elai Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Why do the seduction community types have a hard time with relationships?		elai	/r/seduction	17/08/11 05:51 AM

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1	2013 AMA Series – xsplat When you have four girls, were they all living at your place or was it one at a time? How did that work out?	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 12:39 AM
1	Can't get over my race Motherfucking Bruce Lee Enough said.	/r/seduction	03/08/12 11:23 PM
1	Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier. You forget to mention that good, healthy romantic relationships are a big part of mental health. Which what this is all about.	/r/seduction	03/08/12 04:57 AM
0	Guide to having a hot girlfriend Treat him like gold, but don't be the overly attached girlfriend meme.	/r/seduction	24/07/12 03:38 AM
5	Why Women lose the dating game (or: AFgirl?) Online dating? Biggest market for online dating is for 30+ somethings that are having problems meeting anybody new, or are too busy with work, etc.	/r/seduction	28/04/12 08:24 PM
1	Finally getting over AA, but ejecting too early. Suggestions? Don't eject until she walks away or rejects you flat out or at the very least try for a phone number.	/r/seduction	11/02/12 11:42 PM
3	"We're apt to fall in love with those who are mysterious and challenging to us," says Helen Fisher, a professor of anthropology at Rutgers University Why don't you get a vasectomy so you won't be afraid to have a libido again? They are reversible. I would suggest RISUG, but that wont be on the general market for probably 5-10 years from now :/	/r/seduction	06/02/12 08:55 AM
1	It seems to me that pick-up gets easier after turning 21, at least when going out solo. Clubs & bars take some getting used to. You have to go to them several dozen times to know whats good or not and begin to like them.	/r/seduction	06/02/12 08:46 AM
1	It seems to me that pick-up gets easier after turning 21, at least when going out solo. Yeah, but you got probably college. I'm stuck in a business park surrounded by houses, to go out for lunch would be 20 minutes of driving minimum, and I work in software so there are about 5 women out of 70 people. Hooking up with classmates or other college students on your campus is awesome, coworkers are a really bad idea. You get big gaps of time in between classes and you can hit on girls, skip classes if you want most of the time, yada yada. You have a flexible schedule, and college partie…	/r/seduction	06/02/12 08:43 AM
22	Cosmo is good for something after all Woosh!	/r/seduction	05/02/12 08:10 AM
1	In your experience, how has being lazy/strict about your physique affected the response you get from women? Date girls from the gym/yoga class/etc? To be honest I think most people, men and women, are like that.	/r/seduction	28/01/12 06:50 AM
6	Talking to women at gyms: how is this NOT creepy? Creepy just means uncomfortable.	/r/seduction	26/01/12 10:48 PM
0	Talking to women at gyms: how is this NOT creepy? You have a lot of time at the gym, so there is no rush to get somewhere since they might be gone tomorrow. And there are girls who wear makeup going to the gym, they're going to get hit on.	/r/seduction	26/01/12 10:47 PM
3	I Feel Like I'm Regressing! Go out with friends, with the primary goal of enjoying yourself. Approach some girls while you do that too. Don't make it into a chore. Approach in the fast food shop, approach in the store, just make it part of your day.	/r/seduction	26/01/12 05:58 AM
1	Very sexually experienced woman, willing to answer ANY questions you have. Cool thanks!	/r/seduction	20/01/12 12:40 AM
1	Very sexually experienced woman, willing to answer ANY questions you have. Cool good to know. If a guy gave you a number after talking for 5 minutes and the girls pulling away, it's pretty likely it wouldn't go anywhere? I've heard cockblocking as they call it here (girls pulling their friends away) is a strongly american thing, and it radiates to all the other anglo countries.	/r/seduction	19/01/12 09:31 PM
1	I can't stop mental masturbation, but when it comes game time... An equivalent way to overcome it is to be fucking sick and tired and disgusted at yourself for being afraid. It's just saying hello, talking about whatever and being a human being. It works for me.	/r/seduction	19/01/12 07:02 AM
2	Learn from my mistakes: the personal experiences of a guy who's been in the Game for 3 months I think for most guys just starting out they should avoid negs all together, it just makes things too complicated. To be honest you'll probably blurt out not nice things reactively all the time. I once blurted out "To get attention?" to an angry drunk girl who said "we kissed each other (other girl)".	/r/seduction	18/01/12 09:04 AM
1	Very sexually experienced woman, willing to answer ANY questions you have. If that was a club where the music is super loud everywhere inside it and crazy packed, how would of it gone differently? Or did you yell into each others ears and said 50 words tops? If you were with a group of friends at a club (most girls) and a guy approached you, how would it go? How should he go about it if you liked him? What does it mean when your talking to a girl, it seems to be going good and her groups of friends pull her away, do you let your girlfriends do that often? How should th…	/r/seduction	18/01/12 08:58 AM
1	Let's say you're an adult teen unable to have a job for a few months without much money and you're interested in getting laid in the near future. What do you do? Oh yeah, just be clean, teeth brushed, wearing clean clothing, etc and she really won't be able to tell if your broke or a guy with a porsche. That really doesn't come up. A typical new outfit from walmart (one color shirt, undies, socks, jeans, shoes) can cost you $50 all by itself. And the shirt being in good condition is the most important. Worn jeans are stylish after all :D and a new shirt can just cost a few dollars. Act all mysterious and make her play games if she asks about what you do.…	/r/seduction	13/01/12 09:46 AM
3	Let's say you're an adult teen unable to have a job for a few months without much money and you're interested in getting laid in the near future. What do you do? Get a google voice number. You can make calls and texts through gmail and receive calls and texts and see them later. It's free. Do you have a local campus near by? Or other busy place like a mall or similar? Approach girls, simple pickup style, always insist on their place if it goes to that. Or yours if that can work. All the romantic comedies are about meeting a guy in the day time through a chance encounter anyway.	/r/seduction	13/01/12 08:51 AM
2	What I've learned after years of being in a female-dominated profession and schooling School is different than work. You can get fired from work a little too easily. From school you'd just be where you were originally if you didn't do anything. And there are so many single girls walking around all the time. Your not stuck in some isolated business park with 3 women and 58 men working 10-12 hour days (like me) and everyone else from the other business might as well not exist cause they never leave their offices too.	/r/seduction	13/01/12 08:45 AM
3	What I've learned after years of being in a female-dominated profession and schooling I've actually found results with the random shit I learn on reddit. Just go /r/todayilearned/ on them. Like %40 of americans are half german. Or america owns 11 aircraft carriers and thats one more than the rest of the world combined and so on. Yes, reading random shit on reddit can help you with conversation topics in a social life. I'm really starting to not like bars and clubs now although.	/r/seduction	13/01/12 08:44 AM
2	How can you meet the girls in your classes? Say it anyway, and then explain that you don't drink coffee and it's just easier to say it that way when your ordering and if she brings it up. If she doesn't drink coffee then say 'me too', and say 'lets get something from the cafe'.	/r/seduction	08/01/12 11:12 PM
2	How can you meet the girls in your classes? I had the same problem and i never really solved it, but come to class early and suggest study buddy activities after a couple of classes?	/r/seduction	08/01/12 10:05 PM
1	Won't have a phone for a couple of weeks... I think gvoice will still work without an actual number. You can receive voicemails and texts, and receive/make calls on your computer with gmail. At the very least you'll have an inbox you can check on the free library computer and reply once in a while.	/r/seduction	08/01/12 12:08 PM
23	How to make the most out of life Learn to cook, and cook fast. Learn how to make all of your own meals. Try to do a keto diet if you can if you want to loose some flab. Get fit, your in your highest performing years physically. Now is the easiest and quickest time to do this. If you have a mountain next door, hike it every day for an hour. Bike if your climate permits. Do pushups, pullups, situps, squats, weights, etc. Exercise can only take you 15 minutes every day, but it will really pay off. Do it at least for the reason tha…	/r/seduction	08/01/12 11:52 AM
1	28, male, no job, no car, still in college, lives at home or in dorm. He was making a joke :/ And really, by the time they see your porsche, they already like you. Cars help with logistics, jobs help fund logistics, but it's still game.	/r/seduction	08/01/12 11:46 AM
3	Talking to quiet girls, on the topic of conversationalism. So not the shoes?	/r/seduction	08/01/12 04:13 AM
1	Why Girls Today are Flakier than Ever Before and How to Adapt to Game in the Smartphone Era I think approach anxiety puts a natural damper on that.	/r/seduction	30/11/11 06:33 AM
1	Why Girls Today are Flakier than Ever Before and How to Adapt to Game in the Smartphone Era I was like that with job recruiter emails initially but after a while you just become emotionally fatigued about it and just ignore them. I can understand where girls are coming from. They want to avoid the typical desperate guy going apeshit over them responding and it feels awkward. If they don't respond it leaves options open also, because it would seem desperate on their side to reject and then come back.	/r/seduction	30/11/11 06:24 AM
11	Ever feel self conscious about your looks? When I do, I look at this guy. Um, he has a strong defined jaw, is not overweight and looks like a normal guy otherwise. He's aged a bit and he still has his hair. He's also on TV, is the leader of his group, 'experienced' and has fame. All of that are big plusses to girls. Bad example man.	/r/seduction	18/11/11 05:23 PM
1	Romantic thoughts turn women away from math & science Does the study differentiate by class, or does it just ask about math? Does romance want them to just play hooky with school in general. Is it just math classes that suffer? How about if it was more sexually explicit??	/r/MensRights	21/08/11 07:57 AM
2	How to turn my prosthetic leg into a DHV? Loose the weight with pushups, crunches, one leg squats and diet, and make the prosthetic a fashion accessory. Be pround of conquering your hardship and wear it like German men wore scars. Be totally calm and accepting of your leg, but don't reveal why right away, go with jokes-> vague answers and so on. Coming out stronger and better, not bitter and mentally damaged over adversity is 'DHV' and masculine. Simple way to diet is to replace all of your starch and sugar in your life (corn, bread, no…	/r/seduction	20/08/11 06:49 AM
1	Why do the seduction community types have a hard time with relationships? I'm trying to get peoples personal experience, but there doesn't seem to be much...	/r/seduction	17/08/11 09:14 AM
1	Why do the seduction community types have a hard time with relationships? But who dumps who? The girls or the guys?	/r/seduction	17/08/11 07:13 AM