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| 2 | Do muscles matter?The opening sentence is my favorite: "Physical strength is the most important thing in life." He waxes and elaborates a bit, but I love the blunt opening. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 04:52 PM |
| 12 | Do muscles matter?I think 90% of the time someone doesn't want to "get jacked" they really just don't want to put in any effort. I put on around 25 pounds of muscle, no one thinks I look worse, women are way more interested. I'd be surprised if anyone's quality of life decreases from getting stronger. | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 09:56 PM |
| 1 | advice requested: asking a girl out after a breakupThat "never" word gets tossed around a lot. | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Gaming store employees?So, if everyone felt the way you do people like: Retail employees, bartenders, waitresses would all be single. | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 03:37 PM |
| 9 | What is wrong with me?I don't even understand how this is a question. You fucking have 0 free time for fun or relaxation and wonder why your life sucks? Good god dude, it's a fucking no brainer. Your roomate is laid back and probably less of a loser than your colorful judgement makes him seem. Good on you for working hard and all that, but you know what they say. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. When the fuck would you even hang out with a girl? | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 06:29 PM |
| 36 | Sometimed /b/tards give the best advice. Got this off of 4chan...Best seduction guide I have ever seen.Truly meta | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Here is what I have learned over the past 12 months.Dockers Alpha Khakis are nice, I wear levi's 511s for jeans cause they're cheaper than some ridiculous raw denim or something. Those are both "skinny" though, so depending on your body may not work for you. http://dressed.so/ is a cool website to get some ideas on what you may want to shoot for. Here is a fit guide you should read! I'll assume we're talking "casual" not for work or anything. | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Here is what I have learned over the past 12 months.Yes. Ditch the cargo pants, now. Honestly. A lot of it depends on your body type. What do you look like? Regardless, you need find clothes that FIT. Get your nice shirts and pants tailored. Wear shirts that compliment your complexion, wear pants that fit well and aren't baggy. They don't have to be super skinny or 511's, but it won't hurt. No tennis shoes with jeans, shave, no white socks, no clashing undershirts. T shirts are OK depending on context. Make sure they fit and don't have really lam… | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 04:26 AM |
| 9 | "You try too hard to 1. get people to like you 2. be funny." I need to fix this, and I want your help.Sign up for gym, DO IT! Needs to be: Sign up for and regularly go the gym. | /r/seduction | 07/03/12 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Here is what I have learned over the past 12 months.A lot of what looks good will depend on your complexion and body. Rule #1 is that it has to fit well. You absolutely can't go wrong with a white or blue shirt. If you're going out at night, feel free to wear darker. | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Here is what I have learned over the past 12 months.I really don't see clothing so essential. I think a general tip is to wear what you feel comofortable in. There was a time I felt this way too. It's completely incorrect though. Dressing well as an adult is absolutely one of the best things you can do for yourself. The amount of positive attention that you'll receive can't be overstated. Don't wear a suit at 21, sure. But don't wear baggy ill fitting clothes and t-shirts either. | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you make a comeback after being in a long relationship?Solid advice, your top 3 are just about the most important things I've done in my entire life. People fucking LOVE smiling people. It's so much fun and natural to just be happy and smiling all the time now. Working out is massively important for too many reasons to list. Eat well, you've got one body. | /r/seduction | 02/03/12 09:55 PM |
| 1 | What's up with "the sniff"?I've been told several times this week by women that I smell good on the days I have no deodorant or cologne on. I shall pursue this further in the name of science. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Theoretical way to initiate Kino (never tried this but someone try for me)That's idiotic man. You're reading shit on the internet about talking to fucking human beings in real life. That's it. Jesus christ dude, go outside and talk to people. Come read this stuff, sure, but you don't study for a test. This isn't the fucking SAT. Don't waste a god damn year. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Undergoing self-improvement - How do you change who you are in front of people who have known you for a long time?Please wear a black undershirt! | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Socially awkward penguin embarrassing myself a lot, should I just keep going?It's certainly easier! | /r/seduction | 24/02/12 05:22 PM |
| 2 | [FR#1] You gotta start somewhere.I've done something like that a bit. It's an easy way to prevent yourself from having to do any real work or put yourself out there. If you reject them for whatever reason before you even know them, then you convince yourself you didn't care or didn't miss an opportunity. It can be very self-defeating. Obviously if you're not attracted to someone, that's another thing. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Still have one-itis after 5 months...Damn, you've been in some long ones. I don't mean to imply that you should just go out and find women though. 100% focus on yourself, think of all the cool shit you couldn't do with a SO. Hop on a plane and go tour a city, Play video games all saturday, go to the gym 3 times a week. Improve the hell out of yourself as well. Being single is the tits man. Enjoy it, you have many people's envy. | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 10:08 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl says...Tell her you don't want to be her friend, fuck that. I told my last LTR early on (after we had made out and such) "Fuck no" when she suggested we just be friends. We dated for 2.5 years. I don't mean to give you false hope at all, but if what you want is MORE than friendship, then simply tell her: "I've got plenty of friends, and I can't be just friends with you." And then let her be man. It's for the best. | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it just a coincidence that all these PUA's are hot white guys?I mean, they're definitely not trolls, but I don't think they're mega-attractive. Certainly that's not what they go out and pick up in I'd imagine. | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Still have one-itis after 5 months...Nobody seems to stack up to my ex though. Listen dude, I've been there. That is total and complete bullshit. I have dated some incredible girls, and each one is special and unique. They've all got so many wonderful idiosyncrasies that make them worth knowing. They have interests, and quirks, and that's what makes it fun. There are tons of fantastic women out there. Do not contact your ex at all. Grieve for a little bit if you need it, but then pull up your pants move the fuck on. Every time you … | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 08:58 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with "We just met", "I don't even know you" ?Worked like a charm for me. | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 08:53 PM |
| 1 | FR K-Close, but I think I screwed up.A date is NOT the answer Why do you say that? | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Desperate, confused, frustrated ramblings of a suicidal loner. Please help.No sane person can be satisfied with life if no one will fuck them. This is especially true for guys. Can you please stop saying this like you speak for the entire species? It's bullshit, stop using it to excuse your issues. That can only be said for so long. I've been improving myself and my life for a long time now. The rewards need to come sometime. As soon as you see that the improvement itself is the reward, you'll feel better. Again, I feel weird and creepy (or at least feel like I'd be la… | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Desperate, confused, frustrated ramblings of a suicidal loner. Please help.Negativity is probably gonna hurt you more than anything else. This is the most profound thing in the entire thread. Hell, this is the most profound thing a negative person can realize. Nothing will change your life for the better like a new attitude. Positive thinking will draw people to you like a fucking magnet. I'm speaking from experience here as well. Controlling my pessimistic, whiney, negative, bullshit attitude was one of the best things I've ever done. I think intelligent people often … | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 09:19 PM |
| 3 | How would you approach a girl you have multiple classes with, but have never really spoken to before?And, as is typical, it's super simple. Just say Hi and introduce yourself and ask her name. Well said. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone have any good tips for game at the gymI have a personal rule where I don't do it. I'm a "gym rat" and it just feels wrong to me. I've complemented a gorgeous girl for doing awesome lifts and not being scared of weight-lifting on my way out the door. Thats about it. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 09:41 PM |
| 2 | How I Handled A FlakeRight now, I'm staying true to my words. If I say I'm doing something, I will try my damnedest to follow through. This is what makes you an honorable man. Good on you brother. Nothing counts like your word. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 09:23 PM |
| 4 | [FR] So I kicked my AA square in the nuts todayTeapotcolypse? | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 09:32 PM |
| 2 | The seddit mindset is sort of like poison. Not sure if it's a good thing or a bad thing. Anyone else have problems "being themselves" now?That doesn't make any fucking sense at all. I certainly hope the only thing stopping you from a murderous rampage isn't some silly laws on paper. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 09:31 PM |
| 9 | When a girl gets too cutesy with you, is it a problem, and how do you handle it?Really? You didn't think females could become infatuated with one particular guy? They're human man. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 09:19 PM |
| 8 | Is it too late for me?Indeed | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 08:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] No-close, eye-opener.Fat people in America have an unbelievable choice in off the rack clothing! | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 01:29 AM |
| 2 | [FR] No-close, eye-opener.Seriously, it's some of the best money you can spend to look good. It's about 10 bucks a shirt or so and it will fit you like a damn glove. Ideally your tailor will be up to date on fashion and what fits well and then it's REALLY easy. It's impossible for me to wear off the rack stuff @ 6'4" 205lbs. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 10:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] No-close, eye-opener.So... did you get your damn clothes to fit right? Go get your shit tailored my friend. Well fitting clothes are amazing. Congrats on the mindset. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 07:48 PM |
| 5 | [FR] K-Close HB8, adventure time.HTML doesn't work here my friend. And it sounds like a great time. I miss mountain biking so much. Well done. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 07:21 PM |
| 1 | From getting a girl's BF angrily texting me, to another girl agreeing to a make out, and another girl qualifying herself within minutes of meeting her [3 FR's, somewhat long]Good stuff mostly. However, the feeling that I came away with was that you're texting seems to need work man. Both times you probably should have stopped long before you did IMO. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Can sunglasses hurt Daygame?deep. | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Everything went perfect with a girl I really like, I couldnt work up the courage to kiss herDon't reject yourself man! You beat yourself in your own head before she even had a chance to. Also, she wouldn't reject it. Get out of your own head. I over think too sometimes and I hate it! | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 04:30 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My 2nd date with 9 and worse LMR.Gotta admit, that's pretty odd man. When I was in college I think we had 4 downstairs haha. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Everything went perfect with a girl I really like, I couldnt work up the courage to kiss herIt sounds like pretty fucking awesome advice to me. Try it. What've you got to lose? | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 10:09 PM |
| 11 | Talking to women at gyms: how is this NOT creepy?I agree, to me a Gym is almost a sacred place. I definitely don't think people are hoping to get hit on. It may work, but I still feel like it's a place that's off limits for me. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 07:40 PM |
| 9 | I don't think I can do this.It's not about "Fuck gender roles." Acting like there isn't a difference in the sexes is ridiculous. I'm not talking about stupid social bullshit like who buys who drinks, but deeper more meaningful differences that exist due to us being bathed in massively different chemicals our whole lives. If I had listened to bullshit about how women and men should be I'd still be sitting on my lonely ass in some bar waiting for a guy to buy me a drink. That's also some pretty heavy speculation. These are n… | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 09:01 PM |
| 8 | I don't think I can do this.I think it's pretty naive to discount the differences between the sexes so easily just because you have rare case of being the pursuer, rather than the pursued. | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with emotions as a PUADammit, guilt! But yeah. Look out for the guild too! | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Regarding Self-Improvement and Some Obstacles I'm HavingAbsolutely man. There is a light. You just have self image issues and you don't need to. You're doing it right! Chin up bro. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Regarding Self-Improvement and Some Obstacles I'm HavingDon't write this off, because I'm dead serious, but do you work out? Lift weights, get strong, and enjoy the massive increase in self image and self confidence. There is no reason to feel shame for your past, you recognized and problem and you're trying to fix it. Hell, that alone puts you miles above most people. Embrace it man, you're improving yourself. How fucking awesome is that? Stick with it guy. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with emotions as a PUAI'll tell you about my personal experience. I had a "first love" type breakup, many years ago (i think 8?) and it devastated me. I was an absolute wreck. Not long after we broke up, i met someone else and we got very close and wound up sleeping together. I felt horrible, I felt like a cheater, and I couldn't stand it. I hadn't even done anything wrong! I never talked to the girl again, serious jerk move on my part. Fast forward a couple years, no relationships, lots of depression, a bit of play … | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 09:10 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Cock blocking matesI’m not the greatest guy out Don't think like this my man. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 08:39 PM |
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