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eddkov/r/seduction25/11/12 07:12 PM
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that can work too, its just another way to make a joke by leaning into it. ultimately you just want to turn it into making someone laugh
/r/seduction25/11/21 04:21 AM
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Not if you lean into it. Being petty over a joke and making it into a pissing contest makes you look very small, if you instead lean into the joke and show that it doesn't bother you, then you come out of it looking like the bigger person.
/r/seduction19/11/21 06:45 AM
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Never ever ever ever ever ever mention it, unless it somehow comes up, if you bring it up there might be some interest but honestly it shows your insecurity, your relying on the name of your college to attract a girl, not yourself.
/r/seduction22/07/13 06:32 AM
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I think what you need to do is not be less cocky, but less braggy. I really like the quote "Climb a mountain, tell no one", you can act as if you climbed a mountain but unless someone asks you, you should never brag about anything. Remember this, the one thing everyone wishes they could talk about all the time is themselves and how awesome they are, so let people do it, be impressed by them, be amazed, make them feel special, dont try to one up them, because thats what everyone else would do, al…
/r/seduction22/07/13 06:28 AM
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"Why?" This question should be your best friend. I dont mean you should just blurt out "WHY!!!!" at random intervals but asking why moves the conversation along and creates a deeper relationship. Heres an example, "What are you studying" "Nursing" "I know so many people that are are studying to be nurses, why are you, whats so attractive about it, do you just like helping people?" example seems kinda stiff, but you get the idea.
/r/seduction21/07/13 09:31 AM
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Congrats, if you arent doing it already start teasing them, nothing rude but some light teasing and a slightly dickish attitude while smiling and joking around has been working very well for me.
/r/seduction21/07/13 07:07 AM
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Your title is a bit confusing but If i understand it correctly you are asking why the advice of female relationship gurus is often bad. I think the reason those blogs are awful stems from many things, women dont know what they actually want, they want you to do what they think would work on them, and they have trouble being honest with themselves and especially everyone else, even over the Internet. I used to be subbed to /r/askwomen because I thought it would be interesting, and after being the…
/r/seduction21/07/13 07:03 AM
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Don't think so much, is the first thing I would say Dont use openers based on location but create openers in the moment, it might sound hard but its not. I dont like the example or an approach that you have because its stiff and canned and you ask for the number right away, you also call her cute and it seems, rightfully so, that you only talk to her because she is cute. I find its better to make up a situational opener or just say hi and then talk to her for a while because what if I'm not inte…
/r/seduction20/07/13 09:41 AM
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I dont view seduction as a conquest or a victory, because its what both of you want. She wants to be seduced, she wants to meet someone interesting and funny, someone confident and fun, someone who listens and is involved but but doesnt get too attached. Unfortunately society is such a way that its hard for women to find those guys, and its also hard for guys like that to exist. I dont look at shit tests and all the rest as adversarial things, I look at them as verifications, its the security qu…
/r/seduction20/07/13 09:10 AM
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Openers dont matter, just say "Excuse me, I'm just gonna stand here and hit on you while my coffee gets made"
/r/seduction25/03/13 05:02 AM
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Absolutely, and the author touches on this same thing, he writes about how everything is subjective and it only led him down certain avenues, the evidence wasn't the body language, bady language is just a hint.
/r/seduction22/03/13 06:58 PM
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Read the book "What EveryBODY is saying", after you learn to read body language your whole life will get better
/r/seduction22/03/13 03:20 PM
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Wow I never realized I was being aloof all this time, it comes really easily to me. If it helps anyone, i have this mentality of being more of a sincere sarcastic smartass, say something completely sarcastic and smartassey , in a sincere manner, so that if you were listening to just the tone of my voice you wouldnt be able to tell its a joke.
/r/seduction21/03/13 06:45 PM
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Always Assume Attraction, but it you are really interested in it, you could ready "What EveryBODY is saying" it will teach you about body language and what it means
/r/seduction24/02/13 02:38 AM
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Say hi to every person you pass by in the street, go to a bar or a club and just talk about what happening at that moment, if your into sports a sports bar is a great place, ex. "Who are you rooting for?". You can meet new people no matter where you are or what you are doing, you just need to put in the effort, and if you find someone you are clicking with, make sure to get their number. Remember don't wait to get introduced, introduce yourself.
/r/seduction24/02/13 02:35 AM
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You were not shot down in flames, no, you were crowned in victory, you accomplished the hardest part, conquering yourself. Nothing happens overnight and you just completed the most important part, the first step. It wasn't that bad was it, you made it through, and next time, whether its this girl or another, you will better, and you will become better with every conversation, with every person, and with every day, so good luck, although you probably dont need it.
/r/seduction23/02/13 06:52 AM
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I wanna add on to this that you should only compliment girls on things that they put effort into, clothes, hair shoes, something that she must have worked on. These have a lot more weight because you are not only complimenting her appearance, but you are validating all her time and effort. Its also important to note that a lot of pua's dont compliment girls at all, or at most very rarely.
/r/seduction23/02/13 06:48 AM
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Simple, treat her as if you've known her for 10 years. Dont try to interview her or anything just talk about whats happening and create moments. Most of all be comfortable around her and she will be comfortable around you.
/r/seduction17/02/13 08:35 AM
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I assume that was the smallest requirement for DHV, you were just a handyman or a janitor going around fixing everyone elses problems, that doesnt show DHV. DHV isnt fixing other people's problems, its showing that you are someone, to really show DHV you should have introduced yourself to everyone and made them all laugh, you should have become the life of the party, instead you were the guy who opened the window. Yes you shouldnt give girls things for free, but was that it, did you just ask her…
/r/seduction17/02/13 08:32 AM
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absolutely, also getting her number shows that you have the confidence to ask for it instead of just slipping it to her in some way with no real risk
/r/seduction17/02/13 08:19 AM
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AAA, always assume attraction, I understand that you are using seddit in order to find the girl of your dreams, but being well-read is different from being experienced, and as far as I can tell you arent experienced, you say that you are obsessing over the next move, but seduction isnt an 'operation' where you strategically plan each move and then execute it, seduction is just doing whatever feels right, its going with the flow and pushing the envelope, as a man I have to tell you that postponin…
/r/seduction17/02/13 07:28 AM
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Thats not a good idea, when you give her your number your being passive, not confident, your saying 'I cant handle making decisions so instead I'm gonna go wait over here while you make up your mind on whether or not I'm good enough for you.' When you get her number, if she will flake then she will flake, nothing will change that, but if a girl is into you she will be waiting for the call or text and when it comes she will feel happy and joyful that her feeling are being returned and her wait an…
/r/seduction17/02/13 07:16 AM
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better opener for tattoos in my opinion, "No Way, I have that same exact tattoo on my ass, only instead of an eagle its a unicorn" lame example but you get the point, make it a joke, and if she says to see it, show her your ass and then say the ink must've worn out, or some sort of bullshit. If she doesnt ask to see it then just make it sound more and more ridiculous, there's life size representation of Joseph Stalin's dick mounted on the horn of a narwhal being ridden by Abraham Lincoln
/r/seduction17/02/13 07:11 AM
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Personally I advise against complimenting, you dont really gain that much from it, and a girl would rather have a guy who listens to her and seems interested in her, and is someone who she enjoys being with, than a guy who can throw out a decent compliment every once in a while. But if you insist on complimenting, compliment her on something that she obviously put effort or thought into, her hair, her clothes, her tattoo, things that she specifically works on so that they are noticed.
/r/seduction17/02/13 07:09 AM
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Go do guy things that you are interested it, go to a sports bar, go to a car meetup, just find an event with something you are interested in and then just relay facts, information, and BS stories. Oops almost forgot the crude jokes, never forget the crude jokes
/r/seduction16/02/13 10:51 AM
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Because I said so.
/r/seduction16/02/13 10:49 AM
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Confidence, confidence, confidence, if you were truly confident then you wouldnt be on a website looking for confirmation. This isnt an insult or anything, I'm simply telling you where you are starting out. You can improve your confidence and when you do the situation will most definitely change. First thing is to stop jacking off and to start working out, you will be amazed at the changes that happen in your life just from those two things.
/r/seduction16/02/13 10:45 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/BbJ7APK.jpg I saw this on /r/GetMotivated which everyone should check out in case you need a little extra motivation REDDIT LINK http://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/18e7jm/inaction_breeds_doubt_and_fear/
/r/seduction13/02/13 05:28 AM
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slightly is what I'm going for, its kind of how when you first learn snowboarding, you need to learn how to properly fall, because your gonna be doing it a lot
/r/seduction10/02/13 07:07 PM
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your just scared of rejection, the reason you should approach a woman with the intention of getting shutdown is because there is no more fear of possible rejection because you know for sure that you will definetly be rejected.
/r/seduction10/02/13 06:00 PM
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Hi I'm creepy and wierd, and then just stare at her with a blank look on your face, have fun with it, enjoy yourself and make it a game
/r/seduction09/02/13 11:08 PM
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I think you should be trying to get rejected, the purpose when you go out is to just get over your AA, thats it, and if you are still hoping to somehow be magically smooth and turn it around and get her to fall in love with you, you will start over thinking things and it will end badly. Just approach and try to get rejected, but have fun with it, try to say random stupid and offensive things and see what different kinds of reactions you get, dont take anything personally. Remember the goal is to…
/r/seduction09/02/13 10:35 PM
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Go get rejected 20 times
/r/seduction09/02/13 10:13 PM
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because women want more than a pretty face, and you have the more.
/r/seduction06/02/13 06:10 AM
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I know the best way to fix all this is to talk to a shitload of girls it seems like you already know what you need to do, just talk to girls, and be calm and comfortable. You mentioned that you are used to girls finding you attractive, well just act as if she has already found you attractive, act as if you dont even need to try.
/r/seduction02/02/13 04:35 AM
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True, you should be able to say it without being nervous, unfortunately just because you should be able to do it doesnt mean that you will be able to do it. Just go up and be awkward and weird and creepy, dont worry about whether or not you have a shot, just do it. The first time might be a little painful, but it wont be as bad as you expect, the second time will go a lot better, and then eventually you wont have any problem. Just do it bro.
/r/seduction02/02/13 04:15 AM
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Always Assume Attraction, but honestly if she could see this post she might think that you are brain dead. Lets go over the facts, she initiated dancing with you, she proceeded to 'rape' you on the dance floor, she agreed to go to a concert with you, and she invited herself over to your house so the two of you could be alone. If you screw this up, you have to retire your penis. NO NEGOTIATIONS
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:52 AM
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Forget about her, if she is cold to you then her decision has already been made, unless the two of you decided to be exclusive or dating you are free to do as you please. Also if she sees that she isnt the only option in your life, you might get your fairy tale after all
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:48 AM
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Thats okay, I can fix that.
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:42 AM
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you dont need to tell her shes cute, in fact many times it will be hurt you more than help you. If this girl is cute, then she knows that she is cute, she sees it when she wakes up in the morning and goes to bed at night, her friends all tell her that shes "omg so pretty", and whenever shes at a party some guy will inevitably hit on her. Calling her cute doesnt help you because it doesnt make you any different from any other guy out there, and it doesnt feel like a compliment to her because you …
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:38 AM
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Absolutely correct, unfortunately much of reddit and the world still view /r/seduction as a smoky den for men who prey on drunk chicks
/r/seduction31/01/13 11:46 PM
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just invite her to hang out but tell her to meet you at the docks, or pick her up and drive her there but dont tell her where the two of you are going, just keep it fun and the boat could definitely be a surprise.
/r/seduction23/01/13 10:31 PM
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One thing you should have done was get their numbers and hang out later
/r/seduction23/01/13 10:28 PM
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just ask her to hang out with you sometime, be casual, and dont try so hard, its not the end of the world if she says no, there will be other women
/r/seduction23/01/13 12:53 PM
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just walk up say hi and tell her about your std's, getting shut down isnt the hard part bro lol. Also when she begins making excuses or trying to leave you should let her leave, dont be a rapist.
/r/seduction22/01/13 03:16 AM
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approaching women at the gym isnt taboo, its hard to do. You did it the right way, you worked out, you showed her that your not there to just hit on any girl you see. Then you waited for her to finish her workout and you approached with your own yoga mat and sat down, you didnt do what most guys would do which is just stand over her. Then you motioned for her to take out her headphones, this is important because most women are there to work out and blatantly interrupting a woman who feels sweaty…
/r/seduction21/01/13 09:50 AM
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"Thanks, they really come in handy at my job" pun intended "Oh, where do you work" "I'm a hand model for women's jewelry" just agree and amplify bro
/r/seduction21/01/13 07:12 AM
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i think what you need to do is to throw out the script. You think that these interactions are going to go exactly as you plan them to and you react to anything you are not expecting. I have news for you, no script will ever work. When you approach you have to be calm, fun, and spontaneous and thats not going to happen with a script, dont try to 'go to plan', instead of slowly kinoing her until you eventually kiss her, just introduce yourself and then go in for the kiss, just do or say whatever c…
/r/seduction21/01/13 01:49 AM
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well could you be a bit more specific about it, when do things begin to go wring for you and how does it go, just be a bit specific
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:26 AM
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stop worrying about getting girls, go get some hobbies, find some things to do that you love to do, just relax. Getting a girl wont get you a good life, having a good life will get you a girl
/r/seduction20/01/13 11:36 PM
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just go and try to get rejected, go up with the sole purpose of showing a girl youre attracted and try to get rejected by her. I dont think you understand, go up to a girl with no expectation that maybe you can turn this around and you two will have a bright and happy future together, no, you will go up to her and get completely shut down. After you get rejected you will realize that the super scary thing that you wanted to avoid is not that bad and you can then move forward in seduction
/r/seduction20/01/13 09:30 PM
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Women aren't like men, they aren't always looking for guys, if she looked at every guy she found attractive while walking on the street she would probably be overrun with guys who think they have a chance, as a result girls tend to keep to themselves in certain situations where they just arent interested. This doesn't mean that you cant approach them, as day game still applies, but dont expect a ton of attention just for having the balls to be within eye sight of them. One thing that has worked …
/r/seduction14/01/13 06:50 PM
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Absolutely, also these are not the only two possible view points, eveyone should make their own decisions based on their own beliefs and experiences, but I'm sure we both hope we have somehow positively influenced the view points of at least a few people
/r/seduction13/01/13 01:58 AM
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I agree with you, but I maintain my stance on respect, no one is entitled to respect, you get respect when you meet someone based on how you met the individual as well as how the meeting went, meeting someone at a yacht club will mean that person had earned more of your respect than someone who you met at mcdonalds other than that you gain or earn respect based on your intersections from that point on and you can either earn it, take it (more aggressive form of earning), or lose it. but of cours…
/r/seduction12/01/13 10:02 AM
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ask a female friend, she might be able to either do it herself or recommend someone
/r/seduction12/01/13 03:12 AM
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change your mentality, if you think its awkward, it will be awkward, if you think its an opportunity to grow beyond yourself and have fun, then thats what will happen
/r/seduction12/01/13 02:18 AM
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agree and amplify, if someone makes fun of you agree and add on to it, the more alpha guy is the one who is not bothered by anything, also it might help if you change your attitude, you dont 'deserve' any respect, respect is either earned, lost, or taken, no one gives it to you
/r/seduction12/01/13 02:17 AM
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you could be failing at the conversation stage, are you boring, do you interview her, do you get caught up in her shit tests, there could be a lot of things
/r/seduction12/01/13 02:14 AM
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There are already a couple good ideas here, but another way to improve self confidence is to stop caring what others say or do and just do what you want, cut loose be yourself, and when you realize that people will like you more for it, your confidence in yourself will rise
/r/seduction12/01/13 02:04 AM
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if you two are talking your already doing something right just relax and stop worrying about having someone else give you validation, instead show her validation but being confident and comfortable around her, show her that you know how to talk to beautiful women because you do it all the time.
/r/seduction10/01/13 12:15 PM
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Short answer, no being an emotional guy is not a good thing. Slightly longer answer, girls have support systems already in place to help her deal with her problems, friends and family generally, she doesn't want advice from you, when she can get it from people she trusts more, also she doesn't want you to be more emotional than her, that is not attractive, she wants a guy who is stable and knows how to deal with things, being emotional comes off as needy. In general, the most you should do is li…
/r/seduction08/01/13 04:13 PM
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For a girl I would say she needs to be well dressed and made up a bit, honestly she probably knows this already, she just needs to smile, have fun, and enjoy herself, people want to be with people who are having fun, also she should approach other guys, most guys find girls who approach them very attractive because they are seen as confident. Thats the gist although i think there might be more for her in /r/fPUA
/r/seduction31/12/12 02:44 PM
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great post, but I dont know about never looking away first, its better to hold it for a second and make it know that you see her, and your not looking away just because she caught you looking, but feel free to look away after that
/r/seduction29/12/12 05:13 AM
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I might have thought of an easier way. If you happen to have a friend who is at least slightly outgoing you could ask him to approach someone, doesnt have to be a girl, and he can then introduce you into the conversation, you wouldnt need to say anything, but at least shake the persons hand and watch and learn how conversations progress, then after a couple times you could say Hi to the person, after that make a comment, and keep on progressing until you approach and introduce your friend to the…
/r/seduction28/12/12 02:06 AM
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you could start by just talking to a stranger, maybe a guy or maybe an old woman or something, and just make conversation with them in a public place, learn to talk to people and you might be able to slowly overcome your anxiety, I honestly dont know much about this but if you dont feel ready, then dont rush anything, just learn to talk to people
/r/seduction28/12/12 01:37 AM
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Theres no shortcut or trick or anything special you can do or that someone can tell you, just say Hi, and talk to her like you would a friend of yours, dont worry about it progressing anywhere past a conversation, just talk, thats it. If you cant do that then just try to say Hi, it doesnt matter if you cant say anything after that, and she finds you weird and creepy, she will never see you again, and you will never see her again, nothing bad has come of it. Women dont want to be seen as wierd an…
/r/seduction28/12/12 12:00 AM
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do you put the girls you are interested in on a pedestal, do you treat them differently and believe that she is special and make her into more than she is
/r/seduction27/12/12 11:46 PM
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I dont think that op is criticizing video games or anything like that, what op is criticizing is the guy who has makes the decision to focus his life on video games and tv shows, and refuses to improve himself, all while blaming women for the fact that he cant get a girlfriend. The reason this comment is so upvoted isnt because people are against gamers, or TV but its because the people who frequent this subreddit have been people who chose video games over improving themselves, and they underst…
/r/seduction27/12/12 11:09 PM
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you seem confused, the reason pua's get all the action is because they have a lot of other meaningful things going on in there lives, the purpose of /r/seduction is to become confident, to become interesting, to become better in every way that you can so that instead of chasing after women, women chase after you because you made yourself into the kind of person they want to be with. Also Op isnt saying that no matter what the puas get 80 girls while leaving the nice girls for the rest of the guy…
/r/seduction27/12/12 12:23 PM
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just go have fun, you're with two friends, just enjoy yourself, dont worry about anything else, if a girl seems into you then dont think about it, just go for it, just try to have fun no matter what you are doing
/r/seduction26/12/12 03:38 AM
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theres a lot of stuff written on this in the sidebar, check it out
/r/seduction21/12/12 07:25 AM
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dont forget duct tape and nail clippings
/r/seduction21/12/12 01:21 AM
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sorry bro Nadine or whatever her name is, doesnt seem interested, all her texts were one word replies or close to it, in my opinion she will flake out, also the catch her and kill her line was pretty weird. With Christina you just escalated to much and creeped her out, you should have built up attraction with her in your classes first, and just invited her for a coffee or drink or something, not go right to complimenting her ass which is what only creepy guys do. In general dont spend so much ti…
/r/seduction21/12/12 01:17 AM
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you dont need to increase size in your legs/waist, just go for reps with just your body weight, it will still work your legs (the largest muscle group in your body) which will up your metabolism, and make your legs more defined
/r/seduction19/12/12 05:35 AM
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a full workout doesnt take much more time than a normal one, a full workout fully utilizes rest days and off days in order to rest certain parts of your body while working others, so a full workout is more of a planned workout i suppose. A full workout should work your entire body basically. Theres a lot of info out there but basically when you workout your muscles need time to rest in order to rebuild so benching every day will not get you the results you want as quickly as you want
/r/seduction19/12/12 05:34 AM
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but if your arms become huge and you have skinny legs.... sorry for being stubborn but I love to squat and deadlift, and i workout in order to get stronger, more athletic, and just feel better, so seeing a guy walk into a gym, spend the entire time in front of the mirror curling and and working on his arms, and then going and benching, only to leave without doing anything else really annoys me.
/r/seduction19/12/12 12:00 AM
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you say a lot here but like its been said many times before, women find confidence to be the most attractive thing, so if you feel becoming bigger will give you more confidence, go ahead, and whatever you do dont let some douchebag online tell you what to do (me). I just think full workouts are the best thing to do instead of just benching and curling which is what I see so many guys doing in the gym and everywhere else, benching and curling are pretty worthless workouts unless you are only tryi…
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:56 PM
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weights will make your muscles bigger, but cardio and plyometrics workouts, like the workouts found in Insanity, will lower your bodyfat by a lot and make your muscles harder, so while your muscles might not be bigger by an insane amount, they will be more defined, you will be fitter, and you can add weight lifting to your regimen later, theres nothing stopping you from doing that. As I understand it you want to build muscles so that women can see you and go wow, but who says all women are attra…
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:26 PM
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just go to have fun not to get numbers. just talk to a couple girls knowing that there is no pressure to try and get her number, talk just to talk, and then if you feel up to it, ask for her number, if you dont, then you still end the day with more confidence, experience, and know how then the day before.
/r/seduction18/12/12 04:22 AM
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the only thing i would say is to not just bench and curl, I really cant stand guys like that. Do a full workout program or something, dont just make your chest and arms bigger, but become fully stronger, more athletic and healthier in every way. Theres a lot of stuff out there, you could even do programs like Insanity or P90x which require little to no equipment but will still get you the results you want. Also find a hobby and stuff that you enjoy doing, and do them
/r/seduction18/12/12 01:44 AM
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alright I gotta hear about this aristocrat and moth
/r/seduction26/11/12 06:57 PM
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as far as improvising on the spot and doing it as well as a famous person, that's just practice and talent, it will take time to get there, and even then you still might not be good enough, but guess what, who cares because your still alpha as fuck and more hilarious than a motherfucker
/r/seduction26/11/12 01:11 PM
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yes it is awesome when that happens so start making it happen lol. im serious its not that hard. The next time you feel out of it just think of something funny that happened recently and just smile or even laugh out loud because of how funny it was and then go do what you do. If you fall out of it then just repeat it from the beginning, its that easy. Remember just have fun everything will follow
/r/seduction26/11/12 01:08 PM
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thanks thats what I was lookin for if you ever need a guys opinion, im here. Its awesome offering favors that I know will never be cashed in, MUAHAHA
/r/seduction26/11/12 12:50 PM
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I loved the ending because its so true, everything in your life is dependent on you, so take responsibility and do something about it instead of complaining
/r/seduction26/11/12 12:36 PM
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so what did the guy do that really stood out to you, aware or not, this might be prying but I like getting a female perspective whenever possible, you know.....for science and stuff
/r/seduction26/11/12 12:11 PM
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so as a girl do these techniques work well for you and would they work well on you, im not just asking about making fun of myself but just in general, since I think its pretty rare to get someone with your unique insight
/r/seduction26/11/12 10:37 AM
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Thats generally what I had in mind, it kinda lightens the mood a bit and makes it easier for the girl to talk to you, IMO, Its also pretty awesome to hear a girl say/type beta.
/r/seduction26/11/12 08:32 AM
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There's a lot already written on this topic in the sidebar, just look for stuff dealing with 'inner game'
/r/seduction26/11/12 05:57 AM
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Its much easier to be funny if your in the zone after someone just told a joke. You know how sometimes you will be walking down the street and you will stop and smile because you just remembered the hilarious thing that happened the last time you were out? Thats the kind of zone you need to be in to be funny. Next time you go out just remember something that made you laugh and try to get into that zone.
/r/seduction26/11/12 05:16 AM
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i dont mean that he should look up jokes and just retell them, but if he really has no sense of humor, telling a comedians joke is better than just a knock knock joke or something because it requires him to work on timing, and eye contact, and delivery in general, which will grow his confidence in his ability to be funny, which will lead to him actually being funny
/r/seduction26/11/12 05:09 AM
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Smile and shake his hand, preferable in front of your ex, and then proceed to hit on the hottest bitch in the place
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:21 AM
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you could have said "woah get your mind out of the gutter we are just having fun" but thats besides the point. Anyway here's some advice, girls are like buses, there's another one every 15 minutes, your not a failure if you miss a bus, as long as you catch one of the following.
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:16 AM
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What you do before asking them out on a date is infinitely more important than exact way you end up asking, so I would say you need to work on that
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:09 AM
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Girls value the conversation more than the destination, when you talk to a guy and he tells you how his car broke down on the interstate, you tell him what you think he needs to fix or you give him the number of a good mechanic, when a girl says that her car broke down on the interstate you need to say that must've been terrifying how did you get home or wow that happened to me too I was stuck on the side of the road for like hours!
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:03 AM
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I both agree and disagree, if he has no real experience with being funny it might be a good thing to steal a joke or two in order to get the timing and the feel down, but again this is only to experience what its like to be funny and to then replicate it, after that you just need to continue practicing and develop witty humor. It helps to be in a fun mood, don't think of it as a chore or some sort of work, being funny is fun, so have fun doing it
/r/seduction25/11/12 11:48 PM
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I guess that makes more sense thanks
/r/seduction25/11/12 11:19 PM
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Watch a ton of comedy TV and stand up comics, also remember delivery is perhaps the most important thing, when everyone is already laughing/having a good time everything is funnier, comedy is building up expectations and then failing to meet them, and then watch some more comedy and think about what makes a certain comic funny, also practice on everyone, and make little jokes to yourself about things/learn to amuse yourself with your sense of humor
/r/seduction25/11/12 11:18 PM
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you could just back off for a couple weeks and then in a conversation, tell her you are really happy the two of you are 'just friends'
/r/seduction25/11/12 11:15 PM
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IMO self depreciating humor and making fun of yourself are two very different things, self depreciating humor is more of your inner thoughts about yourself escaping with a cloak of sarcasm, where as making fun of yourself is an easy way to work some observational humor into the conversation, and its especially easy to use since your always there to be made the object of the observational humor, although you should only use it if you are confident in yourself
/r/seduction25/11/12 09:10 PM
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why havent they been yielding many opportunities, the day there are no more teenage girls spending all day at the mall is the day I start regularly shopping there
/r/seduction24/11/12 07:59 AM
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Dont worry thats why I'm talking to you, I like cougars Its alright you dont look that old No, you're too old for me
/r/seduction24/11/12 07:12 AM
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