How has any of you coped, with the idea of giving space, and time? I'm trying but there is so much in the short term to take care of, it's only been a few weeks, it feels like one long day. I try not to bother, but there is still stuff. She is packing the rest of my belongings now. That is only because she wont let me back in the house to stay. We are both not being mean spirited about anything. But both hurt. And from what others have told me. She looks like hell lately, it's taken a toll on her. She is the one that wants the divorce. It's so difficult to want to be there for her. I do offer, if she wants to talk, I'm here. If she needs time to get away and wants me to take care of our kids, I'm here. But it seems if she is being stubborn to almost punish herself to the point of illness. Not really for sure if there is anything I can do.