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That one was the only one not funny
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:42 PM
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But isn't the same ideology behind spinning plates also state that an LTR is 'game' on hard mode
/r/seduction25/09/18 04:13 AM
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Well tbh i feel like this is fucked from the beginning. She flaked you and might not even be showing interest so why are you set on keeping it going ? Life happens and it might not have been her fault genuinely but you should only spend your time on girls that give you the fuck yes not the girls that you need to convince her just to hangout bc the chances are it won't go anywhere. So yes dont bother with chit chat. You shouldnt be trying to "warm her up to you" again. She either wants to move fo…
/r/seduction22/09/18 07:21 PM
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Nah you already put in the leg work in person. I'm not the guy who says only text for logistics. But at this point it would be demonstrating how invested you are in her opinion if she thought you were trying to be chatty. Shes the one who flaked the first time? Youre saying the door is open but she still has to walj through it
/r/seduction22/09/18 07:00 PM
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Something short and sweet. Nothing clever just to the point
/r/seduction22/09/18 05:05 PM
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Shoot her a text if you see the same pattern. Next.
/r/seduction22/09/18 04:40 PM
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Yes lots of having your life in order, frame* , humor, and physicality the basics definitely. But beyond that learning how to connect with women. Sure you can call it social skills but it's beyond that a little bit when you practice making real connections and lead women to open up. Remember with women sex is the ultimate vulnerability so you need to cultivate that in your interactions and make the women you approach feel comfortable expressing their own sexuality.
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:57 PM
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God I hope not. People should see how they work together. You have to find girls who are receptive but if you don't game you wont get laid very often or be able to make the most out of interactions with women in long term or short term relationships. I often say it is about a numbers game bc i believe when you understand demographics you can take advantage and learn where and how to meet more women who are receptive. Right?
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:43 PM
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Lead the interaction. Being vulnerable and open yourself shows strength ( you only hide your vulnerabilities when you cant make up for them ) and makes her feel as though she can open up to you. Never underestimate a non sequitur.
/r/seduction16/09/18 03:55 PM
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Asking the woman youre attracted to for advice on how to connect with her probably wont go well if she isnt already very physically or emotionally invested. Men and women think differently and you lose more "attraction points" for being not only SO invested in her opinion, but also by not being socially adjusted. Women want to be lead, so open up yourself and she will follow suit. Talk about things that matter to you and use statements not questions. You arent interviewing her you are connecting…
/r/seduction16/09/18 03:53 PM
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You said "when I" so I think that means you dont anymore? I hope its not because of a few shitheads that every community has? There are people looking constantly to practice their social skills for seduction, on this thread!
/r/seduction11/09/18 06:48 PM
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Hmmmm i have to disagree. Learning to how master your love life and how to have success with women is integral to a mans long term health both physically and psychologically. I wouldnt put seduction anywhere close to playing with toys as a child. Seduction is about learning to connect with people, and that is timeless.
/r/seduction07/09/18 05:45 PM
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Haaaaa! I hear that man. Fuckin aye. May i ask if youve always felt that way or was there at some point you felt like just streamlining the next gullible babe that caught your eye? Asking out of genuine curiosity.
/r/seduction04/09/18 05:00 PM
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Yeah. Butttttt on the other hand i enjoy the women i do attract a lot more. It's like a genuine interaction rather than when im pretty much waiting for the chick to shut up and get nakey
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:23 PM
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Is it better? Lmao i think so, but sometimes i find myself wondering. Learning to connect is great but in practice i find myself getting a little more beat up emotionally than i did when i was just going for lays.
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:04 PM
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That's really cool man. Have you read the book "models" he almost says what you just said verbatim. It's all about living an honest and attractive lifestyle and girls will want to be a part of it. I wouldnt quit approaching though, just be more of a day gamer. Going out with the intent to get a SNL is really not the best way to learn how to connect w women. But neither is waiting for that chick to fall in your lap.
/r/seduction03/09/18 10:06 PM
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Okay well there are 2 aspects to game. Inner and outer game. Think getting better at selling a product vs genuinely making the product better. I said "eye of the tiger stuff" refrencing inner game. But if you really are just looking for logistics, read 1 book and youve read them all. "Mystery method", and "the game" are 2 good books for outer game and logistics but theyre a little flashy and more of a narrative and ultimately less helpful than they could be, but great if you are just a total noo…
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:25 PM
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Right on so are you looking for a blue print of where to go what to say what to wear and when to act? Or more of like a metaphorical gotta get the "eye of the tiger" advice
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:30 PM
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I mean like how socially adjusted are you? From incel-Chad. Jk sorrta but i feel like you should start at the bottom with "the mystery method" or "the game"
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:53 PM
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Tbh i pretty much regurgitated everything from Models by Mark Manson. Ive read a loooooot of books on seduction and this is where i wish I had started. Im actually about to finish rereading it.
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:03 PM
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Honestly I'm sensing a lack of leadership in your interactions. Remember she wants to be excited by your touch and asking herself what are you gonna do next and will she like it. Lead the interaction in a dynamic and vulnerable way and she'll respond by being vulnerable as well (sex being there ultimate act of vulnerability ). I genuinely think if you led the interactions with clear intent (and maybe be a little more prompt about it) it would at least minimize the "friend zone" issue
/r/seduction01/09/18 06:25 AM
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It's almost like he specifically said he didn't want your 2 cents on that part?
/r/seduction28/08/18 05:47 AM
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Go for the date always the number will come naturally bc of logistics
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:23 AM
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SCREAMING ONEITIS
/r/seduction16/08/18 12:59 AM
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So what do you think is the solution here? For the other dudes out in the middle east ready to give up?
/r/seduction15/08/18 07:12 PM
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Well not to be rude. I do understand the gravity of that but* I would advise against letting circumstance dictate what you want and what you believe is possible. Nothing in your life is going to change if you don't take responsibility for it.
/r/seduction15/08/18 07:06 PM
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I hope so too brother. Way to not let circumstance dictate your reaction. Keep on man you'll get what you want if you persist. If not, prostitues dont seem so bad. Love is a just a propaganda.
/r/seduction15/08/18 07:04 PM
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Aaaaah I understand how the must be difficult but if we're being honest then that sounds like much healthier expectations than what I deal with in America relationship wise
/r/seduction15/08/18 06:37 PM
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The sex ratio link didnt work properly. And that all sounds harsh. How does marriage or courtship even work? I mean unless the population in those countries is taking a huge nose dive, then people are still fucking riiiiiight?
/r/seduction15/08/18 06:34 PM
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I do not know how bad it is. Please explain?
/r/seduction15/08/18 04:34 PM
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Im not saying the middle east is the place to really nail down your cold approach or that you have the same opprotunity you might have in the west. What I'm saying is that this "seduction" stuff is based on physiology and is held up by a lot of relevant and modern science so it can be used to just really make the most of the relationships you do have. Seduction isnt about trying to seats push the lay count but also learning to connect in a deeper and more satisfying way, with the women already i…
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:33 PM
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Completely disagree. This just shows me you cant be direct
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:25 PM
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Needs more upvotes
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:24 PM
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This post sucks. Its almost like theres a book out on how to apply all the laws as they are given
/r/seduction08/08/18 01:30 PM
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The "energy" isnt specific. I was trying to make it simple for you. When you walk up to a group. Are you nervous? Do you feel like they are going to blow you off and be rude? Do you feel like you aren't ready or don't have anything to say? Anything like that will play out into your subconscious behavior and women can pick up on it way easier than men. Cold approach is a very acceptable thing. People like to be shaken up w a positive experience. Most likely youre in 1 way or another "outcome depe…
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:25 PM
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Its definitely a thing. Work on yourself. Not to get new-agey or weird. But theres a quote "your energy introduces you before your words ever do" get plenty of practice just talking to people. Talk to everyone not just chicks that look attractice. Learn to joke and tease and be social with EVERYONE throughout your day. This will help your problem 10 fold
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:45 PM
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Yeah. Dude dont text her. Just make sure you have a definite date set for you 2 again and then pull back an exercise some patience. ALSO sleep with her if you can when you can. Its a coin with 2 sides. She either slept with you too fast or you took too long to make a move. You know which side you would rather be on.
/r/seduction26/07/18 12:58 PM
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Don't. I'm sure you would have to be calm and cool as fuck. Ive ridden the city bus in sketchy places and I've never thought of it as a good place to pick up
/r/seduction19/07/18 02:45 PM
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and nobody needed your shit reply so I guess we are even
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:22 PM
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Thanks a lot man. I see where ur coming from
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:41 PM
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I dont what are you seeing dude.
/r/seduction17/07/18 06:28 AM
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Well not only dippy I said 1/3rd
/r/seduction17/07/18 06:27 AM
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Youre telling me man.
/r/seduction17/07/18 02:18 AM
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It does! Thank you so much man. you're right. If im anything to women, im a rake so i could see it being the type of girl that I'm attracting.
/r/seduction17/07/18 02:17 AM
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Aye thats 1 thing the pioneer of this stuff got right. Mystery said you gotta. Have the ghost and the flame. You gotta be cool at all times but something triggers your passion and then youre up and at em
/r/seduction08/07/18 01:02 PM
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Coffee shops during the daytime w a bro
/r/seduction03/07/18 02:07 PM
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Bros need wingmen. A lot of people on here have poor social skills and have trouble making friends..
/r/seduction03/07/18 02:06 PM
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Idk man that seems to be opposite of what everyone else is saying
/r/seduction01/07/18 09:48 PM
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Yeah man idk what you are talking about at all. Models has had a lot to offer me. Maybe its the specific relationship you are looking for? Is your goal to just ride the smash train and make as many stops as possible or are you looking for deep and enriching relationships. Also I think you dont have the right perception on this. The idea is showing your vulnerability with the correct ATTITUDE . You have nothing to hide and show your weakness so freely bc you are so secure in your strengths that i…
/r/seduction01/07/18 07:58 PM
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No no no i would say the chick is the problem "Naive" isnt the right word. Insticntually girls know guys are expressing interest and trying to fuck them. Its not about "picking up on little social cues" its biology. My rule of thumb is that a guy will do as much as a girl will let him get away with. He didnt just say he was disappointed when he saw your pic. He said it to your girl who still thought after that comment it would be appropriate to continue chatting and being friends. Spin plates an…
/r/seduction26/06/18 03:19 PM
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Yeah i think the real reason behind it is bc you need to show women that they can trust you. Women already know you want to fuck them instinctually. So when you try the whole indirect game, you need to proceed in a way that shows them youre clear about your intentions. Worrying about technical errors and lines ruines the genuine feeling that youre going for.
/r/seduction15/06/18 06:40 PM
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Oh right on
/r/seduction15/06/18 06:39 PM
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Sounds about right. Dont forget girls are people too and react differently to different things. Hey um so whyd you call me onto this post?
/r/seduction15/06/18 02:12 PM
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Okay I agree with that making her choose yes or no immediately is whats happening. But i disagree thats a bad thing. Its called polarizing. And it DOES NOT work only if youre handsome. It depends on the opener and on the demographic. I would really encourage you to read "models" by mark manson
/r/seduction13/06/18 10:13 PM
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And where are you reading this? Indirect can be very manipulative and creepy to top tier women
/r/seduction13/06/18 07:05 PM
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How pretentious.
/r/seduction13/06/18 07:01 PM
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Lmao nice dude.
/r/seduction13/06/18 05:29 PM
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No no no! Guys its all situational. In my opinion, and experience I prefer direct. If youre indirect girls will "smell" it. Unless shes a dunce, she'll know what your actually interested in and promptly decide that youre untrustworthy bc youre concealing ulterior motives. Not a conscious decision, but its what you will often subtly tell her by trying to be indirect. Man up and be direct. Girls reward the guy who sticks his neck out, not the self proclaimed PUG
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:33 PM
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Lol sorry to break it to you but no matter how tight your game is, maxxed your looks, or how much social proof you have. Its right place right time when it comes to pick up. Girls reward the guy who sticks his neck out. Numbers game.
/r/seduction13/06/18 03:54 PM
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No worries. Not qualifying you but I'm just illustrating your lack of experience to someone who might be as new to this as you and looking for good advice. Indirect does not reign supreme lmao. you should get more experience before posting on this sub
/r/seduction13/06/18 03:51 PM
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Yeah you kinda just proved for everyone what a nimrod you are. Indirect isnt supreme. Btw whats your lay count lmao
/r/seduction13/06/18 02:37 PM
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Lol you must be drowning in it dog. Read a boon or something bc everyone seems to agree on that fact but you
/r/seduction13/06/18 02:36 PM
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Hmmm interesting take.
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:55 AM
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11 its often just a numbers game. Also why do you declare indirect is better than direct?
/r/seduction13/06/18 01:40 AM
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Omg can you guys stop doing a "what ive learned from approaching x women" so repeptitive and you can literally read thay from any book on pick up
/r/seduction02/06/18 11:53 PM
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true OP was not
/r/seduction31/05/18 06:48 AM
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Youre not so wrong but you are ignorant. Not everyone has the same social awareness or skillset you do. Some people genuinely need to have social interactions broken down to them or they will go wrong.
/r/seduction31/05/18 05:15 AM
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Add 48 laws of power and never stop rereading those 2 dude
/r/seduction28/05/18 02:38 AM
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okay so past this you gotta apply some critical thinking
/r/seduction26/05/18 08:11 AM
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Dont tell the bitch you love her but mske sure she knows youre in this to hit, y'all friggin met on tinder
/r/seduction18/05/18 02:53 PM
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Be just as blunt with her as she is w you. Tell her thats all nice and fun but you have no interest in just being her friend.
/r/seduction18/05/18 02:53 PM
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Both are incredibly important and you miss out on so much by neglecting 1 for the other. Life doesnt work in polaritites.
/r/seduction17/05/18 06:34 PM
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OMG NEITHER. Especially for the first date! You need to have a place time and thing in mind and invite her to that! By being so forth coming you put all the social pressure on her for a situation that she isnt unsure of. But by invitint her to go to a specific thing, you can A. Paint a picture in her mind of how it will go. B. Still show that you are being direct and clear about your intentions. C. Perfect seguay into a number close, if shes already agreed to meet you at a casual location, getti…
/r/seduction17/05/18 02:22 PM
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Omg dude no this is what your missing. Don't ask for her number and then later ask het to meet up. When youre talking and feel like you can number close, have a casual and fun date in mind and ask she wants to go. If she says yes getting her number will be 1000 times more natural and you'll already have a date planned.
/r/seduction16/05/18 04:19 AM
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Haha sorry but there isnt a shortcut to this stuff. Its gonna start with a few books and at some point youre going to put youself in social settings where you can have fun and meet people.
/r/seduction16/05/18 04:05 AM
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that was the best advice on this thread no doubt
/r/seduction08/05/18 03:02 AM
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Nice post
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:39 PM
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Grest post
/r/seduction27/03/18 06:31 PM
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Lol these comments are garbage. She knows she's in a different place in life but if shes still fucking around w you then she sees a maturity in you that is worth then the age/experience gap. Keep that in mind and HOLD FRAME. NOMATTER WHAT. In this particular case holding frame is vital.
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:15 PM
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This was a 🔥 post. I'm fucking tired of reading the same thing in different articles and the same questions being asking by the next slew of Noobies
/r/seduction19/03/18 03:34 PM
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If you don't escalate to sex soon you will absolutely 100% be friend zoned so be a man and take some action. Be direct with her and dont hide your intentions. Her response will tell you what she thinks. Also it could be a shit test. So remember OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE. She will pick up on and how you react.
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:12 PM
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If you don't escalate to sex soon you will absolutely 100% be friend zoned so be a man and take some action. Be direct with her and dont hide your intentions. Her response will tell you what she thinks
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:05 PM
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Hey I'm a bookworm and love reading about game. Can you please point me in the right direction to find a book about this stuff?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 02:42 AM
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No. stop. He's making improvements to himself and wants encouragement. It takes a lot of self esteem to do what hes doing. Don't try to talk him out of it just bc your case is different. Gtfo
/r/seduction10/03/18 11:27 PM
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Lolol no its a myth and thats part of your social conditioning. A lot of men would argue its more respectable and satisfying overall to grow old and be comfortable with yourself. "The special one" serves the female paradigm, and keeps women as the prime selector when it comes to mating. I know it all sounds like deep mumbo jumbo. But literally anytime in history (1940-) the idea of a special one was little more than a vague idea or joke.
/r/seduction10/03/18 10:20 PM
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Yeah the more I learn about pickup the more I unsubscribe to the "special one" myth.
/r/seduction10/03/18 04:00 AM
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Yes! 1 of personal favorite tactics. This is more about passive mindset. Repeat after me. OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE. Your mysterious vibe come from an under armour of self confidence. Its important to be direct with a woman once shes either qualified herself (a very specific IOI) or has given multiple IOI's. BUT UNTIL THEN you remain mysterious. You arent interested. Remember, attraction comes before comfort. So the mysterious vibe is what hooks. Then you need to move and be direct. This is to push f…
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:14 PM
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Bro youve been friendzoned gtfo no. She will not see you differently. You have to leave to get her respect and even then it can be a lost cause
/r/seduction04/03/18 07:02 AM
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While I agree entirely, he was asking for help with a specific opportunity and "strangers online" is kinda the whole idea of Reddit duh
/r/seduction04/03/18 07:01 AM
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Tl;dr
/r/seduction03/03/18 02:15 AM
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"What you read online isn't a representation of the real world" thank god someone finally said it in a seduction forum.
/r/seduction27/02/18 07:46 PM
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As someone born with a really goodlooking face from suuuuuch a young age. I cant agree with everything he says but it has been a ridiculous blessing that cannot be underappreciated in my life
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 07:44 AM
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Nothing beats meeting women in real life. I would even argue that you deteriorate your real life social skills by relying on social media to do the opener. Remember, learning about pick up translates into success in all areas of your life. In my experience, I dont have any* social media, and it has made me more appealing for the women I attract and am attracted to for the simple fact that its just 1 more thing that they don't understand about me. Remember you want to leave a lot to the woman's i…
/r/seduction19/02/18 04:02 AM
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Your energy introduces you way before you ever get to.
/r/seduction16/02/18 05:04 AM
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Buddy PLEASE READ therationalmale by rollo tomassi. You seem like your taking a bunch of self inflicted wounds.
/r/seduction09/02/18 03:25 PM
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Women have this same mentality towards sex. Its like the above comment said. Women are the gate keeper for sex and men are for relationship. Whats happening is that you are reversing the dynamic. And now bc of your feminized conditioning you are seeing it as inherently men taking advantage of women.
/r/seduction03/02/18 04:55 AM
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What do you mean by has meditating got you laid?
/r/seduction03/02/18 04:09 AM
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Lol at first I was taken aback by your reply and then I went through his post history too..
/r/seduction24/01/18 05:40 PM
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Thats literally what the PUA community teaches. I would submit that they just have a more or less working model to base whether they are having a successful interaction or not. You should really try to be less close minded and at least look into the other side before you openly bash ideas. But I mean.... Do you booboo
/r/seduction24/01/18 04:37 PM
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Lol most of the information is free nowadays if you have an electronic device. If you really want to "invest financially" you can still get the bulk of the ideas in about 25 bucks.
/r/seduction24/01/18 04:33 PM
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Yes definitely. Especially today where the techniques have been discussed over and over again. They are really refined now and the emphasis is less on automatic behavior and a response sheet. Game and seduction is way more about a core set of beliefs that reflect in your outward behavior making your interactions with women natural, successful, and fulfilling. Search inner game vs outer game. Also see abundance mentality.
/r/seduction24/01/18 04:32 PM
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Yah sometimes there are nuggets of truth on here. Then we see comments like the 1 above. Some dude is actively asking for sex from your woman. Whether your insecure or not, you can't allow that. And your partner should demand that those around her respect you as well as her. Think about if someone were to text you openly disrespecting her. Of course blowing it off and showing that you don't care is the first step. But someone persisting in disrespecting your partner should undoubtedly be brought…
/r/seduction23/12/17 05:06 AM
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You couldnt have beend more entertainingly wrong. You're assuming everyone who reads this post is interested in meditation for the same purposes. Are you aware of how many different techniques and methods are accurately labelled "meditation" This was a bold post for someone who's obviously sharing a vaguely educated and biased opinion.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 04:03 AM
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Yo I was not ready for that.
/r/seduction13/11/17 06:39 PM
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Also great for relationships. I started wearing a mentality that I expect more from women in general and that my girlfriend appreciates my leadership and decisiveness and it has been so far my most successful relationship
/r/seduction08/11/17 03:39 PM
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Oh is that what you call thinking? Just keep following your "alpha" herd 😂
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 01:27 PM
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"Most likely you" 😂👌👏 okay GOOD luck mr sheeple
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 12:26 PM
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And your acceptance of inaccurate beliefs about personal character will lead you to an ultimately unfulfilling life.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 12:06 PM
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Y'all are only entrapping yourself into this belief system and it goes from being heroic to pathetic all in the same sentence AWALT
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 12:03 PM
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You're too young for this shit go play neopets
/r/askTRP27/10/17 10:01 PM
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Really fucking good points my dude. Needed to read that.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 04:54 AM
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