Why do the seduction community types have a hard time with relationships?

2011-08-17T06:08:16+00:00

In theory, PUA's have more options. If you're truly a catch with tight game, women are going to be more available to you than average joe. It's easy to be faithful when no one's trying to sleep with you.

Also the very nature of this boils down to self-improvement and always challenging yourself / pushing your comfort zone. Being in a relationship kinda slows down your growth and makes you comfortable.

TofuTofu · 2011-08-17T16:29:04+00:00

Because guys rarely actively contribute to the community while they are in an LTR. It's a sample set bias. Your conclusion is incorrect.

kentrel · 2011-08-17T13:14:20+00:00

Because, to begin with, many seduction community types are deeply insecure, many PUAs have a skewed value system that's not compatible with good quality long term relationships.

And since PU is simply a cobbling together of various people's opinions, viewing everything through the frame of PU is not necessarily a good thing.

2011-08-17T06:00:04+00:00

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elai · 2011-08-17T07:06:33+00:00

Maybe it's a combination of all the (innocent) flirting the guy probably does with other girls and the guy's mindset that he can do better.

yourHIVpositive · 2011-08-17T07:19:10+00:00

That's like asking why there's so many questions about science in r/askscience

Ghili · 2011-08-18T02:21:52+00:00

Don't settle when you know you can do better? Just my thought.

nycprowl · 2011-08-18T02:36:04+00:00

Seduction types don't have problems with relationships, in fact a lot of guys on here simply use some of these techniques to find a girl who is relationship-worthy. But once they find the girlfriend, they aren't going out and flirting with numerous women, so they stop posting in this reddit, and move over to something like r/relationshipadvice if they have questions, since seddit is to increase attraction to all women.

alexryane2 · 2011-08-17T10:35:38+00:00

9 out of 10 guys sleep with less than a dozen different women in their lives. They get into relationships and stick with them mostly because they're scared they wont find anyone else and they want sex.

When you discover that you can fuck new, pretty hot women regularly, your life suddenly becomes a chase. You want the hottest girl you can find, it's an addiction. Another realisation you will make is that a lot of women have slept with a lot of different men, far more than they will admit to you. Your sweet innocent girlfriend has probably been through a phase of experimentation and had more sex partners than you.

As a man, can you fucking accept that? Relationships become difficult to take seriously.

Title	Why do the seduction community types have a hard time with relationships?
Author	elai
Upvotes	0
Comments	19
Date	August 17, 2011 5:51 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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