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Just reading your post I know something that will help you immensely. Read the book "Learned Optimism" by Martin Seligman. I guarantee it will change your life immensely for the better.
/r/becomeaman03/02/15 12:06 PM
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I started with "The Heart of the Buddha's teaching" simply because I wanted to learn what Buddhism was about... No clue it would lead me down the rabbit hole it did, better way to put it is it pulled me out from the rabbit hole, which is good, trust me... The Diamond that Cuts Through Illusion is the ultimate teaching that exists in my eyes (Diamond Sutra) and his commentary on it, however I'd been really into it before and think it might just sound like nonsense to someone who hasn't been pract…
/r/seduction27/11/14 03:15 AM
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Thich Nhat Hanh man, his work has made my life so much better.
/r/seduction26/11/14 09:24 PM
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thanks for this article
/r/seduction13/09/14 08:09 PM
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Cool, thanks for sharing. Same kind of position here, I spent my 18th birthday in jail and had to go to weekend jail for like 3 weeks (haha no joke, what a great legal system eh?). No felonies thank god but definitely committed my fair share of them (most of which I probably can't even remember now). I've calmed down a lot but still have my moments, and still feel that when I'm drinking is when I do things that I regret. I really don't want to be around alcohol, for a while at least, I've tried …
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:32 PM
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Yeah I'm not trying to diss it and clearly it works for people, it's just not for me.
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:26 PM
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Ha, yeah I effectively quit smoking about 2 years ago but still have relapses occasionally. Thanks for the thought but think I ought to stay away.
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:25 PM
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Yeah there's day game and the inevitable first date comes up... seems like everyone's always busy during the weekend so what do you do after work? Dinner dates put too much pressure on haha. I can't do the online dating thing haha, I just can't bring myself to lol... thanks for your reply, agree that i don't need to ruin my health (or my $200 jeans, or risk going to jail) to bang chicks
/r/seduction23/08/14 01:33 PM
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nice!
/r/seduction26/07/14 07:20 PM
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I dunno about you all but "the bitch" made me who I am, I fucking accept it, seeing what I've come from gives me a huge sense of satisfaction, not like I remade myself in some new place, I got my shit together and I think it's gotten me a lot more respect than if I'd never had it not-together in the first place
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:55 AM
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Yeah dude, as someone who's been in this situation a FUCKLOAD, this is like the one situation where a bit of awkwardness will not hurt you, they feel just as awkward, trust me. Just when you make eye contact, walk up say "Hi [do that thing where you act like you're thinking about their name for a second and say it slowly, maybe add a little point if it feels natural and it's not shunned in your society], right?" ... "Yeah I've seen you around a lot but don't think we've ever actually met." I've …
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:52 AM
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dude up until the first edit, you really hit the fucking nail on the head, I've had a rough patch am not one of these fucking losers and for some reason have convinced myself that this is the only way to get girls and make my life decent, these fucktards act like women are trophies to be mounted on a wall, lifeless next to each other, they are fucking people just like us, does that make me a "beta" for saying that? fuck if I know because using the words "beta" and "alpha" is fucking nerd talk, I…
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:35 AM
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Yeah it's not like that it's more like I'll really fuck up a good relationship, and not just a good one, a valuable one if things don't work out well... Huge downside, huge upside, still can't tell which is worth more though.
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:27 AM
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Um, no, thanks for trying though.
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:26 AM
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I've found at work is fine just so you don't gotta deal with them on a daily basis or they're part of your core team... however I still haven't written them off just not sure at this point
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:24 AM
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You can't, just take some time and ask yourself what you really want (morning is usually best for me because I'm sharpest). If you decide that you want this girlfriend for the right reasons then make an honest goal to not cheat on her and just know how miserable it'll make you if you do. Or maybe you'll find out that it's time to move on. Cheating on a girl you're really into is a major dickhead thing to do, trust me.
/r/seduction25/07/14 12:02 PM
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yeah man, sounds like you're some huge intimidating dude who's scaring the shit out of them and making them uncomfortable...they sound afraid to not play along and then are finally bailing but being nice about it so you don't rape them, or worse... that's the vibe I get
/r/seduction25/07/14 11:55 AM
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I don't think these girls are coming back
/r/seduction25/07/14 11:55 AM
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I think it might be a shit test, but it's a pretty low one that shouldn't be entertained. It's like having to fill in a coloring book for a college admission, you might be interested in the school, but once you see that you won't be anymore. I think people are really flaky in general for a lot of reasons and in my personal life, I don't accommodate it at all. There are legit reasons why people cancel plans, some better than others. For a girl you just met, I like the 2nd chance rule, just in cas…
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:41 AM
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you hit the nail on the head but there are legit reasons people can flake, I like the give a 2nd chance but no more rule mentioned above
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:37 AM
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Hey thanks for your first message, I really appreciated it. There's no need to explain yourself to this idiot. Wish I knew a girl like you ;)
/r/seduction29/06/14 02:55 PM
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Yeah I feel like "normal" hot girls are totally receptive but when I try with bigger girls they are like totally closed off.
/r/seduction28/06/14 01:03 PM
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There are a lot of things but one of the biggest that I notice is getting a good night's sleep.
/r/seduction28/06/14 11:50 AM
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Bro, your confidence is still a problem, I can tell from your posting. At my peak, I was 285 lbs. Actually, I was more, 285 was as high as I was willing to look at a scale, it went up more and I was too scared to see what I was. Even back then (I never had a lot of money, so trust me it's not that), I did the best with girls who I thought were 10s, you know why? Because I never got hurt being rejected by them so I didn't care. Now, granted I didn't have practice, I could never treat them right, …
/r/seduction22/06/14 09:33 PM
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Hurt? nah... frustrated? yep... not quite sure of your purported intellect given your grammar though
/r/seduction22/06/14 09:16 PM
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What you're talking about here is the single biggest problem with women; what women want conceptually and in actuality are quite the opposite. What you want conceptually is what almost all of us were before we started having discussions in places like this. We were all nice guys who'd do anything for you, have those deep intellectual discussions that you want, etc. etc. etc. We've (guys here) come to realize that that shit never works because what girls like in actuality is a fucking dick (not 1…
/r/seduction20/06/14 11:32 AM
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Yeah I was taking a shot at the troglodyte who you were replying to, I kinda worried you'd think it was directed at you
/r/seduction20/06/14 11:23 AM
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Yeah at first, then my mind changed
/r/seduction20/06/14 05:33 AM
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indeed, your IQ is at least 30, likely a lot more, but just saying, you've crossed the 30 threshold with that conclusion ;)
/r/seduction20/06/14 05:29 AM
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mmm just to chime in, if walking up to every girl and just saying "hey nice tits, let's fuck" worked, none of us would be here
/r/seduction20/06/14 05:26 AM
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nope not really, i can just see her as a human being like myself, something the people I despise in this "community" don't seem to understand.... pedestal=above, seeing her as an equal? definitely not pedestal brah
/r/seduction20/06/14 05:24 AM
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I have the same problem so you're not alone. Lately I've been trying to do anything that I'm afraid of that's not going to hurt me; it's still almost impossible with girls but it's been awesome for not being a pussy. I still sorta see myself as a boy so lately I've been asking "What would a man do?" or "You're a fucking man now." I've only been able to apply this mentality to girls once since I've been doing this though, I talked to a stranger and her friend, got her number and took her out on a…
/r/seduction11/05/14 10:02 PM
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perhaps
/r/seduction11/05/14 09:56 PM
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Please don't take this as me putting a religion on you and please don't take this as me trying to say to not pursue a love life (because I'm not), but I feel that these concepts can show you that you really have everything. In Buddhism we commonly describe three types of feelings: positive, negative, and neutral. We must eventually abandon everything; your computer will not last forever, your clothes will eventually rip or rot, your loved ones will all eventually die. Now to help you understand …
/r/seduction11/05/14 04:17 PM
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the problem is that you don't even really prioritize sex, you prioritize some fucked up artificial version of sex - it's like getting mad addicted to Madden/Fifa/NHL whatever, you're not addicted to Football/Soccer/Hockey, you're addicted to a projected falsified, no-lose version of it
/r/seduction20/04/14 01:33 PM
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Do you really want to have sex with them? You should think about it good. I had this girl who fucked with my head for the longest time; always thought I was gonna fuck her, never did. For a while I regretted never doing it, but honestly now, I've gotten to the point that I'm really fucking glad I didn't. If you really do want to have sex with these girls or one of them, then just realize that they're people too who feel just like you do. If they're thinking they might be having sex with you, the…
/r/seduction20/04/14 12:44 PM
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good, that post was for you ;)
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:54 AM
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people who come here to get help with this kinda shit got everything they need from what i told, creepy freaks who just wanna get off and play couch game need more, end of story
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:53 AM
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yes and no, there's a balance and you just kinda know when it works, basically i think 75 was a bit too long because the last 15 or so I was just so godamn horny and desperate, i've been doing these streaks fora long ass time now (45 was the msot until this recent one)... quitting the porn and masturbation DEFINITELY ups your game, but i'm not a dogmatist and think that taking it to the extreme doesn't work either, you really just gotta figure it out yourself
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:41 AM
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no, i didn't until when I was writing this in all honesty
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:38 AM
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you don't know until after the fact - it's really easier said than done, really don't give a fuck and don't think about fucking, i mean some things that I used to do were like buying girls drinks, dancing with them, giving them too much attention, etc ...
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:37 AM
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i'm not saying it's too big, i'm just saying it's not as rosy as you'd think
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:32 AM
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Haha dude, girls always say that size doesn't matter so I wouldn't sweat it. I'm pretty big down there and I can tell you it's whatever, it fucking hurts like a motherfucker to have sex for me and it takes a LOT to open a girl up and keep her open, it hurts to the point that it's really hard to finish and I really wanna get it in all the way but only like 1/2 - 3/4 will fit... it's a blessing and a curse, I think it's your hangup about it that hurts you, really don't worry about it.
/r/seduction19/04/14 03:29 PM
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"Overcoming social anxiety and shyness" by Gillian Butler
/r/seduction19/04/14 03:20 PM
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Yeah that's what I did ... haha no, literally by not trying, the juicy details are my business, but it wasn't hard because she was literally begging me to fuck her while we were waiting for our taxi ... to me this is the part that you don't learn, you just gotta go with the flow
/r/seduction19/04/14 03:19 PM
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By not trying ;)
/r/seduction19/04/14 03:18 PM
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Honestly, I don't see hipster guys with girls that aren't hipster girls themselves.
/r/seduction05/04/14 04:15 PM
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