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Yes. All you really have to do is ask it in a way that is hard to refuse such as: "What's your number?" rather than "Could I have your number?" which elicits a yes or no answer. "What's your number?" makes them have to focus harder to say no. Although, they can many times give you a fake number, or just not message back. It's not an effective way to get good leads, but I think I could pull off being a pickup salesman with this lol. Women also aren't fans of direct conflict, so if they don't like…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:01 AM
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I've gotten one girl from a cold approach. My whole experience with cold approaching was kind of disappointing because you have this hope that "If I just have the balls to approach that cute girl, she'll appreciate it and want to go out with me". That's not really exactly how it works, and I don't think there is any magical way to make a cold approach work. I can get a girl's number 100% of the time, but that's because they'll do anything to get you out of their hair without conflict. Almost 100…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:49 AM
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Sluts by FSM's definition seem to be the opposite. They don't want you to be a slut because it's something you can hold over the guy's head as leverage. I've thought about this for a while and I think the problem is both sides being on team women or team man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:13 PM
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Was your father a president?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:44 AM
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You can be a lookist while also believing you need to make the first move. That's kind of where I'm at. There's no magical game. It's all just luck and if you're feeling lucky that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:40 AM
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TRP working 5 out of 6 times X to doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:38 AM
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The problem is when you do the scary thing 100s of times and it yields nothing or even a few successes but mostly nothing, it is kind of black pilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:34 AM
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Someone with a loyalty to team women and not whatever partner they are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:32 AM
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Actively trying to get a single girl a boyfriend is redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:30 AM
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The problem is not being attractive and the desperation it brings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:25 AM
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I would have a relationship right now, but even that seems hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:01 AM
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Yeah but how is it not easier to get relationships when you have infinite access to dates and sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:55 AM
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But you're on step 2, and most men are stuck on step 1. How is your situation not better?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:45 AM
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Doesn't matter. I dislike them for not being interested in me. It usually means they just wanna have a mommy friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:43 AM
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I've talked to 100s of women after this and it hasn't worked out. It just feels like I'll have to arbitrarily accept whatever woman likes me back so there won't be an actual meaningful connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:42 AM
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The house is still not relevant to me at this point. My first girlfriend burned my house down anyway. I wouldn't even call it an actual relationship because we never had sex, and I had to beg to kiss her, and then she ghosted me. It was this two week high school relationship. Since then I've never been the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:34 AM
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I don't mean you, I'm talking about the guy. Like is he outgoing or more of an introvert? That's why I said "it'd be the guy next door".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:50 AM
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I don't really know. I've only ever had one night stands so I've basically had to start over every time from step one of the hierarchy. My first relationship I felt like I had a good connection with someone, but it was one sided, and I got ghosted and we never fucked sooooo... Now I'm a lot more concerned with sex being given upfront or at least quicker than the 2 years I wasted talking to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:48 AM
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Not blatantly outspokenly sexy, but sexy nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:46 AM
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I mean, yes, but I did that in my first relationship and we never got around to fucking, so I've completely shifted my focus for that reason. I was basically in the friend-zone for two years, asked her to be my girlfriend, she told me we'd "try it out" but didn't seem very enthusiastic, I was over the moon for her because she was really seductive, then she ghosted me like trash. I don't know if I'm capable of feeling that way for anyone again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:45 AM
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Yeah but you're coming from a place of evaluation which I have never had the power to be at. I don't have the liberty to look for a spot on connection among hundreds of potential women who are all attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:39 AM
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I mean, do you know that for certain? Like is he one of those "girl next door" types but still hot except for you it'd be guy next door?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:38 AM
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I'm still on level one of Maslow's hierarchy so I can't conceive of being concerned with these "connections" you speak of. Seems so nit-picky to me. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:35 AM
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(that’s why betas are only seen as providers , even if they’re hot they’re spineless soyboys so they have no value). See, I tend to carry around a seething hatred for women for stuff like this. I think I still ultimately act beta and polite in my approaches, but I still feel this overwhelming sense of "fuck you, you are the cause of all my problems in life." Not sure which vibe throws them off more. lol Edit: That might just be my post rejection vibe. Idk... It's weird, sometimes these feelings …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:23 AM
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I've got no problem with banging a really big girl from Tinder, and because of the fact that's all I can seem to get on there anyway, I have made some compromises in terms of looks, but being a fit man, I feel like I should at least be able to hook up with and be in a relationship with a fit woman. Women under 300 lbs seem extraordinarily difficult for me to lay though and I've only ever been with 2 in my entire life. In public approaches are all women that are attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:14 AM
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Yeah but every door being open to you is going to be a lot easier than if most doors are locked tight shut to you. I really don't think the house is that big of a deal after the door is open. These considerations that you're talking about come from a place of (I hate this word lol) privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:09 AM
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I'm actually afraid to approach unattractive women more than attractive women. I'd rather be seen out in public with an attractive woman than an unattractive woman, even if the attractive woman ends up rejecting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:04 AM
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Pointing out not many people actually get into relationships this way lol usually the relationship comes before fucking someone Yeah but I imagine it's super casual and that there's a level of trust that eventually someone will fuck them so there's no rush to do anything. Also one attractive girls actually tend to be somewhat insecure, and most importantly, unaware of their attractiveness. The most drop dead gorgeous girl I've ever known was convinced she was ugly, constantly sought reassurance,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:03 AM
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That's what I figured. Any curiosity about dating for attractive people comes from a desire to filter out the crazies and undesirables while the undesirables and crazies are trying to claw their way into attractive people's consideration set.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:01 AM
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While part of me agrees with this, another part of me wants to aggressively breed white children to fuck over all the people talking about how we're going to be replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:58 AM
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My argument is that if they aren't worth it, and hate me that much that they don't like me when I'm my honest normal self, then they deserve every lie and abuse I may give them. They reward bullies so may as well fuck them over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:57 AM
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It's all in the ego boost for me, so I'd be okay without an orgasm as well as a guy. I just feel like a god after I actually manage to have sex with somebody halfway attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:51 AM
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What I mean is these men that you are "compatible" with are probably the same men that every woman is "compatible" with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:26 AM
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What's the strategy for self worth people then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:24 AM
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You guys are all dating the same small group of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:17 AM
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Yes but how do you define a personality? Typically that's where this argument breaks down because it involves "playfully" acting like a dick, which to guys acting it out is actually indistinguishable from acting like an actual dick, it just makes it look playful when you giggle at the dickishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:12 AM
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This is purple pill debate not debate an incel. Implying this is the same thing most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:53 PM
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What else do we come here for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:49 PM
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How is it not a relevant issue when people turn to TRP for the very reason that they are to some extent involuntarily celibate? I can understand not allowing blatantly hateful content, but someone saying that women are more attracted to a man with a sharper jaw? What's the harm in that? What if that is truly the answer to the debate and that none of this behavior stuff we debate over is as relevant as certain physical features? Are we looking for answers or looking to debate endlessly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:45 PM
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I thought you meant some random guy you saw you were attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:50 AM
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And guess who every other woman is fucking too? That one guy. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:47 AM
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Ok sure. I've never been huge or anything, but I feel like I could use leaning out my face a little bit somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:43 AM
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I understand what you were saying, but if you were the type of girl to kill cats then maybe you wouldn't be as creeped out by the guy not caring that you did that? heh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:16 PM
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How is that not the same for women? Surely you don't entertain the uglies when they approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 08:19 PM
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It's kinda weird that you think he's creepy when you're the one who killed the cat in that scenario. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 08:17 PM
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I'm interested in what kind of foods you take out to make your jawline sharper. How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 08:09 PM
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So you became attractive when it counted. Aww poor you. lol The only thing you probably learned was avoid the uglies because my pussy doesn't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 08:01 PM
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I think that's because you're self assured of your ability to get it. If I was Chad I'd probably feel the same way. I wouldn't need sex because I'd know that I'm well within the realm of being able to get it looks-wise. Fatties have the most sex I think because they are most insecure. I've banged fatties and I'm not that attracted to them. It's simply because I have to resort to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 07:56 PM
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I'd say there's an over 50% of the population number of young guys who struggle though. Old men struggle more probably. People who assume older men are somehow magical manipulators due to their age and that younger legal age women are naive to any PUA trick in the book are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 07:47 PM
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Improving themselves by going on horse steroids and becoming jacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 07:45 PM
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I thought staying in your lane implied that you actually couldn't get with the person you're trying to get with. If these older men are able to get with younger women then I guess that would be their lane yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 07:43 PM
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Hmmm... Are you Jewish by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 07:41 PM
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I don't think it's the degenerates getting breeded out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 12:52 AM
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I don't agree with the word complex, but it's simply what it's called. Doesn't matter if it's a box or a circle. Men don't have lovey dovey romantic feelings for women who are explicitly sexual with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 12:51 AM
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Yes, based on primitive monkey times measurements.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 11:34 PM
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They fought to go back to the monkey ages where they could fuck anybody. How noble of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:26 PM
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I think you might start out in the position you stated above, but then you'd make compromises as you weighed the pros and cons of the situation. In high school I was much more picky than I am now where I realize that I can't really afford to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 07:27 PM
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True but then you would just have what we have now and it would just be a whore complex. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 07:26 PM
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I don't think you really know that though without experiencing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:09 PM
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Because there's not that many partners that like you to go around as a man. Put yourself in those shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:10 AM
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If we actually collectively got to the point of banning them from Chad cock, then we could just make them property again. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:05 AM
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Assuming that starfish comes with no strings attached, yes. In a relationship, then yeah I'd say that more than starfish would be necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:04 AM
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Nah if we managed to do that they wouldn't do shit because they'd be incapable of beating men in a power struggle for the right to Chad cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:23 AM
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What if nobody ever works for you though or you're not good enough for them to justify the effort and they just decide to move on instead? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:45 PM
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I am wondering if this just proves cat/string theory though, women are attracted to men that don't want them. Its like if you go out and focus on women you will look desperate and needy, but if you are just having fun with your mates, women will be attracted. What I don't understand about this theory is how do you just reach out and grab what it is that you want if as soon as you reach for it, it goes away? Like how can anyone ever get what they want if girls want what they can't have?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:30 PM
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They don't need the specific TRP lingo to agree with this concept. It's a lot more than 5 million men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:25 PM
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It doesn't have to be a dichotomy if none of you are whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:23 PM
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He's right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:18 PM
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I don't think it's simping when you're soliciting for pussy. It's simping when you spend any money in the pursuit of pussy, or when you are trying to be in a romantic relationship with a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:15 PM
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When there is more awareness of this system, you have less willing beta men. The problem is sluts. You don't seem like one, but it's a prisoner's dilemma situation for men. If they are a beta, they could find a nice woman like you who only has sex in relationships, or they could just be getting sloppy seconds from an alpha. There's really no tried and true method to be able to tell so you're always dealing with Schrodinger's Slut. Men don't want to get sloppy seconds from an alpha and if they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:11 PM
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Yeah so when you say women stay single for months to years you don't meant celibate though right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:05 PM
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I don't understand why women desire "high quality" socializing. It seems to put such a high amount of pressure on something that should just be easy. Like my friends don't pressure me to be a certain way in socializing like women seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:03 PM
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I was told that for every guy having sex with an unenthusiastic or not totally willing partner is still better than no sex at all. It does make me feel a disgust for men and I have to remind myself that not all men are like this and it's not good to take a stranger's word seriously. Every guy is like this unless if you are talking about rape, which no, that is not the case. Any consensual sex is better than nothing for every guy. That much is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 07:58 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 07:55 PM
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There's a difference between being single for women and being single for men. Women can get probably even more sex than they can in a relationship while single if they really wanted to. Men cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 07:53 PM
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But to apply the same theory above, the straws that women get upset over are much more minor and subtle than the ones for men. This is another indication of their sheer number of options that they want their men attuned to the highest level of whatever sort of vibe they're into and not just a good looking normal guy, but a good looking normal guy that gives them exactly the right feelings. Guys don't have so many options that they care about subtleties.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 07:51 PM
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Looking is different than fucking. It is reasonable to not want someone you love to fuck other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 07:45 PM
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You already were arguing in the frame of only knowing you're the best guy if you date a girl with a lot of partners implying that there are winners and losers according to sexual prowess. In that context of who feels like the victor, it's gonna be the guy fucking her rather than the guy who's not. Doesn't matter which guy is better at sex hypothetically as long as this hypothetical better guy never touches her pussy. Because I love her, I don't want anyone else fucking her, or else I would be mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:41 PM
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I don't think they had as high standards and probably orgasmed just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:49 AM
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I wouldn't say most people because I think attractive people are actually a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:43 AM
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It's about thinking your special attention for a lady will result in a symmetrical effect. This is literally what I believed. It wasn't out of force though. I just felt like if you love someone, the natural reaction is reciprocation. When I figured out that wasn't true it fucked me up. Everything's about stupid animalistic shit and no one is innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:41 AM
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That's pretty sociopathic to be able to switch things up that quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:35 AM
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The key thing you're not understanding is that hypothetical better guys don't matter to men. Having exclusive access to the sex of a virgin woman is as simple as it needs to get. No other "better" guy gets to fuck her but you, so that's the ultimate victory against all the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:29 AM
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Men want to be genuinely sexually desired in the case of when they have to accept their girlfriend is a whore. When their woman is a virgin, it doesn't matter, because she hasn't fucked anyone else and it's just a different thing entirely. As long as she's loyal to him, and fucks no one else, that's more valuable than being the best fuck buddy of the whore. That's the only way that men will enter relationships with whores is if they feel they are the best the whore can get which in most cases th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:27 AM
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Yeah but AF is like 1% of the 1% of the 1% of the population if you hope to ever have sex with an attractive woman. Men would rather be BB but only if all women and men are part of the same system. Any alpha fucks defects ruin the whole system for men to the point where they feel like they may as well try to hit the lottery in the sexual market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:22 AM
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But, acting the same as you would normally doesn't magically get you pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:17 AM
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How do you attract normal people and not crazy though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:06 AM
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Yeah game is not basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:51 PM
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My point is that there are some fit guys that have to resort to obese chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 03:33 PM
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Yeah, but "on their level" usually means obese if you're not good enough for the hottest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 12:52 AM
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I think your quality of life would improve if you found something else that makes you feel like that cuz honestly, in life, you will never have a constant access to sex. If I'm not able to do that I think I would always have this guarded bitterness towards women. And honestly, if you write like this when you’re feeling bad I have a hard time believing that you don’t speak like this when you’re feeling the same way. I have ranted like this to women who reject me, but I think if I ever actually wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:47 PM
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I don't think his accomplishments are less than because he's a man, I just think it would be more impressive if a woman beat him. If the argument that women are more promiscuous now is true, then wouldn't that mean that more dicks are getting touched? Or are there aliens that they're fucking? This assumes a one to one man to woman fucking ratio when in reality, without monogamy and in a casual sex situation, that is not the case. I would bet my entire net worth against yours that a much smaller …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:40 PM
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Are you a man or a woman? I've fucked around 7 women. It's like sports. The best guys at weightlifting are always going to be stronger than the best girls. It's not a double standard to say if a woman achieved the overall world record deadlift even against men would be a more impressive accomplishment than a man doing it. Except, in the sport of sex, the best women are always going to have an advantage over the best men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:42 PM
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I do write like this when I'm feeling bad typically lol. When I get laid I feel like a god on top of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:41 PM
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Also for how much people here like to run their mouth on high N counts, you’d think they wouldn’t advocate for casual sex lol Their point there is that pretty much every girl is a slut these days so it's pointless to even care about high N count, but it's still objectively a bad thing. For me, sex is an emotional thing, For me sex is a cause of great pain and agony and is a constant grind to figure out how the fuck to get it so I can never relax while trying to get it. It's not this happy go luc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:54 PM
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I'm not sure if you're agreeing with me or not because you haven't stated your argument in a couple of comments now. It's not a double standard because of the difference in amount of effort that each gender requires to get laid. It's comparing apples to oranges. Unless that's not what you mean and you're not saying that women who fuck a lot are studs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:45 PM
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What is? I never downvoted you. It's not an achievement to get dick as a woman. It is an achievement to get dick as a man. Women having lots of sex is like gluttony. A guy having lots of sex is through lots of difficult work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:29 PM
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Their personality was not like that initially, but became like that as a result of the fact that you discriminated against them. Also I’m going to assume that you’re not actively trying to pursue your guy friends for a fwb or ltr so that’s probably why they’ve never commented on your pickup habits. I just don't understand why it can't be easy as being friends with the girl and then saying: "you like sex, I like sex, lets fuck". Why is it some complicated way of socializing that's more complex th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 04:29 PM
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Yeah except it's easy as shit to get a dick. It's difficult as fuck to get a pussy. There are 300 lb girls who can easily get dick. There aren't many guys who can easily get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:42 PM
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neither will be like a guy who's just naturally stocky. Show me a picture of someone who's naturally stocky.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:21 AM
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What's your type? 6'5" 250 and shredded? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:20 AM
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Feel sexually attracted after I get to know them. This is all too high pressure for me. I hate these kinds of auditions. I always fuck up. I've only had one night stands because I can only hold it together for a short period of time. I don't even know what I did wrong most of the time they just stop liking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:19 AM
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Weight definitely can. Just eat less or more dummies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:17 AM
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attitude/social skills had improved as well. I'd love to be able to comprehend what the fuck this means because I seriously don't get it. I have a bunch of guy friends and they never call me out for being autistic or anything so I don't get what social skills I'm lacking that weird women out. the person who underwent the ‘glow up’ almost always either becomes MORE insecure or becomes a massive douche bag (or both) Can you blame them? Nobody likes people who didn't give them the time of day in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:15 AM
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Did he have a model looking face? Short guys who are successful always seem to make up for it in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:12 AM
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just because they're good-looking But could you be attracted to someone not good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:11 AM
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I feel like your definition of average looking could be a plain looking male model guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:09 AM
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Eh I mean it's kinda hard to like people who didn't like you in the past but like you now and not treat them lesser for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:07 AM
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You don't really have much of a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:04 AM
6

That would be a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:50 AM
1

Yeah my path was I got an escort at 19, got with some fatties on Tinder, and then finally I had a successful cold approach with a kind of nerdy yellow teethed 4'11" 90lb girl. The fact that she wasn't a whale or a hooker completely made up for the yellow teeth. It was nice to have a cute little tiny girl for a change. I got with one other girl that was actually attractive to me and skinny. Now I recently graduated college so I'm going to have to find a new venue to continue the grind. I agree wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:32 PM
1

I would be down for that, but I gotta feel like you're dominating me because I'm super masculine and not to humiliate me you know? Like you wanting the dick so bad that you forcefully take it and want it all to yourself sort of thing. My asshole is off limits. I guess honestly it might be more like me being amused that you think you can dominate me while you forcefully take my dick and not actual dominance by you that I take seriously. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:18 PM
1

I think actual ability to commit to one person through all their flaws as long as there's enough good things is more important than finding the perfect partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:14 PM
1

There's plenty of men saying they like physical attractiveness and that's all that really matters in women. Where are the same women saying something similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:36 PM
1

Like would you ever want a guy you peg to dominate you or would you leave that to a different man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:35 PM
1

I can understand wanting a woman to be dominant, but I'd want her to be using my penis and not my asshole. It's pretty hot to think of a dominant woman wanting to use you for your penis as a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:33 PM
1

The media is not saturated with hot men. It might be saturated with hot women but not hot men. When hot men are shown in the media, it is usually implied that they're your every day average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:21 PM
1

Young people, especially the outgoing types, would sometimes need to have numerous relationship experiences that are not serious in nature to learn more about themselves. Stop acting like slamming your monkey parts together means that you're learning some profound thing about yourself. Sex is not noble or enlightening. It is animalistic and appeals to our base instincts and brings out the worst in those trying to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:15 PM
1

So if you pegged a man would you most of the time let him fuck you in other ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:12 PM
1

Different does mean worse in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:11 PM
-1

If you're a man an you like your butthole stimulated in any way you are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:09 PM
1

I'm not gay so as a guy I don't know whether somebody has a good personality or if they're successful because they're good looking. I don't know what a good looking guy looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 08:08 PM
1

Why not use the guy you're feeling out for release? There's literally no difference. If it doesn't work out who gives a fuck? You're still ultimately having a fuckbuddy. Just try to develop your fuckbuddy relationships and leave these other men that you cuck out of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:25 PM
2

Yeah girls are the only ones who can rationalize not liking someone because they care too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:22 PM
2

people keep telling me it was casual and I shouldn't have gotten hurt bc he "never said" he was single. That's hot person morality for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:20 PM
3

Nope never.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:12 PM
1

Yeah but I don't understand what defines a decent one other than that it's probably attached to a good looking person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:02 PM
1

Personality is something that everybody has assuming the looks are there. It's not hard to have a personality. You get that by existing. That's why it's pointless to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:40 PM
2

Maybe a better way to put that is I was once burned by a "charismatic woman" but I'm not sure if she's actually charismatic or if I was just obsessed with her. Now I zone out to stop charisma from getting to me. In my world, charisma doesn't seem to exist anymore because of my extreme skepticism and trust issues. It only takes getting burnt once for charisma to not work anymore. It's not based on anything other than results. A person can choose to put up a brick wall to charisma, and that's what…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:36 PM
1

Actually just to bring up a counter example, I actually respect Belle Delphine for being honest. There's a certain kind of slut that you just have to respect because they're not trying to put on this respectable facade. edit: oh nvm you basically agree with me there lol I'm not sure why second graders are worrying about how looks matter. It seems like you'd want them to be positive and you know, not hate themselves? All relationship knowledge is delivered to women. Men have to seek it out being …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:07 AM
2

Because we're explicitly taught as men that we can overcome being ugly by having a charismatic personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:59 AM
1

And lets say that the dudes your girlfriends like had some kind of makeover to be more your style. Do you think they'd be capable of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:52 AM
3

I hate this fucking swagger thing. It's so annoying to me. I've never been able to embody it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:46 AM
3

You can't act like there aren't guys that you universally agree are unattractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:45 AM
1

Not enough to account for every different kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:44 AM
4

There are some men who cap out at 40 matches on Tinder. There are some men who get 0 matches on Tinder. Then there are some men who get an insane amount of matches getting like 200+ in a couple weeks. How do you explain this if every woman is unique?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:44 AM
3

I feel like I've always been stuck on the outside of this catch 22 getting lucky here and there, and then falling back on my ass. I've never been able to get up the momentum to fix my woman problems. Just have had one night stands here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:41 AM
2

I don't think charisma exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:39 AM
3

theguy covers it pretty well about the subjectivity thing, but we're also lied to and told that personality is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:36 AM
1

I have a question for you. Why do you call it "sexual compatibility" rather than sexual skills? I feel like sexual compatibility implies some inherent characteristics that someone was born with and that people are just born good at sex. Also how is a guy supposed to get good at sex if he only has one night stands because he keeps getting vetted out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:33 AM
3

If you are told you are nice looking, then you may have an advantage over normal looking short dudes. I bet there are non-bitter short dudes who struggle because they don't have a good looking face to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 08:45 PM
2

Women don't seem to like bisexual men for the same reason that men hate when their action heroes are turned gay. It just ruins the coolness of the character when you think about how they're getting rammed in the ass by another dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 08:39 PM
1

So you don't have the little divots on the sides of your jawline?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 08:34 PM
3

I'm not even short, but I'll argue for the shortcels for a moment. Do you happen to have these giant fuckers sticking out of the sides of your jawline? Just asking because it seems to be the case that for a lot of short guys who don't struggle they have model tier faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 08:24 PM
6

I still think most of the complaints come from skinny guys who have a busted face who don't understand why they are unattractive because we don't teach people about what is attractive facially beyond just "muh symmetry". If you're a fatass, of course you're not getting women. Nobody's arguing that fatasses should be getting hot models. What people are confused about are when they've got their fitness in shape, but their face simply doesn't match up with male models so they struggle to get with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 08:19 PM
17

I'm sure it's not a caricature of the cock carousel, because I don't think women have the level of malice implied when they're randomly fucking around, but they're just chilling with dudes who they end up fucking with. There's no aggressive conscious out to get her future beta husband casual sex going on, but there's no doubt casual sex going on. Just wait a few days and OP will be posting something else about how men shouldn't be mad about women's sexual past. But wait, I thought you and your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:38 PM
1

Well I'm sure what women wanted didn't matter as much back then because they didn't have any rights to choose anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:13 PM
1

I mean, I have gotten laid, but I can't get anyone decent very often or for more than a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 01:39 AM
1

Maybe you'll get lucky and find someone that just likes you for you, who knows. I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 01:32 AM
1

Yeah but that culture actually makes sense to me and whatever makes someone cool to a woman doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 01:29 AM
1

But it doesn't work on the woman side because your statement still doesn't explain why women think that status means they picked a good mate. Men go for status because women like it,"Women go for status for..." what reason? There's a mystery there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 01:27 AM
1

I'm not putting pussy on the pedestal, but for whatever reason I get ghosted because of my "personality" no matter how hard I try not to care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 01:23 AM
-1

I would imagine it would be a fun thing rather than a grating thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 01:20 AM
2

I mean yeah, well liked, but it seems like women expect you to be a zen monk level of confident 24/7. I can be well liked by lots of groups of people but women have crazy standards for vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 01:19 AM
0

I'm not saying men don't like anything. I'm saying there are things that men only like because they give them access to women, but for the same reason, women are just inherently into those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 01:18 AM
1

Yeah and as soon as I feel like I'm at that level, women find some reason to be nit picky about my confidence and ghost me. Like, I thought being able to go up to a woman and talk to her was all the confidence I needed, but apparently I need confidence throughout the entire damn interaction, confidence in the after sex talks, confidence while walking her to some place. It's just a constant pressure to be a certain way. You know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 10:19 PM
1

But I hung out with a bunch of nerds in high school so clearly I was not high status or motivated to pursue high status until I realized that women flock to high status men. Explain that science!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 10:16 PM
1

Whatever people mean by "confidence".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 10:13 PM
1

I think women are trigger happy when it comes to detecting neuroatypicalness in men. One slip up and you're absolutely fucked even if you didn't even mean to say something a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 10:10 PM
1

I'm talking about a very specific brand of coolness that is cool to women, that I don't think men care about being beyond the fact that it gets them women. hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:58 PM
1

Why not though? What are they really missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:56 PM
1

I don't think Nikola Tesla was trying to impress anybody though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:54 PM
1

Okay I think I'm starting to narrow down my viewpoint here. There is a way in which women like their men to be cool, and that definitely does not match the way that incels try to impress other incels. The way that women like men they sleep with to be cool, men do not care about being cool in that way beyond sleeping with women, but women for whatever reason care about that coolness inherently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:52 PM
1

I still think that the coolness level within a group of guys is to make other guys think you're getting laid ultimately. I don't think there's any coolness independent of implied sexual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:50 PM
-3

I have no skin in that pecking order game if there's not women involved, and that's how I lived most of my life until I realized that women are involved in that stupid game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:47 PM
-1

But yeah like, being respected by nerds is a whole different category from being respected by women. It's a completely different way of socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:46 PM
2

But by being cool, the assumption is made that they are getting laid. You can't have a cool incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:45 PM
1

See, I'm not talking about doctors because it's a tangible thing that some dude worked hard for. I'm talking about where women care about stuff like their men not being autistic, whereas men can share lots of jokes with an autistic man. Like women require this certain charisma from all men they interact with that men don't require.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:44 PM
1

I mean yeah, I've played guitar for 13 years but I've never been able to successfully leverage it to attract women. I guess the things I'm thinking of aren't necessarily tangible. It's a way of talking and feeling and acting that makes up this "cool" persona that I don't think men necessarily care about or respect beyond the fact that people with those personas have easy access to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:42 PM
1

"Women only care about status insofar as it allows them to select the right man." I think that women care about status inherently and put the whole hierarchy in motion. The fact that status is a dimension of them selecting men is what I'm calling into question. Social status is not something that men care about in women or in men unless if it is to get laid by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:36 PM
1

I still don't think men are motivated to climb high in social fields without the motivation to get laid. I don't see the appeal in being high status for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:34 PM
1

Wealth is not really what I'm talking about because that's good for its own sake, but stuff like "being cool" and "vibing" isn't really something I think men do outside of trying to be cool to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:32 PM
1

I still think people can be driven outside of a sex motivation. I don't think I was very clear with my CMV. I think there are certain things like "vibes" that women are in tune with that men don't really care about when interacting with other men. Social vibes and being cool in general is something women care about inherently more than men whereas men just care about it to be cool for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:30 PM
-3

Yeah but it wouldn't matter that much. I'd certainly have no skin in that game if there wasn't women involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:27 PM
1

Maybe I wasn't specific enough about my position, but I understand that there are things that aren't sex motivated. What I'm saying is that there are some things, for example social "vibes" that women obsess over that men don't care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:25 PM
1

And I know that, but what I'm saying is, you have the stuff that's not about sex, but there's certain categories of interests that men are only interested in because it attracts women, but women are inherently interested in like social nit picking with stuff like "vibes" and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:23 PM
1

That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying that stuff like "being cool" is only cool because women like it. Achievement in sport can be independent of women, but the weird social stuff that women nit pick at is not an instinct that men pick up on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:21 PM
1

No, it is more important to men to prove their masculinity to other men than to prove their masculinity to "get women". Now that I read your comment again I don't think that our views are necessarily mutually exclusive. Yes, inherently men like man things, but things they do to pursue women is for women alone and not because they like doing those things. Whereas, women seem to have an inherent drive to weed out uncool people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:35 PM
1

I'm not around 80 year olds that often any ways. I don't think if I was infected and it's as contagious as they say that a mask would be the difference between spreading it and not if I was in close proximity to an 80 year old. Besides, I'm sure flu season has the same impact on 80 year olds but we don't shut down for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:31 PM
2

Yeah but to rephrase things, I think most men's drive to power is about securing more women sexually while women's drive to power is kinda ambiguous and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:28 PM
-4

Well, the Catholic Priests are motivated by that boi pussi so they're a little different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:26 PM
5

That's not my idea. I'm not saying men wouldn't pursue money and houses and food and other things. I'm mainly talking about general coolness. I think most men would gladly still be video game nerds if they were able to still get pussy despite it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:25 PM
1

I'm mainly thinking of social status here. Of course success, wealth, and physically fitness can be rewarding for its own sake, but social status I think is mostly about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:23 PM
2

Do you think that men like or care about having that for its own sake?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:17 PM
0

I'll give you a different argument on this comment. The people this virus supposedly kills seems to match up pretty spot on with the demographics of people who die from all causes. Healthy people are not dying from this as much as they'd like you to believe. It's mostly 80+ year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:16 PM
1

not carrying an umbrella when it's raining to appear manly, not wearing masks in the middle of a pendemic These are not pussy getting activities especially considering that we're supposed to be social distancing so there's no reason for a guy to try to be cool by wearing a mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:14 PM
-5

That still doesn't necessarily refute my point because those guys are probably dating girls from other schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:11 PM
1

I think people are more likely to pursue their desires as a combination of what others will perceive plus what they want. I don't think it's a gendered issue. I still think cool is cool for a reason and typically the reason is that there are hot women around. That's what I'm saying though is that men pursue their passions, but it's not necessarily something that brings attention from the opposite sex. For those who do pursue the "cool" lifestyle; at least for men I think that's entirely about ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:10 PM
10

Women were supposed to bring balance to the force not leave it in darkness. :( lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:34 PM
1

I'm 22, and tiktok was not a thing when I was in high school even, so it's a rather recent invention it seems turning instagram and snapchat into the next facebook to "okay boomer" at.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:36 AM
1

I thought you were going to take this another way and say that coolness is granted to women just by nature of being women. A hot woman basically is guaranteed to get herself in the cool crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:34 AM
4

Is it really that prestigious of a role? The other commenter does have a good point about her being a woman making sense strategically. They can't attack her like they could a qualified man. They'd dig into any man connected to Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:20 AM
0

"Maybe I didn't present them with what looked like a good option - this gives me good material to figure out what to do next time" I've definitely expanded more into a growth mindset, but I don't think women are a good springboard. A lot of other things are and it's great, but failure with women never seems to teach me anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:16 AM
2

Well she certainly is good as what she does and shuts down all the bait questions that reporters have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 05:40 AM
2

Men wouldn't mind working on our appearance but we're told "women care more about personality than looks so focus on personality". Not only is that just wrong, it's also misleading. The kind of personality that women are attracted to is not the polite hopeless romantic type, it's the popular stud on top of the world who makes jokes shitting on everyone else. Most men when they think of a good personality women would like, they think of toning themselves down a little bit when really women want s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 01:14 AM
16

I assume you're a woman? For the same reasons that men are like "eh TRP is no big deal." that's why you're like "eh FDS is no big deal."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 01:12 AM
5

Guys' idea of romance is that they can overcome all odds and get the girl they want if they just work hard and say the right set of words. Guys who haven't gotten over this ideal will pursue someone they really like relentlessly because they feel like it's their right to choose who they think is their soulmate. It's a hard thing for most guys to realize that most of the girls you like just see you as a chump and you have no leverage over their attractions and just have to randomly pursue women u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:07 PM
2

No because the fact that they have a "moment of weakness" in the first place means they don't have the faculties to guarantee it doesn't happen again. People with free will don't just fall on a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:48 PM
3

I didn't care unless if it was physical or had intent to be made physical so number 4 would be among the unforgivable for me. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:37 PM
1

Long term physical and emotional affair. Drop her off at the dude's house and be done with her. Short term physical and long term emotional affair (sex happened once). Drop her off at the dude's house and be done with her. Long term physical affair with no feelings. Drop her off at the dude's house and be done with her. Short term physical affair (1 night stand). Drop her off at the dude's house and be done with her. Long term emotional affair. Lmao her beta orbiter actually thinks he has an aff…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:37 PM
3

As long as I'm one of those guys she'd have casual sex with I'm not too bothered by LTRing a slut. I have to feel like she's on my team in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:30 PM
1

I think it stops being simping at the point of sexual success. I think you're overvaluing your time. Our time here wasn't meant for anything. If somebody wants to fill that time up chasing pussy, hopefully the efficient way, then they are free to do so without being simps. MGTOW are many times people who claim to have learned "second hand" about the nature of women from the married men and Chads at MGTOW. They think they are so enlightened for not even trying even when they have not had any succ…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:28 PM
2

I still think it's possible to get success in that regard. It just takes a while and you have to accept fucking fatties at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:50 AM
1

I'm actually stuck in that situation right now. I wouldn't say I'm at the point of pulling decent tail every other week, but I think I could be at this point, because I have pulled at least some decent tail. It's actually hard for me to put on whatever the personality is that women want for any extended period of time, which is what eventually breaks down and causes them to ghost me I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:25 AM
1

No need to pay for it when getting it for free takes less time than the hours worked to earn the money to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:23 AM
3

Yes, but being a woman's backup plan is not the only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:23 AM
1

Yeah, I get calling unsuccessful men simps, but calling perfectly sexually successful men simps for even trying is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:21 AM
2

People call MGTOW cope for incels because of this extremely strict definition of simping. They act like any small minute effort towards getting pussy is simping. It glorifies doing nothing. I guarantee you that whenever I have gotten laid, I put less work towards it than however many hours you had to save up money to get a prostitute. I say this as someone who lost my virginity to an escort, but moved up to fatties, and then moved to skinny chicks. Chasing women is no different than any other ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:18 AM
3

Yes I think the most valuable thing that comes out of TRP is that they give you all the possible worst case scenarios that happen in relationships with women. I don't think things are as bad as black pillers say, but I do think that ultimately it comes down to your looks and luck. You just have to keep approaching whether it be online or in person. I don't believe in game and I think as soon as you think too hard about game you are losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:41 AM
1

Because Chad's not the one making the final decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:33 AM
3

One I can think of is ability to get 100+ matches on Tinder with women who aren't obese within a month's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:29 AM
3

To be fair, I sucked it up and did just that to lose my virginity. Now I walk among the living once again who get the free sex and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:34 PM
5

You need to find one of those men who has lovey dovey idealistic views. Those men are out there. They're the step fathers of this world. The point is these men, while they may be with you out of necessity, legitimately believe that their desperation for you is love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:30 PM
2

Yeah maybe I'm being a little too optimistic in terms of the degeneracy of society. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:46 PM
1

I think a better vote would be: "okay with the existence of" rather than "want". Like, I'm okay with them existing, and I might even get one if they existed, but I wouldn't say I'm on the front lines of pushing for them. I'm sure some people would not like them to exist which is probably what you were looking for in your survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:39 PM
1

I have two brothers. They are both married. They married each other?? Jk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:59 PM
1

Still, I don't think it would make the world a better or worse place. I think it would have a neutral impact on the world so, maybe it needs that option too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:54 PM
2

A prostitute is good one time because if you're a virgin you can see what the thing you're trying so hard to pursue feels like and get a better idea of what it's worth to you, but yeah as a consistent strategy I definitely wouldn't want to go that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:52 PM
2

You're overthinking shit-tests. Shit testing is just playful teasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 03:05 AM
3

That's what you might think, but actually it makes no difference. If her having low self confidence means she sacrifices some of her looks standards, then maybe you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:03 PM
2

Would you believe much of your problems would be solved if you were better looking? Yes. I literally have confidence in every other category of life. I know I can take care of myself money wise and take care of all other things. If I was good looking, it would solve my only problem with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:56 PM
5

Women don't need confidence to attract a mate so it shouldn't be as relevant to you as it is to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:50 PM
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Far as I know for women, they called her a “slut”, now it’s a “pick-me” Nah these days they're called thots, but yeah I agree that there are always new words for this stuff. Pick-me is not mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:44 PM
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It's kind of a prisoners dilemma. If I stop doing it, other men will still be doing it, and will be casually fucking girls I want a deeper connection with, which will turn me into a cuck. Not being a cuckold is higher up on my list of values than that romantic connection, soooooooo...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:54 AM
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Are you a guy or a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:29 PM
1

You're right, but it still doesn't mean I can be Chad just by lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:28 PM
1

It's not the same. You can skip the fatty part or whatever, but just get an escort. Do something that gives you guaranteed pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 06:52 PM
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Just see it as a step along your journey and at least you'll get to feel what pussy feels like. I know you got ideals, but you should drop those in the name of your goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 06:41 PM
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We are very similar except for the 74k YouTube channel. That's pretty impressive. I have gotten laid, but it's nowhere near consistent to where I can say it's not just luck. Have you tried fatties? My sexual path went something like this: Escorts - Fatties - Skinny Chicks The next tier in my mind is skinny chicks consistently. I'm hoping that's possible for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 06:07 PM
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It does though. Like for me to get insanely hot women, I bet I would have to take steroids and get super ripped. Right now I'm fit, but not on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:56 PM
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I'll give you some stats about me. I'm 160 lbs at 5'11". I bench around 200, deadlift 315, and can do pullups with a 45lb plate strapped to me. I've approached many women. I've only ever gotten laid by a cold approach once. The cold approach girl was 4'11" 90 lbs, but she was kinda weird and didn't seem like she brushed her teeth very often. The point is, I've never gotten laid by a really really hot woman when cold approaching even though I lift and do what you say to do. The rest of my lays ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:51 PM
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I actually think this is flawed reasoning because we're all out here banging fatties lets be honest. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:40 PM
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To women as well, they just don't admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:39 PM
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The whole reason we have an incel crisis is because you guys see things the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:38 PM
1

Shyness and politeness is the kind of behavior that comes from male neuroticism that women don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:11 AM
0

What about hot guy with small penis vs unattractive guy with very large penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:10 AM
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Because they don't have model tier faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:04 AM
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I mean, theoretically we could just print a bunch of money and declare it a certain price.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 09:45 PM
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If you raise everyone's wages, especially the lowest ones, it'll simply cause inflation and the price of everything will rise and you're stuck in the same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:44 PM
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The greediness and entitlement comes from expecting other people who aren't your family to work for you. If you've got a strong family that passes down their wealth from generation to generation, you won't have a poor family for long. It's possible to come from the ground up to millions, but what more likely happened is that maybe the first generation passes down $25k, then $100k, the next $250k, the next $750k, the next $2.5m and it goes on and on until eventually you have a big thing of money …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:24 PM
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I like to think of this as the big brained meme. First tier you have: Being raised Christian Second tier you have: Realizing Santa and religion isn't real. Third tier: Realizing that religion, despite not being real is good for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:18 PM
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Idk what you guys are talking about because skills or not, I've just enjoyed sex for what it is. Fucking a pussy feels just as awesome to me no matter what position it's in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:14 PM
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There is a luck aspect, but recognize that there's also a level of greed in wanting other people's money. Even if you perceive the current generation as morally bankrupt, there was likely entire generations who selflessly toiled away to give the next generations a better life. Are you willing to be that generation for the next? Probably not. You want the big money now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:13 PM
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Even in the cases of inheritance of large sums of money, for the generations of families that worked to build that, do they not deserve to keep it within their families? Wealth might snowball by nature, but there was a few generations of hard work that got that ball rolling. It doesn't just come out of nowhere unless if you're doing some shady shit like Jeffrey Epstein. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:02 PM
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Except the world is not a dinner table and the poor don't feel obligated to give to people. The problem is that poor people want all this money from rich people, but it ultimately highlights their own greed and that they would do the same thing if rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:58 PM
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Nah. I want to just have life funding fuck you money as soon as I can so I can go and be as alpha as I want and do what I want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:56 PM
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Okay so this comes down to entitlement. Ultimately, Jeff Bezos created his own path. By nature of being dependent on him for a salary, you aren't creating your own path and are subject to the rules of Jeff Bezos. If you wanna go out there and make your own way, you're free to do so and hopefully get rich from it. That's how I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:54 PM
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A lot of things women are attracted to seem silly and unnecessary to men. They might be jealous of the women they get, but they are mostly surprised by the degeneracy of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:46 AM
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Nah you're putting too much thought into this. It's the femininity of these men that is funny to men. It's like being a man and trying to watch a soap opera. All the lines sound completely retarded to the male brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:39 AM
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Desperation. Women get offers thrown at them whether they're on online dating sites or not. Men have to search out opportunities. One of the avenues men search out opportunities on is online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:31 AM
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Which allows women to be pickier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:23 AM
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I mostly get ghosted. I rarely get rejected to my face. I consider that horrible, but you might not. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:20 AM
1

I lift weights a lot and I'm pretty strong for my weight, but what are your tips for having a visible six pack? Like, I can flex and you can see my abs, but they aren't just there when I'm not flexing. Especially that you can have a visible six pack while bulking is pretty impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:18 AM
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I was gonna agree with you, but I'd agree more with you if you would have just owned up to the all human contact not being a need as well. Sex is a psychological need. It's good for men's ego. So, if we are assuming that "psychological needs" matter, we have to conclude that sexlessness is really that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:09 AM
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If you thought men didn't respect you for having casual sex, wait until you start your sugar daddy arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:51 PM
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What I mean by respect is basically what you said. It's the difference between friends and worshiping simps. I think a guy and a girl can be genuine friends, but they both have to be attractive fun loving people. If one is unattractive, then naturally the attractive person is going to have a bit of a superiority complex towards the unattractive one which ruins the vibe of the whole friendship and makes it seem dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:35 PM
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I feel personally attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:32 PM
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I don't care as long as there's not another man's dick inside her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:31 PM
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I don't understand people who are comfortable with a dynamic where a guy likes his friend and is constantly aware that she has other hookups and boyfriends while he is cast aside. Yeah I think in order for guys and girls to be friends, they both have to be sexually attracted to each other. Whether they actually act on it is up to them, but without that mutual attraction there's a lack of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:25 PM
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They know the difference between friends and worshiping sinps. Yeah that's why I think for a genuine male-female friendship to happen there has to be some mutual sexual tension otherwise there's a lack of respect between the two parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:22 PM
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"let's just be friends" I presume.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:21 PM
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You're right, but I think there are cases where a man and a woman can be friends. In order for it to work I think the female has to be attracted to the man, but taken. Unattractive men are wasting their time having friendships with women, because women will never be true friends to them. There has to be at least some sexual tension in a male female friendship for there to be mutual respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:19 PM
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Are you sure that she just wanted to be friends or did you just assume that and shoot yourself in the foot?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:12 PM
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Jerking off is not a need. If you've got a girl, you can easily match her sex drive. People act like they can't control it or they absolutely need to get a nut off, but it's like any other addiction. You have fapping addiction. It's not that your sex drive is so high so you need to let off some loads every once in a while. When you really need that, it'll come out in your sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:09 PM
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I actually have a different answer than just desperation. I think men are more disgusted by women enjoying other men that aren't them. Men who commit to you want you committing to them because they're the best you've ever been with sexually. If she makes some money off of chumps as a camgirl, then that makes you one of the non-chumps in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:32 AM
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The issue is, like one of the purge posts mentioned, is that when women are slutty, they all slut it up for the same men. Women being slutty does not open up the playing field for billy beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:10 AM
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I actually welcome the idea of a camwhore gf as long as she's not having any involvement with other physical men in her camwhoring. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:12 PM
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You kinda sound a lot like TRPers here and it's kinda interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:10 PM
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Your comment kinda confused me. I thought maybe you were being sarcastic, but I couldn't quite comprehend the joke. lol The "is that the logic you are coming with?" I interpreted as you think my logic was that words kill people. That was my confusion. I was like, didn't I just say the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:07 PM
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In terms of racial violence, it’s predominantly black-on-white. Quoted from the original comment. I'm arguing that you should care more about actual violence than verbal abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:02 PM
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This post is why guys are skeptical to wait too long to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:59 PM
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But you can't really know... soooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:32 PM
1

That's basically the red pill and why you shouldn't have oneitis 101. Saw the same shit happen with a fatty I was fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:31 PM
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C O P E
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:28 PM
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Ahhh a man of culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:26 PM
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Women love nice men, just not those who larp as being nice to get shit. I just don't see how you could know the difference. The men you give it up to, you probably never get the chance to see their true colors in reaction to a rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:19 PM
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Who cares about online racial abuse? It doesn't kill anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:52 PM
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Not really. Only if she pegged me or some shit, then I would kill her as soon as I could. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:48 PM
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The most fit guys tend to have women approaching them from what I've seen at my gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:55 AM
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Same on the virginity loss, almost on the double n count. hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:54 AM
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16 is not a kid. The high school boys who were like me probably won't get their chance anyway lol. It's not like I'd hog up all the 16 year olds. It's not really an obsession of mine. An 18 year old is just fine to me, it's just that I can't deny that not much physically separates the looks of a 16 year old from the looks of an 18 year old when it comes to male attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:51 AM
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lmao nice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:32 AM
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A pedophile is a dude who's attracted to girls who haven't hit puberty yet. I might be described as an ephebophile, but so would most men. lmao I've never actually been with anyone younger than 18. My age ranges of women I've been with have been 18-25. I would still smash a 16 year old though since it's legal. I missed out on my high school experience being a beta bitch. What can I say? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:31 AM
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but true virtue would have been to never seek our relationships never again and be whore till the last of her days. I agree with you to a certain extent, and I think some whores do this. The virtuous one should at least have a right to pursue a relationship with a Chad and not have it seem manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:17 AM
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It's not pedophilia to like a 16 year old. Some 16 year olds can literally pass for 20 and some 20 year olds look like they're 16. Now guys who like 12 year olds on the other hand, that's kinda fucked up. At 16 though you've had time to slut around and not be a perfect angel anymore who deserves protection. lmao Just the fact that you're like "eww you nasty pedos." shows that you're fair game and that you can reasonably consent since you know what's up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:13 AM
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pickup artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:10 AM
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I think the original commenter does have a point about there being different kinds of sluts. Non-crazy sluts who are upfront and honest about their sluttery make good fuck buddies and friends. The slut who tries to become a born again virgin, that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:10 AM
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See this post
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:08 AM
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16+ and we good. That's legal in my state. I'm 22. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:04 AM
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pull It always surprises me when I hear a woman say the word pull. I thought it was a term that only nerdy PUAs used but some girls seem to be so engrossed in that culture that they know the lingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:59 AM
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You should get rid of that mindset. Gymcel, and you will be able to get yourself a nice fatty. Try to climb the SMV like a ladder. That's been my method. I started out with an escort, transitioned to fatties, and now I've been with a couple of skinny chicks. Still testing my max potential all the time. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:57 AM
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To be fair, excluding the penetration part because that's a no no that should give the penetrated man the right to kill the rapist, that's pretty much how it would be. I certainly wouldn't be traumatized by a woman who drugged and fucked me. Why drug me? Why not just ask? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:52 AM
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I don't think absence of ugly people would make beautiful people less beautiful. I think it's possible to have a world where our perceptions in that regard remain consistent and that every person is perceived as sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:36 AM
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That's fair, because I'm an agnostic atheist, but still, it would be much better if all the uglies were turned into beauties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:51 PM
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Wait, you're not unironically arguing that cutting your nails is the straw that breaks the camel's back when it comes to hygiene are you? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:54 PM
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I can guarantee you, you would find 99% of women plain without makeup. This is what I'm saying and it's exactly why we have an incel problem. Plain looking women can magically make themselves look like women of the 1%, thus making them capable of pulling men of the 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:49 PM
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But makeup literally turns 3s facially into 7s as long as they're skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:47 PM
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I just mean, if I were you I would find a guy who also doesn't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:43 PM
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I had a friend in high school and we both had a crush on the same girl. He was like "If she had a kid by another man I would still like her." and I was just like... "ummmmmmmmm... no." lol He's the guy who indirectly red pilled me because he was like the embodiment of the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:23 PM
1

Why not be childless tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:14 PM
1

The race of the baby in the meme doesn't really matter, but the stereotype is what amplifies the absurdity and funniness of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:12 PM
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Okay, but the reality is still that the skin color typically correlates with that, even if it's not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:11 PM
1

He's making a sarcastic argument for the iluvalmonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:09 PM
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Eh I wouldn't kill him. I'd get him right out of the situation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:08 PM
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It's a joke from a meme that was posted earlier saying that virgin peen is bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:03 PM
2

If there was any way to verify that it was not Chad, but those things you mentioned we were losing out to, then we wouldn't be so frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:53 PM
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The pop already happened and that started on February 19th and ended March 23rd. Now things are recovering.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:30 AM
1

So you're telling me that you don't have sex while single?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:27 AM
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Nah that's not true. They never try to bang fatties. I was an incel until I became an escortcel, followed by a fattycel, and then I finally got with a couple of skinny girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:08 AM
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What vulnerable states are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:52 PM
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I don't split people into "alphas" and "betas", I think it's inhumane and incorrect. Everyone is different and some people do have more or less chances with casual sex, but I don't think that it defines them as people. I think there are wolves and sheep in life. Alpha and beta is just one of the ways it manifests.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:51 PM
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Helmets don't fit me because my brain is too big. :o
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:37 PM
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I honestly don't think in the beauty standard regard that guys are that different. They just aren't constantly made aware of it. Ultimately women do have very unrealistically high physical standards for men, but it's not talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:33 PM
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Nah all guys are not like that. I used to be big into tits and ass when I didn't fuck and it was all just an illusion to me, but now I don't care. I appreciate a girl that's skinny no matter what her other dimensions are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:30 PM
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200 lbs of muscle at 5'8" would be pretty good actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:28 PM
1

There's no buts about the consent part, but there is a big but about the implication of what kind of things you consent to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:24 PM
1

Are you sure about the breathing air bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:14 PM
1

Maybe he's summarizing the true message of the post? Or maybe he got wooshed idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:13 PM
1

A simp is a guy who gives women a lot of money and resources for nothing in return. I like this definition. Some people try to apply it to putting in any effort to get a woman and I think that's an incorrect way to use it. Women are also chameleons and actors when interacting with men. To be fair, I know I do this to some extent as a man. I interact with different people in my life differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:03 PM
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Looks like your bro should have worn a helmet. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:01 PM
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I was thinking about that too. I just find it weird that my definition of cool is so much less strict than women's. Women's definition requires you to be all competitive about it rather than just being chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:59 PM
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My argument to the first is that I wouldn't take a female boss seriously who I knew was being fucked in this way by anybody. It almost implies a disrespect for the people under her. It's just like having a gay bottom as a boss. It's like, how can you be my boss if you're someone else's bitch? For the second one I definitely wouldn't take her bossiness seriously if I was the one fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:56 PM
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I totally understand consent, but just because you consent to it doesn't make "Fuck you you piece of shit slut" respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:54 PM
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Yeah but I feel like playing a role that doesn't permeate to the rest of your relationship makes sex a kinda nerdy act. You know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:23 AM
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Yeah that could be a side effect. Generally what I think guys think after fucking a girl is "This is MY woman. I fucked her and now she's MINE. Everyone else is a cuck relative to our relationship." It makes them feel powerful, but specifically with you in a lesser position.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:03 AM
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The 4th panel to me seems just as disrespectful as all of the previous 3 panels. That's from male vision though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:59 AM
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It's just an oxymoron in my opinion. If you acknowledge mutual respect, how can you genuinely believe the acts you put on for the kinks? To me it doesn't make sense unless if it's genuine. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:57 AM
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Except, nothing you do is gonna woo somebody on here, nor should that ever be your goal on this sub. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:55 AM
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Is this confirmed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:50 AM
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I don't understand why "cool" matters so much for women. I've noticed that it doesn't really matter much when interacting with guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:50 AM
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Is it really simping if she's paying for your living expenses through the funding of other simps? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:45 AM
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Try to get 10 hours of sleep a night, keep busy, and keep your nutrition and exercise in check. 10 hours of sleep imo helps you process a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:22 AM
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This is the argument in my brain that fights against the suicidal nihilism slump I was in previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:20 AM
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It'd be insecurity if I actually cared and was jealous about what makes Chad Chad. So like if I was actually jealous of Chad's jawline for its own sake rather than the sexual access it gives him that would mean I was insecure about it. All I'm concerned about is my sexual access now and into the future. It's completely isolated from whatever traits might be holding me back or making others better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:13 AM
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Yeah this wasn't a bad meme even though it's from a side I disagree with. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:06 AM
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It's that or she basically cucked the roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:03 AM
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We Does this mean what I think it means?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:00 AM
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That's what I'm saying, but apparently there is a big audience of super thirsty dudes who want to feel like they're actually in a relationship and paying for the nudes gives them some sense that it's personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:57 AM
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I would date a woman like this as we slowly drifted off into degeneracy and survived off of her cash app payments, bath water patreon, and love
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:54 AM
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wtf I love genocidal anti white guys now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:52 AM
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she probably won't be fucking you whilst being your boss so it doesn't matter if you take her seriously or not. Do you mean there won't be a sexual relationship going on with her being my boss or do you mean she won't be being bossy at the same time as she's receiving degrading sex from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:48 AM
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Inficel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:28 AM
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As Patrice O'Neal puts it, being the fuckee rather than the fucker by nature is degrading in a way. I think there's really no way to avoid the fact that guys are gonna think about you different after fucking you. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:26 AM
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I still don't think that justifies the reaction in the first three panels. I would hope the girl is more like "haha cheeky, but no." rather than looking like a stuck up cunt about it. It would make sense for her to at least respect those approaches because that's what she likes from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:20 AM
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It's still kinda weird to me. Not weird if the woman is congruent, but if she's some weird boss lady in normal life and then she wants to be degraded sexually, I'm not going to be able to take her seriously as the boss lady she tries to be in her normal life after I've fucked the shit out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:18 AM
1

So what do you want? A gang run society?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:07 AM
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Eh, to be fair, my nerdy friend back in high school with acne, glasses, and a lazy eye made fun of this girl who liked him, while hopelessly orbiting another girl he had no chance with. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:20 PM
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I understand. I just don't think they're angry at unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:19 PM
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You're wrong about this. Most anger against women comes from men who aren't very attractive who want very attractive women to sleep with them. Men aren't usually ones to hit a person while they're down, but hitting a person high up is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:13 PM
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Maybe I'll try that sometime. I'm just using the account right now so I can shoot my shot at girls on snapchat. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:07 PM
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If they were set straight from the beginning about it then it'd be fine, but we aren't. We're told that women care more about personality, but all that really means is that women care about looks, and then on top of that they care about personality too. They act like that makes them less shallow, while actually having standards that exclude more people than men exclude. I've always thought of shallow meaning you're willing to give less people a chance than others. Women seem to think the opposit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:05 PM
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I made a male model account and got 250 likes fairly quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:56 PM
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I bet felon Chad gets more matches than me total, soooooooooo...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:55 PM
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This is the information that men care about that they are never given.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:53 PM
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Do you see how that works though? Because women have the standard that the guy has to be hot, guys have to settle for girls that are not, because all the women are concentrated among the hot guys for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:50 PM
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Well if 80% of 24 year old men are virgins then I'd hope there would be a beta uprising by that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:44 PM
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I think 5g is one of those conspiracies they put out there to make the obvious shady shit about the coronavirus lockdown seem crazy. For example, the death rate is actually pretty low and the average age of death is around 80 and all causes of death are down from last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:43 PM
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Yeah why are people like this? I'd bet a lot of money that all of them are doing some type of illegal activity that they want to be able to do with impunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:31 PM
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No, but they would never do that. I'm sure we both agree that this lockdown is bullshit, but I don't consider the police force the problem in this matter. The problem is the elites who have a hidden agenda behind this lockdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:29 PM
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Tito Thunderburrito, Jacques Thundercoq, Chang Thunderwang, Gaston Thunderbatôn, Patel Thundersmell, Heinrich Thünderdik, Ali ThunderD, Pajeet Thundermeat, or Sergei Thunderkov He didn't come up with these?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:26 PM
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It's almost like (((someone))) doesn't want us to talk about that issue. :o
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:14 PM
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With what? Are some of those names not original?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:11 PM
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I only self sabotage when it feels like people won't even give me an inch of leeway. People are so quick to discard you for any little thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:57 AM
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I'm not miserable. I'm pretty neutral without a partner, but know it would be a lot nicer with one. Is that not enough? Do I have to be somehow perfectly happy and yet still desire a partner after I'm content? I'd imagine once I was content I wouldn't even have the motivation to pursue a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:54 AM
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I'm just making the assumption that there's no woman out there who will accept him if he outs himself like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:17 PM
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So this is incels then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:52 PM
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And I would argue the opposite. TRPers have a stronger aversion to being cucked than the average man. The average guy just accepts the fact that his woman is gonna have had a bunch of other dudes. That's what I said basically. It's repackaged with different value judgments to really give guys a reason to be like "Wtf is wrong with women?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:49 PM
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Well she probably thinks she dodged a bullet too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:37 PM
2

The difference between TRP terminology and mainstream terminology is that in the mainstream the information you find is not comprehensive. The mainstream media will give you a "limited hangout" version of TRP. All the details will be out there, but they're not stringed together into implications. For example, the idea of a woman settling down after slutting around is out there and popular. However, it will be framed by the mainstream as a woman being "immature" until she finally "matures" and wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:38 PM
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Nah, I'd say as a white guy even the hotter woc are basically on par with fat white women in terms of ease of access. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:27 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:21 PM
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The overwhelming majority of english speakers don't use the word, and if they do it's usually to mock incels. This "language change" only exists in a very small corner of the internet. Yes. And what's your point exactly? Alpha fucks beta bucks isn't used commonly throughout the internet and yet we use it here because it expresses a concept not expressed by mainstream society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:02 PM
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That's not a very good answer because I have no idea what else a guy would be sensitive about other than something that really hurt him bad that he wants to express to a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:56 PM
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I hate this bullshit about "Oh it's her loss." Clearly it's not her loss because she doesn't want him anymore after that rape shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:55 PM
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What's a topic that displays a sensitive side more than psychological trauma? because I feel like most men are not going to feel the need to be sensitive about things that aren't psychologically traumatizing. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:50 PM
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He got rid of her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:45 PM
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Yeah it's fun to call people gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:13 AM
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Lmao college professor is black pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:57 PM
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I think I've finally found my resting place in that regard, but I know what you mean. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:34 PM
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I've resolved my situation, but here I saw an opportunity for JungPao's statement to be flipped back on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:31 PM
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Damn. I've always respected the realness of the black community, but it's also cool they've got each other's back like this. I don't think white people have this same sense of community because they're seen as Nazis if they got each other's back. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:48 PM
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I remember trying some shit from there sometime in high school (I was class of 2016). It didn't really work to the extent I wanted it to. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:43 PM
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The girls I tend to romanticize are druggy emo girls, so I kinda get where he's coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:06 PM
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Yeah I thought this was a pretty balanced perspective until that one. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:59 PM
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Nootropics is an interesting one to be overlapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:54 PM
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Just don't be fat and become a makeup artist, sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:48 PM
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Had one of these jump right on my dick and not in a good way. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:28 PM
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I mean yeah I don't wanna invalidate your feelings and it's great that you're sticking around imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:03 AM
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Which is exactly why RamboHoodie's plan for forced virginity is such a great one. However, I think it should be just forced monogamy and couples should be allowed to meet a little bit younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:01 AM
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RIP your inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:50 AM
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Guy slays pussy and rarely ever gets told no. Gets offended when some girl doesn't want him, so there must be something wrong with her. Also may potentially be a rapist Yeah it's funny when the tables turn on Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:46 AM
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Because most guys are going from approach to approach putting all their eggs in one basket. Guys don't get approached, so they don't have any options to narrow, and therefore they get upset when they lose potential leads. Guys also are likely to approach higher quality leads while women just have random quality guys approaching them and they hardly have any choice in the matter. When you lose a high quality lead it's kinda of disappointing and feels like it limits the options you have as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:43 AM
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Why did you blur out your alt's name?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:34 AM
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There are good women out there for this imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:31 AM
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I mean, I've been trying to get back in contact with her and ultimately my attempts at that have been unfruitful. That's when those feelings start to become harmful in my opinion. Oh yeah all the exams being online was very nice. I would like good things to result from that feeling, but they never have, and I've always felt like those feelings just work towards me being anxious and clingy towards a woman. Like this girl was really cute with brown eyes and red dyed hair. I wish I wasn't such an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:25 AM
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I think a lot of people are experiencing some depression rn bc of the quarantine but it will get better That could be it. I also am kinda disappointed that my last college semester ended with this. I figured that I could have talked to a few more girls by the end of the year. hehe... but yeah there's this girl I'm starting to get this nostalgic oneitis for from high school and it feels almost as bad as the original girl I had oneitis for in high school that led me to this place in the first plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:38 AM
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My dick refuses to fuck fat chicks too for the most part. Things that have gotten me over the hump are waking up next to a fatty when I have morning wood and getting the fatty to give me a blow job first. Trust me, I think you can do it if you really try. I had just finished losing my virginity to an escort, when I decided that I should probably see what happens when I try to get with fatties. They're a nice free easy route to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:29 AM
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If you've been with other chicks that's fair, but if you haven't, maybe start considering it or getting with a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:26 AM
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Even as a man who is able to fuck fat chicks, I sincerely doubt that those men legitimately have fetishes for chubby women. That's just them trying to play up the fact that they're settling for the fatties because they're the easiest to get and other women are too hard to get for them. Fatties for me are women I fall back to when it seems impossible to get with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:25 AM
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I've never been able to establish enough leverage over a girl to be able to say some shit like that. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:22 AM
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Women don't fuck less attractive men casually. That's not how it works. I haven't gone through anything like that, but if I did I'd know that getting the girl pregnant was my responsibility and that I should just own up to it. It's just kinda ironic that you're saying the good deed is gone punished when you had an oopsie pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:19 AM
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I guess the first skinny girl I fucked was 18 when I was 22, so maybe. You can't act like the hottest 18 year old ever is easy to manipulate though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:15 AM
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getting easy sex from girls too ugly to be seen in public with.....sounds like a loser low value cunt to me. Yep sounds about right. That's me. I'd LTR hot chicks if I was capable of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:14 AM
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BUT in dudes that have gone out of their way to fill their heads with trp kind of shit they kinda become sociopathic and turn the off switch on their ability to feel empathy You're really right about this. I've been having nostalgic feelings back to the way I used to feel in high school. I'm not sure why, but I've just started to feel sad again. I think I'm just sad that I never was able to get a woman without having the sociopathy setting on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:10 AM
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get physically castrated, medicated with anti-sexual desire drugs I'm down with everything you said but this. The least we can do is give them a tax funded home to be eternal neets. Then they won't be able to complain about being society's labor boys or wagecucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:05 AM
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But see, this is how you learn that the shit about young women somehow being easier due to all your grand wisdom is actually not true. If you can't get women your own age, you're not gonna be able to get younger girls because by 18 she's already seen everything she needs to see to counteract your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:02 AM
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But then they use makeup so that they all become at minimum 7/10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:55 AM
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You know who is masculine as fuck? Bernie Sanders. I was willing to concede to you until this. lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:49 AM
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Then again I'm a guy that's been on the receiving end of it. I'm confused by your comment. What are you on the receiving end of? Goes to show that no good deed goes unpunished. What good deed? You got a girl pregnant dude. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:47 AM
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A feminine voice is another big thing for me, and it's another thing that black girls sometimes lack more than white girls. There are definitely white girls out there without a feminine sounding voice, like especially country chicks, but I feel like the black female voice is very commonly not the feminine ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:44 AM
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The thing is, sometimes as a fit guy you have to settle for fat chicks these days if you don't have a male model tier face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:35 AM
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What I'm saying is that if I was 5'5" with a small dick I'd hope that I wouldn't have the audacity to complain because the reasons I was screwed in my dating life would hopefully be obvious to me and I could accept my inferiority. It's hard to figure out what's wrong with you when there isn't that much wrong with you on paper and that's where my complaints come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:31 AM
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I know guys who would fuck an ugly chick but never be seen with her. That's basically how I am. My cold approaches are like playing the lottery because I just go after hot chicks because if I get rejected, at least I'm still seen in public with a hot chick rather than a fatty, but I've fucked plenty of tinder fatties. I've only fucked a couple of skinny chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:04 PM
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Pregnant with yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:55 PM
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You're 5ft5 which is literally bottom 10% of height. You're ugly and you have short dick. Okay to be fair, if I was that bad off I'd definitely hope that I wasn't complaining because that would be silly to do so when you're so clearly fucked, but I'm like 5'10-5'11" with a 7 incher. I'm not so sure on the ugly bit though, but that's probably my issue. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:51 PM
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That's what it is for me though. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:09 PM
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Nah shoot the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:08 PM
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Just to be clear, I hate them when any type of romantic or sexual element is involved. what do your real life interactions with them look like? A polite conversation followed by an exchange of contact information followed by ghosting rather than direct rejection with no indication in the polite conversation that a rejection would happen. Do you know any opposite-sex people that aren't your family? Friends, acquaintances? I have had female friends in the past, but I've never felt like I was their…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:07 PM
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I don't get why incel/blackpill shit is not allowed as part of this discussion. It's a pretty big deal if all it is is just looks and there's no behavior that you can put on that would improve your chances any.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:51 PM
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You think nerdy guys wouldn't like to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:39 AM
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Are you sure about that though? I'm not sure what kind of child abuser would force a kid to learn math like that, but as rare as that would be tells us that there might not be enough data out there about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:59 AM
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I've seen studies from people here saying the opposite. Like for example, low IQ guys less likely to be virgins in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:54 AM
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Yeah I think it's hard to determine whether or not DGAF is an obstacle because it's so subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:48 PM
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It's not even athletes. I might have said that in the past, but now I actually respect athletes ever since I started to lift weights. I'm talking about guys who aren't athletes or anything. They're just degenerates and women love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:47 PM
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I can see it beforehand though. I just want them to say it to my face sometimes. Their discomfort just makes me feel like they're a bitch which probably makes them more uncomfortable, but if they just rejected me to my face that feeling that they're an undercutting bitch wouldn't be there. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:45 PM
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I just like certainty. Obviously I'm not as strict with this with guys because I'm more confident in my ability to maintain a guy friend on top of the fact that I have an abundance of guy friends. I just feel like they see me as a creep either way I roll things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:21 PM
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I think the people who have that "natural intelligence" are kind of like me. We know how to work the grade system. Like, in a lot of my college courses, I dismissed the entire course as pretty much bullshit filler information, but I still did what was necessary to get an A or a B. Then again, there were some classes where that working of the system didn't work and I was close to failing. The error that a lot of people do in trying to get good grades is actually understanding the content ironical…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:12 PM
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Idk man. I've played guitar since I was 9. While I know it doesn't have the same prestige as what Einstein did, I know that getting an early start really young helps for any skill you want to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:00 PM
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Yeah okay so I'll just let em run off and never end up seeing them again. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:20 PM
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I think anyone can pull off Einstein level work if they had the same passions from the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:11 PM
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Because you told me I wasn't smart. What am I supposed to do just say: "Okay I'm not smart."? I do. And I get their numbers, then they ghost me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:10 PM
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And the women in here are all trying to justify why dumb as a brick Chad is more attractive because he has "social intelligence".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:43 PM
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I think everyone's that smart about something. Everyone's got something they've spent most of their life on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:42 PM
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You just told me I wasn't smart, which is why I tried to give you some kind of verification that I was. I feel like any verification I'd give you, you would just say it's compensation. A way to frame it without making it about being too smart is sometimes I think I come across as too soft. I don't think I have low social intelligence because I can get a sense for why girls don't like me. They do seem to act like I'm unable to notice their obvious discomfort, but I do notice. I also have never ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:40 PM
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No, your grades are not a metric of your intelligence. Everything about you is a metric of your arrogance pumped to hide your deep insecurities and dissatisfaction. And the way you refuse to acknowledge it to yourself in the first place, and parade your grades instead, while simultaneously implying that you are superior to women just shows that you aren’t intelligent at all. Okay so fine lets say I acknowledge all that. Now what? Perhaps it’s your personality that’s creepy and unbearable. And th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:14 PM
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9) In Russia, searches for furrys is up 645% Oh no Russia is doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:10 PM
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When I hear “intelligence” I think of something that isn’t learned That's funny. My definition of intelligence is that it's entirely about what you learn. Okay so these guys really are completely retarded but you're imbuing them with this natural "social intelligence" to give them merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:07 PM
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That's fair but I got mostly A's and B's in my college courses throughout my entire college career and in my last semester with supposedly the hardest classes, I got all A's and B's. You can argue whether or not that's a good metric of intelligence, but if that's not intelligent I'm not sure what is. I'm not bragging or saying I'm a super genius. I've gotten one night stands, I just usually turn off women with my personality and I haven't been able to convert any one night stands into friends wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:03 PM
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Do you really think the smartest guys are the ones getting laid in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:56 PM
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Second, by just lifting and presenting yourself well, most men can easily get to the point where they can compete on OLD. Compete for fat chicks yes. For hot chicks? Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:54 PM
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Alright so I'm a piece of shit. What does that accomplish to acknowledge that? Certainly doesn't imbue the beloved "confidence" that girls apparently love so much. The thing is I'm successful in every other area of life except for seducing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:46 PM
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The guy would be good looking. That's the key she's getting at here I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:44 PM
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Social intelligence makes it sound like these guys are taking manners classes or something. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:42 PM
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This was kinda my point in the other post. I think it's a good thing to be low IQ in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:41 PM
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Confidence with women seems like a whole different type than all the others. I'm pretty much confident in my standing in every other aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:32 PM
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I'm not an asshole and I don't talk about how smart I am all the time to my guy friends or anything like that. We just joke around and I make people laugh with my perverted sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:24 PM
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I need a new social circle because I'm friends with a bunch of guys like me. There's no women involved, and definitely no attractive women. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:22 PM
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I can't relate to hating women since I'm a woman myself so can't help you there. I'm glad you can't. I actually don't like it when women agree with me on that and say stuff like "Yeah women suck" because then I'm like "Awww don't say that about yourself." haha so I care about women to a certain extent. The problem that I perceive is that women are trigger happy to call me creepy and I feel like I have to walk on eggshells of swag to not be discarded quickly. One particular approach that stands o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:20 PM
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Sorry I didn't mean women are the problem, I just meant that women not having confidence in my way of being is MY problem. I'm looking for both. I've had some one night stands, but I've never been able to make them friends with benefits because women for whatever reason get weirded out by my personality after the first night.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:09 PM
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I mean, throughout my college career I had 3 different girls get no contact orders against me, so I'd say that I'm not completely unable to take risks. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:07 PM
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That's the weird thing though, I had to basically drop the concept of everything I knew from TRP/PUA because trying to follow it strictly was giving me too much approach anxiety to even try. I had to just jump in with a mindset of seeing what happens. Here I am with 100s of rejections still. lmao Eh I probably should hang out with guys good at seducing women, but they're usually my least favorite type of guys and it's like they try to seduce me and make me their bitch. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:05 PM
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I have perfect confidence in my way of being. Women don't which is the problem. I understand going into an approach that you shouldn't have a mindset like that. That doesn't stop me from getting rejected 100s of times with no result. A few weird times I've experienced something where I was genuinely angry, and I saw something light up in the eyes of a couple of women I saw. I feel like they want me to be pissed off. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:01 PM
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Yeah but I have trouble seeing the utility of this type of confidence outside of seducing women. It seems retarded that it would only be good for one thing. I read the whole sidebar at one time, but while neurotically trying to follow it, I suffered from a lot of approach anxiety. I had to just forget about all the tips and tricks and say fuck it just so I could approach and not worry about what the right thing to do is. I've got confidence to approach anyone I want to, but I don't understand wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:56 PM
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I did smash in college, but I never felt like I could gain any rapport with the girls I slept with. It was all one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:53 PM
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My social circle has no women so that's one issue. Like you said though, burning bridges is a problem with me when interacting with women I'm trying to sleep with. I've never had a problem interacting with guys and don't think they ever perceive me as socially retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:51 PM
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Does DGAF really work per se or is it more just a good way to approach things when facing the reality of lots and lots of rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:47 PM
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Yeah the smart guys are realizing it's not such a good deal anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:44 PM
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I have enough social skills to influence my guy friends so I don't understand why it takes a whole nother level with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:38 PM
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Okay so I obviously don't think that talking about physics or philosophy or whatever the fuck is attractive. I just think that having a certain level of intelligence gives you a demeanor that turns women off. I have no problem making guy friends, but for some reason you make it sound like there's this magical level of social intelligence where seduction happens and I honestly don't get it. I could be wrong, but I truly believe I'm able to influence my male friends. I don't think it's a lack of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:34 PM
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I think it's important for the advancement of your own ass but not much for anybody else. It's good for being a manipulative cunt. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:31 PM
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A key component of swagger in my mind is broken English. It's either that or be a complete dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:29 PM
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I thought all confidence was at first was having the balls to go up there and approach, and that women would appreciate that, but then I learned after 100+ approaches of nothing that just approaching wasn't enough confidence and that I apparently need to be always on 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:27 PM
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I'm not even a physicist or a nerdy guy who reads "the classics" or anything like that. I'm just a guy who doesn't speak in broken English, which seems to be a key component of swag.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:25 PM
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What does that look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:22 PM
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What the fuck is game and why does it work? That's what I don't understand. Why do I have to act like some stoner without a care in the world or some savage killer who's in a gang or whoever the fuck is perceived as confident? I have no problem making friends so I don't think I lack social awareness, I just lack the ability to put on whatever complicated persona women want from me for any extended period of time. I'm just a normal fucking dude who has a bunch of guy friends but I don't get why i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:20 PM
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Confidence is something I've never been able to understand. Like, I'd get it if somebody said "act happy" or "act sad" or "act scared" but "act confident" just doesn't compute to me for whatever reason. I don't understand what acting confident feels like on the inside and how to properly portray it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:16 PM
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She was the one that brought up IQ...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:14 PM
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Nah what's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:12 PM
1

How's that strategy been working for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:10 PM
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I think intelligence makes you incapable of swagger though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:09 PM
1

I just don't see how superior IQ would disqualify someone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:08 PM
1

Maybe if I had a consistent track record of getting partners I might have a standard like equal intelligence, but since I don't I'm definitely not going to disqualify a girl for a lack of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:04 PM
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I have no problem making friends so I don't understand what's so complicated about the social skills it takes to get a woman or why it even has to be more complicated than making a friend. It's not a competition is it? It should be a collaborative thing so why does it seem to be so combative like I have to learn the perfect state of being and way of saying things? Here's the thing, I know I can accomplish anything I set my mind to, except for getting a girl I like to stick around. If I wanted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:37 AM
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Put yourself on a dating website and you won't be invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:28 AM
1

hehehe it was just a funny thing I came up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:22 AM
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I think it's really really hard and that if you can pull it off successfully and not just get a hookup here and there after hundreds of approaches, you should probably just start your career as a professional actor because you're gonna be a star. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:21 AM
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Yeah but why is dumb more fun? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:19 AM
1

I'm not saying the innate drives are wrong, I'm just saying I don't think "social intelligence" is actually something that these dumbasses possess. They just seem to have blind faith in their retardation and it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:18 AM
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I just graduated this semester. Kinda sucks the end of the year happened with this virus thing going on. But yeah all of my sexual experience happened in college starting from 19. At 19 I went to see an escort because I was frustrated at trying to figure it out throughout all of high school and having no luck with a oneitis of mine. After I saw the escort, I recognized the piece of shit that I was I guess and I dropped my standards and got with some fat chicks on Tinder. Near the end of college …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:16 AM
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I was thinking there might be a comment like this, but that's not really what I mean. The kind of dumb I'm referring to isn't something easy to control by women. This type of dumbass is so seductive that he just cheats without care and actually believes in the crap like: "It just happened". I think Mr. Smarty Pants type guys are more likely to fall prey to women's desire for control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:08 AM
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I probably would be, but you might be right. The emo girl type really sticks out to me. I still feel like even the girls who like chivalry are getting banged out by the dumbass drug dealer dude on the side or in between their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:05 AM
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I really don't think there's that much "intelligence" involved in whatever the dumbass guys are doing. I can read people, but that doesn't mean I have the dumbass ghetto personality to be able to seduce someone. There's reading people, and then there's knowing how to change them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:02 AM
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I'm 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:00 AM
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Last time I checked, which was in high school, I was at 130. I imagine that I'm probably higher though now and likely in the fucked territory. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:55 AM
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I really think this undeveloping is almost impossible. If you consciously try to do it you're always going to have those smarty pants thoughts about how you "undeveloped from the matrix of society and now are a proper stud" which paradoxically is stuck in the developed mainstream ideas you tried to shed yourself of. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:54 AM
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Yeah I feel this. Whenever I get rejected, and it's like over 99% of the time, it never stops making me have to take a day or two to hate myself before getting back out there. I feel like I wasted all this time to ultimately end up being a fool to the girl. Everything else succumbs to my perfectionist nature because most things when you work hard they don't shit on you for it. Women shit on you for working hard. It's just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:52 AM
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"Social intelligence" to me just means acting like a dumbass without a care in the world. It's glorified dumbassery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:46 AM
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chivalry, class and wit are out but coming in guns-blazing acting entitled to your pussy is in Yeah. Chivalry, class, and wit, just leads you to end up being cucked like an idiot by the most retardedly arrogant super-douche on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:43 AM
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I feel like the smart players are usually good looking, and they autistically rationalize their success to others, but ultimately it comes down to the way they look since they don't have swag.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:40 AM
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I feel like any man who captures women's attention at an academic conference is pretty much a dumbass in smart clothing. Like they know all the vocabulary and how to sound smart using it, but anyone worth their salt knows that they're just regurgitating and don't actually understand anything. What's an example though of a smart guy who garners women's attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:39 AM
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That's the thing, I don't think an intelligent man can develop this. I feel like just by nature of being smart with a good vocabulary, it pigeonholes you into Mr. Smarty Pants territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:34 AM
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They know how to turn those conversations off because they never had them on in the first place. I'm arguing that authentic swagger only comes from being a truly dumbass degenerate. You can't fake it. If you're smart or learned anything academic in your life you're pretty much doomed to be Mr. Smarty Pants with no swag.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:28 AM
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Not really. It seemed like the people who got bad grades just didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 03:49 PM
1

Well this is the reality of my family and it seems to work alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 05:55 AM
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If a hot girl marries a just as hot guy, then I don't really consider it AFBB. It's just when a girl uses her hotness as leverage over a guy not as hot for money or attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 05:52 AM
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I've had a lot of situations where I thought it was insecurities flairing up, but after I finished up a ton of work that was bogging down my mind, all that stuff didn't matter anymore, so I think it does make a big difference. Also sleep is good for your mindset. 10 hours will knock out any shit you were talking yourself the day before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 04:59 AM
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I think it depends. I have had a girl literally describe to me that she likes to have a guy ready before she leaves another guy. Some girls do it fully consciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 04:19 AM
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No contest, Hollywood worship men and masculinity. Most movie protagonists are male. Hold up have you not seen this changing? Literally every movie in the theater these days has social justice crap in it. Super hero movies? Mostly males, who are portrayed as heroic, brave, masculine etc. There are very few female superheroes. I don't like the idea of female superheros, but a type of supernatural female that I really like to see in a show or film is a witch or supernatural entity with all these s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 04:15 AM
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I know there's an angle where you could say it's cope to say that women enjoy sex, but I feel like it's much more likely that this belief that women don't enjoy sex is more cope because at least you feel like she's not getting what she really wants from Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 09:09 PM
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One has BPD, and after she fucks the life out of YOU, she'll go fuck literally every single one of your friends, then try to burn down your house and kidnap you dog. Lmao I'm imagining it all happening in one night. Like you're just sitting on your couch watching TV after a good fuck with your BPD girl, when all of a sudden you get 5 message notifications in rapid succession of videos of her getting fucked by your 5 best friends. You then turn around and your kitchen is on fire and as you run to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 09:03 PM
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I don't think you should assume this because they are definitely still out there having no strings attached sex with Chad because he's not "relationship material". It depends on the man whether or not she's trying to get commitment or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 08:58 PM
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I never met or even heard of a woman that carried one of these 3 things. One of my hot Tinder hookups had a knife on her because she wanted to make sure I was safe. I think some women are stronger in this way than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 08:23 PM
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I've seen videos of elephants painting themselves so idk anymore. lol We're talking about people though with generally the same traits and way more similar than they are to a horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:05 PM
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I still think it's like a muscle. Like someone may have great body building genetics, but if they never step in a gym they won't reach their full potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:04 PM
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Lol you don't know that. I'm not too bothered by it. 16 is legal in my state. That's not really the thing that I would go to therapy for. Sometimes I get this feeling that life is meaningless because we all die so what's the point of going on. I've noticed though that this feeling mainly comes on late at night when I should be sleeping. As long as I get good sleep and nutrition those thoughts tend to stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:02 PM
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What was the method by which they determined that it was nature and not nurture that led to intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:37 PM
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Best alternative is to seek therapy and try to heal yourself. If I saw what the end goal of therapy was I might consider it, but now I just feel like it's a big jerk off of emotions and teaches you coping skills that I could probably learn myself if I knew what they were going to suggest. Former Incels sleep with young women and then try to control them, not because the love them, but because they’re jealous and never lived out their 20s so they don’t want their young partners to either. You've …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:33 PM
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There's nothing wrong with those women, it's just that they lack existence on the physical plane. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:13 PM
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Men don't shame men for being virgins. Women don't shame men for being virgins either. What women do do, and this is important, get ready for it, WOMEN DON'T HAVE SEX WITH VIRGIN MEN. So virgin men become trapped in a catch 22 of needing experience to get experience at the hands of women, which is worse than any shame they can throw their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:08 PM
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There is already a hierarchy of intelligence based on genetics alone. Maybe I'm biased because I'm fairly intelligent, but I don't feel like intelligence is based on genetics. I think everybody has something that they've spent a lot of time on, and whatever that is, that's what they become "intelligent" at. I think most people who spend any decent amount of time focusing on their school work or caring enough about it to get an A or B grade will turn out intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:02 PM
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Those are just two definitions of respect. There's respect in terms of looking up to someone, and respect in terms of giving someone basic kindness. It's not a man or woman thing. Sometimes two people talking about respect might be arguing two different definitions of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:05 PM
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I understand you see this as an injustice, but the way it karmically comes around is unattractive people refuse to date unattractive people. The only reason an unattractive person would be in this mess is because they refuse to lower their standards low enough. At that point they reveal that hypocritically they want attractive people to lower their standards to match with ugly people, but not ugly people to lower their standards to date other ugly people. Essentially what you're asking is: "Will…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:58 PM
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health is a key component to attractiveness, i believe i heard symmetry is connected to genetics. So we did a symmetry test once in a graphics class that I had in high school, and my face is perfectly symmetrical. That didn't mean I was Chad. People way overplay facial symmetry imo. Most people have it if they're not facially deformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:50 PM
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What's the end goal of therapy? Is there really a concrete answer to the right mindset? I ask this as someone who may deal with a mild case of depression. I'm just so used to it now that it's hard to really be bothered by it. Sometimes I question whether I even have it or not or if it's just my circumstances that are pretty shitty for emotional health purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:46 AM
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RPs are outsiders and underestimate how much the casual sex scene is almost entirely sluts fucking sluts. Not sure how you come to this conclusion that RP underestimates this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:06 AM
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It's mainly just about the implications of what that would mean to her main guy in the future who can probably never measure up to her hookup guy. If the main guy ever found out about the hookup guy and figured out the hookup guy was a better fuck, that would be really humiliating and disheartening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:02 AM
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Eh that's anxiety inducing in itself to try to find the right balance like that. You shouldn't go in there trying to be rude or make her feel uncomfortable, but if you think to much about doing anything then you won't approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:42 PM
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Eh I wouldn't discount any skinny girls of any mental capacity if I were you. That's just me though. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 06:45 AM
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I think I could get that going if I focused on it, but its never been something I wanted to force. Like I don't wanna make friends with guys just for access to their girls. Also I typically don't even really like the guys that do well with girls. Incels make better friends. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 06:03 AM
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I mean you can still get with obese women right? That's basically where I'm at. I've gotten lucky a couple times with skinnier women, but it has been rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 06:00 AM
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Yeah I have like no status. I tend to just have one on one friendships with a bunch of guy friends who don't hang out with any hot girls. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:57 AM
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5'11" guy here to confirm this. I have to mostly resort to obese women when looking for casual sex with the occasional 6/10 skinny girl sprinkled in there (by sprinkles I mean 2 women in my whole life who were just one night stands).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:54 AM
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Maybe, but I can't imagine as a 5'11" guy that I'm doing much better than you. I feel like face is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:52 AM
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You could say that about any other standard people have physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:46 AM
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Depends on the weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:07 PM
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I wonder what some real strategies women use to get sex Be a woman and go on tinder and get you some. If you can't find a match you like, and you are 150+ lbs, lose some weight and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:50 PM
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He's not yours it's just your turn. ;) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:49 PM
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That doesn't mean your lanky 6'2" guy can kick his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:18 PM
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Nobody is naturally world record strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:04 PM
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He doesn't have one. He's just a quitter who thinks it's over for short dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:57 PM
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Yeah their limbs are shorter so they can look shredded while a tall dude with the same amount of muscle is all lanky and spread out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:55 PM
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Whoever's the more insecure partner is the one who wants the label.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:58 AM
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Alright that might be fair. Hot girls lose their innocence pretty early on though to the point where they're not falling for no pedo's bullshit. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:40 AM
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It's mostly about being able to control her or being so much older than he seems wise in comparison. People are so dumb about this. A hot 22 year old is not a naive dumbass. I would almost argue that younger women are less manipulable simply because their attractiveness allows them to have much more leverage and they won't fall for just any offering a guy brings to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:03 AM
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he’s dating someone who is still working out their emotions and the two are not in the same page. I really don't understand this argument. I don't think people change that much after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:58 AM
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That's not the only group of people who feel uncomfortable with this quarantine. I don't think the person you're responding to is thinking of the same group you're talking about either. I know what group you're talking about, and they're hilarious to watch in those confrontation with police montages, but to feel that there are some sketchy aspects of this shutdown is not unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:41 AM
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Being a SAHM isn't a walk in the park, spending the whole day at home doing menial work on a child's schedule can be just as tedious and nasty as the corporate jobs you want to protect women from. I honestly don't see how you believe this to be the case. And yes, I would take up the role myself if a woman accepted me in it. I may not have my own money, but I don't mind being dependent on my partner. I'm not the person to always need to be able to parachute out of a relationship at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:27 AM
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I agree with you on a certain level, but I've found my own selfish reasons to go on and you should too. A logical way out of what you're thinking is, if we all can't help but cause harm, then we all kind of deserve a certain level of harm. I'm no Christian, but I think this is what the idea in the bible about all of us being sinners means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:59 AM
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Obviously the dream would be to have a harem. But since that’s impossible the “goal” is to just be apart of the cock carousel since the other alternatives are worse. Yeah that's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:54 AM
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There's no feeling of being taking advantage of when a woman offers you consistent sex as a man. There is a concern of whether or not that access will be ended by other men, but as long as she keeps it coming there's literally nothing she can do to make him feel used unless if he's a bitch ass Chad who has the sexual inclinations of a woman. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:44 AM
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Yeah they keep trying to get people with "But MUH elderly and MUH 50,000 deaths!" and it's hard to argue against, but there are other dangerous things that kill more people that haven't warranted a government shutdown. Those people don't care about all those other things, they just listen to the news propaganda machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:13 AM
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many of people who were in good health I bet these good health people aren't really in as good health as they make it sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:10 AM
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They are really slow to report recovery numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:07 AM
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That's what it sounds like to me when they say: "We still aren't at the best we could be when it comes to testing." What they really mean is: "We still aren't using this event enough as an excuse to push mass surveillance and other authoritarian government measures." I don't understand how they get the news to push this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:04 AM
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I hate arguing with these people because they're not wrong that you could be risking someone's life by going outside and interacting with people, but do they really trust in all the government restrictions? It's a hard sell because they always go back to: "But what about the old people in the nursing homes? D:"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 11:58 PM
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It will instantly recover if they just open things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 11:56 PM
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Well at that point I'll buy a bunch of guns and get a big army together and have a nice peaceful protest. Hopefully that doesn't happen so that protests of peace don't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 11:51 PM
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I agree with that, but you won't be able sell that idea to the public at large who have a concern for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 10:22 PM
1

How would you address people's concern about the child involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:58 PM
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That's unreasonable just because no one would support that except for people in the red pill sphere. Most people care about the well being of the child involved. I think the social consequences of it and the man being freed are a harsh enough punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:22 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:15 PM
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Yeah I'm thinking it'd be good to slip it in there with a whole bunch of other tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:13 PM
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Well good looking and tall has nothing to do with any kind of female conditioning imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:22 AM
1

Well to not look for that is unfair to your partner in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:59 AM
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For get the "things" that was just reference to whatever other legal shit they want to be absolved of along with the most important part of that statement which is relevant to the discussion: saying to get a second opinion from a third party if the paternity test shows up negative and that the paternity test result is not legal advice and does not suggest any action and the action the father chooses to take is of the father's own discretion and not the responsibility of the hospital. Who is goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:58 AM
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Works pretty well for what purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:55 AM
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Yeah I'm part of that older gen Z category and I know what you mean. I wish we just stayed around that 90s vibe. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:54 AM
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Growing up in the west all the cool, suave, and attractive romantic interests you see are white. I would argue that this has shifted to black men considering hip hop is now the most popular music genre and white guys are stereotyped as uncool nerdy cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:43 AM
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Yeah like they can be hot because of their behaviors. They don't have to be peak physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:37 AM
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For the financial ramifications I said just let the parents pay for it. Like you said, it's only $9 on their hospital bill so not that expensive right? For the legal implications I said you could have the parents sign a form full of other things, but among that, saying to get a second opinion from a third party if the paternity test shows up negative and that the paternity test result is not legal advice and does not suggest any action and the action the father chooses to take is of the father's…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:33 AM
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And I offered solutions for both issues but it sounds like you're not convinced. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:17 AM
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Yeah I guess milfs can be hot too. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:16 AM
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It just sounds like you're afraid of mandatory paternity testing. As you said, paternity tests are $9 a pop. Not every American is having a baby all at once. There are 300+ million Americans. With what percentage of the population are having kids over the course of a whole year, do you really think it would even add the whole $9 to taxes per individual?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:10 AM
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Men could if they had the right mindset. I know I could, but when you're in the sport of sex, you get competitive and want to win at all costs. That's the best way I can describe it. You can decide to not care about it, but when you do care about it as a man, you get sucked into all the frustrations that you can see expressed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:07 AM
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I'm an American guy as well and I recently became a fan of arm wrestling as a professional sport. There's a big arm wrestling scene in Russia, and when they talk about loss, they really don't seem to beat around the bush calling the loser a loser. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:05 AM
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I'm 22 years old so I don't have any kids yet, but thanks for that tip. I still feel like there's a lot of naive men out there that could be saved through it being a procedure at birth. The hospital could have some form the people sign that suggests they get a second opinion from a third party if the paternity test comes back negative and that any paternity test the hospital gives is not a recommendation to take any particular action. I assume that would absolve them of legal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:02 AM
2

Shouldn't you try to date the best you can get?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:55 AM
2

I do feel like I do somewhat the same thing to them by not wanting relationships with them. This is how my relationships with obese women typically go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:54 AM
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It doesn't take that much balls to take a paternity test. To make it procedural like that would just take away the power from women to say: "Oh you don't trust me?" and turn it into a big drama-fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:52 AM
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I think it changes depending on how old you are. 40 and 50 aren't so bad. Of course, that's not going to stop me as a man from always being attracted to 18 year olds no matter what age I become. I currently am 22 so it's not creepy yet by your definition, but I know I won't lose that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:48 AM
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What kind of litigation exactly? Sounds like you just want the option to cuck men with impunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:45 AM
1

My understanding of oppression is when people coerce others. This comes naturally to people because we evolved to oppress and exploit others. Oppression is hardwired in our DNA. That's still not a very clear definition of what you mean. I don't think we have to harm anybody, but I think it's important to be selfish. We have to unlearn this selflessness that we are taught from birth and pursue our own needs and wants. You can perceive anything as deception because words by their nature are meant …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:44 AM
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Yes but if you flip that statement on its head then 100% of babies born by another man are the result of cheating. Paternity fraud is the most devastating and unforgivable form.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:38 AM
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If there's a mutual lack of attraction then I'm not so upset about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:35 AM
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If it's as dirty cheap as you say, just add it to the hospital bill like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:34 AM
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In either case. If the woman is not sexually attracted to me, it usually means she's holding back part of herself from me. She leaves that part of herself for the men she is sexually attracted to, which makes me feel like a chump if I'm the guy she's not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:32 AM
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It would protect men, yes. It wouldn't have to be taxed or anything. Just add it on to the hospital costs at birth. What is your reasoning for being against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:22 AM
1

Like, when a woman is sexually attracted to me, I feel like she's on my team against all her cuck orbiters that she might have. When she's not sexually attracted to you, I don't think she takes you as seriously as a human being. There's a fundamental lack of acknowledgement of you as a sexual being that takes away from your relationship and forces her to stifle you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:20 AM
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Yeah but most people don't think to get one and trust their partners. If it was a mandatory thing, then it would prevent some cases of paternity fraud where the man may erroneously trust his woman. Plus, manually getting one rather than it being an automatic thing at birth suggests that the individual dude has trust issues. If it was just a mandatory procedure the stigma and excuse that women have around it meaning there's a lack of trust could be done away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:16 AM
1

I think a relationship with a woman who is sexually attracted to you is much more genuine than a relationship with a woman who is not. That's just my impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:15 AM
1

I feel like that definition can be dangerously applied to justify being a pussy who doesn't approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:13 AM
3

Remove the vague, feel-good messages such as ‘be yourself’ and promote results-driven messages such as working out and proper dieting being crucial to sexual attraction, while still encouraging men to pursue their hobbies such as comp sci. Does Russia have this type of messaging? I'm not sure if you know anything about Russia but I feel like they lean more towards this style of communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:09 AM
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In my opinion simping only applies to hopeless romantics and sexually unsuccessful men trying to placate to women. Some people try to expand it to people who even try to have sex with women and I think that is an unreasonable definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:08 AM
2

I agreed with antinatalism at one time, but ultimately the dumb people will keep having kids, so I don't want to be out done in the gene race competition you know? I'm not sure what kind of oppression you're talking about, but oppression from allowing other people to murder other people is good oppression yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:05 AM
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It's a very small thing that has a relatively low cost for how much change it would likely reap in society. It seems like an achievable and realistic goal that's not too demanding of women to the point of being unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:01 AM
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I would get behind a movement that proposed mandatory paternity tests as a procedure done at birth. I think that would be a big step forward for male power.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:01 PM
1

It's not even having to mother him. You'd just have to be like "Get in shape." and he'd get right on it and that would be that. I've never been a fat guy though. I started out skinny and had to gain muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:01 PM
1

Sorry fat guys, but I, a fit non-chad guy am forced to resort to your precious fatties. I am the Chad of fatties. hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:53 PM
1

I mean, Trump said doctors could look into solutions with UV light and injecting soap or bleach. It's complete nonsense. I think that was a joke. It's just the fact that nobody laughed at it that makes him sound dead serious. I refuse to believe he's that dumb like the media says. lol You can have the virus and not have any symptoms, but if you're working at a retirement home, you can still infect all the old people you work with, and say half of them will die because of that. So they could shut…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:45 PM
3

I think women could get that horny but the difference is they could more realistically fuck 5 dudes in a day than we could fuck 5 women in a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:26 PM
3

Idk if it's evolutionary biology so much as it is a result of having a lot of options
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:24 PM
5

I actually think Chads have sexualities more in line with women. I think women's decreased horniness comes from the fact that they have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:23 PM
1

I think you should cut down on the masturbation but that's just my personal philosophy. I don't think it's as healthy as it's made out to be. One thing you're missing here that I think is important is that it's not just behavior that makes women less horny. It's options. They aren't even necessarily less horny, they just know that at any time they could pick from multiple guys blowing up their phones to bang. That makes them much less desperate because they know they've got a steady stream of im…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:22 PM
2

Yeah I understand your argument. But the woman wouldn't judge your son for it because she's really just concerned about her man being strong. I think women have a different set of expectations for their sons. The masculine token theory is mostly used in reference to why women won't date a depressed guy or a guy with a woe is me attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:13 PM
2

Yeah, and I think crying over a dead relative might have been an exception. If you cry because you spilled your pink nail polish or because someone dropped out of The Bachelor, okay that's unmanly. But a relative? Yeah I imagine that's more along the lines of what they're talking about. Maybe not that extremely gay. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:09 PM
1

I mean you can protest all you want, it's not going to make the virus go away. Do you think that the average protestor knows how to deal with the virus better than trained medical experts? Oh are trained medical experts telling us how to deal with the virus on the news or is it mostly fear mongering? The fact people can have it and don't notice it makes it worse, because it means you can't contain this virus effectively. Yeah but does it matter that we contain it if most people don't get it that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:05 PM
2

I think he's trying to make a beta bucks analogy here. Women tend to date men a few years older than them anyway and don't like men their own age so does Bob have any choice in the matter really but to date younger women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:38 PM
7

Men aren't trying to seduce men so it doesn't matter how wonderful men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:34 PM
6

I'm not sure if you're viewing things backwards or not but lemme explain the theory to you. So you've got a woman, and she becomes attracted to you because of your masculinity, but then she sees you cry because a family member died or something. The idea is that hopefully you've done enough masculine things before that crying moment that she'll forgive that one time you cried for a dead relative. The theory was made by a woman here about her own experience of moments of weakness of her men. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:32 PM
11

It only seems weird because you're visualizing there being some kind of out in the open discussion about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:08 PM
4

That's an interesting way to approach religion. Like the beliefs may not necessarily be true, but the community is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:04 PM
2

Humans have certain expectations of you yes, but look at yourself, you also have certain expectations of them. I've come to believe that all judgments are projections and it seems to ring true no matter what it is. Things you see in others, you can only see because it's within you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:01 PM
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If this lasts for 2 years, I'll be out there protesting. The news over hypes this virus. It might be bad, and it's bad we don't have a vaccine for it right now, but just the fact that there are people that can have it, but don't notice it, just tells you that it's probably no different than any other virus out there. There's no good way to argue this because it sounds like I don't care about the well being of others when I say it, but we just need to let this run through everybody. If we open th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:47 PM
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This guilt you feel actually makes you a great catch. It sounds messed up, and I don't want you to feel that guilt anymore, but just the fact that you've taken the chance to think about your partner's wants and preferences is enough for me to believe you when you said your experience was regrettable. You don't need to overthink this anymore or break things off with him. Just know that you're a great catch from your consideration of this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:11 AM
2

Ahh I'm at 72.5kg atm. Do you think there's a big difference between those weights when it comes to attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:01 AM
1

They just have more leverage in the sex game. That's the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:38 AM
3

I'm a skinny man and I can confirm that I smash fat women on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:36 AM
1

How much you weigh now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:35 AM
2

Fatness has never been my problem and I totally get fat dudes not getting any. I've always been too skinny, but I think it ultimately comes down to not having model tier facial features.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:32 AM
1

What does assertive mean though? It means caring about your needs above others, so asshole behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:54 AM
1

I think the difference this time is that the coronavirus is a temporary thing. The first dip was already an overreaction. It's not like there's any economic crisis that wouldn't be instantly solved when everything opens back up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 08:49 PM
0

I respect that then. If you did jerk it I would question the voluntary nature of your celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:21 PM
3

Are your FWBs the same kind of men as your relationship partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:20 PM
5

8? 9? Lmao if you're not Chad in the 4th grade it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:57 PM
1

It already tanked. Should have got in on March 23rd. Tbh, you can still get in for the recovery because it's still down from all time highs. If you think it will tank lower I guess I get the hesitation, but money printer goes brrrrr.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:42 PM
2

I'll be a little skeptical if this lasts too long and they want to send people to coronavirus camps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:35 PM
2

What's there to joke about if not something cynical? heh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:33 PM
0

either not normal, desperate, or have relegated you to a booty call The "either or" makes it sound like the booty call motivation is a normal one. I could see how desperation might not be the norm because that implies that not all women are desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:27 PM
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has to have the element of seduction always present. Men are not properly taught what this means. Is anyone ever taught exactly what this means? It seems like nobody can figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:22 PM
2

Not sure what you mean, but it's weird you say that women who fuck on the first date aren't normal, but then you go on to say that one of the possible definitions of normal is booty call relegation. Basically you're saying, it's not normal for women to fuck on the first date when they want a relationship with a guy, which is a type of mindset that guys aren't too fond of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:20 PM
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That works both ways, though -- sometimes it's the woman who drops her FWBs when she meets a man that she wants for something more. Did your serious guys ever know that you dropped your FWB for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:15 PM
3

Ooo you beat me to it. I was also inspired to say this by the smoking thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:10 PM
6

If she smokes, she pokes. I will expand on this and say if she breathes she's a thot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:08 PM
2

lol wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:06 PM
5

They don't need a hookup to get validation, fix boredom or low self esteem, have fun, manage their libido and emotions or express themselves. I can be like this, but TRP kinda puts me into a mindset where I feel like it's important to be competitive about this stuff. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:02 PM
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Guys, the women who fuck on the first date are either not normal, desperate, or have relegated you to a booty call That's interesting. If the third one is the case, then I'd definitely rather be the booty call than the non-booty call where she waits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:57 PM
2

Nah the question makes much more sense than your silly question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:49 PM
5

"What's worth sex to you?" is a perfectly fine question as it implies: "What's worth having sex to you?" Atlas is just being dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:48 PM
1

What's your longest dry spell? Lets see if the math adds up. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:46 PM
1

Being fat is a negative, but all the skinny chicks only go after the hottest guys so us normal guys are left with fatties to bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:42 PM
0

Marry guys as soon as she leaves highschool? People who marry between 18 and 24 have a higher divorce rate than people who marry between 25 and 35. Can't you just keep that in mind and use it to guide you away from becoming part of that statistic instead of using it as an excuse to go out and be a slut? lol The only way 18 to 24 are her “best years” is if you want someone stupid enough to fuck you. Hence, that has nothing to do with prime years. Its how willing girls will fuck total losers and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:38 PM
1

I mean, I see it all the time with guys. Usually all the 6'2" guys will be friends. I usually hang out with 5'11" guys. I think guys feel weird about looking up at a friend of theirs all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:35 PM
1

I don't know if that's necessarily true. Look at somebody like Russell Brand. He uses all these fancy words and has had what has claimed to be a "sex addiction". How does one as a man have so much sex that it be considered an addiction? I may never know. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:43 AM
1

Why does that creep you out though? I can understand finding it annoying but don't understand the creepy bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:42 AM
2

This might be an issue if you're after the top of the top of the top of men, but us earthlings won't cheat on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:37 AM
2

I don't trust leaving it in the hands of women but I see what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:34 AM
2

I don't think you should try too hard to get one particular girl, but not approaching at all is a silly strategy for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:01 AM
1

I think it's like Maslow's Hierarchy. Once we have a steady stream of sex from you, then we can start to relax and maybe start to like you more as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:54 AM
1

So what, don't approach at all and expect them to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:50 AM
1

I'm not afraid of rejection, but a lot of times it burns and feels like a punch in the face and I get angry/depressed for a while. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:50 AM
1

I feel like you have all these vet categories, that's when only the most conniving little psychopath can get through. Everybody's got something that might throw you off if you go into too much detail, and if they don't, that might be a different issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:46 AM
1

I think people like to hang out with people around their own height generally so they can see eye to eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:36 AM
2

Yeah but I feel like there's not as much ass crack definition as there is in yoga pants. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:52 PM
2

Yeah but has it always just literally been their ass but a different color? That's what it's like in yoga pants. They may as well be butt naked because you can see the exact shape of their ass and where everything is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:33 PM
1

Nah I mean, I've definitely thought about it. It's hard to actually even get good at it if you've only got experience in one night stands also.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:32 PM
2

That's what you'd think intuitively, but I've experienced differently. It's actually been a difficult thing for me to get repeat customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:16 AM
2

Like don't procrastinate on anything that you have to get done by a certain date whether it be projects at school or at your job. I think it helps when you're not thinking about an upcoming deadline while talking to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:12 AM
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The interesting thing for me is I didn't feel any particular way when I got with those women. I think you just gotta keep playing the numbers game while having your deadlines in check, and your logistics solidified. You gotta know where ya wanna go.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:22 AM
1

Nah it's not a kink. You can still do it with a woman in perfectly normal clothes, but the key is that there is an element of active imagination involved. That's why some traditional guys will complain about how women don't leave anything up to imagination anymore. You can see the shape of their ass through a lot of women's clothing today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:22 PM
2

I've been with a couple of what I would describe as average to upper average attractiveness women which is what makes me think under the right conditions I might be able to pull off what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:07 PM
1

Give me 6 months of "training" and I might be able to compete on that level. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:02 PM
3

I mean, when women wear stuff where you can see the shape of their ass, that's when a man will start brainstorming about it and get a boner. I think men can also look at an ass and be neutral about it if the girl's wearing mom jeans or sweatpants, but if your ass cheeks are hanging out of some booty shorts, it's hard for men not to start fantasizing about what it'd be like to rip those booty shorts off of you. It's not just a hot girl existing, it's the implication of that hot girl's clothing. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:59 PM
2

I think that can be somewhat true, but that can also be a reason not to do it because you don't want to be sedated all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:52 PM
4

Yeah maybe. I mean, I thought that too that relationships must be easier, since I had a "girlfriend" in high school, who I never had sex with. I still think it's harder to have a legit girlfriend that you're not just a beta orbiter of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:47 PM
1

That's a pretty reasonable amount. I think I could compete with that. hehe. I'm a 5'11" guy though so I have no excuse and should be doing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:42 PM
6

I hate the word confidence as well, except from TRP you should at least know not to shit on yourself in front of a woman. Just try to be a neutral person as much as you can. Don't worry so much about confidence. It's a real mind fuck to me personally trying to figure out the exact right balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:39 PM
1

I have a fair deal of approach anxiety and what I'd recommend for that is to not care so much about what happens in your first few approaches. You've gotta get a social warm-up kind of. If you're having trouble getting past the initial fear, jump in an entirely cold shower. The hesitation you'll feel jumping in cold water is about the same as the hesitation I typically felt when trying to approach women. You just gotta throw yourself in there and not plan anything except for "hi there".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:37 PM
5

While TRP says that, I actually think it's not true now that I've had my fair share of one night stands. It can be hard to get beyond a one night stand because you've gotta hold up a facade of confidence for longer. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:34 PM
10

Never think of yourself as a low tier male. Just think about it like a sport. Try to become as best you can at the sport of fucking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:33 PM
9

I can pull 10-15 fatties in a year with a hottie sprinkled in there if I really go for it, but if these 10-15 fwbs are hot then yeah that's pretty impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:31 PM
10

Yeah a lot of people falsely assume that "well it takes two people to have sex so it must be an even 1 to 1 ratio." but people have sex more than one time with different people. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:30 PM
3

How is it possible that married women are having more sex than married men? 🤔 Really activates my almonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:18 PM
0

I think what they mean when they say that is they want to hear you get pissed because that's the more manly way to express emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:17 AM
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All those choices will be null and void when it comes to male responsibility if mandatory paternity testing is implemented.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:31 PM
1

You think they actively have that mindset consciously or is it something subconscious that just happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:18 PM
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Her special beta boy being relieved of the duty to provide for a child that is not his is enough punishment in my mind for the offense. She has to spend 18 years raising a child and facing that embarrassment. We don't need to send her to jail or anything like that, because then someone else will have to take the responsibility of raising the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:17 PM
3

That doesn't mean that Chad or Tyrone shouldn't be mandated to funnel their nonessential money into child support or at least forced to make an attempt to raise the child. If the child has a rough childhood as a result, that's just the fault of the parents really and there's nothing you can do about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:36 PM
1

Men are just mad when you fuck any man that's not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:15 PM
2

I don't think so. I think most of these guys because of their level of intelligence to figure out their faults, are going to be agnostic atheists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:53 PM
2

It's really not a bad trade off now that I think of it. hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:49 PM
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Humans aren't dumb apes. They should be able to figure out how to nurture a child. We don't need celibacy if there's mandatory paternity testing. It will discourage irresponsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:49 PM
3

It would just be one of a series of tests they do anyway, and then if something comes back saying you can't be the father they say: "hmmmm uh oh!" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:45 PM
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I guess you could always replace your wife with her when she turns 18 if it's not really your daughter. lololololol jk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:53 PM
5

If you had the chance to trust, but verify, why wouldn't you? I don't get the insecurity argument. Like, you wouldn't buy a house you didn't have the deed to would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:49 PM
3

Yeah it could just be one of the many procedures done at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:42 PM
1

We're society. We can change things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:41 PM
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Yeah honestly, with something like paternity fraud, the punishment should be simply be to find the true father and then he can face the financial consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:39 PM
13

I hope a politician runs on that someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:38 PM
1

I desire more than that, but I am typically trapped in the friendzone more often than the fuckzone, and I feel that the fuckzone would be 1000000000000% better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:35 PM
1

I guess there are some guys in the fuckzone but if he complains about it, he's fucking retarded. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:30 PM
10

I think how monogamous you are depends on how much you trust women yourself. If you distrust women you probably see monogamy as a pipe dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:10 PM
2

To some extent they can guess, but like women when they try to choose the prettiest women, I think sometimes they're a little off too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:56 PM
2

You can't know though whether or not it's the looks factor that's what is attractive because as a straight guy, you don't know what looks good. In fact, you may even think a guy a girl likes it ugly because you're not a homosexual. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:56 AM
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Actually that's what men are lied to about. They don't know how much their looks matter because all the advice overvalues other traits because people are always saying that looks aren't everything to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:07 AM
3

What women do is often referred to as "invisible" effort. You don't see it because it is usually 1) non tangible or immediately evident and 2) not sex and 3) men are less perceptive on small detail. I feel like this is similar to the nice guys argument on why they should get sex for their niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:01 AM
1

Maybe. It seems like the big difference with climbing is pinching strength. Arm wrestling is a lot about hand and wrist strength, but not in terms of squeezing, more just in terms of bending your wrist in or turning your wrist over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:48 AM
1

It's not even that hard of a competition though if you're a fit guy, and you'll be taken as a serious contender. It's kind of ridiculous the standards of attractive women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:46 AM
1

Haha I'm trying to accomplish a similar goal. I've had a change of luck since I made that post, but currently I'm trying to pursue older women so I can have an arrangement similar to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:45 AM
1

Women approaching or not is irrelevant. It's such a lower effort part of the dating process that it doesn't matter if women are approaching. Ultimately they will approach Chads if approaching for women becomes normalized. You should take initiative and approach. I don't think it's something about the dating process that can be complained about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:42 AM
1

Right now I just force my friends to arm wrestle me haha. I've been looking for a club to arm wrestle with but I can't find any in my area. There may be one across the bridge in another state, but it's kind of a long drive. I do these static curls on a bench and a bunch of pullups. I've been trying to build up a one arm pullup. Speaking of one armed pullups, during this lockdown I've been interested in a lot of specialized calisthentic movements as well. I was inspired by a friend of mine to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:12 PM
1

I've never tried any DVDs. My dad started me out benching sometime in high school, then I branched out to other powerlifting style lifts. Now recently I've become interested in arm wrestling so I've been doing lifts that make you stronger at arm wrestling. I think you do get a little weaker weightlifting wise when you lose weight, but if you can maintain your strength while reducing your own weight I think that's how you maintain a good body composition. You can burn out from over training, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:59 PM
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Yeah I have pretty decent muscles but I still feel like someone could look at me and not know I lift weights. If I flex my bicep though that's when people are like "Wow". lol For me it's all about strength. That sucks that you got charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:43 PM
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Do you weigh more or less than your sister when she was at that higher weight? Maybe you're alright at that higher weight if you're taller. If you want to be able to move more fluently then yeah I guess that's a motivation. Lifting weights also helps with that because it makes you stronger relative to your body mass and makes your body feel lighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:16 PM
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Yeah I think that would be a nice relationship where both the man and the woman believe in no sex before marriage. Sex before marriage just makes dating so much more competitive versus romantic in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:09 PM
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Hmmm. Well before I give you an eating disorder do you mind telling me how much you weigh? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:41 PM
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I appreciate your comment because it kind of illuminates my own perspective on women from a female perspective. I've got caught up in thinking women are complicated, and you saying men are complicated actually really makes me introspect about what brought me to that perspective. Okay, so we all want attractive people right? Well these very attractive people have a lot of power. A lot of men from TRP have that belief that you do about men bolting when you show interest except they think women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:38 PM
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It's really hard for me to lose weight because of an autoimmune disease that I have. Okay so let me just tell you now that I understand your frustration, but this is your main problem with men. Don't make the mistake of thinking that it's your job or your intelligence or your humor. Men love that stuff assuming you understand the male audience and can make a joke that appeals to them. Have you ever tried fasting? Make sure to drink a lot of water and go into it carefully, but it might help you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:59 PM
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more successful than them, smarter than them, stronger than them, and yes, they don't like women who tell jokes. Maybe some men don't like these things, but that's not the same reason we're jealous of women's sexual power. 100% if they can't get laid, it's because their personality sucks. I can feel their horrible personalities coming off the page. To some extent it's all about looks for men as well. It's just that it's all about looks, and personality on top of it all for men. Maybe by being on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:49 PM
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That should have been your title about them rarely admitting it, because any man here will admit that they are jealous of women's sexual power. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:41 PM
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It's not that hard to approach. This is just you turning your anxiety over it into anger. Jump in a cold shower, take that experience, and then imagine that same hesitation you had in jumping in the cold shower, and go up and say hi to a girl and then just see where the conversation goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:33 PM
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Yeah, I could probably lift a 400 lb girl and try to fuck her against a wall, but that would be like a 1 rep max and I doubt I'd be able to hold her that long. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:52 AM
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Yeah, but I used to be kind of like that in high school, and I'm telling you that even though they get really angry, their mindset is ultimately a failed attempt at following advice they're getting. What nice guys think they're doing is sticking up for themselves and having a backbone by lashing out in an aggressive way, because people have called them "too nice". They say, okay, if niceness is not a component of getting laid, then I should probably be mean then. They don't even want to be mean,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:48 AM
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And I don't think older women are somehow immune to the abusive guy's behavior if he's good looking enough to get with attractive young women. The kind of guys that older women reject thinking that they've learned something about behavior, are probably the same guys the younger girls are rejecting on looks anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:20 AM
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I'm a marketing major. Actually I don't blame minorities, I blame the schools. I feel like if there were no scholarships, tuition could be drastically reduced because the rest of the people not getting scholarships wouldn't have to foot the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:18 AM
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Except these nice guys actually are genuine nice guys to their friends. Yes, they want pussy, and are frustrated when they don't get it. Just like your "confident" men would be frustrated if they weren't getting pussy. Except, women never collectively stop giving up your pussy to them so you never get to see their ugly side during a drought. Also, nice guys don't expect being nice will get you laid, they just feel like being nice won't stop them from getting laid. And all nice guys are attemptin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:14 AM
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I think there is still a philosophy you have to change that veers on the side of being an asshole, and that is to be self-serving. You aren't even really being actively good, or care about being good, you just are a neutral guy. That's at least the way I see it now. I've lost a little bit of my obsession with good and evil. Now I recognize it's just me, the people for me, and the people against me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:08 AM
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I think I'm pretty high in my class but I'm not quite sure. I'll be graduating this semester. Got around a 3.4-3.5 GPA. I assume that puts me in the top similar to you. But yeah I really wish they would stop using race as a metric because then people couldn't use it as a platform to complain about not getting enough free money they didn't earn or their family members didn't pass down. That's how you get these rich families is the wealth just snowballs because the families stick together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:03 AM
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All I'm saying is I don't see any women here talking about sacrificing on looks. They're all talking about how when they're older they're wiser on behavior. They're not talking about how the key component is being good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:55 AM
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I am too. Now if we can start telling boys to never approach women. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:53 AM
1

All the women here are talking about behaviors when clearly the issue of whether or not young women can be attracted by a man comes down to his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:20 AM
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Behaviors, but is she compromising on looks in comparison to the older woman? I doubt it. Behaviors are easier to fix and appeal to than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:19 AM
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Where do I find these hot girls with no standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:17 AM
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That's the problem with incels is that they refuse to go after those obese girls. I did it and I still would never have a relationship with them, but there's pretty much always a fatty on Tinder out there who will fuck you as a guy. lol I understand that the incels are concerned that they don't deserve fatties, and I very well agree with them, but it's a way to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:16 AM
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Okay so no more race so no more diversity scholarships for you. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:11 AM
1

Chads complaining about not being able to find a relationship is the most pathetic complaint I've ever heard. lmao They aren't able to appreciate their Chadliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:36 PM
1

What was the problem with the friendship?
/r/MGTOW220/04/20 04:11 PM
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Basically just avoid anyone who talks about "surviving an abusive relationship" or "trying to cut out negative influences in their life". Those are the people to quickly peg you as a negative influence and fuck your shit up. lol
/r/MGTOW220/04/20 04:06 PM
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You can typically see them coming.
/r/MGTOW220/04/20 06:08 AM
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Well you shouldn't and you're just rationalizing being a pussy and not approaching if I'm being frank with you. You won't have someone gunning against you unless if you give them a reason to be your enemy. lol
/r/MGTOW220/04/20 02:56 AM
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No doubt the feminist agenda is already here and active, but I think most of it is just making women really slutty these days. I don't think it's doing much in terms of making them all falsely accuse men of things 24/7.
/r/MGTOW219/04/20 10:32 PM
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I mean, to be fair, most men can bang a fatty. Not sure why they would cheat on an attractive girlfriend for a fatty though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:48 PM
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You long for the good ole days of coming home to a home cook meal from your bang maid wife. The house was always clean, your laundry was done, the kids were taken care of; your only job was to work and fuck. I wouldn't mind my only job to be chores done around the house and fuck instead. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:38 PM
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It seems like a cynical view to see social skills as a scale of level of skill. You'd always be looking over your shoulder at the people with "high social skills" because they're the most manipulative people. You can see someone as having a unique personality or you can see someone on a spectrum of social skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:31 PM
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Not really just because I don't think most women have top of mind awareness that they have the power to do that. Even if they do, it'd be such a hassle for them to drag out something against a guy they don't even know. The only way I can see you being at risk of women using such power is if you broke up with her after a really long relationship and she wants to get back at you or something.
/r/MGTOW219/04/20 08:28 PM
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I'm not saying "relationship" in terms of a romantic relationship, I'm talking about the initial stages of an interaction with a woman. A woman you have no relation to is not thinking about suing you.
/r/MGTOW219/04/20 07:14 PM
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In the initial stages of the relationship I don't think things will escalate to the point where a woman is able to hate you that much though. Yes, women have the power to do that, but many times they're either too oblivious to use it or not evil enough. lol
/r/MGTOW219/04/20 06:47 PM
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My point is if you're irrelevant in the grand scheme of things, you've got no money to go after. You getting screwed is not going to garner news attention. It's not going to get a woman anything she wants when screwing over some random dude who nobody cares about. It's super impractical for girls to go around MeToo'ing random dudes with no money for no reason. MeToo is something you should worry about as a public figure, but if you're a nobody, you're able to fade out of a girl's life without ha…
/r/MGTOW219/04/20 06:04 PM
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If you're a celebrity or a sports star, maybe you should be worried about getting MeToo'd, but if you're a regular guy with not much for her to gain from pursuing any crazy actions that would get you in trouble, I don't think you have much to worry about. The most likely bad thing that will happen is that you get overly attached, which women seem to have a super low tolerance for and will abuse the shit out of you for it.
/r/MGTOW219/04/20 04:56 PM
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Is this social skill something that's beyond just the ability to make and keep friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:43 PM
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I've always thought of socialization as something that's just me relaxing with my friends, not caring about their relative skill compared to me, and just enjoying their company. I don't understand where this "skill" comes in where you have to dominate everybody. I might be overthinking things and my social skills might be just fine, but I really don't know what people mean when they say this. If you're not a male model you've gotta be as manipulative as the Tiger King. Let's put it that way. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:41 PM
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It feels like a stage a lot of atheists go through where they want to aggressively argue or have people "see the light". It happens with early red pillers too who seem to regurgitate red pill talking points word for word as if it was their own ideas. I wonder if there's any psychological studies on that sort of phenomenon where when somebody first joins a group, that's when they're most combative with the out-group.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:34 AM
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I think only male model looking men can begin to entertain an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:14 AM
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Yeah I don't understand the people who want to watch, but I totally understand wanting to bang another dude's wife. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:07 AM
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That's basically it. The woman is going to be much more dominantly benefiting from that arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:05 AM
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jilling Heh I've never heard this term before. I see what you did there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:04 AM
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Yeah I remember being an atheist strongly arguing against religious people and their retarded beliefs in many YouTube comment sections, but now I argue against the atheists and say that it's good for society to be religious and you shouldn't bash anyone for their beliefs because it's all meaningless anyway. I'm an agnostic now because I don't think you can prove one way or another whether something exists in a dimension you can't perceive with the five senses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:02 AM
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Eh, I feel like if you both bring kids in it's fair. Having a 1 to 1 ratio of her kids and your kids cancels out the cuckoldry. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:59 AM
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I think most people who watch cuck porn imagine themselves being the non-cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:54 AM
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I wouldn't call an openfans gig for a bunch of thirsty betas cuckoldry, but yeah if she's literally fucking anyone else then that's obviously a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:51 AM
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You just said you wouldn't entertain my response so why would I give you any more?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:49 AM
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They can, but the woman has to be in that bubble with him. She also can't be eyeing other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:42 AM
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It's almost sad how insecure you are. It's so sad that any argument you have against the fact that you're insecure just proves your insecurity. I really feel sorry for you. Go be pathetic somewhere else insecure person! It's not like I'm bullying you or anything. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:40 AM
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Ok so listen, I'll tell you my opinion as a guy who's basically MGTOW, but pursues women. I've been with a couple of skinny chicks, but I've banged a lot of obese women from Tinder because honestly that's the easiest way to get sex. That's not worth it for a lot of guys and I understand that. I also lost my virginity to an escort. Something you gotta understand when you take any kind of legal risk is that you're not always gonna get caught, and in that same sense you're not always going to get d…
/r/MGTOW219/04/20 03:34 AM
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Oh thanks, I'll just cut off all my possible options and go for women who don't exist. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:59 AM
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In the casual scene, I think that's somewhat true. Like, I'm a fatty Chad. I bet there are guys who get in relationships with fatties, but I just smash em all before they get to be in that relationship. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:58 AM
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Yeah why is it that women can't be just in it for sex, while willing to give a shit about you? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:56 AM
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Because I literally was when I had my bad experience with a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:41 AM
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Exactly, but I was acting like Mr. Innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 11:51 PM
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Well yeah her being on someone else's team but not having sex with him just makes me laugh at both of them if I'm the one having sex with her. My argument is that her sexual past makes it so that you can't just go in there acting like Mr. Innocent who wants to bring her on romantic dates and bring her flowers and all this other stuff. She's not Ms. Innocent, and you should accept that, but that means that you being Mr. Innocent will not be compatible with her taking you seriously. It's not insec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:20 PM
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But then it still paradoxically becomes a competition of who's more self-actualized. My point of view changes a lot on this depending on the mood I'm in. I shouldn't be arguing so aggressively for something that I don't really believe anymore. I should have argued more in the direction of it not being a competition but it is more competitive by nature than puppy love. Mostly for me it's not about whether the guy is better than me or not, because it doesn't matter how good the other guy is if I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:47 PM
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It's not a comparison. Do you have a problem with me being the biggest dog? Do you want me to be your little bitch dog instead? lol Ultimately I have to be the best sex you've ever had, or otherwise I know I'm just a bumbling idiot to you, even if I'm an endearing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:23 PM
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It's the ego boost of knowing that you got an attractive woman to want to have sex with you. Shortly after that, there's nothing in the world that could bring you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:20 PM
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My point was that the way that I love women fundamentally changed to much more sober than my former state of limerance. It's hard to explain the feelings around it. Another way to say it is that you can't puppy love her because you know she's been with a big dog who didn't give a shit about any of that. If you introduce any big dog into your sexual past, all of a sudden I want to be the biggest and best dog that you've ever been with. The motivation to puppy love you just isn't there anymore. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:10 PM
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I think you guys just don't understand how romantic I was. It seems like girls don't even like the amount of stuff I wanted to go through for a "girl I love". They just saw all that shit as clingy anyway. I'm just saying it's hard to be clingy when you know that she was fucked by at least one other person other than you. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:43 PM
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Like I said, the romantic gesture is not the dick. The fact that she's been came in and on by other men kinda ruins the illusion of romance. It's not that we can't be friends or in a relationship, but all the flowers and elaborate gestures of love that I once thought were normal aren't so normal in that case. Women don't expect guys to be that romantic anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:40 PM
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Can't a guy just be a simple guy who makes a lot of money? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:37 PM
1

Why do you assume upper middle class men are so sophisticated that they have these elaborate political/social connections and agendas?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:54 AM
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That's seriously one way to describe the humiliation of being retroactively cucked by another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:51 AM
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I've just gotten to the point where I don't think young chaste girls exist, so I don't feel like I'm screwing anybody over. I'm just getting my fair share of sex so I don't get screwed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:49 AM
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It's not about what they think though, it's that they fucked you. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:48 AM
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It's hypocritical in the same way that slapping someone in the face back after they slap you in the face is hypocritical. It's like, you could take it like a bitch and not be a hypocrite, but... if you can't beat em join em right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:30 AM
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If you're an 8-9/10 in looks white woman, you can levitate to whatever class you want because any man will marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:20 AM
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I'm not convinced. I think women are just projecting their status elitism onto men. Hotness is king.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:15 AM
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Nah I've probably fucked 7 or so women after extensive effort. I'm a 6/10 male I can't be fucking 100s of women so quickly. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:14 AM
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Yeah, I've cold approached 100s of women and only got laid once through cold approaching but I don't think I've ever had a woman shut me down coldly. They all just ghost me after I get their number and leave it at that. All my conversations have been pretty polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:10 AM
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My sexual past reflects the fact that all women are sluts these days and that there's nothing you can do about it, so you may as well join the sluttery and not be a romantic cuck. Yeah I think the casual impacts me more because it invalidates all the romantic stuff I'd like to do with a woman I love like bring her flowers and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:05 AM
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Ultimately men want to express their love by bringing flowers and love poems and all this other romantic stuff, but if the woman on the end of all their affections has fucked a bunch of men without any of the magic of all the romantic stuff, it just spits on and invalidates the flowers and the love poems and the romantic stuff. A casual sex having woman crushes the romantic dreams of an idealistic man. It's like if when you got flowers you just ripped them from a man's arms and threw them on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:01 AM
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Literally just slide into any dude that fits that criteria's DMs and if you're truly a 8-9/10 it'll be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:52 AM
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Whether she was manipulated into the act or actively chooses it doesn't factor into the equation. In fact, her willingly choosing it makes it worse. At least in the case of girls who try to convince the guy that they were manipulated into it give the guy a proper fantasy to think that "maybe she wasn't just a complete rag doll sex toy for another man". Unless if there's something extra in it for me, I'm not going to be all lovey dovey to another man's casual sex partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:49 AM
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For me it's the humiliation of being a guy who has lovey dovey feelings for a girl who for another guy was just a quickie. One man's trash is another man's treasure does not apply to sex in other words. If I find out she was another man's trash, that makes me feel like I'm a fool for having romantic feelings for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:04 PM
2

I fell into the alt-right sort of sphere, but I was always skeptical of those talking head guys. I just tried to get my information from independent articles and not what I perceived as potentially being "controlled opposition". I don't like to hear people saying things they heard from popular talking heads. I can always tell when someone has their own opinion or if for some reason they've just absorbed all the talking points of Jordan Peterson or Milo Yiannopolus or Ben Shapiro or Steven Crowde…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:12 PM
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Yes I had a very similar view shift. Mainly I think because the happy go lucky inclusion of everyone didn't jive with my discriminatory sexual experience. When you see how much hard work it is to get sex for some men, you start to appreciate hard work in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:06 PM
1

lmao yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:03 PM
1

As others have said, nobody needs to get killed off, but that would be nice to have a realistic human robot that could have babies. I don't think the powers that be would like such a robot because they're trying to reduce the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:02 PM
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It was much more validating when I finally got with a girl who was 4'11 and 90 lbs. After she left I did something like this. Yeah the fat chicks are more just a hole, but slightly validating and sobering. I at least feel like I can't be touched after fucking a fatty, but after a skinny chick I wanna scream at the sky. hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:50 PM
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That's because skinny chicks expect nothing less than a model looking faced guy. I've been with a couple skinny chicks though. I just felt like I was lucky or tricking them somehow both times though. They weren't model looking skinny chicks though. I lift heavy so I'm not sure why that wouldn't allow me to at least consistently get some kind of chick that's not 400 lbs? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:45 PM
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If a guy asks "I'm nice why aren't people nice to me" , well it makes sense why he's confused. If you're nice to other you'd expect them to be nice to you. But when he asks "I'm nice why can't I get sex". Idk it just kinda seems like they were only nice because they thought it would have gotten them laid. Really sex was never supposed to be your main incentive to be good(nice). I like the way you phrased this because I feel like I can rebut it. So ultimately, they feel like since they're nice, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:14 PM
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I think I hooked up with my 4'11" 90lb girl because of the opinion of her friends. She was a college freshman and all she had to tell them was that I was a senior and had no pictures of me, so they told her to go get some from the college senior. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:57 PM
1

Yeah in that moment you feel like the only thing to do is to slap the bitch, but you can't do that. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:53 PM
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most are grounded enough to know when they have a zero chance of success at locking down a man. Sometimes though I match with obese chicks on Tinder, and I'm a 160 lb 5'11" fit guy, and when I ask them if they want to hook up, they're all like: "that's not what I'm looking for". Then I'm just like, are you serious? I don't actually say it but that's what I'm thinking. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:45 PM
1

I don't think there's any way for sexless men and women to be compatible outside of an arrangement where a woman is curing that sexlessness. Otherwise, just by nature of you being a woman, you're likely fucking other men, which would make that guy feel like a cuck in your "caring" relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:39 PM
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Most women are "ugly" anyway under the makeup. You've gotta pick up a person's vibe mayyyynnnee. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:36 PM
1

Yes indeed. I got a couple of skinny girls here and there though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:29 PM
2

When it comes to necrophilia, bestiality, pedophilia, I think that ultimately comes down to male thirstiness and desperation. Women don't want to fuck dead bodies or animals or kids because they have a perfectly easy time fucking men. A desperate enough man with no morals will fuck anything as messed up as it sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:28 AM
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Haha my friend asked me "God damn did you go by the old preschool to find her?". Is that what you mean by it doesn't sound good? lmao She was a college freshman so we're all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:18 AM
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I have to have them at least suck my dick first, then I'm good to go. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:57 AM
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I mean, to be fair man you should probably pick your underwear off the floor, but yeah I don't like to be told to do what I'm already going to do anyway. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:07 PM
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What bothers me more is when somebody tells me something I'm planning on doing or just about to do. It's just like, I would have done it with or without you telling me to do it. That's the annoying part. You don't want the other person to take satisfaction in what they think is successfully convincing you to do it, when you were already going to do it anyway. I can't speak to those examples of the pig sties, but I'm not so bad about cleaning up my messes when I make them when I'm living solo. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:05 PM
1

I have a little bit of money that I'll probably try to aggressively invest lol. It really doesn't sound like so bad of a gig versus any other job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:01 PM
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I guess so, but I'd encourage anyone to get really strong weightlifting because it's rewarding by itself in its own way and it might just be enough to save you from inceldom. Usually if you're a fit busted face guy, you can at least get a fat chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:58 PM
2

This idea probably ironically makes you rationalize treating ugly women like shit. lol. I've had no problem with ugly women as I've banged them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:56 PM
2

When have you ever experienced a mean ugly woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:42 PM
1

It's interesting because I think it can go both ways. It just depends on the ugly or beautiful person's interpretation of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:41 PM
1

Just try man. It's not a big deal if you're destined to fail or not if you don't even try. I approached 100s of women and finally had 1 successful cold approach that got me laid with a 4'11" 90 lb girl. I've also had something like 5-7 hookups with girls on tinder, most of them being obese, but one was actually skinny like the 4'11" girl. The point is you can't expect to win with girls that are 10/10 99.999999% of the time. Sex is like a rare drop on a video game for me, which I'm sure it's that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:37 PM
1

I mean, to some extent it's true. Men don't get options unless if they pursue those options, but of course, options make men more attractive. A good guy just pursues one woman at a time just like a good girl should only entertain the affections of one man at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:30 PM
1

That's fair, but I'll still get enjoyment out of fucking the milf while women seem to just begrudgingly accept the role. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:24 PM
1

True. It sounds simple, but I bet there's a lot of marketing there, or at least a little bit of effort to put in to perfect your image.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:17 PM
6

Do you want a friend or a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:04 AM
3

I can't believe women want to get rid of beta bux as a concept so bad that they'd become wage slaves. I'm trying to do the opposite right now and flip the role and find some milf so I don't have to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:00 AM
4

Still most people don't. It's not so much that they don't give a shit about it, it's that they're unaware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:45 PM
2

That is a good point. I feel like heavy metal genres are the bastion of white masculinity. I just wish they were as popular alongside hip hop and rap.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:40 PM
1

If you encourage too much of this it will cause the society to go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:59 PM
0

If she's of legal age she's definitely not chaste by that point. haha In today's society you can't expect that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:50 PM
6

This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:37 PM
20

Well in that case it's actually something that's possible. "Just take a shower bro" is something that doesn't actually change you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:34 PM
2

Yep. This. I become the best e-girl on the planet. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:29 PM
2

I mean, part of me does kind of feel for that group. Like what if there are people out there who for whatever reason don't want me reproducing? I don't claim to know who they are or if they are Jews or whatever, but I guess that sort of paranoid thought does get to me sometimes. Then there are cases where race mixing bothers me, but I'm kind of weird about it. Ultimately I think I root for underdogs of all races. Like I can be kind of bothered by a dark skinned, real masculine looking man with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:23 PM
1

It was first defined as "alt-right" by news articles and stuff like that to put it in a box of crazy though. No one ever self-identified as alt-right before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:45 PM
1

I can go back and forth on that. On the one hand I feel like the world is ultimately meaningless and I wouldn't want to bring that on a child, but then on other days I feel like I should pass on my genes just in case it's some ultimate goal of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:44 PM
2

Except I bet his batting average is a lot closer to 50% versus the normal guy's 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:36 PM
1

So I've basically done the same thing, and a big percentage of the time girls would give me their number, but I would just get no response when I went to text them. There was one time where I did a cold approach and it actually got me laid. What did you change?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:55 PM
3

I feel like it's a myth that you can reduce any inherent rejection that you're going to get as a guy. If you actually don't get that much rejection, then that's fair, but if you're a guy who's stuck in theory and think you've got it all figured out, just wait until you try. You've just gotta be prepared for things to not go your way, even if you have the perfect strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:24 PM
3

and she is going to ghost your ass long before you get to that stage if you don't know what the fuck you are doing. Even so she's just gonna ghost your ass even if you do everything right. You've gotta be prepared for rejection as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:12 PM
1

How old are these plates your dad is spinning?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:10 PM
11

That's hardly game, that's just picking up the loot gifted to you by life. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:03 PM
1

I do think it would be interesting if I could embody a woman for a little while so I understand what female sexuality feels like and what I would need to do as a guy to seduce a woman. As for you trying to be a guy, I'd wish you luck. You've gotta be prepared for lots of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:02 PM
2

I downloaded tinder yesterday and already have 1,000 likes from men. Holy fuck. That desecrates my male model account who currently has gotten 200 or so likes over the course of a week or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:56 PM
2

I actually have a compromise for this. If I can be a stay at home dad, then I will date a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:53 PM
23

better to date a less attractive but much more attentive man than a high status dude who treats you like shit. So AFBB essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:45 PM
1

Yeah but one guy going from poor to rich is not going to change things that much. I think in the case of billionaires where all that wealth is hoarded with one person, it minimizes the effect of inflation on all of that cash because that guy probably wouldn't spend as much as if all his money was equally distributed across all of America.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:22 PM
1

Alright that's fair, but just because there's like a population that probably consists of less than 1% of all people who turn themselves into this in-between thing, doesn't mean we have to change our whole vocabulary around men and women. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:18 PM
1

Well do you ever try to transition the BJ to fucking her? That's what I always do. When I'm really hard from the BJ, that's when I start fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:11 PM
2

I think a lot of men who struggle with dating are introverts. The men who do well are probably extroverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:09 PM
2

It was just in one of those biology classes that everyone has to take as a general elective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:48 AM
2

Indeed, which makes biological sex even more useless for "sexual orientations". How? That just proves that people want authentic men or authentic women. When you fuck yourself up into something in between, then neither sex likes you typically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:47 AM
2

I've found that girls also have a different SOP with me. I think it's more about what you come to expect than what they do every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:44 AM
3

It's just that whenever I hear that argument about intersex and biology being finicky at my university, it followed by talk of transgender people being normal because you know, biology doesn't exist. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:42 AM
2

Why else would men outnumber women in online dating. Okay so you've got this really backwards. People who go to online dating aren't extroverts. They go on online dating because they are introverts and have trouble finding dates in any other situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:39 AM
1

Yeah but neither does any heterosexual woman either, and that's the problem with being a tranny. It really limits your dating potential. First off, you've got normal straight dudes who are too ugly to get with women, but then you expect as a trans person to be able to get any kind of relationship with normal people of either side? pssssshhhh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:38 AM
2

Well imagine you're telling a story to person 2 about person 3. There's a chance of some uses of him/he/this guy sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:34 AM
3

That's fair, but that doesn't mean people that think they weren't born with the right genitals are mentally stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:30 AM
1

Your pronouns should have been something really long and drawn out as well. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:28 AM
2

Sexual orientation has a lot of relevance, and by extension, biological sex has relevance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:27 AM
5

They enforced sexual communism specifically to control women's sexuality and wealth inequality became more prevalent. It's that or sex inequality. It's not that hard to make money. You're not trapped being a poor person. It's not part of your identity. Just get qualifications, and get a better job, or shut up about inequality. Men earn more because they are motivated to earn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:20 AM
1

I don't think young girls are being taught this, but they should. I'm trying to have a girl who's able to make a decent living off her only fans account and then we can just chill at our house doing whatever we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:30 PM
1

There's a lot more and you don't have specifics? :l Sounds like you're just talking about feeling good and touching her body while making out or something if you're not just talking about what goes on down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:26 PM
1

I'm just saying how do you think a guy gets so much experience that he knows all that stuff in the first place? By being a good looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:13 PM
1

When women say this sometimes I wonder if there's some mysterious thing that I'm missing. It's just about stimulating the clit right? Is there some kind of magic stuff that I'm missing? I've only had one night stands so far so I've not had consistent experience with one woman that I can get really good at fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:25 AM
1

I mean, it's true. I imagine it's the only way to get around the catch 22 of needing experience to get experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:24 AM
3

I've heard that lesbians have trouble with a mutual lack of initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:22 AM
1

Well no one's arguing that men are shallow, it's just that women say they care about "personality" but what they're really saying is that they care about personality on top of everything else, so that's not as noble as it sounds. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:19 AM
3

Then what's the middle ground?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:08 AM
1

To me it's all that stuff guys do when they're really desperate to get somebody back. From the spam texting to the romantic poems to the flowers, anything they can do to bring her back to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:05 AM
3

Commitment to me means loyalty. He's not committed if he cheats. I also would not think a girl who cheats on me is committed to me, and she would be immediately dropped off at the guy-she-cheated-on-me-with's house and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:02 AM
10

My argument is kind of different. I think the red pill does a really good job at making you aware of all the possible pitfalls that could happen in your relationships with women. Beyond that, I think it's just a numbers game. Being aware of all the different ways you can be screwed over, allows you to quickly disengage when you're about to be screwed over. There are no tactics that can take a disinterested woman to interested. You're simply fighting against too much leverage and if you're that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:58 AM
2

To be fair I do edge now and then. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:52 AM
2

I mean, it makes your load a lot bigger when you abstain from jerking off for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:00 AM
1

I've acclimated to fucking fat chicks so I'm not sure what kind of woman would turn me off for being a "lazy lover". That seems to be all on you and your dick my dude. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:39 AM
3

I've stopped watching it mostly, but that really annoys me all the things that women see as desperate. How is a porn watcher desperate when he's getting exactly what he wants? Yeah, he's desperate because he doesn't have a woman around, and guess what, because you think he's desperate, he's stuck in a catch 22 and will never have a woman around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:36 AM
2

You say that, but your side is bullshit also. I'm on the middle ground. I say that if you don't jerk off it doesn't hurt you that much. I don't think it's good or bad for you. I think you can do it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:34 AM
2

You wouldn't commit a terrorist act. Stop for a couple of days, and get yourself a hooker, then give that hooker the combined nut of the last two days you abstained. You could get to the point when you're just letting it out in your wet dreams. Trust me it's not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:30 AM
1

/pol/ is based though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:27 AM
3

I really don't think there's any such thing as "sexual needs" outside of fucking actual women tbh. I mean, think about it. What does your body really want to do? It wants you to nut inside a woman so that you have a baby. You think your body is designed to have a need to shoot your load into the toilet? I don't think so. If you don't nut for a while, you get a wet dream and it just comes out in your sleep anyway. I've been going for the hold it in route unless if it's into or on a woman route an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:25 AM
0

Just lol at watching another guy fuck a woman, whats next you’ll become a voyeur? So cucked. This is the argument that brought me away from porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:22 AM
7

What's in it for incels to accept their fate? Women benefit much more than incels for them just going and fucking off. I encourage all incels to approach women if for nothing else just to annoy the shit out of them. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:19 AM
1

Feel more sorry for the guy who can't make friends, but for me I feel like that's just a matter of trying. Friends don't have super high standards. As for your A and B scenario, I feel worse for person A. I was assuming friendless was on a tier lower than virgin and therefore also a virgin. If I was friendless and having sexual offers thrown at me left and right then that would be awesome. Then I'd just have to easily get some friends. I'm not even sure how the fuck one goes about getting sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:11 AM
1

You can do a direct comparison when all the leverage women have sexually is stacked against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:07 AM
3

Yes it is an insult. Going through life knowing other guys are better than you and fucking all the women is not going to make you want to be good spirited and help out the society where this is taking place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:04 AM
5

I'm a guy who has no idea what his league is so I just bat at the fucking ceiling. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:01 AM
4

Because it's a humiliating insulting existence and the only way to keep their dignity is by lashing back at the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:00 AM
9

That's like telling poor people to fuck off and go be poor somewhere else. Do you expect them to just sit there and take it? I'm not poor, and I wouldn't expect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:59 AM
16

What's the creepy line? Being ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:49 AM
1

Take all those different groups of people you just named, and tell me that they consistently get laid, and I have no sympathy for them. If they don't get laid though, then they have my sympathy for not only what they went through, but also their celibacy. If it's a man sexually assaulting or abusing another man, then yeah, that sexual assaulter deserves to die. A woman sexually assaulting a man? Oh, poor Chad... too hot for his own good. I do care about men getting all their kids paternity teste…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:46 AM
1

I get it, and I had some bitch at my university get a bullshit no contact order even though I wasn't trying to contact her anyway, which I was about to call out to my whole class just to clear the air about it, but then that got me put on probation because I guess I'm just supposed to shut up and not talk about it. I also lost my virginity to an escort which has all sorts of risks. I've fucked a bunch of fatties, but two girls I fucked were actually decent. One was 4'11" 90 lbs, the other I wasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:35 AM
1

I mean, it is a rather humiliating thing to have happen to you. It's compared to all those bad things because it's like a constant brrrr of existence. Men are really competitive sexually, and to see another man walking away with a woman you like and knowing that they're probably fucking, it really is a bad feeling as a man. The longer you live with sexlessness, the longer you feel like the cuckold of the world unless if you just tune out all women and tune out the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:46 PM
2

Yeah but as a man I can't think of one men's issue that I give a shit about resolving besides that. What issues do you have in mind that we should care about? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:43 PM
4

Nobody gives a shit about Chad getting fucked by his teacher when he was in high school. lol Unless if it was a man taking his bootyhole, then that teacher deserves to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:41 PM
2

No one said that men cant sleep around in their 20s. My guy friend in #1 is doing exactly that. Hell, 2 girls ASKED HIM for a 3some. Do you know where the fuck you are? That's what we're all so desperately trying to accomplish. lmao I guess my only complaint about it is I feel like you're less likely to have autistic kids that end up here if you have kids very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:36 PM
1

It's pussy pilled. I doubt your lives are all that important that you have zero downtime to resort to pussy. The work that you're so invested in not doing is the stuff you're afraid of doing. It's not like it's an accomplishment to not do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:33 PM
1

I'm pretty sure I may be an ectomorph as well. When I was in high school I was like 110. Now I'm at 162 and I've been 170 before. 170 was the highest weight I've ever been. Weight is all about eating more. I'm like you though, I have no idea how people get fat because if I stuff my face too much I start to feel sick. So yeah, stuffing your face is another grind that you have to do if you want to get heavier. You can't be too picky about your muscle definition when you're getting heavier also, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:47 PM
1

Yeah but some MGTOWs have blue pill beliefs that are excuses for them to not try red pill strategies like: "I don't wanna have to dance around like a monkey" or "It's putting pussy on a pedestal to even pursue pussy in any way" or "You have to pay for it one way or another. Every girl is a gold digger and I couldn't possibly get sex for free."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:30 PM
1

I think you should still try lifting heavy. It's fun to be strong, even if you may be doomed facially, and it could potentially help you and maybe you discover that you're not as doomed. The way I see it, even if the black pill is right, you can't just give up and let women win. You at least gotta approach a whole bunch of them just to piss them off if nothing else while you're here. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:32 AM
1

I wouldn't describe it as alpha, but yeah it's pretty rewarding to bring people together to all have fun. The nice thing about that feeling is that it's not really a dominant thing, it's a pure positivity thing. The initiative to organize it though might be alpha. You just have to tread the fine line of being used for that provider-ship which seems harder in a one on one relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:20 AM
2

People say that it's foreigners, but my perception is that a lot of TRP guys are white nerdy dudes. There may be a sprinkle of Indian dudes who want to get with white Stacey but I don't think they are the main ones there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:16 AM
1

I agree and this kind of jives with the whole friendzone concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:12 AM
3

I think some people really make a lot of money off bullshit skills that are actually really easy if people would take the time to learn them. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:12 AM
1

If a woman is stupid and vain as a young adult and becomes less stupid and vain when she’s older, it couldn’t possibly be due to the fact that she matured. My problem with this is, if this is such common knowledge wisdom for women, why don't you teach the hot 19 year olds this? Why do they always have to mature when they're out of high school and college? lmao Okay so here's the simple explanation for what men find to be a positive romantic action: Any action where they are the one getting the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:06 AM
1

Yeah I am starting to see the normie perspective. It's like a light at the end of the tunnel. I've almost reached normie enlightenment. hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:30 AM
2

Hotness is overrated, especially when you're fucking hookers. You gotta pay a premium for that bullshit. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:29 AM
2

Yeah honestly I kind of like the mechanical perspective better. I'd rather actively do something than trust in the universe to deliver it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:28 AM
2

The thing that bothered me was the girls that I finally slept with for free that were halfway attractive to me, I didn't really feel like I did anything special to get with them, so I have no idea what the heck I did. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:49 PM
1

And then suddenly at 18 they stop making those unwise choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:31 PM
5

I still think that there's a certain mystique around sex that people who have it early have. They just think it's something that miraculously comes and goes, while people who lost their virginity later don't trust it to naturally come and go, so they make the process much more mechanical and go for it very directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:17 PM
2

Yeah some people are miraculously gifted with natural opportunities for sex and relationships it seems. I lost my virginity at 19 to an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:14 PM
2

The pro for me of using Snapchat is, assuming that you can't be arsed with making and establishing a proper Instagram account, Snapchat allows you to bullshit boost your snap score and no one will question you about: "Hey why don't you have any followers?" lol So I go on Instagram perusing for Snapchats to slide into.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:09 PM
-1

Why do women all of a sudden want you when you don't need them and aren't single anymore? It's retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:26 PM
2

I keep saying how I can get sex without paying for it, and you keep insisting that I pay for it, so you're crying about something. Now that you've revealed you're a woman, I can tell you that I'm not bothered by what I have to do to get free sex. I assume that's what you're bothered by is that some men see it as this big effort that's not worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:22 PM
2

To some extent, but I don't think Facebook is as popular as Instagram and Snapchat these days. That's besides the point you're making though. It's not just online dating, it's also in real life. A lot of girls have plenty of opportunities coming at them from all angles and don't need to go online for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:18 PM
2

Oh so you're not a man. You're not bitter because you've got nothing to be bitter about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:08 PM
3

How about people in their own life though? I feel like men care more about their immediate tribe while women fall hook line and sinker for all this social justice crap. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:58 PM
2

Yeah but how long did it take you to work for that money to pay the hooker? I bet most times it took longer for you to make that money than for me to fuck the women I've fucked for free. You think I'm coping, but you're kind of coping too. You think that just because you're dealing with a free woman that there's all these problems that have to come up in the way of sex, when really that's not the case at all in some cases. You really wish that women were all gold diggers so that you don't have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:53 PM
2

It feels like my opportunities are more limited now even though I was probably not going to realistically end up with her. I feel the same way. This is also why I take rejection so hard. I'm all like "fuck man! look at that hot fucking ass and body! that's another girl that I won't get to fuck. :("
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:42 PM
2

More generous and empathetic to whom? Those who don't need any generosity because they are gods among men? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:39 PM
3

Fucking a hooker is a totally different experience from fucking a girl you find attractive for free. I've done both. Why pay for it when you can get it for free? Sex isn't even that good that I would pay hookers consistently for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:36 PM
2

Yeah but I think an important caveat that's part of red pill knowledge is that this payment doesn't have to be money. Paying one way or another kind of implies that it could be on a date, or through a hooker. I don't think it effectively represents the message of the red pill which is that you can become close to Chad and fuck women for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:33 PM
3

Maybe a hooker is nice every once in a while, but if you're fucking hookers exclusively, that's a really hopeless strategy. I'd probably rather jerk off than fuck only hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:15 PM
2

Yeah red pill is about bringing a girl right to your house to fuck and not wasting time with all the other bullshit. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:13 PM
4

I feel like the "men pay one way or another" is more of a MGTOW thing for those who deny the red pill and think that women are just gold digging hoes and that being a Chad who fucks women without paying for anything is seen as impossible to them. That's the part of the red pill that those MGTOWs are unable to swallow because they want to be glorified versions of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:11 PM
1

That's actually a blue pill MGTOW belief that they use to justify being sent their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:09 PM
3

May as well just fuck fat chicks for free if you're going the hooker route.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:07 PM
1

Can confirm. The two girls I fucked who weren't megawhales had tattoos. One had a cow calf on her calf muscle, and the other had good vibes tattoo'd on her arm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:23 PM
1

Beautiful women can't really be people to men because us men are in competition over those beautiful women. Part of it is the idea of the "friendzone" which is a concept that arises from us men feeling like cucks if there are other men fucking a beautiful woman we are talking to while we aren't fucking her. So there's a feeling of urgency to fuck the woman in order to assuage feelings of being a cuck. If we fail, we don't really want to stick around and dwell on the fact that you're fucking othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:19 PM
2

Or be skeptical because he might be fucking those women. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:13 PM
1

I don't think all men are like this, but the really attractive men are. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:10 PM
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D. Height I think people tend to associate with people their own height when it comes to same gender relations because of the fact that it's easy to talk to somebody who's face is on the same level as yours. Somebody was just born wealthy? Not respectable. Women just care about the results. For me, the person who receives the money might not be respectable, but respecting the wishes of the person who passed money they worked for down to their family is important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:04 PM
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Okay, so first of all, if there's fundamentally something wrong with me you can't say that's entitlement because I can't work my way out of that. If you think I can work my way up to more attractive women, but me wanting attractive women now is entitlement then yes, I'm working on that. lol People are entitled when they ask for something that other people had to work for. If someone was blessed at birth with a model tier face and someone else was cursed with an ugly face, you can't argue that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:02 AM
2

I think it's like you said, certain life milestones or time periods influence men to start looking for LTRs. I hate the phrase, it's not you it's me, but I think that also applies here. There are certain types of men who are always looking for LTRs. Some men want to make sure they have all their shit together before they get in an LTR. Are you willing to be a dude's fucktoy as long as you're both exclusive and maybe not have as complete of a relationship at the beginning? I think if you let some…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:46 AM
2

I actually find the opposite. Bumble doesn't have as many really hot women to me as Tinder does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:38 AM
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Not really. I felt like it helped me. Within the same week, I got on Tinder, dropped all my ridiculous standards that I had before, and had sex with my first fat chick from Tinder. I fucked a few more fat chicks and one or two more escorts and eventually I fucked this 4'11" 90 lb girl which was a big step up. Then there was this other skinny girl with tattoos that I fucked. I'm hoping that I'll be able to slowly work my way to hotties. lol I had a lot of romantic ideals, but all that kinda faded…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 12:52 AM
2

When I was 19 I had some of the same concerns, but I still went through with it and lost my virginity that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:04 PM
2

Just pay for her time and "advice" and then oh, by coincidence you just so happen to be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:02 PM
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My point is that it's not enough to deter guy apparently. I totally get why women wouldn't like a guy like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:05 PM
1

Maybe it's not a gender thing then. This culture might be an attack on the marriage mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:50 PM
1

I doubt it. He says he doesn't care about that anymore; probably because he's had so much. It's just that he's got some acne and he's really scrawny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:47 PM
1

I doubt he tells women that. The point is that he's this scrawny Asian dude with a little bit of acne who looks dirty a lot of times. Men don't care, but women definitely do. I think his main problem is that he's way too skinny and doesn't see a point in getting strong. When he's gone to the gym with me and I lifted heavy he was all like: "Oh no don't hurt yourself!" He never wants to strain or do anything too physically taxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:43 PM
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I don't give a fuck about 400 lb fat dudes getting hot women is what I'm saying. That's to be expected. Just like I don't give a fuck about 5'3 men getting women because that's an obvious fucked up situation. I'm talking about a normal around 5'10 dude with an average face. I think dating is hard for a lot of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:38 PM
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I feel like women made the first move. In my first relationship, I just wanted to get married to her and be done with relationships. She didn't want that. Then it seemed to me that a lot of women didn't have the same mindset I did, so I engaged in the casual sex scene out of a fear of missing out, and also because of wanting to be on equal footing with women that I have relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:58 AM
1

Well that's true enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:55 AM
1

There are some older dudes who are attractive though right? I'm 22 so this is not an issue for me yet, but I'm trying to keep myself going for as long as I can. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:22 AM
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The debatable part is what the bare minimum guy who can attract a decent looking woman looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:20 AM
1

I think he wasn't worth my time and move on. I don't ever have the audacity to think this. I might be able to let it go and move on, but I never feel like I'm such an amazing guy that it's her loss. I just take the L and move on. Guys just don't wanna be the goody two shoes for a girl who just last night got rammed against her headboard by this 250 lb body builder looking dude. It makes a guy look like a fool when he puts in more effort than this tatted up gang member who used the girl like tras…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:11 AM
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It's not exactly insecurity, because I don't care about the actual superiority of those men, but the literal sexual access they have. So if an attractive woman is having sex with me on a regular basis, no matter how much theoretically better another man is than me, it doesn't matter because I'm the one with the sexual access. It's just about securing the sexual bag so to speak. Like, in a relationship where sex is being held back, I just feel like I'm running in circles waiting for the sex to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:02 AM
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Just an average dude she personally finds cute will do. This is the part that's debatable. What constitutes an average dude? I will concede that any sort of fat dude is not average and is below average, but that's only because I've never been fat and I've always been a relatively fit guy. Is being fit enough do you think to get into this average category?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:56 AM
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It depends on the motive. It's hard to believe that there's not a bigger better man out there who still makes you want quick and lots of sex while you hold it back from us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:53 AM
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I will become part of this statistic for you guys. ;) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:48 AM
1

Thank you brother. I figured, if red pill is right, and this is truly where the tides of relationships are going, why not embrace the role? haha My only hesitation is, I'll just be finishing up my college degree. I'm not sure if I want it to go to waste. On the other hand, being a stay at home dude sounds really really appealing. I'll see how it goes. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:45 AM
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I guess I have a problem where, if a woman doesn't want to have casual sex with me, I have trouble trusting that there's not a bigger better man out there that she would do it with. Maybe it is the case that most women aren't out there having casual sex, but I don't want to be deceived by a woman who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:39 AM
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Well, 40 dudes in a month from Grindr is a little irresponsible in my opinion and kind of nasty, but I don't openly judge him for it. I'm not too bothered by it because nobody I'm interested in romantically is involved in man to man relations. I don't think it's an accomplishment though, so that's something consistent in my perception across both genders. Getting a man to fuck you, whether you're a man or a woman, is a much more simple process than getting a woman to fuck you. So for me it's all…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:36 AM
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Idk tho, I feel like they're more okay with the idea of a woman with a dick than other women. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:05 AM
13

I'm a straight dude and I seem to attract bi women. I think they're a little less picky on the manly man personality since they like both men and women. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:51 AM
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Dating a guy is like having a teammate, dating a woman like having a child that can, but won't!!! I'm a straight man, but this is one of my major complaints about women. I never feel like they're on the same team as me. It always feels like a chess match where one person has to out-con the other. I have a bisexual friend. He has the same experience. In one month he hooked up with like 40 dudes from Grindr and yet he's never been with a woman in his life; not for lack of trying. I see why tbh, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:51 AM
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Even if that was the case that doesn't mean I'd take it in the ass before fucking a middle aged woman. The idea is that if you end up a 30-35 year old single mother, men probably aren't going to want a relationship with you. There will always be demand to fuck women of all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:47 AM
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Why are you making it sound like being gay for pay is the equivalent? Are middle aged dudes really as bad to women? Maybe you do have to make that equivalent because I'd totally fuck a milf for cash. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:42 AM
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Young girls don’t want to be pretending to be sexually interested in middle aged men any more than young straight boys want to pretend to be interested in middle aged men. Yeah, but I'd fuck a milf or grandma though. I'd hope that a middle aged man isn't as unattractive to women as a gay dude is to me. I'm a 22 year old man so that's not a problem for me right now though. If you ask girls and boys “what would you do if you woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex” girls generally respond with disapp…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:37 AM
1

Will attractive strong alphas just live off the woman or women they attract? This is actually what I've concluded ima try to do. lol I've actually got a few takers online dating while looking for women slightly older who are open to me being a stay at home dude. I'm kinda shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:09 AM
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Do you think that uncircumcised men do better with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:08 AM
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Most people don't think that deeply about stuff like that. It's like going to school, getting married, and having a family and a house with a white picket fence. Circumcision is just one of those things that people blindly accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:08 AM
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But whenever people talk about personality being able to overcome looks, what else are they talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:22 AM
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Yeah. That's 100% the motivation to embrace some semblance of masculinity for me. Otherwise I'd just play video games all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:20 AM
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While those traits can be good under certain circumstances Yeah you want us to somehow be able to fuck you like a man but then just not have any sort of drive to wanna fuck somebody up when they cross us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:18 AM
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If you're sending machines to fight each other, why even have a war? It seems like to make sense there's gotta be some stakes or loss of life going on. Who gives a fuck how many robots die? We'll just make more until we defeat your robots! Eventually somebody's gotta get killed and lives have to be at stake or the wars don't matter. I don't know why you'd ever want a society full of weak men. What if technology collapses or some Attila the Hun comes along to try to take our shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:16 AM
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Wow, that's one way to make someone happy with a nice medium level of testosterone. Don't want to have too much and turn gay. lol I've never had mine tested but I assume I'm alright. I'm 22 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:09 AM
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I guess the issue comes back to the fact that it's impossible to prove one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:50 AM
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Because the fundamental drive they put into us to improve is insecurity. There will always be someone better out there. It's not a happy realization of improvement that they bless us with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:49 AM
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Why don't you go on a date with one of these guys you "care" about and tell them about all the times you just fucked men right away, but how you care so much about him that you're not going to fuck him right away and see how that goes over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:47 AM
1

That's a really demoralizing strategy to realize for the guy she "cares" about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:39 AM
1

I beat the lifetime sexual count now, but I don't think I have the sex count beat because it's all been one night stands. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:36 AM
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I feel like what you're looking for is some level of muscle if it's not a starved prisoner of war look. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:41 AM
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Maybe. I suppose my motivation for becoming filthy rich quickly is to just be able to fund the rest of my life and retire and not have a worry in the world. I recognize that women are all the town bicycle these days, but I also think that as I get older into my 20s I may have lots of opportunities to interact with different generations of 18-22 year old women. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:18 AM
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I appreciate the dark hair part that seems to be a common trend among women as someone with dark hair. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:12 AM
1

So like six pack still and 5% body fat? hehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:08 AM
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I think men will find new motivations though and still prop up society to support themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:01 AM
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You don't have to be reduced to a sex doll, just have mutually fulfilling sex with us if we're a guy you care about. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:55 PM
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My understanding was that not being shallow meant you were more inclusive, not less. I'm not sure where women get this idea that when you become less shallow you actually NARROW your pool of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:52 PM
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It's a pitch to men about why to pursue casual sex these days. Most men don't want high n-count sluts who give you the time of day only when it's time to settle down, so if you tell men that most women are like that these days and there's no point in fighting it, the logical thing to do is to pursue casual sex rather than romantic relationships. It creates the vision that anyone in a relationship is a sucker, and people who have casual sex are seeing the true side of women. The truth is that a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:48 PM
2

I hate the misinformation around this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:41 PM
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This is what bothers me about girls like that. That's exactly how I interpret it when I see stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:36 PM
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80% of girls your age are not having casual sex hahahahahahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:30 PM
1

So I started out sleeping with extremely obese girls because I felt like it was all I could get, but recently I've actually gotten with a couple of attractive girls. The point is that the sentiment of "stay in your lane" is such a quitter attitude. You should never give up your goal. However, I am really happy when I have a girl that's not necessarily a model, but skinny, interested in me. As long as she's not obese like my first few hookups, it's a step up. I don't think people should stop tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:11 PM
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I bet it's easy for you to say "that is your lot in life". I'm just frustrated that salad finger made a comment just to say: "Haha you're fucked loser. There's nothing you can do to become more attractive." That kind of stuff doesn't make you want to give up and take it. That kind of stuff makes you want to take whatever you want by whatever means necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:50 PM
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I actually think the two theories can be reconciled. Ultimately RP teaches you to approach more. RP doesn't have any method that works 100% of the time. There is an element of luck to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:26 PM
1

If you want easy sex with attractive women be more attractive. People complaining about not being handed stuff they have no right to is laughable. So basically you're saying just take it like a little bitch and there's nothing you can do to improve yourself to become more attractive? If attractive people hate you, why wouldn't you just keep trying to manipulate them? There's no reason to just sit back and accept it and be a complete cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:10 PM
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What direction should one try to go with their personality to try to make it better? That's something I don't understand. I don't think: "Just stop hating women mayyynee" is enough. Are you just talking being a normal dude with a normal personality, or are you talking about being irresistibly charismatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:03 PM
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And they'd argue that you're using it for comfort by creating a just-world fallacy that attractiveness is all based on personality, that you can work on. The only type of social situation I stress over is interactions with women because I know they're looking for something different and allow different social norms than my guy friends. Watching Tiger King though, I think there might be some merit to the personality argument. lmao I still don't think every dude with a girlfriend is some cult of p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:58 PM
1

I mean, it's not like I'm unfit. My face must just be shit. I bang the fatties, and on one rare occasion I did bang a girl who was kinda hot from Tinder. I totally accept that fatties are the easiest to get for me, as they are for everybody, but that doesn't mean I'll "stay in my lane" and never try to push the boundaries of what I'm capable of looks-wise. If you never push your boundaries you never get better. I've had sex with two girls who were of normal weight; one 4'11 girl who was 90 lbs, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:50 PM
1

I'm just arguing with these guys who are all like: "Everybody has different tastessss maaaaaaaan! Some hot women love average guys!!!!!" We agree, and I'm totally exploiting my hot dude account for a chance to take their snapchat and shoot my shot with these girls but yeah, these people think that if I just display the right personality that I can magically get a hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:44 PM
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If merit has nothing to do with being attractive, then how can they "be more attractive" then? You implied it like there was actually some merit for earning the right to hot pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:40 PM
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The argument I'd have with that statement is how merit based do you actually think the stuff women are attracted to is? You can say someone has no "right" to it, but how many guys actually earned their place in that regard rather than were just born with the right stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:25 AM
1

(1) it means that their personalities are responsible for their dating woes That's not that unbearable because it actually gives hope that there's a way out of their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:21 AM
1

If you're getting with hot girls consistently I don't think you're average. I think there's a happy medium level. Most guys can get laid if they go for fat chicks, but they all want the hottest chicks, and most guys can't get laid by them. You're on the other end of the incel extreme though where you think average guys can get hot chicks. You never know who's banging who.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:19 AM
1

Here's an interesting idea for you. Make a Tinder account and post pictures of a male model. Take all the matches the male model gets, and say: "Hey" when they respond with "Hey" back, ask for their snapchat. If they say something more than "Hey", give them a good response and then turn it around to, "do you have snapchat?" Once you have a bunch of hot girls' snapchats, add them all, and shoot your shot with them. Try not to add them too quickly. You don't want them to think you're the model. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:13 AM
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Considering my history with fatties, skinny of any kind whether fat or flat ass, is a plus to me so I don't understand this standard. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:55 AM
1

Yeah acne sucks man. I've still got it. Not as bad as high school, but I feel like it might be one of the things that brought me here in the first place that I don't often think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:54 AM
2

See, I've acclimated to fucking anything with a pulse so I don't know how you guys "don't get your dick up" for girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:48 AM
2

It's the navel gazing that people don't like. They also don't want to be on the receiving end of the anger they felt should be given to their abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:30 AM
0

I feel like fat chicks still struggle with relationships though. Everyone fucks em from time to time. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:26 AM
1

That was more a sarcastic comment. I think I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:25 AM
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No I mean, I never swipe right on black women, but I have Tinder gold so I can see who swipes right on me. Most of the swipes that I don't take are black women. Hot white women rarely if ever swipe right on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:00 PM
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Yes I bet they did. And they could feel the personality oozing out of my hot model account.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 09:40 PM
1

Ok, but kind of wishing someone was dead who wronged you is normal right? I agree that wanting innocent people dead is weird, I just don't think most guys who struggle with women are weird in that way. Talk to men with sisters, they can tell you "No. Wanting to fuck your sister is gross and something only inbred hillbillies do. Yeah I get it, it's the same thing with how wanting to f your own mom is weird. Stepsister though? hmmmmmm. lol Yeah, ultimately I don't think incels are weird in that wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 09:38 PM
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I don't have a sister so I'm not sure of the dynamic of that, but that doesn't sound as bad as the massacre part and if his sister is hot I can't see why that's something that needs to be solved. lol I'm just saying as you get closer and closer to normal, there's no final destination where you finally say: "Oh, I'm completely sane and normal." There's always something you can nitpick about your mind if you look for it. I think the key to mental health is to stop looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 07:03 PM
1

I think the kind of empathy is important. Like, you should have enough empathy to try to hook the guy up with a friend of yours. If you feel like "ew, I wouldn't let you hit on my friend", then you're not being empathetic in the way that guy needs and you're not really on that guy's team.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:59 PM
1

Yeah the kind of empathy/sympathy I'm looking for during a dry spell is for the girl to hook me up with a friend of hers. Except, you can tell when they don't want to do that, that they're actually on team women and don't want the creepy guy hitting up any of their friends. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:57 PM
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No, Tinder legitimately consists of 80% men because men are more desperate for sex. Women already have the sex lined up on Snapchat and Instagram and things like that. You're partially right. It's not because of the stigma, it's just that most online dating sites naturally draw in desperate people. A lot of women don't need anymore guys lined up than they already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:55 PM
1

Mental illness isn't concrete. There's no objective right, healthy state of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:50 PM
1

He mirrored the SJW thought on purpose to make his argument more effective to that crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:48 PM
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I think the problem with seeking empathy for sexual problems from women is that it just rubs salt in the wound. They have no idea, and they'll never have any idea what that's like. They think if only you just tried a little harder that you'd have girls trying to fuck you left and right because that's how it is for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:41 PM
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Honestly, a sexless guy can't really deal with women because any interaction with them is just rubbing salt in the wound. You may think: "Oh but women are people too so why can't he just put that aside?" I'd say that the sheer abundance of sex women are capable of conjuring makes that impossible. It's not a misogyny thing. It's just that women are on a totally different page than you, especially in a conversation like that. Also the way they see life as a result of their abundance of sex is so d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:39 PM
1

Yeah and we need free money too as well as housing and food and a big pool and entertainment system, but that's not gonna happen. If you need more money, there are pathways to do so through working for it, and keeping money and merit correlated is what keeps the money valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:30 PM
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Depends on what aspects of TRP you're talking about. Already most music that people listen to these days talk about fucking some other dude's bitch and general disrespect for women. Even women listen to that rap crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:20 PM
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I think a lot of it is more mainstream than we may think. Eventually those dark recesses of the internet draws everybody in, and it becomes the new norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:19 PM
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That's where a lot of my matches come from though. I don't assume that black women are unattractive, I just look at a black woman and I feel nothing. Black women just seem like neutral human beings to me. When I look at hot white women they make me wanna mmmmm do something to them. It's not something that I can control and I don't think I can change my mind about it. Even black women where I can rationally say that they should be conventionally beautiful to me, I just can't feel anything for rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:15 PM
1

Patients who were perfectly fit and healthy, in the prime of their life, are dying painfully. They say this, but are there any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:55 PM
1

I bet you 1 million imaginary dollars that there won't be 1 million deaths worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:54 PM
1

Me personally, I will solve it by becoming rich and having a big harem of women to have a bunch of kids with. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:50 PM
1

When this is all over America will eventually get back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:49 PM
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Eh, it's hard to believe that just doing that will fix things. I feel like it's my face. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:27 PM
1

Newsflash - a big amount of the women who liked your male model account are also black, fat, or otherwise unattractive to you. You just focus on the handful of attractive ones. That's also the case in the vast, vast majority of "chadfishing" experiments. The girls who incels are mocking aren't that attractive! Yeah but we're talking 99% of women being unattractive on my regular account and then like maybe 25% at most of the model guy's account. What is your profile like? Mine is nothing special,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:15 PM
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I don't think it's even about mimicking the asshole. It's just that sex for men is a hard grueling process that women just see as a romantic thing full of "chemistry" that just happens. As a man you see many of your brothers failing at romancing women and you can't help but feel a little disdain when you finally get the success you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:57 PM
1

I do believe that men can do this, but surprisingly, I've gotten the opposite treatment from women. I've had one night stands where I'd like to have sex with that woman multiple times or become more serious, but they just ghosted after. I think we disagree on our view of sex though, and maybe a lot of men see it in the same way. I don't see sex as "deeply intimate and physically connected" I see it as animalistic and primal. With the amount of effort I've put in trying to get it, I can't see it …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:54 PM
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