edmhead Archive

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8	Above the Game, almost stopped by Kickstarter, why so much hate against this project?? It could be as simple as turning her head at the last minute so you end up with the cheek, or she might say "nope...sorry" as you lean in for it. I'm genuinely curious: What makes leaning in for a kiss different from taking her hand and slowly moving it so that it's touching your penis? If she's not comfortable with it, she could steer her hand somewhere else or say "nope...sorry" as you're moving her hand. It's not something I've even considered doing, but I'm hoping understanding the differenc…	/r/seduction	21/06/13 08:28 PM
0	Lady friend says I need to "communicate with my body" on the dance floor. How? http://youtu.be/4s21sg0goqM	/r/seduction	06/06/13 02:09 PM
2	Hitting it off with a girl, feeling you could kiss her, but just can't find a right moment? Try this line. I don't think it comes off as cheesy when accompanied by an appropriately sultry look.	/r/seduction	31/05/13 11:11 AM
1	Hitting it off with a girl, feeling you could kiss her, but just can't find a right moment? Try this line. For a girl, I think /u/Diavolo_1988's finger-on-the-lips idea would work a bit better for a than "Wait."	/r/seduction	30/05/13 01:21 AM
2	Any advice on dance floor interactions? I did see that, but appreciate the link. Thanks!	/r/seduction	30/05/13 01:16 AM
8	How do I secure "people who will stick around when shit happens" type of friendships? Not sure seddit is really the best place for this sort of thing, but I'll try to frame my answer appropriately: When I look at my social circles, "real friendships" seem to occur most commonly between people with a lot of history (usually in terms of time, not extreme situations). However, I can think of a few exceptions to that; people that everyone else feels a bond with more quickly. These are the folks who are genuinely friendly and caring towards everyone. Put differently, these are people …	/r/seduction	28/05/13 12:31 PM
1	Comfortable with escalation but kissing anxiety preventing me from going on dates. As a starting point, stick your lips on hers and from that point on any time you don't know what to do next, just mirror what she does. Pay attention to how she reacts and do more of what she seems to like. Like anything, you'll get better with practice, so go practice. If you really feel like you need instruction, get girls to teach you by framing it as "tell me what you like" instead of "I don't know how". Different girls like different things, so while it might be a tad unusual of a request, …	/r/seduction	26/05/13 02:50 AM
2	Comfortable with escalation but kissing anxiety preventing me from going on dates. Everything else you listed requires technique as well.	/r/seduction	26/05/13 02:43 AM
2	Ejecting. What's the best way to do it. I'll let someone else take street and school; neither are my strong point. For a club: I like to make my ejection productive. Use it as an opportunity to DHV, build social proof, drop an SOI, or something. Take something like "About the way you carry yourself... oh, excuse me, I promised my friend I'd say 'hello' tonight and it looks like she might be on the way out the door." (too wordy for a club, but just go with it as an example) It conveys the same basic sentiment as "I gotta rejoin my frie…	/r/seduction	24/05/13 12:07 AM
1	Any advice on dance floor interactions? Happy to help. Report back when you give it a try; it's always interesting to hear how people tweak things and what sort of results they get.	/r/seduction	23/05/13 10:49 PM
3	Ejecting. What's the best way to do it. What sort of situation? ("I'm going to go mingle. I'm sure I'll be seeing again before the end of the evening." might work wonders at a cocktail party, but wouldn't work at all in a library.)	/r/seduction	23/05/13 10:44 PM
2	How to estimate their age? Are you talking about estimating age prior to opening or after? (If after, what's a standard opener you might have used?) Noisy environment or quiet? As a general answer, it sounds like you're looking for indications of a certain age threshold, not necessarily a precise age. I generally have a hard time with physical attributes, so things I keep an eye out for (most useful first): What's on her key chain? Is it on a college lanyard or does it have a collegiate key fob? Does she have a dorm-style…	/r/seduction	23/05/13 07:05 PM
2	Any advice on dance floor interactions? If you can dance and being cocky fits your style, you can open the whole group by just jumping into the middle of the circle. You have to make it look natural and you have to be having fun, but it can work. Example: You're dancing at a club, you move off of the dance floor to take a piss or whatever, and you're trying to make your way back towards the front. You see a group you have to pass anyway to get where you're going. Instead of skirting around the edge, just go through the middle. Once yo…	/r/seduction	23/05/13 06:36 PM
2	Any advice on dance floor interactions? I agree simple is best. I'm not necessarily looking for something complex. I'm looking for something to separate myself from the hundreds of other guys doing the same thing on the dance floor. Sure, a "wanna dance?" (or a variation; "let's dance" seems to work about 50% better for me) opener often gets you a dance, but I've never successfully closed with it. I've gone through plenty of trial and error (current leading dance floor opener for me is to brush the back of my left hand against the bac…	/r/seduction	23/05/13 05:48 AM
3	Any advice on dance floor interactions? Go for it. Or if you don't have the energy to distill things for us, just write up some mini FRs. I find this a very difficult sort of situation to get good data for as it seems to vary widely from venue to venue and it's such a crazy environment that it's hard to observe what other people are doing/trying.	/r/seduction	23/05/13 05:31 AM
4	Any advice on dance floor interactions? No offense, but that's an answer I'd expect from /r/AskReddit or /r/socialskills. It's the dance floor equivalent of "How's it going, can I buy you a drink?" Given that this is seddit, I was sort of hoping for something other than what half the guys on the dance are trying.	/r/seduction	23/05/13 05:27 AM
3	I Think I May Have Found The Perfect Opener I think releasing a guy would be a bit tricky; a lot of guys are a lot better at recognizing IODs than IOIs. The important thing is to release gently. One way to do that would be to balance it with some light Kino (e.g. if you're going to do a roll-off, start with an arm or shoulder touch and very lightly trail your fingers away as you turn).	/r/seduction	23/05/13 05:21 AM
8	Any advice on dance floor interactions? It seems like that video was a very long-winded way of saying "have fun so you can be fun." Did I miss something?	/r/seduction	23/05/13 03:38 AM
2	Any advice on dance floor interactions? To piggy back on this: does anyone have tips specifically for concert-type venues (versus club-type venues) where girls are there more for the music than to socialize? As an example of why the difference is significant: you can close in a club whenever things are going well, but most girls aren't going to want to leave a concert before it's over.	/r/seduction	23/05/13 03:28 AM