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This. This is everything. Thank you man!!!
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:16 PM
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Thanks man. I think that’s a great point. Out of interest, why shouldn’t I date her down the line (barring the fact I’ll likely be less attached, have more options, etc.)? As in, what’s objectively wrong with dating a girl who initially friend zoned you if, over time, you build your value and gain experience with other women? Of course right now it’s the oneitis speaking, but I’m curious to hear if there are other reasons. Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:17 PM
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Thanks man. That’s helpful. How explicit should the withdrawal be? As in, should I actually communicate to her that I need to withdraw from the friendship (I don’t think that would validate her because she already knows I want to fuck... she’s a woman after all) or should I just ghost? Because, for instance, I know she will invite me over for lunch or dinner or whatever, and ask if I’m free to hang out with her other friends – so it’s difficult to just pull back...
/r/askTRP11/05/21 10:15 PM
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Thanks. I’ll check it out. Presumably he says getting out involves cutting her off?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:51 PM
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Thanks man. Can I not just cut her off completely? I’m torn about that. I actually like her as a human being and, as I said, she’s opened some doors for me, so cutting her off completely might be self-sabotage. But as you say, I’m not happy not fucking her and it pisses me off some other dude is.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:49 PM
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No, but I thought the point is that men and women simply aren’t “friends”? Once you’ve missed the window to assert yourself sexually (and I have), you’re relegated to a respect-free desert whereby she uses you on the pretext you’ll gain something (sex) later as a reward for compliance? And I’m saying I don’t believe I’m being used.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:47 PM
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Bro I just told you it’s not for nothing? That’s literally the whole point of my question... theoretically it should be for nothing in return, but this chick has helped me a lot and, as I said, does shit for me too. That’s the part I don’t get.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:42 PM
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Thanks bro, this is awesome. Great advice and I appreciate it! ​ P.S.: Love Touché Amoré. "Palm Dreams" is my go-to gym warm-up song.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 03:41 PM
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Do dark I wouldn't say so - just standard depressive episodes.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:37 AM
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You're spot on with this mate - thank you. Really solid feedback.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:36 AM
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Economics & Philosophy - and it's a finance adjacent field.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:31 AM
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Pretty rare and have had some bad experiences with church girls. Not all that glitters is gold.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 11:16 PM
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Dude I'm sorry to hear about your dad. That's really shitty. I guess meant I wish I had a high quality father who guided me through life as a kid and now of course. That's what dads should do for their sons, right? As for your point about prospects, I think it's an age thing as well. I think girls my age aren't really seeking an intellectual, "respectable" guy with a good job -- not necessarily. I think that comes later. My profile would almost certainly do very well with 28+ year old girls at a…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:52 PM
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No you're spot on - especially that last sentence - and I'm with you. 100%. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:35 PM
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Most peo Haha thanks man. In the least conceited way possible, I'm inclined to agree and that's why I am frustrated -- on paper I have my "shit together" and theoretically should be getting laid at least by an LTR, if not some plates, but that's not happening. It's become very clear to me that game is so, so critical.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:06 PM
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Think you're on to something dude - maybe I need to set aside a few months of working through this and slowing down on the self-improvement stuff?
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:03 PM
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Thanks man. Presumably (1) applies once there's a reasonable level of familiarity? Or just straight in with the sex talk?
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:02 PM
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Thanks man - this is solid advice. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:01 PM
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Great advice man - thank you. Loved the DARE not DEER post.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:00 PM
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For sure man - I'm with you. I even have a diary entry from a few months ago where I essentially chided myself for coming across desperate. Girls smell it for sure. Good point.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:00 PM
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This makes sense to me based on experience - thanks. I don't think being in good shape, well dressed, having a good job, etc., alone will do the trick magically. Clearly game and social skills are critical pieces of the puzzle.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:58 PM
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Yes that's right - and that's down from 19% at the start of the year.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:56 PM
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Thanks man - that makes sense. Maybe you're right; maybe if I was getting laid by hot chicks on the regular I'd be less inclined to focus on the books and self-improvement. I doubt it, but (hopefully) I'll soon find out!
/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:55 PM
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This is super great man, thanks so much for taking the time to put it together. Will follow the advice!
/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:52 PM
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Dude I pay the price of not having a dad daily -- it's mental torture because I am acutely aware of how handicapping it is. Source of many problems I am working through.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:51 PM
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Thanks man - this is helpful. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:51 PM
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Sure, sure. I get that and I'm all for it -- but I'm also aware that we work together/ sit next to each other in a very small office with fewer than 20 people...
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:46 PM
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Damn. That hit home.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:33 AM
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This is great - thanks man!
/r/askTRP21/11/19 11:39 PM
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Fair point and that makes sense. I guess I have to start approaching and so on, even though frankly I'd rather spend that time working on my business, lifting, reading, etc. -- but if that's what it'll take to resolve this, then that's that. Thanks!
/r/askTRP21/11/19 11:35 PM
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