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1

I'd ignore that chapter. That's... disturbing.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:00 AM
2

I view this behavior as a power play. If the discussion isn't going the way she wants but can't really argue against the points made, then they argue "A" word. It derails the discussion.
/r/MensRights02/12/23 06:15 PM
1

I'm just glad you're ok and we're smart enough to get checked out. Good job!
/r/MensRights30/10/23 12:39 AM
8

Put everything in a trust
/r/MensRights11/09/23 11:58 PM
387

It's a shaming tactic, used to shut up men and allow these women the space to do whatever they want.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 08:58 PM
4

If cs, alimony and taxes are eating his money before he even sees it, how can he afford an international trip?
/r/MensRights10/08/23 06:52 PM
1

So this old argument is back. Here's my counter argument. No one will EVER make me responsible for where they place their own ass.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 03:19 PM
8

The shows Leverage and Leverage: Redemption. They repeatedly have (mostly women) drug men, and it's "acceptable". It's like the message is, you can drug people as long as you don't sexually violate them. I personally am a fan of the show, but these scenes pass me off because if the genders were flipped, that would end the show.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/23 02:42 PM
1

I don't know the actual percentages, but I believe it's underreported because, apparently, false accusations aren't illegal. Maybe a civil suit but not criminal.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 04:39 PM
1

It not, but I felt I had to post this somewhere.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 03:27 PM
3

Let those folk find their happiness wherever they can.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 05:52 PM
1

In my opinion, womanchild is a thing. Nowadays it's just called womanhood. I don't say this as an insult, but I've seen 25-35 year old women have full-on temper tantrums, get into screaming matches with children (ages 9-15 for example) and try to reject consequences for their own actions. This, obviously, is not across the board, but yes, womenchild is definitely an understated thing.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 11:42 AM
3

Prenuptial or LLC
/r/MensRights25/01/23 09:18 PM
8

I don't know, but it should be called r/howwokeisthis.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 09:03 PM
1

Yea I'm a fan of Deon Cole, but he looks weak after in those commercials. I understand he's getting paid and it's comedy but c'mon man.
/r/AntiFeminists06/01/23 01:54 AM
1

Power used wisely by a woman is constructive, power used poorly by a woman is destructive. Same as a guy, but we construct physically they construct emotionally/mentally (not an all-inclusive statement of course)
/r/MensRights01/01/23 07:06 AM
9

She plead guilty so the court showed mercy.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 04:31 AM
2

I've lost count on the number of times I was told that. Now I believe "man up=shut up".
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:29 PM
1

It does.
/r/Male_Studies29/11/22 06:06 PM
4

Glad you brought this up. You stole/stated my counter-argument.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 05:44 PM
3

In my family, everyone contributed in some way. The men were, mainly in charge of the meats (especially anything grilled), women handled veggies, sides, and deserts. Everyone set up and cleaned, kids included.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 01:55 PM
1

Since he wants to do for you, just tell him you want him to take care of himself, health and financially.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 01:38 PM
3

Do it. Some light needs to be shed on these things.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 09:24 PM
-1

That just means we're gonna haven't to have us
/r/MensRights23/11/22 07:12 PM
1

I agree completely, and I wholeheartedly understand the anger. I'd like to see us men rise above all that BS. That's my point.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 06:42 PM
2

Of course she did
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:14 PM
3

Thanks
/r/MensRights23/11/22 04:56 PM
6

Just correcting some things.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 04:47 PM
4

No, feminism = the devil. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/MensRights23/11/22 03:28 PM
0

Yea I hadn't thought of that. Thank for pointing that out.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 02:50 PM
9

I know. That's why I apologized. I was attempting to say "ignore feminism" but it came across to some as something else.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 02:49 PM
1

Somewhat agree. There are decent guys here and I don't want to disparage them.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 02:39 PM
7

Fair enough
/r/MensRights23/11/22 02:15 PM
5

My wording. I should have said feminism bashing, not woman. A lot of people asked for proof, which I didn't provide, so my bad on that too.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 02:11 PM
5

No I don't think differently, I saw where I needed correcting and addressed it. Also, no I don't ask the women this. They're more vitriolic than ever, and it's a waste of time (generally).
/r/MensRights23/11/22 02:08 PM
3

I'm not pushing for common ground, just attempting (not that well) for MORE male support from men.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 02:05 PM
41

Agreed
/r/MensRights23/11/22 01:59 PM
17

I'm not not scared or anything. I believe in righting my wrongs.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 01:41 PM
2

Read my follow up post
/r/MensRights23/11/22 01:36 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 11:19 AM
0

Fair enough
/r/MensRights23/11/22 12:44 AM
0

Fair enough.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 12:03 AM
11

In under an hour, I've received various comments some good, some less good. I apologize for not providing proof, but it's all good. I get that most of what I spoke on is a reaction to their reactions, my only point is focus on uplifting us. If you're just venting, then vent, no problems there. How does this make me a beta male simp, though?
/r/MensRights22/11/22 11:05 PM
4

According to some of the comments, I don't know, apparently.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 10:55 PM
-1

I can't disagree with you on that. I'll even admit that i may not always be able to sort out friend or foe.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 10:20 PM
-21

No I'm sneaking bathroom breaks to type this. I'm not off for another hour
/r/MensRights22/11/22 09:59 PM
-33

Off hand, no but read some comments. It is a minority in this group, but it's there. I fully understand most here are helping/venting or just shedding light on some issues.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 09:57 PM
18

That's a question for a lawyer. Different states, different judges.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 09:50 PM
6

No sir, no feminist here. I know we can be better with or without women in our lives. That's my point. You can sing kumbaya with whoever you want though.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 09:48 PM
9

Wassup?
/r/MensRights22/11/22 08:49 PM
2

He also has freedom... and an air mattress.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:57 PM
2

Exactly
/r/MensRights19/11/22 06:34 PM
14

Another simple tactic is simply over-talking. I find that infuriating.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 11:27 PM
18

In just glad the was some justice. I haven't followed this much, but I understand that there were many non-investors that received no justice whatsoever.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 11:22 PM
17

Personally, no. I've seen the damage it does, though. I feel for ya man. I think (possibly incorrectly) that for you, the best way to avoid these situations is to come out early in your various relationships. Just my thought, don't take it to seriously.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 04:42 PM
1

Yea they're only ok after you join and within certain limits
/r/MensRights16/11/22 02:07 PM
4

Do that, also maybe plans some overseas trips with you child (if possible). The Navy had me doing a bit of traveling and I truly enjoyed every place we visited. I highly recommend international traveling to everyone who can.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 01:53 PM
26

To be fair, the woman agreed he's right to have his preference, she just didn't like how he expressed it. In other words, thought/speech policing.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 01:22 PM
6

Good for them!!!
/r/MensRights16/11/22 12:18 PM
43

That's why I'm single. If a woman claims to love me, but cheats, she's better and I'm worse? It's like they aren't built for relationships (monogamous one's at least). I don't get it.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 11:31 AM
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I'm 3 years off CS. It truly feels great when I look at my check and have ALL that I earned. I love my daughter, and now I help her as best I can, not state ordered assistance. Government has no business in families, except for abuse situations and unresolved property disputes.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 11:22 AM
8

Sorry for your loss.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 08:20 PM
15

That's awesome. Buy that person a beer or whatever they drink.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 08:17 PM
31

No one. Full stop.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 06:40 PM
5

Man that's awesome. This sub really does need more feel-good stories and this one is great. I truly hope you and your son have many more moments like this.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 02:01 AM
-1

Thornback- another term for unmarried women of a certain age.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 01:48 AM
20

To be fair, it's not all of them. We, unfortunately, just hear the loudest mouths in the room. I agree that it's sadly hilarious though, but I always remember it's not all.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 11:38 AM
188

So strip the beauty aspect and focus on productivity/creativity and attractive men thrive? Wahmin affected most.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 03:43 PM
24

Left or right leaning shouldn't matter. What matters is she took a stand against (I guess borderline) hate speech. Good on her.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 11:51 PM
36

Ask them who hurt them. Then accuse them of being controlling.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:19 PM
4

Let's see how justice plays out
/r/MensRights04/11/22 07:16 PM
2

100% agree
/r/MensRights03/11/22 11:43 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/MensRights03/11/22 07:45 PM
4

If we keep this going, we might have a script on our hands 🤣🤣🤣
/r/MensRights03/11/22 07:10 PM
6

Understood, but I still like my idea🤣🤣🤣
/r/MensRights03/11/22 06:40 PM
2

Lmao, both. Edit: Whatever gravy you like.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 05:42 PM
81

Honestly, I'd pay to see black widow charge into a fully staffed ninja convent and absolutely slaughter everyone in there except a small child that she then raises in the Way of the Assassin. All jokes aside, I'd really pay to see that. The badass woman can vanquish military units trope is getting old, fast.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 05:40 PM
4

Here's as good a place as any.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 05:33 PM
1

Truly a great article. I like that she pointed out that all dads are not the bumbling idiots or absentees that the media portrays.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 05:19 PM
8

So theoretically, make up a reason to be "unhappy", cheat and find liberal women. They got you covered.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 03:40 PM
10

Many men have asked this question. The answer is that society views men/dads are expendable/replaceable (very false). Women/mothers are priceless (true, I love my mom to no end). Manu people may disagree, but with the amount of reports like yours, I can't see otherwise.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 03:16 PM
2

Meatloaf and mashed potatoes
/r/MensRights03/11/22 02:46 PM
10

A fucking cat!!! C'mon man we gotta be more valuable than that.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 08:34 PM
2

A lot of young guys have anger issues. You being single is great, you can focus on building your life the way you want, and work out the anger in a (hopefully) safe way. Then if a woman comes into the picture, you at least will be stable enough to make a reasonable decision about relationship stuff. Or you could just stay single.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 08:16 PM
2

Congrats on the weight loss bro!
/r/MensRights02/11/22 08:12 PM
3

Unfortunately he needs a lawyer.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 03:01 PM
27

They made a movie about her. Monster starring Charlize Theron
/r/MensRights02/11/22 03:30 AM
1

I heard about this. Truly tragic.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 08:47 PM
6

Great response!
/r/MensRights01/11/22 06:17 PM
3

Any homeless shelter, literally any.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 05:17 PM
19

I've had a couple of occasions where I'd be in the men's room, handling my business, and the cleaning lady would walk in like it was empty. I'd say "give me a minute, ill be right out" and she'd just say "it's nothing I haven't already seen". So I guess we're not "entitled to privacy nowadays.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 02:22 PM
28

Simpin is highly encouraged.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 12:06 AM
2

That's just a flex. The woman knows (or believes) she has better options but plays this ego-boost game where the other person in constantly in panic mode. If/when the other person is fed up and leaves, this steals the "power" back, and anyone in power freaks out when it's suddenly gone.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 11:59 PM
2

No lies detected.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 09:07 PM
12

Man listen, DO NOT let anyone, man, woman, child, or Trans tell you how to express your feelings. I tell anyone around me that if you've gotta drop some tears, then drop those tears. If you're the hold-it-in type that's fine too.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 08:59 PM
1

I agree. I'm just saying those boys have to get older and if they grow up feeling left behind, all sorts of negativity will be with them (and anyone they're around). Obviously not all will go down that path, buy history has shown that enough will.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 08:47 PM
2

That's how hard it is to be a man in America.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 08:43 PM
1

This is short-sighted at best and hypocritical at worst. If degenerate men are the problem, then why knowingly leave boys behind. It's like the Australians forgot that boys have this terrible habit of getting older. Just saying.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:24 PM
2

I'm glad this Mr. Imperius said it. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:20 PM
2

Write-ins are an option.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 03:27 PM
5

A Google search I did says states get 66 cent for every dollar charged to the dad.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 03:01 PM
2

I looked into this a bit and basically spousal privilege is a thing, but it must be claimed by either spouse, and there are exceptions that vary by state.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 11:29 PM
5

I appreciate this. As a husband/dad that dealt with an extended separation, child support and life in general, thank you. Aa a side FLEX, my Dad and kid sister threw me some praise a few years ago because I'm the first and only guy they know that completed his child support obligations ON TIME!!! That flex doesn't really belong here, but I had to brag a bit🤣🤣🤣
/r/MensRights29/10/22 06:21 AM
7

That so-called case worker is an absolute nightmare.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 04:38 AM
1

Oh I agree. Hollywood/Disney has failed many generations and there needs to be a change.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 04:22 AM
1

To kinda piggyback, what I've gathered is women don't necessarily want the bad guy, but a good man with the bad guy edge. So don't be a Dick, but don't be a pushover either.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 12:29 AM
14

I always think, well the mom clearly doesn't care about the man, but what about the child/children? Why do they not get to know their real father. How is that "In the best interest" of the child/children? I've yet to hear anyone speak on that issue.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 07:57 PM
2

Definitely true
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:47 PM
8

That post is possibly a fake.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 04:07 PM
4

F*cking sad
/r/MensRights27/10/22 03:08 AM
3

Of course
/r/MensRights26/10/22 10:37 AM
6

Hey man, unfortunately I'm not in a position to help financially, but I have been trying to spread the word to help garner any help possible (on and offline). I truly hope you make it through this and I wish could do more.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:47 PM
9

No problem. I wish I could help him more, but hopefully getting his message out helps.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:49 PM
13

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/yd42dv/im_dying_because_i_cant_afford_the_medical/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:37 PM
41

There is a gentleman floating around this sub that is dying from intestinal problems. Right now he is in serious need of financial assistance. Everyone has problems, but I'm placing him at the top of the list right now.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 02:51 PM
17

This may sound petty, but keep on living just to spite all the haters. Sometimes that f*ck you mentality is enough.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 10:57 AM
11

I believe these commercials make BM look weak. Like as soon as they make something for men, a woman can just take it. I may be reading to much into this because I know it's supposed to be comedy but ...
/r/MensRights24/10/22 08:04 PM
1

Well I'd say single mother homes are at higher risk, but only because they "win" the majority of custody cases.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 01:47 PM
2

I'm the oldest, but my brother-in-law has 9 sisters (1 younger than him). It's clear that they all love each other, but honestly, some of the stories he's told me are horrific. I thank God that I'm a oldest son. My siblings don't know how they were blessed 🤣🤣🤣
/r/MensRights23/10/22 09:18 PM
76

That's what this space is for. We've all felt some variation of what you're going through. We all have felt like no one cares, but you can vent here.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 03:45 PM
3

So the article basically states that the falsely accused should focus on the major things (I agree) and then focus on moving forward. That's it?
/r/MensRights19/10/22 08:49 PM
4

I've heard all my life that girls mature earlier than boys, but I keep seeing "adult" women throwing full-on tantrums because they get caught doing wrong. Make it make sense, please.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 07:26 PM
20

Man this sucks. My ex admitted that she lied and I still lost. I truly hope things go better for you.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 02:25 AM
1

I'm glad that men aren't the only "violent" members of society. That shit got old.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 01:16 AM
6

You run the risk of a very broken heart which can really put you on a downward spiral. You may luck out, but it's rare. As a rule, accept luck but do not count on it. Instead always be building your life.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:01 AM
3

No that's not a deadbeat dad. That's at most an absent father. If he's willing to provide for the child, but not be a part of its life then that's just absent, but financially responsible.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:40 PM
12

That's what they want you to believe. Listen, no one is more important than anyone else. I'm also a black man and I've experienced similar things. When they call you "incel" or whatever just keep moving forward in life. The thing is that women do have more opportunities in education, the workforce, and society overall. I personally believe that some of them feel that this gives them some pseudo-superpower and with our anti-male government we, as men, are left to figure this new world out with no…
/r/MensRights06/10/22 11:34 PM
3

Yea. I read the whole article and it said that SHE left the matrimonial home AND the ex-husbands party business closed (im guessing permanently) but he has to pay for her and the kid(s). I have no issue with the kid part, but to pay for her leaving is brutal.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 10:59 PM
8

Anytime I hear patriarchy, I check out.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 04:11 PM
7

No lies detected.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 01:02 AM
5

So I don't know Canadian law, but I assume that due to the length of your relationship, alimony won't hit you too bad/long. Child support is what it is, but you seem like a stand-up guy who'd provide for his child(ren). Many men have been in similar situations and survived, some even thrived. You can/will too.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 12:54 AM
2

His key word was argue. Conversations and debates are perfectly fine. Arguments with people who refuse to listen are pointless.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 01:30 AM
1

Just another link to help spread the word https://youtu.be/JgN_CfU-3Aw
/r/MensRights26/09/22 09:18 PM
2

Understood.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 04:51 PM
1

Not at all
/r/MensRights23/09/22 02:39 PM
4

In regards to your statement about feminist going to far. I couldn't agree more. For almost 20 years I've been saying they don't want equality they want superiority.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 11:53 AM
1

No lies detected here.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 11:50 AM
0

I agree but I stay men need to improve to become the heads and not the tails. Also I'm also pro-MGTOW, but only because, like you, I see to much bs
/r/MensRights23/09/22 03:49 AM
-1

Well I didn't state it but I meant men should be able to do for themselves and not rely on the gov't, women, or anyone. Of course we all need help at times, but we can all do better. I'm not against relationships at all, nor do I believe we can be perfect, I just think we can all do better. I understand that I sound quite MGTOW at times, my bad for that. I see your point and I am actually working on that
/r/MensRights23/09/22 03:24 AM
3

I agree with you. I mean, I get why the guys hopped onto that paragraph (it's bs) but we've gotta look at the picture on the whole. Ultimately us men and those women need to do better. I see this everyday due to my job. I see too many feminized men and way to many masculine women. I still have faith in both, although it's dwindling tbh.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 12:45 AM
1

I personally don't see an end game. Women's liberation has shown women's true nature and you can't change nature (safely). Too many women "don't need no man" and it's possible that that's what they'll end with. I don't say this as a woman hater, but as a 43 year old man I've heard men ain't sh*t my whole life, sooooo there you go. Invest in cat food and wine. I do wish it wasn't this way as I believe in marriage but it is what it is.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 06:25 PM
13

Outstanding. Kudos to this "lad". His efforts truly make me proud.
/r/MensRights23/08/22 12:41 AM
2

Not all heroes receive praise. If you gotta go, you gotta go.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 01:05 AM
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