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start actually looking people in the eyes when you speak and you'll already appear more confident than 99% of people out there. It's the one thing you can start doing right now. The other things involve speaking loud and clear (loud not really being related to the volume but rather the projection of your voice)
/r/seduction05/10/19 04:31 PM
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Lmao 99% of the advices here are only useful when attraction is already established. If you get this comment, then there isnt any tension between you and the girl. Tension is what always establish attraction, it's the energy channel that convey status, power, dominance et male energy within a social interaction (with girls and guys). If you convey the nice amount of tension (good charisma, confidence, personnality etc ) and she's still not interested, then you will most likely don't get the "let…
/r/seduction10/08/19 12:02 PM
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Why bother go through life sober ? When you can be a psycho
/r/seduction27/07/19 12:38 PM
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My whole traumatized childhood 😆
/r/seduction27/07/19 12:34 PM
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Braa 🤘
/r/seduction27/07/19 12:34 PM
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One could find those examples stupid, but if it's to the point where you felt cringy reading them, you probably just trying to do seduction in a "tension avoidance" state which is a fundamental contradiction. If girls hated "aggresive" comments like these, they wouldn't be biologically programmed to enjoy being slapped in the ass while fucking Thing is, those comments are more useful to crystalize an attraction rather than create one from spark, you do not want to use them when there is 0 attrac…
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:49 AM
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I am a man buddy Why ? Do I sound like a pet feminist trying to defend girls ? Maybe but I am not aha
/r/seduction15/07/19 07:34 PM
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In fact reality is much simplier, we love to make over complicated rules to cope with reality. Shit test is just a fantasy that we created to explain a girl turning you down, girls are fighting their own demons, at no point they are actively thinking about doing a shit test, if she's sexually flirting with you and she turn you down at some point, it's because she's REALLY unsure about this, not because she made up this machiavelic plan to "test you" or anythingGirls are fighting massive insecuri…
/r/seduction15/07/19 06:59 PM
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The vast majority of my friends have always been women This is a big NO-NO, guys who had a majority of women as their friend rarely get to bang any of them
/r/seduction15/07/19 06:08 PM
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basically to reward rejection ? challenges to be voluntarily rejected
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:37 PM
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Mana translate to pride for buddhist teachers and buddhism language regardless of what you think : but I am not a buddhist follower so I dont really care What I think about pride is that YES it is a good thing overall. YES it is indeed driven by the ego. Because no Ego = nothing to be proud of. NO it doesnt suck. And NO it is not a cornerstone of seduction. You dont just get to generate a pride feeling when you have NOTHING to back it off. Will I feel pride if I didnt achieve anything and If a a…
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:48 PM
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You are lost and its OK, you need some general guidance, I suggest you to check out Jordan B. Peterson he might give you an interesting insight about how to fucking get your shit together What I would suggest : You are in a depressed state. What you need is listening to positive shit everyday to rewire your brain thinking patterns : there's a bunch of smart guys of youtube that might provide that : instead of drifting in your toxic imagination everyday or scroll in social media, listen to them o…
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:01 PM
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To think is a thing, To explain why by demonstration is another Ok first lets see what the buddhism literature have to say about that, and then lets try to break down those concepts by ourselves. ​ - Herbert V. Günther (a german philosophy professor and buddhist) : "Arrogance is a mental event which is a kind of inflated mind making whatever is suitable, such as wealth or learning, to be the foundation of pride" ​ - Conceit - Pride - Arrogance - are refered by the same word in buddhism : Māna (i…
/r/seduction31/12/18 05:32 PM
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This is not a semantic argument, on the contrary its interesting Your answear have nothing to do with our original debate, you just shedded light on some buddhism concepts, I have no doubt that you understand what you are talking about Pride and Deservedness are out of the buddhism equation (unless there's a form of buddhism I dont know about) Lets not confuse the existance of emotions with having pride or Deservedness wich are clearly concepts based upon ego, and the ego is what you try to get …
/r/seduction31/12/18 04:54 PM
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Therefore your belief system is at the antithesis of what buddhism preach. Not that its bad or wrong. Its just different and its fine. The reason I am saying that is because I read one of your comment where you take buddhism as an illustration, and I just wanted to point out that clear distinction of what buddhism is not.
/r/seduction31/12/18 04:01 PM
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the god of game ​ just kidding, a guy in the comment section that made that point of concepts internalizing
/r/seduction31/12/18 03:25 PM
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Be very careful about words such as "pride" and "deserve" , you cant really blend them with "buddhism" Those 2 words directly involve your ego. If you think you "deserve" something then when you dont get to have it ... well you become confused, because you can very well feel you deserve something all your life and never have it ​ Going into an interaction feeling you deserve anything -> You have an outcome expectation -> Therefore you have something to loose -> That influence every micro-decisio…
/r/seduction31/12/18 03:16 PM
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You danced with 10+ girls the first night You approached 3 girls the second night If you would have approached 7 more girls the second night, you could have 70% success (7/10) but you wont ever know now Coca cola dont close business because 3 people prefered Pepsi You felt entitled to be liked by every girls. The world doesnt work like that. I talked about that in the business analogy I posted yesterday. The more you got rejected the more you go in your head, the less you are present, and that m…
/r/seduction31/12/18 12:34 PM
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hmm I would say neither the cause nor the consequence. Confidence gets you results and results makes you confident, its a 2 sided feedback loop
/r/seduction31/12/18 12:22 PM
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Deservedness is basically self esteem Pride is basically confidence acceptance love attraction is basically showing a congruent interest ​ Like tgod said we all internalize concept our own special way
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:00 AM
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By increasing the generation of opportunities. If you have 1 opportunity every week, missing it will feel less miserable than if you have 1 opportunity every month. Basic principle of abundance vs scarcity. ​ How to seize the opportunity By not switching between a passive and an active mode, meaning if you need to change your behaviors when you are in front of an opportunity vs when you are in front of a random person you dont care about, you basically asking your brain to : Put a tremendous amo…
/r/seduction29/12/18 04:09 PM
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I will most certainly post something solid once I experiment enough and when I gather enough informations. I had other ideas for future posts, I studied classical conditioning from ivan pavlov and laborit in university, they did a bunch of interesting experiences on rats, and I think this shit is powerful but we never found a solid real life application for it in psychology and self help.
/r/seduction28/12/18 08:35 PM
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Didnt know about social prime, will check them out
/r/seduction28/12/18 08:22 PM
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I dont know if there any books or studies that explore that kind of stuff, maybe the ressources that talk about Trauma processing can have hidden valuable informations here and there but that's a niche stuff People dont usually go that far in self help, they stop at the dopamin spike they get from a random "advices/tips video"
/r/seduction28/12/18 08:17 PM
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Didnt do it enough to draw conclusions yet... but I wanted to write an entire post about that. I experienced an interesting set of emotions. I simulated a thought where I watched myself act inside a memory by literally imagining watching the scene from a different physical angle in the space, and so I didnt felt the emotions that are normally associated with that memory, it was very weird because I was supposed to feel angry or sad but my body didnt generate those emotions. It didnt work everyti…
/r/seduction28/12/18 08:15 PM
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Yes I guess you could say that. Altough I cannot say yet for sure that those strategies really "speed up" the brain rewiring process, or only supress bad emotions attached to certain memories, I would need to dig into that a little bit more An interesting question to raise is where is the limit of what we can call a trauma or a PTSD ? How can we effectively process them is we dont even recognize them as 'trauma' in the first place. But I keep that for another post when I have the time to write s…
/r/seduction28/12/18 08:01 PM
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I didnt consult any ncbi study, only used what I've learned from med books and my neuro teacher in medecine university
/r/seduction28/12/18 05:58 PM
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I have not yet did my research about that, and still I hardly think I'll find anything so its empirical evidence and free thinking from now I guess I already tested meditation to relive past trauma, I wanted to go as far as testing that for every tiny trauma I could remember (the oldest is when I was 6 years old). Using detatchment to watch the scene from a third person point of view. But that's for another post...
/r/seduction28/12/18 05:29 PM
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You behave like that because you are not confident, and you are not confident because you behave like that. You are not confident also from not getting alot of girls. Your brain is like a mirror, he gets feedback from your body languages to re ajust option A is having a tons of intimate relationships with very attractive girls : very unlikely atm option B is watching how a super confident guy physically act in the same situation and train your brain to mimic that as frequently as possible, focus…
/r/seduction28/12/18 11:27 AM
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There is myelination in adults, its just much much slower than during childhood. That's why childhood is such a critical period, childs are like myelin machine builder, they soak up informations like crazy. That's why a new born can learn languages so fast. That's why absolute ear for musicians is often associated with babies being exposed to complex music with alot of key changes like jazz during the first year of life. Childs dont need alot of repetition to learn the basic things of life, and …
/r/seduction28/12/18 11:22 AM
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Talked about this in the manifesto I posted here 15 days ago. It mean that tension accumulate in your body too much, its one of many ways your brain telling you he feel overwhelmed and "in danger". You are probably doing alot more nervous things without even knowing it when you are around beautiful women
/r/seduction28/12/18 12:53 AM
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I had this idea in the back lf my head to make a gamification APP to help guys improving their social skills and to put them under tension more often, now I am concerned that it would be just widely misinterpreted and controversial as "encouraging pushy and harassment behaviors" Guess its really difficult when you start wanting to teach something other than inner game or mind set to non-charismatic/beta/nice guys (as those 3 often come together).
/r/seduction17/12/18 12:56 PM
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Shouldnt have called the post "manifesto", instead something way more precise about 1 concept as I have no interest to talk about the rest. Too bad I cant edit the title I wrongly assumed that guys here were already on point on the rest so I wrote it in a hurry
/r/seduction17/12/18 12:31 PM
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Maybe you can find ways to hack your condition ? Can you write books ? Can you work on a computer, learn programmation skills maybe ?
/r/seduction16/12/18 05:08 PM
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The RPG trick also doing something that's called backward conditioning or more simply firing up the reward circuit in your brain, just like when you' doing a quest in a rpg, you need to kill 50 monsters, and each time you kill one you have a tiny reward circuit that get activated, and once you killed the 50 monsters you experience a stronger reward circuit. That's why we are so hooked up to games with progressions (leveling etc.)
/r/seduction16/12/18 05:07 PM
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book Power vs Force because it shows you how important having a system that's working for you by minimazing the amount of energy your brain spend every day on alot of useless decisions Anything from Robert green is a good follow up
/r/seduction16/12/18 05:03 PM
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Power vs Force Basically building a system around you that's carrying you toward your goals by minimazing the amount of choice/effort (that can be automatized) your brain need to do everyday
/r/seduction16/12/18 05:01 PM
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You shifted the discussion topic from tension to calibration wich are totally 2 different things, in my opinion. Calibration is obviously important, and I agree about everything you said. The only thing I strongly disagree is the idea that calibration or "having awareness" of what she wants is something that increase tension. My definition of tension is an energy that happen on a deep/basal level in our bodies. Examples : The teacher make you stand to speak in front of the whole class, you feel …
/r/seduction16/12/18 03:46 PM
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uploaded again, edited
/r/seduction15/12/18 11:12 PM
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uploaded again, edited.
/r/seduction15/12/18 11:12 PM
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fixed
/r/seduction14/12/18 07:32 PM
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Really good post This is things that belong to their inner beliefs, like its actual misconceptions that nice guys have in their minds and that they need to fix, you really nailed it. However real nice guys have in addition to that so many fucked up "external behaviors" that exhibit signals of "I am non threatening please like me". You can see literally during every seconds of an interaction their facial expression say : "I agree with everything you say just dont reject me" and often they'r not d…
/r/seduction14/12/18 07:21 PM
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The post is available again !! Bug solved by a moderator I edited a lot of things so its cleaner
/r/seduction14/12/18 06:57 PM
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its back again. I m doing a cleaner edited version
/r/seduction14/12/18 06:16 PM
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I dunno, the hundreds of comments were pretty interesting as we exchanged some good ideas. Dunno if its worth reposting just the original text
/r/seduction14/12/18 04:02 PM
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I dunno, like the moderator deleted it maybe ?
/r/seduction14/12/18 11:49 AM
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Disclaimer : I am not a PUA (I learned alot from them tho). I dont do cold approach. I am a relatable joe with a regular life who happen to have a big hyperactive brain with a shitload of creativity, who love to read psychology and philosophy and elaborate THEORIES to understand the world around him. I dont elaborate her on things like money or status. I am describing what spark attraction, in a 1on1 situation, all other things being equal My mistakes during my progression : In the begining : Be…
/r/seduction14/12/18 11:48 AM
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Disclaimer : I am not a PUA (I learned alot from them tho). I dont do cold approach. I am a relatable joe with a regular life who happen to have a big hyperactive brain with a shitload of creativity, who love to read psychology and philosophy and elaborate THEORIES to understand the world around him. I dont elaborate her on things like money or status. I am describing what spark attraction, in a 1on1 situation, all other things being equal My mistakes during my progression : In the begining : Be…
/r/seduction14/12/18 11:48 AM
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Did my post get deleted ? Anyway I think I didnt explain myself well enough. My post was not meant to be an "A to Z guide to get laid", it is NOT complete at all and it does not cover every area of seduction. My goal was to open new perspectives and give practical things to do to people who had "specifically the same sticking points " as me. I didnt expected people to read it like some sort of ULTIMATE guide, I was expecting only the guys who recognized themselves in my description to comment :)
/r/seduction14/12/18 11:39 AM
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removed by moderator ? dunno
/r/seduction14/12/18 11:31 AM
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removed by moderator ? dunno
/r/seduction14/12/18 11:31 AM
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Very hard question, I mean ... if you are used to break eye contact often with people, I would say fuck it. just practice 100% eye contact during all the interaction, you will most probably fail a few times anyway. The important is to make progress and expose yourself to the extreme. A more reasonable answear is : As long as they break eye contact 2x more than you, you can break it from time to time.. Remember the golden rule : each time you FEEL tension inside you and you dont break eye contact…
/r/seduction14/12/18 12:12 AM
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I think its different styles that suit different people. Being friendly and funny is mayybe riskier because you have more opportunity to diffuse tension if you are a naturally friendly and funny dude. On the opposite being always cool and serious and you risk being boring af. never go to the extreme I would say. Play with tension, let it rise from time to time and feel it in your guts. Be funny without being a clown, who is predictible
/r/seduction14/12/18 12:06 AM
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great point. It look like a Sun tzu law or something a master in mind games shit would have said : Make sure the person you are having an interaction with never take you for granted
/r/seduction13/12/18 11:52 PM
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Its heart-warming to know that I helped at least 1 dude out there with my poorly written essay I know how you must have felt : that life can be so freaking simple ...aha fuck men hang on to that feeling, cuz its the best feeling in my opinion 💪💪
/r/seduction13/12/18 11:43 PM
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The most important is to try it. If you feel tension rising, if you feel suddenly hot (like you are about to sweat), then you'll know exactly why so many of us do random nervous gestures with our body to diffuse the tension
/r/seduction13/12/18 04:04 PM
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I have Been field testing EVERYTHING I talk about in my day to day life for years. Its what "I" personally noticed, its not "THE" formula, its what worked for me. I dont believe you have to put women at the center of your life and cold approach everyday to increase your charisma and learn new stuff. Introvert shy guys like the one I was WILL NEVER APPROACH CONSISTENTLY anyaway, so why bother, what should we tell them ? Okay so basically if you dont cold approach you are dead anyway, you'll never…
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:54 PM
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Charisma is something every MAN on this planet must and CAN improve. I cant speak for people with "true" autism tho (As each autism have a different degree of disabilities) but re read my 3rth "RELATABLENESS". So yes you'll still find a girl who seek someone relatable more than anything else
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:38 PM
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I agree with you, Jordan Peterson said something that really resonated with me "You’ll know 1,000 people at least over the course of your life and they’ll know 1,000 people each and that puts you one person away from a million and two persons away from a billion" I have been approaching, not in the "cold approach pick up" style, but more in my day to day activities, but its definitly something I want to do more consistently
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:35 PM
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do it now rpg android
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:13 PM
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You must try it to understand what I am talkin about. Listen to someone tell you a story or speaking to you, and DONT smile, dont nervously nod your hard in approbation, and eye contact him. Try to stay calm and still, you'll feel weird, your body will seek ways to diffuse the tension. The more the other person is a stranger/your boss/a higher status/a girl/ the more you will feel the tension accumulating fast
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:56 PM
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yes good point, as long as you dont over do it, let the tension rise and feel it in your guts
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:53 PM
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I never really took a personality test, which one do you advice ? I wanted to take the one by Jordan B. Peterson
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:52 PM
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The power of eye contact, start with that !! you must !
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:47 PM
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That belief was ingrained in my brain so deep that its still something hard to admit. What made me change my beliefs ? - Seeing OVER AND OVER fucking ugly guys in my social circle getting hot girls. - Hot girls admitting that someone is ugly and still having sex with him (cause he "have something else") and trust me, that something else was no money nor status, those are people in my social circle - Being myself rated as a fucking ugly 4 by a hot girl, and a 9 by another hot girl ​ And that "thi…
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:45 PM
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This is the point, I have no qualifications and I dont want to, I just give a realistic view from the perspective of a normal dude and what you can achieve even without making "pick-up" a priority in your life. My only qualification is being born with a brain that was always over thinking everything since a child. I grew up living in my head more than the real world, daydreaming the vast majority of the day, like during 10 hours a day I was lost in my imagination and not paying attention to what…
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:36 PM
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Well unfortunatly there is guys with a REALLY fucked up way of talking, from the moment they open their mouth you just KNOW : "this guy isnt confident at all". Stuttering, talking super fast etc.
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:13 PM
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its a huuge eye opener, this book is a must read. It may not be among best sellers but holy F the things it helped me realise ... anyway READ IT
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:07 PM
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You are 100% right, status and power. Now being right or wrong about the real meaning behind attraction was not the point of my writing. The point is, tell someone shy/introvert "its all about power/status", does it help him ? No he still have no clue what to do "specifically" in his day to day life. Its like alot of self help stuff : "just be happy" "just be present" yeah sure, but that doesnt help someone who is deeply anxious in social settings. Increasing your ways to manage tension, your ey…
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:02 PM
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Didnt know the original meaning behind alpha beta omega, I just use those word like the mainstream aha. But interesed in what you said, I guess alpha/beta/omega isnt really accurate for humans enough
/r/seduction13/12/18 01:55 PM
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doesnt exist, try to look for alternatives
/r/seduction13/12/18 01:53 PM
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Thanks for sharing value
/r/seduction13/12/18 01:52 PM
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Was talking to shy introvert guys who often speak fast AF, of course normal pace is what you want
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:39 AM
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Not talking about apes nor wolves, just what I'v seen in humans. Again, it all depend how you lip smile and why you are doing it. if you constantly use it to diffuse tension in a conversation, with alot of raising eye brows, you appear submissive af Plus, the sexy lip smile you are talking about is often a tiny one-sided lip smile with a deep eye contact, it can be sexy yes, but in a context of a conversation its very hard to do (if you are not already on an intimate stage)
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:36 AM
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You cannot grasp what I'm saying if you dont come from a shy introvert background. You have minimal control on your look : I am talking about the actual shape of your face, nose, eye, mouth. Exept surgery you cant do much (assuming you work out, dress well, are clean and pleasant to look at) When you speak with someone you smile : Once again, if you were a very shy nervous boy you would have understood my poor phrasing (not a native speaker). When someone is talking to you, as an introvert/shy/n…
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:13 AM
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rpg do it now android
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:00 AM
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Try to listen someone speak when he tell you a story, look him or her in the eye, and dont node. Feel how much tension accumulate inside you, you'll want to smile, nod, nervously move your hands etc. the tension YOU feel THEY feel too. Just saying get ride of compulsive noding/smile because it diffuse tension, if you nod, its because the other person is REALLY making a point you want to agree with
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:00 AM
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You calibrate the amount of eye contact of course. The more confident the girl are, the more you can hold eye contact, dont think of it as staring, think of it as "ther other person must break eye contact more often than you do" as simple as that, its like a game. If you eye contact 100% of the time but everything else is off (no conversation, weird tonality voice, no body language) they will just feel so much tension that it feel aggresive, not arousal.
/r/seduction13/12/18 01:57 AM
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yea lmao, reddit wont let me edit the title
/r/seduction12/12/18 07:09 PM
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