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Seeing him care for younger family members is nice. Another thing I’ve noticed is if he has pets (or even better if you have pets) see how he treats and cares for animals who are also helpless like babies. Is he patient with them? Does he pay attention to their needs? Is he kind and loving? These are some things I look for which could hint how he would act towards having a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:13 PM
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Yes, absolutely. It’s so helpful for dealing with people in general. Dating, family, friends- It applies to everyone. It really shows you who is there for you in life. So freeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:49 PM
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Thank you so much! Sending you the same energy, queen. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:46 PM
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Right! I know there’s a lot of scrotes out there and we hear about them all the time. I’m happy to share nice news for a change haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:45 PM
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Wow now she has four children!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:38 AM
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Okay I have a bit of experience with this. My default setting is also imposter syndrome. Here’s an example. Recently I was selected to present with a few other colleagues to our department which is a couple hundred people. When we did the final practice run I was stunned because one of the other presenters said “I kept practicing so I could sound like dulciori. I love how effortless it seems when you talk about your part.” My default reaction was what?? I thought I did a terrible job and was sti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:17 PM
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When I joined my gym they gave me a free consultation with the trainer. He told me that I was just on the edge of obesity and tried to sell me personal trainer sessions. My BMI at the time was like 21. I laughed all the way out the door. Thank goodness I didn’t take him seriously but that kind of reckless lie could give someone a complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:38 PM
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Omg I completely forgot about that. He was such a creep! She died in 1962. He died in in 2017. Five freaking decades after her death he still wouldn’t leave her alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:05 PM
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Yes, I understand completely. You’ve described what I went through in my last relationship perfectly! This internet stranger is rooting for you to live your best life and to have all the happiness you deserve. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:16 PM
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You’re welcome! I’d say the best ones are My Story and Goddess but you really can’t go wrong with any of them. She was an interesting lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:20 PM
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Sure thing! My Story by Marilyn Monroe. This is her autobiography. Goddess: The Secret Lives of Marilyn Monroe by Anthony Summers. Marilyn Monroe by Charles Castillo. The Secret Life of Marilyn Monroe by J. Randy Taraborrelli. Reading biographies is a hobby of mine lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:43 PM
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It’s kind of strange to have to figure out who you are underneath the trauma and coping mechanisms you’ve developed as a result, right??? I always thought I was just a broken person but it turns out there’s a reason why and it’s so validating to know that!!! As I was reading that book I was like omg finally, someone who understands me. I’ve been in therapy for years trying to figure out my mental health and I FINALLY know what’s caused everything. It’s like there’s a light at the end of the tunn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:08 PM
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In a biography I read about her it explained that she seemed to be looking for some type of father figure. The men she married were at least a decade older than her and she seemed to be attracted to people she thought were intellectuals or revered for talents outside of Hollywood. Unfortunately that left her vulnerable to narcissistic abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:12 PM
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I was recently diagnosed and it was such a breakthrough moment. It honestly explained so much of my life that I have been trying to figure out for a long time. Just wanted to share a book that made a huge difference for me: Complex-PTSD From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker. That book and working with my therapist doing EMDR have helped immensely. It’s completely okay to take some time to yourself to focus on healing. CPTSD has an enormous impact on the relationships we have with others, bot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:06 PM
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That’s absolutely terrible! So glad you were able to get out of that situation. It’s so damn disappointing that every woman I know has a story like that, including myself. And yet, the perpetrators continue to get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:40 AM
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He was particularly cruel to her and she was always trying to win his approval. The story goes that he wrote mean things about her and how much she embarrassed him and how disappointed he was with her in a diary and left it for her to find. Which of course destroyed her confidence. Personally, I think he was jealous of her and wanted to break her down. Also want to note that he was 11 years older than her. (I know how we feel about age gaps.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:37 AM
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I remember reading that she worked for many years with an acting coach, Natasha Lytess who was a lesbian. It’s speculated that they had some sort of affair. Marilyn was abused as a child and it’s also speculated that she offered her intimacy as a way to repay someone’s attention/affections. This may have been the case with Natasha. It’s really sad because of course there were always people around waiting to take advantage of her. She was also supposedly quoted as saying she had difficulty orgasm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:29 AM
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Despite her success in Hollywood, that woman really had a tough life. Terribly sad upbringing and was abused by men from childhood until the end. Definitely recommend reading one of her biography books- there are several good ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:59 PM
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😂 well you have outstanding taste! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:53 PM
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“The brother act is quite a routine when an intelligent man plays it. However, I soon found out there isn’t any such thing as brotherly interest.” This also stuck out to me. Men aren’t looking for friendship. Funny, the more things change the more they stay the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:42 PM
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This actually reminds me of a date I went on before finding FDS. We had been out a few times and I didn’t really feel a romantic spark so I offered to pay my half of the bill at dinner. This guy looked at me like I was speaking another language. He was genuinely SO confused about me offering to pay for mine... I’ll never forget the look on his face, like I had lost my mind. He ended up paying lol. And now I know that is how it should be! He was a really good guy, makes me smile and gives me hope…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:19 PM
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To score “cool girl points.” But yeah, the double standards are real. Everything done is for male approval. Both the things that women and men do is for approval of other men. It’s wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:15 PM
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Agreed! I think what is also needed is a shift in our societal attitude about porn consumption. Looking at all the women who are still defending porn in the original thread this post references really highlights the issue of how “acceptable” porn is and the violence that it celebrates. It has taken a long time but the lib-fems have been brainwashed by being told over and over again how normal and acceptable porn is when we know that it’s not. We really need to educate on the unethical, violent, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:36 PM
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Once again, thank you to our pornsick society. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:13 PM
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Yasss these make my day! Thank you, I started my day with a laugh. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:15 PM
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This dude really sent me a message saying I was beautiful and blah blah blah. For some reason he chose to finish it with “it makes me so sad to see someone like you is single on this app.” Uhhh what?? Did he think I would actually respond to that? 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:44 AM
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Don’t have a link but it’s Daniel Sloss. He has another amazing special called Jigsaw on Netflix which talks about the self love mindset and setting standards for dating. Highly recommend that one too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:42 PM
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Absolute goddess. Thank you for sharing this. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:16 PM
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Idk if someone compliments me I just thank them and move on. I think it’s unkind to directly insult them as a response. While I think it’s important not to get attached easily when dating, I don’t think that treating men less than human is the right strategy. Respectfully, I think a HVW acts with more class. If you’re not interested, perhaps block and move on? I like to save my time/attention for things that matter to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:22 PM
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Hmm I’ve actually never been asked about it. I guess I’d just be like oh this? It’s just some jewelry I like to wear. But if you’re worried, like u/Briannax said you can wear it on your right hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:07 PM
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Aww thanks! I’m a big fan of moissanite. This piece is from JTV - they are a really affordable option. For a splurge I love Charles and Colvard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:51 PM
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Thank you. ☺️ The stones are actually moissanite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:42 PM
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Damn. Your description gave me flashbacks for some gaming PTSD I wasn’t even aware I had. That fucking click clack keyboard sound. And then the sudden yelling like this dude in the video. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:39 AM
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I don’t know if I should be proud or concerned that I’ve reached this lady’s energy at only 29. Either way, she is my spirit animal and I love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:17 PM
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Me too! 😂 And the music is just perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:25 PM
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Yeah it confuses me too. Watching these terrible relationships and marriages where they are thrilled and over the moon... about the guy doing the absolute bare minimum??? I think many women like myself didn’t have the FDS education growing up or have good role models. What was drilled into me was the Disney fantasy and the “be nice” mantra. More women and girls need to be taught that there is a better way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:43 PM
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What a boss. She is completely right especially about once you reach this mindset there’s no going back. I can’t imagine living life any other way! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:55 PM
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🤢 The lack of self worth and self respect is really quite tragic. Sounds like she needs some emotional support in the form of a good therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:21 PM
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This is the positivity I needed today lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:30 AM
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I follow the handbook pretty closely. Is this not what the pre-date phone call/video call is for? I worry about the safety of meeting up in a park. Be careful out there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:26 PM
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Still on OLD but haven’t been on many dates lately as no one meets my standards. Things have been bleak. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:23 PM
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Good for her! She must feel so liberated. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:45 PM
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I’m sOoOoO good at giving head that it literally sAvEd mY LiFe! Pick me! Pick me! 🤚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:14 PM
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It’s times like these I thank the universe that I’m alone and at peace. Imagine living like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:37 PM
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Play stupid games win stupid prizes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:09 PM
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Oh I feel you!! It sometimes feels like a part time job lol. The worst is when you put in the effort to maintain a conversation and then they hit you with the coffee date or an offer to go for a walk. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:09 PM
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It’s so weird to me that it seems like deep down these women know that something is extremely wrong. They feel it in their gut. Yet they try to rationalize it away. Um, yes you can’t stop thinking about it because he violently raped you! I can’t believe those replies. SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:20 PM
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I agree. I never ever start the conversation- that’s his job. I also refuse to carry the conversation. If he is not asking me questions or having thoughtful conversation I unmatch. I also unmatch if he hasn’t started the conversation within a reasonable amount of time or if he lets the conversation die and it’s been a couple days. Remember, he is probably juggling your conversation with at least a dozen other women. If he doesn’t see you as a prize or a catch then cut him loose and on to the nex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:12 PM
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Lol these always give me a good chuckle. It reminds me of that meme that gets posted pretty regularly. Suck HIS titties 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:32 AM
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I am optimistic about the future because I’ve put in a ton of work to make sure that I am my own emotional support and that I can be self sufficiently happy. Don’t get me wrong, I’d love to meet a great man and eventually have a family one day. I really hope that I do. But I can’t count on just that in order to secure my happiness. It sounds like you’re heading in a very positive direction! You have ambitious goals and you’re working to make them happen which is something to be proud of. The dat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:30 PM
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I think lunch dates are okay but I get offended at the cheap low effort offers. That shows you the value that they put on you which is little to none. I’m not getting dolled up with my expensive makeup and clothes to look beautiful for a $4 cup of coffee that chances are he will make me pay myself. Here’s a funny story though. Once in my early days I got invited on a walk date and I declined and he asked why. Before I knew better to block and delete I explained walk dates aren’t safe and that I’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:10 AM
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Sounds about right. Always trying to see what they can get away with. It’s a numbers game for them and it’s just setting you up to accept their mediocrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:17 AM
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I took a look at some of your other posts about him too. Honey, I am saying this out of love. You need to leave him. You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:12 AM
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Sooo many low effort dates being offered. It’s terrible. This week I’ve been offered a couple coffee dates, an ice cream date, and a walk date. I don’t even respond anymore. 🙄 Just block and delete. Good for you for calling him out though lol. Out of curiosity, did he respond?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:08 AM
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Thank you! Women need more support from other women with a FDS mindset. My therapist has no idea what FDS is but she is 10000% supportive of all the standards and boundaries that FDS has taught me. Even in my weaker moments when I’ll ask her if my standards are just too high she says “heck no! You absolutely deserve all those things.” It’s funny she tells me I need to make a blog to teach her other female clients how to approach dating. I’m like uhhh it’s already out there lol I learned from the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:04 AM
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I’m scared for his dog! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:11 PM
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Yes lol. What is most baffling to me is that they almost seem proud of it? Sure, the place may not have been updated but it costs nothing to keep your home clean and organized. And then they started talking about the rats. 😧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:04 PM
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I am, quite honestly, at a loss for words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:07 PM
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I feel so sorry for this poor girl. In my former pick me life I was in a relationship with a gamer. In our almost five years together I can count on my fingers the number of times we actually went to sleep together in bed. Every single evening and as often as he could on the weekends he would ditch me to play computer games with his friends for hours and hours. When I told him it bothered me he would whine telling me that gaming is his “joy in life” and how happy he is when he does it and that h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:44 AM
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Aww you are so right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:47 AM
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What. The. Fuck. I cannot fathom being married to someone who would have these ideas about me. I can only imagine what kind of gift this scrote is going to give her for their anniversary. He would be giving me half his shit in the divorce I’d file for. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:40 PM
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Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:27 PM
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Credit: https://thoughtcatalog.com/bianca-sparacino/2019/04/maybe-right-now-your-journey-isnt-about-love/ This has been so true for me this year. I went through a disastrous breakup almost one year ago. And then Covid happened which, for me, was a catalyst to rebuilding my life. I tried OLD briefly and learned for myself what you queens have been preaching all along: it’s a dumpster fire full of LVM/NVM. So I let that go and am 100% focusing on myself and building a life just for me. I love this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:04 PM
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Just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone in feeling like that! And you’re absolutely right- this advice is for all relationships, not exclusively for romance. It’s hard to build those boundaries but it is absolutely worth it. There is so much power in having self respect. You are worth it, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:42 PM
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Smh. Honey, throw the whole man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:51 PM
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Don’t be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes! That is how we learn and grow. I too wasted my 20s on a NVM but it’s best to look forward, not back. This is a new chapter for you, fresh and ready to be lived. I’m happy to hear that your husband treats you well. You deserve it! 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:11 PM
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Great info! I recently took a CCW class and the instructor mentioned that the gel form of mace/pepper spray is better because it will stick to the attacker and won’t accidentally get on you. Also it works 15+ feet away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:17 PM
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Dead. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:02 AM
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Congrats sis! How did you and your husband meet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:18 PM
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Thank you for posting this. I think it puts into words how a lot of women are feeling at the moment. I know this really resonated with me. Sending you all lots of love! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:03 PM
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