbs anyway). I have visited small towns and interacted with people who lived in those small towns, but not extensively lived there. I should also add that I am actually not American but I reference America mostly as most of you guys reading this are American. But having said that women seem to enjoy being able to live the city girl lifestyle. There must be a reason why the citie…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 10:58 AM
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Yeah what I see is 28-35 yo NYC women freaking out because they can’t find husbands Oh they could easily find husbands if they stopped gunning for the top 10% of guys in NYC. You know, good looking, ivy league educated, lawyer/banker/consultant/otherwise guys; getting those guys is a zero sum game (unless she shares). Mr average may live pay-check to pay-check but he is a perfectly fine guy, but these women don't want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 03:49 AM
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Meanwhile, a man’s SMV only increases until he’s like 40-45 This is BS, so your entire premise is BS too. Men age like milk. Hell even fat ugly 45 year old single mothers have more SMV than the average guy her age. There's far more demand for women than men across the board, it's not just Stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 03:33 AM
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I think I understand what you wrote better than even you do. It's just too bad you live in denial. Oh well results are what determine everything in life. Not what makes you feel safe when you're trying to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 04:03 AM
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Male SMV is not tied with age to the same degree as female SMV. "OMG, Sally check out this guy who looks as old as my dad over there. His balding head, wrinkles, dad bod and fat established wallet is turning me on sooo much! I'm so wet right now!" Said no woman ever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:00 AM
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provided they are fit and have a confident, fun vibe with money of course. This is key, otherwise young women will pick the less successful, less confident frat boy who looks like Zac Efron over some balding older guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 02:57 AM
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Yeah I can't disagree with you. Men peak at 25 at the latest, just like women. The manosphere is filled with older men who don't do well and think their time is coming soon. But the truth is that there is no tomorrow (like in that Rocky movie). There are guys here who will claim older men are more confident, established etc. but there's two things wrong with that. One is that the young woman will choose the younger guy despite his flaws because she has more in common and the other is that the yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 02:50 AM
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What are your thoughts on long distance relationships? It gets annoying having to bring a ladder everywhere just so your girlfriend can kiss you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:50 PM
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Why not both? Personally there's nothing like a hot older woman (especially if she has big tits). Mmmm when I was at uni there was this woman who looked in her late 30s with black hair and had a nice voluptuous figure and holy shit I literally drooled. Even so called "prime" women can't make me drool like that, unfortunately I had to go to an assessment. Having said that do I like milfs/cougars in general? Depends if I find her attractive, but yes I find older women attractive too. EDIT: Forgot …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 04:32 AM
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Oh bluepillers push the whole "just be confident" and be a good progressive feminist man and you'll do well. har har har and I thought my jokes were bad. Also bluepillers are often social justicy but in the most annoying way possible. In other words, if men do something women don't like apparently they're evil but if women do something men don't like you should just accept it you misogynist pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 04:27 AM
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When I say I disagree with redpillers I mostly mean their PUA/game shit, I actually agree with a fair few of their diagnostics of today's society and its problems. However their prescriptions (especially what men should do) are terrible. Perhaps I should've explained it clearer. EDIT: Oh many of the blogs don't exist anymore, but one is Aaron Sleazy. There's a few others that have a blackpilled bent (not necessarily incel, just pessimistic lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 01:27 AM
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Every conversation with him is all about..... performing the 'high status adult'. And he'll sometimes be like its tongue in cheek or sarcastic, but its not, if you know what I mean? Life isn't something to be enjoyed, its something to be accumulated. Jobs/homes/partners/kids aren't about having money/a place to live/love, they're just about..... being a person who has those things. I laughed because you actually described a significant percentage of users on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 03:34 PM
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I tried to be a "red pill alpha" and turned into an even more neurotic mess than I already was. I never tried PUA shit but I quickly realised that nobody in my area does that plus I hate small talk in that way. I eventually realised that there are guys who act like beta males who do really well in life and in attracting women and there are so called "red pill alpha males" who fail with women and life in general. So I realised this one sized fits all "one simple trick" is bullshit and I left the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 03:28 PM
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I'm not sure about your experiences of course but it is possible for a woman to flirt with you and not even want to fuck you. Especially very extroverted women who love attention a little too much. It is true that the things you mentioned are usually a good sign. But hey once I saw a woman smiling at me and even winking at me (in a social convention). I approached her and a long time afterwards learnt that she wasn't even sexually interested in me at all but just wanted to talk to me (probably f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 03:17 PM
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What is your technique Be tall and ugly, talk to her, hope she is in some way attracted to me and if we have chemistry (read mutual attraction) go from there. why do you think this is the best you can do for women? Well it's not like I have much to offer. I don't make much money right now, I don't have high social status and most of my interests (such as coding things, maths and inventing weird shit) are boring to most women. The only interests I have that are somewhat interesting are basketball…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 02:52 PM
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I try to make women as horny as possible. Most of the time it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:29 AM
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Everything you say is literally an RSD meme. Owen Cook is that you? RSD must really be losing business if you're trying to recruit redpillers here to try and save your failing business.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:27 AM
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lack of experience, is a major one and simply not knowing what to do. The catch 22 of dating: Likewise with employers women want men with experience, but you need experience to get experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:22 AM
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The redpillers refuse to accept the truth. Because it destroys their "American Dream" that they can join the elites if they just learn some autistic bullshit called "game". A woman is either DTF or she's not -- conversation is unlikely to change anything. Dayyyum
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:21 AM
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They probably weren't sexually interested in you and you've wrongly interpreted their interest in you (ie. they weren't flirting at all). Very common for men to overestimate female interest. I agree that women can just find a guy as good looking as you WITH better social skills. If she's got 100s of options at once why would she pick the guy who's less popular? ​
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:18 AM
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Don't worry mate, the guy you're arguing with fails himself. If he was doing well he wouldn't be here and he wouldn't sound like an autistic RSD PUAtard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:15 AM
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Meh many women say what you just said and yet do the opposite anyway. So he has a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:14 AM
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Autism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:05 AM
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Not if she's not sexually attracted to him, otherwise he's just another guy in a band.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 04:58 AM
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This isn't necessarily a tradition but going to a restaurant on a first date is terrible. Going out to restaurants and eating food in front of each other, especially at a decent joint should be something only couples should do. In today's hookup culture eating in front of each other is more personal and intimate than having sex and definitely kissing. Also it can potentially be costly and disappointing if it goes badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 09:34 AM
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The upper class and elites are getting married. But yes many of those marriages are legacy and entirely about status but it's still marriage. The lower classes are getting married less, either rampant single motherhood or cohabitation. So in some way marriage has some status to it, even among atheist or non religious upper class peeps. But if you're not in that class and have no family legacy to maintain you can do whatever you like. Millennials I think are getting married but just later. Colleg…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 09:28 AM
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Lifting and dressing well are overrated. Pretty boy twinks with Cap America t-shirts outfuck the whole redpill subreddit. Grooming in terms of hygiene is always good but is overrated too. Improve your looks if possible (mostly all about the face, you can't change height) and be as popular/high status as possible. That's really what it all comes down too. There are people here who will push the whole self improvement schtick (improve personality, confidence, social skills etc.) but it's all menta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 03:56 AM
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Hey if Ryan Gosling can have an AI gf, then other men can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 03:49 AM
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Modern psychological research is pointing in the direction that parenting only has a small effect on how a kid turns out. It's more genetics rather than the environment you grew up in. Check this out if you got some time to kill https://slate.com/human-interest/2018/03/parenting-doesnt-matter-that-muchas-long-as-you-dont-do-anything-super-weird.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 03:47 AM
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RP seems to be a place for men to work on self improvement and improve their game with women. good one what exactly are red pill women? Tradthots who spent their 20s hooking up with tonnes of guys, partying + doing drugs and being Sex And The City girls. Now they're pretending they're "not like other girls" and using trad bullshit to entice a "marriage material" man to like her. Many seem mentally ill and are faker than Kim Kardashian's whole body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 03:45 AM
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Ah right, yes that is true. Hell even if she isn't enthusiastic and a starfish there will be guys begging for her to stay. "Only two things are infinite: the universe and male thirst. Although I'm not sure about the former." [Albert Einstein]
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 02:06 PM
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The fly in this ointment is that most women who enjoy sex I'm not certain what you mean by that. The number of women who hate sex is a tiny meager minority, if a woman seems to hate sex she just hates it with you (the guy). My N-count up until age 18 is probably about equal to my count from 18-51, lol. Most relationships don't last these days, especially with our "gig economy". Off to Houston one day, then to NYC the next month. Good luck keeping a relationship with those demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 01:55 PM
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I can't prove or disprove what my female friends say and nearly every woman I have observed both online and offline do. To put it simply. Very few women are celibate and it's quite easy to rack up a tally over a long period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 06:43 AM
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"A woman with enough alcohol is as honest as one can be" Old Chinese proverb
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 06:38 AM
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Yes I know you'll reject the majority of them, but when you find the needle in the haystack it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 06:31 AM
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Not hard to believe at all. That's less than 1 partner a month over a 10 year period. Pretty easy tbh, especially considering if you have 100s of thirsty men wanting you at any one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 05:41 AM
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Most women have triple figure partner counts. Hence why most women will reject men without a past of their own and also because those men are unattractive. Good luck finding a woman without a past, you may find a woman who lies though. Ignorance is bliss as they say. Also men these days are turned on by women having slept around. They feel as if since they're number 151 and she stays with him that makes him better than all the rest. Like he's the superior male, an egotistical but natural emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 05:05 AM
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No women love today's society. They live in an all you can fuck buffet with attractive men, make their own money and get the validation they always wanted. There's not much room for validation in a traditional society, hence why women are exuberant about today's world. It's men who want trad gender roles if anyone. Too bad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 05:01 AM
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Only if he has a fat wallet, but even Harvey Weinstein met his own downfall. I suppose that is an advantage of being male in that being fat and rich/high status is acceptable, but how many men achieve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 02:55 PM
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I wonder when the fat acceptance movement for men will come around. However after seeing plus sized Barbie I'm still waiting for plus sized Ken.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 11:39 AM
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namely good looking guys who are just socially retarded Haha maybe, but still unless you have aspergers or extreme social anxiety I see good-looking guys who still do ok who aren't socially fluent at all. However those guys may just be "hookup material", but it's better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 11:36 AM
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I agree but what I mean is that most people don't need to try to reinvent themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 11:29 AM
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Hmm yes it's interesting what we will do with the sexual underclass. In older times they were sent to war and died, but nowadays what can you do with them? But then again have you seen VR Pornhub, it's crazy. Combined with hookers, videogames, netflix, beer and pizza; that should be enough to keep them in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 10:44 AM
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Get rid of depression and success follows. Horseshit, most people aren't successful (what society defines success, you can rationalize whatever you like individually) and yet most people aren't depressed (they may be unhappy/unsatisfied though). Also plenty of depressed successful people with pessimistic mindsets. Checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 10:41 AM
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So just be yourself, but if that doesn't work lay down and rot? I like it. The truth is that being yourself actually works for most people, in one way or another. If you need to resort to all these bullshit self help gimmicks your future isn't looking good. The good news is that there's so much entertainment to distract us from what we can't have. Like the new Spiderman game mmmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 10:26 AM
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For a self-help place, TRP is filled with a lot of negativity and bitter people. Personally, I think part of the reason is that they promote so much toxic masculinity. They're a pickup artist place, most of their posts are about attracting women. Having said that it's the blind leading the blind because nobody who's successful is involved with self help forums. Also toxic masculinity is attractive to many women so hence why it exists (even among feminist women gasp). However redpillers aren't ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:52 AM
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I think those women are just trying to not sound like sluts or "those other girls". So many women have a hard time admitting that their attraction is mostly instantaneous like men, because otherwise that makes them sound like neanderthal like men. [she's a princess lol]
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 10:36 AM
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Can't list a time where I had a chance then rejected it but I can give a list of things that would turn my hard drive to a floppy dick. Overly controlling women/shrews (like a Delores Umbridge or Nurse Ratchet type) Women who sound like teenage drama queens and talk with that ugghhh attitude Dumb women Women with daddy's little princess syndrome Any woman with a very nasally and annoyingly high voice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 10:32 AM
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Yeah but when that relationship inevitably ends she's back into it until the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 06:10 AM
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Not exactly a redpiller but if you don't think most women are sleeping around you're in complete denial. You may just not be allowed to participate for whatever reason. Also a woman can get bored of a good dick and want to move on to another good dick. There's no shortage of hot dogs all around. > taken from a male perspective of wanting a pussy carousel. Who me? Nawwwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 03:20 AM
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Hmmm I find that theory hard to believe. Of the two women I've had sex with (yes I know that's a very low number) so far in my life, they wanted to fuck me the moment they laid eyes on me. Attraction was there within the first 5 seconds. This is amplified by my friends who do 10x better than me (not too difficult) who all admit the women they fuck wanted to fuck them from the moment they laid eyes on each other. Many women here want to rationalize that female sexuality is more virtuous, rational…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 03:11 AM
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ou just want to exacerbate the issues of sad young men? I can't do anything of that calibre, I'm not a wizard. Unattractive men need to figure out the solutions for themselves (if one exists) or just find peace in something else in their life. Not listen to shitty advice from somebody that has never dealt with a problem like theirs and therefore has no idea on how to solve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 01:40 AM
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That sounds like a status thing rather than anything else. If he was creative but with little/no status no woman would give a damn. Gotta be up on stage for anything to work, for ugly men fame is your makeup lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 01:21 AM
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is trying to describe how sexual attraction to men by women is not instantaneous lust like it can be for a lot of men LOL, yeah right. While female sexuality is not quite the same as male sexuality to rationalize that female sexuality is more moral, virtuous and less shallow is pure bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 01:19 AM
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There's a good reason why these PUAs go to POOR countries and apply their "game" (more like wallet).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 01:16 AM
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"Those who can't, go into management and consulting." MBAs on suicide watch
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 01:15 AM
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denying that unattractive people pair off Correct with each other, yes. garbage circle jerk This is a circle jerk too. Every subreddit is, it's what makes reddit, reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 01:13 AM
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Did this "love coach" happen to write The Rules (that book written as dating advice for women)?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 01:11 AM
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And for some weird reason you get off on feeling better than this poor chap. Leave him alone. Also you don't have the answers to his problems. He has to figure out the solutions himself, you don't know shit. Especially if you've had it easy in this area your whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 04:04 PM
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love coach Could you please tell me what this love coach told you as advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:42 PM
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There's another kind that comes from the person themselves, their personality and interests, Geez and I thought redpillers were the delusional ones. "Holy shit Molly, his interests in Renaissance history is making me soo horny!" Said no woman ever. That's emotional attraction, not what makes a woman wet between her legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:33 PM
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They come from Pepperidge Farm. In all seriousness there are always going to be loser men. There's a surplus of men and many women would rather live alone with cats than date these unattractive men. The good news is that we have so much entertainment to play around with we can just forget about our reproductive instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:16 PM
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Yes but with 40 year old women. Not cutesy tight 22 year old college sloots. Redpillers are living in la la land if they think 22 year old Suzy will pick them over 22 year old frat boy Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:13 PM
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But you have to work toward that goal and put down bricks! Yes yes, you need to work harder bro. Anyone can make it, it's all about the power of positivity. It's so easy to succeed, if you can't you're just lazy. I've never struggled to be attractive ever, so I know all about how to fix your problems despite the fact I've never met you. I can just feel the solutions. Stop being a victim and clean your room!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:06 PM
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I'm not exactly a bluepiller but I'll give you some advice that may be helpful. All dating advice is pretty much either bullshit or mental masturbation. There's a good reason why only desperate people who fail at dating resort to this advice out of desperation. Mark Manson while may have some success in dating (not much else though besides self help shit) is only parroting his opinion. Which if I recall is "neediness is the most unattractive thing to women"; however there are needy men who still…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:00 PM
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Stop reading dating advice. Self-help is a cash cow that isn't really interested in making a person better. This, you'll never find a self-help guru who's actually done anything worthwhile with their lives. Like the old saying goes: "Those who can, do. Those who can't teach."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 02:51 PM
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I plan to pull 20 year old women in my 30s as well. Good luck budddy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 12:32 PM
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Ok so that's husband material stuff. Let's frame it another way. Would you be hornier being with an attractive guy who is 24 or 34? Assuming they both have what you find attractive and what you're looking for. Is youth more sexually attractive than a slightly older looking guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:15 AM
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Yeah because some manosphere douche has it all figured out aye. Research he pulled out of his ass. I scanned the video and he has literally no data in it that I can see, he's just peddling false hope to losers to make money (like all manosphere gurus). The research in my post says otherwise. Also look around you most couples are similar in age (give or take). Younger men are more virile and healthier so makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:11 AM
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Yeah Jordan Peterson is basically a more sophisticated life coach. That's not a good thing because life coaches can't fix your problems, only you can. Hearing mental masturbation is not going to fix your problems. This applies to the self help industry and the manosphere (life coaching charlatans) too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 02:29 AM
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So you're off the cock carousel and looking for a beta bux? [haha I'm jk] In all seriousness, why do you suddenly find guys slightly older than you attractive? Is it wanting someone who's more similar to you or just wanting someone who's also interested in you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 02:27 AM
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Manosphere gurus also want to profit from lost boys too. It's not just about having a mid life crisis, they're broke too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 12:46 AM
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Yeah but redpillers think women over 30 are post wall. But for 35 year old men that's their entire market of women interesting in them lol. Confidence is the most sexually attractive trait to women period, and I doubt anyone could or would try to debate that. I will. I agree that confidence does matter but it only matters if you have actual attractive traits to go with it plus if it's actual genuine. A fat ugly neckbearded guy with all the confidence in the world will still not be a womaniser, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 12:43 AM
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If you're referring to me I'm not a bloop. Status is debatable but women certainly don't get wet thinking about a man's bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 12:37 AM
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Can be is like relying on the lottery. Most young women are MORE attracted to men their own own age. Sure there's exceptions but good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:02 AM
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I hear about it anecdotally, and in the news. There are lots of examples I can come up with. See that's the thing. Nobody here, both redpill and bluepill have any of their own stories. All their stories are observations on other people they know. It's an outside looking in kinda thing. Onto your point. There may well be cases of older men and younger women but usually it's either daddy issues or money that's involved. Telling lost teenagers and men in their 20s that they'll be slaying college pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:02 AM
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So at 35 the odds are good but the goods may well be odd?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 01:56 PM
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It saves time and energy if you pick from among the guys who actively pursue you. Soooo lazy. Whatever happened to the good ol American "pull yourself by the bootstraps"? Hard work is the key to success girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 01:17 PM
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Does it get frustrating to look at every guy and have to mentally decide if he's the specific man you want or not? Because that sounds pretty annoying to me if I had to do it everyday. Instead you can look at potential partners like men do, a quick fraction of a second glance to determine if you'd fuck her or not. So much easier and it frees up your brain to focus on other things. Disadvantage is that most/nearly all of those "yeah I wouldn't mind doing her" end up never happening because she do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 01:02 PM
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Brah my game makes me go backwards in time. My game is so on point that I shook hands with an elderly Einstein the other day, even he don't know what the fuck's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 11:33 AM
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Well that depends what you mean by biological prime. It is true men keep developing both physical and mentally (brain development) until they're 25 (on average). But male virility peaks in his teens and early 20s and declines after 30. Same with fertility too, although sperm only rapidly decreases in quality I think after 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 10:45 AM
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Youth really is wasted on the young. No wonder my sex drive has gone out of control at 24, it's my biology telling me this is your last chance with young tight cutesy chicky babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 10:40 AM
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It's also the same manosphere that worships Matt Forney and despite many members being on TRT they throw tantrums like teenage girls. Sometimes life literally goes full circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 09:12 AM
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All this means is that men have much more bargaining power in their mid 30s relative to their 20s, on average. it doesn’t mean the average 35 year old will date a 20 year old. I don't see this at all. Most men who do well in their 20s do well in their 30s. Men who do badly or average usually repeat this in their 30s too. Those guys with bargaining power in their 30s usually had bargaining power in their 20s too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:08 AM
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What type of millionaires do you prefer, Silicon Valley nerdy types (like Zuck) or famous young celeb (LA/Hollywood) or big time winners in competitive careers (Boston/NYC)? There's plenty of choices for young women for sure. Whatever type of man you want you just hop on to the appropriate city.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 05:44 AM
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I haven't used TRP in 3 years (long abandoned that) but Rollo did use it. Also if you worship somebody that's implying you think they're above you so TRP thinks Rollo is something to aspire to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 05:42 AM
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What, an alpha male like Roosh or Rollo Tomassi? I'll pass thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 05:18 AM
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Well many women don't care about money or status when they're very young, only when they're looking to settle down. An attractive guy, even if he doesn't have his shit together will be fine. Among guys in their late 20s there's tonnes of attractive guys with their shit together so yeah unless this woman loses out to attracting them I don't see why she would go older.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 05:17 AM
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False. Are you going to say why a woman would be wetter around a 40 something guy when there's a younger more virile man with the same characteristics just around the corner?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 05:15 AM
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Many men think a woman being friendly with him means they're flirting. Unless you're having sex with these women it's mostly speculation (though you are married lol). Your status as a DJ would help, I agree with that, it's circumstantial status of course. Often women who jump at DJs at clubs are often not the most attractive, but I don't know your situation. But then again there are outliers of course. Maybe I should become a DJ, but there's tonnes of competition as pretty much every guy wants t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 05:14 AM
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My game will make me the next DiCaprio! Just gotta finish reading Roosh's new book and Rollo's new blogpost. I'm going to make it brahs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 04:30 AM
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That's essentially beta buxing though (socially accepted prostitution). I mean sure it works yeah, but it's cheaper if you just see a pro. Also hot young gold-diggers often have access to guys with million + in assets, but yeah i don't know where you live either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 03:49 AM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 03:42 AM
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Those things will make you attractive to women your own age but younger women may want those things too but from a guy who's around her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 03:42 AM
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Yeah true they're going for attractive high school guys yes, not Eugene the leader of the C++ club
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 03:40 AM
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Do you feel this is a change based on necessity (you're getting older so you prefer people who want you) or a change based on actual maturity (you're sexually attracted to what older men have to offer)? if he's fit, good teeth, has all his hair, This is key lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 03:39 AM
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Women, who are validation whores, do not know or understand their validation needs. They will fully diminish the vows they made with another person to fulfill those needs. Rather than introspect about those needs and fix them. Do you think you are pessimistic or do you have high self awareness? It is certainly not common for a woman (such as yourself) to actually think these things about herself and her own gender. Why isn't society like that? Wanting validation , seems like such a small thing? …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 09:49 AM
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Many people are doormats in certain situations, it's not just "nice guys". Sometimes you may have to be a doormat to get ahead (like at work, can't challenge your boss too early on).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:46 AM
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You can be a sexy nice guy too. There are guys who act like doormat neckbeards who actually do really well with women because they're handsome. But you'll never see these guys get shamed for being nice only to get laid, only ugly fat nerdy guys do lol. I agree that affairs will always happen. That is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:45 AM
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Okay your entire first paragraph is pure feminist-style shaming which is mostly used as a rationalization as to why these particular women aren't attracted to these types of guys. I mean why feel shallow for rejecting this guy when you can rationalize that these guys are "the real jerks". But not the hot guy who just uses me! He's honest and not manipulative! (lol) That same shaming is used by many self help gurus but this time to make money from self conscious men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:43 AM
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Yeah another point is that we live in an affluent society where women can and do make their own money (at least enough to live average). Also yes you could argue this is emotional validation rather than pure sexual validation. But ignorance was bliss back then, at least for the husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:36 AM
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Now it's the Assholes who stand out. So honest! So refreshing! Not smarmy and underhanded like those Nice Guys! So guys start acting more Asshole-ish, until that too reaches critical mass. There are so many women who rationalize this lol. But you're right, assholes can be just as fake as nice guys. Or they can both be honest, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:35 AM
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Yeah but my scenario is a very traditional society where divorce is frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:31 AM
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I'm a dude. For me whenever a woman says "real man" it's just the type of man she wants (especially right now). Essentially a guy she finds attractive with personality traits she wants (if she wants LTR she wants a guy with LTR traits). It's not an objective statement of value, even if she claims it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:22 PM
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A real man’s self-worth should come from the inside Nice idea in theory. In practice, like the Nietzschean ubermensch it is pretty much impossible to not want or desire external validation. BUT you can try to have a solid internal system going on, but you will always have those days where you want somebody to say you're awesome. All men here whether blue, red, black or whatever pill want validation from women. Whether you can be conscious of this and hold it in check is the question. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:16 PM
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Certainly When you're young, you have your own distinct personality that people will either love or hate. Adults (esp over 30) pretty much give up on life and let the world tell them what they should do and be. Plus with all the brainwashing from media sources no wonder they act so similar, they're all being controlled from the same shit. In short, children are more individual than adults. Because adults end up being slaves to being liked plus they give up and just do what others tell them to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 10:26 AM
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assuming you have game... lol most men have never read Roosh or others yet still can get laid. Also explain the guys with game who still fail with women (/trp) I don't know about marriage for myself but I do know that if you're sexually unattractive to women you should never get married. EVER. It only ends badly ​
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 10:00 AM
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Personality can certainly fade, it does for most people over 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:49 AM
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I ask because I notice TRP advocates developing a sense of self-worth that is not dependant on women, That's bullshit, women live in their heads rent free. Everything they do is about trying to be "alpha" and attractive to women. Otherwise I guess since I'm not stud that's painful to my self worth. But oh well, what can you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:34 AM
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Blue Pill: Too idealistic, many guys who are abusive jerks fucking hot girls Red Pill: Plenty of handsome soy boys who despite their betaness and meekness outfuck all of them Blackpill (if that's included?): Looks matter but so does personality. in fact they both matter and there's plenty of men that have both on lock Did I miss any pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:15 AM
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