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Through enough interactions you could probably put on an act, but if it isn’t actually who you are you will feel likely feel like a fraud. Ultimately, confidence comes from elsewhere. At the end of the day value is all relative, for example, most guys will feel more intimated around more beautiful women. This is because they don’t feel like our value matches theirs, and in our DNA we are programmed to shy away from sex unless we know we won’t get rejected (this comes from our caveman days, anoth…
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:50 AM
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If you were a girl and had the same experience you would probably just assume guys get the same experience. There isn’t really a reason for girls to think into it, so they don’t.
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:19 PM
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I wouldn’t, it gives away power and at the end of the day if they want you they will say.
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:56 PM
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When the girls hotness gets to a 7/10 (I mean a genuine 7 which in my book is a pretty hot girl), it gets much harder to attract them. I think it's because they can quit easily hook up with top 1-5% guys because of dating apps etc. Welcome to the modern dating market!
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:42 PM
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It's like some weird flex to a random bunch of people online, when in reality if he was that guy he would knee deep
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:37 PM
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In your post, you say you can't hook up with women, but you're suggesting you can with this comment. You choose not to when a girl is boring or puts a lot of expectations on you? You're making yourself sound like you got options but then your saying your struggle to hook up even with one woman...
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:24 PM
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Maybe they are too high then
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:42 PM
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You could probably bang a 1/10 if you wanted
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:20 PM
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Some guys have done experiments where they pose as models on tinder and girls treat them different to everyone else and break their rules for them. But these guys are legit top 1-0.1% on terms of looks, ie professional models, athletes etc. Search on YouTube and you’ll see this effect.
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:31 PM
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Putting “I’m here to hookup” can only work for the best looking of men. Sluttiness is a stigma that girls have been taught from a young age not to be. Many of them still want hook ups, but you have to do it in a way where it doesn’t seem like your just hooking up. So remove the bio, go on dates and then see if you can get laid from them. You can’t really skip that part unless your a legit chad.
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:55 PM
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Also there’s a guy in my building who’s hit on pretty much every girl, and is still successful despite getting mostly rejected and people knowing. If your confident, likeable and have social skills you don’t get outcasted as some might believe. You only get outcasted if your creepy.
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:18 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s pure luck and chance. If you meet lots of people socially your more likely to meet someone. For example, getting invited to more parties gives you opportunities. It’s not just the immediate friends but the wider opportunities it presents. I’m not saying its necessarily easy to do, but the OP is talking about flaking. Dating someone from a social group is far less likely to lead to being ghosted and flaked, because there are repercussions socially for the girl. In addition to …
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:16 PM
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Either through work or an interest, then actively pursue trying to be peoples friend. Same as dating; you may get rejected.
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:52 PM
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I think social circle game is still easier, it’s more just being a random person they don’t know is more difficult
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:37 PM
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Basically teasing/trying to create a fun light hearted vibe. Ask a question, pick what she says apart and try to make assumptions about her, ie she's an accountant say shes a maths nerd etc. Use your eyes to look into her eyes sexually. Give her a nickname and repeat it to build a narrative about her. Deeper chat is discovering her personality, motivations, childhood etc. Example would be that she is really into art and saying like what do you lie about art so much, why did you do focus on this …
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:47 PM
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Suggest bar, 20 minutes flirty chat followed by 40 minutes of deeper chat. Suggest go to second bar, if she says yes she is probably interested. Use walk as excuse to put your arm around her to touch her. Use two venues to build comfort/keep things interesting. At second venue sit side by side, if your not close enough, go to toilet then come back and sit closer. More physically escalating, then go for the hand hold. Then go for arm around her. At the same time start chatting about why she’s sin…
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:11 PM
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It really depends. If it’s for validation, then no. Nothing external can ever satisfy you fully and permanently. If your jealous of guys then it’s probably a validation thing. You will likely hook up with a girl and feel good for a day then revert back to how you feel. Each time the high will get lower and shorter. Eventually, even if you get a lot of girls you will end up not feeling good enough again. If you have a period when you don’t get laid the insecurity will come back again. However, it…
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:59 PM
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I can’t be bothered to respond to all of this, but you’re contradicting yourself saying he gets a number 1/4 (90 numbers out of 400 in that video or however many it was) and then saying he gets rejected 99% of the time. Which one is it? Is he lying about the video or is Japan easy mode?
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:43 AM
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Apps and social media have 100x this problem.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:45 PM
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The conflict between the lizard brains need to reproduce and the trials and tribulation of dating is a low level form of mental torture (lol). Also when it goes perfectly right and they ghost you anyway. The price we pay for dating 7s + and not being in the top 5-1% of men. If only I was this age 10 years ago.
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:06 PM
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I’m not an expert but working on these things. Charm = have genuine strong interest in the girl as this will make them feel special. Chat to a lot of girls and practice different things. The more I’ve approached the more I have pushed my comfort zone in terms of vibe and expressing myself, which is definitely making me more interesting than just asking interview questions. Looks can help get your foot in the door but the other SMV factors are probably more important for keeping girls. Basically …
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:40 PM
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Maintaining charm and/or SMV
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:27 PM
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A white guy in Japan is playing on easy mode, so you can be robotic and get numbers. This is not good advice for someone in the west. People don’t have the time or energy to do that many approaches, so it’s just not good advice. One way ticket to burnout/ lots of rejection, because in the west you can’t approach like a robot unless your a celebrity.
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:02 PM
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400 approaches in 9 hours is one every 1.35 minutes or 1 minute 20. Do you really believe that someone can approach a different girl basically every minute for 9 hours. Regardless, even if someone pulled that off, recommending it as advice to people is just stupid because no one is going to be able to replicate that or that kind of volume without burning out. 30 a week is the standard suggest amount for results that people can balance into their lives.
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:37 AM
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I know how it works, I cold approach. Your setting unrealistic expectations for people. Approaching 100 people, 1 person every 5 minutes would take 8 hours 20 minutes. Stop spouting BS, nobody has the time or energy to do that.
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:28 PM
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Cold approach is all about vibe management. If your doing that many your vibe will be off, either because you get tired, hungry, socially tired and the girls will pickup that your a spam approacher. There aren’t enough hot girls to approach 100 times in a day, unless someone paid you to live in a city centre as a full time job 😂
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:23 PM
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That makes no sense, why do you need more confidence to do 100-200 approaches vs 5-10. It’s logistics that is the issue. Doing that many approaches isn’t smart at all because you become robotic and become a spam approacher, which the girls will pick up on.
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:21 PM
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This guy is chatting nonsense, 30 a week is the suggested amount that is going to give results and not be too much, although 30 a week is likely too much for some people anyway.
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:14 PM
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30 a day?! I can’t do more than 10 before I’m socially wiped out. Ignore the guy saying 100+ a day, that is just stupid.
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:13 PM
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Height matters in night game 100%.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:38 PM
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I’m having health issues which is why I’m stopping, it’s not to do do with being rejected too much
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:44 AM
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I feel like you can be a “good guy” that can tease/build chemistry, and not be an absolute dick.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:29 AM
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James Marshall is Australian lol
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:36 PM
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It’s competitive in London, not easy for average people tbh
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:36 PM
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DM me
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:17 PM
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YouTuber in UK, has some following and has done videos with several of the top guys in the UK. I took the session as a one off, to get some pointers and make sure that I wasn’t doing anything that could be really messing up my results without being aware of it. I think it’s important for anyone to get evaluated (by someone who knows their stuff obviously). Otherwise you might find there was something you had been doing that could have been avoided and gotten you way more success then you had got…
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:53 PM
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I actually asked him what level I was. And he said my fundamentals are there I just need more experience. This implies I don’t need another coaching session, it was a just a one off.
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:48 PM
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I actually asked him what level I was at. He said my fundamentals are there I just need to get more experience. I did one session to make sure I had nothing wrong that needed to be ironed out.
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:47 PM
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If your going to drop a comment like this then you need to at least explain what you mean.
/r/seduction03/05/22 11:10 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I agree it’s a lifestyle and always worth doing in life day to day. So do you not feel like someone should push harder until they get enough experience until that happens? Based on my own experiences, I feel like it’s worth doing sessions of 10 approaches or more in order to get on a roll as when I do an approach here or there I feel a bit ropey.
/r/seduction03/05/22 11:09 AM
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If you're phrasing "tried stuff like this" I presume it hasn't worked? If I had to guess number 1 is your problem (and the problem for many people who feel this way). I suspect this because I am struggling with it despite doing the other stuff. This is the issue for me because when I was younger I was very interested in people (although very shy) and then something changed. Bad life experiences are possibly the cause. Anyone in this situation is probably relatively isolated, so the only option i…
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:42 PM
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I’m working on this too, I’m getting better. Things that you should look at; Be genuinely interested in the person and what they have to say vs faking it. Ask questions but don’t make it an interview. For every question they answer you should try and and add your own experience/something that is relevant. Not just hop to the next question. Ask about their why - their character, their motivations etc etc, not collect facts. Go deep - childhood, things they may struggle with etc. if you open yours…
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:21 PM
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Yeah, I want to point out that the jealousy is a very light one, I don’t hold it against them at all, it’s more of a reflection on my results, not theirs. But at the same time I fully accept where I am at and getting more comfortable in that acceptance with time.
/r/seduction01/05/22 06:07 PM
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I’ve been refocusing on dating the last couple of months. It’s a serious emotional rollercoaster, I’m very jealous of my friends who effortlessly pull when they want to. I’m not at the point of quitting yet, but it’s getting tough. What’s crazy is that a week and a half ago I had a date which I nailed and I felt on top of the world after it. It’s very up and down. I don’t really have any advice to offer, but one thing for sure is that how you feel about the situation will be sub consciously comm…
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:21 PM
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You can’t pretend to be something your not. The answer is to have an abundance mindset and roll with the waves.
/r/seduction29/04/22 12:28 PM
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Suddenly getting text game won’t change your results that much, the face to face is what matters. Aslong as your not too boring or dragging out too long before/texting too much in general then your fine.
/r/seduction28/04/22 10:45 PM
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Try being more flirty and not having too much of an interview. Open and then try to say as much as you can about why they are unique, then for each question you get you to want to tease and be bold. Also, it's massively a numbers game. The general idea is that the best day gamers do 30 approaches a week, leading to one date a week.
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:47 PM
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“Let me know if you want to daygame sometime, would be good to have a wingman” - this is a less pressured message and they will know what you want. Your also saying wingman and not then specifically which shows your not being needy about them in particular.
/r/seduction27/04/22 02:21 PM
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Daygame 100%. Approach 20-30 girls a week. Start with goal of building confidence and reducing approach anxiety. Research game and apply fundamentals - the stop, body language/eye contact to show intent, push/pull, teasing etc etc. With practice you should feel more sexual in time. After a couple months hire a coach as a one off if possible, just to check your approaches and iron out any red flags you may have that you are unaware of. Create a strategy for converting dates to lays - escalating. …
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:39 AM
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Sexual chemistry is largely a result of a masculine and feminine polarity, and the stronger the polarity the stronger it is. It doesn’t matter how much you get on, or how similar your interest are, if your acting like a girl around the girl, a relationship won’t flourish or last. This is the difference between being lovers and friends.
/r/seduction26/04/22 10:49 AM
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You need to create a vibe/masculine presence around them- strong eye contact/sexy eyes, tease them, build narrative about them. Your probably just being friendly or unlucky, but most likely the former.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:02 PM
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Social circle, new hobbies. Pretty much it. Or get set up on a date. You want to be a chooser though. I think you should reframe the approach mentality you got. I was shy, but now approaching has changed that. It is beneficial beyond what we’re doing it for, my confidence is high now.
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:40 PM
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First thing to recognise is that getting laid with new people consistently takes a lot of work and is dependent on how much effort you put in and how high your standards are. I would recommend daygame if you want to become good with women. If your willing to put in a lot of effort, doing 20-30 approaches a week and will bang anything then you should be able to get laid a lot. I live in London as well, 28 years old. I daygame, realistically doing 15-20 approaches a week. I did a bit last year and…
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:27 PM
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You just got to keep on trying. Hiding how you feel doesn’t work, but I would recommend not being one to bring up the serious question.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:07 PM
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Pretty weird tbh, I wouldn’t have carried on with that girl
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:48 PM
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If you genuinely want to know DM me
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:14 PM
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YouTube. He is a known coach with a few thousand subscribers. I’ve watched many of his videos and they were good, and he’s also collaborated with other better known youtubers.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:48 PM
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A few things to respond to here: “Just a bunch of needy behaviours/tricks” - I view it as learning social skills. The beauty of it is that learning these things will make you connect with a women far better. It’s about making the connection strong, not deception. Women want you to have good game. “Constantly reinforcing the idea that you’re not good enough” - the fact is that women like certain behaviour and forms of communication. You have to be willing to be a learner and accept that you will …
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:41 PM
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By random coincidence I just did a session today with a relatively well known daygame coach in London. I feel like it was worth it, picked up a few things that I implemented that I felt improved my interactions in the session. It was good to personally talk about texting/dating as well. I am at a intermediate level, so my approaches before were ok but there were a couple of things I could improve on. I would only recommend it after doing quite a few approaches by yourself (100+), to get to a poi…
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:20 PM
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No, you've misinterpreted the point I was making. When I was nervous and less socially skilled I would get a lot more "I have a boyfriend" comments; implying that I was being rejected kindly/the girls didn't want to chat with me.
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:49 PM
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Many people in game seem to think that all girls are really single and are willing to be cooperative to men they are attracted to even if they are in a relationship. This is absolute BS. Many girls are content in their relationship and even if a guy with objective higher status comes along they won’t be interested. When a girl says they have a boyfriend, there is a strong chance they are in a relationship. If they are saying it and they aren’t in a relationship, they are very unlikely to be shit…
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:33 AM
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I would argue it’s best to get to a point where you have multiple options going on so you don’t even think about the date in any capacity until your actually there. It seems like your being quite outcome dependent vs independent. In the long run your better off developing a more outcome independent mindset. This both takes adjusting your mindset and more dating experience. The freedom this gives you emotionally will improve your results too.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:02 PM
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That is basically nothing. To get good many recommend 30 a week.
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:32 PM
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I call BS tbh, there will be men of her calibre trying.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:31 PM
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How many approaches have you done? Over time it reduces. You progress should be measured by you improvement in interactions and game, rather than the outcome. You just have to be proactive, but in time with more rejection, it gets easier.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:29 PM
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Success with women will create confidence the most, but your ability to endure rejection will decide if you get there. Rejection does get easier 100% and allows you to detach and be more relaxed as the outcome won’t be so important to you. You just have to have the goal of improving someone’s day when you hit on them and also view it as crafting social skill. The girls will hopefully be a bonus. I’m looking at it as a very long term thing. Imagine how you could be in 5 years if you continually p…
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:40 PM
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This + be attractive physically to them + no nice guy behaviour = success
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:14 PM
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Apparently it reduces, but the sensation is still there. Supposedly, when your good your body will reinterprets it as excitement.
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:52 PM
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Thanks for your reply. Do you not feel like it would be worth trying to keep on dating and trying to be that guy in the date? Like fake it till you make it.
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:37 PM
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The problem still applies to men. But the core of the issue they are facing is they can’t pass the first hurdle that is required before something more serious; getting a women to want to have sex with them. Women can get past that hurdle effortlessly, however the difference in the ease of crossing that challenge and getting something more serious is much greater for a women.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:00 PM
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I started last year at 27 and did a few months and started again the last few weeks, about to turn 28. I’m getting much more confident and better, gotten dates etc. Approach anxiety is really hard at the start but it’s get better. I’ve probably done 120+ approaches and now I don’t feel that anxious doing it. The first approach of the day is always a bit wobbly then you get going. Hard things about starting are approach anxiety and rejection. Rejection is tough, especially if you hide from it as …
/r/seduction10/04/22 08:41 PM
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I think their problems are more just being viewed and treated like sex objects and getting strung along for sex. Women are gatekeepers for sex whilst men are gatekeepers for relationship ships, so I think women struggle more when they want something more serious. This is the opposite of men who struggle more getting sex in the first place. It kind of make sense when you realise who controls what in the different stages of dating.
/r/seduction10/04/22 05:04 PM
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What was it like 7 years ago?
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:38 PM
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A lot of it reflects a change in society, not so much with you. Part of the modern day game unfortunately.
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:18 PM
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Most men can improve their looks through style. Google Calvin Harris before and after. However, it is an unfortunate truth that SMV is defined by uncontrollable factors. Nonetheless, I think most people could surprise themselves if they put in 100% effort over years of time to levelling themselves up.
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:04 PM
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The feeling of wanting to makeout should feel natural by the time it happens. I try to create the vibe by viewing the girl as an emotional object that I want to squeeze positive emotions out of. This is done by flirting boldly (teasing especially), adding pressure/pulling back - through eye contact and disagreement when it’s natural (no just nodding and agreeing with everything) and asking questions about her motivations and whys. Conversation should be viewed as this space where it’s focused on…
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:46 PM
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I never get the debate around this topic. If you have a verbal contract saying your exclusive then breaking it will be cheating and not ok. If you don’t then you can sleep with other people. Being high value doesn’t come into it.
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:15 PM
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