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Red Pill Theoryelrayem/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 06:58 PM
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Blue Pill Exampleelrayem/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 07:02 PM
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odds are the chick you just described..she's a dude...hot crazy matrix principle.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 03:03 PM
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Just one more little anecdote -- check out how much healthcare is consumed by gender. Free healthcare is a feminist agenda item because they consume 60-65% of every health care dollar.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:55 PM
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Couple of thoughts: Keep executing on the basics you are doing well, and pursue your long term plan-- your SMV will continue to rise. Time is on your side. The first time is not that big of deal but seems to be a mental roadblock for you. If you can't get over it, consider getting the first time out of the way. Pay for it. Go NoFap. Use your sexual drive to push you into pursuit. Adjust what your putting into your body. Anything which is fueling complacent living needs to go. If you're 420 frien…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 05:53 PM
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evil in regards to free will wouldn't be a factor because it wouldn't exist. By definition the absence of evil is an absence of choice. It is yin without yang. If we can't, for example, steal from one another or even imagine theft...if we can't even covet what we don't have..imagine that for a second -- blissfully unaware as we play in shit that better options exist... that is a world of robotic automation, truly on autopilot. I don't care if you believe in a God -- I'm simply explaining the pre…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 07:27 PM
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Its too late for me; I'm sure some of you snowflakes could still be saved.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 09:18 PM
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I would hate you as a god -- as you would have to enslave me to only do good. Else wise, of free will, I would spread pain and suffering to serve my own pleasures. The old "if there's a god, why do bad things happen" line of attack, aka the logical problem of evil... or if God exists, why is their evil in the world... is an interesting one. Google will be you guide (logical problem of evil), if you are truly motivated to pursue a philosophical answer, but ultimately is boils down philosophically…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 06:04 PM
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By which I assume you mean, the party would never elect a liberal new york business man who totally ignores moral social issues in his campaign. You're right... that will NEVER happen.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:48 PM
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Obviously we aren't pointing guns or enslaving -- hence Rand Paul is an idiot. But we are price fixing, and dramatically reducing health care provider's incomes. So now apply Rand: "We can ignore reality, but we cannot ignore the consequences of ignoring reality." The consequence of ignoring free markets in England and Canada, and making healthcare a right, is vast shortages in health care providers...because they aren't enslaved, and they exercise free rights and take those sharp brains and get…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:45 PM
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RP works best on womyn with no soul.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 01:12 PM
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This. Now delete that shit and tell her the angle was bad and you got nothing-- but it was so hot--Ask her if she wants to try again in text so you have consent.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:56 PM
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I loved the scifi you referenced. Its amazing in reading Ender's Game to think about the futurism that was so accurate in that series, particularly in the area of the internet and video games. Old Man's War by Scalzi is great gem if you haven't found it, BTW. It seems I misunderstood your characterization as falling into the two camps I referenced. When I found Ayn Rand, it was before Rush Limbaugh even existed in my part of the country. The evening news, time magazine and news week, and the big…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:35 PM
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If that's your thing, I guess you could always read The Art of The Deal.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:27 AM
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One could use that theory to disparage every work of fictional allegory ever written. Pilgrims progress, homers odyssey, gullivers travels, 1984, a brave new world, to name but a few. Attacking her ideas based on her genre is problematic. I've read her works and found them thought provoking and inspirational but containing many flaws and barely sufficient narrative to deliver the philosophy. I never understood why its so polarizing. Reactions are either in the camps of viscerally repelled or fer…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:20 AM
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John Galt has left. You better run too. Make haste to find the exit. I think you've read the likely writing on the wall, and the tears were very telling. The one man who carried all the knowledge and expertise wouldn't be around anymore to carry them. I almost took a job recently that would have involved working for 2 women, and managing three teams all led by women -- pretty unusual in a technology field. I knew I would need to come in full alpha to pull it off. Ultimately got paid to stay wher…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:17 PM
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Did you mean a random act of "selflessness"?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 03:24 PM
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I understAnd why you want to focus on one word..AMOG.. And it's definition..of which mine is the equally common Alpha Male Of Group. However I think you saw my points. In nature alpha IS a function of environment and circumstance. EVERY alpha is eventually usurped by a member who was previously in a beta role. Alpha and beta roles show plasticity in other species. One would expect similar results in humans.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 12:16 PM
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So you're working from a naturalist's definition. Tell me then, if a lion is the alpha of his pride, and a younger, stronger male arrives and usurps his AMOG status, has he changed and become beta? If he gets injured and a young "beta" within the pride usurps him, has that beta changed and become "alpha"? What happens if a lion is innately born alpha, and just happens to born in the pride where the largest, strongest lion -- a one in a 10,000th percentile lion -- happens to have setup shop? Is h…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 06:30 PM
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Do or not do -- there is no try. :-D We're obviously on different wavelengths on this, but I agree that there's a limit to the degree of change possible. Your view of the definition of alpha is much more binary than mine. At the end of the day, it seems you are happy where you are, but I'm still striving for more.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 02:10 PM
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If you're saying its about more than lifting, I agree. If you're saying it can't be done, I completely disagree. Its called neural plasticity. Provide the correct stimulus, and your "hard wiring" will change. Plenty of science backs this up. The whole point of TRP framework is about providing new stimulus to drive this change. I've known several alpha's who had life changing experiences (ex war) and become beta. Haven't you seen this in people around you? Similarly, I've seen betas become alpha …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:56 PM
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Sorry you injured your back. The dead can hurt you if you ramp too quickly or use poor form. But it truly is a special exercise for those who don't suffer from bad knees or back. Its the closest thing to an elixir of youth. The original weight lifting exercise dating bad to the mid 19th century was a health lift -- basically a deadlift -- its the mother of all other lifting exercises. Burt Sorin talks about deadlifting twice his body weight when he weighed 56 pounds, and stating that he NEVER kn…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:39 PM
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"because he felt like it" is just basically the same as "none of your fucking business".... he's not gonna spill his feels to you. I have a good friend who's father left out of town when he was young -- pretty much no R with his old man until 25 years later after his mom died-- that's when he finds out his mom was running around with another man, and when his dad found out he packed his shit and left town that night before he killed somebody. His entire childhood his mom was poisoning the well o…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:19 PM
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For all you know, your mom started cheating first, or was frigid, and he was taking the high road hanging around. There is so much you don't know, can never know, that you really should withhold judgement on your dad. He may be bitter, angry, and hurt for very legit reasons. Read more sidebar -- don't be so quick to judge your dad; you've had years of only seeing your mom's side of the story. And oh yeah, AWALT. True, TRP changes your perspective, but it will keep changing...don't lock in on a f…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 03:47 PM
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ego, financial cost and kids are the most frequent reasons....falling for the fallacy of sunk costs is common, stubbornness and ego over failing at marriage, and access to your children. of all of them, access to kids (and protecting them) is the biggest legit issue in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 09:16 PM
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Of course there was a philosophical point. Does fat shaming work? The irony is dr oz waived a stack of studies saying it (social shaming) doesn't work...then used the rest of the segment to shame Roosh...a tacit admission that shaming does work.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 10:00 AM
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I'm gonna agree with you in broad terms but in this specific instance the women are there to shame the fat shamer. This is a combat situation they chose to step into and those women would have collapsed under fire. Take the first one and tell her any what any dr would Predict: (with greater than 50% confidence) she will be diabetic by 50, shooting insulin by 55, blind, one legged, or wheel chair bound by 60 and collecting disability and free health care. She should be more than shamed. She shoul…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 10:36 PM
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Casually Ironic? If it wasn't such a hugely profitable business case, one might even think it was coincidental.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 06:45 PM
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If he had any authenticity, he would have went down the line and fat shamed each of those porkers sitting on their high chairs....made them cry right on the spot.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 06:42 PM
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It was such an obvious opening -- I like women of any size too -- but tell me Mr. Oz, I've seen pictures of your beautiful, slim wife Lisa. Back when you were single would you say you ever slept with a woman over 200 lbs, 180 lbs, 150 lbs..... Put him on the damn spot.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 06:40 PM
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the point is still valid. Talking about sex and realtionships and the emotional intimacy the results can be just as dangerous.... with or without the sex part. Why do you want to argue about the one word in his response that was an assumption: coworker Look at the broader point.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:56 PM
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Hmm -- I actually took quite a bit from that boyhood thread, and I've scheduled time this weekend with my three teenage boys to watch it and discuss it from a TRP perspective. I'm not feeding them the pill yet, but I am leaving bread crumbs because I believe this is a personal journey for each of us. Also as a huge fan of science fiction, I recognize how authors use fiction to gain emotional distance from a controversial concept and provide social commentary and a fresh perspective to the reader…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 03:47 PM
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This -- the self esteem advocacy groups are the same people who don't want there to be any winners....Did anyone notice they now say: "And the oscar goes to...." drum rolll.... instead of "And the Oscar WINNER is...." drum roll.... because winning=bad All kids get a trophy, but nobody WINS one anymore.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:46 PM
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Are you familiar with the final scene in Thelma and Louise? Best case.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 07:36 PM
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It's my life and my responsibility to care. Not yours. It's a tough pill to swallow and means some significant changes impacting my self and my three teenage boy's access to their father. Divorce rape is so much fun to contemplate when you have an income 8 times your wife's. For those who took time to offer some wisdom to a relative newbie, I thank you.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:43 AM
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Perhaps this is close. however I am not using the word happiness in place of love. I do think I am mentally challenged visualizing myself as a leader/teacher in a relationship 20+ years long which operated as a dysfunctional "partnership of equals", as I was led to believe was the goal. Visualizing those battles to change life long habits with a reluctant partner does not have appeal or comtain any pursuit of happiness vibe. Meanwhile Gaining a TRP understanding of women and moving through that …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:31 AM
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True. But the unhealthy dynamics in my LTR likely do stipulate by TRP that it is unsalvageable. Part of me wants to use TRP to save it but my brain is pretty well locking in on the concept that it is too late for that.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 11:06 PM
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This is a good reminder. I've read Athol Kay. I've also read a lot of threads here discussing oneitis. There are many faces of this coin.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 11:03 PM
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I was lied to as well. Be happy you figured it out at 24. I didn't crack the code until 42. While I agree TRP is not about happiness -- its a philosophical framework designed to lead you to maximizing your individual potential -- happiness is one of the expected outcomes. TRP may not care what kind of relationship you are in, but it is pretty clear that I should walk away from the one I am in.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 09:25 PM
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Thanks for your permission to live how I fucking please. You may now return to your home under the bridge.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 09:18 PM
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Actually, I have achieved happiness is all areas except my relationship. My career is excellent with a healthy six figure income. My kids and I have a fantastic relationship. My social life was neglected -- I was over-focused on my wife and family-- but it is quickly rebounding. I've reinvigorated my physical program, started skydiving, scuba diving, and adding other hobbies from yoga to biking, and returned to some things my W hated -- such as camping. I know that happiness comes from the insid…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 09:15 PM
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I appreciate the buffet analogy, and I have certainly enjoyed sampling. Strong Lifts for 3 months has turned my physique around. I started an online dating profile to try out TRP theory -- and I've deployed TRP amused mastery to help change dynamics at home. I have also found the vocabularly viral -- literally infecting my mind and changing how I see the world. However, to ignore that TRP is a philosophy and treat it simply as a tool box is to miss the point, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 09:10 PM
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We need to start with Medical Prostitution.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 04:45 PM
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I find a mix of good and bad in this writing. Its written by a woman, so I'm going to discount all the bullshit about showing vulnerability -- a woman needs to be comfortable showing vulnerability -- IE to allow herself to be dominated -- in order to maximize eroticism. But I don't think its a two way street. Despite her claim, vulnerability in a man is a turnoff for women. However, I think the ying and yang of intimacy and eroticism in an LTR is point on and consistent with TRP. Intimacy in any…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 05:31 PM
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She has a plan B, but she's going to "try" to be faithful until this summer.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 06:43 PM
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incorporate this concept into shaming your mom's behavior. IE help your dad out with Dread game --- tell her she's past her prime and will never find a man as good as your father, she might find men that will user her and leaver her, but she'll die alone if she keeps this feeding this line of thought -- because you will never honor her once she betrays the family -- it only ends one way for her -- and its not good.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 05:42 PM
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my incredulity is strained as well -- the more so by the fact that both teams in the superbowl have recently been there before.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 05:38 PM
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instinctively they know the "game" is easier if the men don't know the rules. would bambi recommend time at the gun range?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:38 PM
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IMO, never threaten with an unprofessional action. Let them worry about it -- if you have good juice for the competition -- it will be in their head anyways. Follow the rules of dread game -- first, you must be committed to moving on, and second, the less you say the better. Probably obvious to all the dark triads reading this, but if you have an offer you are ready to accept, and you're willing to play dread game, you have nothing to lose. There is absolutely no reason to be transparent on the …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:42 PM
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That Flinch link was awesome. A salary double is a game changer for the rest of your life. Salary increases are always incremental -- a simple double digit raise is huge -- Do Not Even think about staying. Its the compounding interest thing. Just think -- you're next 3% raise will be twice what it currently is. If there is to be negotiations, make your current employer start it. Here's how. Accept the offer and resign. Don't just turn in a letter. Get to your boss early in the morning. As others…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 05:54 PM
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And we wonder why women are choosing hypergamy. Divorce court is built from the ground up to reward it, and undermine the institution of marriage.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 06:48 PM
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If doctors are so flexible, then why the hell is the industry at the tail-ass-end of technology. Basically, the average time for a new standard of care to go over 50% is 17 years -- almost exactly in line with the half life of the typical provider -- 35 years. IE doctors are extremely rigid after leaving med school. All the adjustments in adopting new standards can be statistically attributed to old providers aging out. Exs. Flu Vaccine became standard practice 32 years ago, 45% still don't do i…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 04:31 PM
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ok -- so marry that girl -- 20 years later there's no innocence -- just stupid. and when she cheats on you, runs off with the kids, gets the house, and half your paycheck, keep on telling your self how "stupid" she was.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 08:18 PM
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