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Outer Game ebmnm/r/seduction27/09/21 01:11 PM
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Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too Broadebmnm/r/seduction13/04/21 04:35 PM
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Logisticsebmnm/r/seduction22/01/22 03:43 PM
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Lifestyleebmnm/r/seduction18/03/22 08:32 PM
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ebmnm/r/seduction25/02/20 08:15 PM
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Depends on the guy one will be like ok whatever good for you idc another will high five you and give props
/r/seduction16/04/22 04:12 PM
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Dude go to the party and scope out other chicks lmao worst case scenario your stuck with her and you get some either way
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:26 PM
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Depends some girls at 19 are living with their parents some are at college already drinking and hooking up constantly
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:46 PM
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Social proof and confidence, for confidence you gotta learn to love and respect yourself by becoming who you want to be or at least trying. And for social proof you need to be giving off good energy to everyone, make them want to be your friend
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:44 PM
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Why df are you insecure you realize average length is like 5.5in. This is like a 6 foot guy saying hes insecure about his height
/r/seduction27/02/22 04:39 PM
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What do you mean 5.5in in girth?
/r/seduction27/02/22 04:33 PM
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Ive seen little people pull as long as you got social proof confidence and look at least a 5 you can pull hot girls
/r/seduction27/02/22 04:08 PM
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Nah more like 60%
/r/seduction27/02/22 03:36 PM
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I guess prostitution? Or put yourself in a high value position where you know everybody / have an advantage
/r/seduction24/02/22 04:22 PM
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Lol true. I dont get laid either but its a skill you gotta put time into. Make yourself look good and put yourself out there in social situations if you aren’t meeting alot of people you wont get any chances
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:20 PM
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Its as hard as you make it. With the right setting and skills it can be easy
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:50 PM
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Just do it what do you have to lose
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:41 PM
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Try a different approach
/r/seduction19/02/22 08:26 PM
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First date? Id go for holding hands
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:08 AM
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I have the same problem but its just boring they have 20 guys asking the same thing so its best to be more more forward or interesting
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:04 AM
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Why not a city near a college
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:29 PM
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I wouldn’t worry about it until you been seeing them for a month. Its very likely they both are seeing other guys too
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:35 PM
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Some girls activity seek toxicity
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:33 AM
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Well she had a pretty face and nice rack but nothing else
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:13 AM
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To be fair she was coming on to me but I definitley should have made it clear beforehand I wasn’t interested in more.
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:03 AM
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Because I didn’t find her attractive enough. If a girl out of my league wanted me to just eat her out I would be down.
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:48 AM
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Yea should have told her before
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:43 AM
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Ok to be clear she offered it but yea I guess there was a lack of communication at some point. I see people saying this is fucked up but I would give just oral to a girl out of my league anyday
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:58 PM
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I think you have had went for the natural approaches. If a girl stares at you on the train thats a good sign to talk. And you can approach girls at the grocery store it wouldn’t be awkward even if you get rejected. Also keep in mind if your going out only to pick up girls you will likely be in your head just go out to be social with everyone.
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:47 PM
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In the beginning of an interaction you should be carrying the conversation until she is comfortable, if you’ve been talking for a few minutes without much from her then you need to try to get her to talk. let her fill the silence or move on
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:45 PM
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Ask her about about the trip but yea play it cool let her come to you sounds like shes just busy or confused with what she wants
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:34 PM
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I know what you mean I’m also not a very talkative guy and if the girl is also shy I could see it being boring/awkward. But I could also see it going well for a first date to filter with low investment.
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:55 PM
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I guess it doesnt but I usually only drink coffee in the morning it messes up my sleep if I do it later
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:50 PM
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If your talking most of the time then they might just not be comfortable enough with you yet or some are just shy but in my experience most girls like to talk.
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:46 PM
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You gotta realize shes a person like you not a sex object. Practice makes perfect but try being more charming to anyone you talk you and talk to everybody regardless.
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:35 PM
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Their waiting for you to talk
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:01 PM
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Idk it sounds like your brushing it off too much lol she still ghosted you I would wait a day or two then hit her up without mentioning it but you do you
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:53 PM
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I mean blowing you off is a pretty big red flag usually I would end it but if you think shes actually sorry and want to give her another chance then go ahead and just brush it off
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:44 PM
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Yeah dont be a pushover make it clear she doesn’t have you by her fingertips even if she does haha
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:48 PM
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Girl 1 you should of asked out Girl 2 probably overthinking it Girl 3 shes not toying with you she’s flirting Girl 4 seems you really missed it somehow… Girl 5 shes wants you but your flatmates so it’s probably complicated Girl 6 you missed another hint 7 sounds unrealistic 8 probably an accident? 9 idk probably being friendly Conclusion you overthink things and miss alot of obvious hints
/r/seduction25/12/21 03:43 PM
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Money matters but money alone will not get you girls. A broke good looking dude with good game will get more
/r/seduction25/12/21 03:35 PM
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Its not fun if your trying super hard and girls will know if you are. Try a more easygoing approach
/r/seduction08/12/21 05:08 PM
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I was in a very similar situation as a education major. Alot of my classes there were only 2-3 guys and it is alot of pressure to try and hit on a girl. If I could go back I would just become friends with as many of them as I could and then you could network through them and eventually one of them may give you signs of interest.
/r/seduction24/11/21 01:22 PM
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Keep in mind your vibe you give off try recording yourself asking a girl out or practicing and try to nail your vocal tonality.
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:03 PM
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Overall bad advise. I would say it could work if your dancing with her and shes very receptive but usually a bad move. What if shes just having fun and her boyfriend is there you need to at least talk to her first
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:50 PM
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I dont think theres anything wrong with it as long as your up front about it. Just say you dont want anything serious and you just want to hang out.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:20 PM
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Thats true it still could be a solid lead. I guess the only way to know would be appoaching and gauging their response.
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:57 PM
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Yea also want to watch for girls only flirting for drinks. I usually avoid more than two drinks because three will turn to eight
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:53 PM
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Good point you could try to read body language to guage if you should approach or not.
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:50 PM
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You just gotta put the work in. Get in shape take good pic of yourself and approach more not even just girls start talking to everyone. And you are not even in your prime yet dont feel bad you can do it
/r/seduction24/09/21 12:10 AM
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The lesson here is that dating is a numbers game. Think of all the thoughts and feelings you had over one girl you didn’t know and just to find out she has a boyfriend. Dont overthink it just try to be genuine and approach without hesitation. Also you should try be friends with her if she seems cool she could have other friends or lose her boyfriend one day.
/r/seduction20/09/21 06:52 PM
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Your overthinking it. If shes says shes busy this week just ask next week if shes free.
/r/seduction04/06/21 02:54 PM
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have empathy (think what is she feeling right now) -keep escalating (build attraction) give whatever you say value and have good vocal tone dont put her on a pedistal
/r/seduction03/04/21 02:51 PM
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One key is girls dont care if your a good dancer they only care if your having fun and being carefree
/r/seduction04/02/21 02:08 PM
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When she says friend that could mean she likes you but and dosnt want to dive into another relationship again or she wants a open relationship just feel it out. Just make sure she knows you like her and if she contines to be only a friend move on.
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:24 PM
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She is saying she wants to take it slow because shes coming out of a relationship. Just respect that and give her space. She doent want to get serious right now because shes still hurt.
/r/seduction02/03/20 04:56 PM
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Lazor eye contact with a deep toned voice
/r/seduction05/01/20 11:36 PM
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Having guy friends is no big deal, if she hangs out with other guys but if they hang out 1 on 1 like having dinner or at each others houses etc then yeah thats bad news.
/r/seduction28/12/19 09:32 PM
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When you meditate you have a calmness within you. So when your with a girl and things go well or horrible your not freaking out and making it obviously a big deal. Learn to just be present and calm with yourself and others. Also allows you to hold eye contact way better.
/r/seduction21/12/19 10:41 PM
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Honestly cheating is like a fact of life. Most relationships end by cheating or rebounding quickly. Just accept your relationship as it is now and dont worry if there is no reason to. Also make sure your expectations are clear if you dont want him to be dating multiple people.
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:28 PM
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