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They have lots of tales to tell. Usually more travelled, and far more life experiences for sure. They value women more, too. So it's kind of a Win-Win. A 60-year-old guy, who does yoga (Astanga of course), surfs, makes puppets, and crochets? He needs a spreadsheet to manage his love life. He's pursued by the 19-25 year old demographic. After that sanity sets in, and women and will generally say, "right, I'm going to out with a 60 year old stoner who makes giant puppets for a living vs my new guy…
/r/seduction26/06/25 05:14 PM
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Seems pretty unisex.
/r/seduction05/01/20 05:14 PM
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It all gets down to DNA and it’s desire to replicate. DNA is pretty strong stuff. It takes over you mind. Hard to resist. It has a pretty good track record. 7 1/2 billion so far, and we’re all the product of the fastest sperm. Everyone of us. All you have to do is say “hello”, from there DNA takes over. Most mates are chosen on the basis of smell, so don’t over/do the deodorant. Just a tip. :-)
/r/seduction24/06/19 11:00 AM
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Wow, he had me hooked! Tell me more! :-)
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:42 PM
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NYC. Almost one here has kids. At that point they have to move out of town.
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:22 PM
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Your DNA did not match up. And why humans kiss. To sequence potential partners DNA for offspring survival. It’s all DNA. That’s just life. No big deal. Continue forward, it’s out of your hands. :-)
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:35 PM
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Actually, the numbers have crashed, millennials don't seem to have sex. It's messy, confusing, and well someone always ends up with an STD and un/happy. And robots will do it better. Or so we are told. > People now in their early 20s are two and a half times as likely to be abstinent as Gen Xers were at that age; 15 percent report having had no sex since they reached adulthood. https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2018/12/the-sex-recession/573949/ > In real life, pioneers of human-androi…
/r/seduction23/01/19 11:58 PM
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Suggestion: Just do your yoga, get a manicure, and just say "Hello" And of course read the paper version of The New York Times daily. And listen, just listen. I'm 2 decades beyond you, and I am swamped with dates. I had to stop, it was just too much. In Manhattan, so it's pretty easy. So now, I'm on a break. Just me on my Netflix. Till Spring. :-) PS, also great if you can cook a salmon, it's pretty easy, makes a great impression.
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:26 PM
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Well start with the real basics! DNA and reproduction. You have to start there. Lots of books. Just pick one. https://www.amazon.com/Double-Helix-Personal-Discovery-Structure/dp/074321630X
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:28 PM
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The goal is to have babies. That's it in a nutshell. Why else are humans even here? A fun read, and you have to kind of know about this stuff. really. :-) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DNA
/r/seduction10/01/19 08:44 PM
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And remember this is the guy that left Uma. Something to dream about. :-)
/r/seduction10/01/19 01:35 AM
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Ummm, you are going to get old someday, everything will break down. Pretty much everything. It’s going to be rough. Plan Z: Enjoy the day, enjoy the sun, enjoy every breath. Girls are cool, but give yourself a mountain top to climb (suggest the Adirondacks at -20 below), and rest there, for a spell, in solitude. And you may just get hit with kind of a realization. Probably a guarantee: “Wow, this is amazing, did I win the jackpot or what?” Then go back down to the real world. But remember that m…
/r/seduction26/12/18 04:54 PM
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All this comes down to DNA selection for procreation. She may look like “ok” to you, but to someone else, she’s the love of their life. DNA also controls your visual field. It’s pretty smart, it’s being doing this for eons. And super successful. 4 nucleic acids rule your life (and hers). Just how it goes, enjoy life, it goes by in a flash. Do good deeds. Treat strangers that cross your path (try your best) with kindness. Karma is for real. Never doubt that. Never. All women are special, they cre…
/r/seduction26/12/18 04:18 PM
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The goal is to mate and reproduce. Once you get older you look back, and think, I wasted all that time in my life pursing him/her. Neglected my fiends, wasted all that cash, did not take that trip. And all we did was fight. And now I’m alone. Why am I so happy! Not just happy, but 100x happy? This is not logical. Those 4 nucleic acids have given up trying to run my life. Now I’m in charge. :-) Source: old white guy.
/r/seduction27/11/18 02:09 PM
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DNA at work. Seems like a lot of work to propagate the planet. Males (XY) have to do the bulk of the work here. Almost a full time job and overtime too. When do get to experience just being you? And not a vector to transfer ones 23 genes into the population frenzy? My 55 inch Roku and Netflix, a toasty warm apartment and Netflix does have its advantages. My last date, the girl screamed for an hour that I had opened a window, for a second in her air conditioned car. Almost a full hour. Think I’ll…
/r/seduction21/10/18 12:45 PM
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OMG, cross post from /dataisbeautiful. Guys they need guidance, they are telling me that 12 texts to a GF, and no response is normal. #facepalm. They are down voting me to hell. "Maybe" someone can give them a tip or 2. thanks! :-)
/r/seduction16/10/18 01:31 AM
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A few tips from a senior citizen. Who is flooded with dates. :-) Do not say a specific day, I use “how’s your calendar this week?” Options! Wed, coffee is like a straight jacket. Provide at least 2/3 options. NEVER (or very rarely) bring up the past. It useless. It’s gone. PLEASE read or audio book, The Power of Now, Eckhart Tolle. Audio book is best. Will change your life. Guaranteed. Just say hello, there are zillions of potential dates. You are being programmed by DNA to reproduce. That’s jus…
/r/seduction15/10/18 02:19 PM
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Plan Z? Buy the paper version of The New York Times, minds will be blown, guaranteed. :-)
/r/seduction28/09/18 08:21 PM
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You could say you make puppets and crochet. Especially if you live in Brooklyn. That’s killer. :-)
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:28 AM
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Just say hello? Went overboard in NYC for a year. Ended up with 1100 names and emails. Now I’ve turned it all off. LOVE being by myself. In NYC, you can do it. Burrow in, turn on the 55 inch TV, your sound bar, a yoga Matt. Grab a cold brew, your trusty vape, and just start writing that next novel or hack some code. Just saying hello, you only need to meet 3 new friends a day, in 10 years, you’ll have almost 10,000 of them. :-)
/r/seduction21/09/18 11:33 AM
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Seems like lots of work and time just to transfer 4 nucleic acids so DNA molecules can replicate. But does seem to have quite a track record. :-)
/r/seduction13/09/18 04:59 AM
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Kissing is a way DNA is sequenced to see if your off spring would have a good chance of survival. She has babies, we don’t. Would not freak out about it. She probably has no control. The sequence match just would not work. Maybe she has friends? In the end, it’s 4 nucleic acids that rule our lives. Just how it goes.
/r/seduction07/08/18 12:22 AM
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Your salvia (DNA) was sequenced by your bodies to see if you would produce a child resistant to illness, viral attacks, long term hopes and dreams. That’s why we kiss. :-)
/r/seduction24/06/18 10:59 AM
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The goal is to make babies and spread DNA. Think it’s far more powerful than any pickup techniques. Follow the DNA. It knows all. It controls your world. Humans don’t really have much control over this one. :-)
/r/seduction21/06/18 09:58 PM
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Nucleic acids controlling our minds. Fascinating. It just needs to reproduce. We do their commands. We have no control in the end. It’s kind of fascinating to speak to the Sadhus who are truly celibate in India (not being forced like our priests), channeling that sexual energy. It’s a hard life, but they do reach kind of a god realization about life. They have control of their minds. On the other hand, it a tough life. And I do have 2 dates lined up this week. A sadhu I am not. https://www.googl…
/r/seduction11/06/18 02:27 PM
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Image from The Great Beauty, one amazing film if you have not seen it. Worth re/watching every few years. Really that good. :)
/r/seduction14/04/18 01:24 AM
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And remember in the end, the goal is to merge 4 nuclei acids. That’s it. :-) And DNA has been doing this for eons. :-)
/r/seduction13/04/18 06:34 AM
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And the mile high view: 4 nucleic acids are guiding u to mate, so those 4 nucleic acids can replicate, and continue populating, and keep the cycle going. That’s all life is about. The rest is filler. That’s just the science that drives us.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 03:04 PM
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And remember the end goal is exchange of 4 nucleic acids to ensure that DNA is replicated. Kissing is actually a fast track way of accessing viability of DNA. Humans have a small part to play, in the end it's just 4 very simple nucleic acids. People hate it when I explain sex this way. But think it helps a bit, it's not that she does not want to continue the relationship, it has to do with pair binding, nothing to do with looks, or personalities. It's just science. Source: Former peptide chemist…
/r/seduction08/09/17 02:23 PM
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More of an intelligence test? Who would be dumb enough to post this? Exactly how many Nobel prizes did Madam Curie win? Work with women software developers everyday, many of them are better then the "guys" I work with. Far better actually. To generalize like this is just dumb. Like saying "ALL WHITE PEOPLE ARE RACISTS", because my uncle Louie is.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 09:32 PM
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In the end it gets down to the transfer of 4 nucleic acids. That's it in a nutshell. DNA rules your life. It's had eons to figure this all out. It's primary goal is to reproduce. Feelings, seduction techniques, etc are just a side show to the primary purpose, "to reproduce." Have fun with science. :-) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DNA The two DNA strands are called polynucleotides since they are composed of simpler monomer units called nucleotides.[2][3] Each nucleotide is composed of one of fou…
/r/seduction05/08/17 06:13 PM
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Stop any contact if you realize you are frienzoned And this is how you will miss out on life. Number 12 has been debunked many times. I'm friends with many, many, many women. Do you just want to be friends with guys? Not me for sure. Each woman introduces me to her friends. It's factorial math. And yes it works out fine by me. It's really a lot more fun to have many friends than just one. Really it is. Life is too short to miss out. And then we die. Have at least a few people show up at your wak…
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:12 AM
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Or the shortcut: Ask questions. Chain the conversation. Repeat what she or he just said in your response. That's it. Guaranteed to work. 100%. :-)
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 02:51 PM
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Depressing is an understatement. Just have a kid and get it over. 4 nucleotides. That's all you need to share.
/r/seduction18/02/17 01:37 PM
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Step 1. Pick an Apple up at supermarket. Wash and polish. Eat. Step 2. Release new IDE for Angular 4. :-)
/r/seduction03/01/17 01:42 PM
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It's really amazing to me how the 4 tiniest of nucleic acids seem to have such an amazing power buried in that DNA code to "force", by any means necessary to find a mate, so it can pass on it's own DNA sequences. So brilliant it is at it's only sole mission, mind blowing genius. And many years later, you look back at life's experiences and think "I did that to impress her? What was I thinking? Was I insane?" And I'm sure she's saying the same thing. :-)
/r/seduction08/11/16 01:52 PM
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Well, if you live in NYC, you'll be surrounded with 100's of potential friends to meet. It's just pretty mind blowing here. Lets says 1,000's. Go to a world class museum, and just say hello. Forget the bars, go see art. That's where you'll meet super cool people. You can go to events and be out-numbered: 20 girls to just you. At one point, after a few years, I had 1,100 emails to call on for a date. I'm now trying to end up with just 3. I'm much preferring to just hang out by myself these days, …
/r/seduction22/10/16 06:19 PM
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If u r under 23, u and her are pretty primed to mate. It's the nucleic acids ruling your brain (and her's). Once u get older, u take u r time, no rush. u r busy with a 100 other things to keep u busy. So just go for it, in a nice, sane, way. :-) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DNA Each nucleotide is composed of one of four nitrogen-containing nucleobases—either cytosine (C), guanine (G), adenine (A), or thymine (T)—and a sugar called deoxyribose and a phosphate group. The nucleotides are joined to…
/r/seduction06/10/16 05:32 PM
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Well, have you ever run into a female ER MD? Will blow your mind how she runs that ER when the bodies roll in. She decides who lives and dies. Best to be on her good side. Just saying. :-)
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 05:50 PM
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Seems to me you can replace woman with man, pretty much every sentence here. :-)
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 05:15 AM
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12 . Stop any contact if you realize you are friend zoned. ALL woman are connected. The word gets out. Friends are worth their weight in gold. Here you'll miss out on the other 15 friends she could introduce you too. And never develop any inter-personal skills. You'll never gone beyond a 13 year old. You'll be stuck there forever, and be one of those "guys", who just can never get a date, and never wonder why. You need to know how to communicate if you want to seduce, remember, she's trying to s…
/r/seduction09/07/16 09:51 AM
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New York Times. As would say to my students, you don't have to read the NYTs, but I can assure you, your boss will. Try to do the paper version at least once a week. Kind of mind expanding me thinks. Some of the best journalism in the world.
/r/seduction06/06/16 12:25 PM
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Ok, mile high view: you are being programmed by DNA to populate the earth. It all comes down to 4 nucleic acids. You have little or no control, they are on a mission. 8 billion successful genetic transfers, they know what they are doing. The tip? Forget about the dating thing, just educate yourself, work out, keep healthy, read the damn NYTs, hit a museum a week, and learn something new every day. Which you seem to be doing. My guess? Maybe you need to move. In Brooklyn, you can have a different…
/r/seduction05/06/16 04:48 PM
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My understanding is the exchange of fluids is a way DNA basically sequences in real time and see's what the mate possibilities are for future generations. That's why we kiss. In the end, it's all just 4 nucleic acids that want to propagate. They have all this figured out. Have been working at it for millions of years.
/r/seduction26/05/16 08:01 PM
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The primary reason for sex is for DNA to propagate itself through out the universe. That's it. When you get to a certain age, you suddenly realize how silly it was after all. The fact that 4 nucleobases (cytosine (C), guanine (G), adenine (A), or thymine) had that much power over your life for so long. Fascinating. And you thought you were in control, sorry you were not. A great link to start with. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DNA :-)
/r/seduction04/04/16 03:16 AM
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Brunettes rock! Blonds are kind of tough. Usually they end up telling you, "remember that older banker guy we met at the party? He offered to buy me a house of my own if I became his girlfriend. How do you feel about that?" "You mean you've grown tired of the $1 pizza on St. Marks?" Really can't blame her for leaving me. Not at all. Wow, was she fun. Moral of the story? If you are a hot blond, you will really, really, really love Manhattan. One in every 25 New Yorkers is a millionaire, study say…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 02:28 AM
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(IMHO) Heavy Weights: You will get discouraged, super fast. A 25 lb dumbbell, lifted in a push-up pose, is damn challenging. You'll see pretty fast results. Also think, is this something you could be lifting at 85/90 years old? Yes, you can add on weights, but slooooowwwwwllllly. Will I be able to life this at 85? That's how visual it. The goal is "anchoring", try not to miss a day, ever. If you do, don't freakout, just keep on going. In the end, the yoga will last you a lifetime, that over all …
/r/seduction22/12/15 04:26 PM
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Start a hard core yoga + meditation practice. Start working out with light weights and a dumbbell. Read the NYT (New York Times), every day. Become mega interested in art, literature, philosophy. Learn a new language. Travel (lots). Learn to play the guitar. Just say Hello. That's 99%. It's WAY too easy. :-)
/r/seduction21/12/15 04:35 PM
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Go to India. Have mind blown X 1000. Your ex will the least of your "Challenges". Guaranteed. 1000%. Tickets are not expensive, everyday can be a life or challenge just surviving in North India. Just Go. :-)
/r/seduction17/11/15 05:45 PM
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Women are much better project managers then men. (IMHO). Seems would be bad business decision if you ask me. Source: Capitalist :-)
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 03:45 PM
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Come on guys, forget this boy & girl stuff, just code. Really. Your life will be 100X better, really! :-)
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 01:09 PM
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NO NO NO! Guys are always (in my experience), neater and organized.
/r/seduction14/05/15 11:54 PM
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Have been rooming with females for 25 years now. Get me a guy roommate! PLEASE! I'm ready. The girl I'm rooming with now happens to be a psychotherapist. Conversations go like this: So I ... STOP! I know exactly what you are going to say next .... And she is always right. Astonishing! LOL! ;-)
/r/seduction14/05/15 11:52 PM
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So lets say, those are people in shelters, throw in another 5,000 (it could be way more then that) that never make it to shelters, so we have +64,000 people homeless in NYC, and still think that's low. 64,000 people are just wandering the streets, and that's not a problem for anyone? This is an island by the way. But have to say, NYC gov does try it's best. New Yorkers are pretty caring people, believe it or not. The situation in SF was pretty scary last time I was there. No one seemed to care a…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 08:02 PM
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PS, here's a few photos of what NYC looks like after the workers go home. This is the central hub of transportation (Penn Station). Yes, this is NYC, not a 4th world country. https://www.flickr.com/photos/ejpusa/sets/72157626370543226/
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:23 PM
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The 1 in 152. Seems low. http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/nyc-homelss-population-tops-59k-record-high-article-1.2099150 Thousands of New Yorkers living in dangerous 'cluster units' as homeless population tops 59,000, a record high The homeless population has risen to an all-time high, forcing the de Blasio administration to house desperate families in decrepit tenements red-flagged by the city’s own inspectors as hazardous. As many of my XX friends say, "OMG, I would quit work tomorrow if I c…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:14 PM
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Women work alongside men, not efficiently or willingly, but because society has told them that it is their destiny. 99% of households in NYC could not survive here without both members working, would be impossible. Maybe in Nebraska, but impossible in Manhattan. 2/3 bedroom apt (100K/yr), if you can find one, throw in 2 kids in elementary school (50K a year, if they even get in), you can just squeak by at $200K for 2. My local deli is now $15 a lb for potato salad. So you can guess your food bil…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:20 AM
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Good Read. Some can make it, but in the end, it's just you. Friends will go, lovers, family, and in the end, well it's just you. Relationships are hard for sure. When you start to feel negative energy, FLEE. You do not want to be around negative forces, you really don't. Give people the benefit of the doubt, some people have really rough days, and women, that cycle thing is kind of brutal if you ask me. So give 3rd, 4th, 5th chances, but when you see things are just sending you negative energy, …
/r/seduction13/04/15 07:52 PM
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Guys, until we stop peeing on the toilet seats, think our male species has a LONG way to go. Lets get past that one first. Just my observation. :-)
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:35 PM
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Financially women no longer need a man. Just ain't worth the effort, that's what the numbers are pointing out.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:01 PM
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Agree 100%. However the "ownership" seems to crept into the conversation much too quickly. Just saying.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 09:22 PM
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This attachment thing is just going to do you people in. You don't "own" anyone. And they don't "own" you. That's just life. It's basic "Sitting in the Cave and thinking about shit 101" philosophy. But go for it. You'll learn, everyone does in the end. And it all does end, does it not? Kill this desire for "attachment, I own you", it's a lost cause, but guess everyone has to go through it. Beat that, and your life will improve 10X, guaranteed. It ain't easy, I know that. But at least start the p…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 08:36 PM
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Ok, now how do you feel? You feel fucking good right? Nope. Not at all. In NYC she would not even be given a seconds look, really. She actually would last 5 mins in the 'hood. Give me a brunette anytime. Make her a hipster and artist, and rock out on a guitar. Here you go actually. :-) http://picture-cdn.wheretoget.it/2twgzk-l-610x610-hat-vintage-nike-swag-hipster-ootd-beanie-jewels-shirt-black-girl.jpg
/r/seduction19/02/15 03:56 AM
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Yes there are a great many interpretations, yours is great. From my teachers and studies, Buddha here is representative of your ego, the "I" __ when you think you "know it all", then it's time to "kill" that thought, and continue on the road to learning, compassion and understanding. Repeat, and rinse. :-) The road represents your path to enlightenment. You can continue moving forward, but don't let that "Buddha" AKA "Your ego", stop you. Kill him, and you can keep on going. But if you let your …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 05:57 PM
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Buddha is your ego, and that's what the expression is all about. It's pretty thought provoking one for sure. Basically your ego will always get in the way. So kill it. We all are one in the end, a shared consciousnesses; and that's why the concept of Karma rules the world. It's all physics in the end, quantum entanglement, it's for real.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 03:04 AM
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50 Shades of Grey, IMAX. What could be more fun then that?
/r/seduction10/02/15 01:47 AM
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Suggest you look into Ashtanga Primary Series. Just try it once. It will blow your mind, guaranteed. Life changing really. :-) Here's a Martial Arts guy doing a part of his practice. I'm impressed. The guy is a rock, solid muscle. And this will happen to you too. Just find the right class, and the magic will happen. There are dozens of forms of yoga, but if you want one that will turn your body into solid muscle, here's the proof. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3EMIavunbro
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 05:37 PM
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Random thoughts: On the road. Northern Japan, India, China, Peru, South Pacific. You will 100% break out of this rut, guaranteed. Do one Yoga Ashtanga class on the shores of the India Ocean, that's a life changer. It will blow your mind. Remember, lots going on here is DNA taking over you core brain functions, it's goal is to reproduce, that's it. If you can break out of that mind set for a day, the world will turn into a mind blowing glorious adventure. And PLEASE get yourself into a serious yo…
/r/seduction01/02/15 04:15 PM
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As a confirmed New Yorker, I was stunned by how many awesome women prowled the streets of San Francisco. All I had to do was say hello. Wow! :-)
/r/seduction30/01/15 10:11 PM
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Used the Brad Pitt rule the other day. Hey what would you say if I was Brad Pitt? "I would still say no. I have to study." She's kind of serious. Now of course I feel kind of dumb. Lol. ;-)
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 12:33 PM
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Quite a few garbage men in NYC make 6 figures. And that's cool by me.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 08:53 PM
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Yipes. I may actually agree with something in /redpill. But in the end, it's also kind of sad too. Like maybe more then a little sad. Hanging out with another person you can usually learn something new, like hey you've been to Bali? Wow, how was that, etc. Here it seems that chance is just gone now. Like maybe life is a little less interesting.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:05 AM
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Actually my sister would gladly take a bullet, x 10 for her husband. Without a moments thought. Without a millisecond of hesitation. That's their relationship. Think it's hard to generalize like this. Instead maybe say 99% of "women will never take a bullet for you." At least give yourself a bit of wiggle room. (IMHO)
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:08 PM
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Great article. In the end, women are programming men to perform certain mating rituals to allow for reproduction. Watch pigeons try to woo their female counterparts. So much energy spent to increase the members of the tribe. Is it worth it in the end? 7.1 billion in counting. Would people have sex if it was not pleasurable? In order to increase the head count? Sometimes I wonder about that.
/r/seduction05/07/14 10:32 AM
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Wow, great writeup, thanks. Besides this aspect of life, a part you don't want to miss out on, the spiritual side of things. I recommend "I AM THAT", eventually we all get old, and the body will go, but the spirit continues on in a big way. Best to be prepared. :-) http://www.amazon.com/I-Am-That-Nisargadatta-Maharaj/dp/0893860468/ref=pd_sim_b_1?ie=UTF8&refRID=1R7RTG4F882D15M0NTZQ
/r/seduction20/05/14 10:41 AM
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Raja Yoga Vivakananda Oh boy, mind blown. You may quit your job tomorrow and head to the beach. Wait, on second thought, don't read this book until you have spent a few years doing the 9-5. Even Tesla was hooked on Vivakanada. The science of life, death and attaining the knowing if it all. You die, it's not that bad, and what happens next. And this boy chase girl, girl chase boy will seem so meaningless in the end. But that's ok. ;-) http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/8185301166/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?qid=13…
/r/seduction09/04/14 01:10 PM
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Wait, isn't there a book out there? Oh, found it. :-) Men Are Dogs: A Woman's Guide to Choosing Her Breed of Man http://www.amazon.com/Men-Are-Dogs-Womans-Choosing/dp/0974306800/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1396399317&sr=8-1&keywords=men+are+dogs
/r/seduction02/04/14 12:42 AM
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Well I guess it's time for the quintessential Allan Watts, re/animated by the South Park guys. On the importance of a beginning and an ending, and what happens in between. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6I2pcIbyq-0
/r/seduction19/03/14 04:58 PM
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From the post, a guy tries to figure it all out, LOGICALLY! :-) My girlfriend has an indoor cat that now lives together with us. I never had any pets before, so I have a hard time interpreting. Sometimes, she will approach me and meow in a voice that sounds like “I desperately want attention”. So I slowly reach down to her and try to pet her. Then she turns around and moves away, so that I can barely reach the lower back. She will stop there, notice that I am not petting and make another meow th…
/r/seduction17/03/14 10:52 PM
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tldr; Just say hello, then act crazy. Will know immediately if soulmate or not.
/r/seduction16/03/14 12:13 AM
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Ummm, nature has a way of getting in the way and keeping things humming along, just be on the safe side I guess: The first North American cases of gonorrhea that are completely resistant to oral antibiotics have been detected, completely incurable gonorrhea could be on the way http://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/168ct6/the_first_north_american_cases_of_gonorrhea_that/
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:03 AM
2

Think the Cafe scene is 100X better then bar scene (IMHO). But I'm in Brooklyn, it's kind of a guys fantasy world here And the women are always at the genius level in my experience. It's pretty unreal. But read your New York Times daily, they need great conversation. And hey, it's fun to chit chat about cool stuff. Enjoy it lots.
/r/seduction16/02/14 10:51 PM
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There is a lot of research out now, when a women goes off birth control, all hell breaks loose. It all comes down to chemistry, humans are secondary. http://thechart.blogs.cnn.com/2012/04/05/birth-control-may-affect-long-term-relationships/ So it may not be as much the issue of going off birth control as it going on it in the first place. Sexual health expert Dr. Madeleine Castellanos cautions women to think carefully about their choice of contraceptive: "Some of these side effects are so seriou…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 12:44 AM
1

7.5 Billion people in the world. Something is working. So when you least expect it, POW! DNA kind of runs the show. Bigger things at play here then alt.seduction, the game, and small talk. It's all being run for us. Just take it for a ride. And do fun stuff, fun people will find you. They really will. I think the statistic is like 99% of women will at one point in their life become pregnant. That is an amazing number. So they'll find you. Just my 2 rupee's. :-)
/r/seduction03/02/14 05:17 AM
3

And your city is?
/r/seduction28/01/14 10:50 PM
1

Source: Organic Chemist at one point in my life. Boss won the Nobel Prize. Men have an inherent weakness in our genetic make up. Females have the XX, so basically a "Backup Plan", men sorry to say don't have this trait. One of the reasons we die off much sooner then the XXs, we have no backup plan to many inherited illness. Like none. Now throw into the mix, PCB contamination of pretty much everything we consume. This leads to more numbers of females being born then males over time. Some of the …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 09:31 PM
1

From the heart of Hipsterville, Brooklyn, New York. Being alone is fast becoming the "Cool" thing to do. It's kind of a movement. The Hipster Barometer is usually pretty accurate in predicting things, love it or hate it. And the buzz is "Aloneness is now cool". So you are actually ahead of the pack. AKA "Trailblazer", so not an issue at all.
/r/seduction06/01/14 06:42 AM
1

Deep tech. Without "giving away AKA Teaching" what I know to my peers, and competitors in the industry, my job would be a 100X harder. No one knows it all. Without sharing, we would be stopped in our tracks. Every industry is different, but Open Source drives the tech world, without people "giving away" for free, there would be no internet. And no reddit. This is the tech world, so things are different here. Want to build your own Bitcoin, or a browser or a web server? All the code is there, $0.…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 11:32 AM
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Oh this is so wrong. The NUMBER one rule in my tech field is: teach people to take over your job. Number 1 Rule. And you will never run out of work, never.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 04:25 AM
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Women in my experience do prefer more feminine looking men. This idea that once a month they want a lumberjack, think the evidence is still out on that. Take a look at the K-Pop super stars, the guys are very feminine in facial features and body type. Also most boy bands in general seem to fit this rule.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 05:43 AM
1

Think the scale ends with the New York Woman. It's not just looks, or style (OMG), or the walk or the talk (how many languages do you speak? you can stop at 5, it's ok). I can be in a crowd of 100 tourists, and I immediately can spot the New Yorker. She just stands out, like WOW. Just has it all. The worn out boots, the tats, the hair just cut so right, the Channel, Jimmy Choos, the way she rolls a cig, pulls out her Cocteau novel, her notebook, and just smiles. And then: All the rules just crum…
/r/seduction27/12/13 12:04 AM
3

The Universe is indifferent to your suffering. The earth will be gone in 5 billion years, the entire universe in 10 billion. Add a daily exercise practice, Ashtanga Yoga is a recommendation. Will radically alter your life. So yes, get excited about a book, a bike, a guitar, it's a fun planet. And travel to a wild place like Northern India. If you can make it there and back, you'll never lack for confidence again. And have some great stories to tell.
/r/seduction26/12/13 02:54 AM
12

“The most terrifying fact about the universe is not that it is hostile but that it is indifferent, but if we can come to terms with this indifference, then our existence as a species can have genuine meaning. However vast the darkness, we must supply our own light.” ― Stanley Kubrick
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 10:43 AM
1

I would not say the universe if unfair. It's just in/different to you. It just does not care. No big deal. In the end, we all create our own reality and follows the laws of thermodynamics. All one has to do is open your eyes to see. So simple in the end. Blue Pill, Red Pill? It's really what you create. That is the power in you. You have total control over that part.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 10:30 AM
1

Think you would have the same results if the sexes were flipped. Welcome to Earth and celebrity culture. :-)
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 01:22 PM
0

It is a social lubricant. But will age you, especially in the face. Well lets be truthful. Will age your brutally. At 30, you'll pass for 40. At 40, I'll say early 50's. At 55, I'll guess late 60's early 70s. Past that? Believe the life expectancy for a serious vodka drinker is 60. And you don't go painless either. On the other hand, I enjoy a glass of wine, once a month, and a beer a week, so who am I to say?
/r/seduction25/11/13 08:37 PM
0

ok, a bit dated, but still relevant. What Women Want Is a Guy Who's Been Around—and Who Still Is. That's Why Sean Connery Is the Sexiest Man Alive, 1989 http://www.people.com/people/archive/article/0,,20116288,00.html
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 06:31 AM
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I HIGHLY recommend Manhattan. Here the silver fox(s) is always doing A-OK. But it is Manhattan, which is a world onto itself.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 06:26 AM
1

Generally not a good idea. She has friends. Who have friends, who have more friends.
/r/seduction08/11/13 03:34 PM
1

It's something u learn from and may never come back too. Check in when you need it. But if you never return to the forum, that really means you are on your way. Kind of like when you see Buddha in the road, run him down. That's a great saying.
/r/seduction05/11/13 05:07 PM
1

YES! There seems to be a LOT of guys that would love to have it. I'm sure there must be a few out there already.
/r/seduction28/10/13 07:45 PM
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Seems like a lot of work. Maybe if you put that time into learning to code for iOS, you could actually make a damn good pile of cash? Just saying . . . That generally improves ones odds. A lot.
/r/seduction28/10/13 03:57 AM
2

Last I heard, she had married a super cool guy. She said, I'm done looking. I'm 70 now. LOL. As we all will be, sooner then we expect I think. But that's ok.
/r/seduction17/10/13 09:37 PM
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I have a friend, (Age 70), she is SO AWESOME. AWESOME beyond words, always with a BF if she wanted. I asked her, "What is your secret? You meet such amazing people, how do you do it, what is the secret!" "All you have to do is say hello." Pretty simple.
/r/seduction16/10/13 10:38 PM
1

And MOMA is the pickup capital of the world. Free, Friday nights. And always amazing art of course.
/r/seduction02/09/13 12:18 AM
2

And where is this mystical 10-15 bucks place? 2 drinks in a decent NYC spot with tip is $50. Of course they are the most beautiful women in the world in this town, but that is a total different thread.
/r/seduction12/07/13 08:21 PM
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Maybe just buy a girl a drink, just because it fun? And not make such a big drama over it? It's just a drink.
/r/seduction10/07/13 09:43 PM
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I think the real problem with this is: This is NOT a battle to be won. Once you get over that fixation, things will really go smooth for you. You are not a war with the opposite sex. Really you are not.
/r/seduction10/07/13 09:40 PM
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I would say in the top for sure. He is a very interesting guy, and someone who never thinks that women are an "enemy" to be won over. Also just good about life in general. "What Women Really Desire" by Zan Perrion http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E626MownYoU Excellent speaker too, born to do this kind of stuff.
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:10 AM
2

Think "what if Brad Pitt was sleeping on this couch for some reason - could he still get laid?" A hidden gem of a line. :-)
/r/seduction27/06/13 11:09 AM
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I think even upscale is tame. It's a mind blowing 'hood in NYC. What $5K+/month for a studio apt. The streets used to flow with blood when it was a real meat packers district. Cows were hung along the street on big meat hooks. And the most beautiful women in the world strut there. ALL the seddit techniques, books, conferences, you can pretty much throw them out the window. Your mind will be scrambled by a 6 foot blond from Stockholm. But that's ok. It's a good thing. OR, hey I can handle models.…
/r/seduction27/05/13 04:49 PM
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Shhhhhhh ... Keep that quiet. Seddit would fold if they knew this was ALL being moderated by a bunch of women behind throw away accounts. That's the big secret, but no one knows that, just a few insiders. ;-)
/r/seduction27/05/13 09:51 AM
1

This article is a MUST READ.
/r/seduction24/05/13 02:51 AM
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WATCH THIS! Required. Absolutely!
/r/seduction22/05/13 07:22 PM
2

Ok, this is the BIG mistake. You need to LIKE them all, not LOVE them all. Will completely change your game. PS, do you have a sister? Seems to be the guys that "LOVE" them all do not generally have sisters. Just something I noticed.
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:34 PM
16

Hey girl . . . Sorry, did not mean to slide my hand across your erect nipple like that. :-(
/r/seduction21/05/13 08:19 PM
2

I think this is the "Coolidge Effect", it all has to do with Dopamine in the end. It's not you, or her. It's complex brain chemistry at work. Nothing we can really do about it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect
/r/seduction20/05/13 08:13 PM
3

Wow I'm down to just saying Hello. They are just girls, but quite an effort here. I've dropped out of the game. I just code now. You many want to do an eBook. Roleplay GF, Harry Potter : I'm not sure what you mean here. Role play Harry Potter? What would be a scenario? PS, yes I Up Voted the post.
/r/seduction16/05/13 11:36 AM
1

Ashtanga Yoga. It's hard core.
/r/seduction15/05/13 10:28 AM
0

Ummm, come to Brooklyn and do that. I think she'll probably beat you up, with a pipe, but if you don't take the chance, you'll never know. While talking to her I reached over, and grabbed her tit, she smiled, reached down and grabbed my junk.
/r/seduction13/05/13 04:36 PM
2

Well, it gets complicated. It is a bit of a risky undertaking for a woman to have sex. It just is. Most of these "rules" really become focused on just being a cool person. Getting laid, is really a side effect. IMHO. You will get old, and you will die. In between, you may want to have a long term partner, raise a family, have kids and retire a happy guy. It takes work, kindness, and a bit of compassion. Give the forum a second chance, women are amazing, rare birds, for real, and you just don't w…
/r/seduction04/05/13 12:40 AM
3

"Let love take it's toll". That should be tattooed on everyone's arm. One of the best lines ever. I have a girl I've been seeing for almost 3 years. Not one in a million, one in a billion she is. The other day I mixed the whites and the darks, did the laundry. She came home and freaked. It's been 10 days. No emails, no texts, no calls. She just locked me out. 100% just put me in deep freeze. Be careful doing a girls laundry, my only advice. And then let love takes it's toll.
/r/seduction15/04/13 10:57 AM
3

Suggest also post to erowid.com. I'm sure folks there would find it a great read.
/r/seduction07/04/13 09:06 PM
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Don't give a fuck You are a catch You can live without her Be awesome Do fun stuff, you don't need a partner for that Learn how to cook a salmon Get a manicure Kino works wonders Maintain eye contact Get those teeth cleaned every 6 months or you are going to be so fucked when you get older. You have no idea. Action dates are cool: dates with movement (kayaks, hiking, etc) Wear a hint of cologne. Channel is great.
/r/seduction09/03/13 01:43 AM
2

Something new I've pick up, is ACTION DATING. Always have movement, somehow. Yes, I'm a film guy, love them, but action dates are awesome. Even did the Pittsburgh incline the other night with her, all of $5 for both of us. Spooky (we were the only ones on board), fun for sure, and we had a blast. Things where you MOVE together. Think there is some brain chemistry going on. Maybe back to evolutionary times. People on the move are safer with a trusting partner? Food for thought. Biking, kayaking, …
/r/seduction11/02/13 03:51 PM
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Famous last words: "I can say with confidence that this girl is now mine."
/r/seduction03/02/13 01:45 PM
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You do not go after chicks that have BFs. You can of course, but Karma is a bitch. Really. 100%. Not 99.9% but 100%. Ignore at your our risk. Just a tip. But everyone needs to learn I guess.
/r/seduction31/01/13 05:03 PM
1

I'm kind of a cynic of all this. But this is probably one of the best reads out there. Oh, ran this by a friend, she felt, and think she was right, it's geared for a younger crowd. 20's/30's. We're older. Then I pulled her hair as Pook would say. And all was ok. Re/discovering my inner child. :)
/r/seduction26/01/13 03:42 AM
2

Adding a comment to my comment looks like I have to do that in Alien Blue. Some of these comments are down right scary. I really like to know how many posters really have a sister in their lives, I'm really starting to think the numbers are really high, like not the normal bell curve. Like no sister, like nada. Some of the posts seem to think women are from some alternative universe. Dudes, girls are just like u. They just have a bit different anatomy. Kirk Douglas was considered the coolest sed…
/r/seduction13/01/13 08:02 AM
2

Advice from the +50 Redditor: (damn the OP is fucking brilliant). I have repeated this a zillion times. GET some girls in your Friends Zone. In the end, you have to talk to women about women. Really, it's common sense guys. You need to LIKE women, not just LOVE them. And that comes about from having a sister in your life. It's not required, but you will really have to work harder if you are sister-less. But you can do it.
/r/seduction13/01/13 01:47 AM
1

Ok, I posted these before, these were really fine tuned, may be worth a look: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15oqlb/golden_rules_of_using_text_these_rules_you_will/ These rules are not set in stone (but should be). They will change your dating life, for the better. Guaranteed. Credited to Pita. An awesome relationship coach. (XX). One for one. Not 2 for 3. It's not a game. Games are for losers. Text ONLY to be used for questions that can be responded to in one line or less. The respo…
/r/seduction07/01/13 12:11 AM
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Still working on Proust. The rest yes.
/r/seduction04/01/13 06:58 PM
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Advice from a +50 (age) redditor. It never stops! LOL! BUT for sure, chill a bit. Learn the Guitar, do you know anything about Syria? Can you code in ObjC? Can you draw? Have you read Gauguin's letters? Have your read Ram Dass? Have you traveled to India? Have you worked in a homeless shelter? Have your read Proust? Have you studied Physics? Have you learned Chinese? How good are you with motorcycle mechanics, do your read The New York Times everyday? Your future boss does. The list just goes on…
/r/seduction04/01/13 04:00 PM
1

This is something we as guys have to live with. IMMEDIATELY have more women in you FRIENDS ZONE. This will help tremendously in understanding them. Males suffer lots because we have lots of Karma to burn off because of the way men have treated with women over the eons. Just something we have to live with. You HAVE to talk at one point to women (NOT MEN) to understand them. All the forums, books, sidebars are good, but in the end, you have to talk to women (in your friends zone) to understand mal…
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:54 PM
1

Just does not sound like it has good Karma points. What would happen if she did this to you? How would you feel?
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:52 AM
1

This should be at the top of this thread by the way.
/r/seduction14/12/12 08:45 PM
0

It's an older book, and a classic. Sex at Dawn is pretty cool too. You can recite interesting tibets about communication(s) between the sexes at parties. You [at Party]: You know it's not about alpha male competition, it really gets down to actually sperm competition at the molecular level. All fighting for that one egg. And it's not always the fastest guy that wins . . . Her: WOW, WOW, WOW tell me more. You: Of course . . . :-)
/r/seduction13/12/12 01:28 AM
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RULE NUMBER 1: When a guy meets a beautiful woman, ALL the rules just got out the window. Or in the words of a beautiful female friend "when guys see me, their brains just get so scrambled, it's so crazy". Me: ummmmm, ummmmm, what did you just say? :-))))))))))
/r/seduction12/12/12 11:48 PM
3

Women love sex. It's just they are selective in whom they have sex with. A 2011 study reported that 49% of pregnancies in the United States were unintended in 2006 http://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/unintendedpregnancy/
/r/seduction09/12/12 09:48 PM
2

Girls get pregnant, and birth life. It's a big deal who they team up with. Moms don't generally walk away from their kids. You are talking about DNA now being passed on for generations. It's a big deal.
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:51 PM
2

This is really an awesome post by the way. Should be in your top 10 LifeHacks. You can really apply this to almost anything on the path of life related: If you ever plan on living a life that is remotely rewarding, happy, and free, you have to face the possibility that someone, somewhere, is eventually going to disagree with you and reject you. Becoming free, open, happy, and confident, doesn’t happen when you learn to avoid rejection. It happens when you become OK with the idea of rejection and…
/r/seduction09/12/12 08:45 PM
1

Hmmmm, if you live on the ocean, a shell works too. :-)
/r/seduction04/12/12 01:54 PM
-1

Read Sex at Dawn. Monogamy is un/natural. What your GF did is really no big deal. It's really natural. It's just sex, it's no big deal, really it's not. But for sure, read that book.
/r/seduction24/11/12 09:15 AM
1

ok, expanding as they hit me: Feed her, learn to cook anything. Salmon and Tuna are easy. Just set it to broil. DON'T over analyze. They are female. Their brains are constantly in motion, like constantly. You will not be able to keep up. Think the expression is: Hamster Wheel Mind. Have some sort of awesome sex toy. Something slick and slinky. Expect to pay over $100. And ALWAYS make sure it's charged or batteries are new. Stroke her face, gently while sleeping. I'm a squasher. Just love it. Whe…
/r/seduction20/11/12 11:44 PM
3

Have been living with XXs for years. It's fun, give them a late night massage, pick them up coffee in the AM, drop off the laundry. And you'll have un/limited access to the female brain (and her friends). Once you sleep with her, gets a bit complicated, no matter the casual daters say. It's really a blast actually being friends. She has kind of pre/approved you for introducing you to her best buddies.
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:45 PM
1

Sex at Dawn is really an amazing book. The alpha male theory pretty much gets trashed with some pretty solid data disproving it.
/r/seduction11/11/12 08:07 PM
39

There is a whole crew of +50 redditor's that are robbing you young'sters of hipster chicks. How do we do it? Most important, some guys just love women, they don't really like them. We like and love them. Don't give a fuck of course, ask questions, listen. Empower them. Keep stylish, complement, cherish, flowers do work, show them NICE THINGS. Take a breath before you are about to say "No" to anything or anyone. Always take a chance! Just Do it! Read the NYTs Pick up any instrument Foreplay, like…
/r/seduction07/11/12 08:50 PM
2

You can skip all the talks, all the videos, all the tips (but of course have confidence, don't give a fuck, and focus on yourself, Tolle pretty much rocks, really check him out), and the PUA lines, everyone of them. If you LIKE women you will need none of that, if you just LOVE them, you'll need to of course take that direction. Which is fine. Like means all women; old, ugly, short, fat, etc. Lots of guys will spend their life looking for a fix, while it's right there in front of them. You just …
/r/seduction01/10/12 05:17 PM
7

A therapist friend had a great line: Lots of men love women but they don't like them. This pretty much has to do with early childhood things, particularly with mothers, and sisters. Look into your past, do you really like women or just love them. Think about that for awhile. I love them and REALLY like them too. Mom and sister left when I was 7. Think it has something to do with it. I'm surrounded with XXs. Yes, for sure have to add more males into my life, way too many awesome women. Sounds ter…
/r/seduction30/09/12 09:43 PM
6

Once again, it all gets back to "Don't give a fuck'. I am astounded, ALWAYS that people think they are going to live forever. This fact ASTOUNDS me every waking hour. Am I crazy? Is it just me? YOU ARE GOING TO DIE. DONT GIVE A FUCK. Be a super, cool, KIND person, but DON'T GIVE A FUCK. This Paul Bowles clip really says it all. Really required viewing once every few months. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Ddf-8hVNOY
/r/seduction28/09/12 02:22 PM
1

Ok, ok, fuck the email, going right for the phone! Just here to learn! :-)
/r/seduction24/09/12 12:44 AM
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Email is not that bad either. Phones? I guess, just seems so 1990's. Email success rate 100% here.
/r/seduction23/09/12 06:45 AM
3

I'm a +50 redditor in NYC. We are swamped with women here. It's totally out of control. I am fleeing. Good luck! I'm retiring from the hunt. It's been a great run. 10? And I'll get 11 call backs. It's NYC the demographics are nuts. Would NEVER want to be a women in this town. I'd like to know your brain, but can't get passed the 6 inch heels and mini-skirts. Give us guys a break.
/r/seduction22/09/12 03:53 AM
2

Look, the reality here sounds like you thought you were going to just chat up a girl (AKA a Woman) and get laid. That is really not going to happen. There is a lot at risk for her. Like exchange of a of body fluids and some other issues. So go a bit more SLOW. Make friends, hang out. Women are not dumb. They are really super smart. They really are. Make friends first, and don't believe everything you read on seduction. Please don't! :-)
/r/seduction16/09/12 04:51 PM
-11

What? Had a super hot SO. Would go to a bar in Manhattan, there would be a wall of guys around her in a very short time. However she was Eastern European, and so were the bars. Think it's a cultural thing, but swamped she was. Every time.
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:51 PM
2

WTF, read the NYTs everyday. The actual paper edition. You don't have too. But your boss will, guaranteed. So simple! Your brain will explode. And you'll have lots to talk about. Try it for a week.
/r/seduction07/09/12 01:52 PM
2

This is great piece. It's really not for men alone. It can apply just as easily to women. Just sent it off to my roommate. I said, lets discuss. She's a hot blond. And a soul mate. She helps me with my dating life, I'm trying to respond in kind.
/r/seduction06/09/12 11:57 PM
14

The highest level you can reach in the evolution of your spiritual awakening is kindness to strangers. That's it. That is the ultimate secret of life.
/r/seduction31/08/12 03:32 PM
2

Always think it's way harder for the guys. But who knows? Good advice heard here from a post: Why are you happy dude? Your GF (BF) just left you? You are super bummed out right? Well, she just lost someone that really cared for her, respected her, understood her, and cherished her. I lost someone that did not give a shit about me. Who is the winner here? Or something like that. Thought that was a great observation. Really super.
/r/seduction27/08/12 04:29 PM
2

Great advice, but it sounds like someone with this plan will never settle down. Always on the prowl for the next babe. Where does the wife, kids, and picket fence come into play? When do you stop?
/r/seduction23/08/12 06:27 AM
1

Hell, I would love to have the white picket fence, curl up at night with my girl, watch a Netflix, and just drift off to sleep curled up on the couch and get out of this endless PUA game. BORING! FUCK YEAH! Give me the white picket fences. How much better could it be to find a partner like that? Who actually cares about you? That is so awesome to me. Someone that CARES for you? Game over. Lets pour another glass of red. And maybe when we get up together, we can watch some ducks, or shit like tha…
/r/seduction22/08/12 01:43 PM
1

If altruistic traits did not work in the long run, they would have been bred out of our population eons ago. That is the real lesson of the Prisons Dilemma.
/r/seduction21/08/12 08:18 PM
45

NUMBER 1 RULE: Just say hello. Wow, pretty easy right? From a +50 reddit'or. Still working it. :-)))))))))
/r/seduction21/08/12 04:31 PM
-9

She's smart. Listen to her.
/r/seduction18/08/12 01:35 AM
0

Think there was a great quote (slightly off topic): If she leaves you, you feel fine! She just lost a guy that really cherished her. And you lost a mate that didn't really care about you. Not at all. And that is a glorious thing. :-))))))))))))))) And look Tolle is pretty hot stuff. Read that shit! :-))))))))))
/r/seduction14/08/12 04:18 PM
1

It's interesting as an older Reddit'or the insane amount of energy that goes into the pursuit of the XX. Just amazing. The bad news, it does not stop as you get older! LOL! Starting some tips: 1. They are all connected there is a universal female brain, if you treat ANY woman "poorly", it will hit you in the Karma Zone. It will be a light hit. But will take points for sure. You will accumulate these points over the years. And old age will be really a bummer. OR It ain't easy being an XX all the …
/r/seduction13/08/12 10:22 AM
1

Good point. Just grew up with a peer group that was so dismissing of anything that sounded new age like. So I had to move into other circles. ET is NOT cheesy, and will at least rock your world. Yes, a great read for sure.
/r/seduction07/08/12 12:47 PM
7

It may sound cheesy, but pickup the Power of Now by Eckhart. Sounds like you may need to re/boot your life. Talk to a 1000 girls? Ouch. That is just a bit crazy. There is way more to live then that, there really is. [IMHO].
/r/seduction04/08/12 10:38 AM
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Think the Sherry Turkle TED talk [http://www.ted.com/talks/sherry_turkle_alone_together.html] that has been making the rounds is pretty important to watch. The 16 year old who says, "I don't know how to have a conversation anymore - help me". This desperation (look it's desperation ok from the comments i see on seduction), just to have a one night stand. There is truth in saying when you really do give up, it will happen. But it does not hurt to say hello. And yes, I'm a reader, because one does…
/r/seduction03/08/12 01:28 PM
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FORGET IT! Yoga girls are VERY hardcore, and generally un/approachable after class. Their hormones are in FIGHT zone, and males risk having their heads ripped off. Better to wait till you meet up in an Ashram setting. Much better luck from my experience. Check the message board at the center, you'll usually find a retreat setting or a teacher training program, your luck there will be much better. [IMHO]
/r/seduction29/07/12 02:24 PM
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Forget the sex. Forget the sex. Forget the sex. Just hang, an chill. Then who knows. Really. This relentless obsession with trying to spread DNA just get to be so all consuming. Now that i'm +50, i can really look back and say, WTF does nature to do us? It leads to just so much time focused on this one drive and NOTHING else. Of course in my 20s, 30s and 40s I was just as guilty. But now, I'm older and when I stopped the search, the floodgates just opened. Totally. Just holding someone, just for…
/r/seduction27/07/12 10:43 PM
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I'm lucky. I have a sister. It is SO STRANGE to me, how guys have such serious issues with women. I just don't get it. And we need sites like this. Why is it so weird? Why are guys having all these issues? Did this happen 50 years ago? Or is it because of our always on, twitter, FB, text world? I'm suspecting it is. I'm a +50 redditor, and my life is surrounded with awesome women, just surrounded. I never think that much about it. But they are there. STOP POUNCING on them. It's ok. Your DNA will…
/r/seduction27/07/12 06:52 PM
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Also MDMA works wonders. Just a short cut. Or so I have heard. And read Eckhart Tolle. He's pretty simple in theory (live in this moment), but will probably change your life.
/r/seduction26/07/12 07:12 AM
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Tolle pretty much rocks. Required reading for this path.
/r/seduction24/07/12 10:10 PM
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This game, these rules, it's so crazy to me. My dad got out of WW2. Married a second time, had a 25 year marriage. He would have NO clue to what a PUA is none. And well, he was the happiest guy in the world. Is this all now because of the text world we're in? Can we just send letters and go to square dances? [just kidding!] :-)
/r/seduction24/07/12 03:16 PM
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And miss meeting ALL her friends? The Friends Zone can be awesome. It pre/qualifies (screens you, you're not a serial killer) for all her other friends. Really! :-)
/r/seduction24/07/12 07:42 AM
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Time to find another? Heck +50 redditor here. Yes, they're still there. LOL! :-)))))))))))))))
/r/seduction24/07/12 07:30 AM
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Well did you blog it? I'm sure you met some amazing people too.
/r/seduction22/07/12 04:04 PM
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So you need to have your mind blown it seems. Go to India. Sit down with a person that has nothing, I mean nothing! He (she) lives on a street, dressed in a rag. And look that person in the eye, and when they start to tell you EVERYTHING about your life, and you have never seen them before, and then laughs as you freak out, and they say, see "you really don't know anything do you". That will blow your mind. Highly suggest you get to a 4th world slum. You need to have your mind blown, or else you…
/r/seduction22/07/12 01:43 PM
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Ignore all my advice. My girl just walked away from me. Just poof. In the end, I know nothing. Nothing at all. Time to take a nice walk down Broadway on a hot summer day. And just be happy I can do that walk. Sigh . . . One in a billion she was. But maybe she really was crazy after all. That has to be it. Can't be me right? LOL! :-)
/r/seduction22/07/12 01:33 PM
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Williamsburg [AKA Brooklyn] hipster who just walks away with the girls every time: him: I make puppets. Big puppets. [takes deep breath] And crochet. her: OMG. OMG. OMG. They just drop out his feet, just drop. It's crazy to see him in action.
/r/seduction21/07/12 08:55 PM
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From a +50 redditor: Yes, even learning for me. Just TALK, say anything. ANYTHING. And then listen. Live in the moment, read Tolle. Do yoga, keep in shape, get a manicure. You can live without them, it's a bummer but true. Smile lots. Be interesting! Get smart, and PS, woman LOVE science guys. So read up on Physics. Be kind to strangers. Travel. Just a few ideas. Being a woman is hard. Read Men are from Mars Women are from Venus. That is a GREAT book. 1. CARE 2. RESPECT 3. UNDERSTANDING 4. DEVOT…
/r/seduction20/07/12 03:49 PM
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I mean did you do India? Stories from there are just so crazy. Never get old. So I met the guy who was time traveling from 32,987 AD at the Hanuman Ghat in Varansai, with the burning body as the dogs made off with an arm and we smoked some amazing hash, and then well, the sun broke through the clouds at 1 AM at night, and the rainbow hit him on the head, and well, then he disappeared into a puff of smoke, and I ummm, well then someone gave me a strange drug and said don't ever take this, this, n…
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:11 PM
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Think it's a bit extreme to say these are asshole qualities. I'm from NYC, thought these were all baseline. Part of the DNA here.
/r/seduction21/06/12 06:30 PM
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So she seduced you? You know that's what happened right? I'm always astonished that the seduction crew thinks they are in control of this game. The XXs win every time. Much smarter then us guys. I'm assuming you paid for the beers. :-)
/r/seduction12/06/12 04:52 PM
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Oh, come out to deep Brooklyn. Try that line here. Walk home with broken jaw. And that's from the girl. But it's worth a try. Life is short. Need to experience it all one guesses.:-)
/r/seduction09/06/12 09:24 PM
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Change the name from Seduction to XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX ? Seduction implies trickery. At least a tinge of it. You were fooled out of your savings, you were seduced by a banker to sign that mortgage, etc.
/r/seduction07/06/12 05:07 PM
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Number 1, which I don't see there? And will carry you further then all of these put together? Be kind to strangers. That's it. That's the quick root to the best life of all. Great list by the way. :-)
/r/seduction06/06/12 03:00 PM
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There are a few points here, that are interesting, but overall, the guy sounds really mixed up. Another example of a guy that just for sure does not understand women. Seems like he's almost scared of them? NOT the advice I would give for sure.
/r/seduction06/06/12 12:20 PM
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After seduction you may end up with 2 kids, a mortgage, 30/40 years of a marriage to a SO. For some strange reason, no one on self.seduction seems to EVER think about that. And that's why the women will ALWAYS win. They think this "Game" is hilarious by the way. For in the end, "We always win the Game". We always do. But it's fun to see you guys work so hard at it." Take the mile high view, you are NOT seducing them, THEY are seducing you. The ONLY tip you will ever need: Just live in the moment…
/r/seduction31/05/12 06:30 PM
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Obvious not a New Yorker. XXs would crush you in this town. :-)
/r/seduction30/05/12 02:31 PM
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Brilliant! So The Game is officially dead. It's run it's course. That's cool.
/r/seduction23/05/12 12:09 AM
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hmmm, feel kinda of sad when my friend cries. She's really one in a billion. But that's me.
/r/seduction14/05/12 10:26 PM
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Sounds like Eckhart Tolle. Who is recommending reading. Just be in the NOW.
/r/seduction11/05/12 09:41 PM
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IMMEDIATELY pack you bags and MOVE TO Brooklyn dude. IMMEDIATELY. You need a re/boot. This place will shoot you to the moon. You'll be swept in a maelstrom of new ideas, awesome people, music, art, just on fire at the moment. Everyone is from every country on the planet. And all meeting here. If you have to sleep on a park bench, you just do it. Life is WAY yo short to even waste a minute, really it is.
/r/seduction10/05/12 01:39 PM
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From a +50 (age) redditor: Problems arise from attraction. This is pretty will hashed to death in all your interactions with any enlightened being, they'll lay this on you. But now what? You get attached anyway. Life is short, a day without her (or him) was a day without that attached feeling. Solution? Just have to say no. that's it. And all will work out. Really it well. Have the one in a billion on again off again romance thing. She is beyond anyone have met in +35 years of this dating thing.…
/r/seduction10/05/12 01:29 PM
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"When you’re walking with her, lightly push her into chairs, pillars, telephone poles." Ummm, Ok, I can try this one out. Woops, missed the poll sorry about that bus. Ouch.
/r/seduction27/04/12 09:47 PM
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Have made it a policy that if she has a BF just lay low. There is some Karma points there. Just let it flow.
/r/seduction24/04/12 11:53 AM
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This observation is more then meets the eye. It pertains to any relationship. It's not something we can control but has to do with how our brains are wired. Tribes that stayed in one spot died out, those that moved, stayed viable. For ANY woman (man), if you are always there, the allure just goes away. Know it's tough, we're not immortal, and time goes by so fast, and you really want to spend every moment with someone, but in the long run, it really is something that really makes a relationship …
/r/seduction21/04/12 11:17 PM
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If someone in their mid 20s doesn't have a smart phone I personally wonder what their deal is. Maybe a hipster? They're always ahead of their time. :-)
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:04 PM
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I had a few talks with Tim. He was "computers, computers, computers, get these kids into computers, that's how they'll take over the system". Ahead of his time of course.
/r/seduction14/04/12 06:37 PM
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Be alpha. Run into NYC girl. Have head ripped off. Repeat above. ;-) I love this town.
/r/seduction13/04/12 11:11 PM
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The energy spent in this pursuit of DNA to replicate itself sometimes is just mind blowing to me. Our brains just totally have us under control to reproduce. And the DNA is laughing all the way to the bank. This can be so draining after awhile. Just really draining.
/r/seduction28/03/12 07:16 PM
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I like to agree too. But dude, it's like NYC. It's crazy here. Resistance is kind of fruitless, but we somehow we march forward. The women here are super cool. And lots! [IMHO] :-) How Rihanna says it: [which goes against pretty much all alt.seduction advice] Want you to make me feel like I'm the only girl in the world Like I'm the only one that you'll ever love Like I'm the only one who knows your heart Only girl in the world...
/r/seduction20/03/12 01:22 AM
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Great advice, but also to take into account: When a man meets a beautiful woman, his brain just get scrambled, they really do. And everything just blows up on you! Brain chemistry, hard to overrule that, but one can try. The best seduction tip of all: Just say hello! :-)
/r/seduction19/03/12 02:21 PM
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There are 250,000 more women then men in NYC. We don't have to do a thing. It's a wondrous town. Just show up. That's about it. Enjoy the read.
/r/seduction16/03/12 09:06 PM
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There is a great scene from Citizen Kane. Where one of the guys says: I just saw her, for a second on the Hoboken Ferry. Just for one second. And I'll never see her again, and will never forget her. Never. Goes something like that if you catch the flick.
/r/seduction12/03/12 01:51 PM
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All you have to say is "HELLO". Put away the books. It's so EASY! :-))))))))))
/r/seduction18/02/12 05:50 PM
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Having a short cropped beard works wonders. Shows a genetic advantage in procreating superior offspring. Well I just made that up, but it "could" be true. :-))))))))))
/r/seduction17/02/12 08:26 AM
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This all leads into living in the "Now". Once you follow that path (AKA Tolle, Krishnamurti, Watts, Leary, and many more) you really leap frog this life. It's that simple. Just live in the "Now". The past is gone. GONE! And the future you have NO control over, even if you think you do. All you have is the "Now". AKA Wow, I'm seeing this 1 in a billion soulmate, she's amazing! WOW WOW WOW. And x, y, z, what is our future, and what about how I blew that date the other week, and what is she going t…
/r/seduction08/02/12 05:56 AM
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Read the NYTs. EVERYDAY. Not online, but paper. It will make you smart, cool, and more intense. Guaranteed! :-)))))))
/r/seduction17/01/12 05:18 PM
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Yeah, what you do is you make some strides with a girl and then purposely ditch her. And then karma comes along. Really it will. GUARANTEED. I think with this attitude, you never will really understand women. You'll just will not. [IMHO]. And that may be ok, but I think you risk missing out. I really do.
/r/seduction07/01/12 03:36 AM
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Also suggest a nice bottle of wine. You can also DL a flick from Amazon. I'm kind of a bit older the most guys here. So I get into the role playing VERY quickly. And then keep her in bed for hours. I generally wake up with her wrapped around my body. So tight, I just go for it. Even after 30 years of dating, it's still the greatest feeling in the world. Her, totally wrapped around me. I hope to die that way. And with a smile. Great writeup.
/r/seduction27/12/11 09:23 PM
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One up/vote? This +50 redditor give you the secret to the fucking holy grail. One vote? They never learn. Until it's too late! LOL. The women I hang out with now, 1 in a billion. 1 in a billion. :-))) Follow my advice grasshoppers!
/r/seduction21/12/11 03:05 PM
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So she is basically controlling you. HA! Sounds like she knows exactly what she(s) is doing. :-) Dude, they know EXACTLY what is going on.
/r/seduction20/12/11 10:01 PM
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sigh .......... this is such a total miss/conception on all these date/advise/newsletters/forums. The Alpha male is not hitting homeruns out of the ball park he really is not. OMG, no one gets it. NO ONE GETS IT! Bad boy is cool, but dudes you have to be WAY more then that. As I have mentioned a DOZEN TIMES before, EMPOWER HER. That's it. And you will not only have wild crazy sex, but you may, just may end up with a soul mate someday that will live with you forever, care for you when you are dow…
/r/seduction19/12/11 02:08 PM
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I would love to hear an older man's opinion The last woman I was with said I was too krazy with the sex. There were no orgasms left to give. She was a +10. Ok, maybe don't think of me as one of the old guys, maybe more like one of those gray bearded guys in lord of the rings; who just may have a tip or 2. :-) EMPOWER HER LOOK INTO HER EYES LISTEN HOW DOES SHE FEEL FEED HER GET A PROFESSIONAL MANICURE (She looks at your hands before anything else, where they may end up) GIVE HER COOL STUFF (price…
/r/seduction17/12/11 04:43 PM
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Wow. Great writeup. :-) thanks
/r/seduction17/12/11 08:19 AM
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+50 (age) redditor here. You will meet 9 muses in your life. They will be mind blowing, intelligent woman. They will not be the one in a million, they will be the 1 in a billion. If you try any of the classic PUA lines, they will laugh you out the door. The NUMBER ONE RULE after 30+ years of this: Empower her. You can't lose. That's it. NUMBER 2,3,4,5: Tease her a bit, read the fucking NYTs, do your yoga, and always bring her a tiny gift, even if it cost a buck. Then you are on your way. Oh, and…
/r/seduction15/12/11 12:24 PM
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umm, do you ever want to settle down with a woman for the rest of your life, raise a family, have a tiny house with a picket fence and a dog? Just curious. One of those GFs could be your soul mate. Just maybe. :-)
/r/seduction15/12/11 12:12 PM
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I saw this video once, this guy had like a dozen hot chicks, he was kind of weird looking. He followed no rules, read no popular /seduction books, did not take a class, did not subscribe to a newsletter, none of that. Just one thing: I try to think how can I enhance her life, empower her. That's it. Was so simple in the end. It was a cosmic thing to see. Go in with that attitude, and you'll end up with the coolest XX friends in the world. Really you will. For in the end they will outlive you, an…
/r/seduction01/12/11 12:18 PM
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And this is why us old guys, with scruffy beards, and ripped jeans, just walk away with the chicks! It's a Brooklyn thing. :-) BUT ABSOLUTELY keep those nails trimmed! Get a professional manicure. REALLY. :-)))))))))))
/r/seduction28/11/11 01:13 PM
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Ummm, I would suggest hanging out a bit in NYC. There are +20s here. Really there are. :-))))))))))))
/r/seduction28/10/11 11:30 PM
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So she seduced you for her pleasure, got you to pay for Dinner, and the cab fare too. OMG, don't you guys get it yet! I love how everyone thinks they have to play these games, go to confs, buy books. And in the end, THEY are SO FAR AHEAD of us. Really they are! :-) Everyone gets that right? LOL
/r/seduction25/10/11 12:14 PM
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Get a tattoo! :-) How can you ever be boring after that?
/r/seduction16/10/11 10:08 PM
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Ummm, u know they are programming you right? :-) It's a lost cause. Just cherish the female. Forget The Game, do yoga, and keep in shape. You'll be swamped, really. :-))))))))
/r/seduction03/10/11 03:11 AM
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I think it's better to say "Good Day" myself. :-) Seems to be like a Hi? :-))))))))))))))
/r/seduction30/09/11 06:09 PM
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