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It’s not a life that interests me. It’s not a relationship situation that interests me. But i can see that it actually does work for some people and that’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:05 AM
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Honestly, the equivalent for women is just to show off her physical aspects. Wear a low cut dress in a photo, wear a dress that accentuates your curves well, or do one of those photos where her body is like 3/4 turned around and she’s looking behind her back so it really shows off her ass. Doing any one of these will make any butterface get even more men thirsting over her and find her body hot. Remember women just get tons of attention regardless from men, it’s just finding men who she also is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:00 PM
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The 1950s was not this end all be all of relationships. Everyone thinks “oh women were more loyal” “oh they weren’t promiscuous”. Meanwhile, there was that article about the mailman who had affairs with like tons of women on his route during the 50s while their husbands were at work. Ever hear the joke “how tall was the milkman”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 01:10 AM
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Could not have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:37 AM
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Most of the time, yes. Unless that friendship involves sex in some way,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 07:14 PM
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I maybe knew one that punched above his weight a lot of the time and was rejected just about every time. He had a super weak chin, even after losing weight he didn’t get more attractive. He was confident, and he was had no fear of rejection and still did it. He also punched within his weight too, and below some of the time. He eventually found casual sex with a girl who was super duper overweight (I saw him bring her home), so maybe he could have been more successful with fat chicks. I don’t kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 09:44 PM
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I wasn’t meaning you’d like him in a romantic or sexual sense, but as a friend. It’s important to understand that there is still a looks threshold, even if it’s lower for LTRs than for casual sex, it’s still not “be a 3-4/10”. Personality only counts for so much, and really once you’ve hit the “plain” or average level is when personality can net you a gf, even one that’s more attractive than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:17 PM
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100%, I can’t walk into a family already kind of created and just pick up where he left off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:15 PM
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I gotta tell you man, I’ve been doing all you said on your list for well over a decade and Ive never been able to get casual sex ever. I’m 5’6, and I have an average face. No grooming habits, no style, no gym plans, no haircuts is gonna make me physically attractive to a “decent set of women” because you can’t fix the glaring physical problems of again being 5’6 and average looking. And yes I always go for women shorter than me, i wasn’t trying to hook up with 5’9 chicks, I’m not even attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:20 AM
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Yup. Cougars aren’t desperate for sex or attention, because it’s implied that the cougars are women who are attractive for their age. They’re the older women who spent time and money on their appearance daily and continue to have above average grooming and fitness habits. I worked front desk at a spa in college, and we would get these women quite frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:14 AM
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Nah I’m a big dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:06 AM
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Simping isn’t just tossing money in for her Onlyfans, or tipping her on twitch $100 for a shoutout, it’s also following their social media, seeing a pic, and fantasizing what it must be like to be wanted by her, or someone just as hot. Then they are mad because they’re kicked back into reality and know that she will never want them, partly because she doesn’t even know them, but also they are aware they’ve never received attention from women that look like her so are aware it will never happen a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:03 AM
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No the women he went for were pretty mediocre. He’s actually a pretty well liked guy by men and women on an completely platonic sense. Dude would go above and beyond to help his friends, and he’s actually one of the best people I’ve ever met. He’s not shy, he’s very funny, and he’s great at parties. You’d probably like him too honestly, but again you’d probably only like him as a friend Personality and humor can only do so much. He’s gotten lucky a couple of times in his life so he’s not some in…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:18 AM
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divorce laws Little confused on this one. Expand?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:23 PM
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There are laws that govern people’s ability to have consensual casual sex? Since fucking when?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 04:20 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 01:35 PM
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men cheat opportunistically Very true. It’s why sometimes you’ll see a dude with a hot gf will cheat with a less attractive girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 12:36 PM
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Really can’t disagree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 12:13 PM
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Is this really even a hot take on this sub? This has been discussed to death
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 02:21 PM
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Sometimes, but I’ve seen tinder experiments using attractive frat looking dudes you’d find in the US, And r/tinder has your 10-15%er doing well too. A 20% guy will still get laid, a little less than perhaps your 8 or 9, but it’ll still happen semi regularly (like once every couple of weeks). You don’t need to be a male model to get laid on tinder or at bars, but you need to be where attractive starts which is being an objective 7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 02:14 PM
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Not true. If a man is really an objective 8 or 9 (so what 80% of women find attractive) he absolutely can. Casual sex is entirely looks based, and Chads absolutely will get all the Beckies who hit up the gym they want, and can even get Stacies to come over for a hook up. You can try tinder experiments to see this, incels have like millions of them. Or you can hang our r/tinder when a Chad comes to brag about how easy he has it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 01:25 PM
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If you’re attractive, then sure because your looks are enough to get people to want to hook up with you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:03 AM
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There’s no such thing as “club clothing”. You can easily wear most things you would wear on a date or casually to any sort of club or bar. Unless your casual outfit is an ill-fitting t shirt and basketball shorts, in which case you gotta learn how to dress. And besides “club clothing” doesn’t cost more, what you’re referring to is “peacocking” which for Chad doesn’t matter because his physical looks have already done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:02 AM
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Bruh, this is dumbest take I’ve ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:00 AM
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Fucking thank you. If someone wants you for your money, then that person is a glorified prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:59 AM
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But highschool behaviors don’t really end. Sure, maybe if you’re a loser the bully doesn’t come and beat you up every day or make Facebook groups talking about how they wish you’d kill yourself as it’s much harder to target someone when you’re not in such a small bubble. But,you’re gonna tell me the ostracizing, the cliques, the social hierarchies go away? Because I can promise you that even in the corporate professional world they still exists, but not they actually count for more. You’re also …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 06:53 PM
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He ended up getting fucked by some random dude Not what I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:45 AM
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Man, I’ve never been cheated on, and I never cheated on someone. I’m aware that people get cheated on, I’ve known men who found their partners cheated on them and I’ve worked with women who have talked about cheating on their spouse or bf. It doesn’t change my opinion on the opposite sex, it doesn’t change my interactions, because I’m not autistic enough to take a few example and think “that’s enough, I understand every woman”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:44 AM
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Not intentionally, but eventually they turned sour and the relationship ended. That’s just how dating works, the bottles of honey and agave aren’t labeled at the store. You keep getting the agave hoping it’s honey until you actually do finally pick out honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:48 AM
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I’ll make an edit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:04 PM
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By actually seeing it through for a bit before proclaiming it not only out loud but inwardly. Also be okay with the fact you may believe they are the one, and it turns out they aren’t. I don’t understand this place sometimes, heartbreak and disappointment are part of dating the human experience. It happens to everyone, even the hottest of stacies and the most lusted after Chads. You’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:04 PM
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Definitely agree on not giving men dating advice. You two are looking for entirely different things and you project what you want onto them. This guy is guilty of it too btw, don’t give women advice if you’re a man Edit: pointed out that the creator isn’t actually giving advice to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:01 PM
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If you’re taller than the girl, it’s fine. Taller than her with or without heals? What I’ve noticed when women mention this is they want a boyfriend taller than them, but 5’6 would still be taller than 5’3 and they still think they’re too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:59 PM
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Yeah, if she doesn’t mention you immediately there’s an ulterior motive going on there. Like even to just bring you around her friends, that’s a sign something’s up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:58 PM
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Yup. Women will reject men for things they can’t change, men will reject women for things they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 04:40 PM
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Well yeah. For men it’s how we get validation for our attractiveness. It’s like the goal for men, and men unable to achieve this goal tend to be more depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:31 AM
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It’s kind of true, but depends solely on what the advice is for. Women project their own desires onto men and assume men want the same thing. Really most men want casual sex, so they’d ask a woman for advice on that, but women are giving advice on how to get a gf assuming that the men also want an LTR and not casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 03:59 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 03:56 PM
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You positive on that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 11:45 PM
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Does this mean the pinkpillers and FDS ladies are banned too? Or do they get a pass as always?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:30 AM
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I love you too bro. You’ll get there man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:25 AM
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Just gonna say, good for you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 12:05 AM
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No, but neither is OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 12:04 AM
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He means “glow up”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 11:45 PM
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Because men can more easily find LTRs, or at least grow their RMV. Women unfortunately are stuck at whatever their looks are. I’ve seen plenty of average men find attractive gfs during college. Hell even me being short and average looking has always been able to find a gf that’s at least objectively above average. I never had any sort of money my entire life, but I was able to by building my RMV. Girls in their prime will only have casual sex with the hottest men, but if you have high RMV you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 11:20 PM
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There wasn’t a specific person, and I’m not totally one pill. Just a chain of events that led me down the path I am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 11:17 AM
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Well most men don’t have that option to get sex when they want to get sex. Mosh men are blocked from the casual sex experience entirely. LTRs are their only way to get any sort of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:12 AM
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Alright man, whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:51 AM
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Sure. But it doesn’t make it less true. I think these men do care about these women to an extent, but the sex is one of the driving reasons he gets into the LTR to begin with. You take what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:09 AM
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Well I’m not gonna be able to find out for myself anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:09 AM
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Lucky you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:47 AM
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Great, part of the human experience. Either grow up and deal with it, or be some depressed mess. Either way doesn’t sound like your life is too bad if you have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:40 AM
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You just sort of deal with it and experience heartbreak and get over it like a normal human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:07 AM
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It’s not necessarily as prevalent because most men don’t have options so they stick with the girl because it’s the best he can do. Most men are just happy to have anything tbh and it just keeps them going. But for sure men do this too, only if they’re attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:05 AM
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DGD - Dance Gavin Dance. The band I brought up in my earlier comment And yeah, by the time you have this talk it’s done and nothing you can do about it. No rekindling your feelings, no night of passion, she’s done and just waiting to get out of there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 09:30 PM
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Hah happy to see another DGD fan on here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 09:15 PM
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I’m just inferring here. The average man Sex in frequency and quality they deem to be satisfactory or better. Continuing to find their partner attractive. Trust in their partner, feeling of a safe space to vent feelings and not be judged for it. Space to engage in hobbies and hang out with friends. The average woman A strong connection to the man. Needs to continue to be attracted to that man. Has to act more as a team for many things, but may need the man to take more charge of things. The man …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:54 PM
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Women don’t necessarily move on quickly, they have just been slowly leaving the relationship over time. I had an ex who did this, little changes would peak through and she would slowly pull away over about a month and a half. And you can really feel the interest go away or that she’s trying to let go slowly so it isn’t as hard for her to move on. But ya know, you deny it and say you’re crazy. Then when she has the smallest crumb left of romantic affection for you, it’s when she sits you down for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 05:25 PM
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Yeah women will slowly take themselves out of the relationship over weeks, sometimes months. Men usually will just leave in a split second decision, like a really bad fight makes them realize this isn’t it and they break it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 05:19 PM
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Is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:32 PM
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I think it’s more or less an easier way to characterize them. There are men that get casual sex and fun, and there are men who can only can get sex via relationships. That’s really it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:59 AM
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I mean, plenty of men can get casual sex on tinder and get tons of attention from women. I would like to be those men that women thirst after and hook up with. They’re just the tall dudes with strong jaws. I’ve never been able to get casual sex at all in my life. I want the shallow interactions, I could care less about being wanted for me. That’s really all I ever wanted in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:51 AM
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Men are trying hard to be alphas, but they don’t succeed because of how they look. Eventually they figure out where they actually stand and just settle into the beta role. It’s not necessarily outdated, it’s just people aren’t happy to do it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:49 AM
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I consider myself lucky I guess, I’ve never really run into women who make fun of my height to my face. I’m 5’6, and even after regular interaction with women in my life I think I’ve had like 2 women ever actually make a comment to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:34 PM
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Yes, you can drop the weight. You can never grow taller after you reach a certain age no matter what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:33 PM
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You do you, I could care less what you want to do with your body. Obviously though, say we are in a relationship together, and you don’t want have a kid and I do someday, then fact is that our relationship won’t work in the long term. And that is okay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:08 PM
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My point is that no gender is truly holy and perfect. Women are shitty for sure, but men are also shitty. It’s okay to no longer be attracted to someone, or to not have your needs met and watch the love slowly fade. That’s human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 03:18 PM
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They aren’t, but this is a thread about men really “loving” their wives, which in this case they don’t. So really men and women aren’t any different. Sticking with your partner has nothing to do with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:40 AM
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Exactly. Which is why the men don’t leave, they fear for losing their money, house, kids. etc. They don’t stay because they “love” the woman anymore, it’s just the best they can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:31 AM
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Most men stay with the women because they know they won’t find anything better. It’s not because they are committed and love them totally. Or fear of divorce rape. Women leave because they know there are at least some options and benefits to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 12:55 AM
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Which is why I think Beta Bux should be changed to “Beta Comfort” because most women don’t end up will millionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 11:01 PM
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Im curious on why you think the women don’t love their beta husbands? Or I guess what behaviors lead you to believe that they don’t. Because I will say words only mean so much, and actions mean so much more
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 10:57 PM
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I think almost every woman engages in casual sex in some form, but it’s not as much casual sex as many would like to believe. Sure, you’ve got girls out there just fucking dudes every single day of the weekend and sometimes during the week, with varying partners as well. But most women tend to have like 3 or 4 casual sex encounters their entire life. Now, the reason it feels like a lot is because 80% of them do it with the same group of guys. So think of it like this: one man was probably the ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:37 PM
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Nothing. The only thing would be to force the people you want to be attracted to you. When a woman or man is attracted to someone, then there isn’t a lot of “inequality” in dating; if anything, when they’re attracted to someone they’re willing to do a lot even if the other isn’t attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:31 PM
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Many on this sub haven’t been in a single healthy relationship their entire lives and posts like this show it. Are we going to sit here and say that men also don’t have needs and if they aren’t met then the love stops flowing? If a woman gets to unattractive, or the sex stops, or in anything like that the man will still stay by her side unconditionally? You can say the exact same things for men in that they don’t truly love, and even as a man I’m aware of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:29 PM
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Were you a “cute” kid or an ugly kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 08:44 PM
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Jeez your mom was abusive because she didn’t like the way you look? I’m sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:40 PM
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Exactly. Most men don’t get to “settle down”, they never even got to “act up”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 09:09 PM
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What? No. This dude wants less responsibility, less time he has to work and go get paid close to the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:56 PM
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Apathy. Wear it or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:54 PM
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I guess? I’m short and I only go for women shorter than me. Though strength isn’t necessarily something I care that much about. I’ve dated women that could squat and deadlift higher weights than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:53 PM
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I don’t know and it makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 04:38 AM
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Take the harsh pill. But this is the truth here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:34 PM
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No, people drink a lot but they are not an alcoholic. Because you don’t drink you see any indulgence as bad and an addiction, but there’s a huge difference. These people don’t need to drink, they drink to have fun and feel like they might need it to be more social and stuff, but they still only want to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:29 PM
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Exactly, there’s a huge difference between drinking a lot and being an alcoholic. My friends make jokes about being alcoholics because they like to drink a lot, but that’s the difference. They want to drink, they don’t need to drink
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:27 PM
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The only time Betabuxxing is when the woman in question isn’t giving the man the amount and quality of sex he desires. A BB doesn’t care if he’s getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 10:56 PM
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I feel like this thread kind of confirms my feeling on matches. If you’re not getting sex from them it’s the same as having 0, because anyone can get matches
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:18 AM
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Only if they aren’t getting matched with men they find attractive as well. It makes sense that ugly people would still find you hot, but it becomes an issue when it’s only’people you’re not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:17 AM
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Pretty much. The benefit of “settling down” for a lot of men would be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:07 PM
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Well said, they only see the Chads and Chad Lites most of the time and assume that because they don’t want them that dating is hard. Meanwhile they may have some average orbiters who would date them but don’t want to settle. Meanwhile the average looking guy can and will go months, even years without a crumb of female attention of all looks levels (not just your Stacies and Beckies)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:06 PM
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It depends if the man in question also got casual sex or not. A man who got casual sex never feels cucked, because he also got around too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:58 PM
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I may not be able to get casual sex, but the hate I feel didn’t really transfer to women. The hate I feel is mostly on myself, but I guess it’s given me the ability to look at it from an objective standpoint and not hate women for something I wasn’t able to get
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:43 PM
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Well does she consider that man low-to-average? It’s impossible to be attractive or unattractive to everyone, and she may be one of the very few women who finds him attractive. I have a pretty below average friend and has an average gf, and she absolutely can’t take her eyes off of him when they’re together. So it works for them, but he’s definitely not someone who is desired by a majority of women, so to most women you meet they would consider him a below average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:38 PM
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Hate to break it to you, but the only ones who believe this are men who aren’t attractive enough to get casual sex at all and are just bitter and angry at these women. Any other man who themselves can get casual sex don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:37 PM
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Getting used by men more attractive than them for sex, and not being able to find LTRs easily if they aren’t at least above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:35 PM
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I agree with this. I think we get too caught up in when we do something better for ourselves it’s being selfish. But that’s really not the case, we are not in constant service of other people. We can do things for others, even if it doesn’t directly benefit us. But, it should be something you want to do, not have to do and you shouldn’t constantly want to please everyone either. It’s balance, and something I had to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:39 AM
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Sure, but how tall were they? How attractive were they? PUA isn’t gonna help short dudes with average or below average faces get laid. In reality, TRP and PUA really only works if you are, or have the realistic potential to be a 7/10. Below that it ain’t gonna do shit for you. To be an objective 7/10 (meaning most women view you as such) is a combination of height and facial attributes, so if you’re fat but at least average height then you’ve got some potential. I’ve found PUA techniques illegal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:55 PM
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Because PUA is a scam from the getgo. Anyone who buys into PUA are the same people susceptible to MLMs and shit. It’s all BS and only works if you start with the right base attributes. And they know how to get to you to buy into the crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:45 PM
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I did say most men, and what do you mean by “sex dolls”? Like legit inanimate objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:26 PM
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Well to be fair, on here and other manosphere related subs that’s at most of the men want and care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:09 PM
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Not really, if his looks go through a drastic change it will make a huge difference and change her impression of him. For example if he’s fat and loses the weight, or is balding one gets a hair transplant, or gets a jaw implant, she will consider him very attractive and want to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:08 PM
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Kind of, the group who looks down on casual sex are the ones who can’t get it at all but wants it. A man who can get casual sex outside of a committed relationship really doesn’t care about it, because he’s getting what he wants from the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:06 PM
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Of course. If you look at the guys who got laid in like the 90s or even early 00s, they weren’t stunners or male models, you can compare them to what average men look like. Height also wasn’t too much of an issue back then either, because social media kind of pushes the “tall>everything else” narrative for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:04 PM
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For LTRs. For casual sex it’s a completely different ballgame and pretty determinant on how you look over anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:03 PM
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I think men can get LTRs easier, but that’s really only compared to their ability to get casual sex. They also can get LTRs easier than women might because men can go up and down on the RMV ladder despite physical inadequacies where women can’t do that (if she isn’t attractive to the man in question, it ain’t gonna happen no matter what she does). But still women can probably find a bf with relative ease, it just wont be Chad so some won’t even bother. Your average joe on the other hand has litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:00 AM
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Well, if she is like many mothers who seek to ignore their instincts and become abusive to their children, she’ll probably just do that with the added flavor of telling him he’s broken from the getgo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:57 PM
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Ya know I never look at TRP being more a Gen X thing, but based on the users here and the subreddit who defend it to hell, it makes a lot of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:55 PM
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Really the issue is that they now have a platform to talk about it. Fact is that society has had these people getting together and reproducing for centuries. They just didn’t have Reddit to complain about it, so they were always easier to ignore and not really notice the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:54 PM
2

There’s just something... off about it. She’s an adult, she can order her own damn food. What are you, her father?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:52 PM
2

Because they aren’t perfect and you can’t use doctrines for every situation in dating. You need a mix of both to be a somewhat whole person and stable person. If you follow TRP you become a bitter, jaded aspy who looks at social interactions and dating unnaturally. It’s always strategy this, strategy that. There’s no time to be happy or enjoy the relationship you’re in. However, TBP isn’t perfect and you don’t want to follow it because what normally works for people may or may not work for you n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:08 PM
1

In casual sex, yes they absolutely offer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:03 PM
1

Well, no. There has to be physical attraction, looks are subjective to a point so really you can find someone attractive that most people might not. But in this situation I’m subjectively finding her unattractive as well, so that’s just a no off the bat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:03 PM
2

More prevalent in recent years with porn being more accessible. Think about it, for many men the only kind of sexual experience is watching other people have sex, and yeah they have eventually but then realize that it’s not the same as watching it, which is something they essentially developed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:16 PM
1

It’s two sides of the spectrum really. On one end you have men in their 20s lamenting on their inability to get laid and giving advice to 20s who are unable to get laid. Sometimes you’ll see a dude just straight up say he’s a virgin. Or their men who never had success in their lives but found a wife and just say “keep trying” On the other end you have supposed Chads who have always been successful with women, or became successful when they became attractive at some point in their life. But they …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:14 PM
1

Absolutely fuck no. You cannot rely on one single person like that, you need your friends to have something outside of your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:34 AM
2

Looks is the sole determining factor, without being attractive you can get laid with status, but people won’t find you attractive and only want you for your resources
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:32 AM
1

Wow not even a response from OP debating this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:28 AM
2

Exactly, or fucking Christian Grey. Look I don’t believe every woman would be fine with a dude being creepy if he’s attractive, but most women? If a man that is 10/10 in their eyes stares or messages something creepy to them, they’re still absolutely down and are so flattered for the experience. Anecdotal, so I’ll get shit on, but there was a user on r/tinder for a while who used to hit women with this line why don’t I come and leave me shirt at your place so you can smell like me. Creepy right?…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 11:45 PM
1

Or average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:19 PM
3

I think this is true. Relationships are actual work and require that there are hard moments and you work through them. Actions always speak louder than words, a person can say things all they want, but if they don’t actually do anything to support it then it’s a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:18 PM
2

It’s hard to say, the best thing you can do is more or less hope for the best and see how he treats you and your relationship. If he treats you well, gives you the comfort or whatever you want, stays committed, listens to you, shares some kind of intimacy, then really what does it matter what his intentions are? You’re assuming that because a man sees you as his best option for sex it makes him impossible to be a good partner, but that’s not just true. Hell you’ll probably find the beta actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:07 PM
6

No one is more “justified” in sleeping around, it’s their life and body and if they want to do it, then let them do it. If they have the opportunity in doing it and want to do it, then by all means just let them do it. And if anyone gives you shit for it, ignore it and stop caring what people think. If it for some reason it hurts your dating prospects, then is what it is. Find someone who doesn’t care or doesn’t see it as a total problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:37 PM
2

Well we didn’t necessarily use the language of “eye-fucked”, or they didn’t speak in such a dramatic way, but they said that if a guy they find attractive is looking at them or staring then it’s fine because “he’s attractive”. Again that’s the caveat, they had to find men attractive. They don’t wish all men would do it more, only the ones they consider attractive. And these women aren’t some weirdo nymphos, they’re like regular people in society. You’re putting words in my mouth for some reason,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:08 PM
1

I actually do have a decent amount of female friends, my friend group is made up of both men and women. And they’ve pretty much said what I said. I also have female co-workers say the same thing, because I have a relationship with them enough to where they feel they can speak about that shit with me. Not everyone is some autist who doesn’t leave the basement ya know, I do have a life outside of Reddit where i interact with real people. My outlook comes from interacting with these people as well …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:54 PM
-1

Again, this is just generally what it is. That doesn’t mean all the special outliers are this way, but when we bring things up here it’s safe to say that we look at things through a general lense. You don’t gotta comment with that “well actually...” crap, of course I expect some women to not be this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:35 PM
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Depends on the person and their standards. 80% of women find about 20% of men attractive in any given setting. No you might not get turned on and be down to fuck a guy that very second, but most women will be at least flattered by the fact he thinks you’re attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:33 PM
1

Again it’s just general. I haven’t figured out women or whatever, I never said that. It’s just human psychology, we want people who we find attractive to think of us as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:31 PM
0

Most women do though. It’s not every woman, but generally women are desiring attention from a specific man or a specific type of man which is what she considers attractive. If the man in question isn’t attractive, or isn’t giving her money in the middle of giving the attention (i.e. twitch streams, OnlyFans, sugar daddy) then the attention is unwanted. Again though, this is general. I don’t claim to know every woman in the world, but this seems to be the thought process of the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:17 PM
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This I can agree with. When I was a teen I was just stressed out with teen shit and maybe applying for college. But honest to god the biggest issue I was having was that the girl I liked didn’t like me back and I just listened to depressing music for a few days to feel better, and i was just a Millenial. Kids are needing more and more to grow up faster, because the information is so easily accessed. It’s not just on those boring news sites anymore, now it’s thrown into everything from Facebook, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:14 PM
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No woman, especially no young and active woman, is going to be flattered by one stranger or near stranger staring at her bum Unless she finds him attractive, then it’s flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:12 PM
1

Because it matters to them. It’s obviously important for them and it’s their choice. Sometimes we just have to mind our own business about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:10 PM
1

Nah. It really doesn’t matter what personality, interests, career, money, status etc you have. If men aren’t physically attracted from the get go then it won’t change unless your physical appearance goes through a major overhaul
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:42 AM
9

Somewhere between 2 and 3. Honestly I’m 27, but I was never able to get casual sex in my life. I don’t think it’s a problem beyond a “me” problem and I’m not expecting society to do anything. Plus, there’s not really much i or anyone can do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:41 AM
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I mean, nice guys do get laid, but it’s only if they’re attractive nice guys. So OP if you’re a nice guy but also attractive looking, then you’ll be fine. Casual sex is really looks first over anything else, if you aren’t already deemed “good enough” for casual sex, then no matter what attitude or personality you have you’re still going home alone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:14 PM
2

Don’t worry, it’s probably not a real post anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:43 PM
1

PAID? Not regularly, I did a tinder boost once for the hell of it, but that’s about it. So I guess I paid that one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:40 PM
2

How attractive looking the man is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:39 PM
1

Cheating, because in that situation a person isn’t getting physically beaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:50 AM
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Sometimes. I’ve known women that were considered beautiful by like 90% of the population in just about any given situation, some have an epiphany that their receive their treatment because of their looks and become streamers on twitch or insta thots, or use their looks to their advantage. It’s a case by case basis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:47 AM
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The thing about these androgynous men though is that at a base level they still have masculine features. The ally guy is still a tall dude or has a strong jaw, or both, he just tends to wear more... fashion forward looks. Also K Pop bands aren’t famous with mid to late 20s women, it’s mostly just kids and teens whose parents buy everything, with a few college aged kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 11:46 PM
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Kind of a Column A/Column B sort of deal. I think that there are just some people where their maximum looks ceiling is just going to be mediocre even after putting in tons of effort, but fact of the matter is that many men just don’t even try thus allowing men who do try to stand out. Though, if these men who didn’t try put in just above the minimum amount of effort, they’d probably go up a couple of points. Unless you live in a city, then you’ll find the vast majority of men out effort into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 11:42 PM
1

I was gonna say, there’s something so autistic but not autistic about this post. It’s still missing the anecdote about being anorexic or whatever he used to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 11:38 PM
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What a balanced and realistic view of the world. I have to agree with just about everything you said. If we’re talking LTRs, then you’ll be hard pressed to find a seriously mismatched couple like OP is describing. Because they focus on one aspect of a person’s looks without realizing that it’s about a full physical package, which like you said being short isn’t death for dating if you got a good frame or face. I’ve also lived in similar places as you, I feel like anyone who genuinely believes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:56 PM
1

Exactly. You might find that unicorn Stacy that’s not into Tall strong jaws, but they are few and far between. Not to say that you’ll be stuck with the bottom of the barrel, plenty of Beckies will LTR a non traditional masculine guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:31 PM
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Yes, most of the time hot women go for Chads. And btw, height and strong jaws are masculine. So even if you’re “feminine” in style you’re still masculine physically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 04:43 PM
1

No, what is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:58 PM
21

We’d all be aspy messes who feels like the other gender is out to get them or use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 11:15 PM
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Because there’s no validation in it, part of why men want casual sex is for the validation in the act itself, not just the sex. Having to literally pay someone for the experience in a transactional way makes it pretend, the prostitute doesn’t want to be there, they aren’t aroused by you, they don’t find you sexy, they are literally there and counting down until you’re finished and they can leave. If if was just about sex, then every single man in the world would just get a prostitute. There’s an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 05:03 PM
0

Sure, if it is truly about the sex alone then prostitution is fine and does count as cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:31 PM
1

Well to be a fair an aspect of cheating is validation, not just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:19 PM
4

That’s not even close to the same and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:39 PM
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Exactly. Pretending like being UMC makes women not attracted to Chad or Tyrone is so fucking stupid. And it also implies Chads or Tyrones can’t be UMC. Plenty of Chad frat dudes graduate from good schools and get high paying jobs straight out of college with absolutely no debt thanks to their parents paying for college. And besides, just because you are a Lower class Chad doesn’t mean you can’t get an UMC woman to come over for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 11:56 AM
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I think this makes the most sense. Fact is, that most women only find a small pool of men attractive and the one who wants a FWB situation is almost always initiated by the guy. Average dudes aren’t getting FWBs, and the only way to get sex is by getting into LTRs, otherwise a FWB is kind of the perfect situation for men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 11:52 AM
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It’s just you. I find it easy to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 10:22 AM
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There was a comedian who had a bit about this, saying that men get caught more because they’re stupid about cheating. They make it too obvious, go into the same places as their gf’s friends, text them while hanging out with their gf, social media. Meanwhile women are fucking dudes in different area codes with no sort of relation to their man whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 10:20 AM
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Maybe, but very few men have the opportunity to do so. And besides we’re talking about men and women 18-30, which state that women in that demographic cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 10:18 AM
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Not really, but I’m a functioning adult that can figure out how to be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 10:16 AM
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Pretty much. Epstein had plenty of connections and tons of money to throw around. Maxwell could have very well been caught at one point and then got let go because Epstein pulled some strings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 10:15 AM
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Of course I would. Seriously, you’re telling me I don’t have to have kids, and I get tons of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:24 PM
2

No, but that’s just a natural response. It’s not just male/female dynamic, we usually avoid or just outright treat people we find unattractive. Looks don’t just determine your dating prospects, they also determine how many social ones you have too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 09:05 PM
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Who cares what happens after, it obviously didn’t matter going into it. Most women have like 1 or 2 hookups in their life, and 80% do it with men who have the same features,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:45 PM
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Yes, the men who are successful are what 80% of women consider physically attractive. It’s not a matter of feeling “sexy” when it comes to casual sex, it’s about how hot they find the guy. Nothing wrong with that, but this post is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:40 PM
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My point is this post is BS. Worthless or not, men looking for just sex do just fine in getting it if they are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:38 PM
2

Well obviously those guys were able to get sex fine. So its not a matter of these women not feeling “sexy”, because they still had sex with these dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:37 PM
3

Obviously Chad’s getting casual sex just fine doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:31 PM
3

Of course there’s more to life than this, but that’s Irrelevant here. The original comment stated that nothing about “sport sex” is attractive in a thread stating that a reason male sexlessness happens is because women don’t feel sexy. But plenty of Chads are out there looking to do the same and are quite successful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:30 PM
2

That’s just human nature unfortunately. Still a man will stay committed to a woman who is relatively the same looking, but offers more in terms of an LTR. A man won’t straight up leave someone who is a tiny bit hotter than his current SO if she offers nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:54 PM
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I don’t know, ask the women having causal sex with Chad. Obviously a guy looking for “sport sex” who is attractive doesn’t have any problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:52 PM
3

And? There’s nothing wrong with people not wanting to date you because they aren’t attracted to you, just like there’s nothing wrong with women who don’t want to casually hook up with me because they aren’t attracted to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:10 PM
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Because they were unable to get sex in their youth or while they were single, so it’s the only thing they care about. If these dudes were attractive enough to get relatively consistent casual sex with women they find attractive, they would never even get into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:51 PM
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Oh this is so stupid. Any woman can go on tinder, swipe and have a guy DTF in the hour. There are tons of options for men to make you feel attractive enough for sex. The only reason why a man isn’t getting sex is because he isn’t attractive enough to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:50 PM
16

Seriously. This always pisses me off, you got tons of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:48 PM
0

Because everyone only wants what they find attractive to find them attractive. That’s just like, human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 04:01 AM
1

I may not be able to get casual sex, but I do get sex in LTRs. In a couple of them, I could feel a huge negative shift toward the end before we inevitably broke up. It’s what signaled to me that the relationships were over. It’s really hard to fake that interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:52 AM
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Even if she is DTF quickly, enthusiasm and desire can’t be faked when you’re fucking. You can always tell the difference between a person that wants to be there and doesn’t want to be there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:16 PM
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No. I’ve seen legit Stacies approach Chads, you gonna tell me those women were low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:05 PM
1

It’s in the actions of that woman. Beta buxxers are unhappy if they aren’t getting the sex they want or don’t feel attractive to the woman in question. If she is demonstrating clear interest in her actions, then men won’t feel the need for her to prove that she’s using them, because she obviously is interested in them and wants to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:34 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:41 PM
1

It’s not as common as it might have been about 20 years ago. The desire to be promiscuous among men is probably somewhere in like the 75% - 80% range.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:27 PM
1

Exactly. It’s not enough to just be in the presence of these women, anyone can eyes can tell the difference between a friend and an orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:26 AM
1

Zero, I’m attracted to her or I ain’t. She can be the best looking woman in the world but be an awful person, but I’ll still find her hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:58 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:57 PM
1

Sure, but again that’s just average normie numbers. It’s not like 7 is some impressive number or impossible number. It means women view me as average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:24 PM
3

Probably a lot lower than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:08 PM
1

Been living in a major metropolitan area for the last 4 years. Before that I grew up and went to college in suburbia, living in a major college town during my college years. And I mean, I’m 28 with only 7 sexual partners. That’s not exactly above average in numbers. They were all in the context of a relationship as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:03 PM
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Fat is disgusting to most men, and I think I’d rather just be incel than fuck a 300lber. But my point is that even that is preferable than fucking a dude. You can admire and think one is objectively more attractive, but regardless you’d never engage in hooking up with a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:48 PM
6

I don’t know man, still sounds kinda gay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:48 PM
6

I don’t know man, you’re completely ignored by every woman? A straight man would rather fuck a 300lb landwhale than another dude. Are you ignored by even the bottom of the barrel women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:19 PM
2

Exactly. Photofeeler is just like any normie used rateme sub on this site. It’s all just sugar coated rates, and you’ll never be below a 6 or 7 on those. So you have to base your attractiveness on the reaction and treatment you get from women and your ability to get casual sex or relationships. My point is that you shouldn’t even take photofeeler seriously, it’s just another version of those subs. A 7 is Chad-lite level, which could be a Chad but is lacking something to make him one whether it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:09 PM
2

And I’ve been consistently rated on photofeeler as 7-8. Plenty of average looking dudes have gotten 6 or 7, but that doesn’t make them those ratings. That doesn’t make a difference IRL, only straight autists care about photofeeler stats. You’re most likely not a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:57 PM
1

Well, we sure do because we frequent a sub where the subject is literally about relationships and sex. But on the outside world, people don’t think about it to this level
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:38 PM
2

I have had sex with 7 women my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:37 PM
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Gonna be honest, I have never been able to find casual sex. But holy shit the idea of fucking a dude just disgusts me, so yeah there’s no “sex with men out of desperation” and any guy who says that is lying to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:37 PM
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I think you’re kind of correct. I remember growing up and people saying I looked way better than my guy friends who are either below or just straight average. So I assumed that by being able to get gfs easily I was attractive, only realizing that I’m not because I could get casual sex. Still it’s not necessarily so bad as you put it, because all my gfs have genuinely desired me and I can tell this from their actions. But being above average does still keep you out of the casual sex game. On a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:36 PM
2

Yeah I think that despite my height, I’m starting to realize that I’m a 6 facially. I can’t get any casual sex but LTRs have always been easy for me to get. One thing I’ve found from here is that most men can’t get LTRs easily, and I assumed I was just a straight 5 face wise so anyone can. Also, a 6 guy might not get casual sex, but a 7 might. 8s absolutely can
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:31 PM
1

I did try tinder. I wasn’t able to get laid from it. Matches? Sure, anyone can get matches, but sex only happens if you’re attractive. “Okay” doesn’t cut it for casual sex. I know this from using tinder for a year and half, and swiping and messaging at least 4-5 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:58 AM
3

It’s feeling like purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:16 AM
1

Nah, but you do you homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:10 AM
8

Pretty sure this is a troll post. Because I don’t think I’ve ever seen something to show how bad TRP can be for a person. It’s like validating every bluepiller, FDSer, Pinkpiller, anyone with a hate boner for TRP. It also is just so autistic, like mumbling and eyes to the floor even with your parents autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:54 AM
2

A lot of people don’t like to admit it, but sex is how men are validated, which is why men go after it so hard in terms of casual sex. Literally an entire community was created to get casual sex (TRP), which then spawned this sub. For most men, the goal is to have sex with as many women you find attractive as possible and add as many notches in your bed post. I’m not here to argue whether this is right or wrong, but only what is the objective view. If most men could get casual sex on a kind of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:58 AM
6

Cooking. It’s my hobby, and I honestly make some incredible food. It really fulfills me when I make something that can take about 16 hours to make and it ends up being fucking delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:24 AM
4

Yeah this has to be a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:23 AM
2

Fucking great analogy. She just has to check up on you, she’s so bored and has nothing else going on, and she consistently thinks you’ll dump or cheat on her. And then if you lash out, then you’re the bad guy. If you’re just not feeling sex, you’re bad and cheating on her, or find her ugly. I still get performance anxiety because of her, because if I didn’t perform or cum for her, I was bad and she needed to look at my phone, or i thought she was ugly. I can talk about this all day, but I’ll lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:16 AM
1

Exactly. And being a person entire lifeline sucks. Feeling like going to see your friends without her is bad and you feel guilty for it, feeling like if you leave she’ll kill herself. She appears to be some TRPer’s dream girl, and honestly she was a nightmare to be with. I wouldn’t wish a relationship with her on people i despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:13 AM
0

Because hiring a hooker isn’t the same as casual sex. It’s not validating, it’s just pretend. She doesn’t actually find you hot, or want to be there, she is just counting down the minutes til you finish so she can leave. I want the validation of casual sex as much as I want the sex itself. If it was just sex then yeah I’m sure I would have loved a hooker. An LTR is the only way for someone like me to have sex with someone I find attractive, who also genuinely finds me attractive. Like I said, ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:12 AM
2

Yup. I think I would have stayed single if I could have gotten casual sex because otherwise I have a pretty fulfilling life outside relationships and always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 05:50 PM
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Great comment, I was single for two years completely out of choice because I genuinely didn’t want a gf or wanted to try to get one, and it was really nice. I had my friends, my family, my hobbies. Sadly I’m not attractive enough to get casual sex, so i wasn’t getting laid which was a downside, but otherwise my life was really fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 05:46 PM
2

It is wrong, and as always FDS women constantly play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 05:34 PM
6

Similar to what it’s always been tbh, except now the pinkpillers and blackpillers are here and occasionally they’ll derail threads with defeatism or extreme hate to the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 04:14 PM
2

It’s really not. My last few gfs were nothing like her and it was much easier to be with them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:53 AM
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Agreed. And there’s nothing wrong with a woman being slightly clingy, my current gf is, but she’s not crazy and constantly follows me or checks in on me. The thing is that the ex I mentioned above was also extremely abusive, her low self esteem turned into abuse of me, almost angry at me for her low self esteem and took it out on me. Like I said until you’ve lived it, you got no idea what it’s like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:53 AM
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Because until you’ve been with a low self esteem woman, you literally have no idea what it’s like. Constant validation, and I mean constant validation, feeling the need to check up on you, feeling like you’re not showing how “important” she is to you, accusations of cheating, etc. I dated someone like this, and I promise you I will never date someone like this again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 11:15 PM
4

This is true as someone who dated a low self esteem woman, she then became abusive as her self esteem got lower and lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 11:12 PM
1

Yup. It’s easy to break it off with your SO if you got your friends to fall back on and hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 12:22 AM
1

Long Term Relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:52 PM
3

Yup. You get exactly what you want, a guy you find sexually attractive and acts like the doting bf you’ve always wanted. It’s the FDS dream
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:54 PM
1

I mean if she ain’t attracted to you then it won’t work. But there’s nothing wrong with complimenting someone when it’s warranted and the complimented isn’t repeated. That being said I don’t just tell women I know “you’re beautiful”, but if they lose weight, or whatever then I’ll make a comment on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:02 AM
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Interesting point on that they just do it because they can get away with it. I feel like that’s what a lot of people in power do when they rape or sexually assault someone, they do it because they can. There’s something much more sinister about that specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:47 PM
3

Facial attractiveness. Seriously if you’re not getting casual sex, that is really the only thing holding you back. Unless you’re fat, in which case your weight has something to do with it, but if you lose the weight and your jaw still isn’t strong? It always comes back to your face
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:07 PM
1

My face or appearance has never been good enough to elicit the response and interest I want, so I guess whenever I get my plastic surgery and I’ll just freeze it there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:06 PM
2

20% of men are having 80% of the casual sex. That doesn’t mean that women are all fucking a new guy every night, because I think it’s true that a majority of women will only maybe have 2 or 3 hookups their entire life, and have sex in the confines of relationships. You’ll find women who absolutely are fucking tons and tons of men, but they are a minority. What happens is that these women who want their 2 or 3 hookups will go for the same 20% of men as each other. This results in that these men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:04 PM
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Pretty much this. It’s not that women are out there fucking a new guy every single night, it’s that the women who want to have their fun hookups once or twice go for the same small group of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:02 PM
4

Sorry for your assault. Your feelings on the subject are valid, even if I would want that attention it obviously has affected you this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:58 PM
3

Never. Like I can’t think of a moment I’ve been approached sexually my entire life. I’m short and average looking, so it doesn’t shock me in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:57 PM
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I’d like to think I am, all of my exes and gf have orgasmed a huge majority of the time, and my policy on oral is that you give as much as you receive. Plus my dick is above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 02:52 PM
3

Lesbian women have it tough, I feel like that’s why I barely see girl/girl couples ever. I live in a major city that’s pretty liberal, and I’ve met plenty of gay couples through friends, work, etc, but I can maybe count on one hand the lesbian couples I met. It’s almost like finding Bigfoot, meeting one is unexpected and an event (not really but you get my point). The more butch or stud types of women tend to have a better time, because they adopt the same traits and look of men (just have a pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:42 PM
2

Shit, plus being a POC and LGBT is also pretty much a death sentence in some cases with just their general race centered community. That’s super rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:37 PM
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Exactly. On r/tinder when they see a screenshot of a woman coming on strong to a dude they’re always like “where are all these women” without realizing they probably already know them IRL anyway, the women just don’t want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:36 PM
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I suppose. I did see your edit and for what it’s worth I agree, and I don’t necessarily hate the AFBB. I was able to find LTRs relatively easy even when I was a broke ass High School and College student. But I can understand how hard it is for the types, because they’re told they just need to go for the “right” women, except be try few women want them in their youth as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:33 PM
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I think you’re assuming that only the “outgoing” women are engaging in the AFBB. I’m sure the stable men want a quiet or introverted woman, but they also want an alpha too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:13 PM
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This is the truth. Do I care if some guy I don’t know goes through something? Maybe, but passed a “man that sucks for him” I’m pretty much apathetic. Now if my friends or family go through said thing, then I take a much more active role.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:04 PM
1

Wish I knew what hookup/FWB sex was like to see what I prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:00 PM
5

I’m 5’6, I prefer women shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 10:56 PM
2

What’s a spinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 10:55 PM
1

Depends, did she make every guy wait the same amount of time? Or is she making me wait because she “really likes me” or whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:43 PM
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And women wonder why they want to be the casual sex guy over the LTR guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:39 AM
10

FDS. It perfectly balances the harshness of the pinkpill thrown around, but tries to empower each other. There’s still lots of man hating, but TRP has a lot of women hating too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:23 AM
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They’re nervous that the result might be negative if they’re interested sexually or romantically in these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:22 AM
2

I get that. I gave up on casual sex long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:27 PM
2

So are you looking for casual sex or LTRs? Because I was still able to find women on bumble and Tinder. My current gf and I met on bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:04 PM
1

PIV
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 08:15 PM
1

Yeah I can never respect anyone who pays for her shit and simps for her, but I can’t lie in that I respect her for how well she’s played this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:26 PM
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OP. Where do you live and what are you looking for? LTR or casual sex? I’m 5’6 and pretty average looking and in the East Coast US. and I have always found LTRs easy to get, but I have never been able to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:24 PM
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I mean at 5’6 you can still find an LTR. Casual sex will be almost impossible though unless you’re handsome. I’m 5’6 and average looking, and I met my current gf on Bumble, but before that I didn’t really have an issue finding LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:22 PM
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Don’t follow one specific line of thinking, try to have an open mind, and understand that other people’s personal experiences are valid even if they aren’t your own and even if you’re the same physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 05:09 PM
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I think tall women are a better comparison, and would be more realistic as well. Because most men prefer short women, as short women are more feminine and cute, so there’s no reason why they would ever get treated like short men who are the farthest thing from preferred by most women. Tall women on the other hand aren’t preferred, so they would be the most realistic target of being treated the same. And to answer you question, yes it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 05:08 PM
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You sound above average. Fair, I’ll take your experience for what it is. But it leads me to believe that you may not be as attractive as you say, or the men are actually more attractive than you give them credit for. Hard to say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:27 AM
2

Fine, but then how ugly are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:23 AM
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I mean it’s kind of it is or it isn’t. You don’t have to analyze it to know if it’s weak or strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:56 AM
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How do you know they did or didn’t have a strong jaw? You said they were similar levels or slightly better looking so you must have seen at least some sort of picture of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:52 AM
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No, why the fuck would I resent women because of 1 or 2 being cunts to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:47 AM
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So you’ve never been able to get casual sex from a guy who is tall and/or has a strong jaw?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:45 AM
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Maybe not in an LTR, but for casual sex yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:28 AM
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No. The idea of me having sex with a man disgusts me. I’m not saying gay people or gay sex is disgusting in general, but it does not make aroused whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:54 PM
1

Fuck no. I genuinely like being a man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 08:23 PM
2

I think this is a good rule of thumb honestly, especially for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 08:20 PM
5

I believe TRP thinks it’s not the SMV that gets lower with each sexual partner, it’s the RMV. Most TRPers don’t care about fucking a chick with a high body count as long they find her hot, they just don’t want to wife her or enter an LTR with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 11:29 PM
1

I’d argue that while it might not have been widespread, TRP definitely existed for at least a few years before that episode came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 08:28 PM
1

I fucking love that episode. “Whoops I dropped my monster condom, for my magnum dong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 07:47 PM
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It is. In the same way older generations can’t give the current one advice in career and money, they can’t give advice for dating. It was just easier back then, and as the years have gone by, getting laid for men has gotten remarkably harder. Nowadays, if you aren’t in the top 20% finding casual sex is pretty impossible. Then the middle 40 or 50 will maybe have one or two hookups after weeks or months of trying, and then get into an LTR because they’re tired of being single and getting no sex. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 07:46 PM
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I don’t even want children tbh. I’m sure my perception will change as I get older, but at 27 I have no desire to be one right now and if my gf got pregnant I would 100% be pushing for an abortion. I’m simply not ready, I’m not financially stable enough, I’m not far enough in my career and neither is my gf as she’s still a med student. Having a child I’m not ready ready for will only result in me being a bad father and you this all the time. That being said, when the time is right, I will take th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 07:41 PM
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Exactly. Being a dad isn’t alpha. For many animals, especially mammals, fathers more or less abandon their children. In fact they abandon the mother after mating. Men raising children is something society made a widespread thing, and even now plenty of deadbeat dads will try and argue any way out of paying child support even if they know it’s their kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 07:35 PM
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This is kind of the only advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 03:37 PM
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I like to have it, it feels good. But it’s also a source of validation (or invalidation) for me in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:42 PM
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No. To get what he has he had to offer some sort of resource or comfort, or commitment. The Alpha just gets it because he’s hot and isn’t required to give anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:39 PM
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Yup. “Oh you’re only 25?! You don’t even understand”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:38 PM
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It was shocking to me, hearing from women on here and femcels having such difficulty finding a partner. I believe them too that the dudes in question were average looking or below. I know a guy who is not attractive, and gets no interest unless the women are bottom of the barrel. And he still turns them down, he’d rather be single than date someone he’s not attracted to. It made sense when I heard from women on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:33 PM
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It does not matter what hobbies, interests, career, personality you have, if you are not attractive to men, your RMV will stay low and finding a partner will be incredibly difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 01:19 PM
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I guess I just don’t feel passionate enough about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:40 AM
1

Eh, not necessarily. On physical attributes alone they aren’t attracted to them, but overall chemistry and other aspects make them genuinely attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:12 PM
1

Outside of Reddit I never bring any of this shit up. What functioning adult would?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:11 PM
2

This, except you can’t get a FWB without being Chad or Chad-Lite
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:09 PM
2

The most wisdom. Are you two not satisfied in bed? Are you two not willing to try to make it better? Great, then it’s time to move on. You cannot have a relationship where two people aren’t sexually attracted to each other? You know what that is? A platonic friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:48 PM
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How do we know? Is she legit saying “you’re not as good as my exes” or “I don’t find you as attractive” if so then honestly she sounds kind of odd. It’s best to just walk away
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:45 PM
1

It motivates my physical appearance, or at least it did until I realized casual sex wasn’t going to happen for me. I still do what I have always done because it’s second nature at this point. For money, hobbies, work, etc I do it because I want my life to be as comfortable as possible and have minimal issues to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:57 PM
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I’ve known of one single situation IRL. She wasnt my friend, but more friend of a friend and I was hearing the situation secondhand. It would be a situation where the woman is vastly less attractive than the man in question. He probably finds her acceptable enough for sex, but otherwise she is so scared of losing him she turns into a spineless woman because realistically he can get whatever woman he wants. The man in question is almost always cheating on her though, possibly with other Beckies h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:15 PM
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I agree, but if you’re like me and my SMV is stuck at a low ceiling due to my height and face, it’s the only way to get sex from women I’m attracted to and are genuinely attracted to me. Trust me if I was hot enough or had the potential to be, I wouldn’t even be in LTRs to tell you the truth and just have casual sex. LTRs are easy to get, and if you’re not Chad they’re the only way to more or less get consistent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 02:52 PM
3

I think clothing has an insane effect on what kind of impression you give people as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:42 PM
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I think it’s the fact that style alone can’t raise your SMV, clothing won’t make your jaw stronger or make you taller. It’s what I call a “soft physical attribute”. It makes kind of a difference and you should try with it, but it ain’t even close to the level of face, height, and even to an extent physique. You’re right though about the fit of clothing, one of my clients was a work friend of my dad. He had lost like 100 pounds and was all muscle, but his clothing made him look like he had a dad …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:39 PM
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Oh yeah. You still can’t be dressing like a slob, unless you are legit walking sex appeal physically. Like you gotta be a straight 9/10 or 10/10. And you know how many men are this? I don’t even think it’s 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:33 PM
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I mean women are also simultaneously better and worse than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 12:36 PM
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I think you’re only partly correct here. But style does increase your RMV in a big way. I am short and a 5/10, and I have always been able to find LTRs. Casual sex is impossible though. I was still able to do this even when I was a broke ass high schooler and college student, even after college and I’m not even kind of rich. I think you’re right in that there’s moving of the goal posts way too much. But also I think the BP women assume that the men asking for advice are looking for what they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 12:34 PM
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Good clothes won’t make you physically attractive or raise your SMV. They do raise RMV if you’re looking for a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 12:22 PM
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As a guy who has been dressing well for his entire adult life, it boggles my mind that men just don’t try. It never necessarily raised my SMV, but my RMV has always been relatively high in comparison to men my height and facial features. It can be scary sure going in completely blind like I did, but after fumbling around for a bit you get the hang of it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 02:19 AM
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If worn in the correct environment. You don’t want to be the guy wearing a suit to the store, or constantly wearing it when you go out on Friday or Saturday night. You get weird looks, unless you happen to be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 02:16 AM
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Yeah. You’ve got tons of dudes in street style forums from the hood talking about Rick Owens and shit and praising silhouettes. Times have changed, fashion is used perceived class now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 02:15 AM
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Depends. I’m not attractive, I’m short and average looking, but people consistently tell me I’m stylish even when I wear well fitted flannels and jeans. By all means, you don’t have to be attractive to be considered stylish. But being stylish doesn’t make you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 11:51 PM
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I think you’re assuming the style these BP women are talking about. They not saying men have to dress in yuppie clothing, they’re saying to just be stylish by understanding how clothing should fit. You can dress in a well fitting flannel and jeans and still be considered “stylish” by them You’re also assuming every woman on there believes stylish to mean exactly the same thing. Your post is so odd, you just seem to be making excuses to just buying decent clothes. Edit: I didn’t put this down, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 08:13 PM
4

I mean this has been discussed countless times on here. Yes, not to the extreme extent some of the members of TRP or Incels might say, but it does exist and most people know it. They just don’t call it AFBB
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:51 AM
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Definitely. The internet believes that if you agree with a woman or somewhat back her up, you gotta also be getting pussy or looking to get pussy. Don’t get me wrong, I hate whiteknights who jump in always and don’t let a woman argue for herself or try to defend herself at all, but if it’s just one guy critiquing a woman she doesn’t need 5 or 6 guys defending her ass and going to bat for her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:08 AM
2

Yeah but we want to monogamy way before we found ways to stop people dying in childbirth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:05 AM
2

C’mon...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:29 AM
2

I’m hoping the best man, seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 10:56 PM
2

I mean I still find LTRs and shit, and while I appreciate your experience and your view is valid, I never really got the opportunity to make it for myself. I’m so sorry to hear about your paralyzation. I don’t mean to ask too much, but will it be permanent, or will PT help?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 10:16 PM
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Chad is all looks man, so having a very attractive face makes you a Chad. But even with your “attitude” and “game” an average looking man wouldn’t see any sort of results that you do. I’ve known confident average looking men, who have no approach anxiety, who take all the game advice and continuously fail in getting casual sex. So trust me, your face is what makes you successful. And as to why they view women differently, that’s all abundance. A full man doesn’t see the big deal with food, but a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 09:45 PM
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I guess a pickme (the base version anyway) is a woman who goes to extreme lengths to gain male attention. She will do his chores, consistently cook or bake for him, try sexual things she has no interest in or desire to do for him, willing to be in a FWB situation but wanting an LTR but holding on because no attention is worse. In fact I don’t even think there’s a friendship, their entire relationship is “ you up?” texts at 2am. Basically being willing to serve him or degrade herself in whatever …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 09:37 PM
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Again OP, you’re not average looking. You are not the average man. Your experience only happens to attractive men (Chads, Chad-Lites). Do you ask a man making an average salary how he doesn’t have a yacht, or can’t go on shopping sprees in the most expensive designer stores or even afford a single item in these stores? Or how they can sometimes struggle to even save money and live paycheck to paycheck while you (a rich man in the situation) have an account filled with money and paychecks are onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 09:12 PM
0

Wish i was good enough to pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 08:32 PM
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Well the “sexy brooding artist” you’re referring to is always tall and/or attractive looking, so he would have success regardless. An average looking brooding artist will get ignored, or people will just say “god get over your shit”. It’s all in the face where talents start to matter, plenty of incels know instruments and draw, I’ve spoken with them and they’ve shown me and they are supremely talented. But they’re average looking so no one cares. It only makes a difference if you’re famous, like…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 08:26 PM
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Honestly, a lot of men here will claim they did it for themselves, but if they received no attention from women, or only from unattractive women they’d feel they got no return from all the work they did. Sex and attention from women is fine and a huge motivator, I literally know a guy who lost 70 pounds just so he can get a girlfriend. It drove him into the gym 6 days a week after work, made him run 3 miles a day, have a small salad for dinner every single day, and torture himself counting every…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 08:24 PM
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The thing is OP you don’t sound “average” by being able to hook up with a lot of girls, but because the average guy isn’t able to do that. At best he’ll have about 7 partners his entire life, half of these will be maybe a hook up, but he’ll be pounding the pavement for weeks or months to even get it and have long last dry spells in between. But the average guy probably just views women the same, but if he’s sexually interested in her he will see her as special or magical, and any sort of attenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 08:22 PM
1

I see. Okay, for a second it seemed like you were only interested in the idea of marriage itself. But yeah I can see that being 30 in a conservative country could be a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:07 PM
1

So, based on that, let me ask: do you want to marry your current partner or just to be married?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:55 PM
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Sure! I think sometimes a lot of people on TRP and here can be angry toward women for not being romantically successful. Sometimes they take their out their frustrations on women and have a revenge fantasy because “oh no, she was too picky and now she’s not as pretty so she’s looking to settle down because she has no shot at Chad” or whatever. 30 is not some magic age where women deteriorate and lose all options for men, there is still time to find someone. Having children later could lead to is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:45 PM
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This is all really good advice. Sometimes it’s hard to see shit like this and think people don’t do any of this, when I’ve been doing this basically my entire adult and end of teenage life. I’ve always been extremely lucky I don’t have acne, and can maybe count on one hand the amount of times I had a single pimple so that wasn’t on autopilot. I adopted a skincare routine about 5 years ago though, because I do have to worry about aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:30 PM
2

why would a normie woman think of talk in these terms? Well, if you have knowledge of this board and comment on it, by default you’re not necessarily a normie
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:24 PM
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Know what you want, but also understand that you may have to settle in a few spots depending on your requirements. Be realistic, but that doesn’t mean you won’t have any sort of options and need to date the biggest incel tier looks guy who works as a day laborer. Play the field, see what you can attract. Are the men of your highest standards looking to LTR and wife you up? No? Start changing them until you can find a happy medium. Or alternatively you are free you to wait, really just do whateve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:23 PM
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In what regard? In hookups? No man cares about what a woman has done or her intelligence, it’s about getting his nut and/or confidence boost. For LTRs, they matter, but only after she meets his looks threshold of what he could consider a base level of attractiveness. A woman’s intelligence, accomplishments, career, or even status won’t change her RMV or her attractiveness level. She’s either attractive to him looks wise, or she’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:20 PM
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alpha blue-pills have women on rotation too Exactly. Everyone thinks the stuff said in TRP is only shared by those who subscribe to it, but there are men who are technically “blue pilled” who share and do all the things TRP does. Do you think every fuck boy who bangs women all the time is hanging out on TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:19 PM
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Whoever has the option to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:42 PM
1

Response by the other sex, then find a comparable person in that sex and see how they are responded to by your sex. This take a long time of being socialized though, so it’s not a manual or surefire way to get. Men, especially incel men, get way too caught up in the exact female version of them. I got into an argument with a short dude on there, and he screams that because he is fit his looksmatch is a fit short woman. But that’s not even close to true, because women have higher SMV by default a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:12 PM
1

There’s no value to men, simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 07:34 PM
1

I mean I don’t say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:59 PM
6

Exactly. Thinking every man isn’t whatever race you are version of Chad because they aren’t trying hard enough is silly, because there are just things that no amount of haircuts, style, fitness will change. But, and this is a big but, you need to explore it and see what results you can achieve. I think it’s impossible that if you put in the effort, you’ll end up alone without any sort of gf/wife. Will you be slaying every weekend and getting matches and sex all the time like the OP? Maybe, maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:58 PM
4

Yeah. Look I realize that depending what base you have to work with will determine what the ROI will look like; just because you try to be Chad, doesn’t mean you will be able to become Chad (I’m aware of this fact personally). That being said, you still should try regardless of your face, regardless of your height. What else are you doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:33 PM
4

I’ve been saying this forever. If you actually throw in the effort and still find you failed, then you can complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:10 PM
8

Exactly. Free porn in the abundance is does now could disappear, but shit like Onlyfans will continue to exist even after that. And of course it’s the internet so someone will find a way to leak it anyway like always, but you’ll need to go to shadier places to get it and have a much higher chance of getting a virus on your computer than you would on pornhub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:06 PM
11

Women are most likely under reporting and men are over reporting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 11:38 PM
1

Wow another trend that only attractive men can rock. It’ll be another thing men might try because they read some article say it’s hot, but they lack the face, height, whatever to make it look good. It’s the dad bod all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 11:32 PM
0

Only if you’re objectively attractive and at least kind of mentally stable. Everyone’s got some sort of issue, but if you’re not too south of neurotypical and you’re attractive you’ve pretty much got an easy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 03:03 PM
1

Depends. Sometimes she doesn’t even have to give the dude sex, some men are just simps and will give her money and comfort for the attention and to pretend she’s actually interested
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:17 PM
1

Probably society and “pre conceived” notions of what is considered feminine or gay. But things have been changing in recent years
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 12:58 AM
2

Exactly. I do find it interesting the rest of the site seems to be accepting of the “red pill” ideas thrown around, but that would be a discussion more like “has the redpill become more accepted in recent years”. Which again I think we’ve beaten that to death too and the answer is “yes”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 04:12 PM
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Yeah this sub, or any of the pill verse subs, isn’t the place for this discussion. No new ideas will be thrown around, this discussion has been beaten to death already. Women have it easier than men. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 04:04 PM
2

Initially I feel men have to be romantic more, because they are courting the woman and doing what they can to get them in an LTR, unless you’re basically Chad. and as long as you’re not a guy who steps on cats you can get into an initial relationship until the “hotness fades” which can be any number of months or a year depending on the girl. After you’ve gotten together, women tend to step it up on romance to keep you with her regardless of being Chad or not. I’m not Chad and my exes and current…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 01:01 PM
1

Sure I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 09:42 PM
2

Forums like this make people keep thinking they’re sociologists, like they’ve hacked into the system of human interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 09:41 PM
1

I don’t know why I thought you were just answering the question, one that I never asked. Wasn’t paying attention, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:38 PM
3

It really does. I always ask “have you ever gone outside?” to some of these posts, and realize that it appears no, most haven’t
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:31 PM
2

For ONS - Did we also hook up on the first date/went home from a bar or club? If so, I don’t really care. If she’s fucking someone else but not me, then yeah I have an issue. For Sex Worker - A bit odd, I think I’d just ask why a woman would do that and think there’s something up with her mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:28 PM
1

Or at least I’m also getting sex from her before we are exclusive. If she’s going out and having ONS with someone else but not looking to hook up with me? Yeah I got an issue with that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:26 PM
2

Tfw women just don’t do this for you, unless they’re already in an LTR with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:24 PM
4

To be fair, it’s 4chan and I take none of it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:14 AM
1

I dunno and it confuses the fuck out of me. I’m a man and I’ve been putting in above average amounts of work into my grooming, hair, and style for well over a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:55 PM
0

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:46 PM
12

Whenever this topic is brought up I think of a 4chan post I once saw. It was a photo of a girl wearing very short shorts where her ass is showing and a tight shirt slowing off her boobs. The guy was saying “how is she not asking for sex?” And the reply was “of course she’s asking for it anon, just not from you” It’s like men who go to the gym and basically starve themselves while cutting to make their arms, shoulders, chest, and abs better and post shirtless pics of themselves on tinder, or go t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:45 PM
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I never understood TRP for this. They think that every woman sees shit this way, most don’t if we’re taking about it LTRs. Why the hell would they even want to be with them long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:32 PM
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Eh I disagree. Monogamous relationships are different, there’s more than looks there. CC is full on casual hook ups/flings. Are you really gonna tell me a girl in a 2-3 year LTR was riding the CC?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:26 PM
2

I mean yeah. Think of the most popular songs on the radio and the artists of those songs? Most of the time they’re singing about sex, hooking up, being promiscuous, cheating because they can, etc and this is both male and female artists. If you go on Twitter, plenty of posts of women and men expressing their sexuality in pretty intimate details. For God’s sake almost any decent looking girl is either a twitch streamer, or has an OnlyFans/Premium Snap. It’s definitely celebrated, the small minori…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:25 PM
1

I don’t have any problem with the cock carousel honestly. If I was good enough to be one of the horses I would be, but I’m not deemed good enough for casual sex so I’m depressed about it. I’m sure almost every CC hater incel/RP feels the same, they’re just mad the women don’t want to take them for a ride
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:20 PM
2

That’s the truth of it. It’s not the nude itself, it’s the validation of her sending the nude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:18 PM
1

I mean it would mainly remain the same honestly. I love my life and who I am, the only aspect of my life I hate is that I’m not attractive enough for casual sex even after putting in the effort. Otherwise I have a very good life, I like my personality, my friends, my family, really if I just became Chad tomorrow I would live my life the same, just now I get the validation of being hot and having tons of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:17 PM
3

No one “deserves” a relationship or a partner to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:14 PM
0

I’m not saying Nice Guys are all around great people, but “few of the worst examples of humanity out there” is taking it way too far. What, because they flip out for getting rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:14 PM
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I think you’re taking the RP meaning way too literally. They don’t mean every girl, they mean most or in general. I have female friends, or know women through my friends having gfs, or know women through my gf. And while I wouldn’t say they’re club sluts or whatever, I will say that most women I interact with that are in their 20s are absolutely addicted to social media, like the kind that have to take photos of every single place they go, every piece of food they make/eat, add to their story co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 07:44 PM
3

That’s honestly the most brutal truth of all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 07:39 PM
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I think this is a lot more accurate. Redditors are so autistic that if you don’t use exact or sugarcoated terms terms they flip out and feel the need to say “Well actually...”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 07:38 PM
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I’m kind of going through most people I know IRL, and honestly yeah most of them are looksmatched pretty well. There are those that aren’t, usually the guys is objectively more attractive. I think I might know one situation where the girl is objectively more attractive than the guy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 04:30 PM
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It’s where attractive kids make videos of them doing cringe videos and have thirsty members of the same or opposite sex that are their age or even creepy adults post comments, follow them, and bloat their egos. Its also where the unattractive kids go to compare themselves and think “gee I wish I looked like them” It’s just another form of social media that gives kids instant gratification like Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 04:07 AM
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1-10 I’m out of there immediately. I don’t need shit like that in my life l.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 12:31 AM
1

What do you mean “unsure”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:43 PM
3

Alright then I guess be a femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:27 PM
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Lol why would I cheat? If I could get casual sex I wouldn’t even be in an LTR. It’s not like my gf withholds or has unenthusiastic sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:19 PM
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Alright other than your height, you seem pretty average. Your height really does give you a huge bump in looks, as opposed to me at 5’6. But getting matches has always been easy for me so maybe my looks aren’t that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:15 PM
2

It’s really all experience. RMV is very easy to fix, which is why you see so many men in LTRs. There is work to be done for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:08 PM
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/u/OXOzymandias I’m just gonna tag you so that I don’t have to reply twice haha Anyway the thing about RMV is that it is based around what makes you a good partner for someone. It’s anything that doesn’t have to do with your physical appearance (you height, face, etc) The thing is that men can raise their RMV a lot easier than their SMV, even if they’re short by doing a few things. The first is that you need to develop a good style and grooming habits. I know, this is BP advice, but some normie …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:23 PM
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Maybe? But they’re pretty brutally honest. Also they are pretty aspy, but if I was attractive I think I’d be aware of it by now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 12:45 PM
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I mean again, are you tall or at least average height and/or have a strong jaw? Do women tell you that you’re attractive or handsome? Do you find getting sex easy on tinder or other apps? Do women lead the conversations on tinder? Can you find casual sex easily or have a high amount of success? Do you get women checking you out in public? Do women like you approaching them in public? Do women approach you in public? There are a lot of ways for a man to tell his attractiveness or his unattractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:35 AM
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You’re still dodging my question on your looks though. A lot of attractive men keep believing that what they can do any guy can, without realizing that attractive men just play by different rules in this and it’s not necessarily their “game” but their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:21 AM
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Lol you rang? You have to realize that I’m not the entire male population though, and I can’t speak for every man. I doubt all 3.5 billion think like i do, hell I doubt even a majority do. Go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:15 AM
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Well how do you look? Are you tall/average height and/or have a strong jaw? Because women have continuously said that they don’t like being approached in public unless they’re physically attracted to them. Like go on any women centered sub that’s not FDS (them girls are crazy) like Trollx or Twox or Askwomwn, and most answers support this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:07 AM
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Okay but how do you look? Because yeah this absolutely does work if you’re attractive, but this kind of thing doesn’t work if you’re not Chadlite+. This advice really doesn’t help the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:00 AM
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Fucking thank you. If I, at 5’6 with an plain face according to lookism, can find not just 1 gf, but multiple throughout my life, then anyone can. Granted I would much rather be having casual sex, but is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:54 AM
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Not to discount your experience because it absolutely is valid, but I am 5’6 and have an average face. I can’t get casual sex but finding LTRs has always been kind of easy for me. And it’s not with women that are bottom of the barrel, it’s with average, above average, and I even dated a Stacy for like 6 months (but she was a literal certified nutjob). I’ve been able to find these LTRs in High School, College and now my 20s (I’m 27) and they all were attracted to me, initiated sex more than or we…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:52 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:22 AM
2

lol aiight you cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 12:38 AM
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Truerateme rated me 8-9 Okay so that’s why you’re successful. If you didn’t have an 8-9 face you wouldn’t be as successful regardless of attitude and shit. Your entire second paragraph is what I do basically on autopilot. I have straight teeth, I use whitening strips, as I stated before (or to someone else) I really have never had any sort of skin problems. Even so I do have a skincare routine and have had one for many years. Also I used to believe I was attractive, I used to be so narcissistic …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 12:12 AM
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I agree with you in that looks are based around a number of things coming together and having one high enough will offset the other. That’s kind of why all the incel arguments of Face > Height doesn’t make sense, because you can’t really succeed in getting laid with just one or the other so it’s something I really disagree with them on. You mentioned your height, but how is your face? Is it what most women would consider attractive? I’m kind of screwed because I have neither, and I absolutely be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:41 PM
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I mean no one is going to get hit by the government for going out and saying they don’t support women’s rights. There are protests, and you can’t go to jail because freedom of speech (for now anyway). Corporations might not hire you, and some people won’t want to associate for you, so it can hurt you in a professional or social way, but the government is saying you have to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 06:09 PM
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Lol okay, but there’s a difference. Socializing could just be for platonic reasons, no flirting or anything like that involved. These women are speaking with these dudes with the intent of sex/relationships in mind. That’s what I meant by being “approached” in this context, when the person man or woman initiates a conversation with you to flirt and has sexual/romantic intentions to do so. She is initiating the interaction, she is doing the chasing. And not every man has that happen to him, only …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:47 PM
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Across the venue, 6 feet away, same difference. The point is that these women didn’t even know the men prior and approached them and started talking and flirting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:22 PM
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I’ve seen it happen to my Chad looking friends at bars and music festivals. Women they never even met came up to them and starting flirting with them lol. Plenty of other stories, even from this sub, support that it indeed happens, but only to attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:13 PM
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Yes. Whether it’s at a party, or club, or bar, or even just in public while you’re running errands. If she’s approaching you for sex, or even romance, that’s really only for Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:51 PM
2

“Approached” as in women approach you in public with intents that are more than platonic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:10 PM
1

You sure you’re just not clueless to your looks? Are you average height/tall with a strong jaw?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:09 PM
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Then I must be hideous, I’ve never been approached once.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:08 PM
1

A couple things can be because of that. Your friends aren’t really that attractive. I get that you might not be able to tell because you’re most likely a straight dude, but if your friends aren’t getting at least approached by women once in a blue moon they’re probably physically unattractive whether it’s because they’re too short, or their faces aren’t attractive. I think women on this sub or others say that what men consider to be “average men” isn’t actually average but unattractive and what …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:08 PM
1

I don’t really know what makes it work/how to do it but I get approached regularly You’re considered was 80% of women consider attractive in terms of your physical appearance. Women really only approach you if they find you physically attractive. It’s really not that hard to figure out...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:49 AM
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Pretty much this. The only dudes who get approached are Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:47 AM
1

Of course it’s face over everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:15 PM
1

I mean I’ve already accepted it, I’m just going to be miserable about it the rest of my life. Is what it is though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:17 AM
2

I mean, do you think I haven’t thrown in effort already into self improvement? I’ve been self improving for the last 10 years and have only LTRs at best to show for it. It’s why I’m so depressed, because even after throwing in all the effort I ddI I still failed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:11 AM
2

I agree. I went to a public university on the East Coast and the frat dudes certainly didn’t look like these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:10 AM
2

I’m not angry at women for not wanting me for casual sex, I’m also not mad at Chad for it either. I hate myself for not being good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:07 AM
1

I mean paying an experience essentially means it isn’t real or organic. She doesn’t want you, she wants you to finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:06 AM
2

Oh by all means, chase who you want. But don’t complain that you have absolutely no options if you have options for dudes that aren’t as attractive. You have options, you just don’t want to take them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:01 AM
1

Lol I wish I was attractive enough be a fuckboy. I’d choose that shit any day of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:17 AM
1

What do you mean? People showed their SOs in their photos?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 12:28 PM
1

Lol you’d be surprised. They’ve never been fat or bottom of the barrel in looks women. My gfs have been above average, one was even a Stacy but she was extremely fucked up in the head and she was the shortest serious gf I’ve ever had. All I can get are LTRs, I’m not settling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 03:08 AM
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100%, I’ve literally seen that scenario happen in front my eyes. Another is sympathy for mental health. Attractive person says they’re depressed? “Oh no, that’s so tough. Tell me about it. I’m so sorry you feel that way.” Ugly person? “Yo, I’m not your therapist. You bum me out way too much”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:58 PM
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No. She wasn’t attracted to me then, because I most likely wasn’t attractive to her then. Getting mad at the effects of self improvement after putting so much work into it is stupid as hell. Of course this is only regarding physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:52 PM
2

Face is much more important actually, especially with girls in college. Physique really isn’t important as long as you’re not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:07 AM
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Okay but again, are you, looks wise, the kind of dude sorority chicks want to fuck? Because we’re not talking about LTRs, we’re talking about casual sex here and they are like any woman where above all else, it’s looks > everything. You don’t have to be in a frat, or have ever been in a frat, because sorority chicks will have sex with dudes not in frats. In college I knew a guy who wasn’t in a frat, but was Chad looking and he used to always bang sorority chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:01 AM
10

5’6 actually. And in the US, thats short looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:25 AM
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It’s not about sexual strategy you absolute sperg. The Redpill is a term that’s used a lot culturally in society since the Matrix came out. It means to unplug and fight the system. My god 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:36 AM
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I think it’s been shown in dozens of studies that good looking people have an all around better life. Studies show that being more attractive make it more likely to get a promotion, even if your uglier coworker might be more qualified. You more chances to find more partners. You are able to make friends easier, even if they aren’t interested sexually or your looks, people will want to just associate with you. It’s a couple things. Halo vs Horns effect. Everyone here spoke about it already, and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:31 AM
1

Right. That’s why you shouldn’t get into hobbies to try to get laid, because your hobbies don’t matter if youre not already attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:34 PM
3

No OP. I’ve known slayers who loved anime (like watching it in Japanese shit), PC gaming and not just all the popular games which one of them built himself, and Magic. They were tall and attractive so it never effected their SMV. Fact is, you can like any sort of hobby, but as long as you have good looks no one will even give a shit about it. The same way that hobbies won’t help you get laid if you’re already not attractive. So really, are you a dude that sorority chicks want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:15 PM
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Exactly. It’s true, a man can absolutely breathe and continue to have motor functions without sex, he can survive; but mentally he’s not exactly going to be well in the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:11 PM
1

It probably is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:09 PM
1

That’s very true. The whole “CIA sold black People crack” is something I absolutely believe. It destroyed the community, I live in Philadelphia that’s slowly up and coming, and it’s a few blocks from a really bad section. The community is still feeling the wounds from the crack epidemic. Then the incarceration leaving many black children without fathers for some dumb shit like carrying a dime bag. A lot needs to change and there have been some terrible systemic problems in America targeting blac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:07 PM
2

Oh for sure, I don’t think the entire black community as a whole is bad and I have friends and coworkers that are black that I fully consider to be fine people. But there’s definitely a behavior that most people fall into, but I cant even begin to think of a solution to this, and besides where would I get off trying to develop one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:05 PM
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Yeah it’s a really bad stereotype that black men just sort of abandon their kids immediately, but it’s rooted in some truth. Then because they have no father figure, these kids become the more ghetto guys who do the same shit. For this reason, I’ve noticed the less “ghetto” black women more and more choosing to be with men of other races. These women get branded as “acting white” or “stuck up” when really they just act like normal non trashy people. The black community needs to start taking char…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:35 PM
1

Each and every woman in your area? Unless you’ve spoken to every woman in your area I doubt that you or anyone can know this for a fact. Will they appear much much less often? Of course, which is why it’s better to be the definition of attractive that women in your area generally find. I’m kind of blackpilled, but even I know that a person can’t be unattractive to everyone. Now is it possible to be unattractive to the women you find attractive? Yes, absolutely, in which case you’ve got a problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:12 PM
8

In dating? Well for casual sex the shorter you are the less likely you will be able to get casual sex because women tend to only do it with tall or average height men unless these short men are exceptionally handsome. For LTRs it doesn’t matter as much as many people say, take it from a short man with an average face, if I can find LTRs easily then anyone can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:08 PM
1

There’s like 3.5 billion women, you’ll be attractive to one or more of them. Yes even if you’re Elephant Man. Could it be a small percentage? Of course it can be. Obviously it’s way better to be attractive to most women, but don’t pretend that there is such a thing as universally attractive/unattractive because yes, even Chad will get rejected by some women along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 11:30 PM
2

I think there can be some variation in what each person finds attractive, but a huge majority of both straight/bi men and women find the same things attractive in the opposite sex. Sure, Chad might not be attractive to 1/4 girls in any given group, but 3/4 girls in that group absolutely would fuck him and are attracted to him. It’s impossible to be attractive to everyone, just like it’s impossible to be unattractive to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 11:03 PM
3

It helps, but really enthusiasm turns me on more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:38 PM
1

Physically? No you can live without sex. Mentally? Well, just ask the incels
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:00 PM
1

No one is entitled or owed sex. If you are not satisfied with the amount of sex you and your partner have, whether it’s too little or too much (or they just ask too much), then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:10 PM
8

This is absolutely true. No one talks about it because men are always seen as infinitely horny, but sex and everything gets old after a bit. A woman can be fine with the same partner her entire life as long as he continues to stay attractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:09 PM
1

I do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:07 PM
6

Spot on. Men are on tinder to try to get laid, women want a partner and she’s aware she has a better chance on apps like bumble, or honestly just going out IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:06 PM
1

Oh no, these women are absolutely delusional. And then if you ask them what makes them a HVW they’ll say shit like “only a LVM would ask that”. They’re so hellbent on getting a Beta Chad, that anything less isn’t good enough. By all means if you don’t want to settle and are willing to wait for Prince Chadding to come wake you up and save you from all the dwarves you hate so much, you can do that and no one will stop you. But stop complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:02 PM
1

Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:38 PM
0

He does, but doesn’t change what was said in the post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:19 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:15 AM
1

Some men get zero attention or have any real options so they fall for sex workers because they assume that because sex has happened these sex workers are genuinely interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:14 AM
1

Well the wall is the idea that your looks no longer attract people right? Well most men are born at the wall anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:22 PM
3

Yeah I can’t deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:19 PM
1

Exactly. If the men aren’t perfect robots that do everything correctly constantly, they’re LVM. In the same way incels want sexbots, they want these relationshipbots they can program into perfect bfs/husbands, and that’s just not how human interaction works. I get it, you got screwed over once or twice by a guy, but stop assuming the damn worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:11 PM
1

To be fair, I didn’t see it. Can you link it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:04 AM
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When did I even say that lol? Of course they shouldn’t you psycho. That is straight up whataboutism. You’re literally saying that men under 6 feet should be castrated and unable to reproduce. You genuinely sound like a Nazi progranda poster here. If you want to make jokes about men getting raped in prison by all means then you’d have an equal situation. Big again you’re literally telling men they aren’t good enough to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:01 AM
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Oh yeah. If you want to get laid as a short guy, you need an attractive face. Not even a good looking face, an attractive face. It always boggles my mind how Reddit is so bent on getting short guys to not believe the truth. I think it’s absolutely possible for short men to get gfs, even attractive ones. But casual sex? You’re literally not tall enough to qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:55 PM
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The other dude that replied to you said it better than I did. So yeah you’re literally saying the incels are right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:52 PM
0

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:47 PM
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Lol I’ve heard this said even by my female coworkers. And when you’re at a party, your female friends get quite chatty amongst themselves and will sometimes make off hand comments about men’s looks and height when they forgot you were or you enter the conversation at the wrong time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:43 PM
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Lol to be fair the only place I’ve ever seen people say I height doesn’t matter is Reddit. IRL and like every other social media outlet people absolutely do say height matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:39 PM
12

You know you’re just validating the incel beliefs right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:38 PM
7

I personally think this was the best, most entertaining Purge I’ve seen in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:31 PM
1

I guess I consider young still teenager, maybe like up to 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:43 PM
2

Congrats, it’s implied I’m making a general statement and special situations like yourself exist. I was on FDS and I saw so many misandrists posts essentially bashing short men or unattractive men for their looks. And a lot of the women just sort of joined in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:32 PM
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Eh, go on r/short and you’ll hear tons of stories of men getting rejected for their height flat out (as in “you’re not tall enough). I have a group of friends, and there are women in it, and they’re all shorter than me (I’m 5’6 for reference) and all of them have said they require a man be at least 5’11+. Also have heard it from my female coworkers, one is 4’11 and she requires a man to be 5’10, its not even a preference, it’s a requirement. Plus, it’s not just young girls, it’s girls in their 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:30 PM
2

One thing I can say for sure, the KandyApplez reveal is the best thing to happen during this purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:21 AM
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To be fair, it’s due in part to many women requiring a man tombs 6 feet and/or ridiculing short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:17 AM
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FDS women hate anything below attractive looking men. I know incels say “wOmen HATe iNCels FOR bEIng UGLy” which isn’t true, they just feel nothing toward them and don’t want to fuck then, but the ladies at FDS despise men so much it’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:24 PM
9

As do I. Male Zoomers are going to be getting jaw and chin implants more than any other generation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:23 PM
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I honestly think they were just looking for a reaction, which you gave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:19 PM
1

Femcels don’t claim to not get sex, they claim to not get commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:42 PM
1

Follow up questions. How are you less of an incel and what do you feel defines an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:07 PM
1

But society doesn’t judge women for getting plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:29 PM
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Honestly I would have been fine with pump and dump, I can’t even get casual sex. Yeah you’re lucky you had that experience, I couldn’t give a shit if a woman actually cared about anything more than my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:19 PM
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I don’t even know what pill Male/Straight No interest in her appearance or doesn’t try. Not just talking about physical fitness, but style, makeup, skincare, hair. Plenty of slim women dressing terribly and looking like slobs. No direction or plan for her life. If she has no aspirations for career or future, I’m sorry but that’s not someone I’d want to be in an LTR with. Unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:18 PM
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I’m not Chad, I’m quite literally the farthest thing from Chad, but I have always found that I feel desired in an LTR. I’ve seen the incels, they’re mostly just average looking. Any guy can get an LTR and have a woman who truly loves them and desires them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:01 PM
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Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 12:58 PM
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Bout to raid Area 51 for my alien gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 12:56 PM
2

Are you still an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:21 AM
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Look, my misery isn’t messing with my life IRL. I still have my friends, my gf, my job, my family, and my hobbies. I just hide it well and don’t talk to anyone about my issues. Not everyone has to be happy with their lives, where people mess up is when they talk about it with people IRL where it can damage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:07 PM
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Yeah. It’s the same with the liberals who advocate for a socialist or communist regime change. They are aware they won’t necessarily be living a better life, hell it might even be worse in some ways, but as long as those bad rich people get what they deserve they’re willing to deal with it. It’s not about improving your lives, it’s about giving everyone a life as shitty as you. I’m sure plenty of these Doomers are either gonna kill them selves when society collapses because they can’t stick it o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:32 PM
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Lol yeah I figured, I just wanted to see her argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:26 PM
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What do you mean you guys? And what do you mean homosrotic?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:17 PM
1

With your fully grown beard you look like a low rent sad Ben Affleck. Stick with the no smiling pics, maybe learn how to smirk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:58 PM
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Yeah yeah yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:53 PM
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PA, specifically southeast PA
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:13 PM
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FDS can only see it in ugly men. When Chad finally gives them a crumb of attention they turn into the biggest simps for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:51 PM
1

Exactly. How would becoming a woman make me get casual sex from other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:49 PM
1

Thanks. I get LTRs just fine. I find your advice bullshit, but I appreciate the gesture
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:46 PM
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Again dude, that back piece is so cool. Do you mind dropping your artist’s name and shop? Whoever they are they’re super talrnted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:44 PM
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Lol she fucks Chad because she’s attracted to him, she fucks you for money which makes her nothing more than a glorified prostitute. Congrats, you have a hooker with extra steps. Your looks are you, money is just a resource you have. I mean I get LTRs just fine, I always have with women who are above average, one was even a Stacy. I just can’t get casual sex, or get women to act this way without offering some sort of commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:21 PM
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lol you’d be surprised. I absolutely hide all of this shit IRL, most people think I’m a happy, sociable, and relatively confident person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:19 PM
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lol I can’t even get any women to worship the ground I walk on unless I’m in an LTR with them at best. I would be so happy if Beckies did this shit without me giving any sort of commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:04 PM
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I’ve considered the LL, and honestly it’s just not a realistic surgery for like 95% of people who would get it lol you don’t have to give up one to get the other. Plenty of rich successful Chads, especially if they were in frats and are WASPs. I’ve also known plenty of Chads that graduated college with a 3.5+ GPA and ended up working as CPAs, financial advisors, bankers, and yes even Engineers. I honestly just want to be Chad for the validation. I’ve done plenty of other things. Hobbies, friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:01 PM
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Lol there’s no validation in paying for sex. The only true attraction is if she is attracted to your looks. Which is what I want, the validation. Also you seem to think Chad is just automatically broke? Plenty of rich and successful Chads. Get real. You’re right I’m not Chad. I’ve accepted it, I’m extremely miserable about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:57 PM
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Holy shit, he really does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:35 AM
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Well, kind of. It’s actually a lot harder to get matches on Bumble than on Tinder in my experience. I got a lot of matches on tinder, and barely a fraction of that I got on Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:57 AM
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Tranny or not I would still fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:42 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:41 AM
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Both. My current gf and I met on Bumble, but I met a few of my exes through my friends, others were online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:39 AM
1

You’re talking about the song by the woman who made the song Hot Girl Summer and you’re surprised about the lyrical content?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:34 AM
1

None of the members of the TRP have killed anyone either. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:31 AM
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Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:30 AM
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Idk man, I listen to literally anything. Going through my Spotify the artists I listened to just today are Gleemer (a shoe gaze/spacey band), Childish Gambino (Rap), Poppy’s metal album, Michael Haggins (Jazz), Brockhampton, (Rap/Pop), Innerpartystem (Electronic), Alexisonfire (Post Hardcore), and Dance Gavin Dance (Screamo). I listen to literally anything you throw at me, I’ll try any artist/band at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:25 AM
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Fin is a literal boner killer, and it gives you gyno.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:19 AM
1

Lol Adam Driver? He’s so ugly, if he wasn’t famous no one would find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:25 AM
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Oh I don’t doubt that I wouldn’t care if I got it, but that’s the problem, I don’t get that kind of attention or treatment from women unless I’m dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:24 AM
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I mean I’m not rich at all. I was able to find LTRs in college and high school when I was super broke as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:51 PM
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No actually, except for one. But it’s because she was a certified psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:50 PM
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That also is something I’ve been toying with, ya know just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:08 PM
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I’ve never known any whatsoever. They’re probably not as average looking as you think. I don’t deny that at 5’6 if I had an attractive face I could still slay, but I don’t yet. I’m going to get a jaw implant though which should make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:56 PM
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Okay but what’s 4 inches shorter? I’m 5’6, and I’m definitely not above average. Lookism rated me as plain, and I get treated like an average looking dude. And trust me dude, I tried, I tried for years and I never got any sort of casual sex. ,And wait how old were you doing this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:47 PM
1

Sure. But purpose or not, only hot dudes can make women do the shit mentioned in these tweets. It’s the validation that you got women to do this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:37 PM
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Aren’t you a Chad? You’re like a person born into a millionaire family and wondering why other people don’t have a million dollars. You need looks to even qualify for casual sex. Otherwise the best you’ll get is an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:36 PM
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I like Lizzo’s music, she is really talented. But she is not beautiful, she is so fat and she continues to get fatter like every time I see her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:16 PM
2

In the tweets? Not personally, but I have female and male friends. Any time a woman talks about this shit it’s always a guy who looks like a Chad, and any dude that makes women do the shit described is a Chad. Women don’t stand for that kind of treatment from average men, they know they can get the same from a better looking guy so it’s worth dealing with more. Otherwise I would have been able to make girls simp like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:11 PM
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Lol whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:08 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:06 PM
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Again, no average dude gets treatment like this or gets women to pine after them when they aren’t even dating them. Like I said, the only men to get this kind of treatment in a casual sense were Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:03 PM
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I would have liked the ability to find out for myself. I guess you’re gonna tell me being a millionaire isn’t that great either?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:02 PM
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Yeah looks don’t matter for an LTR, otherwise I would have never had any. But for casual sex they are all that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:02 PM
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It happens all the time, just happens to Chads. Go find the original twitter thread, there are hundreds of replies of women saying the same types of things. And they were all talking about men they weren’t even in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:01 PM
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Already said this, but the men these tweets are talking about are men these women aren’t in LTRs with. Check the first post in this group of postings from the OP. These men were just banging these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:59 PM
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Yes but these women were doing it outside of an LTR. Of course I can get it in an LTR, anyone can. Who cares about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:58 PM
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He means outside an LTR with the man not offering any sort of commitment or resources. Of course all men have had gfs do nice things for them. But these women were talking about men who they were hooking up with in the original tweet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:57 PM
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Different strokes, different folks. But I would at least like the ability to find out for myself. I never even got the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:55 PM
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lol no average looking dude makes women simp like this. Every dude I’ve ever known even kind of capable of this are all Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:54 PM
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I honestly could care less about LTRs though. I really don’t care if they even like me for me, women letting you fuck them casually means that you are indeed physically attractive, and really the only thing I want is the validation. Trust me, I’d give up every single LTR I’ve ever had to be able to be Chad and get casual sex in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:52 PM
1

Hold up, saw you’re a guy. In which case I wish I could have your life. Like that’s all I ever wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:46 PM
1

Yeah, it’s unfortunate. I can’t even get casual sex with alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:44 PM
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Yeah but only for a small percentage of men. It’s the same guy who make multiple women do this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:43 PM
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I mean I have gotten good sex with my exes and currently do get good sex in my LTRs. But again I have to offer commitment to get those things. Hell I can’t even get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:42 PM
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It doesn’t really give me that much solace, because attention and shit like this is all I’ve ever wanted. But whatever thanks I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:30 PM
1

It means you’re a Becky. Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:25 PM
1

Quality shitpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:25 PM
7

This has been such a good purge honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:23 PM
1

Hoes mad x 24
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:23 PM
1

lol saw some stuff you liked in the picture thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:22 PM
1

It’s only toxic if you’re not good enough to engage in it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:21 PM
2

Agreed. All the women who answered what their perfect man is said it was “tall”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:21 PM
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Honestly I’m glad this black pill is spreading, but I think we get it man. Now this shit is just making me suicidal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:19 PM
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Sure, but looks are still required for anything else to matter. It’s possible for a guy’s attitude to make an 8 into a 4 (amount of time it takes will vary), but attitude alone can’t make a 4 into an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:17 PM
1

Tfw you can’t get women to simp for you like this. Like imagine getting so much sexual attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:15 PM
2

Hey it’s the tranny! Welcome back to PPD, gonna talk all your shit again?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:48 PM
1

Look at the picture thread and you tell us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:47 PM
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I don’t hate FDS. By all means if men can have TRP and incels then women can have FDS. The issue I have is how reddit deals with them and doesn’t extend a quarantine to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:46 PM
1

Cool. I don’t need people to feel sorry for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:36 AM
1

Haha thank you. Years of practice, even when I move to a new city I have finding a good hair stylist down to a science
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:45 PM
2

Lol I got banned by calling out that loser BrazillianSigma for posting 18 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:42 PM
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That’s why I always say Gold Diggers are just glorified prostitutes. I’m sorry, but being attracted to some dude’s money is the same reason why hookers have sex when you pay their rate. Some dudes need a reality check, money can’t make up for your lack of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:52 PM
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Of course. But you know that she most likely has a some dude on the side. All these mail order brides and husbands (because I found out they have men who come for green cards too) have affairs when the cameras stop rolling. It’s how they work, they find the most desperate Americans who are at the bottom of the barrel and will have to settle for their looksmatch or just being alone and stay with them long enough for their green card and for immigration to get off their back. Meanwhile they are al…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:34 PM
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Sad as hell. That show depresses me, these men and women clearly aren’t in love and are using each other. It’s just watching the bottom of the barrel show how desperate they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:29 PM
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Like yeah “I just don’t think we had enough time to get to know each other”, we know what it is. You’re not attracted to him, no one is stupid enough. Like she doesn’t even seem like a girl in love, she looks so uncomfortable and you can clearly see she is wondering if this is even worth it. I checked her Instagram and she is still with him btw and has had kids with him. I’d almost feel bad for them, if she wasn’t obviously using him, and he wasn’t so stupid. Sad people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:27 PM
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Lol all those 90 day fiancé episodes are just women using the men to get their green cards. My favorite is the girl from Columbia who came to the US to be with this dude who claimed he was rich, but actually lived with his parents on some farm in the middle of bum fuck nowhere and she was like so shocked. I also have a feeling that some of the stories are created by the studio. Don’t get me wrong, it happens, but some of them are just too perfect. Like the guy who gets the girl from Russia who l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:28 PM
3

Whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:24 PM
3

I like black women, I think most men do but I’m an ass man so that could be it The problem is that almost all the black centric communities are “ghetto” and push that kind of lifestyle and they act the way they do because of their communities. Plenty of educated black women though with bodies like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:21 PM
3

Yeah it’s just the same 5 topics debated over and over again. The purge breaks up the monotony, but it’s just gonna be the same shit when it’s over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:17 PM
2

Look at all those notifications. Someone is popular
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:13 PM
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A Filipina who is using him for a green card? Yeah dudes a real Chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:51 PM
1

I’ve seen it constantly spread on reddit and other social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:47 PM
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By all means, if women want a space like TRP or the incel subreddit, you can have it. But reddit has to treat it like they do the incel and TRP which is by quarantining it. It’s not the subject on FDS which pisses me off, it’s the double standard it implies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:45 PM
1

Lol if they are average then by definition they’re not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:42 PM
1

Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:59 AM
1

Kandyapplez is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:58 AM
2

You’re nailing the mom? Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:56 AM
1

You posted a pic of an average body and got mad that men didn’t call you hot? What were you expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:54 AM
2

Some serious acid was spit, but honestly yeah. She/he was so blackpilled and hated on dudes so much, and she/he was a fraud the whole time. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:49 AM
7

Skip leg day to work those glam muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:45 AM
5

Oh yeah that’s why you have threads about how men are inadequate, and a bunch of other misandrist shit?Get real you’re just as bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:42 AM
2

He looks so dead inside holy shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:44 PM
2

I’ve been doing at home work outs. Are they the same as working with real weights? No, not even close I miss the gym like crazy. But at least I can get exercise. Good news though, it shouldn’t take you too terribly long to get back up to where you were
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:56 PM
1

Depends what drugs. According to the list he gave he’s not doing Meth, Crack or Heroine. So honestly he could be doing a lot worse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:50 PM
1

It’s like I have my own Chris Crocker
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:33 PM
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For real, you can say you’re attractive in the mirror all day but if no one else thinks it isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:32 PM
1

Rest well king
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:35 PM
1

I’m not in the mood for a retreading of stuff I’ve said a thousand times, so let’s just agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:29 PM
2

I know right?! That guy is such a loser!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:26 PM
4

Enthusiasm is what matters more to me honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:24 PM
1

Woah now, let’s not get ahead of ourselves here. I may be short crybaby as depicted in this photo, but I ain’t black!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:22 PM
1

Me!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:20 PM
1

How did you find my throwaway I used from the picture thread?! It was supposed to be a secret!!!! 😡😡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:19 PM
1

No that would be pretty dumb of mw
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:57 PM
1

I couldn’t find it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:10 PM
4

I’d kill for that experience. Can’t imagine getting such validation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:09 PM
1

Lol how did you even know it was me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:25 PM
2

You the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:49 PM
5

It truly is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:41 PM
2

I get it. Humans tend to project their views and edited on others. To most people, casual sex doesn’t seem like a huge goal to be overly depressed like I do, and loving LTRs are the goal. I of course have found loving LTRs, and honestly I’d much rather have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:31 AM
3

I don’t want to have casual sex with just Stacies lol. I’m absolutely fine with average girls or Beckies. They don’t need to be hot. And yeah, why the hell not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:27 AM
3

Yeah but how do these women look? If it’s the bottom of the barrel then what’s the point? Also, you take your cousin’s word for it? He might be lying which is what men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:15 AM
4

Meh, what do I care about my future son? It won’t be me. Hell if I’m lucky I won’t even have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:13 AM
1

Don’t get me wrong, if there was anyone I have to be in an LTR with it’s her. I’d just much rather be hot and able to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:53 AM
1

Lol I’d give everything up to be a Chad any day of the week. I never even had the pretty boy status
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:50 AM
1

Been there, and take depression meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:49 AM
3

Like I said, I already accepted it can never happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:01 AM
3

I mean I have that with my gf already. It doesn’t make me want the validation from casual sex any less. Again finding LTRs has never been a problem, even good, healthy LTRs, but any guy can get those. Casual sex is legit all I’ve ever truly wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:43 AM
1

I’m kinda dyslexic and I missed it I guess. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:36 AM
6

I mean, it’s not like I haven’t lived other aspects and done other things with my life. I’ve traveled, I have hobbies, I work a job I don’t hate in a career I went to school for. And it’s not like I didn’t spend time to try to get it, I did, I spent a lot of time and have been putting in a lot of effort toward my looks for over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:35 AM
1

Casual sex is validating for men. Meanwhile any man can get an LTR so they aren’t validating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:33 AM
11

I guess. I’ve already accepted it and know I’ll never get it, doesn’t mean I have to be happy about it. Doesn’t effect my life negatively in terms of friends, my gf, work, or family so whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:32 AM
6

lol sure it is. At best money and status raise you’re RMV, not SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:30 AM
1

Then how are we the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:29 AM
1

Lol you’re almost definitely not average looking then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:27 AM
3

lol not in my experience. LTRs are so easy for men to get because they can more easily up their RMV. SMV is much tougher for men which is what casual sex is based off of. I’m short and average looking, so finding casual sex isn’t in the cards for me. Otherwise I would have had it by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:24 AM
1

No it’s that most men can’t get women for casual sex, most men here have had or currently have an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:23 AM
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For that to work, I would need to be billionaire level and the women would be glorified prostitutes only after the money, the attraction won’t be real. And for status, I would need to be celeb level status more than anything. The only true attraction and true way to be Chad is through looks, money and status won’t make you a Chad. The women won’t truly be attracted so there’s no validation there which I why I want to be Chad, for the validation of being Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:22 AM
1

For casual sex, definitely. But any average looking dude can get an LTR. I’m short and have an average face and have had multiple LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:20 AM
2

I’m 27, currently in an LTR, and Ive never been able get casual sex so getting up to 20 isn’t going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:15 AM
1

I think 20 is the place I would like to be
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:11 AM
1

Depends what look you’re going for honestly. That’s what determines what product to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:55 AM
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Hate to break it to you, but it wasn’t Med School. you literally just said you hit the genetic lottery and ended up getting good facial genetics. So by that alone makes you Chad. It’s not your choice of your career, it’s your looks idiot. Edit: Went through your post history, and one minute you’re a girl waning to be with tall men, one minute you’re a guy in med school. Pick a character to troll as and stick with it. Or at least keep track of your alts, damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:22 AM
1

That’s fair. I’m pretty selfish overall though, so really I wouldn’t care as long as I got what I want and being able to do it is the most validating part
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:19 AM
13

Lol Chad always wins
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:18 AM
1

Different things matter to different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:12 AM
3

Nice try troll
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:10 AM
1

If that’s what he wants to do, then by all means I can’t tell him what’s right or wrong for his life. The point I’m making is that you can settle down and make your choice to be a simp in your 30s, but you always have the memory of what you had when you were Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:09 AM
3

I don’t know what any of them look like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:06 AM
5

Not gay if the dick is feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:06 AM
1

I’m actually very good at it. Wasn’t always, but working customer service and sales jobs in college kind of teaches you how to speak and interact with people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:05 AM
2

Who cares? He was a Chad and settling down was his choice. Most men settle down because they more or less don’t have any option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:04 AM
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Just imagine what it’s like to be a Chad. Shit is heartbreaking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:01 AM
1

Was he a Chad in his 20s and going out and banging a bunch of women? If so, then he was Chad when it counts. Who the hell cares after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:00 AM
2

What are you even talking about? I honestly don’t care what anyone does except for myself. If men want to fool themselves into thinking she actually finds them physically attractive by paying her for a literal service, go ahead and do it. To me, that shit is pathetic and you’ll never catch me doing that. Also I saw your updated comment. Not all men have to directly pay for sex you idiot. Chads don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:59 AM
2

It does. One is validating, one isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:55 AM
2

Nah. Being Chad is all looks. You can say you’re a Chad in the mirror and genuinely believe it all you want, won’t make girls believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:54 AM
2

I don’t admire Leo. But the thing is that even if I became the kind of guy in my 40s to simp for 18 year old supermodels, I would at least have the validation that in my 20s I was able to get them and have them simp for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:52 AM
3

Saw it, saw them all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:48 AM
2

Forreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:47 AM
3

Yeah but really who can hate OXOzymandias? Dude is just an awesome person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:41 AM
1

Myself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:37 AM
3

Can you expand?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:29 AM
3

Because he still got the attention when he was young. Everyone gets older and fatter, it’s not about being Chad forever, just Chad when you’re in your 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:27 AM
5

Wait this was the same Will Stephenz? Purge has been good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:26 AM
0

Lol nah. An average or confident guy is ignored, women are at least aware they can get the same treatment from someone better looking. Just open tinder and swipe after all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:41 AM
2

I guess it’s just the personal validation I want from the situation 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:36 AM
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It’s great. All these women talking about going over and driving through bad weather, hour long drives, spending hella money, and I couldn’t even get a chick to come to my place once for casual sex. God I wish I were born different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:33 AM
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To be fair I’m not speaking from an objective standpoint. If you value different things and want to pursue those things, then by all means go ahead and do that. But what I mentioned above is what i personally value and being unable to get it has left me miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:32 AM
2

Sure, but manipulation only works if she finds you hot. No woman is pining for an average dude unless she’s like 300lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:30 AM
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No. You do whatever the hell you want, I wasn’t looking to give actual advice. The actual advice is to become Chad or as close to Chad as possible. I tried, I tried for a decade and I failed miserably. All I have to show for it is LTRs, but I could never in my wildest dreams get women to do shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:27 AM
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No one can. You’re either Chad or you’re not. And a life that’s not Chad isn’t even worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:22 AM
2

I know. My question was how was this not a good sample? They’re attractive women who regardless of having an OnlyFans still simped like this for Chad and gave it to him for free
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:21 AM
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Lol you should see the original twitter thread. Honest to god suicide fuel, and it’s not like these women are ugly either, most of them are above average to attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:20 AM
1

Well paying for sex isn’t really having sex, it’s a transaction. It’s the same as a cashier who is nice to me at the grocery store, he/she doesn’t really want to talk to me, they’re just paid to be there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:11 AM
1

Yes. Chad is 100% looks based.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:07 AM
1

How is this not a good sample?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:05 AM
13

True, but probably not with the Chads they want to do it with. Only 20% of men are good enough for casual sex, so finding a casual sex partner can be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:04 AM
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What’s even the point if you can’t get women to simp for you like this? God I would give anything to be Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:03 AM
4

Well yeah because FDS are LVW
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:01 AM
1

Average, so it ain’t over
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:08 PM
1

No? How is it even romantic? It’s just a friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:07 PM
1

Whew lass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:04 PM
13

Lilith appears to be having a bad day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:00 PM
3

Average body for a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:30 PM
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Same. I don’t like her, but to make an entire thread about her... jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:29 PM
2

Whew lad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:28 PM
1

Who was this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:36 AM
1

Thank you queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:32 AM
2

Then, have her sign that as well. Or, look for a career centered woman who doesn’t want to be a SAHM and has a high earning potential. Alimony doesn’t automatically go to the woman, if she makes more she’ll have to pay it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:43 PM
2

Alright but what kind of relationship standard would I be setting for my kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:41 PM
2

If your feel this strongly, have her sign a pre-nup. Or find a woman who makes the same or more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:38 PM
2

I mean I still feel like I’ve always felt. I can compartmentalize my feelings on different topics, and besides my inability to get casual sex never made me hate women ever. I feel strongly about this, because I’m sick of this “all women/men are evil people because I can’t find a good woman/man bullshit”. Sure they’ll throw some other reasons, but it almost always has to do with being romantically successful or unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:35 PM
4

Agreed. Why the hell would I want children with a woman if I’m not even married to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:36 PM
6

Lol all the time in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:34 PM
11

Lol, please tell me why you hate all men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:21 PM
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I don’t hate women. I don’t understand how you can hate an entire gender when you haven’t even met all the members of them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:36 PM
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Agreed. What, one guy/girl rejected you and now all 3.5 billion are horrible people? Get real
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:35 PM
1

No. I’m not attractive enough to have sex with other women, so any slight benefit of having an open relationship wouldn’t even be available to me. Plus, then my gf would just be having sex with other men, what’s even the point of the relationship? I’d rather just be single at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:25 PM
1

Living in a major city helped, but I had some when I was in college too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:49 AM
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Depends. Are you both tall (or fuck it average height) and have a face that is considered attractive by a majority of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:12 PM
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What? Skinny Chad is a tall dude with an attractive face. There was a thread here where women were asked who is more of a Chad, a skinny model looking dude, or a muscular meh looking guy, and they all decided it was the skinny attractive one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:09 PM
1

Again, I was saying that isn’t the case. And people might believe tall because tall women do have problems finding partners for their height
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:52 PM
1

No, that’s a desire. You want your employer to pay you for not doing your job is a desire, it would be a selfish one, but not an entitled one. You’d be entitled if you felt you deserved it. I absolutely understand why women don’t view me worthy of casual sex, and I don’t feel they should because again, I’m not attractive. Entitled: believing oneself to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:35 AM
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I’ve had some of them willing to meet up. None would be down to come over. It’s not like women aren’t willing to do it, the bragging threads on r/tinder showed that yes women do, but only if you’re hot. Some wouldn’t respond at all, others would give one word responses. Like I said, I might as well had zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:33 AM
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According to the dictionary I do. I don’t feel like I deserve casual sex. What don’t you get? I understand the FDS women like to say “entitled” all the time because it’s a bad thing to be and it makes it easier to hate on men. And yeah sometimes they’re right, but this is not a situation. If I felt I deserved anything I would’ve said I did after all. Again the word you’re looking for is selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:22 AM
1

Again, when did I say I deserved anything? Or do I need to read you the definition again?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:12 AM
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Lol sure he does 😂 In a year and a half, 1,000 really isn’t that much. At most it comes out to 13 matches a week, which is just average numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:09 AM
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Well, I’ve never seen it. And it’s not like I just sat in my parents house, I live in a major city, I have a group of friends that have combined through other groups ocassiaonlly, thrown parties, been to clubs, concerts, music festivals, and I’ve never once seen a short average guy slay at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:08 AM
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Mhm. It’s always the righteous path when you’re following it, right? 🙄 Sure, but stop using “entitled”. And I’m sure you are happy. But we can at least admit that the only thing holding me back from what I want is my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:05 AM
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I mean what’s doing well on tinder? Cause yeah I got like over 1,000 matches in a year and a half period. But matches don’t mean anything if you can’t get women to come over for a hookup. And again my features are average, he’s probably is closer to Chad than you think. A good face can make up for below average height any day of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 09:29 PM
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Well I haven’t started dating anyone in like 3 years as I’ve been with my gf, but I met my gf at 24 and I more or less was dating for a good time. She was 20, I didn’t have a preconceived wedding and shit planned out. Fact is if we broke up, yeah it would be sad, but at 24 it’s not the end of the world. I’d hang out with my friends, I’d drink, I’d continue my hobbies and get over it. If I became single now at 27, will soon be 28, yeah it’s time to look to settle down and plan for the long haul.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 09:22 PM
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The thing about a woman’s SMV is that by default it’s already higher than their looksmatched man. It kind of provides them this proof of it, which honestly most women are aware of it anyway. Take my looksmatch, I am 5’6 and my face is average. Now you might say that my looksmatch might be a tall average chick right? No, my looksmatch is a 200lb woman of equal height, because we’re talking about physical and sexual attraction. And ya know what? That 200lb 5’6 woman can go on tinder and find a dud…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 09:16 PM
1

What if you were single?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 11:33 PM
2

In casual sex women are more shallow than men, in LTRs men are more shallow than women. Depends on the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 11:31 PM
1

blah blah husband spends money on me without sex You’d be entitled if you feel you deserve money or romance from him based on some trait you have. That would be entitlement, wanting him to give you romance and him get nothing in return is being selfish. There is a difference, it’s literally defined in the dictionary. I got no problem being called selfish, because I absolutely am a relatively selfish person. But I’m not entitled. Entitled would be if I said I deserved it, which isn’t even close t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:11 PM
5

You’re right. If you’re a man and want to see where you truly stand on the attractiveness scale, all you need to do is make a profile which can take anywhere from 30 seconds to 5 minutes depending on the service and wait. I remember this Chad I was working with showed me while he swiping on Bumble and was like “it’s so easy bro” and getting a match from like every other girl. I never got any sort of a response, easy to figure out why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:33 PM
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Lol you must not be looking at the same FDS I have. So much misandry, so much bashing and body shaming short men, so much “men are inadequate” or “men are useless” posts. It wasn’t too long ago where they were talking about how to manipulate men and “never pay for a meal again”. FDS is just as bad as TRP, it’s the mental outlook with the genders reversed. Like I just had a debate with someone from there and if you go through her post history it’s “throw men away” this and “I hate short men” that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:21 PM
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Yeah I wasn’t able to get casual sex, but I was able to find LTRs and was able to have sex through them when I was younger with girls my age. I’m 27 and I find women my age attractive, I genuinely could not imagine fucking an 18 year old now, that’s legit younger than my sister who is 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:18 PM
1

This. Who wouldn’t want to fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:15 PM
1

I mean in what way? I probably would never seriously date of be in a relationship with any of them, their entire lives revolve around creating the best picture to keep their clout up and I gotta be honest if the only positive you bring is you’re hot, I don’t want to be in a relationship with you. But would I fuck them if they were actually interested in me? Of course I would, who man wouldn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:08 PM
3

Yeah, “here’s a pic of my ass, but I’m also gonna tell you some philosophical bullshit”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:06 PM
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I mean whatever, they’re taking advantage of lonely ass people. But, I do have to respect the hustle because some of these girls make bank. Do I necessarily support it? Nah, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:54 PM
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Reddit is not reality. You have a view on something? Well there’s a community that supports your view and actively will say your view is correct and anyone that doesn’t believe your view will be downvoted and/or banned. But what about the exact opposite of your view? Well there’s another community that does the exact same thing. Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:53 PM
1

You can easily create the persona worst case, go to some acting classes and learn how to act the part. But, it still won’t matter unless you’re attractive. An average looking “badass” is still an average looking badass, and she just won’t be into sleeping with a dude who is average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:12 PM
2

Sure. But the shoes have to come off, and she may just be like “meh, never-mind”, even if you’re about to fuck. I agree with the hair piece though, harder to remove.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 06:33 PM
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Okay, but like no one has those jobs, especially in western countries lol. And besides, you can’t be like “I’m a hitman” even if you did. No one would believe you, and it’s not like you can throw it on your LinkedIn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:57 PM
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I see “Entitled” get thrown around a lot from women that you would consider to be Bluepilled or Pinkpilled. It seems to be the favorite way to say why a guy doesn’t get laid, or is a bad person because they went on r/niceguys can saw a few posts about men saying they deserve sex. By all means, I think plenty of incels, niceguys, even some TRPers feel they deserve sex and are genuinely entitled, but most of the unsuccessful population doesn’t believe that. Very few times do I see any man here say…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:55 PM
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Eh it really depends on your target. If your target are women in rural environments that grew up around blue collar work (father was a blue collar worker) then yeah. But being a construction worker or lumberjack doesn’t really do much for your average city dweller or girl who grew up in the suburbs in their McChataues, unless he also happens to be Chad level in looks so it never really mattered. So yeah, being a hand dirty kind of worker I suppose would help with a chick from Iowa, but it ain’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:48 PM
2

I mean of course, but that isn’t what is holding men back. It’s the fact that they aren’t attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:44 PM
1

I never said that I thought being in an LTR would mean that she thinks I’m replaceable imply that I am replaceable. I saw someone else made that comment, but I never did. Go through our conversation and please link to me when I said that. Because that’s not how I feel at all. In fact, my entire view point on LTRs is that men can easily find them. Casual sex is what is difficult to find if you’re not in the top 20% of looks. But relationships? Any dude can find a girlfriend, and if my gf broke up…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:28 PM
2

Education/career/job doesn’t raise the SMV for women. Education/career/job may raise the SMV for a man as long as that job is near celeb status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:43 PM
1

How is this not known? Of course you can’t be a blubbering idiot 24/7 and expect it to work. Doesn’t mean you can’t feel all of your emotions, but if you’re feeling sensitive all the time she won’t want to be around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:42 PM
1

Who says that if I thought women were as “depraved” as me was a bad thing lol? Judging would imply that I consider it a bad thing, I don’t lol. Woah, I never assumed that the women who are in LTRs with me didn’t really like me. You’re limping me in with other people and assuming I’m in line with their beliefs. It might surprise you, but people aren’t all the same and believe the same things. I know my current gf loves me a lot, I know my previous ones did too because let’s face it, I’m not rich …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 12:38 PM
1

I’m sorry, for casual sex all a woman has to do is not be fat and too ugly and she’s got it. Women are basically fed casual sex, all she needs to do is go on tinder and she can have a dude over in a couple hours if she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:28 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:11 PM
5

FDS is kind of like TRP already. Seriously if you take the gender specific part out, it’s hard to see a difference as an outsider looking into both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:10 PM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:45 PM
3

Lol why even go to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:42 PM
1

Sure, but almost every woman I have met has engaged in some form of casual sex whether it be via ONS or FWBs. They just only do it with a select group of guys who have certain features that match up. Makes sense, it’s just sex, of course they do it with people they find attractive. Yes desires can be based on entitlement Okay, but again I don’t think I deserve casual sex, and that’s even after spending all the time, money, and energy on looksmaxxing. I don’t blame a single woman for my inability…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:55 AM
1

Again for sex only through an LTR, it means you’re not physically attractive. It means you have to give in some sort of resource and other factors to appear attractive. What I want is to be physically attractive, I don’t care if she fucks someone else the next day, I got the validation I wanted from the situation. Also women are offered casual sex all the time, so if she chooses you for casual sex, you are the best of the best and better than other men. Any guy can get an LTR, very few can get c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:16 AM
2

lol corona hasn’t made it more difficult for short men, it’s always been difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:11 AM
1

Well casual sex is more validating, you’re not giving in any sort of commitment for her to want you. Plus, if she is willing to just have sex with you for nothing else other than she is attracted to you, that means you are indeed attractive. Even if she and I are splitting everything, I still have to give her commitment and other resources in some way. Plus I don’t see the use of LTRs and marriage, I get enough companionship from friends and family to where when I’m single I never feel “alone”. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 12:35 AM
3

Sure, but which one would you casually hook up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 12:31 AM
1

Like I said, I can’t tell you what to do with your life. You gotta do what’s best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 12:29 AM
1

It can? If your post realistically relates to the field of work you’re planning on working in. Military service is great, but if you were just a guy standing in front of a gate and you want to go into finance, what does that experience have to do with the finance job? I obviously don’t know what you’re planning to do, but that’s just an example. I work in recruiting, before the pandemic I would sometimes get about 250-300 applicants for one position. And we would only choose one person for that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 12:25 AM
2

Yeah. When I was growing up, doing all the things I do in terms of grooming and style was considered “gay” and actually putting in effort led to ridicule. Nowadays that isn’t a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 11:55 PM
1

I thought the same, I really did. I came out of college with no real experience except the jobs I had in college or internships, just my degree in hand. Finding any job was difficult, and this was during an upturn of the economy. If you haven’t already, I would strongly suggest looking into any internships you can at the moment. Even if it’s not the biggest company, or the best pay, experience is experience. Youth is good and all, but if you’re looking for a position that’s in an office, youth d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 11:52 PM
2

Same thing really. In a time when if you didn’t conform you were shunned, ridiculed, and unable to have a somewhat normal life those problems don’t really exist anymore. Apathy is way better than hate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 11:31 PM
2

A lot more acceptance of non-traditional gender roles. You see it all the time, zoomer men are better groomed and are more fashionable than any other men at their age in previous generations. You might see more men or women believing they are trans, and pursuing that path. Zoomers also are the most accepting of anyone being LGBT, so many men just might be okay with being Bi and dating other men where previously the stigma prevented them from even kind of considering it. There are negatives thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:24 PM
7

Yeah imagine trying to break into the working world now with no experience, at most some college minimum wage jobs and an unpaid internship. I’m like at the tail end of Millenial (1992), and I’ve got a great job with great benefits and a CEO that’s pushing the idea of not laying us off. If I decided to leave for whatever reason, finding a new job would be very difficult, but because I’m still under 30 and I have experience I’m much farther ahead that the Zoomers. If you didn’t get a degree in ST…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:11 PM
2

I believe in an afterlife, I don’t have a specific one I believe in, but I’ll figure it out when I die. That being said I agree, I don’t care about people being degenerate, and according to the definition I would also be “degenerate” if I was attractive enough to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:08 PM
3

Hey, you do you. If you have the options, and a woman is 100% down with this set up, then I don’t see why not to go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:05 PM
5

Well if the requirements for a wife is to be a virgin, they do exist even if they went to college. They’re just overly fat and/or are unattractive looking because they don’t have a feminine body shape or are just very plain looking and we’re ignored by Chads and Brads. So if you’re cool with that then go for it. By all means, you can desire whatever you want, but you gotta sometimes be a tad realistic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:16 PM
8

There are a few reasons for this I have found. Their parents are big on college and push the idea of persuing education, a career, being independent. The women don’t tell their parents they just want to be SAHMs, but it’s an end goal if the career thing doesn’t work out, if they realize they hate working. You see this more in the south or mid west though, in the West coast and East Coast you’ll see women going to school intending to have a career. And to be fair, they do succeed. I know a girl w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:11 PM
1

...Does she not know we’re in the middle of a pandemic? Yeah no shit, we’re not out socializing and meeting new people. We’re not even interacting with anyone but the cashier. If you had friends before the pandemic, you talk to them and “hang out” remotely (my friends and I played a drinking game over discord the other day).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:35 PM
7

Something I’ve heard a lot of boards say is that you should get off reddit because if you constantly stick in echo chambers it’ll cause you nothing but depression and give you a false sense of reality. What are you talking about? I never said everyone is like that? Your entire post is saying that everyone who is telling you to get married is doing it because they’re unhappy and want you to also be unhappy. If you’re not saying that every relationship. At best you’re asking about a super duper sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:34 AM
22

This might be a crazy thought, but people can be and are genuinely happy in their relationships. They promote the idea of being in them because they are happy with their partner and feel it is something other people would also be happy in. I don’t usually subscribe to the “reddit bad” thing, but jeez this shit is fucking you up to the point where you truly believe that everyone in a relationship or married is either miserable or just in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:28 AM
6

Well what is beta-buxxing to you? Because from certain definitions I guess I technically do “Beta Bux” even though my gf and I split everything down the middle with rent, bills, dates sometimes. I’m still able to find and have always found getting LTRs relatively easy like any other man. It’s not the preferred situation, but its the only way for me to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:07 AM
43

You’re acting like they still don’t exist. Plenty of SAHMs out there nowadays, and plenty of women going to college right now intending to be SAHMs in the future. You seem mad that not all women are down for this, being totally stunted career wise and option wise, being stuck in a loveless marriage because they have nowhere to go or any way to make money. Let me ask you something OP, would you be willing to sign a Pre-Nup if you’re future wife asked? Meaning are you okay with promising to give h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:00 AM
11

Well the end goal of TRP is to spin plates, and men are absolutely fine with being played themselves. No real “acceptance” here, it’s the desired goal. And while I’ve never been able to find casual sex, I know for a fact I’d wrap that shit up. If you’re banging someone you don’t even know, and not protecting yourself, you deserve whatever shitty result happens because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:53 AM
2

Stop letting them get away with acting shitty. But that won’t happen, because they can get away with acting shitty because they’re attractive. You’d have to stop human nature altogether here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:50 AM
2

It was a joke. I know what an MBA is, but I don’t understand why it was relevant in the post? This is human psychology, not finance. By all means taking a couple elective courses in psych is interesting but it hardly makes you some sort of “expert” on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:40 PM
1

I have an MBA In what? Armchair psychology? Anyway, I agree. There is a lot of blame going around to just women in general. I on the other hand don’t hate women for my inability to get casual sex, I hate myself for not being good enough after looksmaxxing and throwing in work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 07:27 PM
1

It really is. And LTRs aren’t that hard. The only people who can’t figure out LTRs are the autists who can’t interact with other humans, the lazy ones who think they need to break it off after one fight, or have such crazy expectations for that LTR that they’ll dump that person is they aren’t perfect 100% of the time. Like seriously, they were easy even when I was 16. Here’s how you make an LTR work: Be intimate, be emotional, but don’t be a blubbering mess 100% of the time. I seriously think TR…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:30 PM
24

They can get super fat due to genetics (some women don’t show too bad, others really do show), develop gestational diabetes, develop stretch marks, any tattoos in the stomach area are ruined, vagina needs to stretch to let the baby out and just won’t be the same again, or a C Section is done leaving a nasty scar on the uterus. There are tons of shit that happen during the pregnancy, and even after she could develop postpartum depression or psychosis. I genuinely do not know why a woman would wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:54 PM
5

As with many CMVs I agree with your post partly. But, being able to be in the top 20% may or may not be totally unavailable to some men simply for a lack of genetic factors out of their control. Are you tall enough? Is your jaw strong enough? What’s your hairline like? Even at my top looksmaxxing with gym, style, haircuts, hygiene, blah blah blah i never was even close to the top 20%. So in a way, yeah the top 20% is fixed, and if you don’t fit a certain base mold you’re screwed out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:51 PM
21

Yeah. Literally destroying their bodies and carrying the damn thing for 9 months, and then going through the awfulness that is childbirth. There’s a lot of strength in there that I know as a man I could not handle. Crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:44 PM
2

You don’t have a place you live? Like a home base? I get you have to travel for work but you still have a mailing address and a place you have to go back to. If you were really called handsome IRL by 6s, then you should have no problem in OLD. Like I have never met an attractive/handsome man who wasn’t photogenic. If literally comes with the territory. Either you’re lying, or these women weren’t actually 6s. Just cause you’re 6 feet doesn’t make you a straight up Chad, only incels believe that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:24 AM
2

Are you in the military or something? If not I would find a position that doesn’t involve travel too much and allows you to more or less stick in a single place long term. Also I’m not trying to be an asshole, but if you’re not doing well in the dating department with OLD or IRL, you’re probably not that attractive. Feel like we’re missing something here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:09 AM
1

You don’t have friends or people you work with? People meet people through friends all the time. Bumble is much better for LTRs, I’ve never used Hinge but I hear it’s okay. If you’re really focusing on LTRs, then I suggest OkCupid out of all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:54 PM
1

Same for me, except for number 7 I’ll throw in at the end she can’t be too clingy and actually has a life outside of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:46 PM
2

I guess, but why go to another country? It’s not like getting an LTR is difficult in the US if you truly are average looking, and most eastern overseas countries (which I assume you’re referring to) aren’t very casual sex forward. Hell Japan is strictly against PDA. Edit: Also dude, don’t use tinder for LTRs unless you’re hot. It’s a hookup app in the US and other western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:43 PM
3

Good for you. I’ve never been able to have casual sex my entire life, so I’d gladly just give up LTRs to have that. Long term dating is easy, it’s all I’ve ever been stuck doing my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:37 PM
4

For what? Casual sex it’s looks and being better looking than them, for LTRs it’s personality as long as you hit a certain lower threshold for looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:36 PM
1

Steady supply of sex from a woman that is genuinely attracted to me and i am attracted to her. I find companionship from my friends and family to the point where I’m never lonely when single so really I’d be fine single, but I can’t get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:35 PM
8

Exactly. You ask any guy whether he would like a harem or one single sexual partner their entire life, 9/10 will choose the harem. Most men just enter relationships because they’re tired of being single and getting little to no sex/attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:25 PM
1

No, of course not. Not every experience will be for every single person across the board. It’s all dependent on your values, priorities, and overall personality type
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:39 PM
2

Oh absolutely, they know their target audience. Whatever girl first came up with it and found a way to exploit it was a genius. It’s like camming. but easier, and sometimes you don’t even have to be nude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:21 PM
2

I gotta tell you man, I’m 5’6 and my face is super average. Seriously it’s been rated by that lookism site and they said I am plain looking as hell. I have never had a problem finding and maintaining LTRs. You can absolutely find an LTR and love in general. At one point I did have social anxiety, still kind of do but I have found ways to cope with said anxiety through meds and therapy. It helps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:17 PM
2

My experience is also like this. It’s almost an event when it happens because someone actually got lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:14 PM
4

I guess. But no one here is really denying it, you’re like a Bernie supporter telling people to vote for Bernie in a city that’s super liberal already. At that point it’s just a circle jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:57 PM
2

There are tons of communities for just about any kink. The problem is finding a group that isn’t filled with many men, and only a few women. Sure, I suppose in the kinky environments women don’t mind hooking up with most of the men, but you gotta be lucky, almost put on a waiting list because these women will have so many offers. Society hasn’t repressed men’s sexuality at all, biological nature has.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 05:15 PM
74

So what are we hearing that we weren’t aware of before? A very small select pool of men get most of the sex, most men get very little, and then another percentage get absolutely none. While it may be true that woman might have multiple men in her phone for sex, those same select group of men are in other women’s phones for the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 05:02 PM
1

Not always. Some are providing something to the woman, whether it’s protection, comfort, commitment, money sometimes, or even actual connection. It depends on the man and what his end goals are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:59 PM
8

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:39 PM
1

No. Islamic society places a huge emphasis on status, all those arranged marriages require the man has something the woman’s father thinks is high enough status to marry his daughter off to him. Incels are low status most of the time, not all are the engineers making six figures. Many are just grocery store workers, and they’ll be shunned by their Islamic brothers for not being entrepreneurial enough, not driven enough. Sure many Islamic middle eastern people work shit jobs in the US, but the id…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:52 AM
1

Yes, of course I do. What I can’t empathize with are the women who say that there aren’t positives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:49 AM
17

Yet. Still the biggest attack against all the incels ones is all the “misogynistic, and vicious words and violence against women”, you can argue that the same sort of vitriol is spewed from the femcels at Pinkpill/FDS. If you’re gonna quarantine TRP, you gotta quarantine them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:57 PM
40

Lol just look at the pinkpill/FDS/Invicta subreddits. Arguably these women are literally as bad an incels are, but no one is quarantining them or getting rid of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:09 PM
3

Well I was actually talking with someone who does have an Onlyfans and I asked why should a man pay for porn. And she said it’s not just porn, she’s actually speaking with these men, creating content requests, “acting” like a gf and flirting with these men. She has said that they are all unattractive, but for $20 a month they can pretend they have a girlfriend they found attractive or any girlfriend at all. So to answer your question, it’s men that are Unattractive to the point where it’s very d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:04 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 12:49 PM
1

More or less, yes. What I want is to be attractive, and being able to have casual sex as a man means you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:05 PM
1

I don’t even know what edits he did, but I’m sure he did something to it. Like I said, pics don’t matter, you can figure out your attractiveness from every day experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:31 PM
1

Lol that pic is so small, idk how you can even see my features. Anyway, that was taken on an angle by a photographer and I’m sure some edits were made. If I was actually attractive I would know it by now, because there always proof of that. Even if I were one those people who had trouble seeing it, I would still have proof that people generally find me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:27 PM
2

I agree, I don’t understand. Are they you? Do their choices effect you in any way? If the answer is “no”, then whatever. If the answer to the latter question is “yes” then figure out what the result of their choices will be and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:17 PM
2

Trust me, stay off FDS and the pinkpill shit, that stuff will fill your head with nonsense like the incels and the blackpill. I promise you I’m not the norm, there are billions of men not like me and I sincerely doubt you will meet someone like me. And sure I sound extremely bitter online, but how I speak online and IRL is completely different. Everyone assumes that everyone acts the same on an Internet board and talks about the same shit, which isn’t even close to the truth of the matter. If I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:40 PM
1

Well if it makes you feel any better, I’m not the norm and you’re most likely not going to meet men like me. I wouldn’t know how to screen for me. I also wasn’t saying you couldn’t trust a guy with a a low n count. Don’t take one man and assume the rest are like this, you pinkpillers should be aware of this by now. You’re assuming I don’t put my all into our relationship? I do, of course I do. If I’m stuck with relationships, I might as well actually try and put all I can into it. Just because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:26 PM
3

Nope, still got not casual sex. You can’t fix being bf 5’6 with average facial features. I was already disqualified from casual sex. I had a friend too, super arrogant and believed he was attractive. Very confident too, I was confident, but he was another level. He had casual sex once with a chick like 75 pounds heavier than him in like a year and a half
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:51 PM
1

Nah. I’m in an LTR at the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:50 PM
3

Lol fun fact. I used to believe I was attractive, so attractive I used to act self-absorbed, arrogant, conceited, you name it. Guess how much casual sex I had? Zero. That shit only works if you are already are actually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:45 PM
1

Okay but I still never got to have casual sex, which arguably is the most validating thing a man can do. I’m not “worried” about it, it’s an experience I really wanted and never got to have. That’s why I don’t fear that I missed out, I know I missed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:44 PM
3

Yeah. But I don’t have a fear I missed out, I absolutely did miss out and I’m pretty much going to be miserable about it the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:52 PM
1

To be fair I’m well aware that I’m not sexually attractive because well... I’m not. And I wish I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:06 PM
1

Old ass post, but casual sex. I can easily get LTRs, they aren’t hard for any dude to get. I’d give up any LTR I’ve had, and the one I’m currently in, for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:05 PM
1

As someone who can only get into relationships, I would gladly take meaningless casual sex any day of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:04 PM
14

From my understanding, a Brad is in the realm of 6/10. He’s above average, not impressive looking and isn’t necessarily attractive. He’s what women might say is “decent looking”, they wouldn’t turn their head to look at you, but you’re still better looking than the average men. He’s like the male version of Becky, and Brads usually end up marrying Beckies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:00 PM
2

What’s your line of work?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:56 PM
27

You said it. Literally go on tinder, and just swipe until you find a dude you want, and just make it extremely easy for him and he’ll come over. Will it be Chad? Maybe not, depends on the night he’s having. Most likely it’ll be a Brad, but that’s not so bad right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:55 PM
3

7, and I wish it was higher. But I’m unable to get any sort of casual sex, so the only way is to be in LTRs which sucks. Has it ever affected a relationship? Kind of, but not in the way most people might think. One of my exes had a high n count, it was high. Her n count didn’t bother me, what did was the fact that all those prior men got to have some form of casual sex and I didn’t at all. It didn’t even have to do with having casual sex with her, it’s just that they had any sort of casual sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:51 PM
5

I’ve never met an average looking player lol. They were always at least attractive in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:48 PM
4

True, but the hot genitalia get to get away with being that way and don’t really have any repercussions at all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:38 PM
2

This is very well said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:33 PM
6

A lot. My inability to get casual sex has made me extremely miserable. I do have other hobbies, I do have a job I kind of love, it’s not like I just sit at home and do nothing all day. But honestly I’d throw away just about any of those things to be a guy that can get casual sex in an absolute heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:26 PM
21

Well, kind of. Women like attractive looking assholes. An average or ugly asshole will just get ignored, because most women know at worst she can get the same behavior from a better looking guy, so she won’t deal with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:56 PM
1

I’m 5’6 and trust me I look short in comparison to the other men. Those few inches make a huge as difference. and I don’t count any woman of any race out. I have absolutely considered all races, but they don’t want me for casual sex. I do just fine getting LTRs, white or not. I don’t get chicks lusting after me regardless of race. That dumbass stereotype of Asian girls lusting after any white dude is fake, you still have to be attractive, or at least average height/tall as a white dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:31 PM
6

Don’t know how this is a hard concept to get
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:48 PM
3

Nah. The average woman looks average and I’d be happy to hook up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:47 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:46 PM
0

I asked number 3 because I suppose any guy can work hard to get a bottom of the barrel in looks woman to go home with him. I suppose if a super ugly chick made it easy for me, I’d heavily consider going home with her. No one is entitled to casual sex, you’re either good enough or you’re not. I don’t hate women for not finding me hot enough, the only person I hate is myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:44 PM
0

Makes sense you had such an experience in the late 90s and early 00s. True, women have lots of casual sex nowadays, but they only do it with a select pool of men (the Chads of the world). Doesn’t matter if you’re in nightclub or college settings, if you’re not tall or have a strong enough jaw you’re not getting any casual sex. Trust me, I tried there and it didn’t happen for me once. I have female friends, but they don’t find me physically attractive enough for a FWB situation. And I did try wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:43 PM
0

It makes a lot of sense tbh, it’s why women that are like 5’2 require a guy to be 6 feet and consider 5’8 to be too short
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:11 PM
-1

Well first off that photo was taken by a photographer. Some slight modifications most likely were done, it’s taken showing off a good angle, and besides that photo is so small it’s impossible to see my features. It’s like looking at someone far away, plenty of people look good far away, but when you’re up close you can easily see they’re pretty meh looking. I’m average looking at best. If I actually was good looking, I’d be well aware of it by now. Second, I had a couple follow up questions. 1.)…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:52 PM
1

About 5’10, the average height for men in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:38 PM
2

Interesting. When women say “taller than me” , it means “taller than me in heels”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:36 PM
2

Exactly. It’s not the specific number of inches, it’s how you look compared to other men around you. A 5’6 guy would be considered tall enough if the other men around him only grew to 5’5 or 5’6.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:34 PM
-3

Also be tall and have a strong jaw to even qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:33 PM
-1

Yup. If a woman is after money, she’s a glorified prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:32 PM
1

Wouldn’t know, I’ve never been able to get it. But the reason I would prefer it is because I don’t like being in LTRs, and casual sex is validating because it’s totally looks based. And the validation is what I’m after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:23 PM
2

What do you mean? Like can I get sex in a romantic relationship? Of course, that’s literally the only way I get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:59 PM
2

I genuinely can’t think of anything. I can’t get casual sex at all, so any sort of casual sex is wanted for me. I guess if I was blackout drunk because I can’t necessarily consent to it (but I’m pretty good at knowing my limits) or if she’s like really really fat and smelled. That’s about it though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:38 PM
1

I swear this is the 100th time this was asked. Anyway my mom as I have a close relationship. My dad was pretty absent from my life, he still paid for things, still lived with us, ya know he was there, but absent from my life. He didn’t want my sister, I was the first born child and he just sort of resented my mom for having her, so he used to stay after work longer to avoid coming home. He completely ignored me and our relationship, I was very close with my father in the first 5 years of my life…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:20 PM
3

It’s not being offended though, they feel sad and angry there were completely counted out simply because they’re under a specific number for inches, and there isn’t much they can do. It’s not like being fat, fat you can lose, but you can’t grow taller once you’re an adult. Men don’t take offense to it, men just are sad and defeated they can’t do anything about it. The “what’s your weight” thing, which I believe you are talking about isn’t an insult or offense to them, but it’s to show the hypocr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:58 PM
1

I wasn’t necessarily thinking of being raped by another woman, rather by another man. I’m going to be honest, there are very few reasons why I wouldn’t have random sex with a woman if she offered it to me. Sorry you went through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:00 PM
2

I agree. I was thinking about being raped by another man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:59 PM
2

As a man I’m grateful that for like any other situation that’s not going to jail, I don’t have to really worry about being raped. I am grateful for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 12:43 PM
3

Financially better makes a huge as difference though in quality of life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:56 PM
4

Yeah OP is talking about Onlyfans shit. I agree with you, my clientele being gay dudes does not interest me in the slightest. Now if you could tell me the majority would be women? Well, I might have to think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:15 PM
1

The validation that the woman you are attracted to wants to have sex with you and is attracted to you. It’s why men don’t go to hookers that often, because it’s just a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:08 PM
0

Whoops lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:12 AM
1

The US is super looks based, and many times having good looks will give you a relatively high status by default
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:10 AM
4

I don’t get the extreme hate it gets, but I honestly don’t watch it. I don’t know if you’d consider me a non-crazy guy, I’m pretty depressed overall full disclosure, but yeah it’s not my thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:09 AM
1

Yeah. But I was 15 and thought this, and grew the fuck out of it. Some men still believe this in their 20s and it makes me sad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:02 AM
0

Lol not an incel (at least according to their definition) and I was kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:01 AM
1

Most? No, but there’s definitely quite a few that frequent both kinds of communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 11:17 PM
0

Hey fuck you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 11:16 PM
1

On where, reddit? Go out in the real world this ain’t even close to the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:24 PM
6

Well the true NiceGuys definitely were, but it’s deeper than that. When i was 15, I was 100% a NiceGuy, but it’s because I though being “Nice” was my edge. I would see girls on social media being like “all guys are dicks! I just want a nice guy” so I used to think that could be my in because I obviously wasn’t getting looks or interest from girls. It obviously didn’t work, but many NiceGuys feel that being “nice” is their edge in the dating scene, that their niceness is so sought after, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:23 PM
1

Depends on your age group I suppose. Mid to late 20s, that’s nothing. But if you’re a teenager to maybe 21, yeah it might seem like a long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:35 PM
1

I agree, and I’ve never been approached so it kind of shows how unattractive I actually am
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:23 PM
8

Exactly. Sympathy to them is them wanting for fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:18 PM
1

I don’t know, and honestly I don’t really care if they start caring about it. Their caring or sympathy won’t make my face attractive, or make me taller, and allow me to get the casual sex I desire. So really, what use is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:17 PM
6

Well, the idea of an LTR is that you will be with them long-term, so an LTR would be with someone you can realistically see yourself having a future with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:14 PM
2

I mean that was the goal for a long time, it just wasn’t happening for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:18 PM
1

Sure, I’m not doing anything else. I’ve been more or less hitting the gym to ensure I don’t get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:02 PM
2

Ah. Well before the pandemic I made some actual strength progress for the first time in my life. Squat - 100 Bench - 150 Deadlift - 175 It ain’t much, but keep in mind, I had been going for years. However something changed and my strength started growing. That being said I was never fat, I’ve had some definition though. And to answer your question, my belief in that I’m not able to get casual sex is because I tried for a long time to get it and women didn’t deem me good enough for it. And before…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:50 PM
1

What is S/B/D?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:12 PM
1

I don’t know if it’s necessarily been a direct detriment to my life, but it hasn’t really benefitted me yet either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:33 AM
1

MFA - r/malefashionadvice on Reddit. They have a wealth of knowledge, but it can be hard to know where to start and they aren’t the best at helping newbies. They’ve also moved into more of the different and unusual fits, so I’ve kind of stopped looking (and arguably their a bit toxic too). But take a look, they can sometimes introduce you to cool brands you might not hear too much about, which they did for me Also Modest Man comes on MFA too time to time. He’s a nice guy, he’s my height and simi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:33 PM
1

I remember this dude, he used to frequent MFA a lot. I think the style would suit you, you are tall and even if you’re chubby it’ll be fine. It’s very hard to try on things nowadays, but if you’re okay with shooting a little higher, head to Banana Republic because they have a tall section online. They’re almost always having some sort of sale. They have great return policy, so you can try stuff on and worst case if it doesn’t fit they allow you to use the same packaging to shoot it back. You can…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:47 PM
1

It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:24 PM
2

Oh I’m aware, trust me I’ve thrown in work for the last decade toward it and got no casual sex. And I agree, if you’re complaining and haven’t done anything, then you should actually try. But like you said, just cause someone tries doesn’t mean they will succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:04 PM
1

Definitely! Whatcha need?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:00 PM
1

Exactly. So it’s not that men “suck” at that, they weren’t even a contender in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:00 PM
1

No, my point is that if a woman wants you for your money and only wants to sleep with you because of that, then it’s just getting a glorified prostitute, it’s not casual sex. That’s why I asked if you considered a man getting a hooker casual sex too, because it’s the same thing. Not if hookers have casual sex themselves, I’m sure they do, but she’s not making the guy pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:48 PM
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I don’t totally agree on this one tho, like is it that simple bro? No, but see how I said some, but not all? Because I can’t just see things through a complete black and white lens and I’m not going to. This is more based on the vicious attacking ones, the ones that go on FDS and pinkpillfeminism which some of the female users on here do and they are very angry there. Some are just apathetic, but they’re not attacking men for their wants and desires. And to your last paragraph, yeah for the aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:48 PM
1

I mean the act of paying for a hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:42 PM
1

I’m guessing you also consider hookers being casual sex too, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:32 PM
1

Yeah but any dude can LTR sex. No one here denies that, and no one here denies that attractive men are the ones who get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:27 PM
6

It’s hard to put yourself into other people’s shoes and understand why something is so important, especially if they kind of conflict with your desire, Plus you can really tell that some of these women were pumped and dumped at some point or another, and are taking it out on the unsuccessful men who want it because they’re easy targets. The desire for casual sex hurt these women in the end, and they can’t really take back sucking a guy’s dick, so the losers who are unsuccessful and want are a gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:20 PM
1

Sure in LTRs, and I hardly consider renting a glorified prostitute being casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:17 PM
1

Men can get sex, you just suck at it You’re implying that all men can get casual sex, when in reality it’s just the attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:14 PM
1

Yeah but saying men just suck at getting casual sex you’re making it seem like men themselves are doing something to not get it, when in many cases they lost before they even played simply for being too short or looking too average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:12 PM
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Lol I’m saying that I do both of those things, I’m a normal human being that has a job and life. You were saying that you need to do those things to be successful, implying that unsuccessful people are unsuccessful because they don’t do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:42 PM
1

I have to agree with you. Sex isn’t a need, it’s a desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:39 PM
15

100%. I had a bad experience with a black dude once in high school, but that hasn’t caused me to join the KKK.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:38 PM
2

Sure, but if we’re talking casual sex game and strategy don’t matter if you don’t have the right looks first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:36 PM
1

How? By not being attractive enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:33 PM
5

Eh, most men figure this out after high school. The only ones who continue to have this problem and dwell on being lied to are the autistic ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:33 PM
6

I kind of figured women didn’t care about the sexlessness problem for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:31 PM
4

Truth, i don’t know where I’d be without my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:26 PM
8

Lol as if being showered and going to work is all you need for casual sex. I’ve been doing that for over a decade, women ain’t banging my door down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:25 PM
11

I think it’s important that even if you don’t have options you still need to assert yourself. Arguably I have no options, I have to create them, and by that I mean getting LTRs is relatively easy for me if I throw in the effort, while casual sex is impossible for me. I don’t have women DMing me, or trying to steal me from my gf, or poaching me, but that being said I still don’t act like a doormat. I still voice my opinion, and I put my foot down when I don’t like something. Sadly, many men are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:22 PM
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Don’t say that here! Everything is black and white in the pill universe!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:17 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:07 PM
21

Work out to get as fit as possible. Go to college to get my degree in the career of choice. Start a premium Snapchat or Onlyfans account to rake in that dough. Have the occasional casual sex with a dude more attractive than me, settle down with a Beta in my late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:03 PM
1

Know thyself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:41 PM
1

Why do you feel that is? I’m being genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:40 PM
2

It’s funny you mention NiceGuys, because I too have known some successful ones which according to the ladies on FDS or Bluepill shouldn’t be a thing. The issue with most of those NiceGuys who are unsuccessful is that they literally do not know how to socialize, and they have nothing else going for them. Every unsuccessful nice guy I have ever known is the same, crappy dead end job or no job, no sense of style to speak, not fit in the slightest, has a nerdy hobby that none of the women he’s after…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:37 PM
7

I mean is younger the only criteria? I’m sure plenty of average dudes can do that, the younger chick may just be a fat younger chick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:05 PM
3

Lol trust me, I used to truly believe I was attractive and irrationally confident. I got no casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:01 PM
2

Fine, nothing has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 02:27 PM
3

Exactly. People really downplay how important looks are for casual sex, they’re so important that if you lack them you need wealth and status to even kind of make up for it, meanwhile if you have looks you need nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:51 AM
2

If she’s above average or hotter she’ll get hit on a lot by men, even ones a little more attractive than her. A plain Jane will get hit on, but it will be from like the more uglier guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:48 AM
1

Doggy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:46 AM
10

I think this is the correct answer. The incels keep mistakingly believe that 20% is just made up of 8+/10s, when that’s not even close to the breakdown of looks. The 20%ers are maybe 6.5 or 7/10s, they’re above the average guy, are a smaller number, but are nowhere near a Chad. They’re the Brad, they’ll have an easier time than most, but it still ain’t easy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:43 PM
2

This is the truth. There has to be a base for the strategies to even make a difference to begin with. It’s not a one size fits all solution, I believe it can help most men though. That being said, it’s important to realize that just because you tried does not mean you’ll succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:36 PM
4

The only thing I see happening is that most men would just check out of unplanned pregnancies. Most women in lower classes kind of know their baby daddy is going to be a deadbeat but still go through with it, so there won’t be any change there. It might deter the women who are middle class or above from sticking with a pregnancy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:56 PM
5

I’m a male who is 5’6, and average looking. My looksmatch is almost definitely a 250 lb women of similar height (if we’re going based on the equivalence in terms of attraction). So to answer your question, I’d probably still get laid for having a vagina. I dress well already, so I guess I’d be a well dressed fat woman, but still a fat woman. But honestly fat can be lost, so it’s still not even that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:53 PM
1

Casual would be sex that doesn’t involve you throwing any sort of resources directly into that person. Sure you throw resources into yourself so you can be attractive enough to get it, but you’re still providing some sort of resource whether it be money, comfort in the context of an LTR, or commitment. Casual sex is like ONS or FWBs, no commitment, just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:45 PM
1

You’re right, BB isnt ugly, they’re average looking, maybe slightly above average, but not attractive enough for casual sex. Sure, if he wants to get married and start a family then maybe he won’t care, but he still feels like he missed out on something and more or less still might resent his wife. And I suppose he can fuck the leftovers in their 30s or 40s, but again he still loses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:40 PM
2

They said they might have, but it’s not a definite. But I get the sense they’re BSing, because we would have had sex first time they met me. They would have given off vibes, they would have tried to get me to come home with them or try to go home with me. Women make it extremely obvious when they want to hook up, I see it all the time happen to people I know, or just in general. And none of those things happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:37 PM
-1

Yes I have done all those things, so according to them I am a high value man, except for the date part. I’m sorry, I’m not buying dinner for you the first time I meet you. Dinners get expensive, coffee is much cheaper and less of a risk for me. Plus I can usually pick out the ones who want to use me for free food by seeing their reaction to a coffee or desert date. Oh and the texting back often part, I’m busy, I’ll try to text you back within a few hours though, I mean I get LTRs easily. So I su…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:34 PM
6

Am I single dad? If not, then no. Lots of stuff to go through here, baby daddy drama, I won’t be any sort of priority (rightly so), it’s not my kid so I don’t want to be possibly responsible for another man’s kid that isn’t my brother or cousin or whatever. In the end, it won’t be my kid, so I don’t feel like it should be my responsibility to take care of it and dating a single mom would involve you having to do it in some way, shape, or form. Self-centered? Maybe, but again why should I throw w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:16 PM
5

True, but it’s only a problem if the “BB” guys didn’t get laid either in college and their 20s. If they didn’t, then they’ll feel some sort of way being only able to get women when they aren’t as pretty anymore. If they did, then they won’t care because they got what they wanted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:57 PM
2

Bruh in what reality does that even happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:45 AM
3

Kind of all 3 tbh, they go together. I personally don’t see the value of relationships, I have a close knit group of friends and family that provide me what I need in terms of companionship, I’m never really lonely while I’m single, never feel the longing for a partner. That’s just who I am. It upsets me that it’s the only way that i can get sex, but not to the fault of anyone else, just that I’m not deemed hot enough for casual sex. It makes me miserable considering that’s all I really wanted, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:57 PM
5

No. Everyone would prefer to be given things the easy way, that’s just human nature. Don’t get me wrong, if we want things bad enough we’ll throw in the work, but we work for things, because we have to. Any dude that has been doing the chasing, running “game”, you get it suddenly became the definition of generally attractive and was handed sex by women because of how attractive they are, they wouldn’t be complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:10 PM
0

Couldn’t have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:08 PM
14

No, the anger many men face is sort of a knee jerk reaction to hide the sadness and hurt they feel. They don’t want to seem sad in front of you, anger feels more “manly”. I don’t find it to be an insult, I don’t hate women for not finding me attractive enough for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:39 PM
4

I can agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:23 PM
24

Your last section is totally correct. The easiest thing to say is that usually at the end of day for one gender to get what they want, the other won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:20 PM
2

Well then congrats, again, women have issues too. Both genders have issues and don’t get what they want due to not being attractive enough or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:58 PM
3

But the men in question would want these women, it’s still a genuine interaction. A prostitute is literally pretend, it’s like a cashier or waitress being nice to me and having a conversation with me as a customer. They don’t really want to be there or talk to me, they’re paid to do that, they have to be. Plus, a woman can go on tinder and find a dude they actually think is hot enough to have casual sex with easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:52 PM
3

Congrats, you pointed out that women have issues too? What does that have to do with the struggle I’m mentioning though? I’m not seeing the equivalence though tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:34 PM
2

Paying someone to want you isn’t even close to the same as that person genuinely wanting to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:26 PM
6

Everything is about sex, except for sex, sex is about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:23 PM
2

No, I suppose you can still breathe and function without it, but mentally speaking you wouldn’t exactly be well without it. You see the incels, or men who go through extremely long dry spells, none of them are happy about it. It’s not even the physical act, it’s the low self esteem and lack of validation that gets to them for not being wanted sexually. But is it something that I feel needs to matter to people outside of me? No it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:22 PM
1

I guess men need women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:25 PM
1

It means putting her above yourself constantly, and doing whatever for her even if it means you sacrificing everything while she sacrifices nothing. Don’t get me wrong, we occasionally can make sacrifices for our SOs, but there needs to be give and take.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:56 PM
5

In the appropriate situation. A guy who just wears a suit constantly to go to the grocery store is a bit odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:31 PM
4

This is the truth. When I’m working with a client, the biggest thing I tell them is that fit is the key, not the brand. Sure I guess you can buy an Off White shirt, but if you’re unattractive or it fits awful, no one will compliment it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:30 PM
3

Men don’t care about the brands women wear as long as she’s hot in them. I’ve seen women find stuff to wear at Target and they looked amazing in them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:27 PM
1

For real. Just confirmed what most incels think
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:22 PM
3

And people wonder why casual sex is so validating for men. The fact that you’re chosen already shows how attractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:32 PM
2

Yeah but how attractive are you, or I guess we’re you when you were doing this? Because a good face can make up for below average height many timws
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:19 PM
1

Not below average height Tfw 5’6.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:18 PM
2

This whole thread confirms my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:15 PM
1

Meh, I can easily get a gf and it’s impossible to get casual sex for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:14 PM
2

This is the truth. If I could get casual sex I wouldn’t even want an LTR. If I’m gonna be stuck in LTRs, I at least want it to be with someone I’m attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:14 PM
2

I mean that’s what being average is, not being attractive. Sure, they can get sex through an LTR, but average men aren’t getting casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:10 PM
2

The men that care about this aren’t mad that the women slept around, they’re mad they couldn’t also sleep around. High n count men tend to be just fine with it, because they got the opportunity to explore their sexuality as well. The problem comes when you have a guy who was mostly ignored by women now only able to get someone without having been able to get casual sex themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:09 PM
2

I guess I can see that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:13 PM
1

Okay yeah I can see how this can happen. Sorry you went through that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:13 PM
1

You laugh, but they truly believe that the reason you’re not finding anyone is because you’re not showering and you’re playing Steam all day. Sure, some are like that, but the stereotypical neckbeard isn’t a thing anymore really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:40 PM
4

Your second paragraph is my experience. At first I was like “lol TRP and incels are so stupid and don’t know anything.” when I was in delusion. But then I can’t remember what I saw and who it was from, but something made me think “huh, ya know that is a good point” and when I asked the questions they started attacking me and calling me an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:38 PM
3

I’m curious how you were raised to be a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:32 PM
6

I agree with your first paragraph. And yeah I did all you said and couldn’t get casual sex, but that’s because I’m not attractive in both height and face. But you’re absolutely right, men don’t try on average and it bugs me as a guy who is “metrosexual”. One of my side gigs is personal shopping and teaching other men to dress, and you would not believe the amount of clothes I just toss from their closet. A guy one time had this silk shiny shirt that was so ill fitting and said “that’s my going o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:28 PM
3

Fucking absolutely, and if it’s accidental and the father or mother would be bad for the kids, get an abortion. We gotta fix the stigma with abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:19 PM
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Consider me attractive enough for casual sex. Yes I looksmaxxed, yes I did it for over 10 years, no it did not work and no casual sex was had. I was able to find LTRs and that’s about it. Don’t worry, I get why. I’m short and have an average face. There isn’t much I can do about it, I can’t force women like you said, and I don’t resent or hate them for it. I just wish I was good enough for it is all, and if they found me attractive enough for casual sex my life would be better. Granted I’d still…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:19 PM
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That is very sad, I have been fortunate enough to have all my partners be this way, my current gf is this way. Hope the best for you though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:15 PM
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2nd or 3rd date, if I set up another date with you, I’m definitely into you. Been on plenty of 1st dates that I went on and just decided to never call again. I may have a few reservations going into the 2nd still, but if I’m asking you for a third, then im absolutely set on being in an LTR with you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:11 PM
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For casual sex? Absolutely, not for an LTR or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:31 AM
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Yeah for casual sex, not for an LTR. I was talking LTRs here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:30 AM
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In my opinion? Yes. Femininity is described by soft features, and acne kind of takes away the soft features. If you are interested in fixing your skin, Accutane is dangerous, but the results speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:08 AM
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Guys have less standards for casual sex. Regardless if he thinks you are a 5, he’d be DTF. LTRs are a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:01 AM
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I have to agree with this. r/theglowup is similar with similar folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 10:59 AM
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Because I don’t want to be a woman. Yes women have it easier, but I still like being a guy. The idea of even kind of being a woman is odd to me, and it doesn’t feel right at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:30 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:21 AM
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100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:45 AM
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Get into an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:45 AM
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Of course she can. It’s such a revenge fantasy that every woman is just unwanted and ugly after 30. She just can’t get a 20 year old Chad, but she can certainly get a 30 year old one (as in a man who is much more attractive at 30 than the other 30 year olds around him)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:43 PM
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Peter Dinklage!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:00 PM
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If we’re talking casual sex, then yeah it’s pretty bad and almost impossible to get if he’s not also handsome in the face. But a short guy can still get an LTR, but he needs to overcome his shortness by constantly improving and putting in a lot of work in other areas of himself. Take it form a guy who is 5’6 with average facial features, I’ve always been able to get LTRs but no casual sex, any short dude I have known is the same, except for one. That guy could get laid, but his face was model le…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:54 PM
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What does that have to do with being autistic? What a bizarre response
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:41 PM
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Lol I dress in J Crew, BR, and Patagonia. I’ve gone to punk shows after work in my business casual wear, or I’ll go in my wool pullover sweaters if weather permits. They might give you a look, but honestly once they see your genuine interest they welcome you pretty easily. I scream the lyrics louder than some of the more punk people lol. Just go to the shows, and enjoy yourself. Also Gojira fucking slaps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:36 PM
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I think the issue is that it’s not that more men are autistic, it’s that women aren’t properly diagnosed and it’s not noticed as much because autistic women (provided she’s not in the bottom 20% of looks) will be able to find LTRs and such depending where on the spectrum they are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:32 PM
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Live in a liberal major city Check out punk centric dive bars, and go to metal and punk local shows. They’re everywhere. A lot of cities have a cool basement scene for just about any music. Goth chicks will sometimes hang out at Emo shows too. But check out the newer Emo/pop punk shows, which I guess are a sort of revival of an older sound. Think like American Football era stuff. Goth clubs exist, look up industrial ones too because they bleed into each other pretty often. Look the part. Look up…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:51 PM
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I think this is the correct answer. Anyone who is slightly neurotypical can figure this out, the whole “I need it spelled out” is a problem for autistic people who can’t understand social cues or people. It’s kind of showing me how on the spectrum some of these TRPers are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:48 PM
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You’re right, we all get to the same place and all experience shit in some way. You might as well be attractive while you experience them, makes them easier to deal with than if you were unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:16 PM
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Marriage is important to us, but we don’t have any sort of plan was to when we will get married. It’ll probably happen some time in the next 4 or 5 years. We moved in together after 2.5 years, but we decided it would be the best move for the both of us. She had just graduated college, and I wanted to continue to live in the city and wanted a nicer apartment. We agreed we would split everything, and we have, and it’s made both of our lives easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:54 PM
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I do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:50 PM
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Im not wrong. Women get a lot of concessions in life that are directly related to how much men want to have sex with them. If men don’t want to have sex with them, you notice that their lives are much harder than most of the other women around them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:50 PM
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Here’s my take on it. While sex means nothing to them, if they weren’t desired and wanted for it, their lives would be much harder. A lot of concessions made for women is because men want to have sex with them, and you can easily tell when a woman isn’t attractive is because her life isn’t easy. Like ask the Femcels, the Pinkpillers, and the ladies at FDS. They complain about not having it easy and being given things constantly, meanwhile it’s clear that the only reason that’s the case is becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:20 PM
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This thread isn’t surprising at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:16 AM
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There will always be men desperate enough to pay for it and take what they can get. These men probably talk themselves into thinking “I like cat chicks” because that’s all they’ve ever been able to get
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:57 AM
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Hard to say, it’s never happened to me before, but in the end I’d probably not be able to get it up. It’s just too low
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:29 AM
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I think at that point whatever validation I’m looking for will be gone, you can only go so far down the looks scale to where you can’t even get it up. But if a 2/10 land whale was making it easy for me, I’d honestly have to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:01 AM
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Still shitposting?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:34 AM
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My current LTR of 3 years. We’re currently living together
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:46 AM
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No honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:22 AM
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You said it. My friend group has some women, and they have their friends too that are women. And out of all these women, every one has had multiple casual sex partners. And these aren’t some BDSM, kinky, ultra liberal folks, these are basic bitches. And the guys they sleep are all the same, tall, attractive men. Why is anyone surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:06 AM
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In that case, I’ll take being a low value man any day of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:04 AM
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If that were the case, then they’d have sex with just about any guy that’s asking. Meanwhile men who look a certain way are always the ones who are successful in getting laid, regardless of attitude or personality. Meanwhile men that don’t meet that will have one or two hookups at most, and some don’t get them at all. For casual sex, they are shallow because casual sex is entirely based on looks. Which is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:01 AM
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It depends on the tone. You can easily sense the “little brother” cute vs the “I think you’re attractive cute”. The first one implies that she doesn’t view you in a sexual light, I wouldn’t consider it a straight up insult, just not what I want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:58 PM
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True. But women still want him, so it ain’t that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:45 PM
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That gets you LTRs, except for being famous. Fame is not achievable by most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:03 PM
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Exactly. Plus matches don’t mean shit, like yeah I got matches, but no sex from them so it’s the same as zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:38 PM
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Someone legit suggested that to me on this sub earlier today, I shit you not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:37 PM
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I mean, it’s not like I don’t understand why I don’t get casual sex. I realize it’s down the my looks, women have a higher threshold for casual sex because they don’t really go for it, so if you’re chosen for that’s because you are attractive. And I totally get it, it’s why I won’t be in an LTR with someone unless I’m attracted for them. Not asking women to hook up with me if they aren’t attracted to me, just wishing I was attractive enough for them to want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:36 PM
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What do you mean isn’t a draw?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:25 PM
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I’m from the US, but I’ll do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:25 PM
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Trust me, I wasn’t just going after Stacies. I’d be absolutely be happy getting to hook up with an average chick or a Becky, but they don’t find me attractive enough either. I’m only good enough for LTRs, which is no surprise considering I’m short and average looking .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:18 PM
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Thanks homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:17 PM
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Whether or not it’s 80% doesn’t matter, it’s a high majority of women anyway and they’re only doing it with the most attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:43 PM
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The thing is I’ve noticed many Red Pill men want to be fathers. Marriage is just easier for the children in terms of care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:42 PM
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lol not at all. Most men are just happy to have a woman be interested and try to get with them because they are so starved for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:41 PM
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Man, I wish I was attractive enough so I could get one hook up at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:40 PM
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So easy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:30 PM
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I guess it depends on how you look with your weight that matters. And the height thing is interesting, most of the women who say they like “more feminine/pretty boys” but still are into men who are tall which is a masculine trait. Like I said, I don’t doubt women that are like you exist, but it’s definitely not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:06 PM
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I guess on this sub, but in general too because it’s not what most women are into. . I don’t disagree that tons of girls can like that shit, but a higher percentage are into the tall, masculine men. “Tons” could still only be like 5% which is a small percentage in the grand scheme; and you may never meet one of them considering the world is a big place. Its impossible to be attractive or unattractive to every woman, but it’s just better to be the kind of attractive that appeal to most women. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:43 PM
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Definitely an outlier here, still shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:36 PM
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If any man is considering having sex with other men, then I got news for you: They are at least bisexual. No straight man would even entertain the idea. Like the thought of having sex with a man does not get me going, it almost gives me disgust. Not saying gay sex in general is disgusting, but the idea of me in engaging in it disgusts me. Edit: looked at your post history. Idk if you’re a man or woman, but you seem to have this obsession with men considering having sex with other men. Shit is we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:29 PM
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Bro, you can’t choose what gender you’re attracted to, it’s engrained into you from birth naturally. Men do not sexually excite me, I need the sexual validation from women because I’m straight. You can’t just choose to fuck dudes because you’re having shitty luck getting casual sex from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:25 PM
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This is the truth. A full man doesn’t think about food
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:24 PM
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Prostitutes don’t give the validation I am looking for. It’s a lie, you’re paying for them to pretend to want you, when really they’re just counting down to minutes until you finish. It’s like a cashier or waitress smiling at me or being friendly to me, it’s not a real interaction, she has to do it so she gets paid. And are you actually being serious with that one? C’mon that’s a terrible solution, I’m not attracted to men in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:23 PM
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Well I didn’t get the intended outcome, and it makes me miserable. So i guess like 95%, I find pockets of happiness in other things occasionally, but in the end it brings me back to the fact that I didn’t get what I wanted after putting in the work I did
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:19 PM
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I’m curious what you mean by that? Like how does having what you deem successful in sex/dating bleed into things like success in career, friends, family, whatever else?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:39 PM
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Male I have thrown a lot into sex and dating. I mean a lot of time and energy has gone into this to make myself more attractive to the best of my ability. And I’ve been doing this for over a decade Success to me would be being able to have casual sex with many partners. I didn’t get that so in my opinion I failed. I would honestly give up anything I have to get casual sex and be attractive to many women. So yeah it’s very important. I don’t understand the fourth question honestly When it comes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:32 PM
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because you are a boy and girls flirt with boys they find cute See, here’s the thing though, for your concept to work her friends have to find you attractive. You think women just flirt with any dude and find every guy cute? Nah, you could easily hang out with her friends and not a single one of them will find you cute because of some sort of physical trait (like being short).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:15 PM
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I think we’ll see a shift soon and we might see them in films or tv shows, but honestly a lot of men already are already doing RP things and have RP ideals, they may not just use the same dictionary or acronyms. You ever hang out with a frat, or at least hear a conversation? You’d almost think they were talking on a Redpill thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:58 AM
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Of course you’re not gonna call it that, but just by saying the term you knew where they were going with it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:52 AM
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Hey, I didn’t create it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:56 AM
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Eh, it depends. Incels have a term which is thugmaxx, and I think it can work for even short black men if they’re above 5’5.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:09 AM
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If you’re 5’8 (at least in the US) you won’t look that short, it’s not the specific number of inches you are, it’s how you look to the average man around you in comparison. Our average height here is 5’9, a guy who is 5’8 and wears boots or any shoe that’s not a flip flop will still look close to average height. A guy who is 5’6, even though he’s taller than the average women (5’3 in the US) will still get rejected and start being at a disadvantage because he looks like the shortest man in the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:04 AM
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Considering I don’t even really see the value in LTRs, yeah I absolutely could. Problem is I’m not attractive enough for casual sex, so i made the best of the situation I’m in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:05 AM
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That’s still not short though. They can easily be considered average height in a room with average height men. A 5’6 dude on the other hand? He’ll look short compared to the other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:53 AM
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Sure but these short men and fat men get LTRs. Fat women and short men have the same kind of problem, one wants casual sex and can’t get it, the other wants an LTR and can’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:51 AM
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Or short guy, and you know how much they hate that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:50 AM
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Exactly. Which is why you never tell women your issues with sex and dating, there’s really no point to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 07:02 PM
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It is a trend I’ve seen tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:01 PM
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I agree, as long as I am attracted to her on a base level, and she isn’t fat, then we’re golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:52 PM
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It is. There’s a bird called the Bowerbird, and basically to attract mates they create this huge nest thing and put blue things in them. The reason they search for blue things is because the color blue was considered rare to naturally occur in nature, and finding it told the female the male was very capable. Before it had to be the smartest, and strongest males to get and keep the blue, but due to human interference, and our ability to make blue things easily, the color blue has been much easier…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:50 PM
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What do politics even have to do with this sub? Just say you don’t think women should make the same amount as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:37 PM
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Relationship Market Value
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:16 AM
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You still have to be attractive to her though for casual sex, “being cool” won’t make a 4 into an 8. Men can easily increase their RMV over their SMV, if the opposite were true I’d be swimming in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:54 PM
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Dude what are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:49 PM
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The race flood gates have been opened. I’m so ready
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:49 PM
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Validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:48 PM
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This seems like a troll post, why shouldn’t a woman make the same as me if she is working the same hours, same essential functions, same position, etc? Even if the problem didn’t exist, people for sure believed it did. So if a meaningless act goes into effect and doesn’t harm your salary or benefits, why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:48 PM
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Dude, are you this dense? Women choose Chad because he’s attractive, if the social narrative were different it wouldn’t matter because it’s down to what they find attractive (which is Chad). Like I said, women vocally talk about their sexuality kn social media for everyone to see, and women encourage each other to hook up with men especially in sororities. These women have plenty of options and are hit on, they just choose the best one. If you’re not getting it, you’re just not attractive enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:34 PM
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Well trust me, I’ve been trying to get over it. I’ve done many things with my life, and let me tell you none of it matters. I’d give up just about any of my experiences if it meant I could get casual sex, and I mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:30 PM
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And let me tell you man, it doesn’t matter because women will absolutely still engage in it. They don’t care what their fathers said, because now they don’t live with them and don’t need to answer to them. Plus every college kid lies to their parents “oh nah I’m not doing drugs mom and dad”. Hell I went to catholic school, and trust me there was no shortage of women sucking off guys in the stairwells and having sex. A catholic school, with a nun and mass and everything. You can imagine their dad…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:29 PM
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Oh you know as well as I do that there are plenty of women going home with dudes from the bar, plenty of women on tinder, plenty of women voicing their sexuality on social media. Maybe people bash women in high school? But trust me I went to a large college and had a few ties to Greek life, and nobody cares. Hell sorority girls encourage each other to hook up with dudes It’s not that the society is bashing women, women just find whatever they find attractive and hook up with that. If you’re find…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:17 PM
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I agree. But then what can be done except be the best of the best looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:12 PM
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Sure, but different things matter to different people. And if a person can only find validation in sex then that’s just how it is. Speaking from experience, it doesn’t matter what else you do because it always comes back to wanting it and being unable to get it is crushing, especially when you throw so much work into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:01 PM
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Gets rejected by every single girl, even for an LTR or just casual sex? Because most men get rejected for casual sex, and honestly it doesn’t take much to get an LTR for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:56 PM
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I don’t really know what you’re getting at? But aiight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:55 PM
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I don’t really know what you’re getting at? But aiight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:55 PM
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I know I am in a better place than the Reddit perma-virgins, but it doesn’t make me want what I desire any less. Perspective is something for sure, but in my opinion I’ve got the bare minimum, and to be honest Reddit perma virgins don’t even throw in the bare minimum. My issue is that I threw a lot of energy into getting casual sex and I didn’t get it so it’s a defeating feeling overall. That being said I don’t want people to feel bad for me, I don’t think I deserve it. I tried to get it, I ulti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:46 PM
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Different strokes different folks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:27 PM
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Ugh, I said this before, but nothing. As a man who you could call sexless in terms of casual sex, I honestly don’t think anything should be done. And I’m miserable about it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:26 PM
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I don’t. Honestly empathy doesn’t do anything for me, it doesn’t make me attractive and able to get casual sex. It’s a useless emotion, I don’t need people to feel bad for me for something that’s not a real problem for anyone but me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:24 PM
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Yeah but the men here don’t care about LTRs, it’s about casual sex which average men can’t get
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:22 PM
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Different places have different attractiveness scales.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:20 PM
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I’m seeing this a lot, “get to know him”. The thing is men here don’t really care about the getting to know him part, it’s about ONS and casual sex where you guys fuck after the bar and never talk again. Most men only care if you find the surface level attractive, and don’t care to stick around for the getting to know him part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:13 PM
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Did he get laid though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:10 PM
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Yeah but he gets casual sex though at the level he wants right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:07 PM
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It depends. I tend to do a lot of different things with cooking, it’s not the normal every day cooking like most do. I tend to try to make gourmet things at home to my best ability, I also try to butcher my own meat (to a point), deboning things, some knife work needed to get consistently sized pieces can be tricky and the only way to get better is to make mistakes, I was using a mandolin once and my fingers weren’t placed right and it took the skin right off my pinky. By all means, my mom never…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:15 AM
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Aw man, the pinkpillers are here. Why are you so mad lol? To be fair, I’m not really looking for sympathy. I’m just saying the reality of things. And are you implying that I hate women or blame them for this? I never once denied your reasoning as to why women don’t want to casually fuck me Because I’m going to be honest I don’t hate women at all for it, I hate myself for not being good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:07 AM
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No my point is that most men won’t care if it happens to them. The fact that a man makes a big deal about it all shows it’s a serious issue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:58 PM
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I guess, but prostitutes don’t give the sort of validation that comes from sex. It’s not a legal issue as to why men won’t go to them, people do illegal shit all the time. It’s the validation from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:57 PM
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Whatever you say 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:44 PM
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Yes, if they’re hot. If they aren’t, then it doesn’t matter. Game doesn’t exist, and personality and persona don’t make up your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:30 PM
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Yeah it’s so dumb. Why the fuck would I want someone who doesn’t want me back? There’s no validation there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:15 PM
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Sure if you’re like crazy levels of autistic. But functioning autists do just fine if they learn how to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:15 PM
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Those interested in the sport? Of course they would, he’s an athlete with status enough to be doing it professionally. A woman that doesn’t care about MMA isn’t gonna give a shit if you’re average and also do it. You still can not compare him to a guy who does it as a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:12 PM
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And, your point? It’s not about being Chad to still bang 18 year olds in your 30s, it’s about being Chad to enjoy casual sex with these women when you’re that age too and getting your fill of it to then settle down and continue to be attractive compared to the men around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:10 PM
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You’re also talking about men who are famous and have status from that. If they were just dudes doing those hobbies it wouldn’t make much a difference in the SMV. What are you gonna say next? Danny DeVito has a wife so that means to get laid as a 4’9 dude you just gotta be funny? Status matters, but you need celeb status, otherwise it just adds to RMV at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:05 PM
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Well FDS relies on the idea that you just wait and are given resources by men and they do all the work right? Well shit 80% of men will fail and get nothing because they don’t get hit on at all by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:00 PM
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You sure they’re as odd looking as you think? I keep hearing “my friend is ugly and gets laid” but I’ve never even seen an ugly athletic guy get laid with anyone that isn’t bottom of the barrel. Or they have to get these women so drunk they don’t even know their own names. I think you’re really underestimating their attractiveness, I’m gonna need to see some pics of these people. Or you overshooting their actual success. And cooking is not as safe as you think. Sharp knives, hot oil that can giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:55 PM
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It is, but here’s the thing, most men are down for it and so starved for attention that any “harassment” is an ego boost. I suppose a Chad might be annoyed by the harassment because he gets it so often, but honestly if you ask the average guy, he’d be fine with a little sexual harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:52 PM
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Okay, but they’ll be more attractive than the other men in their age group as it increases. A guy attractive in his 20s will continue to be attractive in his 30s if we compare him to other 30 year olds. Everyone knows that a 30 year old won’t be as attractive as a 20 year old, it’s not about being the hottest forever, it’s about being consistently the hottest in your age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:50 PM
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Exactly. A fit guy who is short, or a fit guy who has an average face is just that. It improves his RMV, but does nothing for his SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:49 PM
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I do have hobbies ya know. Cooking is my main hobby of choice, but I also work out (if you really consider is a hobby), and fashion is another hobby. One of my side gigs is teaching other men how to dress and shit. I’ve also had the opportunity to do a decent amount of traveling. However, we’re talking casual sex here. No amount of hobbies will make a woman interested in casual sex, it’s all down to physical attractiveness. LTRs require other shit than that, but even women here admit that no amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:46 PM
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That’s my point. It’s not a solution. There’s really no other solution than “just be attractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:44 PM
9

I have to agree with this. Any guy can get an LTR, but you need to not be an absolute sperg and average looking. You gotta learn how to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:00 PM
4

I’m surprised you didn’t look at my flair. I can get LTRs just fine, I just can’t get casual sex which ultimately I want. Not sure what you mean by Uptight Redpill pricks, but I’m not even RP. I agree with things, but even I know that you can’t follow it completely or you’re doomed to failure. Anyway I am funny, and there was a point when I was confident. I used to believe I was attractive, but I still was unable to get casual sex. I kind of figured out though that casual sex is all looks and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:33 PM
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Well, truth be told sometimes there isn’t much a man can do. He can work on his style, grooming, haircuts, even work out, but to be honest it’s not necessarily going to make him attractive if he doesn’t have the base attributes to start with. For men, the only way for some to get attractive is via surgical methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:03 PM
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I mean... I do it. Didn’t do anything for me, but whatever I still do it. I was talking more on the physical aspect of looks, try working out and look into surgery if you’re not getting the attention you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:00 PM
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I’m pretty sure if they feel it might be a problem with their partner they lie, however plenty of women who have had casual sex end up with men who have had casual sex as well, so the men in question don’t care. It’s only a problem when she settles with an average looking beta who spent his college years and 20s being ignored by women and having maybe 5 or 6 partners by the time he marries her while she has many more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 11:57 AM
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Nothing? Like what can you do except force women to have sex with men they aren’t attracted to? I guess the only way to fix it would be for men to become attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 11:54 AM
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Only when they have the option to with a man more attractive than their partner. Women don’t fuck a dude uglier than their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:29 AM
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Wow, what a problem. Gosh I feel so bad for you. I’m gonna pray for you😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 09:36 PM
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