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The misogyny of incels and incel spaces isn't really a hot take. It's pretty obvious. I mean when the language used to describe women is completely dehumanized it isn't a big leap to conclude that incels hate women. There are three different research papers into incel spaces. Turns out, it's just about 10% of incels who are vitriolitic and hateful. However, that minority of voices is amplified because it's shocking, and thus, paints the whole community as such.
/r/BlackPillScience12/01/23 12:04 AM
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I’m not a feminist at all. I’m specifically stating that I don’t accept the feminist argument that men and women are fundamentally the same. I don’t believe that. For instance, I can beat up 95% or more of women who try to fight me. I feel no threat from them, nor do most men. Hence why a man getting their ass groped isn’t the same as a woman, because the threat element isn’t present. The context is vastly different.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 09:55 AM
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We often have limited information and time to make assessments and judgements of situations. I wish I had all the time in the universe to intimately understand all the complex nuances but I don’t. I just have to make a decision off the information I have. If I see what I perceive as a stranger slapping a woman’s ass, and a stranger slapping a man’s ass, I’ll treat them differently. Maybe I’m missing some outlier information that changes the situation, sure, but I’ll make judgement now and allow …
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 08:29 AM
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Sure. But when I see a woman slap an ass and a guy slap an ass, most of those other details aren’t very relevant in the moment beyond gender.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 07:47 AM
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Maybe public opinion sides with women in those situations because men and women are different, thus the contextual nuances change the situation
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 12:15 AM
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If you break it down... I don't think so. For instance, there is a reason why men and women handle sexual advances differently... Because how men and women exist within that interaction are vastly different power dynamics.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/22 04:36 PM
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Yes, the genders are inherently different, which means socially, there are different expectations and mores. This is why I don't agree with modern feminism. It doesn't acknowledge these inherent gender differences lead to differences in society as a whole (Like the wage gap, or why men go to war). All of these "hypocrisies" you point out, have legitimate reasons rooted in logic if you agree the genders are inherently different.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/22 03:38 PM
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And I doubt she finds trump sexually attractive. He’s nothing more than a ticket to the ultra rich. She’s probably never masturbated to the idea of him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:05 PM
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I don’t think any high value attractive women actually find him sexually appealing in any way. All of his women are there for his gold, not for him as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:49 AM
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And those men are crybaby losers.
/r/AntiFeminists07/05/22 02:16 PM
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15% don't graduate HS, is the I think what they are going for. In NV it's like 50%, so the variance could mean this ad is state specific
/r/AntiFeminists07/05/22 02:14 PM
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No no... I'm saying he's jumping the nade for Wilson to allow him to still save face. Wilson obviously cares. Switch the characters around.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/22 09:21 PM
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That's how bros roll. He's rolling in dough, and probably doesn't give a shit what people think of him while he shits on a gold toilet. If he has to jump that nade, he's going to do it.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/22 07:23 PM
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Not really... Psycho Cunt is a general term that covers too much. BPD is a nightmare, cluster B is insufferable, HPD is apex chaos.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/22 04:01 PM
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What world do you live in where cops don’t go to extreme measures to protect there own? Every week there is another example of a cop being fucked up and given a full pass
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/22 09:14 PM
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Yeah, but then he'd get paid time off and be able to chill for a few months and hang out on his boat over the summer.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/22 08:25 PM
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It's not about casual germs, it's about STDs. I wouldn't want to go down on a chick, only to find out she just contracted gonorrhea she's unaware of. No thanks. She's a hookup, and I'm using her for sex, that's why it's a one night stand. I'm not risking my health just to orgasm. If she wants a guy to pay more attention to her needs, she needs to seek that type of guy, and they aren't fuckbois.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:44 PM
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He it’s just marketing firms are learning Reddit is useful so they throw their clients into whatever system they prefer
/r/AntiFeminists05/04/22 01:23 PM
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They can't possibly be absolutely equal consequences and expectations because again, a man vs women in this scenario are like apples vs oranges. You can't compare the two genders 1:1 equally because the context around it means much more. Like I said, a guy could probably get away with this in the right context, but more times than not it's going to be a legitimate danger sign, whereas this girl doing it isn't much of a danger sign
/r/AntiFeminists20/03/22 09:56 PM
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I'm also a classical feminist, this is trashy, but the whole "reverse the roles" thing to try and prove a point through double standards is what annoys me. Of course what this chick is doing here is trashy, but it IS different than if a man started doing this to women. When a chick does it you're like "Oh look at this drunk idiot, get away from me thot". When a guy does something like that it's, "Holy shit, this guy may literally try to follow me to my car, rape, and murder me." It's just differ…
/r/AntiFeminists20/03/22 04:47 PM
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Yes, there are different standards for men and women. That's why we don't agree with modern feminists.
/r/AntiFeminists20/03/22 02:30 AM
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Rules to live by: Don't argue with people who have an anime pfp
/r/AntiFeminists19/03/22 06:01 PM
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By definition, no. And he's fucking the third.
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 12:35 PM
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I dunno. The other person, is a woman who’s attractive. It’s basically him and two women, not him sharing his wife with another guy as the title implies
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 06:07 AM
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When you find out it's another cute chick... It makes more sense.
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 05:39 AM
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She pointed out a really good observation that I think applies to a lot of things. She pointed out the concept of how everyone recognizes their headwinds, but ignore their tailwinds. She mentioned how women would look at and compare with men's advantages and get upset, while completely oblivious to male struggles that aren't even on women's radars. That they are so unfamiliar with the male struggle, that's why they don't even recognize it in their face. Meanwhile, they are also oblivious to all …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:05 PM
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I completely dissagree. While it's true women obviously care about looks, I think men care WAY more. Men are just more visual and it makes sense evolutionarily that the visual of a good woman is what makes him horny. I mean, just to have sex he has to legitimately be sexually aroused, where a woman can not even be into it and still perform. I feel like women are genuinely more forgiving, but men are just more willing to take what they can get. But at the end of the day, they'll just find his par…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:44 PM
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Stop it. When there isn't data on something, people only can go off personal experience. You're trying to conflate an objective and well known testable and provable fact, with matters of opinion. You know what you're doing, and it's obnoxious. "In my experience people just love Roberts Pizza!" Isn't the same as "In my experience, the sky is red!" If you don't understand people giving opinions, I don't know what to say. If it's because you're autistic, I apologize. My cousin is autistic and strug…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:29 AM
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Now, it's still a matter of opinion. They literally said "Usually I find". It's a clear statement of opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:22 AM
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Dude, you have to be SUPER skinny... Come on man, hit the gym. If you can starve yourself, you can lift heavy things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:07 AM
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It's a debate tactic. Because once you don't deliver, either because there is no source on such a topic, or you don't want to go through all the work looking for a source after some low effort request... The person can then sit back with their hands behind their head and say, "Oh so no source? So you're just full of shit then?" And feel like they won they argument with a single word.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:58 PM
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I can't stand when people do this, as if it's a scientific academic debate. He clearly is stating a personal opinion based on his experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:56 PM
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We do however respect men who are sexually successful. This is what people don't get. It's not that they are sexually successful that people respect. What's respected is the TYPE of guy who can be sexually successful. He clearly has traits and characteristics that women want, which is why he's able to sleep around. Unlike women, who just need to be attractive and exist, the type of guy who's able to sleep around actually needs valuable and sought after characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:19 PM
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The sorority girl and plastic surgery types. Instant left swipe. Both have too much ego... One stuck in a cookie cutter traditional lifestyle, and the other stuck in obsession with material.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:24 PM
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I know that's how it is for me. No point in having 2 people working their ass off. When I was broke, it mattered because bills had to be split. But once I could cover everything +, I stopped caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:27 PM
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That does have something to play, but we have hard science showing the physical hormonal changes. We see the same effects in adults. Someone is a skinny person their whole life, then get fat, then lose the weight, and they are forever stuck in this yo-yo problem compared to those who never got fat to begin with. I wish I could remember the name of the hormone but basically, once you get fat, you trigger a high production of it which makes you hungry. Then once you lose the weight, that hormone d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:47 AM
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Yeah. That’s what causes it. If you’re obese as a child there is a 95% chance that you’ll be obese for life. It has to do with hormones. Once you’re obese you create an elevate hormone level for hunger cravings that take literally 3-5 years to return to normal after losing weight. So imagine trying to eat healthy for 3 years minimum, like a normal person, but also constantly, every day, feeling insanely hungry. It’s why most people who lose weight and keep it off also have to either get medical …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:08 AM
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It's more about the sluttiness... Usually it's sluts who do this. So it's just a red flag. Doesn't mean she's a slut, but it definitely starts her in that category to prove me wrong. It's also pretty desperate, so another red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:14 PM
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Breaking the social norms is definitely going to send off red flags. As a guy, I know I'd be sus, but even if I thought she was genuine, I'd be skeptical of why she feels the need to do this. How many guys does she do this with? Does she just have a huge list of men she has accumulated over time? I'm sure it's easy if she's a girl, so she must have quite a bit of dudes after her.... Is she just fucking a ton of Chads? I know when a girl would approach me who I wasn't into, I'd at least think, "W…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:46 PM
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That’s odd. It’s a human characteristic to form opinions based on experience. We don’t just blindly walking around not thinking and creating expectations and opinions about things. It literally makes no sense. It’s part of being alive to experience some type of person and forming opinions about it. Anyone who claims not to, is virtue signaling by pretending not to make judgements when they really do. Because we all do. It’s literally what all humans do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:54 AM
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You don’t have to research. You just start forming a general opinion after interacting or witnessing those type of people over time. It’s a completely normal human feature to start forming opinions based on experience. It’s literally one of our distinct traits. So I find it odd that you have literally no opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:51 AM
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You can still have an opinion. Do you really navigate and walk through life, not forming opinions on things, actions, and people around you? I mean, people who watch My Little Pony as adults don't affect me in any way, but I sure as hell have an opinion about those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:46 AM
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Sure, it's none of your business, but you can still have an opinion. I mean, furries are doing their own thing, and I don't care what they do in their free time. But I'm still going to have an opinion about those type of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:40 AM
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They act like walking outside is a sex deprived village in India where men just won’t leave them alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:57 AM
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I mean of course it’s subjective but we can find general trends that people subjectively fall into.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:16 PM
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Yes, we get it... Everyone is unique, and no universials. But people are speaking in general here. You can come up with general bell curve traits most people would generally agree with are low.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:08 PM
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Either way, when shit hits the fan, no one is asking women to sacrifice themselves. All throughout history, women and children get the priority escort over men, expected to stay behind. You literally made up this idea that we made up this cultural rule because men were leaving women behind. That doesn't even make sense, because if we made up this rule, doesn't that right there show that we rather have men staying behind than women? AKA, they have more value than men, so leave em behind to die?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:30 PM
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Lol, yeah and is that why men march into war too? Sounds like you're just making stuff up. Society has ALWAYS favored women commoners over men commoners in times of crisis. You can go back and read plenty of accounts of it, even religious texts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:39 PM
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No, they are a person first, hence why ALL people usually get priority for things. However, they have a sub category that's a bonus of having a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 04:10 PM
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Not at all... When people give life rafts to women or jump bullets for women, they aren't expecting pussy in return. Society and genetics understand the inherent value vagina has and how men are disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:58 PM
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Your whole thesis is invalid, because if you're from the USA. Prostitution is already practically legal everywhere. Guys are choosing to jerk off than pay for sex, simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:44 PM
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Prostitution is already pretty much legal throughout the entire USA... Just not brothels and street solicitors. But if you want a prostitute, bro... Just go to eros.com, plug in your zip, and find whatever whore you like, delivered to your doorstep. They are surprisingly cheap. I always thought the super hot ones would be hundreds to thousands, but it's only like 200 bucks. You can find a pornstar every now and then but they are like 1 grand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:33 PM
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You'd think so, but these guys you speak of, just don't "get it" because they are told just be nice, be yourself, and women will come to you. Which never happens. So they get confused as fuck...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:26 AM
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WOmen have rightfully learned how to navigate and attain power through passive means and plausible deniability. They are indirect by nature from generations of socialization that's passed down. Being direct used to be literally dangerous for women in the wrong room.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:55 AM
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Lot's of boys raised by single mothers... Single mothers just want their boys to not be assholes like their dad, so they drill into their head to just be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:53 AM
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Evopsyche is literally a scientific field. You should alert the press Harvard is giving PHDs in woo, and Nature is publishing “horseshit”. You’re trying to dismiss something very hard, that explains the mountains of data that correlates with it, and offers a good explanation as to why men and women act certain ways using evolutionary advantages, because you just don’t like what it concludes. That’s why you don’t like evo psyche. Apparently everything on humans evolved for reasons to adopt to sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:16 PM
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Women don’t care specifically about physical fitness the way men do because men are able to just spread their seed endlessly. Women seek traits beyond just that. When one out of kids make it to adulthood, other factors are important, like competence and security, which are traits not inherent to youth. Being smart and social enough to navigate life to get resources and be stable is a really important factor in female mate selection. This is why women are more willing to date years above. But men…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:38 PM
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Logic doesn't override genetic drives... Sometimes it can, with careful long term conditioning, but ultimately, our monkey brain drives everything and by the time the decision is made, it's just delivered to the frontal cortex to rationalize as logical. In sales, it's actually a well accepted technique of "sell them on their emotion, and they'll use their logic to justify their decision". The emotional is triggering the primitive parts of the brains, which makes the decision, and the conscious p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:20 PM
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Still I don't think women are ever thinking "If I have a kid, he's likely to cheat on me." This isn't an equation women are making.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:46 PM
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That's America... And that's because America has a serious mental health crisis caused by shit policy, shit parenting, and shit education. I'd blame American and South Asian lack of sex on social anxiety and depression, not wealth. The rest of the world is still fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:07 PM
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Rich countries have less children because they need less children. They have birth control, and unlike the 20s where literally over half of your children would be dead by 18, there is no need to have a bunch of kids considering the mortality rate has dropped from 55% to less than 2% Rich countries have less children, by choice, not because they have less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:50 PM
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Their ideal man clearly changes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:33 PM
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That’s cheating then and totally understandable for a woman to be pissed. Women simply don’t even date the husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:32 PM
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That’s very very rare. Especially compared to how frequent view husband material as a sidelined person until later. Guys who are cheaters are just cheaters. Most men would gladly stay with a wifey
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:29 PM
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That’s just easy sex though. Yeah men will use a woman for easy sex, but he isn’t only sleeping with those women while rejecting the women he’d take home to mom. He’s just looking for easy sex, which sluts offer. But if the good girls to take home to mom where putting out, he’d go home with them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:06 PM
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That’s the ideal woman for a man. But a man isn’t actively avoiding and putting off the women who don’t fit that category. He isn’t banging whores while putting off the good girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:05 PM
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but men never avoid the wifey material girls. They’ll gladly sleep with and date them. Not many guys choose to date sluts and hold off on quality women. If they date a lot of sluts and sleep with them it’s because they are into that type of girl or just find sluts easier to bang. But at no point are dudes refusing to pick up the phone because “she’s the type I’d want to settle down with in 5 years.” The fact that women do this really shows the dual mating strategy and how open they are about it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:03 PM
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She's still not wrong. 20s is peak retard.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/21 08:38 PM
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Totally... Nail on the head. But it's more than just disrespecting himself, it says a lot about how he's able to manage the world. It's competitive out there. You need a guy that shows he can get what he wants to accomplish, not ensure others accomplish things. Those people are servants, not warriors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:27 PM
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I'd say the most socially respected people are the ones who push through normal social conventions. The difference is their high level of social compitence. When they push boundaries, they know how to read the room, and do it in a way that people accept. The creeps are the ones who do it, and fail. Vastly different things. One boundary push shows a level of competence of doing exceptional things and succeeding. The other shows someone doing risky things and failing at it. No one wants someone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:59 PM
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There are literally entire books written on this. Men raised by mothers are taught to "be a gentlemen" which usually translates in their head to making sacrifices for women. That dynamic only works when there is a significant power difference. The "sacrifice" only works when it's already someone with high status giving up some status as a sign of good faith. But when the person has no status, it's just him being weak. For instance, if a guy is the type of person where everyone opens doors for hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:42 PM
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I wonder if others notice how these women are constantly in different houses and hotel rooms... It's not that they are going for unique places for "photo shoots". They are with a client. Anyone who's making a living off OF, realizes it's become a marketing platform for escorting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:32 AM
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I lived in one of those countries where it's legal. Almost everyone there was south east asian or russian of some sort. It's still ultimately exploitative, and these women are no doubt in some sort of trap... Sure, it's legal, but the incentive structures make it as so they are basically stuck doing the job. It's like an emotionally abusive relationship. Technically nothing illegal is going on, yet many women find it hard to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:29 AM
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Women seem to care a lot lot less... Like a whole lot. For reasons that have been gone over here ad nauseum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:27 AM
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There absolutely is a lot of resentment I think men go through of "Where were you when I was busting my ass off? You wouldn't look twice at me while you fucked a drug dealer, but now that all my hard work is finally paying off, and the hard part is over, NOW you want in on my life?" I can understand that resentment. There is just something weird about feeling like it's almost mooching off you of. Like you finally got to the top of the mountain, and now someone who's done nothing to help you, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:22 AM
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"The sex is satisfying"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:03 AM
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Nope. Long as they aren’t woke or some hardcore magatard it’s cool. I just avoid brain rot in general
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:17 PM
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I mean, yeah, they are called generalizations for a reason. Not absolutisms. They are generalized truths, as in, generally this is true. That's totally fine. A generalization doesn't mean "Literally everybody".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:27 PM
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This is so stupid. NO ONE - well maybe some autistic outliers, literally thinks this. It’s a truism, it goes without saying, that no shit literally not everyone thinks the same. It goes without saying that there will be exceptions. People are talking in general terms… no one thinks otherwise. You may find some random outlier, but those are not the norm, or you just don’t understand that people use absolutes when the conversation is clearly speaking in general terms. I have to ironically keep wav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:35 PM
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One thing that absolutely baffles me, beyond comprehension, is some people's obsession with getting frequent sex here. The only way I can comprehend it is a LOT of sexual frustration where they just jack off all day, so once they FINALLY get a girlfriend, they want sex all day. I don't get it. Some guys are like their entire identity and life revolve around sex. Like "If she doesn't fuck me at least every day, I'M OUT! If she's not giving me the sex whenever I want, then this isn't a good relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:56 PM
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It's a popular vegetarian choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:37 AM
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It's literally an addiction and different biochemestry. I was watching a doc on it. Basically if you were a fat kid, there is a 90% chance you'll be a fat adult. And if you ever get fat, then skinny, it's REALLY hard to keep off. Because the hormones in your body literally change to the point of making you feel way hungrier than a normal person. I imagine feeling hungry all the time would cause me to get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:37 AM
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I think it’s such a perfect example if male disposability. Here are angry failed men who hate the world for such a shit hand they were given. Then the internet constantly bully’s and shits on them non stop. Like these guys need help, not more hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:20 PM
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I think people also need to understand, men can be insecure too. It's wild how men aren't allowed to have any insecurity. So going down this logic, let's just say legitimately the guy just isn't into it any more. That even if he was dating that past GF again, he wouldn't do it. It's just not something he wants to do. But at the same time this said girl has really large labia she's extremely self conscious about. And then the new BF who no longer wants to go down on her, but did with his last GF.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:38 AM
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Let's get to the root of it, the current BF wants to feel the same sexual desire for him that you did for the dude 5 years ago you slutted it up with. That's the root of it all. He doesn't want to feel like less of a man, and a big flag is when a girl is willing to do things for some other guy she wont do for you. Because 9 times out of 10, that's because she sexually craved the other guy more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:45 PM
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Yup. It’s what frustrates me with politics being filled with elites. They just cruised through a privileged life so they don’t understand why it’s hard for some people. Recently they asked all the NYC candidates how much an apartment costs and everyone of them but Yang, a self made millionaire, actually knew within the ballpark.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:38 PM
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I've always said this since I heard about it when I was younger and it just made more and more sense as I got older. THE BEST type of wife is someone who was goofy and not a hot chick growing up, but became a hotty late in life. This way, she's learned how to navigate the world, building a good personality, and understanding how people work... Then got hot, which makes it a whole package. If she grew up hot, she has an absolutely skewed and inexperienced view of the world, and her personality pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:39 PM
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Not really... Because people inherently know there are different dynamics at play between genders. Women think men just need better "psyche" where men think women just need better "body"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:37 PM
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Most women who date older men with money, don't do it for money. The money is nice, but it's usually secondary. The type of guy who's "winning in life" to have money, also comes with attractive characteristics. In my experience, there aren't a lot of women just dating for money. Yes, those bimbo prostitute looking "gold diggers" who date some dorky engineer, exist... but for the most part it's just a hot 25 year old dating some late 30s guy who's a successful entrepreneur and generally in shape …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:59 AM
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There are a lot of people who see a break up as nuclear. No friendly ties, no occasional hellos... If they see them walking by, they ignore them no matter how long they dated. Just straight up enemies. A LOT of people are like this. I also notice these people show the pattern of demonizing their ex spouse. In my experience a lot of these abusive relationship claims are women scorned being broken up with, throwing him under the bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:32 PM
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Considering one of my exes is CLEARLY dating outside of her league, and is constantly unable to get a LTR relationship, complaining about always getting pumped and dumped... Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:12 PM
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This is about sex not marriage. Most people aren’t looking at marriage around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:53 AM
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You're missing the part where they aren't trying to be some political activist to change the world to how they see ideal. Rarely is it ever worth it, and at most, expect just some empty claims at moral high ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:58 AM
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Personally, I'd prefer not to have to just "assume" every chick I go out on a date with is fucking another guy or two regularly...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:46 AM
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Lol it's unreal, isn't it? Dude on the top post literally has his entire sleeping area made into a porn cocoon. I counted, 60 scenes of porn playing all at once. It's unreal the deep you dig. These guys also set up video chat sharing so 20 of them can all watch and share the same porn while they jack off with each other. I'm not even religious, but I'm starting to feel like we are straying too far from God.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:55 PM
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Lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:15 AM
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Not even fat chicks every now and then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:05 AM
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/r/gooncaves Go there and you'll quickly see what "porn addiction" looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:02 AM
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Sure... But that's a small minority. Most women aren't college liberal sluts. Most women learn it's smarter not to show their cards. They can still slut it up, as a smart woman knows it's easy to fuck dudes, so game theory would indicate the smart move is to still have plausible deniability. Why create certain guilt if you can just create plausible deniability and still get the same results with less risk? It's irrational. Hence why the chicks who are openly mentioning it, are not clever and sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:34 PM
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Women can barely admit they prefer tall without feeling the need to throw a bone to shorter guys. They really are aware of people's feelings compared to men, and really do try not to hurt egos. But if women were honest, it would be tall, handsome, fit, and with a big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:31 PM
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The statement I'm refuting is, rephrased for ease of argument, "Men don't think of the long term consequences of child birth, because men in general don't face long term consequences". As in, men are conditioned to not care about long term consequences for things. I'm refuting that, as men DO face long term consequences, and are very aware of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:44 PM
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What world do you live in? Men don't carry any responsibility for these things? Uhhh... I don't even know where to start with this. You know, men aren't all a bunch of 20 year old trust fund kids who's parent is a diplomat, right? Men are the ones pressured to "survive", have very little social safety nets, punished the hardest, and so on... If anything, men are the ones who feel long term consequences more than women aside from actual child birth. Men very well know there are consequences, it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:31 PM
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According to these people, yes, yes you are... And it's insanely annoying. "Oh so you enjoy their services but you don't think they are good enough for you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 07:00 PM
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Yeah but there are a lot of people who think it’s hypocritical to watch porn but not date creators.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:18 PM
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It's definitely "textbook". It contains absolutely nuance, and like you said, "in a perfect world EVERYONE should do this!" But it's such unrealistic advice, but easy to give to total strangers. I doubt they would even listen to their own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:59 PM
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I didn't. I was disagreeing with someone above who said none of his friends are against sex workers. But I think it was just a jumbled conversation in general, so I understand your confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:47 PM
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You're telling me you don't know a single dude who would be like, "Yeah I wouldn't mind if my GF got into escorting"? Dude... What sort of friend group do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 12:45 PM
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I’m not. You’re just reading it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:18 AM
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Men have came to the same conclusions in general. These sort of observations have been made since forever. The nature of women? Men have been saying the same exact shit since the dawn of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:47 PM
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Doesn't matter; had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:13 AM
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Well she's hot as hell and rich... Her looks is enough for me to deal with it, but her being rich makes it long term viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:24 AM
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I mean, but you can say that about litterally anything. I don't like it when women treat people like crap and have no personality... But if Taylor Swift did it, I don't care, long as I have a chance with that 9/10 rich bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:18 AM
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No... Only autistic people who don't understand social nuance would see it as such. When a woman says "we don't like it when men comment on our bodies, even positively", she's not speaking for ALL women. No one interprets that as such unless they are literally on the spectrum and take everything literally. A normal person knows it's just a way of saying "In my experience, myself and most women I know generally feel this way." I genuinely don't understand if Reddit just attracts a lot of autistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:21 AM
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The amount of women in this subreddit who go at great lengths to try and act like every woman is a randomly generated person that's completely unique is sickening. Like they don't believe in bell curves, but a unique special snowflake. Each and everyone of them. None follow any trends. I got into it recently with some chick who just couldn't accept that giving advice about how to attract women, in general, is more functional than nonsense "Every woman is unique and different, so it's impossible …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 11:29 PM
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The reason I used looks as an example was because it is a good equivalence. Women like being called pretty, attractive, sexy, and just generally good looking. It's important in the female world view to be attractive and their partner finding them sexually desirable as an attractive person. It's the equivalence of men with their sexuality. So finding out that you're partner prefers another guy for something outside of his control, creates insecurity. You guys act like male insecurities fall out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:16 PM
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You missed my point. It's not saying others are better. I don't think men give a shit that you've had better, but the insecurity is that you crave better... Like you really are mediocre and just settled with the current guy, and really want some crazy hot sex with the other dude if you could choose. That's the concern. Because you'd probably say the same thing if your BF was insisting looks don't matter... That "Yeah sexy women make me so horny and I just want to marry them on the spot... But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:32 PM
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It's not about that. It's just men want their woman to sexually crave them in a legitimate way the same way they lust after them. What if a guy said, "Babe, why are you so caught up on your looks? If looks were the most important thing to me, I wouldn't even be dating you. I care about the other more important things about you other than how you look." It's the male equivalent of that. But since it's such an "intimate" thing, men just keep it quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:22 PM
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Society NEEDS strong men. That’s why it gets repulsed when men start acting weak. They are failing at their role. That shit is deeply engrained and no amount of rhetoric will change that psychological and biological requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:34 PM
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I think it’s more about being sexually desired and lusted after. Knowing she still yearns for another man over something a guy can’t control makes all future intimacy feel like a consolation prize If you haven’t caught on yet, men like being seen as a desirable man women seek… and not just a guy that women go to when they’ve been blown through.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:30 PM
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So basically a big fuck starts off great at default and is up to him just being terrible to make it worse. Imagine if he had a big dick and was a great guy and great in bed. Sex god.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:26 PM
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That’s totally missing the point. That’s like if I said, omg yeah my last girlfriend was sooo hot. But I’m with you babe, looks aren’t that a big deal. If I only cared about looks then I wouldn’t still be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:19 PM
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It's one of the most annoying things today... The right just assumes anyone Democrat/Leftist is these crazy wokies from online. When in reality they only make up like 3% of the party. Like, seriously, most people on the left of the political isle, don't think like rabid Twitter feminists. Stop acting like they do. And I think the same thing about the left who criticizes the right, thinking they are all a bunch of nazis who hate poor people and immigrants. It's stupid. This whole culture war shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:50 AM
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ppd Pharmaceutical Product Development
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/21 09:46 PM
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Nope, no amount of social skills and effort will make social circles or day game more effective for average men than OLD. This is just the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard around here. OLD is good in the sense that you can find happiness eating a cake. Sure in the short term it feels nice, getting results with low effort and skill... but long term it sucks tits. I don't even bother with OLD, it's such trash. If you have social skills, OLD is pointless. OLD is a for profit data driven platfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:02 AM
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Fair enough... But dude just as a side note, people are going to say things online. It's not always going to be accurate. That's just how communication works. You don't fact check people in real life and expect them not to share a thought unless they can provide immediate sources, do you? Of course not, you take in all sorts of variables and as a rational person, determine how to weigh it out. But that said, I can say with a high degree of confidence this is true. There are tons and tons of stud…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:00 PM
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Yeah it’s an easy google away. But you have a very combative and snarky attitude so I have no desire to go out of my way to bother getting sources for you. Sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:18 AM
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It does though. This isn’t even debatable. Successful men start producing more testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:13 AM
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Wtf do you do for fun? You sound like a hermit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:15 PM
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Being huge isn’t what steroids does. It increases recovery, fitness, and muscle gain speed. Steroids are very very popular among people you see at the gym that just look really fit. They don’t brag about it and it’s easy to get away with. But it’s insanely popular just for aesthetics. I’d say 90% of people who look like in really good shape at peak fitness are using testosterone at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:14 PM
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I'm ashamed to be of the same sex Stop saying shit like this please. It's so cringe. Don't be ashamed to be a woman because thots exist. This is like when white knights "apologize for the sexism of men" and how ashamed they feel because of it. You can hate what hoes are doing, but don't be ashamed that you share pee pee parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:41 PM
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Bloomberg was being vague, and were vague intentionally Who knows though... The amount of trust I have in the media is pretty much zero. I'm fine waiting a few weeks to see what the result it. Personally, I want a Thotpoccolypse. I'm hoping it'll return NSFW subs back to what it was like before all these hoes started flooding every corner begging for subscribers... But then again, it could just make things worse, as it forces them to work harder for direct clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:09 PM
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This is a viral story that's incredibly misleading. OF sent out emails to their thots letting them know this doesn't impact them. They are only removing certain types of content that walk the boundaries (like weirdos dressing up as toddlers and shit) while forcing "Fans" to verify their identity. Thots are still going to be able to use OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:44 PM
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I mean, some of us wanna live in Monke
/r/AntiFeminists19/08/21 01:39 AM
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Margret Thatcher was such a sweetheart.
/r/AntiFeminists19/08/21 01:38 AM
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Tragedy of the commons: We don't want to destroy the common area, but if it's getting destroyed anyways, may as well get something out of it before it is all gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:36 PM
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I think this is a correlation issue. It's like the studies that show "high testosterone men are more successful in business" when it turns out it's just that low T men, once successful, start getting high T.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:05 PM
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Pointing out frustrations through observation of the other gender, isn't the same as saying you hate them. When a woman says how she hates how guys always want sex, and don't listen to her needs... I don't assume she hates men and the only reason she's here is to shit on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:24 PM
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Right? Anyone who's ever gone on trips with women know this. Guys take a small handful of pictures of themselves, whereas women are constantly taking photos of themselves. They intentionally try to time them for looking sexy or showing status -- while having just enough plausible deniability... I don't know many men who insist on taking a photo 10 times for "the perfect one" where they look just right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:44 PM
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yeah, men straight up hate women so much, that they come to a subreddit focused around dating and finding partners... brilliant deduction there Holmes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:41 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that. You're missing out on a lot of brain power.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:30 PM
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Okay I’m done. Good sealioning but that last comment was just too blatant. You have to be more subtle. Making such a hard leap assumption like that destroys the whole game your playing. But it was fun playing for the time being :) good luck out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:30 AM
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You're still ignoring my point. Men find attraction in women once they hit puberty and can have babies. Their peak in finding attraction in women overlaps with their peak fertility at around 21. I don't know how you're getting derailed so much. You've yet to make your case as to why you think it has nothing to do with men just being attracted to young characteristics, but rather, desire for control over women. I'm still waiting for you to address the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:16 AM
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I completely agree with you. As we progress we get better and better at combating the utility of violence. However, there is still extreme failure/poverty in our society, violence is still going to be a rational decision for some. We are still several generations away -- if it doesn't all fall apart -- before violence has no utility. But, I mean, to this day, Russia just took Crimea a few years ago. China took Hong Kong. It's still obvious with utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:13 AM
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Okay, but you're avoiding everything else I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:18 PM
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Of course, but the thing that makes people competitive, also leads to a degree of violence. They are functionally the same. They can't be unwound. So long as people compete, people will resort to violence to get an upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:13 PM
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A 34 year old has a much higher risk... And I think men just start building attraction once they start becoming fertile... And as the data shows, men are MOST attracted to 21 year olds, which statistically is also the time of optimal pregnancy. That's what the data shows, and they overlap perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:01 PM
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I mean that’s just life. Regardless of gender, so long as humans have genetics, we will be competitive, and subsequently there will be struggles and conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:56 PM
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Okay. Again. What’s your point? I don’t agree, but I’ll agree for the sake of argument. What’s your point? What does this have to do with men preferring youth because they like the power dynamic vs men just preferring the looks of youth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:04 PM
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Of course they are choosing to be commodities. No shit. No one is forcing them. But it’s still profiting off of dehumanizing objectification and perpetuating sexist ideas about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:03 PM
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What’s the peak age? 16? Plus even if it is what’s that have to do with men sexually preferring peak mating condition which comes with youth vs your theory that men are just evil and want to exploit dumb women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:59 PM
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Yah. I think just about every woman agrees the sexual advances start at puberty but increase over time into their 20s then drops off once they near the wall. Unless they remain in good shape and take care of themselves they can stretch it out. Have you ever wondered why women strive to look younger? Is it because it attracts men or because it tricks men into thinking they are easier to exploit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:50 PM
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Probably because creeper abusers are taking advantage of them being vulnerable and dumb. Normal people don't assault women, but pedos, definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:30 PM
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Sure... What's your point? Most men aren't interested in fucking lolitas though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:01 PM
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Yeah, some creepers out there like 10 year olds. What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:59 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:41 PM
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Yes... Again, wtf does this have to do with anything? Yes, there are creepy men who exist. No, that doesn't mean the reason men like 20 year olds is because they are all abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:34 PM
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Okay? What's this have to do with anything? Here, why don't you post a CMV "Men prefer women in their 20s because they like the control and power they have over them." you should do that. I'd love to see the community's response.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:29 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:25 PM
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Because abusers seek the vulnerable. But me aren’t all abusers. Those are outliers. Most physical abuse is done by women to children but I don’t think women as a whole are abusers. Men finding young women hot has to do with biology not an innate evil. Why are you even in this sub? Aren’t radfems banned from their echo chambers if they participate in places like this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:20 PM
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Im still uncertain... This is totally Poe's Law in action. I can't tell if you actually believe this, or if you're just trying to waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:11 PM
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Their job is to give a man an orgasm. That's it. Whoever does the better job wins. Turns out, men are more turned on by the 18 year old than the wrinkly old lady. You're fucking with me aren't you? Sealioning. God damnit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:02 PM
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Uhhh yeah... You don't need much "control" over a transaction. You're paying them 200 bucks to come over, make you cum, then immediately leaving. The age doesn't matter. Orgasms do, and you're paying them to do it, so you don't need any more control you'd think the 50 year old would be more experienced, but men are choosing the hot, sexy, 22 year old instead. Jesus, your view of men is so warped. You literally think men just find youth attractive, not because the number of biological reasons, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:54 PM
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And if real life dating gave them better odds they'd switch back. I guess we are just going to have to dissagree. I see men using OLD for the same reasons women use social media for validation. These platforms are designed to create psychological traps to draw people in so they can profit off of them. The platforms are effecient machines meant to create engagement, and short term bursts of endorphins to create an addictive response... Just like drugs. Even though social media objectively has bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:40 PM
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So the fact that every woman on OLD is actually looking makes it no different than cold calling the Yellow pages where 99% of them aren't looking to do business with anyone? Women on OLD are single, looking for partners. This is no different than a business on YP because they too are looking for business solutions. So yes, women on OLD are beat up leads because they've let EVERY salesguy know she's looking to buy, so every sales guy is hitting her up. Your "path of least resistance" theory is te…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:24 PM
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There's no such thing as an equivalent to exclusive leads in dating. Yes there is. There are the beat up public leads. The equivilent of going to yellowpages.com and dialing every number on the list, like every other sales guy. Or running a facebook ad, getting the person to volunteer their number to you for a discussion. The latter is an exclusive lead in the sense that it's not public, and the other party isn't a cold call. OLD is cold caling. It's because average dudes weren't getting shit. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:48 PM
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Again, I'm showing how it's not just about control. If it was about control the age of the sex worker wouldn't matter, because you already have control over them because you're paying them. They'll literally do whatever you ask. But the fact of the matter is young sex workers are the highest in demand. This is because men sexually desire young women more for their physical attributes. I don't understand you're insistence to insist all men are just exploitative and looking for young women to groo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:41 PM
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I have. And I also literally live with a former sex worker. And live in a town known for sex work. Trust me, I know this industry very well Plus your argument doesn't hold up. Even if women were more abundant to do sex work, there is still older women who are escorts and pornstars... yet there is no demand. If men truly wanted older women over younger, then these women would be the top of the industry, but they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:31 AM
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Are you sure? Or is it because their demand starts plummeting as they get older, so they realize it's time to find something else? If you're familiar with sex workers at all, they will ALL tell you that it's downhill after a certain age. This is why in porn, all the older women remaining are doing the nastiest, hardcore stuff, because they are desperate for work thus the only ones really willing to go that low...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:29 AM
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Eh, you think so? I don't think so. Since we are using sales lingo here, it's like pounding the phones calling 150 numbers a day, off beaten up leads, to customers tired of telemarketers hitting them up after they filled out that form online. Yes, it could work, as it's a numbers game. But it's fucking exhausting... Just non stop, working the phones, going through all the beat up garbage. And by the time you even close a deal on one, this person has already been through the ringer with so many o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:28 AM
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Lol, and you're so stubborn. you're trying to argue that people paying for 20 years for sex work, are doing it because they want young, dumb, exploitable women instead of strong older women? Rather than, I dunno, if they are going to pay for something sexual, they are going to pay for what men consider optimal. There is no power dynamics that change with age in sex work... It's just looks that vary, and men are always picking the younger ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:20 AM
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Lol she just sounds bitter... So I take it all these politicians, celebrities, executivies, are fucking these 20 year olds because they want "power" over them because they are vulnerable? It doesn't make sense. These are already powerful people who can have power over people their own age. There is a reason most sex workers from escorts to OF's, peak in their early 20s... It's not some male power fantasy paying escorts because they somehow find more power of a person they just paid for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:27 AM
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The conversion rate is trash on those leads... Sure they are prequalified, but they are public, and getting pounded by every guy out there looking for a sale. So yeah, maybe there is a database of prequalified leads, but they are beat to hell. But this database has made quality leads, self generated ones, harder to come by in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:24 AM
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Is OLD any better? I think it just made it worst. Instead of men having to better themselves, they just let their thirsty monster out and go fishing all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:13 AM
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No it didn't make sense. Based on what? I think men are attracted to vulnerability because they know they can control a submissive woman. Based on what? I've even heard men compare it to predators in the wild selecting the young prey because they are easiest to catch. Yes those type of men exist. But by and large, the attraction men have towards younger women is sexual. Just look at the data, EVERY male age group, across the board, say 21 is the most physically attractive age. THE ENTIRE male ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:07 PM
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I never said it proves they don't want to control them. I'm saying that men being attracted to younger women doesn't necessarily mean it's about control, and is in fact, rarely about control. That it's usually about just wanting to have sex with prime attractive women. I'm really confused on how you took it as me saying the REASON men like younger women proves they don't want to control them. Did my post not make sense? I'm arguing against the idea that "The only reason a man is into younger wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:07 PM
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I don't get your point? I'm not trying to be a dick, I just don't get it. Yes, of course there are many good quality women sitting at home not slutting it about on OLD. Of course they exist. It's just that with OLD, that market of women has drastically shrunk. Making it harder and harder. Meeting women in person is obviously still a thing, but from my experience, most people are opting for OLD style matchmaking. Culturally, it's just harder to meet people in person. The expectations are differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:22 PM
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Yes, you are correct. Peterson would absolutely agree. I don't see the problem here except you misinterpretting things. Yes, that helps. Again, HE'S NOT SAYING FORCED MONOGAMY should be done. Your solution wouldn't eradicate incels. It would reduce them. The question he was asked was not how to reduce the amount of incels, but how to solve the problem with incels. He gave the only answer which would truly end it. He wasn't advocating it. If you were familiar with Peterson you'd know his personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:20 PM
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Because he wasn't looking to have a conversation about it? They asked, "How do you solve incelism?" He said, "Force monogamy". It should be self evident that he isn't personally saying monogamy is enforced. It shouldn't require that he'd have to break it down to explain he doesn't advocate for it. He, wrongfully, assumed his audience was acting in good faith, and didn't expect culture warriors to spin his words and twist it around. Again, if you asked, "How do you end war?" and I say, "Destroy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:17 PM
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Of course, but societies get by just fine without puritanism. I was just using the moral policing as an example. but by and large, feminism just reflects American puritanism across most of the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:15 PM
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No, you're really missing the point. It's not a dichotomy. That's why I gave the example of domestic abuse. It's also not true that either we accept domestic abuse or put cameras inside everyone's homes. The point is, IF you wanted to solve incels, enforce monogamy. That's the only absolute solution if you want to solve it. But OBVIOUSLY no one wants to do that. That's ridiculous. It's like saying if you want to stop war, just destroy the planet. Instead, if we want to solve incels, we need to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:24 PM
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I also don't like the idea that men want younger women because they are easier to exploit and mold into what they want. I think it's as simple as -- which the data overwhelmingly supports -- men are just sexually more attracted to younger women... Like overwhelmingly men prefer 21 year old women across ALL age ranges. So I think it's less about some creepy loser trying to get an edge on the power dynamics to exploit a naive girl, and more about a dude just wanting to have sex with a hot chick in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:00 PM
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The goals are the same, but the reasoning is usually where they differ. Feminists will say no to sex work because it literally objectifies women, makes them a commodity to be traded for men's pleasure, and reduces them to objects of sexual nature. Fundies are against it because it's trashy, unstable, doesn't promote family values, and leads to a bad lifestyle. But yeah, you're point stands. A LOT of wokeness resembles fundies. I think it's really just our puritan roots expressing itself in diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:57 PM
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No... This is why I hate it when people get their info from YouTubers who twist things and relay their opinion. You clearly heard him say this through a third party who wrapped it up in their agenda driven framework. What if I asked you a question, "How do you stop spousal abuse?" You could give all sorts of reasons, but a really good solution is "Put cameras in everyone's home, in every room." That will stop spousal abuse because everyone is monitored inside the home. It would objectively massi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:53 PM
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I disagree OLD is a different beast. You could meet people online, but OLD isn't one of those places. I've yet to see someone use a dating app and chat to get to know each other. Women are getting hammered so hard, they don't have time nor will to sit around and have conversations beyond just a day back and forth. You meeting your wife online, probably happened over time of communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:51 PM
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I also think this is why OLD is awful. Because most men, like myself, do REALLY well in real life. But OLD has removed most of that personal touch, and instead has reduced it to pics and quick pickup lines, where at best you meet up for an "interview" It kills all the magic and energy that comes with organic meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:52 AM
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Who are the other Natives? Tulsi? Is Hawaiian technically Native? Doesn't matter, she's too based for him.
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/21 07:43 PM
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I genuinely think he thought she’d help but she wasn’t a nail he coffin. I think she was a miscalculation or was owed a favor. Maybe bide. That all the kids think she’s hip and cool for mentioning her pronouns. I dunnno. But She only hurts Biden. I mean her entire life is grifting and riding the coat tails of powerful men, her voice is annoying, she’s a terribly evil state attorney, she panders so blatantly, and just in general is unlikeable. She could sink Biden if he runs again and will sink t…
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/21 05:57 PM
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No one voted for her because diversity. Biden picked her for probably a number of strategic reasons but ultimately voted for them because while they hate Harris they hate Trump more. Welcome to the lesser evil competition.
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/21 05:13 PM
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This isn't an academic debate. Obviously it's someone's opinion. Do you act for hard data in every discussion you have in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:39 PM
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Lol usually in the states, a "big city" is one of the major cities, like LA, SF, NY, etc... But yeah, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:01 PM
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Decent sized 2m
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:29 PM
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Lol, I love your enthusiasm but like I said, I just don't have the desire to put in that much effort to do a bunch of out of the box dating, with a bunch of people, doing wild and crazy things. Like I said, I've weighed it out. It's just not worth the energy and amount of effort required. To some, they love it, so it's not even "work", but to me, I've just grown to get over it. It's just become too exhausting, especially with the dating market the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:02 PM
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It's just not worth the effort. To get a single date from a decent chick takes SO MUCH work swiping through an app, it's just not worth it. I'm not thirsty enough to invest that amount of time looking for a diamond in the rough who has character, personality, and isn't a Tindr slut. Then say you do find the diamond in the rough, now you have to see if you're even compatible. I'm sure there are plenty, but so few and far between... Meh. I'm happy being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:33 PM
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So, my last GF ended up being a bigtime cheater... The next girl I tried dating ended up being an OF hoe... Then a few girls after that, were serial OLD daters constantly swinging branch to branch... Then the last one just ended up being a general slut. So Yeah, I'm opting out of the dating market. Basically the "open minded" sex work tropes have been a boon to escorting. So if I want easy sex, it's wayyy cheaper than it was a few years ago for much hotter chicks. But on the dating market itself…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:07 PM
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American's have this weird interpretation of the world. Like you said, the 50's house wife was a rich elite thing. It was a status symbol to be able to have a marriage where one party didn't have to work. It was literally a show of wealth by the rich. Sort of like having massive unnecessary lawns in the south was a flex of wealth. It's so weird that everyone thinks society as a whole was actually like this. It reminds me of my work in Eastern Europe and everyone there assumed Americans all lived…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:15 PM
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I agree. I dont find that in real life but I do see it on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:04 PM
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Nah they definitely are. Men are getting more thirst thus desperate and women are chasing out of their league thus feeling disappointed. We are at the apex of a mating market. If men and women were just less fat and ugly it would make everyone less frustrated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:07 PM
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You’re right it is happening to men too, but also no, women are more likely to be overweight or obese. The average woman is 5’4 and 170 pounds. Buff women are super rare. So it’s basically just a bunch of short fat chicks. But I’m not even talking about just weight. I’m talking about just knowing how to dress and present yourself. A lot of women just look ugly because they gave up on trying thanks to thirsty men if the dating market requiring less effort from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:02 PM
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I think the issue is just that women in general are less attractive these days. If you ever look at random photos from the 70s and before, there aren't any fat chicks, and chicks that we'd now consider ugly, actually know how to fix themselves up, so they become attractive. I think the market is just messed up. Too many ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:17 PM
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Yeah I think the major reason is two fold. First men are just bigger pussies these days, but I think this massively intersects with just the general American anti-social mental health issue we have. People are just much more reclusive. Even things like large organic community events are more scarce, and when they happen, it feels like everyone sticks strongly within their own little clique. Cross group interaction among strangers seems almost non-existent in the states, and continues to get wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:04 PM
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Because women can be way more picky online? Especially on Tinder which is entirely about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:08 PM
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I have used to have this happen all the time before I stopped dating all together. I keep my stuff low key. When I travel I'm not taking pictures of all the places I go to. I'll buy a 300 pair of jeans and 500 pair of shoes, but just wear them until they are worn down. I don't really care for flaunting money as I see it just as a means to do what I want, or wear high quality clothes rather than showing off labels and brands that remind people its expensive. Or for instance, I don't drive. Not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:47 AM
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Oh shut the fuck up dude. Not everything can be reduced to some fedora wearing fallacy argument. Deal with it. I don't care if there are outliers or exceptions. I'm in my thirties and spotting a former party girl is SUPER easy because their face looks older than it should. I don't give a shit about some male balding that happens. That has nothing to do with the fact that party lifestyles show itself on people's faces. I don't care if you know a person who's an exception neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:55 PM
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Hairloss is absolutely correlated with lifestyle. Hairloss through stress and alcohol contributes to it quite a bit. Obviously, you can't stop hairloss if it's genetic, but you can speed it up with lifestyle. Same is true with skin. Sure you can't control aging, but your diet and general lifestyle has a huge impact on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:11 PM
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They’ve done more than enough studies on twins to figure this out. Lifestyle has a huge impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:01 PM
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I thoguht this sub knows better than pointing out exceptions. Yeah, no kidding genetics play a role. However, for the most part, your lifestyle is also reflected on your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:02 PM
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No it's not.... I aged significantly more in my late 20s when I was going wild, drinking, partying, smoking, etc. My skin is way noticeably worse than my siblings who are much less crazy. Genetics play a huge role, but life style does as well for sure. I used to "look young for my age" until I decided to travel going crazy. Some dudes are able to be full blown junkies, alcoholics, and so on... And they are just genetically lucky, but when you look closely you can tell they'd look even better if …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:40 PM
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When I came back from Europe after several years, being away so long let me realize how bad it was in the states. Like so many people are obsessed with everything online. Celebrity culture, wanting likes on social media, friends online, everything. Everyone wants likes and shares, it's so weird. Living abroad, people had social media, but every night they usually hung out with friends because in the city most people just leave the house after work and go do things. No one is really online as muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:33 PM
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Exactly, and I think there is nothing wrong with framing the world with "Gender Y likes X", because in general that's going to be true. It's totally normal human social skills to enter a situation with preconceived notions based on probability. If that's not the case, then the other person will just prove there preconceived notion wrong in that outlier case and the world moves on. Like when I approach a woman, I'm going to ASSUME she likes fit guys who are attractive. Sure there is an off chance…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:21 PM
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Well posting conservative views is one thing... It's clearly a radical democratic establishment space. So I can see the censorship there. They just want you out out out... But I'm talking more about, having nuanced discussion while not even being right wing. As in, point out that they are throwing a huge hissy fit over Republicans being bought out (they are), while always ignoring the blatant capture by Democrats too (even if it's a lesser degree). Not because it's a "whatabout" thing, but becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:31 PM
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Politicians find them the most useful to be honest. I think most political discourse targets those clueless people specifically, which is why it lacks all sense of nuance in America. I'm a hardcore lefty (frequently called alt right, as is tradition on Reddit), but places like /r/politics are just a straight up hive of these NPCs, which is clear by just watching how they interact or deal with challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:18 PM
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Yeah that may be it. I noticed a lot of these people literally don’t think through complex thoughts. Like if I come to a conclusion on something I try to challenge, find ways I’m wrong, and justify how I’m right, and how I could be wrong about being right. That just seems like common sense before personally holding something as true. Meanwhile I can’t even begin to tell you how many people with a “position” on something are just flat out ignorant on any and all nuance. It’s like they are just pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:43 AM
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And it's stupid and unnecessary. If I say, "Women don't like men who are passive," I don't mean literally every woman. I'm just saving time by not having to say, "Most women, but some women do, and others are a mix, don't usually like men who are passive, but don't get me wrong, some women do. Everyone is unique, you know!?" It just goes without saying when someone says "man/woman likes X" they don't mean literally everyone. Everyone who has a basic level of social understanding knows there are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:57 AM
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It's really good for helping confirm your bias that most people are artificial intelligence who just say stupid shit without ever doing a single minute into questioning their own ideology or opinions on things. If you really want to hate people and get frustrated with their lack basic human introspection, Reddit is the place for you. It creates this good feeling of, "Oh God damn, okay at least I'm not one of these robots."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:54 AM
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I just got banned today from a relationship sub for just sharing my wrong think opinion in a civil and honest manner. The person wanted to know why guys aren't calling her back after casual sex lol I just explained that online dating has turned sex into a commodity, and since women are all focusing mainly just on the top 20% of men who get all the benefits of online dating, that these guys have tons of options treating women like just another option and easy sex. That if she's putting out early …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:52 AM
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I mean any meth head 20 year old can be a stripper... I don't know many that can successfully run an OF. That shit requires marketing like crazy, customer retention, commitment, and just general running a business.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:38 PM
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I think it's because guys are on the other end, and would know how to market themselves. They see it as if a woman wants to make it her full time job, willing to be trashy, and exploitative, she could do that, because I know exactly how women do it. Which is kind of true. But the idea that a woman can just flip a switch and suddenly have dudes at her knees throwing her money, just isn't the case (well technically she can become a stripper, but I digress). The woman will literally have to start m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:59 PM
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These people are weird. The dude just brought up a quote as a topic of discussion, and this person is attributing this whole background to something so simple. I see it all the time. Just this morning, I said something about how what annoys me with the radleft is how they use extreme words for everything, calling everyone they don't like a phobe this, ist that, nazi here, fascist there. And I got people thinking they could just break down my entire worldview as some alt right person, by laying o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:27 PM
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Making money off of OF or being a sugar baby, is much harder than people think. Only a very few women can just post their nudes online and get tons of money. Same with finding a guy to buy you a bunch of shit. There is a reason why the turnover is so high, because it turns out, these two things are literally like jobs, which at that point, you may as well just work a normal job with more dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:22 PM
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My travels taught me Americans have a mental health issue. I attribute this a lot to our fear culture. Only in America have I experienced people so afraid of so much. Everything is dangerous, everything needs punishment, and everyone self isolates. Like, someone does something wrong? Don't even talk to the person and solve it yourself, call the police, and if it was you personally wronged, demand life sentencing if possible. Or is there a fly in the place you're eating, Americans will flip out a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:49 AM
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Being high value is more than just wealth. It’s looks, personality, and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:04 PM
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That’s a moral value you’re placing, not a sexual marketplace value
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:09 AM
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High value men usually refers to the whole package. Further, the high value men he was pointing out are all rich. Finally, high value men cheat all the time. Cheating or not doesn’t determine how high you’re valued on the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:07 AM
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A lot of people have been saying it for a while, he just has the data to back it up. It's weird how woke politics works. They deny facts, because they think the facts can be used by bad guys to justify bad things, so therefor we have to deny facts and claim evolutionary biology is not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:28 PM
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Huh? No, you just get the private personal link and subscribe to it via your app. Then you'll get a private feed. I listen to mine through the Apple podcast... Which sucks even worse now, if you can imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:46 PM
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Just email him. He gives you free premium access if you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:41 PM
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According the the evolutionary biologist on Sam Harris' podcast today, this isn't the case. Sure people have preferences and personal characteristics they prefer, but a woman's status is not equally as important as her looks, according to him. But his research shows that looks is always the "entry fee" which men rarely negotiate on, then everything after that is a bunch of variables in attraction. Once a guy is that valuable he can pick and choose, so naturally he's going to want intelligent wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:08 PM
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I listen to a lot of "true crime". I rarely, if ever, hear about a dude getting killed by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:07 PM
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It's already defacto legal... Escorts are all over the country and the police don't give a shit. It's just that there are no brothels, which is weird and gross anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:38 AM
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I generally think it has more to do with just that younger women are physically more attractive. Men are visual. You aren't seeing a lot of porn done by 30 year olds. Younger women just are in better shape, firmer breasts, smoother skin, etc... They are just more attractive in general, so if a guy is seeking sex, he's not really looking for a relationship. Though I'm sure a lot of the guys out there are just creeps who like the lower standards and naivety they come with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:24 PM
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UK is part of the Anglosphere... We are all one of the same. I should have clarified that because I figured it went without saying. When talking about America, it generally includes UK, AU, NZ, and CA.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:23 PM
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Of course. I think there is a lot of stuff happening... What you said of course, but also the American culture of "do whatever it takes to get ahead because social programs suck, healthcare is expensive, and heaven forbid you break the law". So there is this hard cultural push to do whatever it takes to get ahead... So naturally, if you need to get ahead and you have an ace of attraction, may as well use it. Europeans don't need to use it. They have a solid middle class where you don't need to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:14 PM
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I lived and worked in Europe several years, and my biggest take when it comes to dating is how much American women commoditize themselves and use sexuality - often not even conscious of it - to get an edge. Like in the states if a woman is attractive, she’s going to use it to get ahead. Where in Europe women could be super attractive but still not dressing in a way to sell their sexuality. I remember dating girls out there and just being happy with a girl knowing she was super attractive with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:43 PM
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Because they get elite educated husbands so she doesn’t have to work as much. We always see this. The better the economics the less so,en work and the more gender differences become apparent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:26 PM
2

Ready for a big brain take? We speak in general terms here and not special snowflakes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:47 PM
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Look up photos of actual CIA spies. They are specifically selected to be as average as humanly possible so they stand out the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:04 PM
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I don’t agree. Reddit used to always mention the place as like the den of women hating sexism. It was literally used as a shocker sub. Now no one even acts outraged. Seems like RP is more accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:31 PM
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Uhhhh do you not remember when TRP was literally the Reddit boogeyman. It used to infamous and now today no one really cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:25 PM
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Juries determine guilt. No jury would ever consider this assault. It would be a waste of public resources to even try a case like this.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/21 03:33 PM
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Well that's all that matters when you're trying to convince a jury of assault.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/21 03:33 PM
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Can you slap someone without hitting their face? Yes it would still be assault. You hit someone. It's like if I took a bat to your car, that's not assault. It's only assault if I'm hitting your car with you in it with the intent to harm you. No reasonable person would look at this lady kicking a cart away and think "oh yeah she was definitely trying to cause bodily harm to that guy by kicking his shopping cart"
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/21 03:31 PM
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Lol, that's life man. When you aren't looking to date, that shit just falls from heaven. It's like women can smell it. Soon as you give off the vibe that you're trying to date, suddenly women get very picky about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:55 PM
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The medical cons are outweighed with the health benefits of slanging all that dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:47 PM
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Neither is this subreddit. Because what she did wasn't assault, even from a legal framing.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/21 01:37 PM
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HA! I'll take all the downvotes, but I did in fact, study law back in college. Hitting someone's material items isn't assaulting the person.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/21 12:58 PM
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I just looked up the law in multiple definitions of assault, and none of them include hitting someone's objects as assault. Kicking someone's shopping cart doesn't seem like assault unless she kicked the shopping cart to hit the person holding it. IE, if I hit your car without you in it, that's not assault on you. Hitting your car with you in it with my fist, that's not assault because I can't harm you personally. It would be assault, however if I rammed your car with my car, because now I could…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/21 12:53 PM
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I don't think the average person would categorize this as assault.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/21 11:17 AM
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Who said that? Probably it's Bill who has been running around fucking hawties left and right. Dudes at his scale FUCK AROUND. He's probably ready to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:37 AM
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Yep, a lot of the RP truths have been said for ages, literally thousands of years. It's just not until recently a community refined and condensed it into a more analytical way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:36 AM
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I mean there are TONS of studies which validate the theories, like sexual partners, emotional openness, branch swinging, etc. I don't think I've ever read a study which confirms BP ideology, only RP. I'm open to seeing credible BP confirming research.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:35 AM
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Nah, I think it's more like the type of men women want to commit with are already in relationships. Leaving behind only the types of guys they want to get with, who don't want to be in relationships. The vast amount of other men who aren't in relationships looking to commit, women don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:05 PM
1

100% I think that's the case. Due to OLD, there is ALWAYS a chance to upgrade, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 11:12 PM
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I mean of course it happens. Obviously there are exceptions. There just isn't any incentive to do so. Why would women do the approaching when men are doing it all the time? And if a guy doesn't have the balls to approach her, well then he's obviously a scared sissy so that just helps her figure out who's not worth while.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:38 PM
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They are the ones who are the gatekeepers of children. She can only get pregnant once at a time. Women don't need to approach men. Just look at OLD. One chick gets DOZENS of guys a week approaching them, and it's their job to vet who they want to entertain. Whereas it's the man's job, who has an abundance of sperm and can approach and have many children at the same time. Men are disposable so they are the ones seeking reward. Women are inherently valuable so they don't need to seek.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:31 PM
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That will never happen... Man up and do it yourself. Women will always be the chased since they are the ones with the scarce resource where men are abundant. I'm sure we'd all like to become a millionaire sitting on Reddit too... But reality doesn't work like that. Women are NEVER going to be the ones who do the chasing because biology doesn't need them to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:12 PM
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It's funny how it's usually ugly chicks complaining about this. It almost feels like they are trying to insert themselves into the "sexually desired" category by complaining about a problem they don't materially experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:10 PM
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we're told time and again that women are constantly cat-called and hit on and so on and so forth and that its as regular as feeling the wind in your hair if you're a woman Only dumb chicks online and chicks playing woe-is-me IRL complain about this. Hell often it's just a way to indirectly brag. If some chick is going to complain about this, F them, they are probably weirdos anyways and you just figured that out quicker than normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:09 PM
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Okay, there are ALWAYS exceptions. What's your point? Studies look at general trends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:22 AM
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We just have to look towards Japan to see where we are heading.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:22 PM
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Mating doesn't mean partnering up. It means to mate, as in have sex for reproduction. And yes, we know there are outliers, and exceptions to everything. The whole point of this research is to identify general trends, not account for literally everyone. If that was the case, science would cease to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:19 PM
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Oh I see... Yeah it is hard to quantify attractiveness, but a large enough sample of people can rank people pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:30 PM
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By the very nature of being an older father, you found a mate later. There are no old fathers who found mates early. That said, they should have controlled by determining the father's attractive levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:04 PM
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Personally, no I wouldn't date her. It says a LOT about her character and how she navigates the world. It's too high risk. It is a reflection of a lack of self awareness, conscientiousness, and wisdom. It's worse than dating a "reformed slut"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:14 PM
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For me it's just simple vetting. I wouldn't even get into a relationship with the type of girl who hates her exes. I wouldn't marry a chick who has more than 1 bad exbf. Because if the marriage falls, it should be handled by the type of person who's responsible enough to realize it's just not working out, rather than devolve into some sort of grudge match to get back at their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:13 PM
0

Personally, just be normal looking. I never had to be really good looking or in really good shape (though at those times it definitely helped), but just have basic fashion sense and not be fat. Then from there personality-wise I'm definitely not the most suave or Clinton level charasmatic... But I'm confident, speak my mind, and am not afraid to approach and cast a line with chicks. It also helps that I just try to have fun and build up positive energy. The more fun a chick is having, the better…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:10 PM
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See, I'm in my thirties, but I'm not dating 30 year olds. What's the point? After mid 20s, it's pretty much all the same personality wise, minus the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:30 PM
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I'm not talking about the legality or morality. You are. I'm just saying it's different when a man does it to a girl vs the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:36 AM
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No he legally can’t consent. It doesn’t change the intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:59 AM
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Not in the same degree a girl usually is. Usually the boy actively seeks and wants the sexual encounter. Not so much for the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:28 PM
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The boys are usually caught because they are literally bragging about it. Whereas the girls are literally exploited and manipulated and sex isn’t really what they want but do it because they want to appease the man. It’s a different power dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:05 PM
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Yeah I don't think a horny 13 year old fucking their teacher is the same as a young girl fucking a male teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:47 PM
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I don't care because I don't think female on male rape is equal as male on female rape. It just isn't. So I don't think the two instances need to be treated equally .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:28 PM
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I’m just saying it’s really rare. Finding an attractive full package man who doesn’t sleep around is harder than finding a hot woman who doesn’t. Exceptions exist. No shit. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:57 PM
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I’m just saying it’s really rare. Finding an attractive full package man who doesn’t sleep around is harder than finding a hot woman who doesn’t. Exceptions exist. No shit. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:56 PM
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Okay some fundamentalist Christians too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:50 PM
1

Momo's are usually married by then. They marry REALLY young.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:19 PM
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Maybe if you're mormon. But you're going to have to be 20 and right out of you mission to find one before he gets married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:49 PM
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Just a special snowflake :D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:20 AM
0

She was a child dude
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/21 01:37 PM
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Generation Why recently did a good podcast on it. They are good at covering all the angles without a partisan agenda. The janitor and school just wanted to help and encourage her to not back down but to take a stand. Her mom wanted to sue and make money.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/21 12:25 PM
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Well from my studying of it, it is a he-said-she-said scenario, which already is REALLY hard to pin down. So you're right about that. However, also a good amount of them are situations that sort of spiral out of control and get to a point where the "victim" wasn't expecting it to get but they have to stick to their guns. Often the investigators start seeing holes in the story, changes in the story, inconsistencies, etc.... And they just quietly drop the case so the "victim" can save face. The ve…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/21 03:27 AM
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Just because the criminal justice system is broken, doesn't mean we should push for people to also get punished by a broken system. She was a kid. It's not right when they try 16 year olds as adults ever. The girl was coached into it by adults. She was a kid. The detectives were the ones who if they even tried looking into the case, would see it was full of holes. If the DA looked into the case, it would have fell apart. Hell, his own lawyer didn't even do their diligence. And the judge is even …
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/21 03:03 AM
1

If it's false testimony it SHOULD be destroyed. Detectives are trained to exploit human psychology to poke holes in things. When I took a family law class when it came to rape it's 100% the hardest case to convict on because it's only he said she said... So detectives are trained to get as much external evidence while ruthlessly tearing the accusers story apart. A half decent detective knows how to poke holes. It's REALLY REALLY REALLY hard to lie to detectives once you are being interrogated. T…
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/21 10:30 PM
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I agree... This was more about the shitty police investigation which is why they lost a civil case of 2mm for. If you look into the case there is A LOT of evidence that the detectives completely ignored that would have exonerated him.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/21 10:24 PM
1

The adults legit thought she was raped.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/21 09:57 PM
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There are WAY more cases of children being actually raped than false reports. All it's going to do is set the standard that the rapist needs to make sure to leave NO proof of the rape, which is really easy because it's he-said-she-said. I can go rape a girl and then insist that since there is no evidence beyond just her testimony, I'm free to go. I'm not saying false rape accusations don't exist, but come on man. You can't discount a rape victim's testimony because they are underage. That would …
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/21 09:56 PM
2

Then it’s free game to rape children so long as it’s he said she said?
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/21 09:42 PM
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Yeah, but it’s common for men to despise sex workers and have zero respect for them but then pay for their services. I mean I don't pay for it. But I don't see a contradiction. Like I said, I like drugs, but I don't respect drug dealers because of their lifestyle. With sex workers, thanks for your services, but don't think I'll ever date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:16 PM
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It's not that simple if you are familiar with the case. She was a minor and was pressured by everyone around her to claim rape and it spiraled out of control. Hence why she came clean years later and why the courts didn't do much. Kids are dumb and it was the adults who - in good faith - pressured her to that situation.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/21 09:15 PM
2

Who said I'm into hoes? I watch porn but wouldn't date a pornstar. I like drugs, but wouldn't bff a drug dealer. And yes it was a joke No it was just a few dates. I didn't see any red flags. It came out of the blue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:10 PM
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To be perfectly honest... The whole rise of OF and OLD cheating, has made me really paranoid. I'd be lying if I said the joke wasn't a soft touch vet to see her thoughts on those things without outright having to say I am not into hoes and sex workers. Needless to say it unfortunately let me know she went from wifey material to disappointment real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:25 PM
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Man I had some really great dates with a REALLY attractive dime piece. She was funny, sarcastic, smart, and incredibly attractive. Then I made some pandemic joke about getting into sex work and she flipped out on me... Calling me a sexist incel. Got crazy super defensive out of nowhere. I just explained it was a joke and yeah, I mean, I wont date a "sex worker" from OF to escort... Just not my thing. And she was really not okay with my preference there. So I take it she's a sex worker of some so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:12 PM
1

That’s the thing. If the actually cared about how society treated them and wanted to be treated better, the solution is to lose weight rat\her than fundamentally retire humans to not give preferential treatment to attractive people. It’s nit just fat people who get less preference, it’s ugly people. It’s regular people. Brad Pitt is always going to get more positive interactions than a less attractive person. However when it comes to fat people they have something in their control which is relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:01 PM
1

Yeah, but those are rare outliers and besides the point. Most fat chicks aren't fat because they have PTSD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:48 AM
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Omg you get the point. Me saying I don’t understand why someone chooses a preference isn’t me saying someone is wrong for choosing a preference. That was my carrot cake point and why I find your logic odd. Further bing attractive is something people find value in is not just I as a mans opinion. It’s objective that attractive people have easier lives and more opportunity. Further, these women also know this is true and they strive for it based on the fact that they try to increase their attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:32 PM
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It’s so weird. I’m giving my opinion and insight and you interpret that as me telling women how to live If I said “I don’t understand how people like carrot cake” would you respond with “well I do t care what you think! I enjoy it and your opinion is pointless!” I just don’t understand your thinking process. I was just pointing out how I do t understand how someone could easily have a much higher quality of life with just a little bit of work, aren’t even willing to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:20 PM
19

Same, all I can think of is, "Man do you realize how much your life would change with 4 months of dieting? Literally would be life changing in terms of opportunity."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 02:44 PM
2

This is where the exhaustion comes from and why I just gave up on dating. You're right, those people do exist, but having to wade through all the dates, women, effort, etc... Just gets tiresome. It just becomes too exhausting to keep having to find that person you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:15 AM
2

Modern feminists really only view the past of being female through the lense of the man hating abuse victim feminists of back in the day. The overwhelming majority of women had no problem with the system as it was, because it favored women a lot. The modern feminist is ironically so stuck in capitalistic ideology they only look at the past at the "unfair" economic situation, which arguably wasn't even unfair. Men had the responsibility to care for an ENTIRE family... Working 12 hours a day in sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 03:35 AM
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Hot Chick Syndrome. It's why they have such terrible personalities half the time, and it's especially noticeable after the wall. They spent their whole lives saying stupid shit, unfunny shit, being weird, and everyone around them laughing and not calling out their weirdness or rudeness... So it's sort of not really even their fault they are like that. It's just they've had a lifetime of affirmation of the behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:52 AM
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Looks hot, she's probably a little crazy, and easy sex. Sign me up daddy I'm going in raw
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:46 PM
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Is FDS the new TRP? Just ignore them. Let them do their own thing. This is stupid drama.
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/21 06:46 AM
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Ugly guys in social situations can still pull in average looking chicks, or even attractive chicks. This is why an attractive guy will step in because he sees a guy getting lucky and batting outside his league, so he'll step in and take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:44 AM
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No, I think I know what he's saying. If an unnatractive man is progressing with a chick, a more attractive guy will come in and try to take her because he's thinking "If this ugly loser can get with her, I can," and the dude will subsiquently drop the guy a peg to get the otherhand. I used to see it all the time in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:32 AM
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Women want winners...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:30 AM
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Alpha widows mourn at different paces
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 08:16 PM
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Depends on the mother, mine is pretty RP when it comes to the realities of genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:36 AM
2

No I don't believe so. Do you think if you "tried" to enjoy sucking dick, eventually you'd stop feeling gay about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:58 PM
2

And some were much better with woman than others, because those who were better, knew better how to attract women. It's not like it's all random chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:57 PM
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They aren’t arguing for the banning and removal of it. It’s just a career choice people shouldn’t normalize and encourage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:13 PM
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Yeah I can’t tell you how many times there will be some older chick sleeping around for the first time in ages, and is suddenly like “I never thought size mattered until I met Kevin and OMG it was the most amazing experience I’ve ever had!” The worst I read was a chick who opened her relationship and then closed it once her husband started getting poon. But her fling was super hung and now she “forgot” how to orgasm with a normal size even months later into the relationship closing. Her solution…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:06 PM
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It’s still uncontrollable. For some people all you can do is avoid the subject and not think about it. For instance till the day I die I’ll probably resent whichever partner I’m with and she’s an ex slut. I can come to terms with it, and avoid it, but nothing she’ll do will suddenly change how I feel about that part of her life. So all I can do is avoid chicks like that or just never ask... but the feeling wouldn’t be rationalized away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:02 PM
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One odd thing I noticed is a woman can learn that her guy was with a hotter, tighter, nymphet in bed, and they generally don’t get jealous or even care too much. They are just like “oooh lucky you”. But if a dude finds out his girlfriends ex was a big dicked sex god who gave her a ton of orgasms, he will get instantly insecure and let it eat away at him. Even I’m not above it. When I found out the girl I was seeing used to bang her ex a ton and she was always seeking out sex from him, even after…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:57 PM
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You ever notice how chicks refuse to say size matters but 99% of the time there is this mind blowing sex, the dude has a huge dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:43 PM
2

I think the trope that money gets women is over rated. Sure it helps a little by improving but a loser is a loser. Most of these rich guys are really charismatic and fun, it just rich. Purely for money relationships seem super rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:38 PM
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Because you’re making the claim that there is no formula to sleeping with women when clearly there is. I’m responding to refute your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:36 PM
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Dude you’re so wrong. It’s just another social skill. It’s like learning sales or doing Standup. People absolutely can “practice” and learn what works the best and when nuanced approaches are appropriate. It’s literally a skill wether or not you’re conscious of it. Do you think I just magically started blindly honking up with women? No I learned what works and what doesn’t work. And I learned faster than most because I put myself out there the most. Lol you don’t even realize your contradiction.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:06 PM
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eros.com
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:58 PM
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In my experience, the wall is WAY harder in the USA mainly because of celebrity culture. Women in America absolutely use their sexuality -- often without even realizing it -- to get an edge whenever they can. For instance, "feminists" with tank tops with their huge tits hanging out is for a reason. In Europe, when I would go to clubs, no chicks were there to "be seen". You could have extremely hot chicks, but they still dress relatively normal and conservative like everyone else. Whereas in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:38 PM
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We are discussing perception and why society reacts the way it does. I'm not saying men having sex toys means they can't have sex. It's more about that's how society perceives it. That's why there is a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:21 AM
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It’s the value thing. It’s hard for a man to have easy access to sex. So the sex toy is viewed as an admission of failure to being masculine enough to attain sex. Whereas women have it easy to get sex so the sex toy is viewed not as an admission of failure but actually a sign of positive sexuality while being chast. Sort of a virgin Madonna thing going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:41 AM
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There are "natural" 9s, but most of them seem REALLY fake and over produced.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 06:06 PM
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She could be attractive but my experience is 100% if women like this are obsessed with their looks which is never enjoyable in a partner. It’s weird to be that obsessed with how you look There is a reason you should be careful dating a 9 or 10
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 03:54 PM
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Yeah, to be perfectly honest, I've SERIOUSLY thought about it a bit. Due to the pandemic, all I have is OLD, and well we know it's proper trash right now. Just the amount of headache required to find decent poontang, and all the work required.... Or 100 bucks and I can get a hot 27 year old at my house, no questions asked. It's VERY tempting to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:23 PM
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This is true with escorts in general. I know a guy who's early 30s, built like a God, and lives in an expensive luxury loft. He gets escorts all the time. He just doesn't want to have to deal with hitting up a bunch of chicks, seeing who's available, dealing with their "it's just sex, but uhhh if you want to get dinner sometime" stuff. Just hits em up, 30 minutes later he's getting laid, and she's gone. It's just convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:33 AM
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Which men? The top 1-10%? Most men throughout history made just enough for the family to get by. The ENTIRE responsibility of the survival of the family depended on him busting his ass ALL DAY to make sure his family survives. Literally like a slave, while women were often able to stay at home after having children for a few years. Men had to go die in wars to protect the women So look at it this way, many men would much prefer to sit back and not have that burden on their shoulders and let some…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:56 PM
3

Why does woman advantages involve being able to grift off men but men have to support and provide for them? That’s the whole point. Pros and cons
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:24 PM
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The fact that you think RP is all about abusing women is all I need to know about your opinion. You aren’t even educated on what you’re arguing against so how can anyone take your argument seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:35 PM
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OLD is a textbook example of it in action
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:33 PM
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Dude stfu. You’re clearly missing the point I’m making. I have no idea how that’s what you took out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:15 AM
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Again, they can learn all these lessons without fucking multiple people at a time. I know countless women who don't. Though it's getting less and less, however I think that's their decision to initiate sex early. Dudes are willing to hold out a few dates until there is a spark. I'm not saying they shouldn't put out, just not right away, and not multiple people at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:32 PM
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I mean what is "casual dating" like hanging out and going to just get coffee and food? Sure... But I feel like after the first date, you either know if you want to pursue this person or not. To continue reaching out to other people just means to me that the person isn't serious and is fine fucking around Maybe I'm just that old fashioned. And if that's the case, well, that's also what I'm into so it just means my dating pool is smaller. Even if it's a first date, I would NEVER continue a dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:50 PM
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That's fine, do whatever you want to do. I dated around, but one at a time. You don't have to date 3 people at a time to play the field. If you're into that, fine. I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:30 PM
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Sure, a freak in the sheets, doesn't mean being a hoe. You can be great in bed, and not fuck a bunch of dudes you met off an app
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:27 PM
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Yeah, I do. I find dating multiple people at the same time as weird. Even if it's casual. I date one person, if it doesn't work out, move onto the next. Dating multiple people, just seems weird. Especially if one of those relationships is sexual and the other isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:21 PM
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Lol -- This guy: "Having personality and value preferences that aren't like mine make you sad" Lol... Fucking aye... The internet was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:20 PM
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Yeah definitely different group. I am only in my 30s yet people still hook up and do things. The exclusively "video dating" thing seems to just be a first impression thing people do to save time, or VERY hardcore progressive neoliberal types who think it's a sin to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:19 PM
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Yeah I just am not into chicks who go on dates with people while fucking other people on the side. Maybe you're cool with that, and that's fine. I'm not. I never said anything is wrong with sex, or wrong with being a hoe. It's just not a personality or character trait I'm into. Am I not allowed to have preferences in personality? Great, you're fine with going on dates where she fucks some guy right after and you don't see a problem, that's awesome. I'm not into that though. Oh now I'm an "incel"…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:17 PM
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Huh? How am I supposed to know she’s a hoe if on one platform she’s pretending not to be? I won’t find that out for several dates. Which is a waste of time. If she only didn’t pretend to not be a hoe then neither of us would have wasted out time going on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:53 PM
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Oh of course. But that’s the point. That’s why OLD sucks. Too many options and an over supply make men disposable too much. The way OLD works isn’t in my favor one bit because it relies entirely off text and photos with a high degree of jumping around. The system sucks for people on both sides because women are constantly trying to do better and men are casually passed over. So OLD sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:52 PM
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Because I’m not into chicks I date go on the side and fuck other people. She’s free to do what she wants so stop wasting both our time by pretending to be someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:54 PM
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Not on OLD. That’s why I don’t like it. It’s imbalanced. The market place is inefficient
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:52 PM
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Still deceived into wasting my time because I’d like to know if she’s a hoe from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:25 PM
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Nah the game is skewed. In real life I have a chance with them. Online they are on the constant chase for better and better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:22 PM
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Yeah I know. I’m just giving personal experience and my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:10 PM
3

OnlyFans needs more midgets and Brock Lesner types... because you know. Though i think that’s interspecies at that point and illegal in most states
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:36 PM
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Sure it is. Would you like to meet a chick on Bumble who presents herself as not a hoe, decent, quality woman, only to find out she’s looking for a gangbang on other apps? I’d feel deceived
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:34 PM
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Tinder is a sad reminder of just how many women are hoes. It’s out of control. I’d be really disappointed to find my partner used tinder for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:31 PM
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This is the lamest take out of this whole thing. Yeah that’s why women prefer OLD... because they are less likely to get raped. Surely it has nothing to do with them being given an abundance of options to pick from out of their league like a kid in a candy store. No. The real reason is women are less likely to get sexually assaulted lol Worst. Take. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:30 PM
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Are you in a very liberal area or peer group? I don’t know a single guy who would refuse a hookup because of covid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:28 PM
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What is this comment lol. She’s free person and do what she likes? Yeah no shit. Wtf are you talking about. Dude isn’t saying women should be outlawed from doing that. He’s saying their duplicity and different “personalities” they present across apps is telling of who these type of women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:27 PM
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Nah those dudes are the ones fucking hot chicks on demand like it’s adult friend finder
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:24 PM
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On only fans I can theoretically pay a chick 20 bucks to stick whatever I ask up her butt. She’ll record it and I can share with friends and family Can’t do that on Tindr
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:24 PM
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It really shows male disposability lol. It sucks when I match with a chick I consider absolutely ideal from looks, body type, interests, and intelligence. Talk a little... then suddenly get the 3 word replies then nothing. It’s exhausting because it makes me feel like a performance that I have invest a bunch of mental cycles to compete with all the other men to be witty and keep things engaging and interested enough to not pass. Legit feels like a meet market. Not worth it at all. Return to Monk…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:17 PM
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If all the girls were burned alive, I promise you, the media would be reporting on how cruel it is to kill a bunch of little girls like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:12 PM
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This is such a dumb question no one should answer it. It will make them dumber to even entertain it. Look up “sealioning” because that what you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:11 PM
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Of course they can. I’m just pointing out the hypocrisy of woke twitter who are all anti male and against objectification then all for objectifying themselves to make a few bucks off a dudes orgasm. I’m just pointing out the dumb hypocrisy. I Don’t give a fuck what someone chooses to do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:38 AM
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If you don't believe everything is a social construct, then by default you have to support evolutionary psychology. There is no way around it. Either evolution impacted our brains and psychology like it did everything else, or it didn't. Not all evopsych is about crazy right wing nutters trying to use it to justify how women actually like being raped. It's a growing and evolving field... Sadly it's just really controversial because humans get really offended when we look at ourselves like the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:23 AM
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You can like it, it doesn't make it any more dignifying to have a job that reduces you to being an object meant for men ejaculating. It's still inherently an objectifying job that is highly reductionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:21 AM
1

Yes having to resort to sex work to make ends meat sucks, even if it’s a choice. Second all the feminists I see on social media are all pro sex work like it’s the new STEM
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:02 AM
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Who said it's not taken seriously at all? You really need to leave your echo chamber. People keep saying that but never back it up. Fucking HARVARD has evopsych courses. It's ridiculous to even assume that evolution has affected each organ in the body, including by gender, EXCEPT the brain. People that are 100% "everything is a social construct" seem to be the only ones claiming its not serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:17 PM
1

People aren't retarded. TRP looks more like people are on a spectrum and there are many bell curves. OBviously not all women are the same. That's a truism that goes without saying. The only people who get confused here are the autists who lack social awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:54 PM
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The first RP woman I encountered was Laura Lessiger (spelling), who wrote a book called "How to feed and care for your husband." She's really conservative so I don't agree with a lot of it, but it was really eye opening to see a woman "get it". She does a great job at explaining the biggest issue between the genders is we are always speaking past each other. What men and woman consider important are often not aligned. What we considered insulting, are also not frequently aligned. That woman may …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:52 PM
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Imagine how pissed you'd be if society kept telling you to be yourself, only to find out in your early 30s that it turns out, "Well being yourself doesn't include being a furry into anime." I'd be pissed too... Society is supposed to PREVENT poor life choices and behaviors, but society is now encouraging it and normalizing it... Then dudes, well past their prime realize society failed to properly guide them because some idiots were afraid of criticism leading to violent bullying. And in case any…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:48 PM
5

It's literally like approaching dating from a scientific type of view. For instance, there are mountains of books on the reproductive and social structures of apes. Tons of it. We can analytically look at it scientifically and see what works, what makes a successful ape, how their sexual market place dynamics work, etc... However, some people HATE this way of interpreting things when you do the same with humans. There is some special snowflake thing going on where they don't see human as animals…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:45 PM
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I don't hate them... I feel bad for them. This whole "pro sex work" stuff reminds me of how the far left often accidentally end up with the alt right libertarians: See, segregation of black and white communities and open borders Being pro sex work, is literally the dream of men to be able to normalize buying pictures of the buttholes of random thots for 5 bucks while on the toilet. No woman should want to normalize being objectified as an object whose economic existence is for the entertainment …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:40 PM
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LOL the SUPER HOT chick in highschool knew she was smoking hot, was banging dudes in their 20-30s, and basically used her sexuality to completely manipulate every highschool guy around her. I knew her game. She was hot, so she'd cast a little rope for the guys, and once they were hooked she had complete control over them I refused to play the game and be like the rest of the chodes. So I constantly refused her advances, ignored her, and wasn't really rude to her, just didn't give into her sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:39 PM
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Eh, there is one thing to tell them to get off and even be upset... It's another thing to be an unnecessary asshole about it. People think that just because someone did the tiniest of slight they have the right to be a total extreme dick. It's not like these little girls could damage fucking massive tires even if they tried. He's just looking for justification to be a total dick to them, and you're supporting it.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/03/21 10:33 PM
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It’s fucking tires dude. They are literally dragged all over the ground.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/03/21 10:27 PM
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First off dude, you clearly aren't capable of honest discussion and thought. A study coming out does NOT mean anyone is advocating for MC. Nothing about it is saying we should all get circumsized. It's wild how your thought process works. You think people here are pro genital mutilation? What type of twisted world do you live in where discussing facts and reality of things, means people agree with it? Like I said before, the whole point of the black pill, is discussing scientific realities wheth…
/r/BlackPillScience24/02/21 03:44 PM
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What? No. No one is saying that. How did you interpret what I said to mean that? This is a sub with scientifically backed insights. For instance this study shows that circumsized male penises are considered more attractive and preferred across the world. So what was thought to be a cultural preference clearly isn’t.
/r/BlackPillScience24/02/21 03:03 PM
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No. It’s about reality and objective truth regardless of how it makes you feel. Nothing about it is giving up. Black pill is a term used to describe the cold hard truth wether you like it or not.
/r/BlackPillScience24/02/21 02:51 PM
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American men are so demasculated and thirsty for pussy, that they've become total simps
/r/BlackPillScience18/02/21 06:59 PM
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I don't think traditional masculinity is about providing. That's a male gender role, but has little to do with masculinity from what I understand of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:54 PM
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Lol... Which is my whole point. Sluts suck. Too much work. Best bet is get some domestic pussy, then an escort, then a slut. We don't need any more sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:42 AM
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Man, that sucks. I got out of that trap years ago... What's the saying, "I got 99 problems, but a bitch aint one!" lol I just find it easier to pay 200 bucks or whatever, get laid, and move on with my life. The whole courtship process and finding someone who's into a guy like me, while also into a girl like her, backdropped with online dating... Is just too exhausting, so I just stopped caring
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:35 AM
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Shit, man. I dunno... Haven't you had enough by now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:24 AM
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Nah, once you get older, the value of pussy plummets in respect to a man who's got shit to do. It's fun and exciting when you're younger, but when you're older, it's just another pussy. You fuck enough of them, and it gets old like anything else. You much rather just have a partner so you don't have to get distracted with the dumb mating bullshit. If you really need some hot young pussy, it's a dime a dozen. But putting up with their bullshit just to fuck them? Bleh... Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:19 AM
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Not everyone has the energy to deal with a different woman's bullshit ever few weeks. Some people have businesses to run and other shit going on than worrying about which new slut's bullshit you have to deal with. Again, sounds good in your 20s. In your 30s, pussy is pussy, and I got other shit to do. Much rather find a decent chick to cocaptian and focus on slaying dragons. If i just wanted hot pussy, it's 150-300 bucks and I can get a borderline model in my bed within a few hours... And doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:14 AM
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More promiscuous women is something that sounds good in your early 20s... Later on, you get really tired of the slutting around shit with women. It's just too much work to have to game a new chick over and over. Much rather have less sluts, which means more quality partners to select from, so I don't have to deal with random hookups as my primary avenue for sex. Seriously, do you know how hard it is to seriously date these days and have a hardline on "I wont date a chick who uses dating apps lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:05 AM
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These people think upper class trophy wives of the 50s was the norm for women.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/21 01:47 AM
1

We don't just openly tell people what we presume about them. I'm confused. Do you think people approach you then tell you all the things they've assumed about you right away?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:56 AM
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Every human, ever, always, reads a person based of context and makes assumptions about them. It’s literally one of humans strengths. We assume people are going to be how we expect based off our experience and start from there. If the person doesn’t match the stereotype we adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 06:13 AM
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Yeah anything is possible... But let's not play the "hey there are exceptions!" game... It's pointless and goes on forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:33 AM
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I wouldn’t say with a grain of salt. It’s still useful information. Sure it’s not as precise, and some self reporting things are far less reliable like diet... but it’s still a good anchor reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:32 AM
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I mean, do you expect researchers to follow them around all day to check if they've been laid or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 12:08 AM
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20% of men on OkCupid. Women going just off visuals suck at rating. They need to intellectually and emotionally get a finger on the guy before getting more broad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 12:07 AM
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It's also not as great as you're body is making you imagine. I remember when I was a young'n I thought sex was this sort of soul elevating thing that was better than heroine... At least that's what my hormones were telling me, because I wanted it more than a junky wants crack. Then you get older and it's good... But not what I thought as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 11:38 PM
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I mean, so could a lot of guys as well... But if they are anything like me, a fat chick isn't going to get me horny so I'll not be able to have a relationship with her... But I could if I was somehow able to overlook that part. And that goes for many other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 10:58 PM
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Oh I gotchu. Yeah, it's not going to be amazing sex. But still, an attractive, warm soft body is going to beat a sex doll or masturbation any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 10:34 PM
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What does that have to do with anything? I'm not saying cheating is okay. I'm explaining the difference of intent and psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:38 PM
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I always explain it like this: There can be a chick that is the most annoying, person ever... She's into dressing up like a furry, has an annoying screeching voice, worships potato chips because she's totally random (weird as fuck), and everything else is insufferable about her.... But if she's really attractive. I'll fuck her. I'd gladly fuck her It means nothing. It's a body. Nothing about her energy, vibes, personality, nothing. She can just lay there like a dead rag for all I care. Women can…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 03:21 PM
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You're just rationalizing your branch swinging. You probably have a justification for it, so you don't see it as branch swinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:57 AM
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I think they believe it’s just as hard because as they data shows they keep going for men outside their league and getting rejected, ghosted, and pumped and dumped. So they think they just can’t find a good guy because they are reaching too high
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:48 AM
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Yeah in my experience it’s feminists who avoid debate where the guys are all for debating endlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:58 AM
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Yeah I think we are in agreement? These female instincts are counter productive in todays modern age... And it can't be fixed with logic because logic is the last part of the brain's information processing. It's like saying, "Hey too much sugary stuff is bad for us. We shouldn't eat all of this crap. We have more than enough." But we find it REALLY hard to ignore that instinct, and do it anyways, no matter how illogical... And now everyone is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:53 PM
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If survival is the key than girls wouldn't be doing drug dealers since they don't provide anything Yes, but that sort of misses my point. I elaborated more in another reply. But the fact of the matter is that women ARE hard wired to care about the tall, drug dealer, who leads a social group. Because in the primitive world we evolved our survival instincts, a dude who was 20 pulling in more money than most of his peers, and was viewed as a leader, was considered valuable. Now that poorly translat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:48 PM
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Oh for sure... But I was just explaining why it's less important as it was in the past, but how it will never actually leave, because it's inherent in male biology. So we may stop marrying off 16 year olds and chasing young tail... So some would argue that because of this change, it's clear men don't inherently care about youth. Which I rebute, we clearly do, which is why women are always working so hard to chase youth. It's just reflected different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 07:30 PM
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Youth is still less important because of modern science and medicine allows a later life child rearing, which is more beneficial for society as the parents will be more stable by then. But our monkey brain still wants to seek after youth because it was much different back then when on average half of children died up until the 1900s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 07:09 PM
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I think you're 'just' missing the point. Like you're right there. A lot of these sort of evolutionary things are still true, but manifest themselves differently as society changes. For instance, evolutionarily speaking men are attracted to young women, however, that's also not very useful for modern society... So instead women wear clothes, makeup, and heels, which mimics those youthful features to attract that evolutionary element of men. Women being the gatekeepers of reproduction is still tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:22 PM
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Nice take but we have hard data from OLD sites that disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:11 AM
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Being a simp means you are a naive, ignorant, and weakened individual, desperate for attention. You're for all intents and purposes, vulnerable. Someone exploiting simps knows what they are doing and profiting off of their vulnerability by exploiting them. They are the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:51 PM
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I mean, I can empathize with being motivated to improve by feeling inferior to those around you and wanting to compete... But again, once the sex comes in that doesn't overlap. Like I can see a man fuck another woman amazingly and look at that and feel like "I need to fuck my woman like that so I need to improve." But there is just some intuitive feeling that if a guy does that to my GF it's more insulting and angering. I dunno... I guess it's just different wiring and I'll never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:07 AM
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Yeah, I just don't get it. I'm trying. Because I feel like the instinct of seeing your woman choosing another guy, and getting tons of pleasure from some other male... Would make me feel pathetic and inferior. I don't see how a positive sexual charge would get involved there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 11:58 PM
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I mean, at the end of the day, you do have a dick in your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:46 PM
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This sub was on fire during purge... Now it's going back to sucking its own dick contemplating if its gay or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:44 PM
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I'm a super empathetic person, as in, I try really hard and am really good at understanding others perspectives. Seriously, even the most awful people, I can kind of put myself in their shoes and see where they come from. Except cucks. I don't get it. I've fucking tried hard to understand where the arousal comes from watching some other dude dominate your own woman's sexuality while you sit on the side like a bitch. I don't get it. I want to get it. I can't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:42 PM
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I see you haven't experienced American women travelling abroad? My God, professional whores come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:40 PM
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LOL This is amazing. Fuck the metric system and their faggy measurements.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:36 PM
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Yeah but this is a debate sub. Personally, I don't give a fuck what these women think of my standards... BUTTTT then there would be no point to be here if we weren't arguing over nonsense for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:30 PM
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I don't know why incels aren't just banging super hotties. I was blown away to find out how cheap it is to bang a 9/10 escort. I always assumed super hotties were several hundreds a pop, but turns out a night at the bar often costs way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:29 PM
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Oh wow man, look at you doing math and shit over here. You're so smart. I wish I could be like you, but less angry and weird
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:32 AM
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Cock and ball torture, for starters. Stop playing naive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:00 AM
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Literally everything sexual you mentioned about your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:57 AM
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It’s purge week. I’m not being serious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:56 AM
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I know you fuck dudes who are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:20 PM
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You date weirdos so I don’t doubt the next dude is into weird shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:49 PM
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Then stay smoking hot as you age. Most moms let it all go and get ugly. If you stay hot he won’t have to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:33 PM
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It’s nothing against you personally. He still will respect you. He just wants some hot young and tight pussy. You can even pick her out, or at least let him get his feel with escorts if you want to avoid feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:30 PM
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Based. This sub is now a sanders for president hub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:26 PM
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He will find another young side how. By the time she wants kids, she’s too old anyways and should be recycled out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:25 PM
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That’s impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:24 PM
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I got an attractive cock tho and am good with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:23 PM
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Early 30s. Bit of an age gap but I can lie and say I’m 27
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:21 PM
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Sex workers are loose as fuck. I can’t use them because they’ll lie and say that they haven’t seen anybody all day only to find out she’s just stopping over from some big dicked dude who blew her out for the day and now I’m wasting 200 bucks to fuck an attractive hallway with daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:20 PM
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American schools teach awful culture and values. Kids can socialize themselves around the neighborhood and at their sport classes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:18 PM
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If you let him keep her as a side hoe, he won’t leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:16 PM
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I make good money. Are you hot? Let’s do this trad wife. No fats
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:15 PM
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My ex used to look just like Mei but personally I’m more of a Mercy guy myself. The sniper is also pretty hot but she’s purple. The jailbait with a shield ain’t so bad neither
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:03 PM
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She’s a sexy CGI video game character from the recently released best selling Cyberpunk 2077.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:01 PM
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I like it that way. Wish I could date Panam already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:59 PM
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I see nothing wrong with that. It’s sales. It’s logical to assume a man knows more about cars and home repairs than a woman so you’re going to be less aggressive on average
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:55 PM
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Yeah, but let's not pretend like all orgasms are the same. I'll cum way harder if she's really tight. The orgasm will be better. I'm sure that's what a big dick orgasm is like as well. When weilded properly, it's not just "good" but unbelievably great. And I know this because pretty much every woman I've ever talked to says the best sex they've had just so happens to also involve a big dick
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:37 PM
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Most women will admit a normal sized penis is fine and gets the job done, but close to 100% of women who have been around the block will include that the best sex of their life also just so happened to coincidentally also have large dicks. They'll settle for average, but prefer large. And that's what creates all the misdirection and conflicting "words vs actions" stuff. Women keep insisting "size doesn't matter" when it objectively does. So they are lying. And since they are lying, it opens the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:15 PM
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Those men are lying or already have thick dicks. But as an average dude I can absolutely 100% feel the difference. A tight chick well get really wet but still have a lot of pressure and friction. A looser chick will start feeling like you're just pounding air because she "widens" so much to the point of losing my boner. I imagine if that dude was hung, he'd never really experience the hotdog in a hallway feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:59 PM
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It can hurt a lot having someone pound on your cervix. Then that means the guy just doesn't know how to use it. If he's pounding your cervix, he's doing it wrong. Also if anyone thinks you're worthless because of your genitals then they are garbage and you need to find someone that truly loves and respects you. That's missing the point. Obviously most chicks aren't going to leave a guy over that flaw, but it's more about the double talk coming from women. Sure, they are satisfied, but no woman i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:57 PM
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Bro, women care, just they know it's socially unacceptable to admit it, and likely would hurt their partner's feelings since it's likely they aren't large. But I've talked to more than enough women to realize it does matter... A guy who knows how to use a big one is the difference between an orgasm, and a "HOLY SHIT" full body orgasm. Most women are just content with a regular orgasm though, so they say it's not that big of a deal. But I'd argue most chicks (I don't care about the exceptional sn…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:51 PM
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Oh wow, yeah that's definitely an outlier case. All the data reflects that the younger people get, the more and more anxious and anti social they are because they are being inundated with constant streams of validation seeking social media, limitless numbers of niche peer groups, seeing a stream of people constantly having exciting lives, etc... I also think area has a lot to do with it. Back at my beach town I grew up in, people are less social media focused and they seem way more social than s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 12:39 AM
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Yeah, people are MUCH more anti-social now... It's really weird, because the shift is very transparent. Even women lack a lot of social skills so you get a lot of "bitch" attitude but that's mostly because they just don't know how to normalize strangers talking and messing around. You have to understand, from the Gen mid/late 20s and below, they grew up in a very gamatized social media world, where everything is ranked, rated, etc... So they are very sensitive to status and idealism of how thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 12:29 AM
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It was a growing problem well before metoo... Like way before. I was talking about seeing the shifts for a while. It just kept building up with all the "OMG men are so sexist and need to learn not to rape!" mixed with all the "Men are pigs! Masculinity is toxic!" stuff being thrown around. I was noticing guys who were more online were growingly getting confused on how to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 12:25 AM
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That and they idolize Russian women, which are skinny, hot, and and prefer to make babies. But that’s it. Their personalities suck and they’ll walk all over a western guy because she won’t respect him. A guy who’s an assholes in the West, they consider very caring and sensitive... almost feminine. These dudes who want to go to Russia remind me of weebos who are going to have a harsh awakening when they get to Japan for the first time and discover all those Japanese schoolgirls they jerk off to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 09:26 PM
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Didn't work for me the first 6 months, then suddenly it started filling in again. It takes a while for it to take effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 03:27 PM
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I mean you do finish, but it just takes a little bit longer than usual. But that's only when you start. After 3 months it's back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:47 AM
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At first, yeah... But weigh it out. For me, it just made me never be able to finish, which the lady didn't mind at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:43 AM
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Also many men start making money. I pulled in 30k this month. Sure as hell offsets the 15 COVID pounds I added.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:22 PM
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Finesteride is 30 bucks a month and can get a prescription online for free. If you have hair loss there is no reason not to take it. It can take up to a year to see results but it’s cheap and easy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:20 PM
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Food portions absolutely have gotten larger. There is a good documentary called something like "The men who made us fat". It shows the start of the obesity pandemic corresponded with the food marketing changes. Basically, the issue the food industry faced was that, well, their was an absolute market cap which was already hit. It was literally a zero sum game with food, as in, their is a finite demand, so if my customer buys more food from you, it means they are buying less elsewhere. The only wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 08:13 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 02:58 PM
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What? There is not a single thing where men don't have an advantage? How about in making money? How about leading nations? How about being able to defend themselves? How about...You know what, I'll stop. This is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 02:58 PM
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In some ways, sure. Men are also overprivileged in other ways. The two genders just aren't able to compare apples to apples. Men have more burden of being successful warriors, but also have the privilege of having the spoils of victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 02:52 PM
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Since men are the spearhead, there is less negotiation on their role. Women have more privilege and freedom behind the scenes to be more fluid with their roles because they aren't the ones on the battle field.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 02:49 PM
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Scientists aren't inherently week men. They add value to the success of the species. Men who sit around moping, and crying all day, do not. How can a man lead a family through the problems of life when he's always insecure and uncertain? No woman wants that in a guy. They want a winning bet who they are confident will be able to support their children, rather than some guy who's emotionally unstable. And no, we aren't circumventing nature. We are using nature. Humans are inventors and learned ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 02:48 PM
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I don't understand your argument. You are part of nature. There is no avoiding it. If you live in reality, you are part of reality. In this world, men are required by our species to survive, because they resolve conflict, go to war, and struggle... Weak men don't add to achieving this role, so they are rightfully weeded out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 02:31 PM
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Yes... Men and women have different standards. Men are supposed to be the rock - the warrior. To fulfill our role in the ying/yang, we can't show cracks because she relies on men to push through difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 02:06 PM
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https://medium.com/towards-artificial-intelligence/tinder-ai-a-perfect-matchmaking-b0a7b916e271
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:43 PM
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No that's not it. I just saw a stat yesterday from Tinder where 95% of women find someone within the first week. So the low participation is because women get on it, get bombarded with options, find a guy they like, then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:16 PM
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I imagine they are overweight and have blue hair, types.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 12:43 PM
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Yeah, that's why I mentioned Newton. We use what works. Is it perfect? Does it answer everything? Is there flaws? Well, as of now it's the best model we have, and all we have to go with, and until another model comes in and replaces it, for the time being, this is what's best to go off of. Newton wasn't perfect, but his theories solved a LOT and was incredibly useful until Einstein discovered relativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 01:06 AM
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It's always the same... "Well just be vulnerable! Be yourself. Love and cherrish the woman. Get her excited and eager for more!" Uhhh okay? How exactly do you do all that, and what exactly does that all mean? "It means you need to be more confident and adventurous! Don't be afraid of her feminine nature!" Uhhh okay, but what does that mean? Incoming pickup/TRP "Here is a 500 page in depth dissection designed by an engineer that goes over each and every step in brutal detail so there isn't a shre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:16 PM
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Success is whatever people want it to be. But people aren't going there because it's garbage and doesn't help them. Some guys want more sexual partners, others want to be able to pick up chicks easier, some just want to get a GF. Whatever it is, it seems to resonate and work, which is why people advocate for it. If dudes who weren't getting results in these areas, then it would be dropped like garbage, like every other BS self help theory that comes around. For instance, the only reason I found …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:13 PM
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I think it just depends on lifestyle. If you're into a very active social life, you probably get off on this sort of thrill and fast lifestyle, so you just want to burn through different women, have them around for entertainment, etc... These type of social people are the types who are ALWAYS wanting to hang out with friends and do things. So naturally they just want chicks around, the more the merrier. It's really just a psychological state, which is why so many more young guys do that. It's be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:08 PM
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This is because the dudes you're meeting aren't openly going to say they wont date a single mother... And the ones you go on a date with, clearly don't mind. There is a TON of self selection going on. Some guys are okay with it just for hookups and such, but most, like myself, hard no soon as I know there is a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:53 PM
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RP only cares about facts and what works.... If it didn't work, didn't explain things, didn't help men make sense of the world, then they wouldn't care for it. If there was a better and more effeceint "theory" out there, people would flock to it. The whole reason it's successful is because at this moment, it seems to be the most practical and useful. If some other philosophy out there was pulling in more women, more sex, and better relationships, men would jump ship IMMEDIATELY. Unfortunately, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:36 PM
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I literally just heard a stat while reading this. Crazy. Anyways, women on Tinder find someone they start seeing within the first week. ONE WEEK. That's the turnover on that app. So basically men are left with those 5% who still have Tinder for a reason (slut, low quality, narcassist), or hope they can catch one of the chicks passing through for the week. Which rings true for me, most chicks I know don't have dating apps very long before they find someone to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:27 PM
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No I have no judgement against women who find a guy who’s successful in life as attractive. That’s understandable. Having their shit together and ability to do whatever is nice. It doesn’t make them gold diggers. But being really forward beyond just saying I’m self employed I find sort of trashy. I’m the entrepreneur world it’s always the posers saying they are founders, entrepreneurs, etc... and I’m in a town famous for gold diggers so outright stating I make good income absolutely attracts bim…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 12:09 PM
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I'm in the same boat. I have a business, work from home really mostly part time since that's all I need to do. I make good money, and am tall and decent looking. If I list my profession and allude to income, I'll get much more traction, but it's hard to discern if the chick is just a gold digger or not. If I don't list it, it becomes almost exclusively overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 07:21 AM
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just ask women here how they feel about men cold approaching them, they do NOt like it I don't think that's the case. Reddit women may think that because they are 18 and think everything is sexist and men are bad. But in the real world, doing it gently is totally fine. I used to do it all the time before COVID. Women just don't like shy, creepy, timid, or weird dudes cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 07:18 AM
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This is really nuanced, and I appreciate this conversation btw. Yeah I think I'm happy to have had great sex, but there is some cross-section that happens with sex that brings in the emotional. With some random chick or chick I care little about, I really couldn't care less... But if it's someone I love, if we are being honest, yeah I think I do care. Again, not to hammer this in - but I think it's needed... It's the opacity that creates the frustration. Men like things quantafiable and clear so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:33 AM
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I think that's where you're wrong though... Women obviously rank dick size above a lot, which is why they specifically ask for it and specifically point it out to other women when they get laid. If it was so marginal, it wouldn't be important even mentioning. Maybe you're an outlier, but for all intents and purposes, women seem to place it pretty high on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:10 AM
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I'm more focused on just calling out the bullshit. That's what TRP is about: reality. I'm only arguing this position to make a point that when women say and claim that size doesn't matter, it's obviously a lie -- which you've even admitted yourself. That's all. I'm explaining why I think it's a lie, and why it fucks with guys heads. If women were more honest, this would be much less of an issue. Instead we have to have long conversations weaving in and out, dealing with cryptic communication unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 02:46 AM
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Exactly... So a guy with a big dick defaults at good... and can only go up from there, and likely beyond - as you've admitted - what any normal sized guy can do. The most intimate and passionate act requires genetics to be at the top of the list. To be lusted after and craved like a big guy who knows how to use it, is simply not a reality for normal guys. I say this as a dude who's been told many times I'm a good lay. But I don't deny reality and when all other things are equal, and she's given …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 12:53 AM
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Yeah, if you're super fucking lazy with a huge dick, obviously it's useless... But if you know how to use it, nothign else can compete. Do you not think there is a reason like 80% of sexual hookup posts include the preference for the guy being hung? Just go look at your local r4r (reddits local hookup subs), and you'll notice just about every woman poster is asking for a large dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 12:42 AM
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No... Men focus on it because of the transparent comments women make, and their double talk, to the point that it's apparent it matters to women but they staunchly deny it. Guy's aren't dumb. They hear when chicks talk about a hookup and then fawn over him being hung. Guys notice when some dude who rarely gets laid suddenly starts getting more attention once it comes out he's packing. They aren't dumb when women say things like "Oh size doesn't matter, he just has to learn how to eat pussy" clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 12:21 AM
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And in everyone one of those cases where the guy was normal sized, it would have been better if he was bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:57 PM
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Think so? Most dildos are between 4-5.5
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 02:06 PM
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In a way... Men just want to be appreciated the same way. Men are very sexual and want to be sexually desired as well, and from their partner they want the upmost sexual desire. So a guy gets insecure knowing his GF had an insanely heavy lust with a guy most in part because of his penis size which he can't compete with. So he feels "settled" for. Because again, a man is very sexual, and it makes him insecure knowing he will never be lusted for the same way another man is in her eyes, no matter w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:44 PM
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This is what women don't get. Guys aren't claiming women would dump them because of their dick size. They aren't saying the issue is her GF will leave him or cheat on him... It again comes down to being settled for. Like I prefer my GF has a nice ass, but I'm not going to dump her either, but at the same time, I'm not going to lie and pretend that a nice ass doesn't flip on my sexual monkey brain. When guys are insecure about size, it's because they want to be sexually lusted and craved by the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:37 PM
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First, women are REALLY considerate of people's emotions, considering they have such high emotional IQ. Second, average is the norm, so they don't want to say their preference is something which statistically is what their partner or potential partner doesn't have.... Creating insecurity. Finally, there is A LOT of social pressure on women to not be honest about it. You'll hear guys say something like, "Pshhh doens't bother me! I never had a woman complain!" As if a woman is going to tell the gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:32 PM
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It’s possible. Women subconsciously can smell the scent of a high testosterone male changing their perceived attractiveness based on ovulation
/r/BlackPillScience27/11/20 01:01 AM
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It's pretty wild, it's not just OLD, it's life in general. The older you get, people within the 30s range who are single are much more rare compared to 20s when people are jumping around from relationship to relationship at the drop of a hat. OLD is especially bad because while there are attractive chicks, it's HIGHLY competitive and those girls aren't on the market long. Because once you hit 30s everyone is not messing around for the most part and are looking to lock down long term relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 02:48 AM
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The police would just make it worse
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/20 01:52 PM
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I so fucking hate when people make this argument. If a dude is "afraid" because of metoo shit, he's wayyyy too online and hangs out with weirdos. All this has done is weed out the timid and meek. If anything it's just a stronger shit test women use. Men need to stop being sissies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 03:41 AM
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Okay great. You don't like those men, so what's the problem? I personally like the feminine and women who emphasize the feminine ethos. It's not some "magical" thing... It's just what seperates men from women. It's why I'm not fucking men. I like women... And part of being a woman is feminine... And part of being feminine, is keeping your sexuality restricted and cherished. As a guy, it means SO MUCH MORE knowing that she doesn't just give her pussy to any guy, but instead CHOSE carefully and se…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:33 AM
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It's not unfair... That's the thing. Men and women are different. Men are the masculine part of duality, and women are the feminine. There is a reason men want to fuck women, and women fuck men. It's the attraction of the ying and yang. We don't want to be with a man who just so happens to have a pussy... We are attracted to the female ethos... The loving, caring, emotional, life creating, passionate, etc... part of what makes a woman, a woman. And since women are feminine, and NOT men, we have …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:50 AM
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People just have different values for different reasons. Personally I see women as rulers of the feminine ethos... Love, empathy, sexuality, and passion. They are the creators of life and the yang to men's ying. If women don't care if guys fuck around, that's their thing, they are allowed to have whatever standards they like. If they don't like a guy who fucks around, then that's also their choice. Overall, men just don't like something that's supposed to complete them, which IMO represents femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:33 AM
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They can be a hoe... No one is saying they aren't allowed to be. It's just you can't be a hoe if you want a majority of quality men to like you. Guys aren't into chicks who other men easily and frequently use up Quality guys want something that's got a little restraint and high value in their sexuality to not cheapen it by giving it out all over
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:23 AM
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People seem to harp on this subject because it's so controversial, rather than that important. I don't think it's a deal breaker unless she was a legit slut... But it can be a deciding factor when she's in the grey area.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 05:08 AM
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I don't bring it up. It's just a weird conversation to start... But the "signs" start becoming apparent sooner or later. I also make it clear, in a non-judgemental way, that I'm not looking for that kind of chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 05:06 AM
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NO one is expecting chicks to be a fucking handmade, lady... People are just saying not to be a hoe. You know, don't load up Tinder whenever you're horny, or don't go home with strangers you just met on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 05:04 AM
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Yep... I have a lot of experience, and I'm just not into a female with the type of personality who is okay with going home with men she barely knows and doing it frequently. People will call me a hypocrite because I used to be one of those guys, but it is what it is... You don't have to like me for whatever reason. I just know the type of women who sleep around are ALWAYS just in some different mental headspace I can't really get into. Not to mention they come with baggage like always having guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 05:03 AM
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That's not how relationships work... If you don't like your boyfriends status because of economics, then don't waste each other's time. Personally, I never cared about my partners economic position, because it's a partnership. A relationship means you now work together as a single unit, and if you think that single unit can't work with it's existing parts, then you shouldn't make that unit. Your boyfriend is also in his early 20s... Jesus. Even college grads start out with shit jobs. You think h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:47 PM
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People here really think the court is stuck in the 90s. In the last decade they've made HUGE strides eliminating the bias courts have. Most non-shithole states are pretty fair these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:32 PM
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People these days have ridiculous purity tests for people. Oprah could do tons and tons of good, but if she allows a psychic on the show and doesn't pwn her intellectual superiority, then people will suddenly hate her for not being on 'le team'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:19 PM
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People don't leave someone if they are less than perfect. There are other valuable things. Think about how many unsastisfied women are out there dating dudes with micropenises. I guarentee you they'd prefer a normal dick at least, but other things make up for it. Young women is no different. People are just saying that they are hot and fun. But it's not the ONLY thing important. Some dudes just don't care about having deep intellectual shared experiences and just want hot pussy, so they date you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:17 PM
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Okay, well snarky dismissive answers are where you lose me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:14 PM
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Evopsych just helps explain things. You can't expect it to be right about everything, and discreddit it because in some cases it's obviously a bullshit reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:31 PM
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It’s literally taught at Harvard and is a recognized field. The people who don’t take it seriously are the feminist and woke types who don’t like it’s explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:13 PM
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The general conclusion is that the studies aren't always consistent and deliver mixed results in terms of mechanisms and what's being attributed to it, but clearly are showing multiple significant differences. The point of the meta analysis is to try and figure out what's causes these mixed results and what can be attributed to it. For instance, with the study you're quoting it clearly says the effect is found in males and correlates with hormones given within the womb. Then later goes onto disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 09:53 PM
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No, the meta analysis portion discusses other studies which draw similar conclusions, and discuss how it's present from day one, but other studies show it really compounding at about 9 months. This linked study is useful because it has A LOT. And one of the things they found is it gets more and more prominent. But even early on in their abstract they discuss how these differences are still observed in infants to have a statistically significant preference difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 09:13 PM
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Yes, which is why these studies are done on literal newborns. As in like just born. Boys are more likely to be interested in non-social/face activities compared to girls. Newborn girls are more likely to be interested in people, faces, dolls, etc, once they are born, where boys have a statistically significant increased interest in mechanical moving objects. Obviously there are social pressures as well, but the theory is that these pressures exist to reflect natures comparative advantages in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:16 PM
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https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/infa.12352 The theory dates back to evopsych's explanation as to why men have higher spatial IQ. Men unquestionably are able to do better on tests that require spatial awareness... Which is usually corelated with engineering and such. Being able to imagine an object, what's behind it, and so on... Evopsych would suggest this is due to men being predominantly hunters, they needed to become better at imagining their environment when out hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:10 PM
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From the day of birth, it becomes extremely apparent that males are far more mechanically intelligent and women are emotionally intelligent. So just based off the concept of emergence, it's natural to expect that men will overwhelmingly excel at things like car mechanics. It's not exclusive to men, just men have the benefit from day one, so naturally it's going to be a general advantage in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 06:30 PM
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Your examples don't give evidence of the wall not existing. If I were to say, "Men's bodies start breaking down in their 30s so they are passed their athletic prime" and then you point out that men in their 50s still go to the gym or Tyson is boxing agin, doesn't disprove the point. All the wall means is that at around 30, women start noticing that their sexual value begins tanking compared to their 20s. It doesn't mean that they can't date or have men want to fuck them... It just means, compare…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:04 PM
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Your logic is ridiculous. No one is saying it's impossible to date after 30. Is that honestly what you think people mean when they talk about the wall? Like you think something easily disprovable is what people were talking about with the wall? That at 30, just magically no women ever dates again? The wall just means that at around 30, a woman's sexual value starts to significantly fall, and she's in less "demand". This is scientifically proven. It doesn't mean women don't date any more, just th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 04:38 PM
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What is the obsession with people in this sub to constantly point out how there are always exceptions and outliers. Like I just don't get it. It's fucking common sense. Everyone knows there are outliers. Why do people act like this is some sort of controversial knowledge deserving to be constantly reminding people of? Does everyone here have autism or some shit and just not understand basic social "no shits"? Yes dude, we know there are outliers and some chicks are into fat dudes. But the majori…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 04:30 PM
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Nothing about that is sexism. Ironically, you're the one hamstering, running around eager to find an excuse to dismiss a male preference with sound logic. Do some inward inspection and try to figure out why you're so eager to defend women like a protected class who can do no wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:42 PM
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I understand but it's a nuanced issue that needs to be properly focused. This is more about "how" someone got that currency to spend. The male has to work for his currency, and become successful. The woman is just a trust fund kid in this example. So in this scenario, people would be less judgemental of someone who worked hard to get a bunch of money and buy a Tesla, vs some trust fund kid who just got one for their birthday. Both cases involve buying things and spending money, but the means to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:21 PM
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I'd say it's more like someone who's rich who inhereted their money. Most people don't "respect" that... Like wow, you are a successful business owner because your parents kept loaning you money until you built a successful business! Versus someone who actually had to take risks themselves, experience failure, and knuckle through to eventual economic success. Very few people respect the person who was given the easy path to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 01:31 PM
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This is a debate sub... They can still have interests in discussing relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 10:11 PM
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They seem smarter in the sense that they are careful not to make the same mistakes. But also massive insecurity vacuums thanks to be raised on social media... Like it's just "normal" to document fucking everything in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 10:11 PM
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It goes two ways. I definitely think I'm marriage material outside of the covid 20 pounds I gained. I have a successful business, work from home, do whatever I want, relatively stable and not the type who yells and argues or gets into relationship drama. The problem is women looking for marriage material men, aren't themselves marriage material. Like sorry, I'm not interested in chicks who use dating apps like they are the ads on porn websites to get laid on a whim. I dunno, I just deep down fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 10:09 PM
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People see whatever they want to see. It's like how all those woke people think there are nazis everywhere... When in reality, out of like 200 comments, there will be like one or two racist trolls and suddenly they are like, "OMG these white supremacists are taking over Reddit!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 09:51 PM
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Get the take home kits. It’s like 1.5k and literally the same thing the dentist uses.
/r/MGTOW205/11/20 12:12 PM
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If you look at the post history of some of these chicks posting their nudes, it's almost always the same pattern. Stickied at top is their OF link... Then literally hundreds of posts a day, usually of the same exact picture, in like 100 different subreddits. They spend literally all day posting their nudes on as many spaces as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 01:38 AM
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I don't think it's like that. The real world isn't filled with a bunch of shreaking woke twitterfucks and raging evil bitches ripping men off at every chance. Having a real relationship with a partner you love and want to work together with is still very common. It's just that there are a lot more hoes these days waiting to hit the wall before they realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 01:12 AM
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My old gymbro would get laid that way. He got a thrill having women oggle over his dick. He had a big dick and was really good looking/in shape. When he sent pictures of his hardon and abs, he did get women talking about how hot his dick was and start getting dirty. I don't think it works for the average dude with an average dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 01:09 AM
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Not really... Marriage benefits are just incentives, but not the only incentives. Many people WANT a life partner who they can talk with, know deeply, dual income, feel supported by... You know, a life teammate. Monogamy has TONS of social and evolutionary benefits which are beyond just cultural norms and legal protections. Drifting through life going partner to partner is a lonely life IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 01:00 AM
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No it wont. Humans are human man. The desire to have someone a man can be fully vulnerable with, start a family, and have as support in his life, will never change. You may see women as just useful for sex holes, but most men see partnership value beyond that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 12:52 AM
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Yeah, I'm a progressive liberal who lived in Berlin... Which is the political radical hub of Europe. Trust me when I say I've seen the extremes of this stuff. The sex is off the wall, but the poly thing is so normalized for so many "woke" types, it's like watching Twitter BPD in real life. One chick didn't even tell me I she was fucking two other people while we were dating. The only reason I found out was because I casually brought up asking if it involves her female cycle that has made her fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:50 PM
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Being overly pedantic. You damn well know the people playing mobile games are playing shit like candy crush and shit. LoL is a rarity and doubt many women play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 11:53 PM
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You can never, ever, say updoot again, and I promise you no one will mind and actually think better of you. Just saying :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 05:14 AM
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No, just because women claim that they are open to it, doesn't mean it's not a significant factor. Women probably also say they are "open" to dating a broke artist, but for the most part they are still going to avoid them. Being short is a massive handicap. I mean, I'm over 6 feet, so women don't have any problem being honest and frank with me when it comes to this issue because they know it wont personally hurt me. But I've heard it all. Sure, they'll date him if he significantly makes up for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 12:54 AM
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It always blows me away watching people who use OF try to justify having a career focused around satisfying men's dick's while being treated as an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 12:17 AM
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Yeah, women tend to say things that they deem socially acceptable. Sure they'll date a shorter guy if he's Brad Pitt, but we all know they rather date a tall guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 12:06 AM
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our observations are general truths but are not universal truths. Yeah no shit. What's the point of your comment? You're pointing out common sense. Everyone literally already knows this. Do you think when someone says "Women like blah blah blah" they mean literally every single woman ever? Is that why you feel the need to point out the obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 11:58 PM
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You clearly don’t know what it’s like to watch 11 hours of a movie you don’t want. I’d gladly let someone fuck me for 10 minutes to not deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:30 AM
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I mean, I've never really experienced a woman NOT putting out when I want it. Some people act like it's this massive chore. Most women realize it's just like 10 minutes taking one for the team... I mean, they love you right? Wouldn't you do something you don't necessarily want to do for 10 minutes if they asked? Shit, I watched the whole LotR series when I didn't want to, and that's half a day -- What's 10 minutes? I've never even been with a chick who wont let me roll her over middle of the nig…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 10:25 PM
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Suits are for losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:03 AM
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What's with the extremes? It's not "any sexual history at all!" What are you, 13? There is a difference between sexual history, and fucking strangers all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 01:23 AM
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That's some bullshit binary thinking right there. I think guys are just saying they don't want to date a town whore. They prefer chicks who don't use tinder to fuck strangers, and don't slut around. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 01:05 AM
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Lol, okay dude... Take off your fedora. You sound like an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 06:08 PM
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For the same reasons that watching The Matrix multiple times still gets me excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 05:51 PM
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It doesn't matter. You are missing my point. Anything Einstein watched was just like every other movie. The same fucking story arch redone with different paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 05:23 PM
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Dude, no one is saying you're making a moral claim that smarter or dumber is good. I'm saying you're an idiot actually, and you come off as a fedora wearing "faux high IQ" dude who thinks he's so much smarter than everyone else because he's not into something that 99% of the world is. Objectively smart people enjoy film as much as the next person. Einstein loved the cinema, and that dude was brilliant. Smart people and dumb people all love movies just as much. You not liking movies for some stup…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 05:14 PM
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No, you said people aren't smart if they enjoy horror films. That's a ridiculous notion. IQ has nothing to do with whether or not people enjoy movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:59 PM
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Well you just sound like a pretentious fedora head? Plenty of smart people enjoy watching movies of all sorts. It doesn't make you some special smart dude just because "I'm above all the idiots who enjoy going to the movies. I just don't understand it. I'm too smart." Maybe you're the one lacking something if you can't get into a movie and enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:44 PM
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So do you just not watch ANY movies since they are all the same story arch? No one is being fooled, they are choosing to suspend disbelief for the sheer entertainment of enjoying being taken into the story and feeling. Music, movies, it's all the same shit remixed over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:37 PM
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Literally 99% of movies use the same 3 format redone with different colors. Again, you aren't being fooled. No one thinks there is actually a demonic monster chasing people. You watch it for the entertainment. The way the story is told with imagery, sound, and tempo, draws you into the movie... It's always going to be the same story arch, no matter which movie. But it's still entertaining to see it done. Do you not enjoy something because you've already experienced it before? Pizza is pizza, don…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:25 PM
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This is the dumbest most pretentious thing I've read in this place in a while. The whole point of movies is to suspend disbelief. No one watches Saw and literally fears that some cancer patient is going to swoop them away and make them play violent death games. The whole point of a movie is to get into it's flow and and go for the ride. Some people are very very very empathetic and just can't get into the movie because the intensity of the horror is too much for them. That has nothing to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:53 PM
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Intelligence has nothing to do with liking horror films.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:21 PM
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It should go without saying that when it comes to social dynamics, there are ALWAYS exceptions, and people are talking in general terms. So when they say "Men don't like sluts!" Don't interpret that as a fact, that EVERY MAN doesn't like sluts, but just men in general. Men are being talked in a way as a general collective force, rather than individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:57 AM
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In my experience there is a box of "acceptable" with age. So under 25 they keep it around 10 or teens. In their thirties they'll start entering the low 20 range. Mid thirties, they just wont talk about it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:34 AM
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What does the credibility of the lie detector mean? They are interrogation tools because people think they believe them. They can work accurately in some cases, but overall they are used to get people to confess the truth because they believe it works. So if anything, this study isn't fixing for the women who know they can BS a lie detector, thus kept their false low n count That said lie detectors can help discern some truth. The CIA still uses them beyond just interogation but because it does …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:33 AM
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I don't understand what you mean? "YOu get more money while others don't get a chance"? How is the nuclear family too hard? It's a system where it can be dual income and people highly trust each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 12:34 AM
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Huh? Yeah, that's why the nuclear family is better. You get more money, thus more time to innovate, and incentive to innovate, so you can buy more cool stuff other people are making. Self motivating innovation doesn't pay the bills, thus doesn't attract enough collaboration to create nearly as good products as the profit driven ones. Just look at Linux vs Windows.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:59 PM
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I agree, but that's what drives a successful society. We are inventors and innovators. Our species is all about progressing and advancing, which requires capital. The society with more capital, is more powerful, better fit to defend itself, and get even more resources to remain in power. It benefits the species as a whole the best. I also think kids should be raised communally. But that only works if people are going to live in small communities. Which, is also a negative, because people work be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:44 PM
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Oh of course, there is a huge selection bias, since obviously they only see people who seek help. However, still, often they are looking for help that has nothing to do with being poly, however it becomes clear being poly is a symptom of their mental health issues. I also think swinging is much much different than poly. I think being able to sexually separate is much easier to do than having multiple emotional vulnerable bonds going on. It's inherently unstable. Rational people would avoid such …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:22 PM
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I don't think it can happen because society would crumble. There is a reason EVERY CULTURE which is successful has nuclear families. It's the most efficient and successful model. It's productive, stable, and best for offspring. Natural selection has clearly discovered that monogamy is the best route. Civilizations that start getting all weird and gender fluid and polygamous are usually either really primitive or on the brink of collapsing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:14 PM
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I have a friend whos a psychologist. He said he's never in his entire life, met a poly person who's not seriously fucked up. No literature exists that shows any sort of long term success. Even my own shrink was talking to me about it, and she said the same exact thing. She said men and women's reasons behind poly is also frequently different. That women who want multiple partners have very serious bonding issues, usually rooting from childhood, which manifests as "poly" because they are too afra…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:10 PM
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Perfect case though, again you're from Eastern Europe. I know I don't mind bringing chicks out to dinner, because I personally like to sit down to eat, and dinner dates are the perfect excuse to go to some of my favorite places. It has zero to do with me trying to impress anyone. It's all about me personally liking a spot and enjoy sharing it with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 01:00 AM
2

Well you need to actually workout as well and have more than scrawny tiny muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:46 AM
2

I think these sort of people are so beaten down by the time they reach adulthood, that the values "normal" people place are moot. By that point they've found other meaning and other ways to find value in their existence -- I mean, just look at her mother. She seems to be figuring it out. Because when you think about it, and step away from the rat race for a second, you realize that there really isn't much meaning to life. We were all just kind of plopped here on Earth and sort of just bump aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:51 AM
1

I'm being dead serious, do you really think that? Look at her mom. She has that deformity and she seems happy as hell and making the best of it. Like it's really easy to get stuck in the trap of comparing yourself with others -- especially as a social species -- but it seems like people like them realize that they have no choice but to stop doing that and just figure out a way to make the best of it. I just struggle to find a reason to think that no existence is better than a shitty existence. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:43 AM
1

If it's so bad, why aren't they just killing themselves? You sure as hell like to sit on your moral tower and tell others how they should feel... So tell me, if it's so bad -- so bad that it's a life not worth living -- why are they still living for as long as they can?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:02 AM
2

Sure it can... There is a reason why people with extreme disabilities aren't just offing themselves at first chance thinking "I rather not exist!" It's a tough life, that's for sure, but it's not a regrettable one. They are going to experience a side of humanity will never experience. It will be a very rough journey, and they will wish they were normal. But none the less, they'll be extremely grateful for life. In fact, from a more philosophical perspective, they are gifted in a way. They are at…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:17 AM
3

That's pretty much what I said... Like, I have basic social understandings and can tell if a chick is enthusiastic, or afraid. I don't need to sit down and talk about it. The fact that HE DOES feel the need to do that, doesn't mean everyone else is socially retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:57 PM
1

I think it's more of a spectrum. NO ONE is going to get their ideal person except for like 5 people. Everyone else is going to have to settle. However, the older you get, the more and more people are pressured into settling. As the market dries up and each genders sexual value decreases, you're more likely to lower your standards, even if it's subconcious. No one is saying you're going to get with a guy who's a total loser, just not your ideal. However, if you did marry the dude at 24, it would …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:16 PM
1

Lots of young people are taking zoloft. It's the top prescribed medication in the country. It reduces sex drive in men. Men are also having a lot less sex and acting like bitches. Coincidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:12 PM
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He was actually really good, just lacked "spirit" if that makes any sense. He was really great in a technical sense of making it look good, but it was void of any character or flare. That's actually why he was rejected. He was really good, but nothing about him stood out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:11 PM
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It's better than no life IMO. The experience of reality, even if less than optimal, is still a unique and gift of an experience. Sure her life will have tremendous hardship and challenges, but that's part of life. She will learn aspects and angles of the living experience none of us will ever be able to truly understand. Some of it dark, some of it enlightening... But either way, still unique and precious in it's own right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:09 PM
1

Some dude in another sub is calling me a rapist because I don't talk to one night stands beforehand about what they like... And I'm a rapist because I said some girls just don't make much noise. So therefor, I'm most certainly raping these women because the reason they are shitty lays is because I'm raping them and they are just afraid to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:07 PM
1

I think the logic is sound. I think this is why guys want younger women besides just youth, but because the woman forgoes her 20s and instead chooses to be with you. It means, she does think you're her top choice, and isn't going to keep searching. By the time they hit 30s, now they've yet to get a guy of their choice to commit, so now they are "settling for the best they can get at this point late in the game" before all the men are swooped up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:05 PM
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Of course it is... This isn't a scientific academic debate here. It's people giving their opinions based on their experiences in the world which lead them to believe what they believe. Most chicks I've met, when you talk to them, they all fantasize about being ravished. There is a reason why studies show a woman's top fantasy is a gang bang and rape. It's a primal feeling of being desired as a sexual goddess. But there is plenty of research about how women communicate with more plausible deniabi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:35 PM
0

People talk in general terms here btw... Nothing is absolute. It's bell curves. You should know this. It happens enough to make a general stereotypical observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:31 PM
2

They say that because they are in a relationship with a guy like that. They aren't going to openly admit to you that "Yeah the guy who fucked me like an animal is the hottest lay I ever experienced". She's going to say whatever you or her BF does, is the best. Girls always say whatever their partner is, is the best. Guy has a big dick? She'll brag about it and say how amazing it is. If he doesn't? Now she's in the "size doesn't matter camp". Basic concept is women are evasive and rarely ever hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:27 PM
1

Oh for sure. I used to joke about the whole reason all these skyscrapers exist and why we got on the moon was because less attractive dudes wanted hot wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 12:25 AM
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I'm the same... Personally if I live with someone, I see our funds as a collective. When I get my money, I do what I want with it, and she does what she wants with it, but since I make a lot more, I obviously have more left over, which is what we use together. Like, if she uses my money to go out an buy a TV or some shit, then yeah, I'll be pissed... but for groceries, supplies, or food? Yeah, it's all the same pot. I think one of the reasons relationships suck so much is people don't understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 03:34 PM
1

When people talk about that, they are talking about not each individual, but the entirety as an average. Yes, so people in those jobs, if you average them all together, fall into that category. Not each and every person are like that. This is social skills 101 - YOu should know this and I feel like an idiot having to explain fundamental social skills to you. When someone says "Men like this" they don't mean EVEYR MAN, they mean men as a whole. Same with me talking about these jobs. They are as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 03:10 PM
2

You're a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 02:11 PM
2

Yes I do. What a condescending little twat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 01:09 PM
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I never EVER comprehended guys who do that. It's pretty common too, and I guess works a little bit, but I just can't mentally justify getting something just to attract women. It's beyond comprehension. Like, I got rid of my car now after doing the math and realizing payments + insurance costs more than Uber.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 12:53 AM
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You're using an extreme to invalidate my point. Maybe you are REALLY large, so yeah, you have an extreme porn dick women don't like. But for the most part, women want the larger than average 7 inch with 6 inch girth. Yeah, they may not like a scary large dick, but average is not their preferred, hence why there are so many less average guys in the scene. It's not unwarranted insecurity IMO, you just have to observe the women's actions. The larger good looking guy is going to beat out the average…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 08:18 PM
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First off, we are talking about an inch here. Most women don't know the difference between 5 inches and 6 inches... But do know the difference between 5 inches and 7 inches. I've been around swinger environments plenty of times, and I don't think the reason swingers tend to be significantly larger has a lot to do with male insecurity that's unwarranted. Men aren't blind nor naïve, and pick up on subtleties. When you go to swinger events you can tell the women much more prefer the larger than ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 07:37 PM
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Don't even know what that show is, so no I haven't. It's pretty common knowledge though that nurses and hostesses are huge sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 06:47 PM
1

How does that remove her agency? Yeah, he's the most powerful man on Earth, and hell yeah that's attractive. How does that change anything? She wanted to fuck him, and he wanted to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 06:37 PM
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Dude... Just look at the world. If you want a perfect case study, go to a gay club where men and just left with men. It's like a fucking massive orgy fuckfest. Guys are sucking off dudes they literally met less than 30 seconds ago. Grindr is just filled with dudes fucking dudes all day long. When left to their own, dudes just fuck and fuck and fuck. Playgirl? Mostly gay men buying. Naked men subreddits, all gay dudes. Now go look at lesbians. When left to their own devices, it's abysmal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 06:36 PM
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Well we know as a matter of fact that testosterone has a direct correlation with sex drive. Ask any f2m trans, man who has low T and gets on test, or body builders who take extra. We know as a matter of fact testosterone produces a high sex drive. So the basic science already confirms this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 06:26 PM
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It baffles me how people can't comprehend basic social communication. WHen people say "Men like x y z" or "Women are A B C" They don't mean LITERALLY EVERY SINGLE PERSON. It's such basic common sense. But people literally freak out, "OMG NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT! Everyone is different!" It's like, stfu you autistic moron, it goes without saying people are talking in the general sense. Why do I constantly feel like I have to educate people on fundamental basic communication. I see it constantl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 06:18 PM
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That penis size thing is misleading. There is a reason why others result in 6 inches as average, and others 5 inches. It's how they measure and what demographics they do. People latch onto the single study showing 5 inches because it makes them feel way more secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 06:14 PM
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Airline hostesses and nurses are across the board hoes. Women who work on airlines are constantly having overnight stays in distant cities where guys on the plane invite them out. Nurses are around other nurses in highly intense situations and fuck every other nurse and doctor they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 06:13 PM
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Okay? Im literally just giving my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 01:30 PM
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Meh, I'm high N count, but I still prefer lower N count women for relationships. For purely primal sex, sure, a slut can do wonders. But for a relationship, it's sort of like she's fucked all the magic and sacredness out of her sexuality. Plus, sluts seem to just have a ton of baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:15 PM
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1) yes watching porn is literally objectifying them. Even when I do it, I'm aware that I'm literally objectifying them as sex objects. That's the whole point. Just because I jerk off to them, doesn't mean I have to like their career choice or ever want to date them 2) When I have sex with sluts, yeah I'm treating them like a cum bucket. I'm just excited to get easy sex with an attractive woman who I don't have to bother courting 3) And if it's not a slut, then the sex moves from objectification …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 10:50 PM
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That’s fine. That’s a trueism. We are obviously talking about my own opinion and reasons for it. It’s not like I’m trying to ban sluts. I love sluts when I’m drunk and desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:23 PM
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Because in my experience the type of chick who fucks strangers is not the type of person I want to associate with. Porn is also consensual but in my experience people who work in that industry are skeezy weirdos I find morally off. A slut is no different. If that’s how her values are, we are mismatched. Being able to open your legs and get easy sex means she places a low value on her own sexuality. I’m not down with that. Sex is the most emotionally connecting act two humans can engage in and if…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:59 PM
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Sure. Some do. No one denied that ever. Some midgets enjoy dressing as leprechauns and dancing on tables for entertainment. It doesn’t change the fact that the audience is still exploiting someone. Plus, even if a woman enjoys sex, doesn’t mean she had to fuck a bunch\ of dudes she barely knows. Boyfriends and friends with benefits exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:42 PM
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People tend to not be as confrontational in real life, because oddly enough, the only time I see people defending sex work, is when it's in online woke circles. Never in real life do I see people defend sex work unless a sex worker is around. No one wants to offend someone they are friends with, or even slightly associated with casually, by criticizing their career. Personally I've known 3 former sex workers, and each and every one of them have regretted it massively as a dark time in their life…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:04 PM
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It's just reality. I am confident I can speak for the broad general society, because the general society feels the same way. Sex work is low on the totem pole of valuable careers. Any attractive chick can show her butthole for money. People don't respect a "job" that just involves selling sexuality. That's cheap and easy. I'm sure society would judge me too if I started sucking dick on camera. Hell a gay dude once offered me 10k just to suck MY dick, and I refused because I value myself beyond j…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:57 PM
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It’s not hurting anyone. It’s just a trashy way to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:47 PM
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Just because you’re happy doing it, hell there are people stoked to run private prisons too, doesn’t make it any less trashy that she sells pictures of her butthole for dudes to wank to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:35 PM
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Well I’m talking to someone who has to get on the defensive to justify their position in the world. If you’re happy good for you. I don’t care. My whole point is I see sex work as trashy and that doesn’t change because I’ve ran into one who makes a lot of money from it. I and the rest of society still think the same. It’s not a respectable career choice even if you are the top 1%. Traveling preachers make millions a year but it doesn’t make it any more “good” just because they make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:34 PM
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Rarely do women ever make that much money. That's the top of the top. Most women will be putting their assholes online for far far less money But yeah, it's fine to do as they please. I still think it's trashy. It's literally selling your sexuality so dudes can jerk off. I think it's a trash way to get by on life making money selling yourself as an object for dudes to masturbate to. I have too much self respect and wouldn't want to date anyone who has so little self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:15 PM
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Well you don't have to be a wage slave neither. It's not either or. You can become a valuable person for society who contributes more than pictures of your asshole. Remote working is in anyways. I have an online business and can work from anywhere, so could these women if they cared much about their character and role in the world. Instead they just want to take the easy way out for 5 years, then get hit with a wall harder than any women entering their thirties ever expects to hit. Now she's was…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:08 PM
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Most don't even realize the consequences, especially if they get their advice online. They'll get all this pro sex-worker talk, being told, "Any guy who has a problem with that isn't worth your time anyways girl!" Only to find out the only dudes who don't have a problem with it are desperate losers, or total skeezers. That's before even getting into what it's like trying to have a normal job because that shit does get out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 02:55 PM
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Because who gives a shit if so,e blue haired fat Twitter head gets upset with you? Most chicks you see out in the world aren’t like that. Those who are, are fat and ugly anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 01:22 PM
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Twitter isn’t real life. I wouldn’t approach xer anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:31 AM
1

I think it would have to act just like a female too. Be able to walk around and behave indistinguishable from a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 02:10 AM
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I'm not talking about an emotional connection, but just a connection in general with a human. The touch of their skin, their effort and work, just all the people stuff. A prostitute isn't nearly as good as a LTR but it scratches the itch for young beauty, but ultimately it's still giving you a human connection as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 11:47 PM
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Nah I think the psychological impacts of simply knowing that it's a robot is going to make it hard for people to take it seriously. The way humans and robots fundamentally process information is radically different, so we'd just not treat it as real. Like how could you really have a deep conversation with a bot about emotions, knowing it feels no emotions and is instead just parroting back what it thinks you want to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 10:58 PM
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Dude if you just want something to put your dick into, there are much better feeling things than a vagina on the market. There is a reason men like having sex with other people. It's the human connection - A robot can't simulate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 10:52 PM
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That's the dumbest and most pathetic thing I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 10:14 PM
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Still the same shit... Sure there are degrees of "badness" on the spectrum, but at the end of the day it's selling her sexuality to men like an object. It's putting a monetary price on allowing men to use her in some way to fulfil their sexual urges. Trash is trash, but some trash is trashier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 10:04 PM
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No, I don't think that. But A LOT of the dudes looking for a one night stand are looking for a pump and dump with the hottest chick possible. Once male reproductive biology takes over, it'll even lie to the guy about his attraction to her. Then he cums and he's done. So it's common for guys to mislead women to be used as an objectified object towards orgasm. Not all men, but men frequently looking to bang a chick for a pump and dump is absolutely. I mean, I know myself and others. Guys would hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:58 PM
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Yeah I'm fine with chicks having a lot of sex, I just would prefer it if they had some self respect and standards, and didn't just fuck the first "hot guy" who pays attention to them. It's like if I were to fuck every fat chick who paid attention to me. It says a lot about the person's standards and personal value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:38 PM
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This is what bothers me about high numbered women. Like they can try to play it off as "Well I wanted sex and got it! What's wrong with that?!" And all I can think of is like, "Well yeah, men are trying to convince you of that so they can get easy sex from as many women as possible." Same shit with the pro-sex work vibe. That's all a men's creation, "Yeah girl, it's totally empowering for you to sell your nudes online for dudes to jack off to. Sure it's technically literally objectifying you in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:26 PM
1

I like the Nordic model, where they get two twins and put them next to each other with their own sheets and just share a comforter. It makes perfect sense. Those people know how to do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 05:36 PM
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From my understanding that was just a media driven idea, because they didn't want to show a couple in the same bed on television. Too risque.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 05:35 PM
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Instincts are the first part of the brain to react before the information goes to the frontal lobe, where usually it rationalizes the instinct. For instance, my instinct is to find fit curvy women attractive. No matter how hard I fight it I can't force myself to find a fat chick attractive. It's just not possible. My instincts are too tied to fitness as attraction. Scientists believe we are driven 80% by biology and 20% consciousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:40 PM
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Do what things? Reject people after being rejected? Sure. That’s a thing a lot of people do. No, that's literally not what most people do. That's what most women do. Go to a bar and observe the dynamics. Guys are the ones going around getting rejected over and over until they settle on one that matches them. Women lash out and reject a lower status guy out of frustration of learning she's not as high value as she'd like. The lower guy hitting on her is a reminder "WTF? This guy thinks he has a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:23 AM
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It's not a bad thing... This is biology. You can't logic instinct out of someone. Women are the prize, that's just reality. They have the womb. They want to be sought after the highest quality men as possible. They want to be seen as the Aphrodite sex goddess where men just come in waves seeking her limited eggs. Having only hot men accept her advances, means she's an elite reproductive product. Likewise, men have absolutely little to no problem starting at the top and working their way down unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:21 AM
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Why would you care if someone has different standards for themselves and someone they want to marry? I'm sure many women want a guy who's very stable and rich, but it's not expected she be super stable and rich herself. There is nothing wrong with different genders having different standards. I didn't get mad at my GF for wanting a guy with a good education, even though she herself doesn't have one. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. People look for different things in people, and what they cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:07 PM
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Dude, you get my fucking point... Don't use that as an excuse to dismiss the point. Fine, replace rape with any felony you feel comfortable with. I suspect my point stuck, esle you would have argued the point rather than look for a reason to dismiss it while personally attacking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:34 PM
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No one is saying she HAS TO, the same way a guy who got off on rape doesn't HAVE TO tell anyone neither. It's just things people like to know. I don't like chicks who have extensive sexual partners. I don't HAVE TO justify it to you. It matters to me that she wasn't using Tinder to fuck strangers every few weeks and being okay with being used as a piece of meat for men to use and orgasm to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:03 PM
2

Darwin had a really poetic part of his book where he talks about evolution is driven by the avoidance of the inevitable death. That every animal alive will die at some point, and it will be terrifying, but evolution doesn't care. Death is death to natural selection, be it quick and relatively painless death being grabbed by the neck, or a slow and miserable one of being eaten alive. But the end goal is all the same, avoiding the inevitable death.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:57 PM
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Yes, you are correct. From my understanding the study was withdrawn because the formula was flawed, and once corrected it showed something else. That's literally debunking the premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:53 PM
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No, I'm not arguing against him being a shitbag. He was, and doping had little to do with it other than hypocrisy of bashing other players who were doping and ruining their careers while literally everyone including himself were doping. I'm just saying "why". Usually everyone at the top of their field, seems to be egomaniacs. Some worse than others, like Lance, but overall they just seem like cunts. I think it's required. Normal people aren't so committed to being the best unless they will do an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:59 PM
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It's not that men don't have any nurturing capacity. People talk in absolutes when it's understood it's a generality. OF course men nurture and of course there are some who are way more nurturing than women. But with the bell curve for the two genders, the women are shifted right. So they are naturally the more nurturing group as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:56 PM
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Very few people who become the top of a field aren't mega assholes. It's sort of one of those traits that go hand in hand with being so motivated to focus so much time on something, that you obsess over it to the point of becoming the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:54 PM
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It's funny seeing people get all up in arms over this word. IMO, it is frequently abused. Debunked means you prove the negative IMO. But people will use Debunked to say "inconclusive". Like, did the Hillary Clinton do favors in return for Foundation kickbacks? You can't say, "They've investigated and found no evidence of her doing this. It's debunked!" No, debunked would be, "We investigated and found conclusively that she did not do this."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:49 PM
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You're completely just not willing to have a nuanced discussion, so I'm done here. Tchau
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:21 PM
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EVERY MAN is worth dating. EVERY SINGLE ONE. It's just a lot of men are insecure, timid, weird, and whatever other dumb ass baggage and poor life skills that they have. Once a guy learns how to better himself and learn how to reflect that efficiently, he gets the women he deserves. It's not lying or manipulation to learn how to better market yourself. It is the same as saying that sales is manipulation when what you are selling is defective and useless Yes, because you're falsely conveying value…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:24 PM
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Yeah, you can be a piece of shit with game just like with sales. You can influence people into scams and bad deals... But if you know what you're doing you don't need to be a scammer. You just learn how to better educate and convey the value of your product Game is no different. You should be doing things that does a better job at selling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:16 PM
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I don't think Game is manipulation at all... You shouldn't see it like that. It's like saying sales is manipulation - which it's not. A newb just doesn't understand how to be influential and convey their ideas with precision and movement. As you advance, the "truths" start clicking and you become comfortable going off the script. Game is no different. It's teaching people WHY things work one way and what to do to mimic things... Once you realize it works, suddenly that is the new truth of realit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:56 PM
0

That’s the other problem I have with it. It really is a lifestyle and unhealthy obsession in many cases. Some guys will literally spend hours a day swiping on tinder and perfecting their profile and get easy lays every week. I just can’t imagine valuing pussy and getting laid that much. Sex is a distraction from life but some let it consume them. I just don’t see the value. Dating three chicks at once? What??? That sounds like way too much work. One is more than enough with maybe a FWB. But jugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:26 PM
1

Happens on Tinder all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:12 PM
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They did a case study on this, and the women were shot down nearly every time. It went against what the people doing the study assumed, which is most guys would gladly say yes. On the flip side, the hot guy straight out asking women, actually had multiple women take him up on the offer When surveyed, the men said it they turned it down because it was suspicious and thought there was some nefarious catch. Like something is seriously at bay here. Women thought the opposite. They just figured it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:05 PM
0

One thing I never EVER understood about pickup and stuff is how people date multiple people and just rotate through them getting new sex dolls. I simply don't understand it. It seems so sociopathic or autistic -- as in they just don't have social connections at all. I've ALWAYS only dated one person at a time. Always. If the person I'm seeing doesn't give me the tingles, then they never will, so why waste our time? IMO the types who don't treat dating like this, are too caught up in some vain so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:02 PM
1

Because if being yourself means watching Anime porn, wearing furries outfits, and wearing a fedora... It's time you stop "being yourself" and work on becoming a better self. The first step to doing that is ditching all that weird shit I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 12:48 AM
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Nearly 400m people dude. If 1/100 were crazy, that's 4m crazy people, who all have the internet, and seek each other out.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/20 05:57 PM
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I’m really hoping it started off as a partial joke and if spiraled out of control and are now laughing about the situation.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/20 05:21 PM
6

Evolution favors hypergamy. Natural selection benefits when a person seeks out the best genetics possible. Alpha fucks; beta bucks, is literally an evolutionary perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 03:18 AM
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The duality has been discussed literally since man had written things down. Almost all philosophy and thought revolves around this duality. Neither are bad. Both are very important and rely on each other to build upward. It's fucking feminists who were abused by their fathers who have things out against masculinity
/r/AntiFeminists13/09/20 01:33 AM
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What's really always caught me as odd, is how feminists insist on caring about both sides, but this "fragile masculinity" is a word that literally reinforces "stop being a sissy and be a man!" stereotypes. Fragile masculinity is a term specifically supposed to infantile and belittle males. It's no different than if I claimed to be not a sexist, but then soon as I see a chick bang three different dudes I know, I say, "Oh that's just her skanky feminity". I mean, I would say that, but I'm also not…
/r/AntiFeminists13/09/20 01:29 AM
1

You sound just like the right wingers who thought Obama was a threat to national security and trying to destroy the country. The fundamentalist Christians who read between the lines that everything revolves around satanists trying to kill your kids. It’s all red string crazy Alex Jones logic. Trump is a historically shitty decisive president. His supporters don’t wish for certain groups of people to die. You’re crazy. Have fun in your echo chamber which spins outrage like Fox News for political …
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/20 03:20 PM
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No, it means he's an incompetent fucking moron of a leader who doesn't know what he's doing. That's what it means. It means he doesn't know how to lead a pandemic, NOT that he wants all these people to die like Hitler wanted to kill all the Jews. But you're mindset shows me this is stupid and I'm getting dumber entertaining you. You're so deep in the spin cycle that you just view everything like a misleading political spin headline. Like do you REALLY believe Trump wanted to defund Medicare? Do …
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/20 02:54 PM
1

Oh wow we are really stretching things now. None of that shows he wants you to die, silly goose. If there are external impacts of increased death, that’s not him having a will to want to kill people. The same way were if Obama refused to increase road funding to put medium rails on every road in America to prevent head on collisions and death, isn’t Obama wanting you to die. Breaking up riots and refusing asylum isn’t “wanting someone to die”. Is Italy wanting people to die when they turn back i…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/20 02:41 PM
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No. They movement doesn’t neither. Nothing about supporting Trumps movement is about wanting you dead. That statement is just as dishonest as when the right finds some crazy radical BLM members out of the millions and then claims BLM is about black supremacy and Marxism. Nothing about MAGA has anything about wanting you dead. Show me where it is on the platform.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/20 02:21 PM
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No they aren't. Stop it. Get off the internet. You spend too much time here listening to YouTube videos who profit off finding radical fringe people, then blowing up with outrage, to try and paint it like they are bigger than they are. These weirdos who literally are calling for Democratic Genocide are a tiny tiny tiny amount of people that's practically negligible. You really need to get off the internet echochambers and get help. Your perception of reality is skewed.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/20 04:04 AM
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I agree this isn't a hate crime. But also, wearing a MAGA hat doesn't mean they want you to die. If you think that, you're just an extremist who's delusional and stuck in an echo chamber. You're just the left's version of the delusional alt-right who think everyone on the left is a communist trying to destroy America. A little kid supporting the president during an election season doesn't mean he wants you to die. Believe it or not, Trump is a lot of things, but he's definitely not Hitler.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/20 04:02 AM
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It still shouldn't be a hate crime. It's definitely fucking wrong to steal political signs and symbols, and people should get their ass kicked in return or arrested when that happens. But let's not pretend like these emotional political actions are hate crimes.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/20 03:59 AM
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I mean isn’t this just generic good advice? Don’t let the past define your progress moving forward?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 03:49 AM
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I dunno man. Society seems to ignore them. No women are going to knowingly date male porn stars. Businesses will not want to hire a male porn star. Just like women it will get out. And honestly I don’t really give a shit about this conversation. It’s irrelevant to the point I made. I don’t give a fuck if women or men are stigmatized more. They are both stigmatized and it’s not a fucking oppression competition. People don’t want to date people who commoditize intimacy like that. It’s sleazy and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:28 AM
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They are completely ignored. Do you know of any? None have household names. Women sure as hell aren’t dating them. They are toxic. A guy who does male porn isn’t treated well neither. It’s seen as sleazy and gross. And America is puritanical but this isn’t one of those example cases. I can’t think of a single women with the slightest amount of self respect who would date a male porn star... in any culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:25 AM
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Dude the men are seen as sleazy losers. Women aren’t fawning over men who exploit women and get into porn to fuck a bunch of chicks. What’s with these non sequiturs? The subject about how people don’t want to settle down with a former porn star and then you’re like “only Puritan Americans” and then I’m like “n0 it’s pretty universal” and you respond with “but men have it so much easier! They get judged less” which isn’t only wrong, but irrelevant, then go on and just say how people shouldn’t jud…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 04:38 AM
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What? Male porn stars are universally seen as creepy. Chicks don’t want to tell their friends she’s dating a former male porn star. That’s trashy as fuck. He’s not a stud to women at all. If anything a female sex worker is more socially acceptable than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 04:31 AM
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Probably not high on the list neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:46 AM
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I think it’s less the n count and more then taking huge dicks for money on camera that’s a bit off putting for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:41 AM
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Uhhh I think it's pretty consistent for people not to want to date former porn actresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:33 AM
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The difference is, people will think that was an interesting and positive experience in your life, and something you can proudly talk about as you made it through your journey of life. Unlike sex work, where you either embrace it and hang out with swingers and poly couples, or hide it from everyone as a dark period.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:15 PM
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Porn is super short lived. These girls throw their lives away for a total of a few grand. Most actresses only do a few shoots before the weight of the reality hits them and they bail. No one likes Facebook blowing up with everyone you ever met trying to fuck you suddenly. They also just don’t last long because unless she’s really hot, they rather just get some new faces for cheaper. However the ones who are successful in porn see porn as marketing. It’s how they sell their escort services.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 04:43 PM
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The type of dudes banging female celebrity hotties have things to do. They have yachts, private jets, vibrant social life, travel, and live in active places. These people aren’t middle class dudes in medium sized towns who hang out at a local dive bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:46 AM
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It’s always drama. Bitching about custody, court, how their ex is raising the kid wrong. Most people just don’t want to deal with talking about that shit. You will always feel like an outsider friend listening to them vent, and it happens all the time. Meanwhile, you as a person without kids, are more concerned about skydiving in Norway but can’t because she wants to bring her stupid kid as a third wheel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:09 PM
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It’s all about the long game bro. It’s called the Woody Alan method. When you turn 40, her daughter turns 18. You can ride that out for another 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:06 PM
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Your last part pretty much sums it up. Since the gender dynamics are so different in this context it’s not fair to require strict equality when the situations themself aren’t equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:31 AM
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Then it wouldn’t be an ugly duckling. It would just be ugly lol. But I’m of the mind that anyone can be attractive with proper style. Well most. I mean some people are born proper ugly which can’t be fixed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 04:30 AM
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I mean, I don't really concern myself with guys, since I'm not trying to marry any of them. I don't sleep around much any more but I'm not against it. But again, it doesn't matter. I'm talking about what I like in a partner, not who I am as a partner. I like a girl who does anal too, and I'd never let her touch my butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:26 AM
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Ugly ducklings are the best... They spend their awkward youth learning how to build a good personality to get by in life, then they grow up and get hot, while retaining that good personality. Nothing more vapid and dissapointing than finding out a chick has been hot her ENTIRE life. It just means everyone laughed at every dumb joke, gave her tons of privilege, and men fawning over her. Uggg... Literally the worst partner imaginable because they've never had to learn how to actually navigate the …
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/20 08:45 PM
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That would fucking devastate me. Seriously. God, how awful. Because from the guy's perspective you're investing all this time, and she's painting an image of who she is. Only to find out you were not only lied to and treated like some chump, but wasted all that time in a sea of deceit. I have female friends who straight up talk about jumping on Tinder to get laid, but am no just realizing how common it is. Most chicks have at least done it a few times so long as they are moderately attractive an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 06:57 PM
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Yeah it's been discovered that kids who lie a lot, tend to have really strict punishing parents. So they learn from a young age to even lie about the most minor things, because as a kid they were just defensively trying to avoid punishment. As they get older, they'll continue to lie about little things as a way to avoid any negative reactions.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 11:55 PM
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That’s fine. But in my experience, most chicks don’t care that much in practice. They are more concerned about being used and dumped, if anything. Put that concern to ease and it’s rarely, if ever, a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 10:48 PM
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If a girl doesn’t want to date me because of that, then fine. That’s perfectly their choice and if that’s their standard, go for it. I don’t see it as weird. I just don’t like the type of chick that sleeps around. It’s not my thing. I can’t change that preference. I can’t get over it. I just don’t want it in a partner. I believe there are inherent different dynamics going on with different implications so I don’t see it as weird or hypocritical. If she does, that’s fine. Don’t date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 10:39 PM
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I will have sex with her. But then let it fizzle out. I’ll lose all dating partner attraction and only have lust, which is short lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 10:33 PM
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Yeah no kidding. It’s why I don’t date chicks who bang the first date. That said this shit just ads more layers of crap that has to be waded through during an already crowded vetting process. There is nothing more gut punching then kinda being really into a chick and then date 4 find out she’s a huge hoe. The dating pool just gets smaller
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 09:30 PM
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Of course but now it’s much easier. Just look how straight forward this girl was. Straight up just wanted to get laid and started asking around guys to come screw her. Meaning she probably does this a lot because it’s just so easy. The fact that it’s so easy means it’s way more common thus much more of a concern to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 09:25 PM
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That thread is pointless. It’s a single case and of course reddit is going to fawn over some stupid hit like this. That said, do chicks really just hit up strangers looking to fuck like that these das? I’m worried about dating now I’m on the market if it’s like that’s what tinder is like. I definitely want to make sure I’m not hooking up with a chick who’s done that. And there is no ways know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:41 PM
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If this is real, I'm so sorry for you. This whole post is nothing but red flags which you are trying to, for some reason you need therapy for, revive. This guy isn't normal. This isn't what a healthy, or even less than healthy, relationship looks like. Please, stop trying to deal with him. You're the other girl and always will be. He has no respect for you and just likes having some pussy on call living in his house.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 08:01 PM
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WTF?! This has to be a troll.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 07:40 PM
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I have to constantly remind myself that often when I get into these discussions where I think “are you fucking kidding me right now? You’re the most confident moron I’ve talked to all day” is usually because this is the internet and 14 year olds can get on and start arguing with me. Seriously when you encounter your next woke moron, go look at their profile. It’s almost always some mega beta male who’s into anime and white knighting. Sort of what pisses you off is a bit vertical for me. Because …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 02:27 AM
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Yeah your last part is so true. I rant about it all the time. Like I just don’t understand it. I legit think a lot of these people just have to be autistic which is how they don’t understand the most basic social interactions and forms of communication. It’s especially common with the woke types. The reason I think this is because if they weren’t, they’d understand what was being said. Which infers that they know what’s being said but intentionally misinterpret it because they don’t care about h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 12:45 AM
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The title of this alone shows that they don’t understand it. He’s confused as to whether or not people believe ALL women are some way. Like dude, it goes without saying not literally everyone is like that. There are always outliers. Everyone with basic social skills understands that everyone is different. People just talk in general terms in regards to a bell curve. Only an idiot would think literally every single woman ever would do X What’s weird is how they themselves don’t understand this an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 12:11 AM
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If you legit think they just don’t want police, then you have a bad understanding. They want police to focus on real crime, not doing things like traffic stops, j walking tickets, drug enforcement, raids for some weed, etc....
/r/PussyPassDenied24/08/20 12:04 AM
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Yeah it’s just effective and simplified messaging. It’s easier to have a one liner every gets the jist of rather than breaking it down into complex nuance every time you try to convey an idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 11:59 PM
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Yeah, and none of it is luck. If you want to be one of those dudes, you can be. Work towards being that guy, rather than someone who accepts defeat and doesn't even try. You're guaranteed to never be one of those dudes if you never try. I take it you're not very RP. Especially since becoming above average is super easy in America requiring just good fashion sense and going to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:06 AM
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Dude of course. Looks help. But there are dudes getting chicks way out their league all the time. Normal looking dudes are getting hotties chasing them leaving guys think “I don’t get how this dude pulls in so many hotties” Maybe you’re just blaming looks for a boring personality. It’s like a big dick dude. A big dick on a guy who knows how to use it obviously is going to have it easy, but a dude with a normal dick who knows how to use it is still going to beat out 90% of the chumps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:58 AM
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If you’re charismatic, no it won’t be taken as creepy. Ugly guys who have shit personality are creepy. Ugly dudes who can still control a room, get people to gravitate towards them, make poeple laugh and feel good, still can get women out their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:44 AM
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Of course. Looks helps a ton but there are tons of good looking guys boring As hell. Average looks and great charisma will best good looks with no charisma. I know when I was chubby I roped in girls just off personality but when I got back into shape it was like way easier for sure. But charisma goes a really long way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 11:09 PM
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Charisma doesn’t equal looks. Where the hell did you get that idea. Donald Trump is charismatic as hell and he’s one of the most unattractive people in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 10:36 PM
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Biologically, men are disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:05 PM
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I suspect many people know the nuances and details, but they understand it's also socially faux pas to openly discuss it. For instance, I know guys who are REALLY good at picking up chicks. Like top 2% type guys who just have such charisma, they get pretty much whoever they want. If you were to ask them details in how they game, it will usually just be vagueness. But once you get to know them and get them to open up, they'll start getting more comfortable explaining nuances of situations, descri…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 04:35 AM
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Because through life experience, you figure out this is overwhelmingly usually the case. No point in highlighting that there could be outliers. That goes without saying. But chances are, she's being used by the guy. I've seen this scenario play out MANY times. He gives her enough rope to think she can real him in, and he gets sex on demand. He never commits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 06:54 PM
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There are a number of reasons. When I was in my 20s, I learned the "secret boyfriend" was really code for "sugar daddy". Girls don't want to admit they were dating some 40 year old dude, or some trust fund bro who wouldn't like her friends, so she keeps him secret, and fucks him once a month when he comes into to town. She calls him her "boyfriend" just to make it seem more innocent than "escort"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 06:52 PM
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If you haven’t noticed it’s all the same arguments. Nothing has changed much. It’s the end of the culture war where everyone can simulate each sides argument ad nausium from start to finish. Also just because it’s outside your dating pool doesn’t mean you shouldn’t care what the other pool is doing. That’s a fallacy. I’m not trying to fuck my system but I’d like it if she set up high standards for herself to ensure she gets a guy who has high standards and not looking to just use her for pleasur…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 07:06 PM
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Listen I argue that I love sluts because it makes my life easier... but I’d never date one. Good girls make me work for it and prove I’m not a piece of shit. Sluts just need shots and some excitement. I think the guys you refer to are more worried about the ever so common secret slut. I’ve had it happen a few times. If I knew I was dating a slutty party girl I would have ended it at Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:57 PM
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Yeah I use Halloween as the litmus test. For me it was around 2005ish - give or take - when Halloween stopped being a big community event where all the kids left their houses and filled streets. Now Halloween seems to be dead where parents all walk their little kids around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 08:26 AM
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Yeah the crime wave of the 70s and 80s with serial killers and pedos becoming mainstream did a lot. Then the Puritan revival was able to latch onto this when people started thinking there were underground satanic cults killing all these kids. We just went nuts and started locking all our doors. Though I did grow up in the 90s and we were still let outside. These days it’s way more extreme. Like I remember when Halloween was a community event where everyone went outside unsupervised. It was like …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 07:59 PM
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Watching home videos of strangers interacting in America from the 70s is like viewing a different culture entirely. Americans were SO social back then... Like we had hitchhiking culture ffs where we'd just hitch rides with complete strangers to get around. It wasn't uncommon to just let kids go hang out with strangers. It's seriously wild to watch these videos. Like just reading everyone's body language you can see that even the quiet types are way less anxious. Regular people are just way open …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:31 PM
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Well if some people with autism stumble on his site and take everything literally because they don’t know any better, that’s not his problem. He shouldn’t be expected to tailor his writing to account for idiots who take everything literally. Also you read his book? I’m impressed. Most people just regurgitate cherry picked things from people they disagree with, from third parties who inject their own spin. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:42 AM
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No one goes to a blog about social dynamics expecting it to be scientific. Jesus... Obviously people understand this is a person's opinion. When people go there, they read his stuff and think, "Hmmm I this guy makes a lot of sense, I agree with most of what he's saying, because he makes some really good arguments." So yeah, people are going to give what he says more weight, just like you would anyone else. If a person you considered a really good cook started arguing why fondant is awful and no …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:48 AM
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Oh please... For every autistic you can find that think this literally proves anything, I can find 20 people who would say, "Yeah this dude on the internet makes a good argument for why guys peak in their mid 30s" Just because you hang out on weird corners of the internet that cherry picks and highlights outlier people as "the norm" doesn't mean it reflects reality at all. Is there even anyone in this very conversation claiming this is "proof"? I'm confident 99% of people view it as just an argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:32 AM
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Well yeah... He's obviously not speaking from a scientific academic perspective, but making an argument based of his own observations and then goes on to explain why he came to that conclusion. It's obviously a matter of subjective opinion. If you read these sort of articles and expect them to be scientific and academic, then I don't know what to tell you. I don't think there is anyone with basic social skills who would read that article and think, "WOW This PROVES men peak in their mid thirties…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:46 AM
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I don't think it's supposed to be scientifically accurate. He's creating a visualization for his argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 11:22 PM
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I don't know where all these 35 year olds dating 23 year olds are at... I rarely see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 11:22 PM
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Well that’s moving the goal post a bit. Sure, by that standard no. If that’s the standard it’s all conjecture... but every time cultures in the past got close to it from their relative perspective, they fall apart. So there is no reason to think it would work today. Historically however there were cultures who didn’t have wives, spouse swapping was no big deal, sex with tons of people wasn’t ground upon, and all those cultures died out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:08 AM
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We are talking cultural evolution through natural selection, not biological evolution. I don’t think you know how natural selection works. It’s not restricted to just physical genetic changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:03 AM
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It’s assumed. Natural selection would have selected it out quickly which is why it’s not seen often. If sexual liberty was a successful societal trait, then out of the millions of different societies in history the ones which were sexually free, would have risen to the top and become the standard today. As it stands now, we only know a few societies which are sexually free, and they are all basic tribes... none of which are successful, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:00 AM
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Long as she's not super masculine. But it is a soft preference she's petite and feminine. It's just more sexually exciting to have someone you can actually pick up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:31 PM
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Huh as always men are made out to be far supreme in every way I guess. What ridiculousness. This is such a stupid comment I don't even know what to say. Yeah but not half as much as you guys make out,otherwise I would gave never been able to hold a relationship when I was fat. Never said fat chicks can't get relationships But honestly no, fat women are far more desired than fat men. Look at the guys fetishising fat chicks, last time I checked women arent chubby chasers. Okay... No one is saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 12:47 PM
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Oh ahaha I thought you were talking about me using the term “woke” lol I haven’t heard slut shaming in real life unless it’s satirical or joking
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/20 02:45 AM
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Okay, what’s your point? Language exists to convey thoughts. It’s the best term I know of to describe that type of young overly absurd social justice highschool/college kid. If you know better ways to describe hat crowd, let me hear it.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/20 02:35 AM
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Jesus Christ that whole thing is just woke anger at “slut shaming” Notice the trend with the woke crowd. They all gather to a place where they spend the entire day discussing the “virtues” of people’s behavior. An entire sub where they just judge morality and so of course it’s entirely the wokie crowd.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/20 02:25 AM
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Aren’t they the ones who keep shouting about how “you’re free to say and do whatever you want so long as it doesn’t harm one, but you’re not free from the consequences”?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/20 02:21 AM
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It was more because I was drinking a lot to cure boredom with life. Once I had more fulfilling priorities, drinking became more of a liability than an escape. Total rat park effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 10:15 PM
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You can tell she has serious disconnect with the real world. You know how hot chicks and guys have the iron cage effect which prevents personality build because everyone laughs at their dumb jokes. Totally see it going on here. Her skills in conversation are fucking boring and awful... it’s like she never once tried to work on her delivery with that parking ticket story. That has so much potential if she had some timing and knew how to tell a story. And it’s not like it’s her fault, it’s just th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/20 10:14 PM
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Europe is already experiencing this... They are also unlucky because they don't have many poor neighbors. Eastern Europeans weren't migrating in at the numbers they needed, so they had to look elsewhere. Middle East was really the nearest place. Unfortunately they weren't like America's Mexicans. Latin Americans are culturally very similar so assimilation was easy and values were very highly aligned... But Islam and the West didn't mix well in Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 07:46 PM
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Addiction is nuerological. It's after long consistent use to the point that the wiring connections from the Amygdala and Thalamus. Basically, all these sub parts of the brain are wired to react VERY quickly and effeciently, which overrides your frontal part of the brain, which takes a while to process thought. Say, you see a spider, you jump without even thinking about it. Evolution didn't favor you seeing a spider and then thinking about it. Addiction happens with this immediate reaction part o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:29 PM
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I used to be a really heavy drinker. Especially once I started my business which was all solo and alone at home. It slowly moved to drinking every night, to earlier, then just waking up still drunk and continuing onward. Total alcoholism Then I realized I couldn't drink without getting absolutely fucking hammered and drinking for days. Then one day, I just stopped enjoying being drunk. I started having much more important shit to do and didn't enjoy being hungover or unable to do things I wanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:17 PM
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This is just rewriting history to make it more palatable. We often do this. We look back at history and try to white wash it away and justify things we did as actually being some smart purposeful move. People just were more savage and liked to get drunk back then. They weren't stupid. They knew you could just boil some water if you wanted to drink something safe. They chose alcohol for a reason, and it wasn't health reasons. You think Jesus turned water into wine for ceremonial purposes, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:14 PM
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Huh? No. You know there is a world outside of reddit where people have standards and aren’t a bunch of nerds who are happy to date skanks, right? Reddit is the worst place in the world to get a pulse on reality. If this was reddit, that dude would be shamed and attacked for having sexist standards blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:52 PM
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It's not worth mentioning because it's not about men. It's like me saying, "Bro, watch out. If a chick cheats with you, she'll cheat on you" then you chime in "Same goes with men who cheat with you!" It's like, ummm... Okay? And I agree, it needs to be stigmitized more. I gained 20 pounds during COVID and it's strange how it's literally only women who try to downplay it but my guy friends gladly give me shit about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:06 AM
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Yes it's an issue for men too, but we are talking about women specifically here. It's besides to the point to bring in men. But it's especially hard on women because the feminine is judged more for it's aesthetics. And in the USA, it's 40% obese
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 04:27 AM
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Again, I think those cases are exceptional. I'm talking about in general. The women I know who have a hard time getting laid, and report low numbers, overwhelmingly are fat chicks. Compared to men, it's more often fat women. It's not to say fat chicks don't get laid, but it's much much much harder for a fat chick than a fat man IMO. Things like "going hogging" are fucking outliers. They call it "grendade jumping" for a reason when a guy talks to the fat chick. He doesn't want to do it but does i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:34 AM
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I never said women like fat guys. I'm saying women are more likely on a bell curve to be okay with an out of shape sexual partner than a man. I'm just saying they are much more likely than men, which skews it. In my experience, more attractive women are more likely to be sluttyt than fat women, because attractive women have much more opportunity. I suspect the disparity is massive. No data, just personal observations from life experience. I wish there was data. A guy can easily provide other val…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:05 AM
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Could it be YOUR cognitive bias isn't suggesting the opposite? All you're doing is trying to discount my observations by insisting I'm wrong because I'm biased, and you're right by default. You don't offer any logical counter, just "you're wrong". I'm at least offering how I logically get to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:04 AM
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I've seen two people in my life like this. They just don't ask because they don't care, and they just assume their GF is a certain way based off how she is with him. Then one day they find out she used to be a massive slut in college and suddenly dude's NOT okay and starts getting weird about the whole relationship. The guy just assumes "yeah she probably had some one night stands, fucked bigger dicks, whatever..." but he's not thinking in a hundred years that she used to fucking LOVE getting in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:46 AM
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What data? They don’t have data on this. We literally have to go by personal experiences and patterns we’ve picked up through life. And again I’m talking in general terms. Since women are less visual focused and more mentally driven. Naturally more women are going to be more likely to be okay with heavier guys than men are, on average. That’s just the natural conclusion of the divide between those two different slightly different variables. This shouldn’t be some mystery to you. Just look around…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:41 AM
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I don't think there is data out there for that, but that's my personal experienced presumption. Men are VERY visually driven. This is why men watch porn... Whereas women are much more psychologically driven, which is why they read porn. Dudes just instantly write off most fat chicks as ugly, so they aren't even on the guys radar. A dude whos chubby, however, can EASILY compensate with a multitude of other things, whereas a women can't. She has to just hope some dude has such low standards, he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:27 AM
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In America, 40% of women are OBESE, overweight is closer to 70% it's insane how fat women are in this country. When this sub talks about women, they tend to gloss over the hoards of fat chicks like they don't count. They are really only talking about the 30% of women who aren't fat. Those fat chicks are NOT getting a lot of male attention unless they are really throwing themselves out there like proper sluts. But those are also the chicks who throw at average way down. If we consider just women …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:51 PM
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Yeah, they are all like this. They talk about it, but don't even get the slightest hint as to where to even begin looking. EDIT: NVM this has clues. "FindFace" interesting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/20 12:30 AM
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I mean there are outliers but it could have just been psychological. Getting faster gains, feeling confident, fast recovery, probably just put you in that mindset. But Test is really mild in the steroid world. It’s considered just the primer and base for a cycle. Usually the sides come from all the other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:39 PM
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That shouldn't be Testosterone. If you experienced that, you're an outlier. Being jacked up ready to fight like that is more of a Trenbolone side effect. That's the drug that gives people the "roid rage" side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:15 PM
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Basic social skills aren't going to get most dudes laid by anyone attractive. You need adept and advanced skills. Which is way harder to do than just pulling out 200 bucks and getting a hotty at your door an hour later to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:13 PM
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Yeah but when you're making a joke, you want others to be able to get it. If you say brass, it would be more obvious what you're saying. No one is going to clue together gold with bullet because you prefer to go out like a king. Too much going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:11 PM
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THe problem is men these days are getting sent mixed messages. Do you think men WANT to be soyboy beta cucks? Of course not. But all these feel good nonsense messaging they are getting is fucking with their identity. They are told not to be men, be sensitive, ask for consent even before talking to a chick, blah blah blah rampant feminism. Men adapt to the market. They want success. So they are just following what they are being told assuming it's all in good faith. Only to find out down the road…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:59 PM
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Honestly, I wouldn't mind the same exact thing. I have nothing to be ashamed of. All my past partners would say good things. None of them would say "OMG, he's a serial cheater who emotionally abused me!" At worst they'd just say things like "Yeah he's cool, just didn't work out. Sometimes he'd be a little emotionally distant, but he's still ultimately a good guy" It's not like I have a pattern or history that are red flags, because I'm not a piece of shit. So I don't need to create stupid social…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 01:17 PM
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Luckily I don't give a shit about karma... -40 downvotes realistically just means I have to deal with angry people who are actively looking to be angry because why else would they be looking at downvoted comments? They literally see something downvoted and before expanding it they are thinking "Yeahh... I can grab my soap box and virtue signal against this guy!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 12:57 PM
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No fucking clue. It's been done a few times. Some guys in Russia I think are the only ones who made it public. It created MASSIVE news in Russia because not only could you search for a chick to see if she was in porn, but you could reverse search a chick you found in porn. And as we all know there are A LOT of Russian chicks who secretly do porn specifically for American audiences. It was like 5x bigger than the Girls Do Porn thing here in the USA But for the love of me I can no longer find it. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 05:13 AM
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This bullshit online narcissism to always virtue signal rather than give true hard advice (like how it used to be on the internet) is creating issues for BOTH genders. You have guys being told what women really want are a bunch of soyboy pussies, which leads them to becoming frustrated and confused, and women getting pissed because the quality men supply is dwindling to the point that everyone's an incel to them. Same shit with women. They are being mislead that guys don't care about sluts "Oh y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 03:30 AM
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Who the fuck are the dudes who date chicks like this? I make great money and every single entrepreneur I know would run from a woman like this. I just don’t get it. Who WANTS to be with someone who’s so openly shallow and demanding?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 03:00 AM
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You mean 19 year old anime fanboys into feminism and no dating experience ARENT reflective of reality?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 02:50 AM
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People who always try to hand wave the past away piss me off. Like yes, your past DOES matter you fucking idiot. Do you walk into a job demanding a C level position and then tell them nothin about your past? Why is your relationship any different? I wonder if these same people would date a former violent rapist. I mean, it’s in their past, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 02:47 AM
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Most people don’t like to engage in conflict and avoid it. So even if there were clean cut professionals talking to her, they’d probably lie to avoid being attacked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 02:45 AM
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I don’t want to believe it. It’s either a walking stereotype or someone dedicated to the LARP because they’ve been at it for years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 02:44 AM
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The police and other security agencies already contract with a company who does this. A single picture and they’ll find you online and compile you’re entire life within minutes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 02:43 AM
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There is legit AI software which you feed in pictures and it will see if they match with anyone is sex work. Search engines have done a great job at burying them behind all the articles talking about the software and the devastating impacts it’s created, rather than actually directing to the sites. So it’s hard to find. I went to it once to verify if a girl I went on date with was a former sex worker because she freaked out when I made a joke about how she can always get into porn to make some m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 02:42 AM
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All those guys were downvoted and attacked endlessly for not being “sex positive”. People tend to love virtue signaling and acting pious but I bet even all those dudes being positive we’re either just acting a way they feel obligated to act or losers who would take anything. The internet is amazing at misleading people. It’s all idealistic morality rather than realistic
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 02:38 AM
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I don’t even think that’s what bothers me the most. It’s more just how unforgiving of the other party they are. Like they don’t even understand the concept people mean when they say “sometimes relationships are hard”. Like do they think that saying comes from arguing over drape colors? So soon as there are real challenges they just paint the other party as an evil hateful sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:22 PM
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Especially not the advice in those threads. It’s awful awful advice. Like 17 year olds who never dated someone longer than 2 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:01 PM
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Well I’d just approach the situation entirely differently. So sure, I wouldn’t marry her unless I felt like it was really really vetted and she went to the moon and back to quash my insecurities - which us doubtful. And of course all degrees of it matter. An Asian dude would probably have a really really difficult time ever being convinced his new girlfriend Piper Perri (a petite chick known for screwing cartoonishly large cock with ease, which most veterans couldn’t even take) and get convinced…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:17 PM
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I completely agree. That’s what I’m saying. People are arguing whether or not men are justified to have these feelings and since men and men we engage in discussion to make sense of our decision. I was arguing that much of that discussion overlooked is that the reasons you pointed out create male insecurity, which is fine. It’s okay to be insecure about things like “I’m insecure she will cheat on me or consider our sex life mediocre.” Contrast that to women, where they won’t admit often that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:39 PM
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Yes but you’re never going into a relationship blind and expecting to just select things based on probability. It just means, you go in expecting the most likely thing to be true and it’s up to them to prove otherwise. I wouldn’t just walk away from a chick because her body count, but I sure as hell will use that knowledge so I know what to expect and probe into things in places more careful than I otherwise wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 12:24 AM
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Cam whoring. Yeah, because it’s a highly competitive market that’s limited in growth. Escorting is an easy job. Really easy. Just have to be attractive. The “hard part” comes from living an expensive lifestyle, huge likelihood of picking up an addiction, and the outright emotional damage of knowing you work in an underworld for men’s darkest pleasures and have little real human value in life. A lot “fail” because they don’t realize the easy money comes with a lot of baggage. Often baggage that l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/20 11:36 PM
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This bitch is literally a prostitute from out of the country who relies on flying to the USA to make money. She ain’t no Craigslist whore. This lady just blows through money. I hope she learns to invest her high end escort money in her poor country wisely because her spending habits aren’t going to match her ticket price for much longer
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/20 11:33 PM
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You don’t next someone just because statistically are more likely to cheat lol. That’s like saying you won’t date an Irish woman because she’s more likely to drink. Don’t smoke screen the real reasons which are just a woman who sleeps around is because it’s a personality trait that’s a turn off, and makes guys feel insecure and it’s for a number of valid and less valid reasons. Let’s get real, on one hand it’s a huge turnOff knowing you’re girl was likely several dudes cumbucket. Knowing your gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 10:43 PM
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No it’s genuine attraction they are rating. The older a woman gets the more attractive older men become. I don’t think the attraction has to do with security and such. Whereas men just consistently find 20 year olds hot. It’s no wonder neither. It’s not like society doesn’t reflect this. Women spend their whole lives mimicking youthful features where men, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:40 AM
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Okcupid has the data on this. It’s quite interesting. As women age, older men look more and more attractive on a linear curve. However, for men, it’s hard in 21-23 no matter how old the guy is. It’s consistently early 20s no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 11:15 PM
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Yeah this OP is missing the mark. All his buddies may not date some 22 year old, but if they were drunk at a bar and some cute little 22 year old was all over him, he’d probably drop the 32 year old chick
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 11:13 PM
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I highly doubt the people recommending blocking actually do it themselves. It’s easy to recommend online but it completely impractical. Most normal people will just ignore the person. Blocking seems psycho imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 01:58 PM
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Well... so I clicked your profile to find said picture... and I couldn’t. But it’s covid and noticed you post a lot. It’s actually kind of odd, I’ve never actually scrolled through someone’s profile, but it’s like I know so much about you just by skimming over your profile. Why opinionated and mostly focused around relationships and social dynamics. It’s like you’re a lost redditor who likes reddit but get annoyed with how fucking lame redditors are. Anyways, I finally found a picture at the end…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:37 AM
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People notice their headwinds but oblivious to their tailwinds. They may be super sensitive to all the problems a of being a hot female, but not even realize all the massive benefits they have. It’s like when a hot chick says “life is great! Just be happy and treat people nice, and don’t be a jerk, and then life will be amazing!” Which is easy to say when your perspective includes people literally falling over themselves to make you feel happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 11:48 PM
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Age is just a number. PP size is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:52 AM
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6x5.25
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:46 AM
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Does that heart emoji mean you’re into me? Because I’m DTF and don’t got the Rona
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:39 AM
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I find it funny. Don’t let the goblins get you off point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:37 AM
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Just be yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:36 AM
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That’s cave man territory. If they aren’t fat, that’s when you can start throwing them over your shoulders with ease. Something taller chicks could only experience with Nordic power lifters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:35 AM
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Reddit always upvotes bullshit that makes them feel good and attacks anyone who doesn’t agree with feel good bullshit. The other day I saw a comment where the chick admitted larger than average dicks feel better and she was downvoted to hell, and all these women commenting were like “tee hee every girl is different, I actually like small wieners.” So of course ate this up thinking that this small dick loving fake woman was how it was in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:34 AM
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It’s always been like that though. The right has the same issue with religious and libertarian wakos having way too much publicity and influence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:51 PM
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There are A LOT of people on the left, and it's growing, who are also tired of those people. Ironically, it's mostly the more radical leftists and moderates... While the crazy are the establishment left. You have the radical left that like Bernie who are like "Stop bitching about identity politics! It's divisive! This is about class, not ethnicity! We need to unite rather than divide!" and then the moderates who are like, "Uhhh... I don't think all men need to be taught not to rape, white men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:41 PM
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This whole thing actually did a lot to realize how bad people are in general with politics. The NPC meme is so perfect. I remember when Trump won I was in Europe for work, drunk off my tits, and passed out early during election night among a bunch of Democrats Abroad in a rented movie theater. When I woke up, early that morning, it was the end of election night in America, and people were literally fucking crying. I remember thinking, "Well, maybe they'll learn that Trump isn't actually the devi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:35 PM
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The woke crowd is insufferable. They've completely devalued pretty much every word that used to hold weight, by casually using it in a serious tone with everyone they don't like. Some chick on Bumble called Trump the leader of the Neo Nazi movement in America... I was so thankful she made that comment. I love dunking on Trump, but anyone that uses those extreme hyperboles says they are part of "that" crowd I want nothing to do with. She was hot, but I knew enough to know I'd hate her within a we…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:20 AM
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One thing so damn common is how people completely ignore the tail winds and focus on their headwinds. Attractive women for instance, will complain about all the men who give them unwanted attention, but completely ignore the fact of how many immense privileges they receive as well. Guys as well, and I think men notice it even less actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 11:51 PM
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Women literally say this all the time and no one is getting mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:50 AM
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It was a joke. Of course women enjoy large penises. I just find it ridiculous how much social pressure they have that they constantly have to deny it and play ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:22 PM
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No shit? There is still a bell curve all little snowflakes fall under.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:15 PM
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I’m joking and making light of how women insist big dick don’t make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:50 AM
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No not at all... Because all my girlfriends insist "size doesn't matter! Only guys care about their penis size!" Why would they lie like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:54 AM
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had a huge dick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:00 AM
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I'm pretty sure most men actually have emotions and desire to be loved. Crazy, right? Hookup culture makes it harder for guys to find a quality women to settle down with until she's done on the CC
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:58 AM
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It should go without saying that there are exceptions to the rule. Give it time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:20 PM
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A 5 dating an 8 knows he’s in shaky territory
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:59 AM
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Marriages lasting are going up, especially among millenials. We've learned to wait and not rush into them right away based off the mistakes of the past. So now things are working out much better. Though I agree, they need some serious reformation before it increases much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:03 AM
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Long long ago in college, I was actually pretty surprised to find that marriage as a romantic contract was relatively recent. Most relationships by the elites were purely political, and by the working class, was convenience. A single person couldn't survive. The notion of women staying home raising babies all day was a temporary upper class - then middle class during our economic boom - luxury lifestyle. Most households needed two people to work and divide real labor. So people would marry usual…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:02 AM
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I don't think we are a long term pair bonding species. Even in communal "open" tribal communities, there is still bonding. Even though the women will sleep around, it was usually only because the primary partner of hers would allow it... But she also was mostly with the primary partner. Usually the men at the top of the social order had priority access to the women. So while there was some fluidity, there was still a degree of bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:55 PM
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Both. By far. Men frequently want relationships but often find it’s the woman who’s seeing other guys or talking to multiple people. When guys do this it’s a brand that he’s sort of a player. When women do this, it’s sort of normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:13 PM
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So do men though. It's obviously easier to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:05 PM
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You've never heard women make the claim? You must be lucky. So many stupid chicks think that they have high sex drives just like men, because they also get horny so "it must be the same". They blame the reason why men are all over hookup apps vs women is because of social stigma blah blah blah Meanwhile, every female attempt at doing a Grindr clone has failed to produce even a fraction of the volume of drug fuelled gay orgies Grindr delivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:39 PM
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Women, all the damn time... "Women are just as horny as men!" "It's not as easy to get laid as a woman as guys think!" Meanwhile, thirsty 7 dudes are all over tinder messaging fat 3 women for quickies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:35 PM
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I don’t blame women... I blame women for the denial of this reality. Men here admit what’s going on and outright explain why women are they are, thus how to navigate it. But women and BP try to deny these sort of things. The data alone shows men seek out sex way more than women, yet women are like “tee hee women are just as honey as men” but if that was the case, then they’d be all over tinder matching up supply with demand. We just don’t like hearing women pretend like they aren’t able to pick …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:22 PM
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It’s a figure of speech. People need to get over it. I can say something like “women like confidence” and then some snowflake just has to jump in talking about how she likes shy guys so therefor I’m wrong. It’s such a weird personality trait these people have where they can’t discern figures of speech being non absolute. Like no shit, not literally EVERYONE is like anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:15 PM
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Isn’t that an insecurity? “I feel insecure dating a slut because she’s been around so much she will just branch swing the second she has the chance, or at best, settle for me because done fucking chads.” One insecurity is just not secure will stay. The other is, unless you have a big dick, she’s settling with you in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 02:23 PM
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There is nothing hypocritical about having different standards and expectations. Make and female high N counts have vastly different implications and nuances
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:38 AM
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Conversation with a chick who’s an admitted slut: Me “I wouldn’t date a ‘reformed’ slut” Her “So I don’t deserve love like everyone else??!” Me “what fucking part of ‘I’ don’t you understand? I don’t speak for all men.” Her “That’s just not fair to girls who had a phase... no one should be alone because of exploring their youth.” Me “Are you fucking listening to me?”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:35 AM
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Yes, very easily. Wellbutrin is a mild and is the usual starter. Then they’ll try stimulants. Some people don’t like that, so then they have countless to play with. There are a ton of drugs with the side effect of suppressing hunger. They are really common among fitness people so they can easily manage their diet. It’s much easier when you aren’t craving food.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:23 PM
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They should just change prescriptions lol. There are all different sorts of drugs to do this, from mild SSRIs to stimulants. Shitting yourself definitely deserves a trip to the doctors. And if you want to lose weight by eating less, how is eating less not an option? A
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:21 PM
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There are literally drugs that your doctor prescribes that destroys your appetite and you lose weight. It blows me away that people still walk around fat. We literally can make it as easy as taking a fucking pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:09 PM
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I'd argue a lot of women do it because the guy has status... That's just a reality. In retrospect, I am sure a lot of chicks had sex with me just because my status and they wanted to get my attention. A lot of selfish lovemaking that they kept coming back for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:28 PM
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I’m not denying what RP men say to women. But nothing about it, is what you’re claiming, about “shaming women into settling down before the wall”. RP just points out what is going on. It’s not about trying to get women to get off the CC or get married earlier. Nothing about it is meant to get women to do shit. It just explains things how they are and how to make use of that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:09 AM
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RP men don't try to shame these women. If they are trying to fuck them, they aren't going to be open about how they wouldn't date a slut. They just pump and dump them... They are teaching other men how to find good women, and how to get laid by the sluts. None of this is about women. No RP stuff is being marketed towards them. If women are being slamed for being sluts, that's general society. Some small subculture has no practical impact on societies views of easy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:03 AM
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lol? sure? What are you trying to imply? Do you genuinely think RP videos about dating advice and picking up chicks, is meant to be watched by women so RP guys can shame them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 11:32 PM
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Those videos are meant for men. Not videos for women to watch and feel ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 11:21 PM
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Do you honestly think RP guys talk about this stuff to other women? RP men aren't slut shaming these chicks in public. It's a private opinion. They are trying to fuck these chicks, so the last thing they'll do is shame them, and in fact, they encourage them. You act like RP guys, who intend to talk amongst other men, are trying to "shame" high n-count women. What ridiculous thinking is that? That their little online community is somehow causing women to feel ashamed into settling down?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 10:48 PM
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I still don't get what you're saying. It's hard to get through that unhinged bipolar manic episode you're letting out. I hope you get medical help. You have some serious mental health issues and that's not the result of men. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:31 PM
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WTF does any of this have to do with the point I was making? Looks like you just took a left turn to make an excuse to rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:57 PM
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Doesn’t matter... we are talking about averages and bell curves in a general sense, and all you’re doing is pointing out exceptions exist which is a “no shit” comment. But by and large I prefer non sluts because that shows that she has a well developed internal value of self. She’s the type who doesn’t easily give it up to all the hungry attractive men, but is highly selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 10:53 PM
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20% of men are responsible for 80% of the offspring (as per genetic testing). The beta men were real and providers. They got some crumbs of pussy but the majority of sex went to the alphas. Even in tribes where people collectively raised children, infanticide was still a thing done by men who didn’t trust the child was his. We see this is modern hunter gathering communities. The men will just outright kill babies if they felt like the kid wasn’t his. This instinct still very much exists. Why els…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 10:51 PM
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You’re giving excuses. I’m not arguing they if why and how’s. Just that these things DO exist and subsequently create this social framework. It does exist, and for whatever reasons, doesn’t matter. It just does, and objectively women are more hypergamous than men, hence the stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 07:37 PM
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Hypergamy isn’t made up. You outright admit it’s true. People who are upset about it are losers, but let’s not deny that hypergamy for women is higher on the general bell curve. Men are naturally taught to sacrifice themselves for their family. They are taught to toughen up, go to war, work hard to provide, etc... women are instead taught how to navigate the world with more subtlety. Where they can’t do as much head on,, they’ve learned to do indirectly, so naturally hypergamy is a more utilized…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:55 PM
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And only half of them do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 02:00 AM
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It also makes easier to make $$$ which just adds to the awesomeness. Unless you’re an idiot. Then it’s just easy pussy, but still awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:26 AM
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I wish being gay was a choice. I’d sign up for that shit in a heartbeat. Just got avoid the shit states, which really isn’t much of a loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:24 AM
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Ironically, I think their little obsession with "The Office" as an example of different types of personalities really is spot on. I forgot what it's called, but the author isn't an RP guy, he just uses the show to highlight different personality dynamics. And one of them is the type of people take everything at face value. They don't understand nuance and context. They'll look at something, make an opinion, and that's that. They just sort of turn off. Then there are people who understand the sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 11:13 PM
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You know why men tend to excel in business beyond just the testosterone and stuff? Because men live life as a sink or swim, you either make it through yourself or else you’re destined for failure. Men don’t have an entire social structure designed to protect them and their womb. No one is running in the defense of men, or helping them out when things are hard. Men are disposable and seen as not worthy if they can’t figure out their path to survival on their own. When things get tough for a man, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:18 AM
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So why do those muscles get looser and looser tightness and grip as a woman ages or has kids? And they don’t really need to stretch to stretch, just loose the grip. I’ve been in open relationships. Chicks who get it big, “relax” those muscles way too much to the point of not being enjoyable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/20 12:43 PM
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Are you telling me muscles don’t change with conditioning? When I stretch every day, nothing is happening to my muscles?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/20 02:49 AM
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Ehhh.... I’ve had a lot of FWB who were sleeping with other people. I could easily tell once they’d start hooking up with a Ron Jeremy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/20 02:44 AM
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It’s an example. I was highlighting how people who don’t know about something tend to think they do, but end up using arguments that show they clearly don’t understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:28 AM
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Again, it’s like a creationist explaining evolution with you. “Saying that life just appeared out of mud makes logical sense. Got it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 10:52 PM
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That poster reminds me of a creationist trying to explain evolution. They just totally have some warped view of it... because, lol, obviously TRP is about hating women and treating them like shit right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:15 PM
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Lol FDS is trash. Literally no strategy at all. It’s just a space for women to bitch and give the female equivalent advice like “just be yourself! You’ll find someone!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:09 PM
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There are many different elements to game, but the overall and general theme isn’t to be an asshole. Sure there are some people hashing out dark triad, for some guys this will work as the mysterious and hard to understand game... as well as just elements of dark triad, but not necessarily acting like a sociopath. All these TRP concepts are more about knowledge is power. That it’s important to know what works and why, then go off on your own to figure out what to do with that information Just loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:22 AM
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Red pillers wouldn’t find that hard to stomach at all. Maybe you think it’s about being a sexist asshole who’s a jerk that makes women feel insecure, like every misinformed critic. Not being a “nice guy” doesn’t mean be a dick. Red pill guys goal is to create positive feelings in women. They do this by being exciting, interesting, and fun. Sure some women would joke about him being a “jerk” but it’s more playful and they don’t mean it in a bad way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 02:59 AM
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What was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:03 AM
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It’s a joke dude. It’s more about how men are driven to do more and more because they’ve picked up traits to help them compete in the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 11:20 PM
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When those NASA scientists were told that the only way they’d get laid was if they could land a man on the moon... they figured out how to land a man on the moon. Innovation comes from the desire of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 11:01 PM
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Is FDS female dating strategy? I went to that sub once, and it reminded me exactly of blue pill type dating advice. First off, everything was vague and feel good. Second off, it rarely had any strategy. It really highlights the different between camps. TRP is highly technical and breaks down the why, how, who, elements, whereas their shit is just vague feelgood nonsense overshadowed by grudges against men. There is no strategy. No iterative subjects to be improved and discussed. It’s just empty …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:57 PM
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Arent you a special snowflake? We are talking in generalities, like all social things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 08:24 PM
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No one is going to Europe just to slut around - well some are, but most aren’t specifically going to fuck around. But those who happen to go just slut around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 07:28 PM
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Go to the site “tag the sponsor” and see for yourself. A rich Saudi prince got pissed that these girls he got off Instagram would travel and always pretend like they were their on their own and never “tag the sponsor” or the guy who’s financing the trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:16 PM
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You’re an exception. We are talking about general rules here. Solo traveling is pretty much an orgy. For every conservative goody two shoes who won’t even kiss, there are 8 rich girls finally being able to let out their slut side.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:46 PM
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Pretty much everyone of those insta thots who you see traveling around doing amateur modeling, are high end escorts. Instagram is just their marketing platform and their “career” is just their cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:44 PM
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1) it’s so incredible how well this works. I always start out by being super non judgmental and open minded. If you make it sound exciting and no big deal, they’ll let it all out. It’s crazy how effective it is to figuring out where they sit. 2) Yup. Especially sexually, if you mix it up and she knows exactly what she’s doing no matter which direction, means she’s very experienced at different styles. 3) this has given me the most anxiety after living abroad. It is absolutely fucking unbelievabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:41 PM
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Have you seen that Netflix show where people decide to get married before seeing each other? That 34 year old who lives alone, looks way older, and talks about how crazy her 20s was... is a huge red flag. You can just tell by they their personality and how they view relationships and stories about their past. Does she know a lot of dudes from multiple different unconnected peer groups? Likes to party? Done a lot of wild things, usually with different men each time? Unable to maintain relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:32 PM
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Everyone has short comings dude. That’s just one element. Most guys don’t have an ideal dick size, but get by continuing the species. Short guys don’t need to be the ideal height to get by neither. No guy is ever going to be perfect in every category. Plus they could always just move to south East Asia if it’s that bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:53 PM
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I’ve met these people so much. They are just smart enough to realize it’s socially not acceptable to admit it. But they all do the same. The hot Christian chicks all have attractive partners. If looks wasn’t a priority it wouldn’t be to gatekeeper for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 01:18 AM
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Well exactly. Guys aren’t going for them for being good at sex, but because they are signaling they are “open minded” aka, an easy lay pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:54 PM
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We already have scissoring. People need stop naming already named things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:38 PM
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Really? I’ve never ever heard of an unattractive chick getting some hot dude to fuck her because she was known as being great in bed, but I’ve seen men get laid by hotties just because their reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:27 PM
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Wtf is tribbing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:24 PM
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Oh please... everyone is settled for. Most chicks with a regular joe, would gladly jump to rich, sexy, fun, Brad Pitt if he showed genuine interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:11 PM
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Are you honestly suggesting conspiracy theories around pedophilia are some new unique thing? There were serious people who believed hollow earth. That satanists were all over the place snatching kids up. In the 90s entire communities had satanic panic like it was the witch trials. Doomsday end time cults were super common, like every other year some group would all die. “Woo” and other shit science was at all time highs back then at an enormous scale. Again, people would often just make shit up …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:01 PM
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What? The printing press is a perfect example. Before that, only the elites could read and everyone else just sort of had to trust them. That one catholic dude caused a full blown upheaval of Europe because the printing press allowed for him to hand out bibles to everyone and taught them to read it themselves. Then everyone flipped out because they realized how much the church was bullshitting for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:50 PM
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Dude in the 90s there were wayyyy more bullshit conspiracies. Sure we have pizza gate and stuff now, but there were so so many back then. People would just make shit up and you had to just sort of believe them or not. Hell I remember as a little kid even we had outright false stuff, like blue pikachu behind the truck near missingno... or yellow 7 lowering sperm count. Blatantly bullshit things people just believed which today would immediately be crushed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:44 PM
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I dunno man... back I’m the 90s everyone believed it he earth was 6000 years old, satanists were widespread, aliens were basically a fact, people would believe the most insanely obviously inaccurate historical facts, conspiracy theories were like much much much much more widespread, I don’t know let’s just agree to disagree. I think today it’s much better and frankly less fun because whenever someone at a bar says something and people start debating it, someone just pulls out a phone and ends th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:46 PM
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Well yeah. That’s logical. Of course there has to be a lie first to disprove lies. I’m arguing there is LESS lying these days because it’s easier to disprove. Yes lying exists and crazy Facebook aunt will post some weird shit about “Obummer”, but man, in the 90s when I recall, there tons and tons of bullshit beliefs and convictions it was crazy in retrospect. Anything and everything was free game and out there, and since fact checking was such a huge task, things would spread easily and the more…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:41 PM
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We also live in an era where someone can say something and I’ve already googled it by the time they’re finished. Debates of fact used to be a thing in bars. People used to make claims and people would literally have long arguments over it. Now someone just has to google it and it shuts down everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:37 PM
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Are you new? You must not remember before the internet but lies were widespread and everywhere. You had to believe someone based on how credible and confident they were. No one was going to the library for three hours to fact check someone. So there used to be soooooo damn many false beliefs that were widespread it was insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:19 PM
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That’s why I liked centrist and moderatepolitics, so long as you’re being calm, people gladly disagree without fighting. It’s the big subs where the toxic people gather and who are just wound up looking to fight someone they don’t agree with.
/r/AntiFeminists07/02/20 12:47 PM
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Venture outward. /r/Tuesday is good for republicans who hate Trump, /r/centrist for more intellectually honest and calm discussion, /r/stupidpol for lefties who hate SJWs and Idpol Finally, /r/politics to get cancer. Those three seem to be decent places that aren’t filled with children insisting you’re an idiot if you don’t think Trump is literally Hitler and and calling old ladies racist morons is a good idea. Go to the later main politics sub to witness zero effort screams of repetitive pointl…
/r/AntiFeminists07/02/20 09:05 AM
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Nah... she’s just fat. I guarantee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 08:43 AM
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One thing that’s so common is people notice their headwinds and ignore their tailwind. That’s why you’ll notice in culture war debates both sides are talking past each other. Guys will complain about their problems but then women who don’t have those problems are talking about their problems. Then guys will say how good women have it and women haven’t even thought about it because they are only focused on the problems. Guys usually are just like “seriously you don’t see male struggles and female…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 02:08 AM
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My job is great. Unlike most Americans who hate their jobs, I can safely say I really like it. But ultimately it does come with stress, deadlines, leadership issues, pitfalls, and the fact I must be there at least 8 hours a day to keep the ship right. I much rather be with my kids and have the ability to blend in other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:15 PM
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I actually really like my job. It’s not like most Americans who have a job they don’t like. But even though I do like my job, I’d rather spend all day with my kids. In a heart beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:11 PM
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It’s fucking leagues better than going to work, being forced to grind out work, day after day, where taking too long a lunch gets you verbally lashed, office politics, and all the stupid shot that comes with most corporate office jobs. I’d stay at home with the kids and be house husband in a god damn heart beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:07 PM
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An unemployed man was the most shameful thing in the world. It was viewed as being a failure who can't support family. Wives would have to crawl back and live with her parents and shit. It was awful. Men just put up with shit jobs, because it was far greater than dealing with the aftermath of leaving a job because they simply just didn't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 12:58 PM
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Because it pisses off a lot of men. In the past we put up with it for cultural reasons, and some privileges. Now the benefits of being a bread winner are completely gone, so why the hell should I go through the dredge of work and shitty labor, while she gets to chill at home pursuing whatever the hell she wants all day? It builds a lot of resentment. In 2019, if you're a SAHM, life is good... OP makes it out to be women are with abusers and hate their lives... But most women aren't going to stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 12:56 PM
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Men are doing that because they know women will like it, and by not paying they run the risk of being call cheap or viewed as lacking resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 01:05 PM
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I feel like they are just saying that to not make it seem like a focus to fail on. IE they are hoping to find mr right but if no quality guys find them that night, she can easily brush it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 01:58 AM
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There is that saying, “if we can try them as an adult, then they can consent.” This is often why dudes who sleep with a, say, 15 year old can get minor slaps on the wrist. The court definitely isn’t stupid and understands the difference between legal and practical nuances. Context plays a huge part... was the guy or girl making an adult decision? Where they capable of making that decision? Where they manipulated? Usually these things are taken into account... the predation and role of the adult …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 06:50 PM
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This has to do with the difference between statutory and not statutory. The distinguishing tag “statutory” means it’s not really rape, only treated by statute as such... as in, yes believe it or not, 14 year olds can consent to sex and in fact will actively seek out sex. 14 year olds consent to all sorts of things, yet legally we don’t want 14 year olds having sex, so we legally remove their ability to do so - even though personally obviously they still can. A law doesn’t magically prevent someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:08 PM
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The same reason that having a kid without a learning disability is preferred. Ugly kids have too much bullshit to deal with, which I would prefer not to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 04:04 AM
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She said I was the first guy to give her a vaginal orgasm... which made her also a huge liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:53 AM
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Oh I’m absolutely confident her behavior was due to significant trauma. But as a horny dumb kid, wisdom isn’t a developed trait. But I no doubt suspect she was routinely abused. I know all she wanted was a boyfriend but the only way she knew how to get male attention was by offering them the one thing men desperately wanted. She was 17 and had a TON of experience with an insane amount of men. Everyone knows that’s not normal. Years later she found a nice guy out of college. He has NO clue about …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:52 AM
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You’re not the average 20 year old man then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:44 AM
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Feel bad about the other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:44 AM
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Because I’m investing a ton of effort into my child and rather have a kid who’s attractive. Ugly kids don’t have an easy life nor easy on their parents. Why wouldn’t you prefer a Brad Pitt baby over a troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 08:08 PM
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Every dude I’ve met who “experiments” with gay sex but calls themselves straight, always gave me really creepy vibes. Like deep deviant sex addict type of dude you’d meet at a sex shop movie theater.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:08 PM
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Uhhhh I don’t want ugly kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:45 PM
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I always asses how she’s going to age. Some people you can just tell once they hit middle age they aren’t going to be pretty. I’ve dumped girls because of this. Don’t want to waste another date with someone I don’t plan on being with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:42 PM
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Before Tinder there was Grindr. My fucking god that reality is insane. Being gay must be fucking amazing. Being a good looking gay dude is like living in paradise. My gaybro I was living with in Germany would literally just get notifications inviting him to an orgy, like that instant, and offer free drugs. We’d be at lunch and he’d just randomly meet some dude, get blown, and be back before his food got cold. It was literally a magical little gay device that offered any type of sex he ever wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:31 PM
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I knew a few chicks who banged the whole male friend group one at a time. That’s pretty slutty. The sluttiest though, was a chick who would bang several different dudes in a night back in College. Like the type who would fuck a guy at a party, leave to meetup some old dude for a quick while his wife was out, then back to the party to bang another chad then go home with some random dude. The amount of dudes she fucked at barely 17/18 was insane. She was the type I could text message at literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:59 PM
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Uhhh... being aware of how the world works is just good knowledge to have. It doesn’t mean men are just thinking “errr hypergamy. I have no shot!” It just gives men insight into how things work, to prevent frustration. So they can understand why things happen rather than just leaving them confused and blaming the wrong things. If anything it helps men do better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:28 PM
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My GF was the same way. Trust me things will radically change as you grow up, get wiser, change interests, shift goals, etc... 3 years ago I was traveling the world doing whatever the hell I wanted. I never would have thought that now I’d be mostly focused on such vastly different things and goals. Luckily I’m a guy, so my SMV gives me flexibility. For the ladies not so much. Once they start burning out the craziness of life and get wiser and shift priorities, it’s a little too late. Obviously t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 04:50 PM
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Yes. No kidding. There are downsides. I highly doubt these guys would rather be less good looking though. These dudes can still call up any of their handfuls of 7s and have sex on demand whenever and wherever. Oh but some sevens won’t because they are too insecure... oh boo boo.. he still can pick from his mountain of 7 and 8s banging the door on his tinder wherever he goes. Then he gets to settle down with a smoking hot 9 when he’s had his fill. “But it’s not all that great! Some women assume y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 04:32 PM
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It’s free market principles at work, which shows why corporation inherently can’t be a reliable model. If all men were selective, them every guy would be better off. The dating scene would benefit everyone. However, under this system, if some guys decide to stop being selective, and plunder by being non selective , they’ll get a HUGE advantage and get way more women and hotter woman than he would otherwise under the cooperation model. This now hurts everyone who’s continuing to cooperate because…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 03:10 PM
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Being one of those 130 must be fucking amazing. How’s that not amazing? Being part of an elite minority of other men who just have pussy and opportunity showered on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 03:04 PM
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She messaged 12k people. She went off looks. She lied when she said she considered the bio to look more respectable. You don’t go through 12k profiles and read them. She went purely off looks and even admitted only very handsome men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 03:03 PM
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Someone I know who’s a tinder pro says this is awful strategy. It can work but it hurts your score. Apparently tinder scores people based on who the match with. If you keep matching with fatties, then you get less chicks who only march with guys who don’t match with fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 03:00 PM
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The pressure most definitely still exists. I don’t know how old you are but once you hit thirties the topic is a much higher priority. Women especially start feeling the pressure as all the top tier men are suddenly sucked out of the SMP leaving behind creeps and dudes who just want to indefinitely date. As that quality man pool starts shrinking women start becoming more accepting of settling with “good enough” rather than keep searching for “mr perfect”. A guy she’d never settle down with when …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 02:58 PM
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Same I’m a progressive liberal, but far from feminist. Revolutions can’t be won with a bunch of pussy faggots arguing over gender fluidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 02:37 PM
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Successful poeple aren’t wasting their time on the internet arguing with a loser 16 year old why hoes are bad. Unless it’s me of course because my business requires minimal work to maintain lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 02:36 PM
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You act like sex isn’t a two way streak. These guys aren’t lying about their dick size. The women are attracted to the bad boy elements. The fact that the guy is a bully is what turns them on and makes them feel naughty because they know they shouldn’t be, which makes it more hot. These psychopaths in institutions getting laid aren’t tricking the women into thinking they aren’t psychos but are really just nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 02:27 PM
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Yes, some women do have higher sex drives than men. But as a group, men have higher sex drives than women. I was referring to the type of women who insist that the idea that men have higher sex drives is a myth. Those women are wrong. Men average significantly higher drives
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 07:39 PM
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I literally never said that. I clearly pointed out that there are outliers. Did you completely miss the multiple instance were I said there are outliers and general bell curves? Go to a gay party, and it’s going to be all circling sex, tons of hooking up, and craziness. Always. Men love to fuck so they make it all about fucking. Now go to a lesbian club party. It may get sexual, but never at the scale of what happens at male gay events. Entire industries are built around catering the male gay se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 07:35 PM
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Women who say that are outliers or deluding themselves. They just like to believe they have higher sex drives. It’s their solipsism. They don’t realize how insane puberty was for men and how much they had to learn to tame the beast. It’s not to say women don’t crave, enjoy, and desire sex... but on the bell curve, it’s not like men’s. Men have testosterone which scientifically increases sex drive. This has been tested over and over again. It’s literally proven men on average are much higher. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 05:51 PM
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Oh I see. No I think there that element. Whenever I’d drink every now and then it would come up that blah blah blah double standards. The more liberal college type the more common. I’m too old for it now but I used to hear it. Now online, it’s even wayyyy more common. Hence why I consider it more of a thing. Talking about not likening sluts or explaining it, will get all the super progressive types dog piling on the person. The internet cultures a lot of young people. Go read some dudes and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:40 PM
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Maybe not in you’re niche group. Broader society isn’t your small group of liberal college friends. You likely have a selection bias. Most dudes don’t want to date a slut. That’s not even debatable. Maybe you’re cool with it and your progressive friends, but larger society rather have a girl who hasn’t been banged by a bunch of random dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 05:28 AM
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I think it has. Men are more quiet about it. If a guy brings up he won’t date a slut or curious about her sexual past it’s always met with “it’s none of your business! Blah blah blah sexist double standard.” Men still have that standard because we understand the difference, but people still freak out about a guy judging a woman based on her sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:38 PM
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Society has shamed men for not wanting to date and settle down with sluts. So now men are just less public about it. They still largely don’t want a slut, and refer someone who treats their sexuality with higher regard. Just men aren’t saying it. Women know this. So women still lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:12 PM
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I’m not saying it’s a bad thing. Just noticing how women tend to live that phase way more than men do. I find men will get ready quickly then hang out with beers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:12 PM
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Well even AWALT has exceptions. The whole point of reenforcing that idea is that it's a waste of energy and time to keep an eye out for that one extreme outlier. People have limited time to process and navigate the world, and the chances that you found a unicorn are so slim, you may as well just pretend it doesn't exist -- even if it does. That when a man is learning RP, it's best just to frame his mind as AWALT and navigate the world assuming such... Sure, there will be exceptions, but by and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:37 PM
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I think the issue is split. First, people for some reason take differences as a sort of value judgement. For instance, saying, "Yeah testosterone causes men to have much higher sex drives" makes some people feel like that the higher sex drive on average somehow makes women lesser if they are one of those outliers that have a higher sex drive. They react, "OMG I have a high sex drive! I'm not a man! I'm a woman!" They feel like you're calling them something other than their identity. I think it r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:09 PM
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This may just be pointless because we clearly have a fundamental life experience difference. When I see people make blanket statements yet seem intellectually honest and reasonable in their argument, I immediately just assume that their blanket statement is just a figure of speech, and assume they don't mean LITERALLY EVERYONE. The type of people, in my experience who genuinely believe "Literally everyone" applies to social observations... Are a tiny tiny tiny minority. And of those people, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:51 PM
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I literally never once placed a value placement on either or... It's interesting how you just ASSUMED I was placing a value placement. Yeah, I was just saying I found it interesting that men tend not to care for that as part as part of the activity... That's all. Yeah, i don't enjoy it, most men don't. If some men do enjoy, fine, good for them. I just find it really really interesting on how you interpreted my observation with no value placement, and instinctively pulling some more meaning out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:14 PM
2

If that's the case... If someone reading ISN'T able to understand the distinction, it's safe to say that the person probably isn't competent enough to engage in a nuanced discussion. So they should be safely disregarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:12 PM
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Or you know, just have some social competence and understand what they are saying. It’s a moot truism to point out that their choice of words aren’t pedantically correct. Everyone knows what someone means when they make a sweeping generalization. It should go without saying that they are using the broad generalization to emphasize the broadness or their position
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:49 PM
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you can’t make blanket generalizations Why do we have to keep correcting people in this sub... "NO SHIT!" Obviously not 'literally everyone!'. It should go without saying, that when people talk about social things, there are always outliers, and everything is being talked about in general terms. We don't care that you know some skanks who love going out for dick every weekend. Most women are just going out to have fun and be seen. People fall on a bell curve. We are talking about general observa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:16 PM
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I'm so glad to be a guy because of this... I just can't comprehend doing so much pregame work. Before going out I feel like the guy from The Hangover doing all the crazy math at the blackjack table... Like right away I'm thinking, "Okay, what clothes do I have available? What fits best for this occasion? Great, I'll wear that. Now all I need to do is shower, shave, throw on the clothes, do my hair, and I can be ready in 20 minutes tops." I don't need to dig through things. I know what I own, wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:14 PM
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It’s obviously not that say to change. Our first line of thinking happens in the center of the brain... it’s like the lizard brain. The outer brain is actually the last region to have thoughts passed through. Often what we think is us being conscious intelligent thinkers is really just our lizard brain delivering a message and our frontal lobe intellectually rationalizing the decision. This is a well known process. It’s why addiction is so strong because addiction impacts that core part of the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:20 AM
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It doesn’t change the psychological pressures. For instance, we no longer need to fear famine and starvation yet we are still wired to seek out high sugar junk food even though we should be eating healthy and not ever craving bad food. The pressure still exists in our coding, the same way the coding still exists to be worried about fidelity and paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:01 AM
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You should also stop throwing around incel so casually. Being anti-feminist doesn't mean you secretly hate women and are massive nerds who are ugly and repel women.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/19 11:52 PM
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It infuriates me. I see it constantly... All they do is redefine the word, so "technically" they aren't whatever. Like, you can't just go around redefining words. And even if you did, it doesn't change anything. Like, "Go ahead. Change the definition of the word, so now you aren't technically 'racist'. Whatever. Either way, under the old original definition, and your new made up one, it doesn't change the fact that it's super shitty, wrong, and fucked up. Literally nothing changed about this beh…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/19 09:49 PM
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I get the anti-feminism shit... I'm also against radleft nonsense... But these sort of posts have little to do with the sub of pussypassdenied. This is just some anti-feminist piece.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/19 09:47 PM
2

In these cases, it’s hard to find a girl who just wants sex. When you have girls just approaching you and flirting they are interested in you. You don’t have to go out and seek chicks very often since all the girls around have some degree of interest by default. And most of these girls see you as a guy they want to date. Even for regular normal guys, girls looking for just a ONS NSA is rare. Some guys will play it off like that, but usually it’s a ONS where the guy just stops engaging and the gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 09:08 PM
2

Birth certificates don’t. This is a misconception. If it had any weight then women would just put down the richest guy she recently slept with. It holds little to no weight beyond evidence used to support presumed paternal ownership. In court it all has to do with whether or not the father took over the assumed father role for a long enough period for both the father and child have bonded and assume those roles. Again. This whole “don’t sign the birth certificate!” Stuff is just reddit misinform…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:54 PM
2

I absolutely agree 100%. That’s the real issue. I don’t know I just never had STD concerns. Some people see it like those who bought into the drug war propaganda and consider the risk of STDs as some sort of serious issue that can change a persons life and throw it into chaos. I’ve been around. Never an STD. Just don’t fuck huge hoes. They are easy to spot because they are sluts. You shouldn’t be fucking them anyways when you can get with other women who aren’t huge sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 07:33 PM
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What if when they came to the door you were really feminine with a high pitcher voice, acting like a huge virgin afraid to touch a girl? If you omega yourself, a female won’t touch you, no matter how hot. You won’t be able to turn her on if you act like a pussy. It just won’t get them going. Women do fuck men based on looks, but their personality has a floor minimum requirement. Guys, generally don’t for a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:27 PM
1

HPV has a vaccine and HIV is insanely rare. If you’re still worried about a blood born virus, you’re paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:52 PM
1

Yet most dudes will fuck her. Most guys will fuck a chick they don’t like. Stacey can be annoying and a shit lay, but our biology is going to tell us to pump and dump to spread our seed to good genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:41 PM
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Pedantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:40 PM
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You're an exception. Most dudes will fuck an HB10 no matter how annoying she is. It'll be a pump a dump for sure, but most dudes will fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:08 AM
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They need some ethos. No woman will go by just looks alone. The won’t ONS a guy who’s good looking but with a high pitched voice, acts like a doormat, and super effeminate. They need to be mentally turned on as well by someone who also conveys a sexual mentality. I’m not saying a mental connection as in hold a convo or talk deep. But the guy has to also have a personality. Guys couldn’t give a shit less. If it’s a ONS she can be a raging bitch who’s the most annoying woman ever — so long as she’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:51 AM
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I swear people freak out about STDs like they are all over the place. I have a pretty high body count, and never got one... And even if I did, you just take a damn pill and it's all gravy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:03 AM
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It's definitely a red flag, for sure. Like, "Are you single by choice? Why? Why haven't you wanted to settle down? Or is it that you just say that, but really, other women who got to know you, don't stay long with you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:03 AM
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Hi snowflake!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:59 AM
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Dude, when just looking to get laid, the chick can be annoying and stupid as hell. It doesn't matter. Men aren't like women who need a "mental" connection. It's all physical when it comes to one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:49 AM
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Not really dude... You can't honestly think it's the same. I've slept in the back of a car before as a kid. She was neglegent but it's not like she locked them in there with the windows up, left to die. She had it unlocked with windows down. It's neglegent as fuck, but not nearly as neglegent as leaving them in there to cook.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/19 01:19 AM
2

I agree... Never said she wasn't irresponsible, but at the same time, it's not as crazy as the headline and story make it out to be.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/19 01:14 AM
0

Yes, but it's not as simple as that, and has more nuances... When you look at the nuances, it's bad, but it's not as bad as you're simply putting it. The way you put it draws conclusions of a vastly different narrative than what happened.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/19 12:18 AM
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I don't remember the details exactly, since it was a while ago I read this. But I believe he was also underage or at least under 21. So he got in trouble and slapped with a few years, and the guy who lived at the house got hit with some other minor stuff. I think the reason for the harsh punishment came down to how she was at the doctors. Apparently she was interpreted as not taking the situation seriously. She was laughing at text messages and cracking jokes. It could just be how she handles wi…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/19 11:55 PM
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I posted it above. She partied at these people's houses with adults and her kids were told to stay in the car and play. It's fucked up, and really irresponsible of a parent. She selfishly just wanted to party while boring her kids out of their mind while they just hungout outside around the car. They ended up being put to bed in the car late at night while the mom kept partying. That morning, a guy who passed out there, went to the car before he left (he had to grab something out of it, which is…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/19 11:51 PM
1

She didn't leave them in a hot car to get stoned. She had it unlocked with the windows down. Someone else rolled the windows up and locked it, thinking he was keeping them safe while they slept in the car.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/19 11:39 PM
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There is A LOT more to this story, that people leave out to spin it into an outrage. Granted, what the mother did isn't good, it's also not as extreme as it was made out to be. First, they made it sound like the kids were locked in the car. They weren't. They were in the car with the windows all rolled down doing their own thing and hanging out in the backseats while the mother was hanging out with the adults. She decided to stay the night to bang some dude who lived there, and told the girls to…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/19 11:38 PM
3

Listen, I'm obviously not as obssessed as you are... Considering you even know these people's names, you must be part of that group that thinks there is war waging lol... So unfortunately I don't catelogue and save every instance of it happening. I just don't care enough, much less that deep into the culture war. But /r/shitpoliticssays routinely posts different violent actions that are upvoted... Literally all the time, around the clock. They even have a mega list somewhere of specifically upvo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 11:20 PM
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They do remove those users who violate the rules. And /r/politics routinely has upvoted calls for killing GOP, Republicans, etc....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 10:40 PM
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How is TD supposed to stop that? What if I went to the politics sub and pretended to be a radleft calling death threats (That sub has legit death threats go out all day and they are still up)... Long as the mods delete them, that should be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 10:14 PM
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I'm the same way. I found home with the dirtbag left over in stupidpol which is basically intellectually honest lefties who also can't stand the radleft.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 10:12 PM
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This is why the male widower is so popular in romance movies as a single father. 90% of the time his wife died and he’s taking care of his kids. It tells the audience that he’s a good father who got unlucky, not someone who failed a relationship. It makes the man seem like a diamond in the rough. A high quality man who's on the market, not because of failure but because of unfortunate fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:41 PM
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!remindme 8 hours
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/19 05:08 PM
1

People speak in general terms, and exclude the extreme outliers. It usually should go without saying. Like, if I were to say, "Hey dude, listen, no woman is going to leave you for a freckle on your butt!" But there are 3b women. I'm sure at least one woman would leave a guy for something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:52 PM
1

Oh for sure. They didn’t even refute me. I said facial symmetry and fitness is attractive and then they deliver a single study that shows there is no correlation between masculine facial features and fitness and symmetry. Like uhhhh okay? That isn’t what I said. I said fitness and symmetry are universally attractive, which the article agrees with. They proved my point. Them dragging in masculine facial features is completely unrelated. It’s a red hearing to try and disprove my point, yet ironica…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:47 AM
2

Okay. Have a good day. Take your toxicity with you. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:26 PM
1

Lol... no, I've just learned in my life that 0/10 times when someone is acting hostile and aggressive like saying things like "pulling it from your ass", it's a lost cause. Every single time. The person isn't having a discussion and disagreement, but have their guard up and are looking to have a debate and argument. Not my cup of tea. I don't care for it. It's all bad faith when the other party is clearly just look to argue. Thankfully people like you let me know when you start throwing around i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:17 PM
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You know what. I was prepared to respond to you. But your last sentence has shown your colors about how you engage people you don’t agree with. I don’t waste my time with people like you. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:04 PM
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Polygenetics is too complex. What we do know is animals including humans are attracted to fitness and traits which indicate healthy genetics, like symmetry. Attraction to fitness and symmetrical faces is consistent across cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:56 PM
3

What always seemed counter logical to me was how these people are against gender roles. For some reason they think it's inherently bad that masculinity and femininity are different. Or if they agree there is feminine and masculine, how do they not just logically conclude that those traits will express themselves on bell curves differently? I don't get it. Do these people think masculine and feminine are just entirely social constructs? If so... They are fucking nuts. So either they have a philos…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:25 PM
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Absolutely... especially younger men. Without a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:22 PM
2

TRPers and Incels accept blindly that the men chosen by women are done so for "muh biology" reasons when there simply is not much, if any, hard scientific evidence of this being the case. This is so outragiously wrong. Literally mountains of science exists for animal mate selection, which almost always comes down to this. People need to understand a core basic of biology. Our lizard brain is the front line of all of our thought processes. Everything processes there first, and our frontal "consci…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:20 PM
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You have to advise a gender role. There is no way around it. Look at the free market of dating advice. Every single successful model embraces and builds upon masculinity. Every one. If the "bloops" (what is that?) have a dating model which works, then it would be competitive advice. But it doesn't. It never does. It's always awful unsuccessful advice. It's why I think TRP may not be the best sort of space, a little too over the top, and not always nuanced enough... Is still something I'd recomme…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:17 PM
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You went through the effort to click my name and started going through my comments. That’s more than enough to know I’m dealing with crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 06:04 AM
1

It’s really creepy how obsessed you are that you even started crawling through my post history to find things to attack me with. Go away. I’m reporting you for harassment if you keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 06:01 AM
1

Okay bye bye. You can leave now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:56 AM
1

Cool story. Now go away and let the adults talk. You’re cranky and need to eat something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:52 AM
1

No one is going to take what you have to say seriously when you are emotional, hostile, and unpleasant to discuss with. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:46 AM
1

The structure is arbitrarily created through social natural selection. I’m sure men didn’t like the burden of being the breadwinner who toiled in the field from sun up to sundown 7 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:03 AM
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Their dating pool starts rapidly drying up. Strangely enough it seems to be a much much bigger issue in places like USA cities. The guys who have their shit together are getting hitched and women start realizing they can’t keep fucking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:03 AM
1

I mean he’s just being a stingy dick from the looks of it. He doesn’t have to go into debt but it seems like this is important to her, so he should probably do something for her. I’m sure my gf did stuff with other dudes in the past that she doesn’t like doing but I’m sure if I made a stink about it she’d at least take one for the team to make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:46 PM
1

If I were her I’d be upset as well. It would look like she’s saying from the outside. It definitely looks like the man cared more about the last relationship. And so it’s up to him to show her otherwise. In the meantime, maybe he should buy her something nice to shut her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:36 PM
1

Society isn’t arbitrary. Do you not understand cultural and social evolution? Society picks things which add herd and individual value. Sure some things can be random and arbitrary, but most things have a reason for being normalized by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:32 PM
1

I think it’s more about actually giving applicable advice while breaking it down in black and white ways. Every other place I’ve seen give advice completely sucks. It’s all generic feel goodbullshit. TRP will say “say exactly this and do exactly this and this is why we think it works. And once you get good enough you will get laid.” where other places are all about “yeah just be yourself and try to make her smile blah blah...” If people want to get rid of TRP they need to deliver an alternative …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:03 PM
2

Big difference between the genders here. I’ve NEVER met a woman who would have seven sex with a guy without personality and just looks alone. Yet every guy says he will sleep with a chick based entirely off looks alone. She could be the most vile and annoying chick in the world but if she’s hot enough a guy will at least try to put up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:57 PM
1

That’s well after the honey moon phase. Me and my GFs lasted about a little over a year. And that’s considered way longer than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:54 PM
1

Legal countries still have tons of forced sex work. Just because it’s legal doesn’t mean it’s safe for these women. It’s a serious issue in places like Berlin and Sweden. People just don’t like to talk about it. But the very nature of sex work is naturally going to attract a seedy world. Like if you go to the redlight district, it’s no mystery why all these women are Russian and Asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:49 PM
1

I don’t think they put down paying for sex. But a lot of their sub is personal development so it would make sense that they are trying to teach others to get laid. People go there specifically to learn that skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:46 PM
1

People give this advice to equip them for the real world. Telling someone to man up is teaching them how to deal with reality when it starts hitting them soon. And it’s totally fair to have ideas of normal and weird. Society cares. And unless you want a socially handicapped child unready for the world, you teach them to be normal. You don’t want to raise a bronny. You don’t want to normalize not condone such deviant attitude. You want them to succeed in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:28 PM
1

I’ve actually talked with a lot of prominent red pill guys from years ago for a project. Dunno if they are still around. But strangely enough none were these loser nerd archetype, or big bro assholes. They were all decent, rounded, and nice people. Only one dude I met gave me the creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:23 PM
1

Believe it or not, casual sex in America is at an all time low... at least according to the data. I think it’s just more transparent these days. Intuitively it feels like there is more sex, but in reality it’s probably just 10% doing serious damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:19 PM
1

I mean how do you even go about scientifically prove a lot of these RP “truths”? I think it’s just observational theory that seems to make sense of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:05 PM
1

You could argue that this deal was designed by women to screw men. You may see that as just easy for men, but there is an argument that this man HAS TO succeed. He has to care for an entire family who relies on him and only him. The burden of life relies entirely on the man, while the women doesn’t have to go through the tough career world. In fact this is why early feminists had to get support by ensuring that women wouldn’t be burden with the male roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:55 PM
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Still, those guys still want sex as quickly as possible, but they are obviously bad at getting sex so they are willing to wait and not press it. I don’t know a single guy who would want to delay sex months unless it’s some sort of dating trick or he’s getting it elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:41 PM
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No one really says how it happened. It's really annoying. The only information I got was it was during an emergency operation for the pregnancy. So a lot of things could go wrong. How the fuck she managed to lob the kids head off? No idea, but it wasn't a typical situation, which is why I imagine they haven't removed her license.
/r/AntiFeminists22/07/19 06:04 PM
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It wasn’t murder. She followed procedure, just rare crazy accidents happen.
/r/AntiFeminists21/07/19 06:29 AM
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It’s a giant pitty party. EVery post is about how much their life sucks and something something rape. It may as well just be a rape subreddit.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/07/19 02:37 PM
1

My mom says I’m the smartest goodboy she knows.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/19 01:20 PM
-53

Everyone needs to stop taking vaccines then because the amount of autism is way too high. It’s so obvious what happens here. I’d OP genuinely took her literally he’s one more shot away from eating crayons.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/19 08:37 AM
-127

Stop taking vaccines.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/19 07:13 AM
-145

It’s malicious because everyone knows she was implying he paid for it. But he took it literally, on purpose, to co ply but also send a message. That’s literally what malicious compliance is about. I can’t believe I have to explain this. Stop taking vaccines.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/19 06:29 AM
7

Most likely recording her admitting to knowing
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/19 10:14 PM
3

Once you assume the parental role, it's yours. I don't know about UK common law on the matter though.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/19 10:13 PM
5

How much is trump paying you to rent out that space in your head. I’m genuinely curious.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/19 04:02 AM
7

Talk shot and get hit... and hit. And hit again.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/19 04:01 AM
4

Consent is consent. If we think a teens brain can consent for sex, and drive a car at 16, if the person they are screwings age is besides the point. That’s a separate issue all together. If a teen can consent to sex with another teen, then they can consent to an adult
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/19 06:09 PM
4

Still. The teenagers are consenting.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/19 04:36 PM
3

Legally we used to own slaves. Don’t look at the law for moral guidance.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/19 04:28 PM
4

Well I definitely think there are nuanced differences between the genders, especially when it comes to how women at that age approach sex and the responsibilities they bear. There is an intuitive creepy predatory vibe when older dudes do things where the vibe is less predatory when it’s women. It’s just something people intuitively feel. But yeah, I stand by it. If some 16 chick wants to bang some 30 year old celebrity she’s crushed on, so be it. It’s probably for the best considering she’s goin…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/19 04:12 PM
6

The law is a terrible place to look for moral guidance. It’s frequently in conflict. We already know it’s a statutory violation rather than an actual violation. Hence this conversation arguing that statutory shouldn’t be deemed practical same as proper rape just because it’s a technical statutory violation. America is Puritan and made all these dumb laws to prevent teens from banging. But now everyone is terrified of being accused of being a pervert for reasonable law reform, they let these over…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/19 04:05 PM
3

Education. Once they Are educated on everything (and god help youporn already has) they should be able to consent. So I don’t know, 14 or 15? Past puberty and educated in sex. Obviously everything exists on a spectrum. But to say two 15 year hot young boys can’t consent is just wrong.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/19 04:00 PM
1

Well we can’t look at the law for morality as that’s often inconsistent. So just because the state of California is claiming they can’t consent doesn’t mean that they actually are incapable likewise just because Nigeria has 11 and Japan none, doesn’t mean it’s free game. Personally I say puberty and sex Ed is all that should be required. After being capable and educated, you have the knowledge to make those decisions or not. In Netherlands people are banging as soon as they Can and with tons of …
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/19 03:57 PM
8

Sure that’s a separate issue of a creepy older lady going after teenagers. But that doesn’t magically mean oh these boys can consent to other 16 year old chicks, but when it’s a 40 year old, magically they can’t possibly make a decision to choose to do it or not. Get out of here. That’s silly nonsense. This lady being a creep who hooked up with two teenagers who were willing, probably shouldn’t result in 17 freakin years like actual aggressive violent rapes. It always blows me away how Puritan e…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/19 03:48 PM
-10

Statutory rape is different than traditional rape. It’s why it has statutory tagged on. It means that while the act may not be perceived as rape by the parties, it is legally considered rape by statute. It can morally be fine and no one is harmed, it’s just that it’s considered such as act technically. Age of consent is 14 in Sweden. I don’t think teenagers magically can consent better in Sweden than California where it’s statutorily held to 18. That’s why it’s dishonest to claim these kids can’…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/19 03:45 PM
3

Hell the age of consent is 14-16 in most places regardless. Yeah it’s creepy what this lady is doing, but to say these boys didn’t consent to sex is so fucking dishonest. Every day teenagers are banging.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/19 03:39 PM
-34

That’s crazy, of course they can consent. These are teenagers who are well educated in sex by now, not some “child”.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/19 03:31 PM
2

It’s half a year old. I have no idea.
/r/AntiFeminists03/06/19 01:37 PM
3

A random guy on a powertrip who's above the law and has a history of making things worse.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 07:02 PM
4

Yahoo owns tons and tons of sites. Their search engine is negligible. It’s crazy how vast their network is. Them and AOL secretly own pretty much everything. It’s nuts.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/19 06:34 AM
1

She raped people? I thought she just drugged them and robbed them.
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 12:37 PM
8

I'm not Republican, so I used to just assume T_D was filled with racist white nationalists, becasuse that's what everyone said about it... Then I actually went and realized when they said, "People over in T_D are cheering on the death of illegals" or blah blah blah... They meant, like one or two downvoted comments. It's so disengenious when you find these outlier comments, but present it in a way that gives the impression that it's the general narrative of the area. I see it ALL THE TIME now... …
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/19 10:05 PM
6

Some stupid highschool shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/19 12:31 PM
1

Oh for sure... 100% The "pros" who treat their job as a career path do very well... It's the bulk of porn actresses who are just in it to pay bills because they don't know how to work which are the problem. But they probably take up -- what -- 95% of the porn population considering how much turnover there is with women?
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/19 05:30 PM
3

I don't think sex work is ever going to be truly "accepted' like a normal job. Would you be personally happy as a parent if your daughter became an escort? Wouldn't you be a little dissapointed that she's doing a job that requires nothing other than just jumping on a guys dick to be used as a fleshlight for his pleasure? It's stigmatized by and large because people see it -- rightfully -- as a low tier job that someone shouldn't be proud about. It's like any other career society wants to not enc…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/19 04:40 PM
5

Don’t know if they hate their jobs but it’s an open secret the industry has struggled with a while when it comes to addiction. It’s very common. Mentally well adjusted people generally aren’t attracted to this field. They aren’t usually okay with it or desperate enough. Self medication is incredibly common even though they constantly work against the idea by propping up big professional studios as examples. Also for every super model met art video you have 10 girls do porn which is a highly expl…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/19 03:37 PM
9

Yes some. We get it. There are outliers. That goes without saying. There are also men who enjoy getting kicked in the dick, so when someone says guys don’t like getting kicked in the balls do you also jump in and remind them that it’s not true because some men enjoy it? It’s redundant trueisms. The overwhelming majority of women in porn would much rather be doing something else with their lives that’s more fulfilling and respectful. Most women get into it because it’s easy money for unskilled wo…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/19 03:07 PM
70

She’s mad people are bringing up her marketing stunt she pulled to get famous? Like you don’t get to do that.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/19 03:03 PM
-2

I watched a documentary about this issue in Canada. Basically they had two significant issues surrounding this. First, PROVING they went to join ISIS. You can't deny someone without very solid proof that they went to join ISIS. It's easy to lie, because travel evidence gets foggy once you enter that general region of the world. The second issue, is they actually WANT some of them to come back, because it's far easier to monitor them domestically to gather intelligence on other local bad guys.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/19 07:08 PM
15

They fucking think PewDiePie is a damn Nazi now too.... Out of all the people, honestly, I figured he'd be safe considering how young his audience is. But apparently since he thought Jordan Peterson's self help book was good, now he's a Nazi.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/19 01:46 AM
53

When does a language get so far removed and diverse from it's core that it's another language? I've been to Scotland proper and I'm like 99% certain they aren't speaking English. I mean, some of the words line up and make sense, but most of it just sounds like gibberish.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/19 02:15 PM
1

Wow, so brave!
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/19 06:11 PM
3

That's like going to /r/christianity to debate christians and religion... I don't see the point. That sub isn't meant for debate.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/19 04:02 AM
2

I didn't know that was her real name.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/19 12:24 AM
6

You don't bang attractive chicks for anything else than being attractive. I'm not trying to talk a treatise on ethics with them.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/19 11:51 PM
10

You can’t quit that kind of crazy without at least dying.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/19 08:21 PM
23

I’d still tap it.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/19 08:03 PM
-10

Yeah it is... I'm pointing out there is no real "value" in being able to clean the house. It's a job that costs 100 bucks a month to supplement. If she's saying her jobs is to clean, then she has an easy fucking job. Hence why I don't give a shit about the ability to clean. If I can buy it for so cheap, it's not worth much. Most relationships are about the things you can't buy
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/19 07:50 PM
-6

Just get a fucking housekeeper if you must. Cleaning is boring and sucks. I can't blame my GF for not wanting to do that shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/19 07:44 PM
1

Get a job, Billy.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/19 07:25 PM
1

That chick is hot... But he can buy much hotter chicks -- multiples of them at the same time -- with his paycheck.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/01/19 04:32 PM
1

Yeah, that gets kind of annoying. It's not very practical.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/01/19 03:12 AM
1

To be fair, I hate when these arguments break down to demands for sources... People do it to me all the time, and it's really just a distraction and derailment tactic for the most part. Because then the focus gets away from the topic at hand, and more into the nuances and validity of the source, which gives them a ton of room to just find red herrings to further derail away from the subject. It's so common, I almost feel like it's an intentional tactic by dishonest people. Like really really com…
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/19 03:43 AM
5

I know this is anecdotal but when I was in college and partying a lot with frats, we'd be able to call it before it even happened. If the girl had a BF or she was being exceptionally publicly slutty, we'd place bets on whether or not rumors will start spreading that she was raped. They RARELY make it court. On one hand, it's just hard to prosecute without evidence which is usually lacking... But also, because the state will pull apart her story and once it starts showing that witnesses and testi…
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/19 05:28 PM
5

It's a game of stupid statistics. 2% are proven false in court... The others that are just dropped are never accounted for.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/19 02:30 PM
51

Usually these things result in the state just dropping the charges and quietly moving on... So yeah, at least there is SOME punishment. Plus, now he likely has a case against the state for misconduct that happened somewhere down the line which lead to this gross miscarriage of justice.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/19 02:29 PM
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