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Muh PENISeatchickpeas/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:43 PM
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these kinds of men really want women to know that the violence they inflict on women is possible. they are brazen, they want to bond with other like minded men. this also acts like a huge bill board for pickmes because they'll want to be the 'cool girl', she'll work hard to 'win him over' by tolerating all his dumb childish jokes because only then will he give her the precious gift of male validation. this will all be shrugged off as a joke but can you imagine gay men following this trend on tik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 12:59 AM
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they want both. they want the security, stability, free chores, free sex and low body count of a housewife. but they also want sex with every woman ever, they want to replicate everything they see in porn. if a man could claim every woman and make every single woman his 'wife' he absolutely would. if he could ensure every woman is exclusive to him and him only, if he could pick and choose how he treated each one with zero consequences then men would be 100% happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 01:53 AM
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i love how pointless that first paragraph is because its supposed to relax you for the 2nd paragraph when you read about him getting mad about $100. hes taken on the provider role, hes chosen not to provide financially because hes having a tantrum about his wife having boundaries, hes determined to make his point but he feels guilty so he posts HIS version of the story online and he'll wait for the 0.0001% chance where he'll read a comment from another like minded man who will tel him 'no shes d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:53 PM
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at my old job i was the only WoC and actually PoC because the company was very white. everyone was very sweet to me, i had no problems but something i noticed was how cliquey the white coworkers were. if they dont like you they can make ur life hell because they see you as competition. my coworkers were white women they were borderline militant about making sure i felt comfortable, they were hyperaware of racism which was lovely i think its down to self esteem because if they feel insecure about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 12:28 PM
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in his mind his mum and his gf are both female livestock he has to 1) protect from other men and 2) must service his needs emotionally (mum must always be quiet, obedient, do all his chores, be on his side, keep parents house clean) and physically (gf provides sex, she cleans HIS house, provides therapy, must make kids). he cant understand why his washing machine (mum) is talking to his fleshlight (gf) his own mum telling him that shes okay with the tattoos his gf gave her isnt enough. hes not h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:05 AM
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the way racism and sexism intertwine for black women and girls can be deadly. if you know the media wont focus on the victim because they dont fit the traditional 'lost white girl' box, if you know theres institutional racism in the police, if you know society wont pay much attention to a victim and you manage to find a young vulnerable victim all alone, it makes alot of sense of a predatory violent male to target them. walking outside alone as a woman/girl is always a bit dangerous because you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:32 AM
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they have to balance the whole 'im a feminist, i respect women and believe in 50/50 for everything. i respect you and want you to contribute to the bills' with the whole 'i love you as a person, i really enjoy you but i just want something more you know? theres this new thing i want to try in the bedroom, we can do it after work tomorrow when ur done with the chores'. they want BOTH, they know deep down they have no business cohabitating with a woman they dont love and only use for sex, these me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 12:28 AM
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men play mind games like this with women but they NEVER do this with other men because men respect men. its not really about the sleeping hat, the man sees his gf as an object, he cant respect her thoughts/opinions, he hates the gf set a boundary about the sleeping hats, he chose to deliberately break that boundary, he jokes about it as a form of gaslighting to test her. to see if she will smile and nod or if she will really leave him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 12:16 AM
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if men were the ones who had to grow the baby for 9 months, go through labour, spend every waking moment taking care of the child FOR FREE, if men had to give up their surnames in marriage and watch the children they made take on the surname of the parent who does no childcare, alot of men wouldnt ever want children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 01:08 AM
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the whole husband day care thing is just funny to me. i mean men demand so much from their wives, what possible extra service do these men need that the wife is not giving? food made/clothes ironed/clothes washed/children looked after/house cleaned/free therapy and all that is STILL not enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 12:05 AM
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'males and FEMALES are wired differently, i dont think its fair for her to demand that i marry her. im so young, i dont want to be tied down. i dont want marriage but if she stops dating me and marries another man i will be mad. i wish she could just communicate'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:01 AM
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im from sri lanka, when i tell white people this they always insist that im technically from india and they insist they are correct when they first assume i am indian. it happens alot. ive had it from mostly white men but also with white women. theres a laziness attached to it, they dont care for your identity they just want to be BE right in that situation. i once replied back 'well france is really close to england so you are basically french, have you been to the eiffel tower?' and they saw r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 08:43 AM
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Hes doesnt respect her, he would never ask another man to do this. She should ask his parents to come visit her and play this dumb game in front of them. Make his parents sign papers for a new car under her name and watch him suddenly grow to hate the game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:25 PM
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the catcalling and harassment is still there but its really reduced the older i get. men KNOW that older women can spot red flags alot faster than a younger woman. girls and women arent taught in schools or by society what to do when they get catcalled i would freeze everytime and just hope the man would go away or id awkwardly laugh to make the man feel better. politeness never works, we have to be rude for our own safety and now when a man is being creepy i stare him down or yell really loud. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:33 PM
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the kanye west situation is alarming, hes showing all the traits of an abusive ex and kim runs the real risk of being physically harmed. i dont think society should laugh it off, slutshame kim and act like this is some sort of tv drama show but its whats happening. kanye's action are being offset by kim's past work they think because she did some nude photoshoots and made a sex tape that shes not worthy of feeling safe out in public or in her home. society loved her work, everyone was talking ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 06:30 AM
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it shows how men really see women and i think its so important for this to be shown without the filter. he can see kim's humanity when he links it to the idea of her being his daughter. if it was his daughter he would protect her but because shes outside his circle he just sees her as pussy. hes calling out kanye's behaviour which is good, its not great he used the word pussy to refer to a live adult human woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 06:24 AM
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theres this pattern in some men. they grow up with low self esteem for whatever reason, they repackage their insecurities into anger at a group of people for whatever reason eg rich women, beautiful women, poor women, ugly women. they'll swear that x is such a problem because they do y thing. they carry on with this borderline obessession for years until it gets to a point where they realise how dumb they are. they 'change' to respect the people they originally hated but they dont get the respon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 08:01 PM
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They want sex they dont want an actual relationship. If they outright say they want sex then they cant benefit from the unpaid labour of a woman, like cooking or cleaning. They intentionally want to keep things unlabelled so that they end up having a live in gf whos only in her 20s, they live for years sharing chores and when she gets 'too old' he dumps her and repeats the cycle with a younger woman. And of course these men will demand a 50/50 relationship. The problem is when the men realise th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:45 PM
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i feel terrible for the daughter hes raising. if hes throwing stupid tantrums like this over nothing can you imagine how he'd handle more serious stuff?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:04 AM
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he wants a housewife without the commitment lol because all the things he describes is the 1950s housewife. he explicitly wants a female even though men can do all the tasks he lists in the advert like cooking, cleaning, organising, driving. he doesnt mention sex but he wants a 'young' and 'positive' pepper pots so that when he does decide to get handsy, when he tests the boundaries he wants the woman to smile and nod of course hes only 25 yo man with a startup company, of course he cant pay the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:24 AM
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This is the kind of behaviour they always reserve for women. No man ever would pull a stunt like this on a male relative or friend because they RESPECT each other. Its manipulative of him to wave a carrot like that in her face when he should be respectful to her. Imagine if he tested a male friend like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:19 AM
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men with this kind of ideology dont care about making education and career easier to access for women with families. they are not interested in flexible working hours, men doing more chores around the house, women focusing on their careers etc. men LOVE and MISS the old system where women had to be a housewife or be homeless they love babytrapping a woman, making her stay in one house for 18+ years where she cooks and cleans, does everything for a family that will eventually abandon her in a car…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:18 AM
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they know deep down porn is deeply humiliating, dangerous and underpaid work but they cant openly admit that because men need women to believe the opposite. porn isnt just sex to them, its a patriarchal tool. its a way of telling themselves they are better than women, they dont want women to have power over something men actively use to degrade women he doesnt care for women, the porn is more valuable to him than the mental and physical wellbeing of a woman. if he was held to the same standards …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:04 AM
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i think he was using the clothes as an excuse. its more expensive to drive 4 hours to return clothes when instead he could have just ordered those clothes online for you or sent you the money i think ur ex couldnt handle the fact that you didnt want to be with him anymore, he wanted to 'talk' to you but really it would have been him yelling/screaming about how wrong you are for a few hours, he breaks some things in your house, yells cusswords then he goes home thinking you are both now 'even'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:44 AM
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i think he associates 'real' motherhood with pain. he doesnt want her to get a less painful procedure to deliver the child, he wants her to endure the pain that comes with a natural birth he doesnt care about the damage childbirth will do to her body. he will expect her to 'bounce back' to her original size, he hasnt even tried to learn what an umbilical cord is, if she is 'too loud' when she delivers the baby he will forever moan about it in future arguments and he'll be upset if she doesnt coo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:11 AM
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we arent safe on sea either sadly. what happened to Dianne Brimble on a cruise ship in 2002 was insane. from start to finish her name had been dragged through the mud, to this day not a single man is in prison. she is DEAD and NONE OF THE MEN who assaulted her are ALIVE AND FREE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:24 PM
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exactly this. hes incredibly careful of how he words it but this is it essentially. the line about 'if you have done porn before' made it obvious because if a woman has got experience they know the directors and everyone involved will push and coerce her to perform no matter what. experienced women can spot red flags faster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 07:37 PM
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he wants a docile obedient model to perform weird fetishes, he doesnt want to hire a male model to sleep with a hired female model because only his body and only his dick is the one they can use. he'll be mad if the model he hires has male friends or a bf/husband. he'll be mad if she insists on a condom or refuses whatever fetish he has
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 07:36 PM
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these kinds of women come in 2 types. theres 1 type where the women very genuinely believe what they are saying because they really think women are less than men. above everything else they will value a man's comfort and happiness with how 'good' the women are in his life. a good wife will break her back trying to please her husband in their eyes the other type is when the women have gone through extreme misogyny, they've been victims of abuse and have had opportunities taken away from them just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 10:21 PM
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i thought this was cute until i read 'throat GOAT' at the bottom there. but if she gave a trophy to her ex bf for having pepsi can thick dick suddenly she'd be in the wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:58 PM
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hes very careful with his words. he tells her 'nothing will change' so shes probably been doing all the chores the whole time, hes working yes thats nice but taking care of a whole house and keeping it running is more work than a 9 to 5. he expects her to continue on silently even though shes actively GROWING A WHOLE NEW LIFE IN HER BELLY, he says nothing about what will change in his life he will continue working the 9 to 5 but all the responsibility will be on her. he definitely strikes me as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:18 PM
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they'll say 'you are so precious', 'i've never felt this connection with anybody', 'i know im in love' but they do this to every woman they see, they know to do this discreetly because they'll be called out on it if they asked you publicly and the biggest thing for them is that they EXPECT YOU to BE HAPPY that they WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU. they get mad when you explain how violating it is to directly message you like this. they get mad because you arent behaving how they want you to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:11 PM
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makes you wonder about housewives back in the day because they were discouraged from earning their own money and pressured into marriage. if you know that your livelihood, the house that you live in, the food you eat, the clothes you wear etc are all provided by a husband, if you dont like your husband and he pressures you into sex, you'll give in because you dont want to be homeless the way the old patriarchal system was designed, it made sure every man had a woman he could sleep with. she migh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:38 AM
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it just amazes me how they inflict so much damage onto women but they will STILL expect us to coddle them, to listen to them when they moan about how hard it is to be a man, for us to smile and nod as they ramble on. they want women to fix their problems for them. they dont want ot be considered 'weak' or 'too emotional' by other men. toxic masculinity is a male problem that men need to sort out by themselves. our mental and physical health is never their concern, for a woman to die because men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:07 PM
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'my only form of therapy is using women as sexual objects HOW DARE you question my ability to use women only for sex' literally all these men. these men never want to actually solve their problems. if your wife has died you should be seeing a therapist, keeping in touch with family, develop a hobby to distract yourself if you have social anxiety/depression, you need to see a therapist and take steps everyday to do something new to integrate yourself back into society. they expect us to have so m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:55 PM
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the men who live through hugh hefner will desperately find a way to explain why he had to film and collect revenge porn like this. the misogyny and cult like mentality behind hugh hefner and the playboy bunny mansion is important to men. the men have 1 wife or 1 girlfriend, their sexual history is not as extensive as they want it to be and their body count is also not 'reflective' of what they feel it should be the men proudly hold hugh hefner up like some kind of idol, the men themselves might …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:58 PM
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if he was the one who didnt want to continue seeing her, would HE give her a refund? no. but they expect the women to put up with this nonsense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:30 PM
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hes always stood out for me because i think hes got such a romantic but unrealistic view on hetero marriage. he tells the truth about how men view women, how men will use women for sex/chores/free childcare/free therapy if the woman allows it to happen. but he'll keep trying to push the idea that women have a place. 'he wants to be the leader, you have to allow him to lead your family. you are his queen and he is your protector but you also need to follow what he says'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:51 PM
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i completely agree with this. sadly most people would act like you are crazy if you told them that sex work is paid rape. it absolutely is rape if you know the woman has no other choice to pay her bills/rent. if she wants to pay for her living expenses she has to give up her consent, her ability to say no because if she says no she doesnt get paid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:05 AM
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they dont value women's time or work. that combined with how men only value women in terms of sex/chores/babies, alot of male behaviour begins to make sense. this guy would never ask another man to decorate his apartment because then he'd have to pay him. this guy expects women to fight for the valuable chance to decorate his apartment FOR FREE and use all her FREE TIME to make him happy. its performative, he expects the woman to constantly 'show him' that he should give her an opportunity to hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:00 AM
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in porn its purposefully designed to cater to men, when men get they sex education from porn they go around thinking every woman can just get into anal sex with no notice or be turned on by having a foot on her head as hes having sex. they only care about womens orgasms when its tied to their egos and sense of masculinity. they really see sex as something you do to a womans body. its not an act of affectionate or compassion you have WITH a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:31 PM
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this is everything i have ever wanted to type out about this trend. you hit every nail on the head. this is EXACTLY was big ed from 90 day fiance has done. he was married and had kids, he left his wife because he was convinced younger women were in love with him. hes obessessed with this idea of having a makeover and becoming more confident and attractive. he has a physical disability, he hasnt got a neck so he feels this extra sense of entitlement with younger more attractive women. of course h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:51 PM
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its sexist that women are expected to stay indoors when its dark outside in case a man murders/abducts us but we'd be the sexist ones if we insisted for our safety that men can only leave the house for work and shopping. that men shouldnt be outside the house after dark for women's safety
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:41 AM
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they were hoping women would have a meltdown, change their minds about marital rape and then hope to win the men back by parading down the streets with signs saying 'marital rape is a man's way of showing his passion'. this is really what these specific men want, they are beyond delusional. they are beyond saving. they are doing us all a favour by refusing to marry women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:15 PM
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its such a powerful way of showing how little respect men have for women's contribution and time. they want to be the 'man of the house' but they wont do the housework or childcare. whats the point in having a husband if he refuses to do his part? she would have been better off ordering sperm online and having a child by herself. if HE was the one taking care of the kids, doing the chores on top of his big man job how fast do you think he would change his mind lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:07 AM
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they think women WANT to clean their rooms, cook them dinners, act as a therapist and then in the evenings engage in every nasty fetish they've seen when they bingewatch porn. they think we WANT this lifestyle where we're constantly helping and cleaning up after them. they need us to think that a good woman will clean up his beer cans, provide free therapy. and of course the woman is not allowed to do the same, she cant be a dirty slob who proudly posts photos of her dirty room online
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 07:08 PM
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its easier for society to act like lil kim was just too insecure about her body/face instead of focusing on WHY she felt the need to change herself and why a man thought it was okay to put his hands on her. shes endured so much abuse from the men in her life both personal and business. her partner was abusive and controlling, her workplace kept pushing the whole 'light skin beauty' nonsense. OF COURSE shes going to want surgery if shes being continually pressured and bullied but people dont want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 01:40 PM
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marriage could be a magical thing if men just did their share of the chores and childcare. theres alot of married women who are doing everything alone, they have the wedding ring and husband but ultimately they would have been better off just ordering sperm online and getting pregnant using a turkey baster and the sperm in the mail men have so much freedom in the patriarchy and marriage, just work a 9 to 5 and you'll get homecooked meals 3 times a day, access to a woman to have sex with whenever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:58 AM
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all that power comes into play when the wife has children, the husband knows he can manipulate the wife into a constant cycle of yearning for his approval by gaslighting her about 'not being a good enough mother'. in previous generations women had no other choice but to stay in unhappy abusive marriages just to keep the children happy. marital rape wasnt even a thing. we have a generation of men who can no longer rely on societal and cultural pressure to find a wife. men dont respect women at al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:49 PM
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i dont know a single woman who would refer to their own nipples as 'female nipples'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:58 AM
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im really sorry for what you went through. even in a large house if you hear someone banging on the window you will hear it. i dont understand why this kind of behaviour is so common in men. ive read so many stories like this, the situation is always the same. the men have a minor inconvenience and they act like the world is ending and the only solution is to use every swear word in the book, lock their partner out of the house or tell them to get out of the car, they calm down after a few hours…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:20 AM
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this really isnt about bourbon because if it was then he would have checked to see the $500 was there, agreed that he was wrong, chose to make up for it by organising a cute date night or something. it just sounds like an excuse for him to use to vent his anger onto her for no good reason. and even then theres no excuse for what he did. its childish and abusive. he would never behave like this to another man. the greyrocking technique works well in these situations because when you dont take the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:16 AM
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'i just want to have a deep spiritual connection with MY son because he is MY child. i guess my wife does some chores but im THE MAN OF THE HOUSE and if i feel my way is better its my duty to make sure things are done MY WAY. im a man i cant change diapers or give him baths....i have a big MAN job of RUNNING MY house'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:40 PM
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of course he doesnt care about those chores lol. hes throwing a tantrum over a mum breastfeeding her son because he wants everything done his way. he wants to bring the mother in law into this. i guarantee you the husband and his mum see the child as exclusively theirs, they dont value the wife or respect her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:38 PM
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i used to think yes we can be just friends but when you read story after story about a woman realising ALL her friends want to sleep with her, it says something. not even in a romantic way they just like the idea of conquering forbidden female pussy to make their male friends jealous. women can value men in friendships but men just cant. they dont see the point in being friendly with women if it doesnt end in sex. when i was fatter i experienced that colder side to men but when i lost weight it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:50 PM
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but if we refuse to date men who watch porn suddenly we're evil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:57 PM
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whats the point lol they create babies and then what? are these men suddenly going to look after these kids? no. then suddenly they'll care about women. men only care about women when it comes to sex and making the next generation, they literally dont see us as human beings if you told any of these men that other men could forcibly use their bodies for pleasure they would write a 12 page essay on why its 'sexist' and 'morally unjust' to suggest it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:55 PM
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misogyny is so easy and takes little effort to bring in a lazy 'shock' factor in a story. misogyny has always been around but so too have the women and men fighting against sexism we just dont hear about them as much. its a divisive thing in fiction books and tv shows. you get one group who will insist every female character must be sexually/physically abused in detail for 'historical accuracy' and you'll get the other group that wants to hear about the woman who fought back i remember feeling t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:16 AM
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there was a post i saw about this woman who said one time whilst she was giving baths to her children, she was busy getting them sorted for bed. there was a bluetooth speaker in the bathroom for the kids to enjoy, the husband was in the next room watching porn on his phone but the speakers were still connected to his phone. the mother had to explain to the kids that the sounds were 'just from a horror movie its nothing scary'. can you IMAGINE having a useless husband like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:00 AM
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i dont want to look at my university degree and think 'oh thats my old surname, now i have a new one'. my last name is important to me and i hate how despite all the sacrifices women make during marriage, we dont even get to keep our last names
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:38 AM
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if men were the target of relentless catcalling it would carry a 1 year jail sentence lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:16 PM
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i dont think there was a prize. the show rebrands the partying and alcohol as 'women empowering themselves by making their own choices'. they want the women to come onto the show to prove how much of a 'bad bitch' they are, how indepedent they are and how they never back down from a fight. this show is really attractive for the kind of pickmes who would happily throw other women under the bus for male validation. its why they always bring in a male love interest during each season to stir up dra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:44 PM
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bad girls club should definitely be on there. its for entertainment and its all over exagerrated but its such a toxic way of portraying women and sisterhood. the idea that all it takes to break the bond by having a random man over from the club is toxic. the way the women gang up on the quiet ones instead of the main trouble maker there was so much gossipy behaviour. im not a puritan, i dont believe in censorship but can you imagine a show with a bunch of 18 to 25 yo men in a big house, all tryi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:38 PM
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historically men held the women back so that they could feel like men, we cant really say men have contributed to the world if they've been actively discouraging women from participating. men are useful for keeping other men away, i never get catcalled when i walk around town with a male friend. men respect men in ways that they would never respect a woman. its a result of their own egos, instead of respecting women the men just tell themselves 'i cant take her seriously until i talk to the man …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:49 AM
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'well my wife/sister/daughter/mum/aunt etc would never star in a porn video or join onlyfans anyway. the women in my family care about their dignity and they have self respect. if a woman posts sexual material online she cant just expect men to respect her! she doesnt even respect herself!' i guarantee you this would be the most popular male response to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:10 AM
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absolutely love these points. this love/hate relationship men have with porn stars and ordinary women is vile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:08 AM
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we're 'insecure' because they want us to think 'oh well the guy is just appreciating her beauty, its not really about sex. you'd get bored if you had the same girl for 30 years'. and in a way okay i guess, but men dont need access to millions of hours of porn with women from around the world doing all sorts of acts and fetishes. it should be considered cheating because whether hes in the room where its being filmed or watching behind a computer screen, hes still complicit. it should be considere…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:07 AM
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- he wants to be the main 'provider', he doesnt want his kids to know that their mum earned the money and not him - she 'secretly' wrote the book, he either didnt pay attention when she did talk about it or she kept it secret because she was worried what he would say -her writing career has to be paused but he makes no mention of anything he gave up when the new baby came - 'her lunch hour is technically hers', he knows the invisible labour women put into the house. he knows she cooks/cleans/loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:01 AM
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its their way of testing what kind of boundaries the woman has and what shes willing to tolerate. the pickmes love this because they'll play into the role so that they get male validation, replying with stuff like 'yeah i guess, but im always open to new hobbies'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 10:32 PM
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the men know they need to keep the women in fear so they make an example of hyosung. they are only doing this because they know feminism and the 4b movement is rapidly gaining traction, less women in south korea are marrying men and creating families. less women are becoming obedient housewives that the men need, the men know that women are focusing on themselves and their careers no matter where a man stands on womens rights, he ultimately has everything to gain from participating in these anti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:10 PM
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when men do this they are congratulating their partners for putting up with the abuse and also reassuring every woman that this is exactly what you are supposed to do if you are getting abused because after you endure it all your man will say 'thank you' and do nothing else. i hate how theres always zero accountability when men cheat on their girlfriends/wife, when they bring home a baby from another woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:35 PM
59

before the tradition was that the man pays for the meal and the woman pays him back with sex. men should pay on dates because it shows that hes serious about the date and that hes committed. men are predatory with women, most would date multiple women at the same time if they thought they could get away with it if he pays half on each date then he can date multiple women and have his fun. for men they want everything from a woman but hes determined to give little back. they want our free labour,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:00 AM
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its kind of creepy and invasive how nonchalant he is about these questions. his whole attitude is incredulous, he cant believe a woman has standard because for him only men are allowed to have that. its sad that this is what the dating world is like. she has every right to have standards but everyone is acting like shes the one being difficult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:02 PM
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i thought she was forced to go to a appointment and get one implanted in her, i didnt know they just put that in her without her knowledge/consent. thats infuriating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:51 AM
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i imagine the men would encourage the husband to leave because 'its obvious she doesnt care about her health and cleanliness, she wont be a good mother in the future'. but because this is the husband with the IBS the men will insist the women should stay in the marriage to 'help him because hes suffering and marriage is all about being together'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:41 AM
115

theres a level of violence weak insecure men have for women and never men. a homeless man doesnt get to use his unfortunate homelessness as an excuse to abuse women. society shrugs and reassures the women 'well yeah im sure that was scary, but he was homeless and he felt bored? dont you care about his feelings? homeless people are crazy anyway'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:34 AM
167

a womens only taxi and food delivery service would make alot of sense, it provides safety. uber themselves had an alarming rape case put against an employee and the company put money into finding excuses to slutshame the victim by looking into her medical records instead of doing everything they could to help the law handle their employee needle spiking in clubs is a growing issue in the uk, there have been protests but an alternative taxi and club service catered to women safety is what we real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 11:32 PM
201

we are more heavily scrutinized for doing the same thing men get away with. men use the karen meme as a way of saying to women 'look at this freak!! shes so ugly, loud and opinated. everyone agrees with me when i say shes an idiot. you dont want to be like her do you babes haha :)'. its a way of keeping women collectively obedient and scared
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 04:20 PM
51

i dont think people in the uk realise how prevalent and 'normal' this is in asian communities. ive met quite a few misogynistic asian men, they are either raised here from birth or immigrated to the uk. they know that their community and culture will always provide them with an 'option' for marriage so they make no real effort to find good jobs, to look attractive or leave the family home they act like them marrying a woman from the home country is a 'blessing'. its a common misconception to thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 06:20 PM
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they always make the argument of 'well porn has lots of different women to look at' and okay whatever you want to look at a pretty woman but look at a picture of her on google when shes fully clothed and appreciate her beauty. men dont need unlimited access to violent, humiliating and degrading porn but they act like they cant breathe without it. i thought i was alone in thinking that porn is cheating, if you post that on reddit men will swarm in, insisting that porn is 'normal and healthy' we s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 01:18 AM
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its just so depressing how many times shes said no and stil he persists. i wish this was shown to school age children because this behaviour is never taught, we only know what to do when it happens to us the first time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:03 PM
35

marriage is bad for women because men have alot of power, they can guilt/bully/torment a woman about not being a 'good mother' for not being 100% obedient and subservient to him and the kids. if the men were respectful, helpful, did half the chores at home, respected a woman's desire to have a career, helped with childcare, didnt have unrealistic expectations about what a woman should look like, didnt count every penny because he doesnt want a 'golddigger' of a wife, then maybe marriage can be a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 05:57 PM
78

the problem is so many of them think sleeping around with multiple women is the same as being a great enviable man. they link it to masculinity, they think if a woman says no to sex then shes being 'selfish' for denying him 'his right to gain his masculinity' because in his eyes why else would a woman exist? she exists to service men in one way or another. alot of their behaviour makes perfect sense when you think about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:40 PM
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i see this alot in the south asian community. its nothing new. even today, being lgbt and desi is very difficult and taboo. gay men will openly joke about ruining a straight woman's life, getting her to cook his meal, make his bed, create him CHILDREN and look after the kids. all he has to do is work a 9 to 5 and most dont even do that well because the women also work and earn more. the mother in law is always evil because shes looking for a target for all her anger, she herself has most likely …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:21 PM
46

i think for men like this their definition of what it means to be a man is warped. they think they need to be the sole provider, sole protector, the largest, strongest, most reliable etc. they get mad when a woman is capable of earning her own money, living her own life because in his mind hes not in the equation and its wrong for a woman to exist without him being needed. its worrying because it means they need us to be a certain way, to be weak and needy. normal people should handle when someo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:23 PM
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'i am a very dedicated father and provider! i see my kids for 3 whole hours every year and i even take them out for ice cream when the sun is out. their mother really enjoys looking after the kids all by herself and im so useless in the kitchen anyway i couldnt cook or clean for my kids but i love them alot. she a woman anyway and i know she loves being a mother its what she was born to do'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:31 AM
11

he was hoping she would 'see the errors of her ways', he wanted her to come rushing back to him begging for attention and approval. its just so pathetic and his true intention is blatant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:28 AM
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how many of these men would become insecure/controlling if they found out their partner had a higher body count than them. would any of these men who watch porn actually form a long term relationship with a pornstar? i think porn is problematic but that is a whole another topic. its so readily accessible and plentiful, we have no concrete way of knowing if the scenes are consensual and that they are all above 18. you cant really say porn is consensual in the first place if you know the actress/a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:27 AM
108

he'll expect his wife to do all the traditional wife things that keep the house running and looking after the kids since hes too busy being a big man with his big man job and he cant waste time being a father. but he also resents his traditional husband role as the provider. he feels like a paycheck because he doesnt bring anything else to the table, he pushes all the 'boring' stuff on his wife. he should do his job and be quiet at the very least or do half the chores at home but he wont. alot o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 11:45 PM
71

alot of women nowadays would rather earn their own money, have their own space, invest in their career/family/friends. alot of my female friends want to date a respectful man who showers, has a job, doesnt have a porn addiction and isnt abusive (the bar is that low) but its hard for them to find these men. and even when they do theres the issue of ego, the men hate that the women have masters degree or earn more than them i have a few friends who got married, had kids but it feels like a single …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:43 PM
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its alot of power to have to enter someone's home whenever you want. to know where they live and where they are at their most relaxed and vulnerable. he took advantage of that. it amazes me how we women have that stereotype of being too 'emotional' yet men can act on their hurt feelings like this. i wish the article was more blunt. like 'lonely insecure man murders woman because she said no' or 'heres another case of male violence against women'. i hate how 'normal' this all is, its so normal fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:33 AM
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hes mad because he sees him interacting with her as a transaction. a gift. he is showing her all this 'manliness' and how dare she point out quite logically that the fire isnt great or practical to cook on. he wouldnt usually indulge in women but hes given her a valuable once in a lifetime chance to be his full time nanny/cook/cleaner/sex toy. who wouldnt want that, his ego screams. he thinks its normal for unemployed adult men to go on dates fully paid for by the woman they are dating and then …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:51 PM
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he doesnt want to use his money to fund his child's future at all. i guarantee his plan is to run off with his share of the house, find another woman, make a baby and get married again, when hes done that for 10 years he'll want to be 'be a father' to his child from his first marriage and will call his ex-wife every name under the sun if she refuses to act like he hasnt been gone for 10+ years. he'll get upset if you dont call him a good father even though he was absent and he'll only want to re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:42 PM
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its powerful because it shows how transactional catcalling and flirting really is. the man is only nice to you because he wants sex, when you say no you are insulting your very existance in his eyes. you only exist to give men sex, babies and a hot dinner. when you say no he gets upset because he sees no other reason for your existence, if men could see the humanity in women they wouldnt be so quick with the insults and vulgar language when we say no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:19 PM
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now that im getting older its easier to recognise the red flags in men, i can sense it alot faster when a man is about to start being creepy and what i need to do in response to shut him up. i no longer have that naivety i did when i was younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:12 PM
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the funniest thing you can do in this situation is belittle them in such a subtle but indirect way that it takes them a while for it to register. i hate when insecure men play mind games like this, when you do the same thing back to them its like their brains malfunction. stuff like 'well okay then buddy boy' or 'its either the kitchen or the office hahahah'. men cannot handle backhanded comments but get upset if women dont smile and nod when they do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:05 PM
71

its just so funny to me how unaware he is about it all. men pay on dates to show that they are serious and commited to a woman, it shows that hes not just trying to sleep with anything that breathes. men are well known for doing anything just to have sex. if hes interested in other girls then he wouldnt need to be wasting his money on dates like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:16 PM
81

would he ever, ever call a man beautiful whilst hes in his car and sing to him like this? why are men always creepy like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:12 PM
146

i was very fat as a child, i lost the weight when i turned 20. its like night and day how the men treat you. men dont see us as full human beings, everything is transactional, they are only kind if they think you are worthy of their valuable time. men treated me like i was invisible when i was fat the second i lost that weight suddenly they were holding doors for me or wanting to do favour for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:33 PM
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deep down she doesnt 100% believe what shes saying because the whole reason why she posted this is for validation. she wants 1 person to agree with her and say 'yep thats right, not cheating at all'. shes angry because she believe what men told her about porn not being cheating, shes realised porn is problematic but she needs to believe for her own sanity that shes wrong and that porn is normal and healthy. but tbh i dont believe a woman even wrote this, this sounds more like a angry bitter man …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:48 PM
112

they want women to accept excuses that they themselves would never believe from a woman. stuff like 'accidently' cheating with multiple people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:10 PM
120

'well my daughter wont have to worry about old men hitting on her because she'll wear long baggy clothes, she'll be home by 6pm and she knows not to talk to weird men anyway. not all men are creepy though haha but yeah dont go calling men mean names you could hurt my son'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:29 PM
68

society feels very uncomfortable about a woman having full control over her reproductive choices and the ability to earn her own money. society wants women to be under the ownership of any man or a family so that shes not too 'independent'. thats really just the truth about single women. its just misogyny its nothing deep or extremely complex women can now choose between a career or a family. she can have both if she wants too. marriage for women still means 'sacrifice' whereas for a man its lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:31 PM
17

they throw a tantrum about consent because men know they or another man they know has pushed and pushed a woman into doing things that pleases him but shes not into it. they want consent to be a burden so that women everywhere shrug and say 'well its too much effort, men are right we are demanding too much'. men think of sex in such a predatory way, their minds dont see he intimacy or affection they see it as an act that a woman must give to him to make him feel like a man if men had to deal wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:14 PM
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its easier for them to believe shes an emotional crazy woman than it is for them to take the bf's narcissism seriously. its a truth all men know because if it was THEIR sister dating this man then they would be more cautious/serious. watching these cops just brush her off like its just a temporary 'rush of emotion' thats causing her to cry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:18 PM
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i really think we need to confront the fact that men see us as commodities that they or another man owns. women are not human beings to men. men see women as sex objects. the way men treat women, their behaviour just screams that they will never see women as their equals we are always taught to trust men because men protect women but they dont. we are always told to be good girls because marriage is important to a woman, it improves her life but it doesnt. we are taught to be attractive/focus on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:29 PM
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i imagine he always had the fantasy about kidnapping/raping a woman, he wanted to date any woman but hit the jackpot in his eyes when he found a woman with previous trauma. predatory men will target previously abused women because they have lower self esteem, they are easier to manipulate if they pretend they are a 'nice guy' and that 'he will save her from her trauma'. him joking about drugging her was very telling, he wants to see how angry she'd get at the idea in case he actually drugs her a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:12 PM
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i want his own mum to answer his ad with a camera man behind her filming alongside a popular youtuber publicly berating this man on his front door. i want every man and woman he knows ever to crowd around him, rushing out of the bushes/from behind parked cars/some even coming out of the hovering helicopters above filming for a 'drone' shot. i want them all to laugh and berate him for his stupidity and misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:07 PM
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men in india insist the ban of women in temples is only there because 'if you are menstruating then you are dirty and its not nice to be around god. we cant go asking women to prove they cant show us their private parts so we just banned all women from going there lol haha ;)'. the excuses are endless 'but its our CulTuRe' right through to 'well they should allow women but they wont listen to me, cant do anything about it anyway'. the bottom line is men will use religion as an excuse to exclude …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:31 PM
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they want confirmation on their delusions, they dont want to hear the truth. they want women to coddle them and say 'no we love fat old men who are low effort and extremely immature'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:11 PM
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smart in the sense that they've had to show some degree of intellect to get them to where they are but absolutely most of the time they are married and have kids, the husbands are LVM at home and never lift a finger its part of the on going misogyny, they feel its their right and default position with women. because they cant see women as actual human beings with thoughts and aspirations, he sees a vessel to carry his kid and someone who can give him regular sex and take care of 'his house'. its…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:51 PM
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absolutely agree. they've dehumanised women, they cannot see anything of value in women beyond their 'number'. they never think about raising their sons differently because its a universal truth for all men everywhere regardless of culture/religion/wealth/education they would rather men have access to all women possible and protect their own livestock than actually make the world a safer place for all women. they want the number of women they sleep with to be as high as possible but at the same …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:16 PM
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its the most potent example of how society will always put men's pleasure above a woman's safety and well being
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:00 PM
111

its really mind blowing how simultaneously smart and dumb men can be. they can be aboslute experts in whatever field like physics or literature but they will still somehow cling onto the misogyny for a little self esteem boost i watched that documentry, theres a segment where this father is asking Roosh V for 'advice' about how to keep his daughter 'clean' and stop her from freely having sex with men she chooses. Roosh V tells the father that its a 'good thing' that he wants to 'protect' his dau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:06 AM
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alot of my friends are single, we are just focusing on our careers and bettering ourselves through hobbies. working out, eating healthy, planning for our retirement, keeping in touch with relatives and old friends. we've all got horror stories between us about men, especially after the metoo movement and realising just how creepy and pornified our culture has become. the daily catcalling and harassment is a living hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:04 PM
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you never know 100% if a man is really porn free because its so easy to buy a cheap phone, get mobile data and watch women being humiliated and degraded in all sorts of ways. their minds become sick with porn, they use porn related jokes in normal conversation and call you a 'prude' if you object to a deepthroating joke. every woman has the right to want her partner to be pornfree but the mainstream opinion is you either accept the man and his porn addiction or you get no man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:09 PM
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wholesome woman is just code for 'i want a woman who is exclusively devoted to me, who will entertain my fetishes' because these same men will enjoy girls on onlyfans or pornhub. men want both, they want the 'safety' that comes with a monogomous woman in a marriage but they also want the fun of being a bahcelor and being free to have sex with no strings attached. men will tell one group of women that marriage is sacred but will then tell the other group that a monogomous marriage is a boring pat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:19 PM
91

men want to be the ones who GIVE a woman money but they will also simultaneously hate having to provide for a woman. they want the respect and title of being a provider without doing the work and if you offer to work and earn the money, his ego will push him to the side and scream 'no i also dont want that'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:42 PM
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they are balancing the whole 'we need to cater to men's demands for easy dates easy sex first before womens safety' and 'we cant admit men are dangerous to women everywhere we have to act like we cant see a damn thing'. walking a woman to their car wont reveal where she lives, unless hes following the car but thats not the thing here why should an important and precious man waste 60 seconds of his life walking a dangerous slutty will-lie-about-rape-and-take-all-his-money-in-divorce woman to her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:39 PM
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if they really didnt know what they were doing then they'd jump up in joy if you offered to teach them HOW to do the chore. again its men knowing exactly what they are doing in terms of gaslighting and not wanting to pull their weight with chores
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:06 PM
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ive never been explicitly told to marry x man and have x kids but x date. but the way they talk about single educated women who focus on their careers, they make it seem like if you dont settle for a LVM and make babies before ur 35 then you will ruin ur life and be a 'unwoman'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:10 PM
17

i completely agree. he paid for a biohazard to be delivered personally to him, he got sick and he has the nerve to ask for a refund. its incredible how badly porn can ruin the mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:07 PM
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i respect Dave Chappelle as a comedian. Hes not the first man to do this and he wont be the last. He had a segment where he went around New York with a camera man rating women's boobs and he gave the women a blue ribbon badge. He's playing into this character so everyone is laughing. He comes across a young woman, he tells her shes got the best boobs in America and her poor dad and mum are right there as he's demeaning her. the father steps in and says 'I'm her father' in a jokey way. Dave cross…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:05 PM
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since shes paying the bills and everything id love to see his reaction if one day a bunch of removal men just started moving the sofa, table, tv, bed, everything into a moving van and the woman casually mentions 'we're moving to a smaller 1 bed flat because i cant afford the rent'. all the removal men kind of stop working as they look at the manchild about to throw a tantrum for 'ruining his life' and when they go to remove his things she says 'hes not coming, he doesnt pay any bills'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:19 AM
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exactly this. he doesnt like that women masturbate, he wants to shame women into relying only on men for sexual pleasure but if you told him that he was no longer allowed to masturbate because it 'objectifies men' or some similar nonsense then he would have a 10 day tantrum and use the classic 'BuT Im A MaN ITs BiOlOGy ThAt i MaStUrbAtE EvEry HoUr'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:08 AM
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i really believe every man initially starts out as a LVM or NVM, then depending on how they are raised/what role models they have in their life/their tendency to blame others for their problems etc they either graduate into a HVM or stay in the LVM or NVM catergories. the only way we can have a collective global culture of congratulating men for doing the absolute bare minimum in relationships is if most men are LVM in the first place. its so hard to find a man who wants to be monogomous, isnt a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:25 PM
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Dick pics arent seen as a big issue by men because all they care about is making sure a woman knows she only exists for sex and his entertainment. Her well being and safety means nothing. If men were the ones bejng harassed by dick pics from men then it would be classed as an offence, the penalty would be a month in jail for every photo sent and they'd push for the death sentence for extreme cases
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:26 AM
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i just cannot understand their logic because if a woman was the one masturbating to pictures of her best friend's husban'd dick pic, he would demand they break up and forever call her an evil devil whore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:57 PM
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i dont know why they are shaming the wife for 'putting up' with his behaviour, like she is responsible for him cheating. that if she leaves then he'll have a eureka moment, he'll vow to be a faithful man from now on and join a church to become a monk or go on a humanitarian crusade to end world hunger. his abhorrent behaviour will still exist whether she chooses to stay or she leaves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:09 PM
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there are genuine cases of women being abusive to men but its almost always verbal/emotional abuse. physical cases of abuse are even more rarer. i never believed it until i watched a documentry about it and it changed my mindset. the numbers are just tiny in comparision to the number of men who abuse women men outnumber women are a large margin but men want you to believe its an equal 50/50 split. men want you to believe that they also fear walking down a street at night time incase they get rap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:35 PM
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it will never cease to amaze me how men can watch porn, they will expect their gf or wife to 'keep up' with his fetishes like bdsm/deepthroating/anal but if she posts revealing photos on instagram or she enters the porn industry herself then that man would get upset. i hate how straight women are being robbed of normal affectionate sex and instead they have to put up with men who want all sorts of hardcore violent fetishes. i hate onlyfans and the entire porn industry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:51 AM
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that really struck me as well, it happened a long time ago and he clearly has guilt because deep down he has to know what hes really done. but still after 20 years hes determined to be 'right' and wants strangers on the internet to reassure him that he was right to abandon his 'cheating' gf after she got gangraped. i imagine he had been online stalking her for years, trying to figure out who shes with, he got upset seeing her being happy with another man and then he posts that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:33 PM
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he sees his girlfriend as an object that only he and him alone is allowed to 'use' for sex. he doesnt care that his gf was raped because in his mind rape and consensual sex are the same thing, its still her body providing pleasure to a man. he feels his 'masculinity' is weakened because his property has been defiled by another man of course not all men and 'im a nice guy' rule applied to every man because they cant collectively admit that all men are dangerous to women (either violating or defen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:29 PM
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in february i finished a lab assistant job and had to find another job. i had NO IDEA how i was going to find a job especially during the pandemic. i got the lab job a few months after covid started. i was lost but kept applying for jobs relentlessly and began my current role in May this year. i work in consulting for chemicals now. my advice is to apply for as much as you can and dont lose hope. there are plenty of opportunities out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:27 PM
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i wish i had the power to summon a hoard of old naked wrinkly 80yo men to pursue these 40 to 70yo men who think they deserve a hot young girl in the prime of her life. i want these men to feel that same repulsion and disgust at the idea of someone they find ugly and undesirable constantly rubbing their shoulders, pressuring them to accept a 'fun and flirty' open marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 09:39 PM
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i completely agree. when money is exchanged for a service its always open to exploitation and its unfortunate that surrogacy is now one of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:17 AM
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i love that he throws a tantrum when she removed the sculpture and put it up on craigslist. i dont think for a second his true motive was to celebrate her beauty. he wanted to objectify her and make her 'aware' that her physical beauty is important to him, that he wants her to forever stay a particular way and her body is for his consumption, other people can consume her beauty in his presence, in his domain and in his home. by selling the sculpture shes shifted the power from him to a random pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:26 PM
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these kinds of men measure their masculinity by how many women they've slept with, how much money they have etc. in their eyes, a high value woman is a loyal housemaid who is also a virgin and is 100% devoted to him. he expects all women to be high value, he expects every woman to drop their careers/ambitions to become his gf. a low value woman is someone whos had sex with other men. its not that the men themselves are reducing the value of a woman, its the idea of other men. its okay if he slee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:25 PM
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breathing and reminding myself that i can never let creepy men feel entitled to my body. there are days where ive experienced nothing bad and other days where ive been honked at on the way to work, a coworker keeps asking for my number inappropriately, my mum pressuring me to 'marry someone fast before you get old and fat', a man trying to hug me on the bus and a drunk guy thinking it was a good idea to yell 'love ur tittays baby girl let me lick them' at full volume as im getting out of my car …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:43 PM
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a 'real wife' for men is someone who is thin, beautiful, does 5 jobs 24/7 and with a smile. she must stay at home to cook/clean/look after the kid/have sex with the husband when he wants/be his personal assistant and therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:49 PM
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i wish the reality of being a woman was taught in schools, i wish we could warn young girls about whats happening. i grew up very coddled and protected, the first time a guy got aggressive with me when i said i didnt want to give him my number, i didnt know what to do. i didnt know you were supposed to lie/give a fake number so his ego wasnt hurt and he doesnt try to swear at you for 10 solid minutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:46 PM
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he wouldnt give a refund if she had a 2nd date with him and he didnt want to continue seeing her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:39 PM
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men can watch this video and still find a way to blame the woman. they dont believe us when we tell them how common this kind of harassment is, they dont believe that men can get aggressive like this and even with the video its not enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:55 PM
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the same people praising the guy for his 'honesty' would crucify a woman for doing the same thing but of course women would never do this in the first place. we can see the humanity in another human being whereas men just see women as sex objects
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:27 PM
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men want us to believe that they need sex workers to help 'keep them sane' and stop violence against 'normal' women but somehow all women everywhere have a story about experiencing inappropriate behaviour at the hands of men. men know deep down sex work is very dangerous for women, women have nothing to gain but for the men their pleasure is more important that the safety and well being of women collectively. when you buy sex you have no idea what that worker's financial situation is like, you c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:42 AM
145

i thought maybe hes pornsick and believes when a woman puts anything in her vagina, she instantly orgasms like the women in porn. but then it makes more sense that he just got upset she denied him sex and wanted to get back at her. theres no way he could be so dumb as to think that using a diva cup is the same as masturbation/sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:04 PM
308

every male apology works like this and its so frustrating because men wouldnt accept any of these excuses if the WOMAN decided to cheat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:19 AM
72

straight women like dick but they dont like whats attached TO the dick lol. 9 times out of 10 the men put in low effort, they dont see women as their intellectual equals, they see only a hot warm vagina with legs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:11 PM
59

same, my only guess is shes being paid a huge amount or she has some kind of vested interest in this because her name will now forever be associated with britney's conservatorship. as a woman she should have another woman's back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 02:16 PM
38

really makes my blood boil. the conservatorship Britney Spears is under is just a blatant case of misogyny. its got nothing to do with her mental health because her work schedule and the level of control over her life would make ANYONE lash out like that. her genuine anger and frustration is just being rebranded as 'disobedient' and 'mentally ill'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:31 PM
14

sometimes i wonder if there ever was a bar for men, that was so depressing to read OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 08:29 PM
6

he thinks wives take advantage of their husbands financially, i bet this is the real reason. he wants an 'equal' playing field even though he earns more. he keeps points on his gf because hes immature. i hope she leaves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 08:28 PM
80

i have never understood why porn always gets a free pass just because it makes men feel good. imagine telling someone you regularly watch videos where people get beheaded or set on fire, imagine being able to proudly tell people you watch that because it makes you feel good. porn may not burn women or behead them but it contributes to mental trauma, rape, humiliation but its just considered something that all women everywhere have to live with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 08:25 PM
25

theres no problem if these men are actively seeking one night stands or casual fun with women who feel the same way but these same men will expect the women to be 100% faithful to him and accept HIM seeing other women on the side. the men will demand the women they take on these cheap dates to do wifey things with them, they expect sex and free therapy/chores. its why you should only date men who are willing to pay for expensive dates, it shows they are serious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 08:19 PM
6

men know how to behave around women but they are different behind closed doors, they are not as sweet and romantic. alot of the time men will lovebomb the woman right up until she says yes to being the husband/bf and then it all goes downhill, the men dont see the point in being romantic/extra sweet because they've achieved what they've wanted. access to a woman so he can have sex men love that grey zone between being flirty and being fun as well. they will get handsy with young attractive women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:29 AM
82

i hate that its come to this but this is whats happening. women are now educated, they save money, they are buying houses for themselves, women support each other and the pressure to marry a man and be a good housewife is slowly ending. men dont want women to be rich, educated and supportive of other women, they loved the old system and its why mgtow is so vocal but theres no equivalent because women have been going wgtow for a long time already its not even just about having better orgasms with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:02 PM
10

they always need to feel in control. even when a man actually loves the woman they will still cheat because 1) their bodycount must always be higher than the woman 2) she has to know you have other options so she has to work hard to keep your interest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:05 PM
9

i love loaded questions like that. 'wouldnt you want to compromise for a man' is basically 'you are too loud and opinionated, dont you want the valuable approval of an adult man!! you'd really enjoy it if you gave it a chance? its not like men are controlling, misogynistic and feed off women'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:04 PM
77

theres no problem with men wanting to live small, have normal jobs/work part time, get into their hobbies but they should be able to provide for themselves and not leech off others. these same men will have a huge list of demands for women, has to be under 120lbs, must be virgin and beautiful/obedient who will cook/clean/have sex/make babies and stay at home. these men bring nothing to the table but expect their wives to do everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:19 PM
16

i think its so fundamental to understanding why men treat women so badly. we arent human to them. objects only have value in terms of what they can do for the owner. you never place that on a human because their humanity, they being is more important, it should be more important to a father than anything else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:24 PM
76

society believes that rich men can afford to pay for multiple kids therefore hes 'entitled' to sleep around, have kids with different women and nobody will care. as long as he can financially provide then theres no problem. of course the same doesnt apply for rich women another thing is that its hard to be a parent to more than 3 or 4 kids. to provide them with emotional and mature stability, to be a role model, to look after them in person whilst working and dealing with life. doing things like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:53 PM
42

rape and consensual sex for these men are intertwined because sex is something you 'use' a woman's body for to achieve orgasm. its not a violent humiliating act or a consensual way of showing love. my guess is these men dont have any sexual experience, they blame women for rejecting them, they try to get the attention of these women any way they can even if they have to join a forum for SURVIVORS of rape, they will do it just so they can 'trick' the women and get what they desire most, women's a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:11 PM
42

its about power and entertainment. these kinds of men have low self esteem, very emotionally needy and manipulative. some men are narcissistic and wont take dietary requirements seriously because as long as HE feels shes not allergic to dairy for example, then she can tolerate it. most men cant get their partners to orgasm but they will believe they know whats best for her regardless of what she says the other kind just do it because they enjoy the thrill of hurting someone. they are the kinds o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:08 PM
54

it never pays off because men and boys expect total servitude from women by default. we're SUPPOSED to want all their nonsense like doing the chores, being a therapist, wanting to look a particular way for our husbands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:02 PM
95

men know but they can never willingly admit it. men of all cultures, socio-economic backgrounds, education levels all these men are different but they fundamentally believe all women are 'prey'. instead of actually making the world a safe place for women they would rather protect their own 'livestock' and still keep access to other women why would a man want women to be safe? by safe i mean she gets to choose who she has sex with, who she wants children with and who she wants to spend the rest o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:00 PM
58

i do this all the time because of all the older women who helped me when i grew up. we can put men on the moon but we STILL cannot get the majority of them to understand how predatory men are especially around younger women and girls. girls who are still kids. men know they are predatory but we still arent ready for them to accept it, they will 'not all men' us until their dying breath i was naive and never taught about catcalling or anything to do with FDS. my culture trains young girls for mar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:58 PM
59

these kinds of men are usually the most homophobic, they would HATE if gay men did this to them because in their minds the sole purpose and reason for a woman's existance is for these moments, to get leered at and sexually harassed. women exist for sex and men are entitled to their bodies, theres this otherness. men are the predators and therefore have the power but when gay men enter this then suddenly these weak insecure misogynistic men are now prey too and they hate it. men who catcall like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:10 PM
19

'hes not a rapist, stop trying to ruin his life. you werent there when it happened, she consented i know she did because hes a friendly guy and he respects women. i just cant imagine him hurting another woman even though every woman around me is saying hes a predator, theres video evidence and even though HES ADMITTED to the alleged crime i still dont believe it'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:05 PM
305

Courtney Irby spent 6 days in jail after being charged for THEFT when she turned in her abusive husband's guns to a police station. she was scared he would shoot her to death and instead of taking her concerns seriously they put her in jail. men respect guns more than a live breathing adult woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:29 AM
22

i mean its their gender role, if they want to brainwash women into thinking the nuclear family is what every woman should strive for then lets reverse it on them. men want women to be obedient, beautiful, do all the chores, give sex to them, look after the kids, be a personal assistant and therapist men dont want to play their role, they dont want to work jobs and bring in the money. its why they've created the golddigger nonsense and the 'ride or die' idea to take over the pickmes. men would ra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:42 PM
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tbh i think the real reason behind all of this is he hates how she is 'giving' her attention to her mum and not him. he and his mum care only about 'his son' instead of him and his wife's son. i bet he and the mum expect the mother to be 100% focused on them and their needs but her needs are secondary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:28 PM
106

something in her brain is kicking, screaming for her to realise her husband is an absolute monster but she doesnt want to accept the reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:12 PM
106

their humour always relies on demeaning women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:09 PM
17

isnt the wording for this wrong? no child becomes pregnant, it implies consent. these children WERE RAPED by older men. it gets a bit muddy when the father is the same age as the mother, both are children but either way no child should have to endure the trauma of pregnancy when she doesnt even know how it works
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:18 PM
84

they need the woman closest in their lives to know that their hobbies/ their career/ their pleasure will always come first before them, that she is secondary but he must be her primary. him equating his marriage TO AN ADULT WOMAN to his love for lego is childish, immature, arrogant and rude. this isnt cute or adorable pickmes will think im overexaggerating but i really wonder how this would be if the situation was reversed. imagine the hatred a woman would receive if she told her partner she wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:47 PM
75

im confused as to why shes even bothering staying with the husband after this, she definitely needs to divorce. this is manipulative behaviour on his part as well because hes full of excuses, the only reason hes done all the things that hes done is because he has a perverted fantasy of sleeping with her. he likes taboos, it thrills him, he violated both women's trust, he wanted to know what she looked like naked and by saving and sending them to himself hes ensuring its kept safe for his later u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:37 PM
13

he reasons that he cant be better than his partner so instead of just accepting it, his male ego shields him. it comforts him telling him 'shes actually doing all of this for YOU because you are such a big imporant man, you dont feel like crap because shes better than you! you feel like crap because you arent realising shes actually doing this all for you, she is a dumb weak woman, she wants you to be the leader, the man in her life!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:15 PM
12

they are all equally alarming but how did the 5th one ever get published?! i know that level of sexism back then was considered normal but that was bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:10 PM
58

he'll expect you to raise any child he brings from another relationship but if you have a child by another man then its suddenly 'IM NOT RAISING ANOTHER MAN'S BABY'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:47 PM
96

for men like this the women are objects that are to be used by men during sex. its why these men dont care about our orgasms because theirs is the sole purpose for having sex. they equate sex and rape together because women are objects that you use in both acts. sex isnt a consensual romantic act, rape isnt a violent humiliating attack, men like this are insanely dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:46 PM
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so much of their behaviour makes sense when you realise that men DO see women as objects. why else would a man throw away a 20year marriage for a young woman he doesnt know? why would a man buy his wife A VACUUM CLEANER for her birthday when she specifically suggests buying a necklace or flowers, even suggesting the shop and price? why do men want to sleep with multiple women when they are young to increase their 'body count' but will also insist their daughters be virgins until they get married…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:00 PM
139

their true intention is to silence her about the plight of FGM. they dont actually care about genital mutilation in the first place because if they did then they wouldnt have tried to hijack her message or movement. men only care about forced circumcision when we talk about FGM. men only care about rape when women talk about it. theres a reason these same men will never talk to other men about their feelings but they will expect the women to listen and do their work for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:27 PM
279

there is this rise of women who are now taking on all the household responsibilities and bills. the men work, they meet a woman and they get married. hes well behaved throughout, works hard, pays the bills, might even do a chore or two a fortnight then when the woman has a child the man decides hes also a child. he will demand 100% of the womans attention before, during and after childbirth he will still expect her TO COOK FOR HIM even though shes busy dealing with the aftermath of pregnancy on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:24 PM
109

the men send out this signals for the pickmes in a sea of women, eg 'i hope you arent sensitive' or 'im looking for something casual'. the men KNOW what they are doing and they are scared of women telling the pickmes whats going on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:18 PM
13

its another way for men to devalue women's humanity. they pull out all the excuses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:16 PM
54

nowadays its so hard to find a decent man to date and when you do they will insist the porn and onlyfans is not cheating and that its normal to watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:15 PM
92

the idea that a woman is simply not ComMUnIcAtInG properly exists because the patriarchy needs the world to believe that men are simply too rational and logical that they cannot be considered wrong or arrogant. the problem always has to be the woman so that men can evade responsibility most women are transparent in relationships because we are trained to always want to please others, we dont want to be seen as liars. when men dont like what they are hearing they will insist that the woman is not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:22 AM
41

its weird how its all from the male gaze but never from the woman's perspective. i cant think of any tv show or film that shows what catcalling is really like, the reality of an older man thinking hes entitled to a young woman's time, how a woman will try earnstly to be polite and evasive but the man will just insist that they talk and get to know each other. we dont really see the reality of rape, the idea that the perpetrators are almost always men that the women know, how the justice system r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:15 PM
478

if you singled out the guys and asked them to be intimidating to the girls they would chicken out. each one of those boys relies on the other boys when they behave like this. this sort of thing happens ALL the time and the adults never help, maybe the women will but when boys misbehave like this society just shrugs and asks 'well what were the girls doing to them before? we dont have the full story' when the boys moved their bikes, the one who 'accidently' kicked a girl in the head, the boy in r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:14 PM
228

i think nothing shows how men view women so perfectly like marriage in our patriarchal world. we have so much to lose when we marry men because they expect cooking/cleaning/sex/free child care/therapy/organising and now because of the economy they also want wives to contribute to the bills men expect women to exist for them by default. we're SUPPOSED to want to do all these things out of unconditional love, we're SUPPOSED to do all these things because women exist for sex and making babies. wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:43 PM
110

as women we can all relate to the expression on the girl's face. the man in the back sitting down doing nothing is something we can also all relate to. there will be men who just watch the creepier ones harass young women and they do NOTHING. its always women who protect other women and girls. never men back in 2011 i used to take trains from croydon to the touristy parts of central london like kings cross or victoria. i loved travelling, seeing all the different buildings and thinking about all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:36 PM
114

the people who work at the Svalbard doomsday vault told these reporters for a documentary that they had actual men contact them about preserving their semen. the place is a seedbank for plants in the event of a crisis. the male ego is insane lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:26 AM
33

im a lesbian and its definitely something ive noticed in men, they feel SO uncomfortable when women compliment other women. ive had times where i genuinely thought a woman was incredible at a hobby or something, i tell her and the men around her swarm around with the typical LVM nonsense. 'its not that special really, anyone can do that, why do you care? shes only doing it for attention, actually i dont think she knows this i better explain this to her'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:34 PM
29

with Jorge and Colt they play the victim when confronted, they claim they want unconditional love but they both knew these women only wanted their money. Anfisa was always honest. both Jorge and Colt are poor, they dont have they claim to have, they both are out of shape (well Jorge only lost weight because he went to JAIL). when confronted they claim they wanted true love, that they are the victims both men cling onto a very misogynistic slutshaming mindset that every LVM has. Big Ed goes a ste…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:21 PM
6

she cant win either way and shes not supposed to in the music industry. i dont know if shes genuinely happy with showing her figure/skin or if this is her thinking she can side with women who have a more sexier image and not have to endure more criticism for dressing in baggy tshirts and pants. there is a whole army of men out there who will forever slutshame and criticise her no matter what, i just hope shes doing whats shes comfortable with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:28 PM
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i always thought that the way we treated women 50 years ago was the reason why most men had some access to sex. we told women they had to be housewives, society bullied and pressured women who didnt fit the mould and this ensured every man had 1 woman he could sleep with either forcefully or consensually (because marital rape wasnt recognised back then) nowadays we have women choosing their careers, choosing men they genuinely want to live with, women choosing if they want kids or not. this has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:00 PM
53

this youtuber called hidinginmyroom has done this, hes proudly talked about taking photos of women who hes slept with. he was married to an older woman with a child, he manipulated her into thinking he wanted a marriage but he really wanted a visa so he could stay in japan longer. he took photos and saved them onto an SD card which his wife later discovered and in another video he rants about how she 'overreacted' for men like him they cannot see the humanity of women, they see the physical natu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:48 PM
37

by having a personality as a porn actress shes going to turn into even more of a pickme. in the next 5 years we're going to have pornstars being completely tortured/violated/abused and the men will make the women say they enjoyed it at the end with some pervy interview at the end. i can 100% see this happening. we'll reach this point where porn has become so insane that directors will now have to make women 'act' like everything was fun and consensual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:23 PM
67

its their livelihood so i can understand why pornstars would want to paint this happy carefree attitude about porn. its making the situation worse because women will be brainwashed into thinking its a good way to make money. deep down men must know the women are suffering because no man would willingly allow a woman they know and trust to star in porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:20 PM
25

the fact that he and the other pornhub executives are actively profiting over rape is making me sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:44 PM
33

same i wasnt prepared either. i thought i was dying lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:25 PM
84

im sri lankan, my mum didnt tell me before but when it happened she told me about puberty and i was in shock. when a young girl goes through puberty theres this bathing ritual we do. its only done for young girls and not boys, you sit in a bathtub and get water poured on you whilst ur wearing a white dress or something every family member in a 30 mile radius literally comes to your house for dinner the next day to discuss 'your plans for the future'. basically living room ebay auctions on young …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:25 PM
90

their pleasure HAS ALWAYS been more important than the collective safety of women everywhere. they dont even care about children, theres no concrete way of knowing that every woman who has ever starred in porn is 1) above 18, 2) not being coerced, 3) not being financially exploited
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:27 PM
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this isnt mental illness, this is a porn addiction that has escalated to the point of violence and abuse. he needs to take ownership of what hes done, i dont care if the woman signed a contract or not, its completely void if her health and well being is put at risk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:14 PM
326

i remember thinking very vividly when i got my first period at 11 about how this was one of the world's best kept secrets because you dont see or hear women get to talk about period openly. because vaginas are only for snoo snoo and cannot be shown with blood pouring out of it. they use blue liquids in the adverts not red, my culture especially makes women feel ashamed of their natural periods but would congratulate an old man for marrying girl whos 16
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:40 PM
61

men want both and thats the problem. men want a gf/wife to have physical sex with but mentally their minds are imagining all the perverse and degrading porn scenes they watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:26 AM
5

i didnt know about the backstory, this is kind of sweet now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:01 PM
18

people would be calling child protective services if a mother did this. if she was wearing an adult diaper, stood barefoot in the kitchen preparing meals like that. she'd be plastered all over porn websites for a few months because all women need to be sexualised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:03 PM
24

i really thought maybe this would be about 'what kind of plates should i buy my wife so that she can clean them easier' or something. i was so naive. jaw literally hit the floor reading this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:02 PM
50

he absolutely must be pornsick because in porn the women are always happy, willing and able to orgasm fast with no foreplay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:38 PM
222

if men want cooking/cleaning/therapy/child care/chores done then they should hire these services out and actually PAY a living wage. if a woman wants to do all these things because she wants to take that responsibility, if she doesnt work and lives at home then fine but i hate HATE how thats treated as the default. that a man can work a 9 to 5 then expect the world and more from his wife. as long as hes paying rent and the bills then he will expect his wife to do 5 different jobs at the same tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:05 AM
93

its always been a bit crazy to me how that money women dont get because of sexism is just sitting in someones bank account. that money EXISTS, we dont get paid it because we're women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:28 PM
7

most men want the convenience/stability of a marriage to a woman but they arent willing to do the work, to actually be responsible hardworking husbands. men want the marriage and porn at the same time. of course if his wife stars in a porn video then he'll get upset, if his daughter decided to become a pornstar he'll get upset, he has zero problems watching porn despite how is objectifies women and mainstream porn is getting increasingly violent and abusive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:12 AM
43

that one line really stuck out for me because its so obvious what he really wanted to do was make his wife feel bad for holding him accountable for his porn addiction and childish behaviour. he purposefully got those kids to ride the bicycles so that they would look sweaty and tired to make her feel 'guilty' for taking the car i mean uber and taxi services exist, he could have just got a taxi if he really wanted to go to this magical reptile museum. he chose to watch porn whilst his wife was loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:09 AM
47

if you told anyone in 2010 that men would demand nudes before even going on a 1st date people would think you were nuts but nowadays its become so normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:32 PM
10

i doubt he'd want to date a 43yo woman who lives in her van but he expects younger women to move into his van home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:55 AM
13

this 43yo man expects a woman to tolerate his lifestyle choice but i bet if he had children he would hate the idea of his daughter being invited to a strangers van at night after a tinder date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:53 AM
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focus on ur breating and keep repeating a mantra in ur head. keep telling yourself you need to walk to whatever place ur going to, that these men are not worth your time and that they will do ANYTHING for your attention dont hunch your shoulders, dont look nervous and scared because they feed off that and will harass you more. its an unfortunate reality for women globally, men catcall women all the time, women hate it and society just shrugs and says 'well hes not being violent or actually touch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:49 AM
24

im a closeted south asian lesbian and when i was young i felt very lonely. most of my friends were straight and not asian like me so i tried to find an online community or somewhere i could talk to people like me. way back in 2007 when you google 'south asian lgbt uk' or 'desi lesbian uk' the first 5 pages were just porn and not even lesbian porn, it starts off with 2 girls and then a guy appears and its a threesome. this was when i was 11 and definitely not the sort of material any young kid sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:11 PM
12

everything with men is transactional. you have to be nice so that they dont kill you in the first place. you also need to be nice to the 'nice guys' who say they will help you if they see you are in trouble. you have to be nice when a man is angry because 'you dont know what hes going through' but you have to be nice when you are angry because 'women shouldnt be emotional all the time, its not sexy'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:36 PM
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ive only ever been in 3 really dangerous situations and all 3 times it was always women who helped me. especially older women. men in these situations just sit and watch. i honestly think they psychotically enjoy it because they live through the harasser. they watch the creepy violent men do things they wish they were brave enough to do men need women to believe that they are protectors so that women can feel safe. when women are harassed in public WE are supposed to defend ourselves because the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:35 PM
2

in a way i guess alot of women are already doing this, the only difference is the fathers are sort of in their lives but dont contribute financially/emotionally/practically and the women were in love but then their partner changes/leaves/becomes abusive. its suprisingly common how abusive men will lovebomb their partners then change the instant they get married or have a child in terms of IVF i would try joining a lesbian fertility group and ask for their experiences when it comes to aftercare a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:49 PM
104

any outsider looking in without knowing the back story will think that the woman is being a bitch (because women are always wrong/angry/emotional by default) because the man wanted to 'just say hi', he brought flowers etc the narcissist in him is thinking 'this is such a great idea, if she recognises that im trying to get her back in my life and abuse her again i can just act casual and say its nothing special. i only wanted to say hello but i better get her a gift so i can seem more genuine'. i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:15 PM
85

'vagina only for snoo snoo'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:11 PM
8

i can imagine a scrote going 'omg yeah YEAH YE- oh'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:05 PM
36

its something that has always confused me with birth control because 1 man could easily make hundreds of kids in 1 year whereas 1 woman can only produce 1 child in 1 year. men think women only exist for sex and making babies, its why so much research and money is poured into birth control for women and not men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:48 PM
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'he was just trying to be friendly, why did you get so emotional about this? its not like hes intentionally trying to make you uncomfortable. its just a question. if you didnt want to show him ur tits then you should respectfully decline like any well mannered lady would. its hormones, he cant help thinking this way. hes an incredibly talented student. you dont want to ruin his life over this stupid little joke right?'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:01 PM
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Arnold Schwarzenegger was married, he slept with another woman, got her pregnant and still to this day doesnt acknowledge his son. Jackie Chan was married, he slept with another woman, got her pregnant and still to this day doesnt acknowledge his daughter. both these men made incredible contributions to the film industry. the most powerful thing about them is their film personas and their real life behaviours you wouldnt associate these men with bad behaviour because their films do alot of PR wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:50 PM
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people laugh and dismiss any concerns women have over hugh hefner but alot of this is abusive behaviour. making sure women dont have financial stability, brainwashing them into thinking orgies and viewing porn is normal. he takes advantage of vulnerable women, knowing he can pressure them into sex because they need his money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:25 PM
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i cant understand why men can ignore all the hate women get and instead focus on the microscopic criticisms we have about them. if men can make fun of our weight/boobs/ass/hair and whatever else then we should be able to make fun of them. we're nowhere near as depraved and demonic as them, a few tiny dick jokes wont hurt them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:26 PM
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hes abusing her. he knows hes inadequate, that she could be dating someone more caring and attentive, hes worried about her leaving him so he comes up with these acts of humiliation for her to endure so he can feel happy. men like him will abuse women then say 'i dont know why i did that, but i love her'. the translation for that is basically 'it was sooo much fun messing with her food, damaging her health and making her feel violated. i obviously want to stay with her because i have nobody else…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:24 PM
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female wanted, not a woman. cleaning needs to be done but its not put in the title, only in the description. fit is codeword for 'not fat' because he doesnt like fat women, not visually appealing to him because this is important when painting a wall and cleaning. she can suggest a colour if she wants but she'll probably have to listen to him rambling and mansplaining colours in a living room. he wants the services of an organiser and masseuse as well, again not put in the title. he'll of course …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:50 PM
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im not sure if this is true. Martin MacNeill murdered his wife and the mistress took him in. there are women with such low self esteem that they willingly shrug at the idea of welcoming a cheater/ murderer into their life. their need for male attention and affection is so strong it overrides every brain cell they have telling them its not a great idea. they really believe their body, their vagina, their cooking or whatever nonsense is good enough to 'convert' the murderer into a 'good husband'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:22 PM
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men act like getting plastic surgery on any part of a woman's body is 'harmless' but if we told them that dick surgery or height surgery was harmless they would get upset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:56 AM
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men's idea of femininity swings between being weak/pretty/always sexy/make babies/being a bitch/being a prude etc. the basic idea is that women exist for sex in some way, she exists for the man and to be worthy of his valuable attention, she must show she is willing to work. thats her waxing her legs/doing chores/being curvy/being thin, enduring pain. these are all things no man would do for a woman because by default the woman 'should' be listening to the men. the woman by default would provide…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:44 AM
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men like using womens bodies for sex, they love the idea of prostitutes because all you need is to give them money. i hate how reddit romanticises moments like this, its not cute or sweet for a sex worker to act like an unpaid therapist for lonely men. if men want romance/companionship/family moments there are plenty of women out there, all the men need to do is be faithful, attentive and dedicated but men arent like that. some men will spend their entire lives chasing women, cheating on their p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:44 PM
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you did the right thing. i think its perfectly acceptable to reject a man if he watches porn, theres no concrete way to know that the woman isnt underage/being coerced/drugged/forced to perform. most men dont care as long as they can feed their lust and fantasies then they are fine with women being degraded. if you ask men why they quit porn they always talk about how damaging porn is to THEIR lives but never do they talk about the real impact of porn on women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:19 AM
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shes not nagging him, shes holding him accountable. if shes working, paying all the bills then the least he could do is the chores at home and looking after the kids. men demand their wives play the role of the traditional housewife but rarely do the men themselves actually be the proper breadwinners. i hope she divorces him and finds her peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:58 AM
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the men in porn always look rubbish, they might have huge dicks but they never look handsome or beautiful the way the women have to be. it's really hard to find a man who doesnt worship and binge on porn nowadays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:08 PM
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it drives me mad how mods are censoring women because it makes men upset. this woman gave birth to a child for partner and he has the nerve to ask for an extra stitch...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:37 PM
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they always have one of these questions in r/askreddit and it annoys me because everyone and their dog knows sexual violence affects more women than men. of course statistically there will be some men affected by sexual violence but reddit and men love thinking its an even 50/50 split among men and women. that both are effected equally and its not the case if women posted this question asking WOMEN what sexual violence they experience, the mods would work quickly to remove the post, give a pathe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:35 PM
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some men have this thing about their egos that does two things. 1) they are never wrong in any situation ever and 2) if the man is wrong, then its definitely the woman's fault. this guy has heard about an adult woman who was pregnant and got assaulted and his response? questioning the situation and then putting the blame on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:34 PM
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its not just having sex with a woman. i bet these men are more interested in 'conquering forbidden pussy'. the idea t that these male friends couldnt previously have sex with her because she was 'taken' but now that shes single they can enjoy her too. and that would infuriate her ex and make the men even happier. shes not a human to these men because they should be sympathetic to the fact that shes JUST BROKEN UP WITH A GUY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:04 PM
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men only do this because they enjoy the thrill of violating a woman's privacy or feeling some sort of perverse connection with a woman in their lives. they could enjoy photos of women online, the internet is full of stuff catering for these freaks but they STILL keep doing this in gyms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:41 AM
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i actually had to reread that. that is INSANE. its so disturbing how men view rape as a form of 'cheating' and not a violating violent act
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:36 AM
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men like this only date women because they care about getting sex from her on a regular basis, using her body for their own needs. if their partner got raped then he has to waste his valuable time helping her with therapy, wasting days by not having sex when he could be sleeping with other women, having to act like he cares when he doesnt. when men see the humanity of a woman, then they can sympathize and give empathy. to them its like hearing their fridge or microwave is having a depressive epi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:34 AM
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if ur married wtf are you doing hassling women you dont know at your workplace. why should she care if you lost ur job? i swear some men are so immune to their own stupidity its almost depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:00 PM
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misogyny in the patriarchy we live in almost feels mandatory. if i told anyone i felt uncomfortable about being brown or being a lesbian i would get support from the asian and lgbt community. when women say they are uncomfortable travelling at night because of men being creepy/violent, society just turns the other way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:03 AM
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my younger sister has autism and i worry alot that in the future she could be manipulated by a perverted man like this guy. when men cant see the humanity of a woman then they are capable of insane depravity. i understand the woman who wrote this post was a victim of his gaslighting and abuse as well, i cant understand how she stayed with him and defended him after his abuse came out about his sister. its too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:33 AM
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they want attention, he enjoy how violated you feel and they are brazen because they rely on women being so shocked that they dont know how to react. ive had one man follow me through a store and he took photos of me, kept trying to say hello. this man was at least 40 and i was 19 at the time. i ignored him because honestly nothing would have happened but an older woman saw what was happening and came to help me. in these situations men NEVER help, they just stare but women always have your back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:10 AM
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yeah shes young, i was thinking maybe hes just saying this so he can film her and get some votes on social media. but at the same time if she learns and normalises this then she'll be able to spot a scrote early on. there are things we need to talk to young girls about. stuff like catcalling/groping/assaults do happen to children, i was molested at age 10. i knew it was wrong but i didnt have the word for it until i was 18 and 'deemed' strong enough to handle that information
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:19 AM
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sexual exploitation, commoditising virginity, objectifying women, pickme nonsense, women catfighting over a man, asian fetishism. the film is incredibly problematic but its repackaged and sold as this epic drama, an almost love story with a few obstacles. from a feminist point of view this is a nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:51 AM
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what he really wanted from all of this was to make her stay with him for 18 years by having the baby. men use women's children against them like this, to keep women in one place. if he really wanted the child because he wanted to raise one, he should have been DELIGHTED about the 125% child support. men leave pregnant women all the time, they never pay child support, they visit once a year (if that) and expect the mothers to forgive him when he decides he wants to be a full time father i dont th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:16 AM
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its a nice idea but honestly society is too far gone. most men cant watch anything with women in it unless they are being sexualised in some way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:42 AM
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the conviction rate for rape is less than 2%. i have a higher chance of going to jail for WEED or not paying A BLOODY PARKING TICKET than a rapist has of going to jail for a crime that causes mental health issues, ptsd, physical trauma etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:12 AM
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so much is wrong with this. if you are MARRIED TO A WOMAN the only person you should be sleeping with IS HER. i dont think using sex services is great. he chose to be married and have children, he accepted the possibility that he might not enjoy being with his partner but he still has to RAISE the children HE participated IN BRINGING INTO THE WORLD. you dont get to run off with another woman and leave your wife and kids JUST BECAUSE YOU ARENT GETTING THE SEX OR INTIMACY YOU WANT imagine if the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:11 PM
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i really believe my homosexuality is a gift because if men are like this and if i was born heterosexual then i would be PANICKING lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:11 AM
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one part is me is laughing thinking 'HE WANTED TO SNOO SNOO SOME PLASTIC' but the other part of me is kinda depressed. i mean this is the state of men in 2021. if this was posted on a mainstream reddit community, people would be applauding the scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:58 AM
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men care alot more for their orgasms than they ever have or will do for women's collective safety
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:53 AM
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this idea that men will behave themselves if they simply have regular sex in their life is utter bullshit. how does that explain domestic violence in marriages? men regularly have sex, they often cheat but are completely engulfed in these ideas that their wife is cheating on them and therefore its okay to cheat on her and beat her up. its the number 1 excuse. its always somehow a woman's fault when a man does something wrong. the Everard murder made me angry but whats making me angrier is how ME…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:52 AM
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men wouldnt like it but they expect women to stay indoors at night time. men would rather women collectively accomodate the attitudes of dangerous men than actually hold men accountable. wouldnt it be so much easier to just punish catcalling/molestation/rapists/murderers to the point where a man is SCARED of potentially hurting a woman. we've all heard the 'men protect women' bullshit but how can that be true when men behave irrationally at night time. where do these rapists and murderers go whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:10 AM
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the most dangerous thing a woman can have in her house is a man lol. some man is typing this at home on his phone or computer, he'll walk away thinking nothing of it and act normal to his family or friends. its demonic. no empathy or compassion, no rush to condemn male violence against women, just them objectifying another woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:34 PM
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that part of south london is usually so busy, you see families walking around there all the time. its just insane seeing the mens reactions to this murder. they arent addressing the impact of male violence against women at all. they are addressing everything else possible. saying 'oh this is horrible, murder is bad' and 'i never felt safe at night time. its dangerous for EvErYoNe'. and im only seeing women talking about how violating it is that the murderer IS A POLICEMAN whos supposed TO BE KEE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:01 PM
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men would fight until their dying breath to ensure all their porn search histories are kept secret. for the safety of women it would be great if it was all exposed, porn trains men to objectify and demean women and really any man who works in health/police/education shouldnt be viewing porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:19 AM
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he knows what hes doing is wrong, a small tiny part of him KNOWS what hes doing but the other part of him enjoys the immediate satisfaction of putting down a woman. he wants other men to agree with him, to say that they also do the same thing with their girlfriend/wife and that he shouldnt feel guilty for obviously upsetting a woman. theres a reason his face isnt being shown on camera
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:00 PM
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tv shows and films always frame this as 'edgy' humour or playful banter. im glad this sort of thing is being talked about more. men like this will gaslight from day 1, when hes satisfied the girl is easy enough for him to manipulate he will insist on marriage, he will lovebomb her. when shes married, has the ring on her finger and the wedding is over the abuse starts, increasingly emotional then becomes physical. all this for the male ego and entertainment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:59 PM
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when this first happened it was all over twitter and both men and women helped document and get this man behind bars. london has a reputation for being a bad place in terms of catcalling. it happens ALL THE TIME to schoolgirls but nothing has changed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:39 PM
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i agree. reddit isnt the best place for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:34 PM
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thanks. i think alot of it goes back to this fundamental idea that women 'must' have children in order to be considered adult women in our culture. i know women have doctorates in their fields but they are referred to as children by their elders simply because they havent been 'used' by a man and therefore shes 'ready for a husband'. its rough but every culture has its challenges
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:34 PM
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thanks for the reply, i definitely need to read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:48 AM
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desi scrotes are something else lol. they will protect women in their families but every other woman is a target. my country sri lanka is pretty dangerous for women, we have a handmaids system where women never travel alone, never work, never leave the house after dark, always wear long sleeved clothes, dont talk or be too happy in public. what makes desi sexism so unique is how any attack on a woman is linked back to her 'owner'. a desi man wouldnt care about a woman's safety if she wasnt his w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:48 PM
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think of it this way. do you want your kettle or phone charger to have periods/perform bodily functions and have the need to eat and sleep? no, absolutely not because then it hinders its primary function. the primary function of women for men has been and always will be easy fun sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:52 AM
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honestly i think HVM arent even a thing. every man to a certain degree believes 1) men are always better than women and 2) women exist for sex and babies, nothing else. the HVM are the ones we see who can set those two things aside because they can see some level of humanity in women close to them. they can play the role, they can act like the women means something to them. the LVM are the men who let the truth spill out, they dont hide their hatred and annoyance of women i say this from persona…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:07 AM
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the cat thing is nonsense lol. he either wanted to use the videos as blackmail against his ex wife or he just enjoys seeing himself sleeping with a woman who isnt his current wife. i bet in his mind hes still the skinny, attractive man he was when he got his 1st wife and he cant get over that time in his life he knows what kind of damage a video like that can do to a woman, especially in our deeply patriarchal society. he knows if that video ended up on a porn website his buddies would congratul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:09 AM
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Yelena Serova always comes to mind, shes a russian cosmonaut who did an interview and instead of getting normal space related questions her male cosmonaut friends got she instead got questions about her hair and makeup. you can see it visibly on her face how shes realising her achievements are second. her womanhood comes first and its the most irritating thing her male peers had this look. i dont know how to describe it. they seemed genuine, they wanted to help her but they didnt know how so all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:03 AM
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these kinds of men seem to only want to have sex in order to reinforce their masculinity. because if this was about them needing sexual release or some fun why wouldnt they just go to a hooker or binge watch porn? i mean that one comment saying 'push her face into the pillow so you dont have to see her' is just weird. like shes an object that he absolutely must have sex with so that he can feel like a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:55 AM
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if i want anyone to profit from misogyny its probably women. i mean shes part of the demographic that has the most to lose from rape culture. i dont know if she genuinely thought this was a good idea or if shes blatantly trying to make money from the situation today in terms of consent. the bottom line is her general message is super damaging. the idea that if you just 'ComMuNiCaTe' to a potential rapist in the bedroom is alarming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:14 PM
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men think looking after children, cooking, cleaning, being a therapist is all 'women's work' and therefore they dont take the jobs that mothers do seriously. they think its easy and that all stay at home mothers are 'lazy'. i dont think any parent genuinely enjoys looking after a child 24/7, its the result of raising a child that parents enjoy. people enjoy raising a child, watching them develop and become a contributing member of society men are encouraged by society to be lazy, all they have t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:52 PM
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not buying this bs for a second lol. the only way he could access pictures of some dog is through his partner's 20yo daughter's snapchat? he couldnt find a more appropriate way like whatsapp or just sending the video via text? what he really did was google the girl he had no business searching up, he in his mind got 'lucky' and found precious nudes. whether he was genuinely concerned about the daughter linking her bio to her real world details, i dont know. i mean maybe he cares? i bet sleazy me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:42 AM
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she hasnt cheated on him but hes decided its okay to limit her movement by taking away her car keys and limit her financial freedom by demanding her to end her job and be a stay at home wife. but hes cheated, i bet hes still got his car keys and job because in his mind its okay for him to do bad things but not his wife theres something in the male ego that makes them not take their own mistakes seriously. hes aware of how messed up the situation is because hes getting his 'elders' involved. if y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:38 AM
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this is definitely the sort of thing i want in the future. im a lesbian so this is probably more achievable for me if i find a woman i love. i want to focus on my career, be an activist for social causes like race/sexism/lgb stuff, build on my hobbies and learn more about different cultures i dont want to give up my career, get married to a man who thinks doing the dishes once a month is 'enough', endure physical/emotional abuse, give birth to children who i will be 100% responsible for because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:47 PM
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i dont get why husbands get special privilege over grieving, your daughter is ALSO grieving...men would rather have their underage daughters do what the 'women's work' than degrade their sense of masculinity and just do it themselves. that or they are just lazy and expect women and girls to do everything. BeInG a wOmAn iS So MuCh fUn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:40 PM
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scrotes would be mad if a woman dedicated her whole bedroom to her hobbies like this man has. the sleeping bag was weird but the cuddling pillow thing was wild lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 12:26 AM
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the only time male rape matters is when women rapes are talked about. it happens in every youtube video, you look at the comments and theres always someone saying 'men get raped too'. they act like its a competition for sympathy. its just a silencing tactic because men know is women start talking and realising how prevalent rape/molestation is then they will lose the tiny bit of trust women still have for men there was a study on rape, most men would rape if they thought they could get away with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:23 PM
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i wish abandoning a spouse with children came with some kind of prison sentence honestly. but i can imagine abusive men using that against women who are fleeing domestic violence. this sort of thing has happened to women i know, they go through years in marriage then the men decide they want a younger wife and they just leave their families
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:04 PM
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the kids grow up in a society where women are always wrong and stupid, the men are right. women are emotional and loud etc. growing up i worshipped my dad because he was calm during arguments, smiling and never yelled but my mum was the opposite. when i grew up i realised all the bullshit he put my mum through. she'd cook, clean, drive, work all day and my dad would have the nerve to whisper 'you didnt clean this well enough', 'i dont want to eat this, go make something tastier'. men gaslight wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:57 PM
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i am a lesbian, i have never understood why straight women give men the time of day tbh. rape convictions in the uk are BELOW 2%, domestic violence is everywhere but not taken seriously, women have miss and mrs but men have only mr, theres so much pressure on young women to give up their careers by 30 and start a family, we do all the housework, men dont shower or put effort into dates, women are FAKING orgasms in the bedroom. theres just so much to list, it makes no sense. why would a woman wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:56 AM
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we live in a world where a man's orgasm is alot more important than a woman's right to EXIST. men dont care about women's safety at all but they scream 'men protect women'. porn is dangerous, its training society to view women as objects, sex toys you can choke/gag/abuse and they will still smile at you. men love watching porn but get horrified at the idea of their daughter or mother starring in one, at the same time though most men would leave their gf/wife if she insists on a strict no porn po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:29 AM
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men will get upset about us wanting female doctors, that we are being rude by judging men based on their appearance when men judge women ALL THE TIME. men will insist they can set aside their need to fuck/fondle/molest anything that breathes because male gynos 'legitimately care about women's reproductive health, no man would ever become a gyno just to see naked women' i had to see a gyno when i was very obese and had pcos. i had to see a male one because there were no female gynos in the area. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:20 PM
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men dont intervene in cases where women are being publicly molested/abused because they either approve of the violence, they want some entertainment, they dont want to fight the guy when they turn their attention onto him. in all the times ive experienced something creepy, it was ALWAYS women who helped me. old, young, thin, large, short, tall WOMEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:02 PM
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the picture doesnt quite catch how insane this man is. on 90 day fiance hes treated Rose horribly. talking english very slow, acting like shes a child, talking to her like shes not there, treating her dad condescendingly, telling her to shave her legs, telling her to brush her teeth, complaining about her family's living conditions, having the audacity to suggest she 'put more effort into your appearance babe, smile more!' when hes confronted about how he's treated Rose he starts gaslighting but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:14 PM
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hes the same sort of person who WOULD make fun of a woman under 32 with kids, whos married and stays at home to look after the kids. men like this want all women to have a man in their lives to validate themselves. he thinks women exist for men and not for themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:04 AM
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the thing about porn that i find insane is how its just creeping into every aspect of life. its so casual now to joke about onlyfans or extreme stuff, people care more about their orgasms than the lives of the pornstars men have this duality with women, they are either virgins or whores and theres no inbetween. men would HATE if their mother or daughter became a pornstar but men have no problems watching other women. there was this scene in a channel 4 documentry where this mother has a problem …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:02 AM
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its the same in south asian tv shows and movies. rajinikanth has had a very long career and every time his female costar is usually LESS than half his age. each of the actresses end up being one hit wonders, its hard for women to maintain their career after they turn 25. there are men above 50 who think they have legitimate chances with high school girls, demanding they become their housewives and having no career/aspirations what we're seeing though in the real world is different. more women ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:44 AM
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written at 2am probably after a huge porn viewing binge. i really wish we could get this man to read this in front of his mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:38 AM
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big ed/no neck ed/the bastard who humiliated Rose on 90DF, if hes brave enough to act like this on camera imagine what hes like off camera. hes probably more egotistical than we realise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:32 PM
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men want silent sex toys that cook, clean and breed. men dont see women as human beings with feelings/desires/ambition. women dont date men as objects, we see men as human beings and its why theres so much disconnect with men in dating. alot of their behaviour makes sense when you realise they FUNDAMENTALLY dont see women as human beings at all. men want objects they can sleep with, their beauty and appearance is what they want only
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:41 PM
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i had to reread that and then take a minute. how tf do men get to gangrape a CHILD and still walk free?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:50 PM
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this genuinely reminds me of south asian dating ettiquette. literally men will want to fuck anything that breathes but they will STILL insist on only marrying a virgin who is slim, has no career, wants to cook/clean and is FERTILE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:48 PM
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this actually makes alot of sense when you realise that men fundamentally see women as sex toys that LOVE cooking/cleaning/looking after babies. why would he buy her a thoughtful gift like perfume or an embroided blanket with her name on it when he could instead buy her a CLEANING APPLIANCE. women dont need any time for themselves because they live to serve their man and his family. this is how men think. LVM especially but ive lost all hope for HVM as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:19 PM
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they are brave behind their keyboards but if this happened to a woman in their family they wouldnt do a thing. these kinds of men dont care for us at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:32 PM
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theres something so perverse about the male ego
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:31 PM
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you should ask those same men if they want a dildo up their asses. i really hate how normalised porn is making anal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:28 PM
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men really enjoy dehumanising women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:27 PM
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the thing about men insisting they marry and make the woman settle is that theres no guarantee he will stay committed. society has no problems with fathers having mistresses or banging the secretary at work. but god forbid a mother sleeps around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:26 PM
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they always frame it as 'misandry' for highlighting the abuse old men put young women through. you cant even TALK about what is happening to young women without someone starting with the 'not all men' bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:38 PM
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money is cute because you only work a 9 to 5, you get paid holidays and you have a weekend where you can do whatever you want for 2 whole days. if you spend 5 minutes on the r/breakingmom community you'll quickly realise the husbands expect their wives to be on call 24/7, no matter if they've just given birth and the men 'need dinner because he cant cook' or men leaving the house in a tantrum because they had a fight with their 12yo daughter. men are terrified of being financially exploited, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:02 PM
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https://newschannel9.com/news/local/former-murray-county-detention-officer-arrested-for-sexual-assault-and-battery this woman CLAWED at this man and the rapes still happened. look at that picture in the article. he is covered in them and that didnt stop him because HE was determined to humiliate and rape her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:53 AM
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i can 100% see men trying to outsmart this device somehow, if there was a tracker attached onto this then even if a man tries to finger a woman he will now have to figure out how to get the thing off his fingers before the police come after him. its just so extra though, we shouldnt have to do any of this in the first place if men didnt rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:50 AM
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hes the kind of man who cannot exist without sexualising and humiliating women. he wouldnt wear that around his mum or daughter but he would feel insulted if his wife didnt like it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:26 PM
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'plenty of women have kidnapped and murdered men. a woman could easily overpower a man with a gun or a knife. theres good and bad in both genders, women also rape men and young boys. misandry is just as bad as misogyny. when i walk to the grocery shop at 9pm im terrified a woman wearing heels might think im trying to grope her and she attacks me with her high heels'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:56 PM
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'this is so rude and pointless lol, why are you being emotional about this? imagine coming home from a hard day of work and you see that on the fridge? you should keep cleaning what you use and if they dont want to clean up their section then just leave it. have you tried asking them politely? if you want to live in a clean house then move out and get your own place' if you posted that picture on any mainstream reddit community i imagine thats what the response would be but here at FDS we dont h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:28 PM
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i get what this is trying to convey but i dont know. we criticize the older women who endured the sexist patriarchy and not the men who designed it in the first place? older women do pressure younger women to be more silent/pliable with LVM men because its what they are used to. the men behind all the double standards we endure are invisible, never around but ever present nowadays if you told the average western woman to endure an abusive marriage and not go to college, you'd be yelled at. we ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:01 PM
16

BeInG a WoMaN Is So mUcH FuN!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:19 PM
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the thing about indian culture that i dont think alot of people understand is how far our society will go to ensure that 'family women' are kept as far away as possible from the 'outside women'. imagine you are an 18yo indian woman living in india, you've lived your entire life being told you can study and get a job, you can choose what you want to do with your life and you always have a brother/male cousin/father/uncle to 'watch over you' you decide to take the bus one day to uni/work and all t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:35 PM
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'i dont see anything wrong with this, the man was probably a taxi driver or an uber. its not his job to look after every pregnant woman on earth, you cant just expect every man to be kind to women about to give birth. its not like people force young women to love little kids and expect them to do unpaid labour? what if the man had mental health problems and the cigarettes helped calm down his ptsd? maybe he was bullied in school and the only thing that makes him live is to smoke? my wife was gre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:52 PM
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why did he throw away his marriage and partner? because he fundamentally did not see his wife of 11 years as a human being with feelings. men dont see women as humans, we are sex toys for them. him and most men like marriage because it essentially means you have a sex toy only you can access and at any time really think about it, why do married men suddenly find themselves throwing away their marriages for women they dont even know? marriage is only ever about sex to them, they DONT CARE about u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:19 PM
84

its a common myth in my home country that if a woman covers herself then the men will behave properly. the men will treat the women with respect if they dress appropriately but if you ask any woman ever they will tell you its not the case. the only way to stop catcalling is to not be a woman. men catcall women in hoodies/bikinis/dresses/work clothes/ home clothes/ pjs/tshirts etc the list goes on my country spreads this myth about covering up to all women but we also have the highest rates of ra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:28 PM
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if we asked how much he earns, how tall he is, where is career is going, does he live alone, if we asked any of that suddenly we're being sexist and its misandry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:07 AM
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they think its just harmless 'flirting'. then they think maybe the woman is the problem, maybe she lied and she led him on for money. if that doesnt work then the men go back to insisting the man is not creepy. men only think the inappropriate behaviour is a problem when it happens to women in their circle men think catcalling is all funny and cute until they try it with their sister or mum. then its wrong. its like when fathers get defensive about their daughters dating men. men know men are pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:57 PM
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the sad thing the old women and the young women will focus on each other but completely ignore the man sitting in his chair with a smug smile on his face and his buddies behind him. the men who put the older women through all that bullshit are nowhere to be seen, their power is invisible but ever present i never understood why my mum never let me meet certain aunts after i got into uni, i later learned those aunts wanted to pressure me to give up uni and get married. the aunts never went to uni …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:17 PM
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i bet he would be upset if he broke his leg and you told him you didnt want to be his personal maid for the next 3 months until he healed. he'd be outraged if you didnt immediately drop everything in your life to cater to him, pay all the bills, cook/clean etc. men are just outrageous lol edit - i read the post again. i cant believe he couldnt look after you for just 1 month
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:01 PM
68

its weird how men would hate if women rejected them for watching porn but men simultaneously wouldnt date a woman with sexual experience or whos made porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:56 PM
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bdsm cannot function with the abuse of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:12 PM
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he didnt think it was a big deal but he knew his wife was out of his friends league, he knew his friends have 'dark' humour which is a euphemism for 'sexism/racism/homophobia labelled as humour' and he was aware of what his wife was feeling. he'd throw his wife under the bus if it meant he'd impress his friends and i feel like this is where hes going hes posting this for validation. he doesnt care if she should have stood up for her or not, he wants that one male reader to go 'no, you did the ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:50 PM
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Thats crazy, i had no idea about this and i loved that movie. I thought they just wanted to show off a bad ass female hero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:52 PM
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the thing i really hate about it all is how casual it all is. can you imagine telling someone 10 years ago you were going to create a subscription service for your nudes? that sort of stuff was reserved for porn stars, not to create an 'othering' sort of effect but in the sense that if you wanted to get into sex work you were either in it 100% or you werent. now most youtubers or streamers do a bit of onlyfans to cater for their mature fans. people will argue 'b-but shes earning money right? wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:38 PM
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seriously though i dont get why straight women are straight. its a miracle tbh. despite how low the bar is for men, despite all the abuse and suffering they place on women we collectively still dont go on murderous rampages or outright hate men. ive never heard of a female school shooter who got upset about being rejected from a date. you can walk into any book shop and buy books about men murdering women. rape in my country is endemic despite the tired mantra that 'men ProTect wOmEn'. heterosex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:15 PM
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its kind of true, men love 'independent' women. at least they say they do, they think they want women to work jobs, do all the chores themselves etc but what men really love more than the idea of a immediately submissive woman is the idea of them CONQUERING an independent woman. they love the idea of them turning a loud abrasive independent strong willed woman into a quiet, anxious, cooking, cleaning, obedient housewife who stays at home and cooks/cleans and has sex for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:28 AM
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men know the difference between whats inappropriate and whats normal. they act dumb when they are young and want to sleep with any woman who can breathe but when they get older and have children, the idea of their DNA being desecrated by another man in the form of their daughter being disrespected by a man outside their family then suddenly they have a phD in communication. they KNOW men like this want women to go 'omg ur totally right! we cant let innocent men get attacked for just trying to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:31 PM
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as a south asian woman i really wonder what my culture would be like if there wasnt so much sexism. i dont know what we'd have left, everything revolves around a man getting a wife and the wife having to make children/cook/clean/service the husband/look after everyone. men moan 'I dOnT LiKE ArRaNgEd MaRrIaGe iM OpPrEssEd Too', they can choose to live as bachelors and not get the stigma we get. south asian men will happily go abroad, marry non asian women whilst also insisting their south asian s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:22 PM
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Im so used to hearing about women being told to cover up that this was weird to read. The sexism and double standards are so abundant you dont even realise it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:28 PM
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men know the hypocrisy but none of them will admit it willingly. instead they hunt women of all ages when they are young, then when they settle down and get married they have children and suddenly they get scared of their daughters possibly being hunted. they KNOW what they are doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 09:52 PM
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men want us to accept them wanting to fuck every woman that breathes but they throw a tantrum if we express the same thing about wanting to sleep with every attractive man we see. if ur in a relationship anyway the only person you should want to sleep with is your partner. this man is just lost lol, he wants a partner and the bachelors status
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:12 PM
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it says alot about men when even faced with the possibility that their precious porn could contain underaged trafficked children being RAPED they will still insist 'porn is normal and natural, its fun and consensual lol!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:05 PM
60

in india a woman was doing a live tv news report and she got catcalled aggressively by a bunch of men in a passing van. they tracked down the man through his number plate and he began reciting every excuse ever 'Oh i didnt know i was being rude', 'i was just trying to get her attention', 'im a good family man i have daughters', 'why was she out so late at night then' etc. he had this really dead look on his face, very blank and bored. like he was just waiting for one of his excuses to hit the ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:03 PM
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it always makes me feel so uncomfortable and i hate how men bond and feed over our embarassment. i just dont trust men AT ALL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:02 PM
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'she never asked if i was married. i didnt think it was so important because we always got along. i dont know why shes so emotional about it. shes only interested in me, i dont want her being a slut and dating other men'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:56 PM
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misandry is how women respond to men wanting to assault/attack us misogyny is how men respond to women not wanting to be their 24/7 fuck buddies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:55 PM
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imagine telling someone who pays the rent/mortgage what to do in THEIR home lol. this is such a joke i hope she leaves him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:53 PM
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honestly my culture treats women like handmaids lol. a good desi girl is always silent and obedient, never too ambitious or selfish. shes supposed to be 'happy' with not being able to choose her own husband, to endure the inevitable abuse she will face from her husbands family and of course she has to enjoy cooking/cleaning/making babies you can never talk about this with desi men, they always rush to silence you by screaming over and over 'b-but we treat women with respect, other men would abus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:07 PM
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they dont approve of either. men dont want women to earn money through sex and enjoy it. men also dont want women to think that they are worthy of having the right to work or exist without being treated like a sex toy, without being reminded that a woman/girl has it much worse somewhere else in the world and that she should be 'happy' shes not being treated like them. men have trained women to be ashamed of sex, we've been taught to be faithful and obedient to trashy men since the dawn of time. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:38 PM
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i hate how men try to excuse it by saying 'but its our culture, women have always been like this and they enjoy it, why are you trying to be so feminist about everything?!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:47 PM
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men dont want women to use their money but they also dont want women earning their own money. you cant win either way and we're not supposed to because men fundamentally want someone to cook/clean/have sex with/make babies with. men dont see women as separate entities with our own thoughts and desires. men dont respect stay at home mums at all, they think its easy staying at home and just feeding the baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:35 PM
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men dont care about our orgasms unless its linked to their egos. making a woman orgasm is just foreplay and being affectionate. its stupidly easy to make a woman orgasm but they act like its rocket science
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:03 PM
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this is a really big thing in south asian communities. because so much of our culture is based around families and having children, we need women to not be ambitious career and education wise. they train women from birth to want babies and husbands, to endure abuse because its 'our culture' to 'never divorce no matter how bad he is' because 'you dont want to bring shame onto the family name'. the men of course have nothing to say, they are happy and love the current system but things are changin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:35 PM
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men fundamentally see women as objects. we are sex toys to them that make babies and we love to cook/clean unconditionally. we are objects for them to use and toss away when they are bored. when you go to order a takeaway after work you dont wear your best clothes or care about how you look, you just want to get your food quick and fast with no extra work needed. its why so many men are lazy when it comes to their personal care, they really DONT care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:20 PM
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how did he go from roblox to prison overpopulation lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:28 PM
177

honestly sometimes i feel like heterosexuality is a conspiracy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:36 PM
12

i can hear this picture lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:39 PM
27

this. Prince Andrew could have an orgy with 20 underage children, snort drugs and blow £50 million in taxpayers money, he would still be worshipped more than Meghan Markle just for existing. her just BEING black in the royal family is enough to anger bigots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:00 PM
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i wish there was a tv show where scrotes like him were made to read out his texts in front of every woman in his family. OP hes trash and you deserve better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:59 PM
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the power of just walking away from a conversation with a bigot is pretty powerful. before i would just nod and wait for it to end but one day i walked away from a bunch of backwards sexist relatives. felt so good lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:07 AM
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the thing that ALL men insist on is honesty. they say they dont like women who cant just say no but this is what happens when we say no. we have to lie for our safety. the men who can handle rejection think that all men are like him. the men who cant handle rejection finds a way to somehow blame the woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:12 PM
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apparently the guy works for a troubled youths support group in new york. on twitter theres alot more detail. i think what made the crime so shocking was how they just left her there. multiple men watched as he attacked her and they did nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:11 PM
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do they actually follow you or do they just post abuse? i have 3 people following me, i dont know who they are on reddit but they dont send me messages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:09 PM
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the fact that hes equating FDS to red pill says alot. FDS is all about women realising their worth, living their lives and achieving goals. red pill is all about hating women and their choices
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:56 PM
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unfortunately this is really common among my group of friends. the women are young and trying to work their jobs but their lonely older male coworkers insist that they date and have sex with them. theres nothing wrong with older women, older men just dont like them because they arent as naive and trusting as younger women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:14 PM
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alot of male behaviour makes sense when you realise that men fundamentally see women as walking sex toys who love cooking, cleaning, making babies and being 100% faithful to a man no matter their behaviour. marriage has never been a good thing for women, we give give give and never see anything in return
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:57 PM
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when i was fat i got comments from men all the time stuff like 'wow i love that thick hourglass look' and 'you carry your weight so well, you really look like a woman'. i tried being polite but that got me nowhere so instead i got the men to explain what they meant. id say 'what do you mean by that' or 'i dont really understand what you mean'. they'd stammer and struggle to talk, makes them turn red every time. its okay if a man is genuine but if hes being creepy and inappropriate then you have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:11 PM
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'men protect women' should be changed to 'men protect women from other men'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:14 PM
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its something the bdsm community will never acknowledge, bdsm cannot function without the abuse of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:13 PM
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sorry if its been asked before but how do i join the discord?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:11 PM
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i used to think if i wore the 'right' clothing then catcalling would stop. its an absolute myth and im angry i ever believed it. catcalling is just men's way of telling women they are sex toys and that they dont belong in public without being sexualised. the only way to stop catcalling is to not be a woman lol. i have NEVER seen a man derogatorily catcall another man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:16 AM
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men will do this sometimes to multiple women at the same time but then also demand their wife on their wedding day to be a complete virgin with no experience or high standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:15 PM
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its very true though. men always worry about the safety of their daughters but no man fears raising a son that might become a rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:54 AM
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men make women pay for bills even if they cook/clean/raise children full-time?!?! this is wild lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:25 AM
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my cousin's in laws worshipped her like a goddess until she got married, then they crossed every boundary when she gave birth. they insisted the married couple live with them, she never got to raise her children how she wanted and she was treated like a handmaid. shes now divorced and working as a lawyer. dont fall for manipulative men and their families edit - just wanted to add that she worked from the very bottom, she was cut off completely both financially and emotionally from her family. my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:07 AM
11

he really wanted snoo snoo. really though he is demonically entitled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:14 AM
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i just love how someone at pornhub went 'yep this is an incredible idea!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:05 AM
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if a man makes you choose between him or a degree, its a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:36 AM
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its not funny this is abusive. even he doesnt think its funny, hes forcing himself to laugh to hide the fact he enjoyed her discomfort. the abuse has to be funny joke otherwise she'll realise its abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:28 AM
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i bet he thinks he can still talk his way out of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:47 PM
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i love how this is essentially what hes thinking but in his original post he rewords it so cunningly you dont even realise it. men are very manipulative. i bet he told his mistress everything about his wife without saying hes actually married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:47 PM
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men like your grandfather literally save lives, when men get abusive the women have to turn to police or close friends. the police take reports and try to help but theres nothing like having someone on the outside helping you. god bless ur grandfather
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:46 PM
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100% agree, if it wasnt for porn and the media in general then men wouldnt feel so entitled to our bodies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:08 AM
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women get catcalled by greasy men all the time yet we dont go round shooting all men. theres a story almost every week about a man stalking or killing his ex but you cant find the same for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:08 AM
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the rise in porn has exposed men for what they really are. i got abused when i was a child so i knew early on you had to be weary around men but everyday i read new things about men leaving pregnant wives or men murdering women they stalk. i really dont think men fundamentally see us as humans, we are objects to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:03 AM
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im amazed he didnt return the food when he found out on the monday. so he got a warning but chose to ignore it, leave his gf starving and continue feeding that food to his family. i think he knows hes in the wrong but hes not willing to admit it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:00 AM
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the metro posted this - https://www.mirror.co.uk/money/student-quits-university-now-biggest-22045646. many uk uni students are struggling with online lectures, bills, poor graduate prospects due to the economy. im worried we're going to see a surge in this sort of thing, young women running after quick money then regretting it later when they get older. this sort of thing stays online FOREVER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:25 PM
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i agree, he was so rude. theres another scene where Evelyn talks on camera about what she thinks her wedding night will be like, he gets really uncomfortable because she's talking about sex and he starts getting aggressive and rude. again hes relying on her naivety to get what he wants and hes scared of being exposed on camera
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 12:36 AM
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when i was fat id get stared at or maybe an old man would demand my phone number. i got ignored alot when i was fat, id say something and men would pretend they didnt hear me. when i lost weight i had men of all ages and sizes holding doors open for me, buying me things, running my errands etc. id talk and every man would stare and listen to me. it took me a while to realise you only get the respect from men if they want to sleep with you or if you are family. and even then its not respect, they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:12 PM
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theres a scene where he literally slathers his hands with mayonnaise and he runs it through his hair in his bathroom. there was another 90df man who was 30 and dating an 18 year old. he was a virgin because he wanted his first time to be with his wife, he also wanted to move this 18yo away from her family because he wanted to 'move to a warmer state'. you can watch that part here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NLohHjSaIH0. her friend had legitmate concerns about their relationship, she was be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 01:40 AM
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i know the person didnt mean to insult Rose but 'sleeping on the floor among rats' sounds so bad lol. no neck ed bathes his hair in mayonnaise, he doesnt work out, his clothes are horrific, he is creepy, possessive and very demanding. hes humiliated her countless times on camera, talking to her like shes a 12 year old and not an adult woman. hes made comments about how her culture and lifestyle 'is backwards', he said something about needing 'a minimum 1000 thread count for his bedding'. he seem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:47 PM
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i thought this was something that happened in third world countries like mine but theres reports of girls in america being raped as children, they got pregnant and judges allowed their rapist to marry their victim and get visitation rights so that 'the baby has a mother and father figure in their lives'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:20 PM
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hes proof that rape and consensual sex is intertwined for men, they cannot see the distinction between the two because sex for men is something you take or acquire from women. hes jealous because in his mind 'at least raped women are getting sex im not getting any action and im a man and i need sex'. i dont believe hes just doing it to bully women, theres this sense of entitlement too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:22 PM
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'i just felt like i was in alot of pain watching her give birth. even though i spent most of the time on my phone i was still in the same room and i felt connected to that baby. and yes i know i didnt technically give birth but its such a big thing to become a father suddenly without warning. i had no idea unprotected sex would put me in this situation. well actually i did but still, we both went through the pregnancy together'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:40 AM
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exactly this, i bet he's catcalled other girls and doesnt want to feel guilty so he keeps telling his gf shes wrong even though shes right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:38 AM
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i hate when they bait you with ridiculous statements like 'but i know you dont really care about how i feel so i wont be dramatic' or 'ive always been kind and polite to you, i dont understand why you are being irrational'. they go mad if you give them small replies or just type 'k'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:20 PM
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men use nudes as a weapon, they share it with their friends and family then get upset if you were to do the same. if a man asks you for a nude you should ask for one as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:56 PM
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it brings them fast money but they dont realise its not sustainable, they cant always keep up with what men want and theres so much abuse in the porn industry. whatever you film will forever be online and lonely men will work tirelessly to ensure you feel ashamed of any sex work youve done but they also masturbate to it. theres cases of porn stars trying to leave the industry but then porn addicts send their videos to their family and coworkers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:14 PM
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lets think of the numbers as well, how many men have stories where they get spiked and get their watches stolen? its not as much as when men spike womens drinks and abuse them. the sad thing is the women will be more harshly judged for this than any rapist or murderer. there are men have spiked, kidnapped, rapped, murdered women but they dont elicit the same kind of outrage as these two women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:07 PM
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it happens alot but the ones that infuriate me are the ones where the women are actual experts in their field, they have phds and jobs in their subject and the men still think they know better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:47 PM
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theres cases of female teachers being fired for wearing bikinis on their facebook page. i have never understood it. theres actors and male singers who have raped and abused people yet are still loved and adored by society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:21 PM
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hes got money and he knows the women will stay for his money as long as he gets 'access' to their bodies. this is a very common pattern in rich men, when they get money they trade the older model in for a young naive girl. its predatory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:18 PM
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is he okay lol what is going on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:18 PM
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the fact that she underage made it so much worse. its not the kind of thing they can say 'well sure it might look sexual to some but we dont see it that way, its just a drawing'. its so blatantly sexual and purposefully degrading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:27 PM
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i wish there was an app that would tell you the guys that think like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 07:22 PM
33

tbh most of the successful female friends in my circle are either single or are dating women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 07:16 PM
29

hes confusing rape with porn because he thinks sex in the real world is just like in porn where women are always happy and eager to cater to men. he doesnt think that sexual trafficking is a bad thing because at least you get to have sex with someone and sex is always fun in porn. all men are scared of prison because thats the only time men care about rape, when it can land them in trouble. if you told him that prison rape was fun and exciting then he'd probably write you a 20 page essay about h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:31 PM
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i read that the author didnt take long to write the book because it all came from personal experiences. south korea looks so modern and liberal but their culture is surprisingly sexist. the molka epidemic is something else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:16 PM
49

when i was fat guys would either genuinely want to talk to me about my hobbies or i was completely invisible to them. id talk and they'd ignore me. when i lost weight this all changed, all men of all ages insisted on saying hello or being creepy. this is completely true, most men will only talk to women they want to sleep with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:17 PM
77

ive read some horror stories about men on dating sites insisting that the women break the lockdown and come visit them for 'a few hours of netflix and chill since we cant go out to restaurants or movies haha'. when the women challenged the men to visit them instead they'd reply 'oh but i dont want to get sick lol its dangerous out there now'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:16 AM
31

i wish we could expose the men who posted and viewed this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:46 PM
6

i know theres no reference to race but as a south asian woman this beautifully sums up the reality of dating and marriage in my culture. the woman HAS to be a virgin but nobody cares about the man. this is exactly how women are viewed and treated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:28 PM
6

'cant you see that my way of thinking is so much more efficient and just better? okay i know you dont like it but i think you will like it, so just try it? why are you throwing a tantrum? i didnt invade your space or step on any boundaries lol haha'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:31 PM
44

theres men who get upset when you have a career, they think its selfish for you to have more success than them. even if we all work independently and pay our bills, they still arent happy. they want us to sacrifice everything just for their ego. i will never diminish or limit my potential for a man EVER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:21 PM
603

they want to physically hurt a woman for existing? they havent done anything and he wants to hurt them for not wanting to sleep with his old crusty ass? and men wonder why women dont trust them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:03 PM
48

i just dont get it, if ur spouse is earning money then you should be happy the bills are being paid and thats shes successful. it means men dont have to earn as much for their living and they should be happy but they arent because they want to have all the control. i know so many marriages that could fail if the women started earning more lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 11:18 AM
9

im a lesbian so ive kind of been on that path for a long time. its natural for people to want companionship in life but we shouldnt have to degrade or limit ourselves to make our spouses feel strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:10 AM
28

men protect other men when one of them gets accused of sexual assault because men know men are mostly rapists. when Anita Hill testified in front of the senate they kept asking her all sorts of ridiculous minute details over and over, their goal was to wear down her patience, traumatise her into silence so they could keep clarence for their own needs. if the law and police really cared about protecting women they would interview men just as harshly but you never see it because men cannot see oth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:58 PM
58

can we tell men not to engage in domestic violence and marital rape during covid 19 or is that classed as nagging? cant believe they thought this was a good idea to tell women this lol. we're going through a pandemic and men still expect silent pretty dolls to coddle them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:35 PM
25

this is the reality for most women. i love how this hasnt been censored or brigaded by the 'NoT AlL mEn!1!' idiots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:39 PM
90

calling out lazy unmotivated cheating obsessive creepy demanding pornsick men is apparently the same as hating men lol. are they serious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:55 PM
41

i really REALLY believe all men are the same. they are just different in how they hide their mask. even HVM who are caring partners and pull their weight, even those men have nasty thoughts about women in the back of their heads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:17 PM
34

men: 'if you talk shit you deserve to get hit' also men: 'its just words, calling someone you dont know sugartits is actually a compliment'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 07:44 PM
8

india has always been very patriarchal and sexist. with more and more women starting to work and abandon abusive arrange marriages, the men are getting scared. they KNOW they are the real cause of violence and abuse and are scared of being held accountable. they need to make themselves think they are the victims to escape the accountability. the men want the women to perform their gender roles (cooking, cleaning, enduring sex, making children, staying at home) but the men dont want to live by th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:51 PM
6

'i dont understand women, they dont make sense to me, i wish i could just talk to a woman' is code for 'this woman isnt behaving the way i think women should be. i wish i could just talk to a woman who feeds my ego and expectations without complaining about me being too selfish or demanding'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:42 AM
7

i have this peppermint/menthol lotion that feels lovely after i shave my legs, lovely fresh feeling. i never shave in the winter though, its not right for the season
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:43 AM
21

men really asked you when they could have sex with the partner after the childbirth? they must think childbirth is like heating up food in a microwave lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:15 PM
36

i asked the women i knew in my circle, they ALL had a story of some kind. people think sexual attacks only happen to women over 18 but most of the women i knew had abuse before they were 12. none of the men who molested them ever saw a courtroom or a jail cell. its so common and its why women are focusing on their careers and abandoning dating altogether
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:16 AM
63

he had her blood on his shirt, he caused bruises on her neck and privates and he paid her a huge sum to settle the case out of court. that alone should have been enough for him to be disgraced as a rapist but people are still defending him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:14 AM
31

ive met men who were great with kids/animals/their parents/friends etc but when they started talking about their idea of the ideal woman, thats when things went downhill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 09:44 PM
6

he thought the murder was okay because murder is less embarassing than having his older sister be pregnant...this is all about control and his weird ego
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:08 PM
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