ebuchanan712 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Eww	ebuchanan712	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/18 11:35 AM
3	Silence.	ebuchanan712	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/18 09:05 PM
3	The waiting, the unknown, the weekend.	ebuchanan712	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/18 12:06 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How do you move on? I've been there, very recently...you know, you will never get all the real answers. It sucks, it messes with you head. But all the advice you see on here, like eat healthy, join a gym, seek professional help. ITs ALL TRUE. I'm only 1 month in and we are signing uncontested divorce papers just to get it done. In my situation, its totally obvious she realizes she made a mistake. But she wont do anything about it....her loss. Dont worry about the other guy. You should know if they are preying on ma…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/18 12:00 PM
1	Eww This is great advice. It's just sadness...mostly because of her. But I'm learning and understanding...doesn't matter what her deal is....she lost. I'm the catch. I feel better about myself but like you said it's just pocket...but imma keep doing me	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/18 04:40 AM
1	Eww It is. For example my STBXW told me yesterday she filed the divorce. It's on been 10 days since she said the word to me for the first. Almost as traumatic as 10 days ago. So I know I'm not going to sleep due the stress and anxiety of it all. I drink, take a few pills, relax. My body is exhausted. I know I can sleep now. I only expect 4-5 hours. And boom! 4am I am back awake. It takes even less for me go through it all in my head like a movie on fast forward. Little by little it going faster, rel…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/18 10:52 AM
2	Eww It does get better. Focus on yourself. That's all we have control of..	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/18 11:35 PM
3	Silence. This is where I'm blurred on my rights vs what's best right now. I left to clear my head, went to stay with my brother. I told her I wanted to come back, she declined. I do not own the house. Her and her mother does. So I'm not even for sure if I have any right to be there. Tbh, I'm not even going to attempt to get anything out of this. I know I have to support my children.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/18 10:50 PM
2	The waiting, the unknown, the weekend. I appreciate that. Reddit has been a big part of my support team. I am so impatient. It's very hard. We live in a small town so the reminders are everywhere. Maybe it will remind her of where we was in the marriage and the strong couple we used to be.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/18 02:04 PM
1	The waiting, the unknown, the weekend. I appreciate the advice. I've been divorced before. She hasn't turned evil or vindictive yet. Were pretty civil. Just struggling with notion that she may never want to come to table and discuss it. I just want peace. I want her to be herself again even if it costs the marriage. That's the woman I want raising my children.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/18 02:02 PM