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| 21 | Is there a template for MAP (Male Action Plan)? | Red Pill Example | earthwalker7 | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/26 01:49 AM |
| 14 | Is there a template for Male Action Plan (MAP)? | earthwalker7 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/26 10:20 AM |
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| 1 | Where Are All the Gym Chads?“It’s a trap!” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/26 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Guessing free meal was the goal'drinks' can mean getting a coffee or tea. Those don't make one fat. Being a foodie using men for lots of free meals could def make one fat tho. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/11/25 06:58 AM |
| 19 | If Tom Brady and Bill Gates got divorced then what chance do mere mortals have?Divorce is a great financial windfall for women. Especially if they are married to an ultra-high-net-worth person like Tom Brady or Bill Gates. They can be rid of the troublesome man and become a billionnaire at the same time. What a deal! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/25 01:05 PM |
| 1 | If men are capable of having hookups that mean nothing to them, then so can women.I (RP-M) agree with OP. If a girl was “easy” I didn’t judge her. I would respectfully and caringly help her get her needs met. But if I saw the girl had relationship potential I would take things slower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 11:24 PM |
| 9 | Men who don't want to get married, why?47% divorce in first time marriage. Similar numbers in China, since you’re obsessed with it. A further 20-25% are estimated to stay together just for the kids. Speaking from experience and my circle, the actual numbers are likely much higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 05:20 AM |
| 4 | Men who say they don't careOh I care. A lot. I want a woman who is intelligent and hard working and has stuff going on in her life. We are a team and if she is winning in her career then the team is winning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Do you think a younger woman is entitled to leave an older man she's been dating after he's spent?I second this. My girls been with me for almost 20 years since we were both in our 20s. I was 27 and working in high finance and she was 21 just starting her career as a receptionist when we met. We have supported each other for a very long time. I don’t plan to ditch her now that she’s aged, and I would be pretty pissed off if she left me now that I’ve provided lifestyle for her and helped her advance her career. I put her through college and two graduate degrees. I helped her with a lot of her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 02:21 AM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?Wife is definitely a bitch to everyone. Just in different ways. 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:42 PM |
| – | Debate: The idea of men fully financially providing for a wife is more popular online than it is in the real world.Wish I had. I kept stubbornly trying to make it work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 10:09 PM |
| – | Debate: The idea of men fully financially providing for a wife is more popular online than it is in the real world.In my own case providing for my wife was forced on me. We discussed it before marriage of course. But she got too comfortable once we got married. She went on a legitimate medical leave after we got married but then proceeded to let me be the sole provider for 17 years. We talked about it. We fought about it. I threatened divorce over it. But ultimately one cannot make a spouse work if they aren’t willing. FML | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Silent treatmentRight? I mean, it's "I'm mad, so I'm going to give you space, freedom, and stop my nagging and bullshit." Um, ok, weird flex but sure. I'll the take the W. | /r/askMRP | 23/11/24 03:05 AM |
| 8 | Don't save her, she don't wanna be savedAlso setting yourself on fire to keep others warm never works. Not in any facet of life. The takers never appreciate it anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | What are some tips or quick fixes that actually had a big impact on your life?Truly, an underrated skill | /r/askMRP | 20/09/24 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Withdrawing attention after disrespect?One thing I don’t get is why you gave up spending time with your biological family. You could’ve just uninvited the wife. She can’t disrespect you in front of others and expect to be brought into the inner circle of your life and participate. | /r/askMRP | 31/08/24 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Insane disrespect from wife (but only on “bitch week”Wow, that’s crazy bro. She goes from Angel to physically abusive? PMS or no, she does not have the right to physically abuse you. That is some effed up thing, man. | /r/askMRP | 01/08/24 05:24 PM |
| 7 | [FR] She won me back but felt " raped "Ever consider you may not be suited to an LTR right now? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/06/24 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Quick lifting FR for those who read this sub and don't act (like me)I love lifting heavy. But I've f'ed myself up twice recently - both on back squats. Tore what I believe is the r. abdominis on the way up in the squat. That took me out for weeks. What do you advise? Using machines on super heavy lifts to failure? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/24 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Wife wants to use a surrogateI got that part, but it's a somewhat general statement and subjective. Insufficient details have been provided to us. I'm clarifying before responding. | /r/askMRP | 18/04/24 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Wife wants to use a surrogateDon’t understand. Why does she need a surrogate? She doesn’t want kids? Doesn’t want kids to wreck her figure? How old is she and is there a medical reason? Critical details are missing here. | /r/askMRP | 18/04/24 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Wife wants to use a surrogateDon’t understand. Why does she need a surrogate? She doesn’t want kids? Doesn’t want kids to wreck her figure? How old is she and is there a medical reason? Critical details are missing here. | /r/askMRP | 18/04/24 12:00 AM |
| 18 | Wife wants to use a surrogateDon’t understand. Why does she need a surrogate? She doesn’t want kids? Doesn’t want kids to wreck her figure? How old is she and is there a medical reason? Critical details are missing here. | /r/askMRP | 18/04/24 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Careers worth getting into.Right on. 👍 sure happy to DM and discuss careers, investment strategies etc | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/24 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Careers worth getting into.Invest where you have an edge. And invest in dependable things. Your personal life should be interesting, your investments should be boring. For me, I have an edge in real estate, and so I invest there. I also keep plowing money into ETFs for liquid capital reserves - VOO and VGT specifically. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/24 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Careers worth getting into.That's aweosme. Good job getting that role, and I respect the hustle. You're on your way to getting rich. M&A is a great training ground. Your greatest payment is the learning and brand rather than salary. As I don't need to tell you, play the long-game. I think I get what you're saying. You're really saying "one rarely gets rich off salary". I agree broadly. Salary is the booby-prize, the distraction. To be fair, in many of the fields you wrote out (including IBD and PE) salary can still be sig… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/24 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Careers worth getting into.Great. Me too (in PE). I would like to hear more. I'm guessing you work in IBD (possibly ECM?) and are at the analyst /associate level. Keen to hear your perspective. Why is owning a business the only way to get rich? What has led you to that conclusion? Haven't you seen yourself plenty of other people get rich in other ways? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/24 11:59 AM |
| 4 | Careers worth getting into.So maybe this is a learning opportunity. I am not intersted in convincing you I'm right. You wrote you're in finance, that your MDs are handcuffed to the job, etc. So now we've establisehd we're both in finance. Which part of finance are you in, what level, etc? Maybe share more about your perspective. My lived experinece is far different, but before we delve into that, explain to me more about your backgrouind and perspective. Maybe I'll learn something. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/24 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Careers worth getting into.LOL. Why? Do you have anything intersting to add to the discussion? You've made your fortune and want to tell us how to do it? I think this is a very red-pilled dscussion. We're all clinically saying that as men we need to bring in wealth (whatever your reason for it is), and now we're chopping it up and disucssing how to do it (or how we did it) . This is probably the most red-pill thread I've seen this month., if you scratch below the surface | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/24 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Careers worth getting into.Incorrect. Just so wrong. But you may want to reflect on the fact that your only conception of investment is a mere $5k per month. I can concretely tell you that careers in finance can absolutely get you there. Carried interest in private equity can get you there. Investment in real estate can get you there. Now Perhaps you are unaware of how carried interest in private equity works, or how much you can get in bonus at an investment banks. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/24 10:28 AM |
| 19 | Careers worth getting into."While it is true that owning a business is the ONLY way to get rich," I disagree. Business ownership is a valid way of getiing rich, but not the only way. I would argue that investment is also a good way to get rich, as are high-earning salaried roles (some of which you described above) which provide a capital base which you can then invest. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/24 09:45 AM |
| 3 | Sexually unsatisfiedSex is pretty important part of most LTRs. you value sex. She does not. You crave it. She does not. studies have shown that female interest in sex declines over LTR‘s. It’s part of evolutionary psychology behaviour, more frantic mating at the beginning of a relationship in order to secure the mate and then less frequently over time , if you’re starting from a weak position now you shouldn’t expect it to get stronger over time but in fact weaken it may be best for you to cut your losses and walk … | /r/askMRP | 17/03/24 12:48 AM |
| 2 | How to Manage GFs “Complaints”lol. It was humor sir. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/24 02:18 PM |
| 2 | How to Manage GFs “Complaints”Sounds like she is just bored at work and wants a moment of escape from the drudgery. You handled these fine. Ofc if these annoy you then you could stop responding or delay your response until you’re off work. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/24 02:17 PM |
| 7 | How to Manage GFs “Complaints”Reply with a dick pic each time. She will get the message. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/24 02:14 PM |
| 13 | Setting up my business, wife suddenly bitchyFirst, fuck that bitch. You do this shit for you. If you're ready to build your own business, go do that shit. Be a beast. Kill it and bring in the fat stacks of cash. For you, not her. She's clearly happy being a nag and leaching off you in comfort, but not backing you when you hit a layoff speedbump. You handle your own business. As to the 'why is she being this way?' question - need more info. Is the new company you're starting likely to bring in as much money as your previous employment? Are… | /r/askMRP | 21/01/24 02:57 AM |
| 10 | Should I end the relationship?Prob not a great idea to F your coworker, if you value your career that is. Dunno what your industry is tho so DYOR. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 08:20 AM |
| 1 | What else can I do? how else to handle semi-starfish sex?These are not mutually exclusive things. Of course, he should practice game, frame, making himself into the best version of himsel, etc however, it is quite also logical to consider the effects of SSRI’s on his wife’s brain chemistry. | /r/askMRP | 24/11/23 01:42 PM |
| 1 | What else can I do? how else to handle semi-starfish sex?The SSRIs may be an issue. If those are introduced into the equation they can be an overriding factor. | /r/askMRP | 23/11/23 06:59 PM |
| 6 | Wife wants to host her nephew and his roommate (who neither of us know) in our houseWhat do you care about consensus on a rando Reddit site? Your life, you decide. That said, I think you're making a mistake here. It's 2-3 nights with a family member as guest. Not a big deal. Pick your battles. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/11/23 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Wife wants to host her nephew and his roommate (who neither of us know) in our houseI don't see what the big deal is. First, it's just 2-3 nights. The cousin is family. You have a 4 floor townhouse. It sounds reasonably sized and can accomodate 4 people. Yes your needs and wants need to be fully respected, but not every matter is "my way or the highway." Do you want to be right, or do you want to be married? Pick your battles, and get something out of this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/11/23 02:27 AM |
| 5 | An ex-wife that enthusiastically followed?I believe there is an ingrained evolution psychology desire for women to smooth over a breakup so that the male does not bash their brains in. Cave Stacy has got to keep Cave Ken from getting violent. So when they break up they want to hug it out, be friends, say it was them not you, etc. this is because you, the male, are a tangible threat and they want to keep things civilized (ie non physical, non violent ). She just put you through he divorce process. Some part of her prehistoric brain is te… | /r/askMRP | 12/09/23 11:19 AM |
| 2 | What's the alternative to acting butthurt when she does something fucked up?Your bar for 'something fucked up' that someone can do is super low. This will make it difficult for you to be truly happy. Going to a classmates house is not fucked up. | /r/askMRP | 17/08/23 03:42 AM |
| 0 | My intolerance to shittests has grown out of proportion: weak frame or it just comes with maturity?I dunno. Sometimes a schedule change is just a schedule change. Hard to judge from the info given. Good luck tho. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/23 12:13 PM |
| 11 | Does my girlfriend think I'm beta? Am I beta?Mate, I say this with kindness. She’s not the problem. You are. You have no confidence, few friends, and a whole host of other issues. And because you’re weak you’ve either attracted a disrespectful girl or you have trained her to disrespect you. In life we train others how to treat us. And in this case you either taught her to disrespect you or she was already disrespecting you and you simply accepted it. And now you’re emotionally invested. So here’s a step by step. Lift, sidebar, understand c… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/23 04:45 AM |
| 29 | Does my girlfriend think I'm beta? Am I beta?Ding ding ding. COMFORT. You give her comfort and safety. And she doesn't treat you with respect. So why would YOU stay? What do you get out of it? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/23 12:33 AM |
| 43 | Does my girlfriend think I'm beta? Am I beta?when I make jokes she rolls her eyes or makes fun of me she relentlessly pushes back when I try to express any opinions ... she just shuts it down she fake-listens she wasn't even listening suddenly leave the room while I'm talking to her She's made fun of me in front of her friends she becomes hostile She doesn't like you. She's not your GF. You can treat her as a plate, fuck her, and keep her at a distance. Or just leave. Do NOT get emotionally entangled with someone who disrepsects you like t… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/23 12:22 AM |
| 48 | Does my girlfriend think I'm beta? Am I beta?Comfort. Insecurity. Maybe you buy her shit she wants or stroke her ego. Agree with the above comment. Doesn't sound like she likes you very much. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | The good that you’ve done will be forgotten.In my experience there are certainly many light switch and fair weather friends. That’s the majority of people. The relationship is built on an exchange of value - emotional, social, material. But then there are a handful of long-standing friends. Those are not dependent on an exchange but on somethings much deeper. Those are friendships that shine brightest when things are most inconvenient, when you are a burden to one or the other. I can count those friendships on one hand but they do exist a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/23 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth it moving out to improve my social life and skills?There’s of course the option of having housemates but not roommates. I would advise you do that. Living with others your age will be a fun experience and improve your social skills. And you can go out with the boys and practice game. And there’s zero problem bringing a girl back to your room if you don’t share the same room even if you do share the overall apartment | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/23 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with toxic in lawsNo chick is worth this. You marry her, you will get her family and baggage. It’s a package deal | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Forgiving your FatherI appreciated this read, though in my case I barely got to know my father. I certainly admired him. He was a military leader, an officer, a member of government, an international diplomat, and then a businessman. But disease took him from us far too early. For all those who had an imperfect or even highly flawed father, I suggest you may still want to count your blessings that you got to know him while you could. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/23 11:55 PM |
| 12 | (VENT/ADVICE) Was delayed gratification worth it? Or did I sell out control/freedom?Sounds like you’re on a great path. Keep going. Don’t give up. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/23 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Low SMV women have the same mentality as Beta malesCan anyone explain this post to me? “Hi I am an SMV 8 but I only plow 1s and 3s that are morbidly obese.” Why??? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/23 06:18 AM |
| 9 | Low SMV women have the same mentality as Beta malesRight. Why be with 8s and 9s when you can FWB 1s and 3s. This is nuts sir. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/23 03:16 PM |
| 14 | Low SMV women have the same mentality as Beta malesGood lord this sounds fucking terrible man. Have some standards. Also, this must be just murder on your self esteem. Go date in your own species FFS. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/23 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Woman are interested but life is still a mess.seems like OP's best bet is to accept hairlessness and sport TheRock look. That means maximizing phyisque. But which lifting plan to follow? There's so many variants. What have you guys seen as helpful resources? I get confused as there's so many lifting theoreticians - like the 'slow lift' Mike Mentzer (high intensity, 1-2x gym per week), or push-pull low volume, etc. Seems so many contradicting plans. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/23 07:31 PM |
| 115 | Breakup, need new plan of actionMy dude it's fine. She self-selected out. Did you a favor frankly. Go find other girls. Simple. Lift, pursue financial progress, meet other girls. What's the problem? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 10:34 AM |
| 16 | Can you really see yourself with a (much) younger woman?You get to decide. Hold your standards high. I know sophisticated 23 year olds and vapid 30 year olds. Find someone good and vet very thoroughly. Good you know your Standards. Hold to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/23 02:14 AM |
| 1 | No man is ever good enoughAnd what done / sidebared read / learned that helped you most? What have you found most relevant for building such a mindset? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Wife wants a long-distance marriage“If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. With confidence, you have won even before you started.” Marcus Garvey | /r/askMRP | 19/02/23 12:59 PM |
| 2 | What Training Split do you do?I use 20kg (45lb) for single arm exercises and 32 kg (70lb) kettlebells for two handed exercises like kb swings, high pulls, deadlifts. But yes even the 32 kg one is getting light and the trouble with kettlebells is you can’t add weight. I started using the 32 kg one for single handed exercises recently instead. Not saying it’s better than a gym but it’s far faster and more frequent so it’s good for a busy person | /r/askMRP | 09/02/23 11:59 PM |
| 2 | What Training Split do you do?Devils advocate: if one kettle kettlebells at home one can get cardio lifting sessions done on a daily basis without having to do complicated gym planning or even making a trip out to the gym. That increases frequency of workouts and saves time because it’s readily available home equipment. Thoughts? | /r/askMRP | 09/02/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Brink of DivorceIt’s unclear what your goals are and therefore unclear how your actions are moving you towards those. Adding dread repeatedly seems to be pushing you to a Main Event. Is that what you were after? If that’s not what you are after, then are you sure your going Hard Red is serving you? If not, what blended / softened / alternative strategies and behaviors can you utilize to get to your objectives? I am a noob here and am just sticking to sidebar and STFU. But I am not sure simply throwing more alph… | /r/askMRP | 19/12/22 09:18 PM |
| 5 | Paying of a debt, was there burning desire...?It wasn’t clear. You wrote quite poorly. Please edit your post sir and try again. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/22 01:49 AM |
| 15 | Paying of a debt, was there burning desire...?Exactly. I think this is poor quality AI-generated content. Reads like a dog jumped on the keyboard. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | I feel like following RP advice will make me a monster.Take what serves you, discard what does not. RP is not a monolithic philosophy. There are many divergent ideas and thinkers. You can pick and choose what works for you, at this moment. Just approach all this with an open mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/22 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Hot girl at the office is throwing huge IOIs and I'm not sure what to doI would say the opposite. If he is going to hook up with her then he needs a paper trail in case she claims rape or sexual harassment | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/22 07:03 AM |
| 10 | Hot girl at the office is throwing huge IOIs and I'm not sure what to doJust wait until you eventually leave the company or she does. This keeping her in suspense is an awesome card to play. I had a similar situation. I flirted but did not escalate. Eventually I left the company as one tends to and then it was on. It’s been 17 years LTR since. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/22 07:02 AM |
| 4 | Emotional Cheating, Next StepsI’ll second what SnooPets said about not being ruled by emotions. Work on detaching yourself and get grounded with what is in your rational self-interest. Emotions have no place in decision making. These will lead you astray 100% of the time. Seems all of your post was about the girl and what she wants. That’s all wrong. That’s being a doormat. Think about what is in your best interest and you will know what to do. Best of luck. | /r/askMRP | 29/11/22 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Deciding I need to open the relationship up (x-post from MarriedRedPill)Amazed you have the time. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/22 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Ex reached out 6 months after breaking up, while shes in a relationship. How to proceed?Subtle flex bro | /r/askMRP | 04/11/22 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Advice for Mid-30s Married Crypto Millionaire with Kids and Regrets?You have quite a victim mindset. Gotta take ownership my man. Even when you describe coming into a group of successful and educated PhDs with promise you seem despondent that nothing came of it. If you had the good fortune to meet successful people and you wanted some good to come out of it - then YOU should have made something happen! Did you set up a VC fund? Did you get together a syndicate? Seems like you’re just replaying the old victim card everywhere you go. Stop doing that, take ownershi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/10/22 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Diagnosed with MS in my 20sLots of treatments these days. More than 20 therapies. It’s not the sentence it once was. | /r/askMRP | 15/09/22 07:37 AM |
| 3 | How to standout to women who have options besides just being very handsomeLift | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless.. Any recommendations?It’s good to keep standards high. Be particular. Be picky. But still date. You’ve got a clear goal. Keep to it | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 10:30 AM |
| 3 | I've had this "nice guy" or "very kind" problem ever since my divorce, pandemic, and now continues even despite major weight loss.I don’t doubt it. Just downloaded it per your recommendation. Keep the good ideas coming. I am an eternal student | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:10 AM |
| 3 | I've had this "nice guy" or "very kind" problem ever since my divorce, pandemic, and now continues even despite major weight loss.^ this guy f**ks | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | I've had this "nice guy" or "very kind" problem ever since my divorce, pandemic, and now continues even despite major weight loss.Interesting that you felt you commanded respect in your youth and then became a less assertive/ confident later. What made you confident early? That is, how did you proactively develop your capabilities and traits that regard- and what changed in later years? Maybe this will help illuminate your problem and give you a guide to how to re-engineers yourself as the man you want to be / once was. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Want to ask out this barista. How often should I stop by?Yup. Singular datapoint. N=1 sample size. Still highly inappropriate. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Want to ask out this barista. How often should I stop by?“Yeah see here’s a singular datapoint where things worked out. That’s totally makes it cool and appropriate.” | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 02:33 PM |
| 0 | Want to ask out this barista. How often should I stop by?Don’t. You should not hit on people at work. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 11:23 PM |
| 16 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500Perhaps better to focus on free online content and downloadable books | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Girl acting aggressive over textYou keep saying this, as if it's a win. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Girl acting aggressive over textIndeed. You played, and now you've won a stupid prize. Chick is moody and crazy. Now if you keep her as a plate, cool. I would not recommend an LTR. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Girl acting aggressive over textPlay stupid games, win stupid prizes. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to ask out every attractive girl I see / interact with?what would you say are the main take-aways from Noom? It's more psychology focused right? | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to ask out every attractive girl I see / interact with?gotta ask - how did you lose 70lbs in a year? I'm taking notes. Respect, and well done. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Hinge date went cold after sexPossibility is that she means what she says. Med school is a bitch and a half. Many med students used sex as an outlet to get thru it. You said she is serious about schooling. Maybe she really is preoccupied and trying not to fail out. You played it right. Now it’s up to the universe to decide. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird if I teach my sister what is sex and how to touch herself?Any book on self-care from a sex standpoint. I am not sure what to recommend. Perhaps others on the chat can. Don't know, but it's good you are trying to help. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird if I teach my sister what is sex and how to touch herself?Maybe get her a book instead | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 11:14 AM |
| 9 | My friends dating success made me envious of him to the point that we aren’t friends anymoreI am a guy and I have never done that nor has any of my guy friends ever done that to me. I don’t think I would tolerate that shit. If they did I might send to some group hat and put the mofo on blast. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | My friends dating success made me envious of him to the point that we aren’t friends anymoreYour friend sounds uncaring and a piss poor friend. But he is successful with women, which is what you want to be. Learn from him, figure out what makes him successful, and emulate that. Then unfriend him. Use from him what serves you and forget the rest. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How can I talk about my job in a more interesting way?I work in high finance. It's interesting work that excites me, but what I am really passionate about is [insert fun hobby here; eg. kickboxing, competitive basket weaving, traveling to exotic places]. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Told girl that I would do onlyfans for extra moneyit means you got your first customer. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 04:44 AM |
| 5 | 36F desperately wants to get marriedRun. I said... RUUUUUUUN!!!!!! | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 04:43 AM |
| 2 | I asked a female friend to give me a lap dance for my birthday, she asked me if i was crazy. Why?If she doesn’t see you in a sexual way then you need to decide if you can accept that. Then you either maintain friendship or move on | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Who is the greatest seducer you've seen in person and what was his methods?Follow | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | I see my ex girl all the time at University, how do I behave around her?I'm sure being a good bloke and saying hi is not simping. I did suggest that you be courteous and what you described sounds fine. Just be a regular person. She's normal, your normal, and that's ok. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 07:44 AM |
| 5 | I see my ex girl all the time at University, how do I behave around her?never simp. NEVER EVER. Keep dignity and self-respect. Be courteous if you meet because being a dick is always petty, and in a sense is a form of letting her win and know how important she is to you still. Keep dignity first and foremost. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Would you sleep with someone for fun if your intention is a relationship?yes | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Ever felt your date was relatively boring but can’t stop thinking about them?why not? some people take longer to open up | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 07:10 AM |
| 4 | Brother pimping bitches from his HSwhy don't you learn from him, then come back and share the knowledge here | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Am I immature for cutting off my best friend after she rejected me?Good friends are hard to come by. Best friends are even more precious. There's a lot of girls out there to date. Why burn a true friend? | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 12:15 AM |
| 8 | Dont be afraid to approach women.Totally agree. I get a buzz out of every shot I take, especially with a hottie. I get a buzz on the adrenaline of the hunt, having the courage to try, and seeing her smile even in the cases where I'm not a fit. Rejection is just that "Not a fit, right now." Yeah, maybe she has a bf, or maybe I'm not her type. 85% of the girls out there aren't my type either. So what? Just trying to find a match is not depressing. It's beyond thrilling! | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 05:39 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This is literally the storyline to a porn I watched when I was a teen. You sure this post is real? | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Learning To Love Hard WorkWe transform ourselves through suffering. Nothing in life worth having comes easy. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | The "I Have A Boyfriend" Excuse - What To Say (+Infield)"huh. How long you had that problem?" | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | First approach! How did I do?I generally try to find common ground and then use that as a pretext for a further meeting. Such as “so cool to know someone else who likes S&M. Why don’t we exchange numbers so we can go spanking together sometime.” Or some other activity. Whatever. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Should I stop sleeping with my hookup buddy if I’m starting to like him?perhaps I can address this in the words of a timeless song: "It was the heat of the moment, telling me what your heart meant." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHuXvj4WIoU | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Getting her to lose the weight?You are correct, neither do I. Interested to hear more about how you did it. | /r/askMRP | 16/01/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Getting her to lose the weight?aren't there significant ramifications if he's caught cheating in a marriage? If he's caught cheating and she divorces him she'll take the financial resources and probably his kids. I mean I hate to think this way, because I agree with your premise, but in reality every wife has a gun loaded and pointed to their husband's temple. Divorce rapes men like there's no tomorrow. | /r/askMRP | 15/01/22 11:37 PM |
| 5 | Getting her to lose the weight?"Sweetie I'm going for a jog/swim/walk/hike, want to come with?" | /r/askMRP | 15/01/22 12:57 AM |
| 7 | Getting her to lose the weight?If she has asked you for help a handful of times but then you “nerdgasm” all over her and things don’t stick then isn’t this indicative of your failure as a coach, given you have a willing student? Fitness for a beginner should be approachable and low stress. Work within her abilities and embrace her interest. don’t intimidate the poor gal. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Put Your Ego in the BoxVery helpful. Still studying, reading and STFUing. Is there a career-oriented sub-reddit? Either as part of MRP or just RP. I want to make sure I fully read up first. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/01/22 04:21 AM |
| 3 | She bought condoms right after we met for the first time. Normal?should have offered to break them in for her | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Is posting pics w multiple other girls good?such an Insta would portray your intentions accurately - and that's a very good thing. It's always better to be upfront with your intentions. You'll filter out the relationship-seeking girls, and will attract the ones who want the same thing you do. Better to not waste anyone's time, including your own. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 05:51 AM |
| 2 | I fucked up a second date and can’t forgive myselflearn self forgiveness. If you're not in your own corner, no one else will be | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Appreciation for "The book of pook".it's a good read for sure. I think the first half of the book is the better part, esp with the examples given | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | I used to think I had to be into "manly" things to get with girlskill her enemies and bring her their heads | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Girl with holding sex?I'll take a different tack than the others here. If you enjoy spending time with her, and you're down to just do that and not be intimate, then I think the occasional visit just to have fund time is ok. But I wouldn't get hung up on her, and I definitely wouldn't be spending much time or money on her. Withdraw your attention and make her the occasional drop-in friend. No more. Date other girls, and make this one a back burner. She may have problems around sex and intimacy, and these are not your… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 01:12 PM |
| 0 | What Movie do you guys recommend for a first date ?Debbie does Dallas | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 11:13 AM |
| 2 | I(21M) have gone on dates with a girl(20F) for about a month. Is it weird if there’s been no physical affection?Tell her about that time you went backpacking thru Europe | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Is she shit testing me by restricting me from viewing her Instagram stories?Dude | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 07:32 AM |
| 5 | Girl wants to hookup, I’m too nervoustry alcohol. It's the social lubricant. Liquid courage. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 10:13 AM |
| 2 | "Hes hot...but I get the vibe he wasnt born hot, so I'm weirded out by him"this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Terrible Oneitis, how to get over this?Shoot your shot player | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]... and had more dudes make deposits ... | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 06:32 AM |
| 354 | Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out?I'd recommend obsessing about it and letting it tear me up inside | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 02:00 AM |
| 30 | Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out?underrated comment! Always better to be witty and laugh it off | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 01:56 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]withdraw your attention. She seems like someone who is flakey, probably disinterested, and someone you're not really attracted to. Send her your number and say "when you're ready to get together, call me." Put the ball in her court and stop wasting your time or mindspace. Make her work for it for a change. | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 11:41 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]FFS ask the dude how he's doing it, then come back and report | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:30 PM |
| 34 | quick, I need a response for "Are you always so funny?"Babe, this isn't even my final form. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 05:41 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]yeah this. Why are you trying to make things confusing? In fact, the most important thing is that she knows it's a date. Perhaps say "Hey, would you like to get coffee/dinner sometime?" | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 07:08 PM |
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