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Rant/Ventingelysius/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 08:38 PM
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Red Pill Theoryelysius/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 02:18 PM
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I considered doing so, but I wasn't sure if it would do anything. I usually just call them out so more people will be aware. Will report in the future.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:56 PM
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This is awesome, and thanks for the post-- it puts me a bit at ease. I've recently noticed a lot of concern trolling and entryism on the threads, and I was worried that the moderation had become lax or, worse, infiltrated. This post signals that we're still going in the right direction. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:29 PM
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Delete these posts or edit them, you put up a shit ton of information that she can identify you with. No verbatim messages or names that connect with you directly, ever.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 10:38 PM
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I don't usually debate on the internet, but when I do, it's with people using decade old memes.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 09:34 AM
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No one's been ignoring anything, which is what makes your plea for "balance" transparent for the attempt of manipulation it really is. You really think we can't tell you're only saying this because you got offended that OP is painting women in a bad light, which shows where your true affiliation really lies? Please. And to coat it in SJW language only makes it more pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 09:33 AM
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No one here needs to be told what men are capable of. Society and the media have been telling us this since the day we were born. Many men, however, need to be told the other side of the story, a side that is deliberately downplayed and kept out of the messages sent to us by the same society and media, to the detriment of men everywhere. This place is dedicated to that other side, so it is completely beside the point that "men do it too", since we are not here to learn about our own sex. Failing…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:10 PM
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This is what's going on. Be alert.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:03 PM
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Oh wow, guys, we have the voice of reason here.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:58 PM
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somehow Do you think we are alone in here?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:57 PM
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If this kind of thing grinds your gears, look up the Dark Enlightenment and Neoreaction and join the fight.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:08 PM
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/u/laserdicks is right, I was referring to pair bonding.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 08:59 PM
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a mentality that only polarizes the relationship between men and women. The relationship between man and woman is already polarized. It has always been, and it always will, because man and woman are polar opposites, as dictated by nature. If you don't understand or can't accept that then this is probably not the place for you.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 08:57 PM
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You guys really can't tell OP is a woman?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 08:53 PM
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Sluts are happy riding the CC the way drug addicts are happy using drugs. The difference is that the CC does not destroy their bodies with the same viciousness that drugs do, unless they get AIDS or something, but it destroys their soul. The more cocks a woman rides, the less satisfaction she's able to derive from any particular cock. This makes her unable to commit emotionally to any one man, since for women sex and emotions are connected. Indeed, as soon as a woman has had more than one partne…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 01:28 PM
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I've only ever met one woman who didn't absolutely lose her shit when things didn't go her way.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 02:20 PM
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In Brazil women can just say a name and the dude becomes the father. He then needs to challenge it if he wants to set the record straight, when she asks for child support.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 01:51 PM
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I'd totally go to prison. 1 year in prison beats 18 years of child support hands down. Unless they'd still make you pay for it after you're released, in which case I'd just leave the country.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 01:47 PM
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Yeah, depending on my mood I would say yes just to flirt heavily with the friend and completely ignore the actual date just to fuck with her.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 06:12 AM
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The key is context. Most men are not in your situation and so the general advice is meant for the general situation. Most men are fertile and have never really had any special feelings or hopes regarding fatherhood. So they get into relationships with single mothers-- women who generally have a history of promiscuous behavior and bad judgment, as evidence by the situation they find themselves in. These women are in the market looking for stability, so they try to rope in nice guys to provide for…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:45 PM
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Glad to help.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 02:48 PM
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I couldn't find the main paper I remember reading, but this Harvard article has some similar info and I think references the same research. An analysis of the Sequenced Treatment Alternatives to Relieve Depression (STAR*D) study, one of the largest investigations of depression in "real world" settings, found that while men and women shared some symptoms of major depression (such as low mood), the overall pattern of symptoms varied by gender. Women were more likely to gain weight when depressed; …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 02:46 PM
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Yeah, I had an ex who tried to commit suicide after we broke up. She started cutting her wrists, gave up because it hurt too much and went to the E.R. That's the kind of bullshit that goes into the "stats" for attempted suicide of women: drama and attention-whoring. There's a reason men use more violent means than women: they want to fucking end it. So they blow their brains out, take a dive or hang themselves: all methods with little to no opportunity for them to change their minds and change c…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 03:03 PM
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False dilemma. Just stop somewhere in the middle. You're not gonna get to the second picture without some SERIOUS commitment and effort, and you don't have to. You can look good and fit without looking like a male stripper.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 03:07 PM
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You can understand, intellectually, that you're romanticizing the past, a person, a relationship, an event, but that alone doesn't make the feelings go away, because feelings are deeper and more primordial than thoughts. Something about the experience made an indelible impression on you, and it will always feel like a hole that needs to be filled. So you look to the obvious answer: the best shape to fill this hole is the shape that created it. If only you could get back together with you ex, you…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 02:55 PM
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First of all, oneitis warning. This is how they are born. You don't even know this girl, wtf are you doing thinking about an LTR with her. Second, if she were really into you, she would keep giving you attention and texting you, period. Lastly, if you're really always in her city, and are not just saying this because you want an excuse to see her, do give her a call and try to get her to meet in person. If she declines your invitation without providing an explicit alternative (i.e., 'I can't ton…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 02:17 PM
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it's just ego, I don't know how to maintain control over her with all this outside attention. I can understand not wanting to lose something good, but if this is all this is about, get rid of the ego. Don't feed that need for control, it's only gonna do you harm. Read up on /r/Stoicism.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 02:06 PM
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I listened to their frustrations but never took sides ...How? To women, if Jane is talking trash about Janet, even just sitting there listening and not expressing any kind of disapproval (which it would mean you are on Janet's side), no matter how small (such as an unfortunately timed sigh) is construed as taking Jane's side, if she comes out of the interaction with a good impression of you (if she doesn't, you were on Janet's side). Honest question.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 01:53 PM
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As a general rule, people do that with people they find boring and/or annoying. So maybe you are boring and/or annoying. Reflect upon the content of the messages that went unanswered and the general "vibe" of the conversation beforehand, put yourself in their shoes and try to see if you can find grounds for them to find you boring and/or annoying. Sometimes people will keep a conversation going out of politeness, doing the minimal they can to keep it flowing so as to not appear rude, but when yo…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 01:45 PM
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Then he went on to get married to, and have a son with, a former party girl who participated in orgies. Boggles the mind.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 02:33 PM
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So this got unbelievably long, but I think it's well worth it. I'm 34 now, divorced, and I wish I had read something like this when I was your age. Most of the advice here is telling you to forget about women and focus on your self development first, which is great advice and something you should always do, but incomplete. If you do that, and only that -- as one poster said, focus on STATUS first and the women will follow -- you will indeed find no shortage of women once you are graduated and ma…
/r/askTRP02/01/15 02:34 PM
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I don't have any advice specific to doctors, but GLOB's recent post had an amazing insight for men in LTRs everywhere, which you should definitely keep in mind: When you meet this Girlfriend/Wife it will probably be at work, grad-school or the club. Your going to be on your best behavior and in nice clothes. Women are attracted to men in suits and uniforms purposefully doing things. Compare this to her boyfriend/husband who she only sees after he has come back tired and grumpy from work before s…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 09:57 PM
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Jesus, so what? Are you suggesting he just gives up and offer his wife to doctors everywhere or are you just a doctor on a power trip?
/r/askTRP31/12/14 09:35 PM
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It's not the 'competition' part that's universal, but the preselection. Men who are "allowed" to have sex outside of marriage are very well preselected: the woman knows for a fact that he could have other women, and does, but it's to her that he comes back home. To some women this is even a fantasy, but we see the same dynamic playing out in girls who know you spin plates, in the recent polyamory bullshit, and in the age old institution of the harem. Women instinctively prefer sharing an alpha t…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 02:12 PM
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Was it right for me to get offended by her anger, or did I fuck up there? Submissive mindset. You can't start second-guessing yourself at every turn. Follow your gut, stand by your decisions. If time proves what you did was wrong, learn from it, adjust, apologize if necessary, but don't let it fuck up your confidence. If you felt offended, it would be poisonous for you and the relationship to not act accordingly. Assert your will. In a long-term relationship, the RP dynamic is that of Captain (t…
/r/askTRP25/12/14 07:37 PM
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Jesus. Everything here is so wrong it smells like troll. But I'll bite. incredibly confident, motivated in her career, smart, in a similar field as me You know, that's the first time I've ever seen a man enthuse over those things in a woman. so inviting this rando into our date was ... (3) an attempt to get out of an awkward date. She just wasn't feeling sexually attracted to you and so made sure to remove that kind of expectation from the situation. "Flowing conversation, no silences, laughing,…
/r/askTRP24/12/14 01:50 AM
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I think you know the answer to that and are only asking hoping that someone will tell you what you want to hear.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 10:56 PM
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This is the best. One more reason to hit the gym.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 09:47 PM
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Right thing to do is to end it. You're not feeling it, you have no plans for her, she annoys you for no good reason and insufficient return, etc; you're only with her out of laziness or fear of going out there and fucking other women, which is a pussy-ass thing to do. If you drag this out, one day she's "suddenly" going to end it first, or you'll find out she cheated on you, and then you'll get hurt and develop a serious case of oneitis, and you'll have no one to blame but yourself. So end it. (…
/r/askTRP22/12/14 09:36 PM
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Not just feminists, that's the entire point of Progressivism, known in the US as the liberals. It is an entire social and political system based on destroying the previous/traditional/natural order and replacing it with one that's "fairer", doesn't matter how many lies they tell or lives they ruin to achieve that. Also, spoiler alert: it's not going to work.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 10:07 PM
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society is far more comfortable with teaching women about the dark side of men than vice versa. It's more useful for society that men are conned than women. A woman strapped to an unworthy man puts a burden on society -- they are going to either help raise her kids (welfare) or deal with the results of insufficient parenting (underachievement, crime). So it's important that women learn to recognize the deadbeats, even though their now unrestricted sexual nature makes that kind of knowledge mostl…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:59 AM
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If women weren't completely stomping all over us, this movement wouldn't exist. They have only themselves to blame. That's only true to some extent. Remember, your woman (and everyone else) will only treat you the way you deserve to be treated. The RP is about us becoming the men who deserve to be treated the way we want to, not blaming others for our situation. But yes, the girls who whine when that sweet BB deal they had going on falls through do only have themselves to blame.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:50 PM
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I believe the term you're looking for is Crab mentality.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:41 PM
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The problem I have with this subreddit, and probably a lot of people, is the way you view women. We simply view women as different from men; not better and not worse. If you can't accept that women and men are different, despite all modern science (and tradition) pointing that way, then RP will simply not work for you in regards to living the life you want when it comes to attraction. Sure, you might "improve yourself" somewhat, but you're always gonna be in that limbo between alpha as fuck and …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:36 PM
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Now here's the twist: They do know all of this too, and they hate to be reminded of their pathetic and lazy way of life. Bingo. That's why they get so angry. Your very existence as an RP man is a narcissistic blow to them. It's one thing being born undesirable, one can learn to live with that. But seeing other undesirables learning how to play the game and come out on top, it feels like cheating to them (which is why they love to say RP is manipulation, abuse, etc). They could do it, too, but th…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:18 PM
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Is this joke "yeah I will blow you if you win haha" that bad that you can leave your girlfriend for that? Newsflash: you can leave your girlfriend for whatever the fuck you want. Everyone's entitled to their own personal boundaries, and if the other person crosses them, you can act accordingly. Of course, it helps, and makes the process a lot fairer, to make your boundaries known first. In OP's case, on top of failing to select a worthy mate in the first place, he failed to set his boundaries. T…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 02:04 PM
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Not 100%, but the woman would have to be a particularly spiteful kind of whore to be willing to debase herself after a public humiliation like that. In any case, why would you care? She's history, she can suck every single cock in the world after that for all we should care.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 01:48 PM
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Guy friends and slutty girl friends.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 01:39 PM
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I know /u/Stayinghereforreal's comment is the most upvoted in here and others are recommending it, but it can backfire horribly. Going head-on like that, with no proof or anything, and giving her an ultimatum on top of it, is going to make her feel judged and defensive, and we all know how women behave when they feel like that. You said this friend of hers is a bad influence, who do you think is going to be the first person she calls when you give her shit about the night your wife spent with he…
/r/askTRP21/11/14 04:48 PM
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I love this. If it were me, I'd go with: "Turns out I'm broke. Come to my place tonight for pizza and a movie instead." If you cannot afford to go dutch on the pizza, say it's on her. Just act like you have nothing to be ashamed of and irrationally confident and it should work out just fine. If she says no, who cares, right. At least you didn't spend any money.
/r/trpGAME19/11/14 06:57 AM
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Assuming you're legit, first of all, you need to stop thinking about this shit, or at the very least talking to her about it. Nothing screams insecurity louder than worrying about your dick, and insecurity is a much, much bigger deal for women than dicks. And guess what, if you keep this up, pretty soon your dick is going to stop working properly because you're piling up so much shit on it. Second, your size really, really doesn't matter. First, because most women can't orgasm from penetration a…
/r/askTRP19/11/14 06:38 AM
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It's a 2014 Panty Dropper. Can't you read?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:09 PM
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The point is precisely that history tells us time and time again that civilizations cannot be supported without some serious social restrictions. Civilizations, not roaming gangs of a few dozen inbred people.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 07:04 PM
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Not saying you're wrong, but the alternative would be no ltr's. Now you're starting to get it.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 07:00 PM
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No, he's not really condemning pre-marital sex, learn to read.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:59 PM
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You agree with the OP = bible thumping lunatic? Yeah okay keep telling yourself that. Etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:57 PM
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Most girls with Tinder go through 1 to 3 different cocks A WEEK. That amounts to 50-150 cocks A YEAR, if they're not determined to settle down. There's simply no incentive for women today to not ride as many cocks as they can, so expect their numbers to go dramatically higher in the future.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:33 PM
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That's good enough. Just don't let them know your number because they're obviously playing theirs down and if you say it, they will assume you think you're hot shit for thinking you have a bigger number, while they'll be giggling inside.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:28 PM
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I'm not saying you should, I'm saying this is how it's done. Too often guys show up on r/relationships or r/donotgiveafuck asking how to not give a fuck about the number of partners their girlfriends have had. This is what they need to learn to counter all the Blue Pill they're given at those places.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 06:59 PM
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Whooooooooooooooooooooooooosh PS: Extra o's so modbot won't come after me.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 06:56 PM
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Exactly why I said "That feeling is there for a reason."
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 06:54 PM
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100% agree, that's my approach as well.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:32 PM
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If your girl is attractive, same age as you, without many long term relationships it is very doubtful that you have had more partners than her. This is certainly true for the average modern woman, but we know better than to get into a serious LTR with the average modern woman, don't we? Only the likes of Roosh can give them a run for their money.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:29 PM
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Those are different things. I'm talking here about the guy who gets utterly destroyed when he learns (a sanitized version of) the number of cocks his girlfriend rode on before his, which is most guys. I'm one of those people who want nothing to do with sluts myself. But I don't feel bad about the partner number of the girls I've been serious with ever since I realized that my number was greater. I still immediately put girls with high numbers in the "undateable" category, and might feel a certai…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:24 PM
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Obviously gender equality is the only factor at play there, those countries are absolute shit otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 10:49 AM
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The answer to why feminism hasn't worked in making women happy is obviously more feminism.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 10:28 AM
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It doesn't. I think you're a cunt, but I never said it because I didn't want it to color the discussion. The fact that I didn't say it does not invalidate the fact that I think you are a sopping wet diseased cunt. It's just another layer of what was going on. One which I'm smart enough to see, and you are not, but which is not in direct conflict with me not saying it.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 10:16 AM
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Your post illustrates the problem perfectly. Everything you said is bad, indeed. For a man. Women and men are different. The evil of feminism lies precisely in forcing women to take tokens of male status and value and throw them onto the backs of women, without regard for whether it was actually good, or needed, but because of vague and vengeful notions of equality and justice. To make women believe that if they don't have a career, ultimate "freedom" and disposable income, they're lesser human …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 10:12 AM
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And you're in TRP. The average man is absolutely clueless about the change that's taking hold of society, and for about 90% of men who are 40 years old or older, working has always been about providing for a family and performing his role on society. This has always been what gave the average man-- the one without the drive or constitution of a Gengis Khan-- the sense of meaning and purpose in his life.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 06:57 PM
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Oh, you can bet that one is also going on. Sluts are hyper-aware of social judgment. It does not invalidate what I said, though, specially as a general rule.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:08 PM
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Having a good job and being "responsible" (which connotes authority and decision-making) are all generally positive attributes a man can have regardless of whether a woman is into him for fun or for support. You're missing the point. If a guy gives a girl tingles, that's what she'll talk about. A guy who doesn't give a girl tingles is only referred to in terms of what makes him a good catch on paper: good job, responsible, nice. But women don't get wet for how dependable a man is, and a dry woma…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 03:51 PM
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The other commenters are right in that they are explaining to you why there's no such thing as a girl who is "not like the others." But as I see it, your question is really about a personal mindset that is not just about arguments or learning to see how a girl might not be special. Simply put, these thoughts stem from still-held romantic fantasies and a scarcity mindset. Deep down, you're still looking for The One, and every time you meet a new girl, the "might she be The One" routine kicks in. …
/r/askTRP26/09/14 11:38 AM
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Are you the only man she's ever been with? If so, does she seem ok with that? If you answered no to any of those questions, the most likely outcome of your marriage is divorce. If you're ok with losing custody of any kids you end up having along with having 50% of your income transferred to her, then by all means, go right ahead.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 09:34 AM
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No, that's not how it works.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:48 AM
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The blame should be put squarely on him. Dude waited 10 dates for something a woman more than 10 years past her prime used to give out freely? He should've nexted her after the second time she didn't put out.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 08:50 PM
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That sounds so backwards and insane.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:52 AM
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RP is not about what is "right", it's about attraction. Here's what would happen if he were "totally open and honest about what he is doing": first, she would chastise him from spending $200 on a non-mutually approved vanity purchase. Then she would start chastising him for spending more and more time away from the family in a selfish pursuit. She'd say he doesn't care for what she wants, that he's dumping all the domestic responsibilities on her, that he's neglecting the marriage, and she'd thi…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:49 AM
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Subtle dread game? That was almost nuclear. Dude was really on the brink of losing it all there, but I guess at some point he realized that it was either going all in or going through an agonizing, slow marriage death. In any case, the worst that could happen is what was going to happen anyway, so it's often worth the shot.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:27 AM
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Just a curiosity: How are hookers legal but soliciting for sex not legal? You can say yes if they offer but you can't approach one and bring up the topic yourself?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 08:51 AM
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Yes. If you truly care about a girl and want to end things up with her while minimizing her suffering as much as possible, the best thing you could possibly do is just ramp up the beta. Truly show her how much you love and care for her and support her and understand her. Her pussy will dry right up and it will come that moment when you "need to talk." She'll then tell you all about what a great guy you are, about how much she loves you but that she's not in love with you anymore, and that it wou…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 05:06 AM
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This made me laugh out loud. Who knew all I needed to get laid and/or save my marriage was to just be myself?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 12:04 AM
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The closest I've seen to it were threads of people talking about how they tried RP and it didn't work and/or made them terrible people in the process. RP is not a school, with accredited professors who tutor you along the way. RP is just theory, and people bring all kinds of different backgrounds with them when they set out to put that theory in practice. Putting out a "confident" vibe to one person might be just sticking out their chest, while to another it might mean picking up fights. Without…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 09:43 PM
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Don't beat yourself up, divorce is just the natural course of marriage.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 07:56 PM
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Acquiesce verbally, escalate physically. Eventually she'll melt. If she doesn't, she's either serious about not wanting it or too much of a risk, so just break the whole thing up.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 09:51 PM
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No, God wouldn't allow the words to come out.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:20 PM
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That must have been painful to witness, I'm sorry for your loss.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:47 AM
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What she really meant: "I have enough cocks to last me for the winter." Then all other cocks fell through. She pinged OP, OP was still willing. "Not bad but I'd better get back out there again. Winter is coming."
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 11:22 PM
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It's extremely easy to prove who uploaded the images How? Tracing the IP? Hah. most girls would actually prefer not to have their nudes on the internet. Argument not strong enough to revert the burden of proof.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 11:16 PM
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By even continuing the discussion about worth you're allowing them the frame and validating the discussion. Exactly. And even if you wanted to one up her or something, you'd lose points for such a wordy response. Brevity cuts deeper. "Well, then, don't let me keep you." Or stare at another woman's ass as she passes by during the speech. Or "You know what we should do? [pregnant pause] Fuck." Or "So, are you gonna order, or...?" Etc. This, of course, if you still want to try and keep her on your …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:50 PM
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You have a point there. But when shit hits the fan, his brother will know who had his back the whole time.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:20 PM
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Same way you deal with it if the girl had said that: "It's ok, I'm not jealous," or any of the other 1000 IHAB responses. If they insist, just engage the protocols designed to deal with cock-blocking girl friends. White knights are fat chicks. This is all on the sidebar, guys.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 06:03 PM
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I'm sorry, but guys like him can only learn the RP the hardest way. Don't give him books like the other guys are saying, it will only tarnish RP for when he does need it. Wait for him to talk to you about marital problems and then give him the RP perspective, without naming it as such. Convert him by example: be successful in life and with women and he will want to know your secret. Your lifestyle will give weight to your philosophy when his white knight shields pop up in response to the RP trut…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:53 PM
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I gave her the option to think about what she wants to do. Mistake. If you want her, you should have ended the relationship. If you don't want her, you should have ended the relationship. If she wants to spend time and work things out we can There is nothing to work out, she has nothing for you. The only reason why she hasn't left you already is either because she hasn't anyone else lined up, or because she's pining for her true love, probably a guy who lives in her parents' town, which I'm gues…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 03:34 PM
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I started out that way too. But you have to accept that, as a man, the welfare of a relationship is your responsibility. You are supposed to be the head of the couple/family, and you need to start acting as such. I know this sounds like some Bible bullshit and goes against everything society has been saying about male-female relationships for a long time, but we have been around for ages longer than that. Every normal, mentally healthy woman wants a worthy man for them to follow. As long as beli…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 02:21 AM
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A proper parallel would be going to TRPW. The thing about the average woman is that they are either clueless or in denial about their nature, and that of men as well. The RP is about lifting the veil of pretty lies and dealing with reality.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 02:15 AM
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I'm going to go 100% No Contact for at least 10 days before trying this. Why? I agree you shouldn't initiate contact, but if she does you'll just seem butthurt. When she talks to you, talk to her normally. When she starts teasing you, talking about sex or the things she'd like to do to you, just say, I'm gonna stop you right there. You either come over to fuck right now or this stops now. Not those exact words, but you get the point. She's treating you just like a beta orbiter, with the only dif…
/r/trpGAME06/09/14 03:04 PM
1

She doesn't respond well to alpha shit probably because she can tell you don't mean it. As /u/Ill_mumble_that put a couple comments below, "holding frame will change inevitably change a woman." Stop playing her game. Let her know (through your actions) that it's either your game or the highway.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 02:39 PM
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The thing about women is that they don't just say or do stuff like they mean it. At first, they're just putting the ball in your corner. It's a Serve. Mess up your responses a few times and you end up with a woman who starts to mean what she says, who already starts with an Ace. If she had simply laid down to sleep, she wouldn't fall asleep immediately, she would lay there waiting on your reaction. A beta would be uncomfortable with the rejection and afraid of making the woman angry or resenting…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:56 PM
4

Being a man has always been about being capable. Being capable of taking care of yourself, your family, your community. Being capable of exerting dominion over yourself, others and the land. Being capable of solving problems. Different cultures valued different capabilities at different times, but it's always come down to this. Obviously not only men were capable, but a man incapable on the aspects valued by his community was no man at all. Women were always more evaluated on aspects they couldn…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 03:24 PM
2

You don't even have to go that far. Just remove the birth control pills that men invented and suddenly women are not "empowered" anymore. Take away the modern woman's ability to ride the cock carousel without consequence and make them produce even less in the workplace because they're crippled with menstrual cramps, and you have the same invalid patriarchies were invented to protect eons ago.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:56 PM
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We are equal except for the things in which women are better. But for the things men are better we are equal too. It's a tricky concept but the Party expects you to grasp it.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:46 PM
1

Could be. I just felt the butthurt a bit too strong.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:40 PM
1

create an entire new online identity, then go and buy a cheap laptop to use with that identity. Only connect it to the internet when necessary. I assume you should also only connect it to the internet using public wifi? If you're using your home or work connection then it's a link closer to you.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 09:28 AM
1

None of you guys actually do this.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 09:21 AM
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Female organizations simply don't elicit the same status as male organizations do. It would be like you thinking to yourself, man, it sure is cool to be a Freemason. I'm gonna start my own fraternity and we'll be cool just like them! It doesn't work like that. You'd just be a weirdo until maybe in a couple hundred years your organization will start to look cool, but by then you'd be long gone. So the only way for you to partake in the status enjoyed by Freemasons is to become one yourself. But w…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 07:11 AM
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Agreed. Even though it is unclear just how much of the infrastructure was actually laid down by the women, they seemed capable enough. The thing is that, even so, they managed to put together a society that is unable to even sustain itself. So yeah, more power to them for doing their thing. But their thing just goes to show why matriarchies don't figure in the history books.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:53 AM
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My experience has been pretty different from that, especially regarding SJW topics. Anything remotely critical of feminism still gets major downvotes. I don't think we're quite there yet.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:27 AM
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Exactly. And if you take people talking trash about RP (or anything, really) personally, you still have a long way to go.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:24 AM
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Don't forget trying hard to be funny, then failing.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:21 AM
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While you have a point, and I upvoted you for it, I think you drew the wrong lesson from this. What if you don't like dancing, or are not in the mood for dancing? What if you are uncomfortable or find it ridiculous to get up on the bar and shake it for everyone to see? Perhaps you don't mind dancing, but a lot of guys do. Try to imagine what you would do if your girlfriend tried to get you to do something you really don't feel like doing. From what you say, it seems like your solution to situati…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:57 AM
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It could be said it started out like that. But democracy and capitalism are amazingly adaptable, and have assimilated the Marxist ideals under the various banners of social democracy and social justice so no totalitarianism is needed. It is just as good for capitalism and democracy to have a passive, dependent, weak and homogeneous populace as it is for communism and socialism. So instead of oppressing the people, just give them what they want. It's basically the difference in approach between 1…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 01:39 AM
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That's exactly what I'm talking about. Cultural identity is being undermined in favor of an homogenized "social/civil" identity. Your roots, your family, your tradition, your ethnic background-- all to be replaced by "progressive" values across the board. Which is to mean, whatever the State decides.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 12:56 AM
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The short answer is that the ideological bunch, SJWs and political-minded folks alike, think their way is ultimately going to free humans from all forms of "oppression" so we can all be happy and dedicate ourselves to pleasurable pursuits only. In other words, the bonobo masturbation society. This presumably admirable goal is however easily hijacked by all kinds of opportunists vying for power, as in practice, this is only sustainable through complete dependency and subservience to the State, in…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 11:19 PM
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It's always been the marxist imperative to destroy the traditional values, and people willingly sign up for it because most people are sexually frustrated and think living in a bonobo masturbation society would solve that.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 06:59 PM
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I don't know why you're downvoted, this is exactly how it's going to go down.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 06:56 PM
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No mainstream articles on divorce talk about how it is divorce-rape but in reality we all know how the laws turned out. I applaud your effort to remain on point, but this is powertalk*, plain and simple, and you'd better wise up to that. [*] Example of powertalk for the uninitiated: a law was passed saying it is forbidden for people to lay down on the grass on parks. Police only ever enforces it when they find hobos sleeping on the park. In effect they gave themselves the power to drag hobos awa…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 06:54 PM
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Actually, it's more like, if you lose, the casino's thugs hold you down, beat you up, break your legs and take all your shit.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 06:49 PM
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It definitely depends on the particular culture she finds herself into. I'm taking into consideration here the average western young woman in a big city-- college educated, living alone or with roommates, working and/or going to college. Less populated areas have a lower percentage of eligible men, so even if a girl is slutty her total count will be lower than it would be if she lived in a big city. She'll just fuck the same people more often. I don't know how urban northwest UK is, but if it's …
/r/askTRP20/08/14 06:45 PM
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Every single one who can. The average modern woman goes through 20 cocks in an year. The average woman in her 20s, who goes out clubbing every week, easily breaks into the 50-100/year range. With Tinder, it's not uncommon to find girls who have sex with a different guy 2-3 times a week. And these are not the hypersexual sluts, but girls you'd probably find normal and sweet and wouldn't think twice before bringing home to introduce to your parents. In modern western society, the only things that …
/r/askTRP20/08/14 04:04 AM
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You're a slut, that's easy to understand. So what?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 12:39 AM
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Also the 200 pounds in question.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:48 PM
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Looking "dominant" or intimidating is not going to get you approached, quite the contrary. But it will going to give you a leg up over those more beta looking dudes when you approach, provided you know how to play it. Everything you do will have more impact: your eye contact will be more piercing, your silence will cause more discomfort, your kino will be more perceived, etc. Use it to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:34 PM
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Im sure all those "good wives" in the 50s acted like sex slaves/maids/nannies to their husbands. /rolleyes Well, it's not that simple. There have always been beta men. The nagging emasculating wife has been an archetypal character for thousands of years, even when women were much more oppressed than in the 50s. Just because women were socialized to not make a fuss in their marriages it doesn't mean that their husbands knew how to command respect, and this could manifest itself in many ways on th…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:28 PM
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You must first invent the universe. Seriously though, just put up with them enough to network. Build up your social value with and through them so you can reach people you find cool enough to be friends with.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:16 PM
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In real life though not all, or even many, of the 20% guys ever decide to settle down, and from the ones who do, most of them have already grown so "degenerate" from their previous lives of debauchery that they don't really much care for female purity anymore. It's like Jim Jeffries said: he would love to settle down with a nice girl, but whores have spoiled nice girls for him, and also him for nice girls.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:11 PM
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Any person who demands trust while refusing to provide verification is trying to swindle you.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:57 PM
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She effortlessly lied to and manipulated for months — simply because it was not believable that someone could be that selfish of a person, that convincing of a liar, and that good of a manipulator She's a terrible liar and even worse manipulator. The problem is that this guy has silly putty for a spine.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:31 PM
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One final note: why the heck are all these SJWs so fat, hideous and easy to troll? Sometimes I feel bad for them. Take this woman, for example. No matter what she does with her life, however many successful "games" she makes, however many cocks she sucks and rides, she's always going to look like an abortion. I too would be angry at the world if I had been dealt such a shitty hand.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 05:44 PM
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It can be a fluke, 2 out of a 3 is a small sample. Keep looking around. But, in
/r/askTRP16/08/14 12:34 AM
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I'm not sure exactly what "ideal" would mean if it must be within reason and we can't talk about unicorns. Also, the best voted answer in the thread sounds pretty unicorn-y to me, as kind of acknowledged tongue-in-cheek by the end of the post. It also raises the question, ideal for what? as the requirements for a good plate, LTR and wife differ a lot. But I'll bite. Feminine; loving and kind; fun to be with; loyal; beautiful; submissive; takes her image and appearance seriously; honors herself, …
/r/askTRP16/08/14 12:14 AM
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You must lead a pretty boring sex life if you think that cannot happen. What would sound like a more believable situation for you? Wife pouts during the rest of the night and then says she has a headache when he tries to initiate sex?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 09:09 PM
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I'm not saying you should trust any particular article. But you'd still be wise to take what you can from other people's lives as learning experiences.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:03 PM
1

Pretty sure women have always outnumbered men. That's not really what makes a difference. The problem is the entire culture that's gone to shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 09:50 PM
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It is naive to think it isn't. You're not a special snowflake.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 09:48 PM
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There's nothing petty about revenge for something of this magnitude, but outright killing the mom would be a bad one. She'd be getting off too easy and the wrong people would be punished the most (the kids).
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 07:00 PM
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If you were Dark Triad you could have lots of fun with this girl. But you're not, so stay away. And it's super creepy that this "friend" is trying to get you guys together for "closure." Never even saw a straight man use that word before.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 02:12 PM
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You don't pull a move like that without some serious mentoring on how to be a slut. Even if the mom wasn't in on it, she probably learned a lot from her. The mom would join in on the fun, it's been a while since she rode the CC.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:06 PM
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I believe the default rebuttal is that women are not objects blah blah blah. Same thing with the rape issue: you can't put yourself in harm's way and expect nothing bad to happen*, just like you wouldn't leave your car or house door unlocked and expect nothing bad to happen. BUT OUR BODIES ARE NOT CARS etc. They know they can't refute the argument so they hamster it away. Note that this is entirely different from the "blaming the victim" fantasy they drummed up.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:33 AM
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Probably looked a lot like the face this woman does around 3:14 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T0xoKiH8JJM&t=2m55s (video starts a little earlier for context)
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:26 AM
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As a woman I don't have an easy time at all getting sex from anyone Always with this shit. And then you press a little and find out the "anyone" they are talking about are the top 3 alpha males of her acquaintance. I'm not the sort of person to do one-night-stands either so it might be different for those women. And there we go. For the women reading this who might be considering pulling this "I can't get laid" routine in the future: when men can't get laid, it means they CAN'T. GET. LAID. It do…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 04:42 AM
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Actually the progressive mindset is all about second chances and people "learning" from mistakes. So they also agree that these situations are similar. What? When? The "progressive mindset" I'm familiar with is all about the postmodernist idea of how there is no right or wrong and, as such, no mistakes, no regrets, no one is guilty of anything and as such there is no need for second chances (except whites/rich/cishet trash, and they don't deserve second chances because they already have all the …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:02 PM
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I don't think the female hamster can die that easily.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 01:03 PM
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What exactly do you want? Also, you have much more in common with the average regular woman than with an RPW. Regular women also don't want to be submissive. They also have an attitude and think they're hot shit because of it. They also have more masculine traits than feminine and think that it makes them special. RPW are humble, feminine, pleasant towards their man, and if it doesn't come naturally to them, they work towards developing it because they know it's the right thing to do. You, on th…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 12:25 PM
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This is not an accepted term, explain what you mean. Who is in charge of accepting terms?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 07:06 PM
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She's so full of shit. I hope she's really really ridiculously good-looking, otherwise you're an idiot for orbiting her "for a really long time." As pretty much everyone else already told you, she's just using you for emotional validation. You're the guy she can fool around with safely, because she knows she will never have feelings for you and that you'd never do anything to hurt her. She doesn't let it get to sex because you're just not that attractive to her. You're too safe, too nice, too bo…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 02:53 AM
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You actually need to follow it up with dread game. Don't sulk, show her you have a kick-ass life that she's missing out on, but she can join when she gets her act together. And also don't be bitchy: act normally, talk to her normally, don't be passive-aggressive, just remove affection from the relationship until you feel she did enough that you are comfortable being affectionate again.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 06:25 AM
1

Ah, the sweet siren song of oneitis.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 06:17 AM
1

Yes, but you don't want to. You can be sure since you broke up she had a ton of cocks inside her.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 01:44 AM
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Don't even acknowledge the picture. Soft next her, no question. If she doesn't work hard to have you back, hard next/plate her.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 01:40 AM
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I know I'm late, but here goes nothing. OP, your situation is tough. I wouldn't follow anything I read in here to the letter because I feel all approaches had their flaws, but it's likely there won't be a perfect course of action in any way, and the results will be up to the current state of your relationship. Your wife is either: a) Trying to show off to her friends, showing she's still "got it"; b) Trying to make you jealous; c) Shit-testing you to gauge your reaction; d) Shit-testing you to f…
/r/askTRP20/07/14 01:02 AM
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If a woman is seeking validation from other men, or from her friends but using other men, it spells trouble. It's a sign she feels her husband is not enough, either in her eyes or in the eyes of her friends, which in the end is the same. When a woman starts looking outside her marriage for validation, that marriage is 75% done, even if it's not sexual validation. For example, if she likes to think of herself as a career woman and looks for validation in her job, she will neglect her family and h…
/r/askTRP19/07/14 11:03 PM
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These comments are a mess. Read it directly from the man: therationalmale. com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/
/r/askTRP19/07/14 02:12 PM
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She's thinking, "to keep my end of the contract I have to cook, clean or have sex. I'm 2 for 3 so I should be good."
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 10:38 PM
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This is fucking ridiculous. How do you avoid dressing "gayish"? Usually when someone associates your outfit with said terminology it can be taken as a compliment and can also mean that you have good style. Although different adjectives could be used. We found the guy who dresses gayish.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 11:54 PM
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It's always amazing to me how women will be offended if you say things like this, but then they go and make 50 Shades of Grey one of the best selling books of all time.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 10:35 PM
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Indeed. I spent five years with a girl. She broke up and a week later a recent friend of hers who I hated (because from the start I could tell she was a bad influence) was telling a mutual friend to invite me over to a party so I could see the ex with her new guy. Luckily this friend was a bro and told her I couldn't make it because I already had plans with another girl (which happened to be the truth), who was super pretty and skinny (my ex was chubby, borderline fat). Twenty minutes later the …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 10:25 PM
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most women have a problem putting themselves in the other persons shoes. I see it as sort of the opposite. I think women are indeed better at intuitively getting an idea of how people feel, or would feel in some situations. This is called empathy, and from what I know, women do tend to score higher than men on tests and studies designed to gauge this. So it could be said that women are more empathetic than men. However. Empathy is regarded as positive because being able to put yourself in one's …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 09:39 PM
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Straddling the poolboy. FFS leave me alone autobot
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:33 PM
1

That's really all there is to it.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:32 PM
1

is this not suggesting that it goes the same for us men? Not if you want a happy relationship.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:26 PM
1

Funny how this is basically the opposite of feminism/progressivism.
/r/becomeaman15/07/14 04:29 AM
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I don't assume that, and being TRP is not about assuming that. And your experience with this girl is also not at all representative of "what women are really like". And you and the dude I replied to are in very different situations. I suggest you put this nice girl you found through everything he did then come back to me telling me if she stood by your side through all that.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 11:36 PM
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Yeah, this entire thread has been surreal. I don't know what's up with TRP these days.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:10 PM
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If this is even true (I don't think so), this woman has mental issues and is not at all an accurate representation of "what women are really like." And this clown is upvoted? Jesus, TRP.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:07 PM
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Money, status, being with a caucasian, an american passport... Also, if he brings one of them back to the US, all of that is going to stop mattering real quick: rooshv. com/the-true-nature-of-women
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:57 PM
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Anyways, if she'd been a guy no one would have given her any shit about coding False. Male nerds have been picked on for ages for having nerdy interests. It's "unmanly", so it eats away at the same root identity issues as "it's not girly". As a result of this peer-pressure, some nerds give up their nerdy interests, but most don't. In contrast, it seems almost every girl gives up their "non-girly" interests due to peer-pressure. What gives? The answer is that, as it turns out, men and women are d…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:05 PM
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I went through the whole thread and counted a handful of good-looking guys and only one girl who was an 8, with the rest in the 4-6 range, with some notable 2 exceptions (OP included). The most telling to me was how much the women in there think they are a bigger deal than they actually are. If that appearance and attitude is what's waiting for me if I ever become a good person and take the blue pill, I'd rather stay right here in hell with all the hot, beautiful, pleasant girls.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 12:37 AM
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It does not depend on subs as much as you'd think. I've been a member ever since there weren't subreddits (this is my RP throwaway) and the general vibe sitewide has been steadily veering towards the progressive/liberal. There's clearly been a shift in the general user demographics of the site in the past three years or so. The newly-arrived SJWs don't just stick to their niche circlejerks.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 12:19 AM
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If you're really said OP (don't care enough to count all the 2s) and you still want to get more women to come to the parties, you really have to do this: reddit. com/r/TheRedPill/comments/29w43v/the_best_advice_reddit_has_to_offer_on_getting/cip3qbi (I had to break the link to make the stupid fucking bot happy). Except just maybe don't answer that (who wants to come to a party no one used to go?), just say "oh, it's only for the guys to get together and relax" or something not butthurt. I guaran…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 12:07 AM
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The feminist friends I know would be glad to see partners working together to resolving a problem. Tell them this story, exactly as it was told here, then tell me if they thought the way OP handled this qualified as "working together". About your example, I misread. I thought you were using the exact same situation and had only swapped the genders, not that you made the tactic into an explicit suggestion, verbally explaining the motives and all. So that's another thing entirely, and it's not an …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 11:58 PM
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No one would agree with your concept of "communication" here. Not us and certainly not the feminists, which would categorize this as some form of manipulation or even "abuse". Communication is talking and discussing mutually, not one side employing subterfuge to achieve what it wants. Regarding your example, on the third paragraph, the wife is in a clear position of authority and power over the man. You're simply being naive if you "choose" to see it any other way.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 01:12 AM
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Except sexual selection has been selecting for hairless women for tens of thousands of years. Sexual dimorphism is a huge aspect on sexual attraction for primate species, and the male human, being hairy, is naturally drawn towards the less hairy female. If all women stopped shaving now, the only thing it would accomplish is that the female of the species would be naturally hairless sooner, since she wouldn't be fucked as much as the more naturally hairless ones. Shaving levels the playing field …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 01:07 AM
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That's what I thought. Adding some more stuff to appease the auto moderator bot.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 03:17 PM
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I'm seeing it as understanding how your SO feels and responding in a way that makes them feel better and shows you love them. You're not wrong. The part you're missing is that the current understanding of male-female dynamics makes it impossible for men and women to properly understand each other. At first, OP did what the current narrative has been telling him to do throughout his life: communicate honestly and openly with his spouse. Read ANY mainstream relationship advice column, or even go o…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 03:11 PM
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Who said anything about emotional? Emotions are the opposite of maturation, they're signals used by the limbic (irrational) system. Of course women are going to be "better" at emotions, they're more irrational. Being more mature, in the real world, is being better able to override emotions with your reason. It's being more rational, not emotional. It's going "I can't afford this, so I won't buy it," then actually following though with it. Find me studies saying that women are better at that and …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:29 PM
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I'm not criticizing feminist bullshit, I'm criticizing you. You did that, not feminists. It's not my fault that you and feminists both act like little bitches.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:24 PM
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I was not defending the post, I was criticizing your bitchy, wussy "guys, this needs to be downvoted into oblivion!!!!" attitude. Remember those computer guys who were at a tech conference a couple years back and make a joke between them about "dongles", then a woman who was sitting in front of them turned back, took their picture and then tweeted it saying they were being inappropriate and asking people to take care of it for her? That's you. That's the exact same thing you did, and it was the …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:19 AM
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What we don't need here is thought police. If you disagree with something state your case, don't be like the feminists and throw a fit demanding a witch hunt and censorship.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:01 PM
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Thanks but I think you replied to the wrong person.
/r/seduction01/07/14 02:05 AM
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Thanks, glad to be of service.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 02:04 AM
0

That explains all the bullshit advice and misguided cheerleading I've been seeing here lately. Good luck on your journey.
/r/seduction30/06/14 02:56 AM
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Badasss squeal AND get the girl. Yes. Blue is blue AND pink too.
/r/seduction30/06/14 02:14 AM
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Badasses do what they want until the point that they can't be called badasses anymore. Words can only have meaning if they exclude some realm of possibilities. If a "badass" and a "wuss" both act in the exact same way, what is it that makes one a badass and the other a wuss? A leather jacket? I'm cautioning OP not to be happy for the wrong reasons. The motivations that seem to be driving him are all wonderful and harmless when everything is going well. But they will piledrive him into the ground…
/r/seduction30/06/14 02:12 AM
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They talked for a while one night. It's a little bit early to talk about "liking you for you". Superficial attraction in this situation is much more realistic and earned. Having deep feelings for someone you just met is more often than not projection. It's more likely that these people wanted to feel a certain way first and managed to find someone they could use to fill that role, the specifics about the person don't matter. Attention from the other sex is always an ego-boost, but to someone who…
/r/seduction29/06/14 06:23 PM
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Good for you and all, but this... She liked me! She didn't think I was hot, or funny, or smart, nothing like that. I got the best compliment from a girl I could get. I got the compliment of, "I want to spend more time with you." It made me feel like a badass, not gonna lie. :-) ...made me cringe so hard. Oh my god she liked me! She really really liked me! (jumps up and down) I'm such a badass! Don't let someone's opinion of you serve as personal validation. You sound almost grateful that she lik…
/r/seduction29/06/14 03:02 PM
1

Women get really emotional over a superbowl commercial. Don't be fooled by that.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 02:46 PM
6

Your idea of alpha is too monkey-focused. Not only there are as many styles of alpha as there are alphas, but being an alpha is also contextual and situational. One woman's alpha is another's beta, an alpha in the football field is an omega at a cocktail party and so on. You're only an alpha if people believe you are, and different people respond to different things. Also, at one point you criticize apathy, then you say not doing anything would be a better course of action and then you end up sa…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 04:07 AM
4

Desperate and apathetic are not the only options. Not giving in to demands is masculine and assertive. I don't understand what you're saying.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:44 AM
2

Although you have a point, plate management is an important part of RP and game, not just getting a girl.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:14 AM
2

Not that I agree with you, but if you're supposedly so good at the RP that you've become bored with it, and you have greater concerns like your country and culture, why the fuck are you not looking into neoreaction? Subs and forums are just the training grounds, it's impossible to read the RP sources and not stumble across the "next step" in the awakening, the Dark Enlightenment: radishmag.wordpress.com/2013/05/24/heroes-of-the-dark-enlightenment/.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:10 AM
4

and a lot of the time if a man shows no signs of becoming desperate the woman will quit making a fuss. This is not because the man is behaving like an alpha or whatever. That's exactly what behaving like an alpha is. Betas get desperate and cave in because they know they will have a hard time getting another woman. Alphas stand their ground because they know they can.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:05 AM
3

He's not looking for faithfulness, he's spinning plates.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:04 AM
7

that I need to be more careful and she doesn't ever want to see me with another woman. "no. I am not going to adapt my plans just because you want me to. We can be civilised when we randomly meet and say hello like adults or call it over". Exactly. It's disturbing that OP apparently went along with this. She now believes she's entitled to have him bend over backwards on her behalf. Based on his other posts on the thread, it seems he feels he can just drop her if she becomes a nuisance so it does…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:00 AM
2

Agreed. I've come to think that's a good thing. It's a matter of powertalk (see sidebar). If you're not skilled enough to express yourself without being called out on it, you are probably not skilled enough to understand or employ the principles, and should at least not talk about it in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 08:25 PM
16

There is no line. Every study on attachment and how we deal with rewards etc shows that we get super fixated on random stimuli. If a pigeon or rat presses a button and nothing comes of it, he soon learns to leave it alone. If, however, every single time they press the button a food pellet comes out, they will learn to do it often. They then might either gorge themselves to death, eating nonstop just because they can, or they might relax, knowing that food is just a click away and they have nothi…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 04:35 PM
10

It's funny that in the actual /r/psychology sub, RP truths are posted all the time, as the results of studies, but as soon as you comment on them with RP terminology, or take the argument to its logical conclusion, you're downvoted. So beware, psychology's commitment is not necessarily to truth.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 03:33 PM
3

Saddest case of suicide by cop I've ever seen.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 03:23 PM
7

As I recall, Jerry was always pretty much a boss when it came to his relationships. Sure, sometimes he got frustrated when it ended, mainly because it ended before he could accomplish something he wanted (the Mulva episode comes to mind), or because it ended in a way that made him lose the upper hand (the acrobat episode), but usually it never took him more than a few seconds to go "oh, well" and shrug, despite his obsessive tendencies. I can remember only one episode in which he went through a …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 03:17 PM
3

While I agree with the gist of what you said, I'm inclined to cut the guy some slack. Everyone deserves to savor the sweet taste of revenge when revenge is warranted, and in this case it more than applied. Sure, the "alpha" or "right" thing to do would be to be "bigger" than the offenses and move on, but we're only human. Some people need to empty their tanks of Omega before filling up on Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 05:36 PM
2

One would think this would make them fear being branded as sluts more than anything in the world, which at some point it's what happens, but then the logical next step would have to be: then don't act like a slut. Nope. They never come to that realization. If they can act like sluts but just pretend they don't, or simply deny that they do, or maybe accept that they did but it still doesn't mean they are sluts, it's already good enough, in their minds.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:00 PM
5

Sure there is. Take off his shoes, massage his feet, go down on him.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:01 PM
10

Just to reiterate: what -Tyler_Durden- said. Don't just box her stuff and leave it out on the street. She's gonna be hella mad and this might give her the ammunition to trash your property, or at least make a huge mess, which is gonna end up being your problem. Before even packing her stuff, change your locks. Wait for her to leave for work then call a locksmith, pack her stuff while he does his business. Then drive them to a location where they won't be your problem anymore, a storage locker be…
/r/askTRP09/06/14 04:00 AM
1

Arguably, but I was referring to outright saying you're sorry or that you apologize, or acting meekly and apologetically, like a dog who just took a dump on the carpet. Those are the things that give your power away. Owning up to what you did reclaims it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 09:30 PM
1

I've seen that. Her mistake was not to tell the husband the truth about herself. But really, most cosmetic surgery is very good these days. The fake look usually comes from people liking the results so much that they go overboard and try to fix every little thing. Which is why I said to go for the obvious flaws. It's a Pareto thing; getting that last 20% "just right" is simply not worth it. And in this case, it can often backfire. But definitely save enough money to get a top surgeon. Maybe get …
/r/askTRP08/06/14 07:34 PM
3

It's going to be very hard for you to get a full-blown alpha, they simply have too many options. That said, men admire a tight, fit woman's body and that is 100% within your reach right now. Don't just be "skinny", be fucking hot. Also, be very feminine. Wear long hair. Learn how to be seductive yet cute/adorable (look into asian women). Don't be loud, obnoxious, etc: act and behave "like a lady." Lastly, fix any obvious "flaws." If that means cosmetic surgery, don't be ashamed to go for it. It'…
/r/askTRP08/06/14 12:07 PM
3

The attitude you want to maintain with your girl is to treat her like an annoying younger sister. If she complains about your celebration, fireman carry her and drop her (someplace soft) and taunt her. If she complains that you're singing too loud, sing louder and in her ear. Show her that you are a man and as such you will do what you want. If she doesn't like it, she can leave. Be amused by her complaints, not mad. Start working out ASAP and if she complains about it ignore or tease her. She w…
/r/askTRP08/06/14 10:44 AM
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I think she's waiting, hoping for the alpha to come back. You can be sure of that. Nothing makes a girl rebel harder than tasting the alpha and have it taken away. Look up "Married Man Sex Life", by Athol Kay. He's your best entry point into relationship game.
/r/askTRP08/06/14 10:22 AM
4

That's why we need feminism. To tell us what we should be attracted to fix our unrealistic expectations of women. Thanks, feminism. EDIT: Actually, scratch that. I'll keep fucking young women.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:36 AM
16

Too bad they squander it on the CC.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:33 AM
7

Your post is so filled with feel-good platitudes, it's no wonder you can't "wrap your head around" the realities of the world we live in. I'll just comment on some sticking points that riled me up, but rest assured I'm not trying to change your mind. The first paragraph shows you're in so deep in feminist newspeak that it would be useless to try and engage you in any kind of meaningful debate. Ananasboat is right, red pillers will hardly find a good woman, no good woman will want you. The funny …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:43 AM
6

Completely agree. It's mostly betas who make feminism viable by giving it airtime, support and validation, including legal. Funny thing is, the more powerful feminism becomes thanks to betas, the less these women want to have anything do with them. Take the recent #YesAllWomen fad, which arose from feminists making fun of the "not all men are like that" response they were getting. The only guys who care enough to say that, when a girl complains about men, are betas, particularly feminist betas, …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 04:56 AM
5

Unfortunately that doesn't count as taking responsibility, in my book. If someone said that to me I would go, "yeah, by you." It sounds a little too much like you're trying to save face and can backfire.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 05:14 PM
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Apologizing signals weakness and submission, and while it is bad enough to appear weak before men, women are absolutely vicious to the men they find weak. The current meme is that it takes a "big man" to say he's sorry, but that's bullshit. Saying you're sorry is the easiest thing in the world. Every beta boy and every sleazy scumbag does it. Don't be like them. Now, that doesn't mean that when you fuck up you're gonna pretend you didn't. That is even worse. If you do fuck up, simply admit to wh…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:55 AM
2

Fuck, just by seeing that I flinched.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:12 AM
1

Thanks, and good luck!
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:50 AM
1

What is a ROTC Unit?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 08:19 AM
2

What if they had scoffed and rolled their eyes and started ignoring you? Basically just trying to force you out of the table.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 01:02 AM
2

That's the spirit.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 08:13 PM
1

Where things go wrong is when you try to get the same things out of association/friendship with a woman that you would with a man. Not at all, I don't expect a certain degree of chastity from my friends. I don't expect my friends not to flirt with other people. I don't expect my friends to go to a bachelorette party and not suck a stripper's dick. Etc, etc. Without some definition of what "reasonable" expectations mean to you, this is a meaningless conversation, but it sure as hell sounds like y…
/r/askTRP04/06/14 08:10 PM
2

The problem is that you bought into a romantic notion of women and relationships. Know this: if you want to keep having sex, if you want to be liked by women, you will never relax. Sure, it can be argued that the red pill becomes second nature and we learn to enjoy the hustle, the "dance", and in that sense we "relax," but the truth still is that the hustle itself never ends. We all have that notion in the back of our minds that once we find "the one", we can relax and open up and "be ourselves.…
/r/askTRP04/06/14 07:54 PM
1

I don't agree with that at all. A man should have expectations for his woman, a man should hold her to a higher standard. I have expectations people need to meet so I can consider them to be my friends and I hold the people I call friends to a higher standard than I do other people. That's how it means something that someone is my friend. Why would I not do this regarding the women I get into relationships with? And yes, a certain degree of chastity is also something I look for in a woman. I don…
/r/askTRP04/06/14 07:37 PM
2

"the quality of customer service" made me laugh my ass off. What a life.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:50 AM
1

Then you are talking about apples and oranges. You are not married. You don't feel like getting married because you fucked 30 women. What you can't do is use that as a guide to what happens in marriage, because the statistics on divorce self-select for people who are already married, so naturally people who have already exercised a different strategy than you did, both men and women, high partner count or not. Ask yourself, what would it take you to get married? You're probably thinking it has t…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 08:03 PM
1

Cue xkcd's BP self-serving "rebuttal".
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 05:13 PM
28

So they still have some 10 years more of CC before they realize they're gay.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 05:11 PM
3

To be fair, 5% of working men is like 4 million people.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 04:44 PM
41

Holy crap, she's 30? Hit the wall hard.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 04:28 PM
1

You cannot draw anecdotal conclusions with no proof. Perhaps you got confused? Or you don't know what anecdotal means. Also, it seems like you should know better than to use words like "proof" and "fact" the way you do in your post. Statistics and studies do not "prove" anything: they just increase the confidence with which we can make certain statements. But there is no "proof" in science. And "facts" are merely objective descriptions of events. I don't presume to present this theory as "fact" …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 04:18 PM
2

I think fucking her is not at all worth it. I don't know how close he and his friend really are, but I wouldn't get involved with a girl who dated a friend of mine unless I had strong feelings for her. It could fuck things with up his friend, and for what? A pair of tits? But, of course, it means something to me to call someone a friend. Also, she might be doing this as some sort of revenge on his friend. I wouldn't want to give her the satisfaction.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 01:06 PM
1

I think the fact that 70%+ of divorces are initiated by the woman is already a good indicator that it doesn't really make much of a difference to men. With each person you have sex with, your ability to form meaningful attachments to any one person decreases. This is true for both men and women. However, regardless of how many sexual partners men had, once they have "sex on tap" and a stable environment for raising their offspring, both of which come (or are supposed to come) with marriage, ther…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 12:56 PM
6

Hey all, let me preface with the fact that I am very much a beta-faggot. Jesus, don't ever talk about yourself that. I don't want the opinion of a bunch of "game theorists", I want the opinions of self made men who aren't trying to trick women into having sex with them because they don't need to. Cheap jab at things you don't understand aside, this doesn't even make sense since you are trying to not have sex with her. But the catch is I told her I'd "thank her later" to get them. Just tell her w…
/r/askTRP03/06/14 11:53 AM
4

I'd just like to see some evidence on the subject as opposed to anecdotes and opinions Good luck getting scientists to even go near this in the current academic climate.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 02:29 AM
1

Do you publicly engage everyone you have a problem with? Or are you not allowed to form negative opinions on people unless you personally hash it out with them first? Is your every opinion formed with the primary purpose of posting it to reddit later?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 01:48 AM
1

Calm down, that's not even what he's talking about. You sound like a woman. Don't go around looking for confirmation to what you believe in everything you read.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 08:18 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 05:34 PM
1

That confused me greatly. What exactly can the police even do about it? EDIT: Just realized it's a satire account.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 09:38 AM
7

The longer a woman remains single and childless, the more self-absorbed she becomes. This in turn accentuates whatever undesirable traits she happens to possess. Depending on her degree of neuroticism, it might originate new ones; e.g. she might become needy and clingy for fear of ending up alone, something she wouldn't be in her 20s because she had all the time in the world etc. On the other hand, a woman who already has a tendency for being like that when she is young is more likely to repel q…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 07:19 AM
1

I've read TLP for years now and I was curious, how has it been "mostly confirmed" that the author is male? Where did you read this?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 07:00 AM
4

The way they say this shit makes the white race sound pretty fucking awesome. If all this were absolutely true, wouldn't it be a damn good argument for the superiority of the white race? (PS: I'm latin.) Sort of like how it is with the "patriarchy": if it is "male oppression" that prevented women from figuring amongst the great names in history, wouldn't it actually prove the superiority of men all the same?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 06:51 AM
3

Right? It's like they don't even read the sub, or misunderstand everything they read.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 11:50 AM
3

That irked me as well, but she does conclude saying that in the MRM they discuss the oligarchy, so it makes some sense. The oligarchy is at the root of the problem, but there are topic and urgent concerns that might be better handled with a more direct approach. In the issue of paternity rights, for instance, the MRM is a little closer to the goal than the Screw the Oligarchy Movement.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 07:23 AM
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Oh, no, my friend. She wasn't making up as she went along. You can be sure that's policy. That's powertalk. It's like in politics: they say people can't lay down on the parks anymore and the reason they give for this is that people laying down is a hazard, as they get in the way of people walking and there can be accidents which hurts both parties. In reality, this is the policy they take to allow them to get hobos out of the park without getting the people in a rage. Of course they're not gonna…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 06:59 AM
0

Wow, notice how Obama avoids making eye contact with Putin. He keeps looking down and away, like a scaredy dog.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:39 AM
2

How are we defining rigorous? Your first usage of it seems odd. I'm not the OP you first replied to, I just replied to you. In any case, they were talking about being "rigourous" in the context of raising kids, which I took to mean having high standards, enforcing them and living up to them. Do you only give adjectives to people when they're truly exceptional, in the top 1%? Not when people are in the top 1%, whatever that means, but when someone displays some quality to an outstanding extent. I…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 03:55 AM
2

This is unlike this sub's attitude because to them the drive for self-improvement is absent: they are just going to sit on their asses and do nothing and the world is still expected to treat them as if they are giving it something in return. It is the opposite of self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 03:47 AM
2

When you say "prone to cheating" it sounds like cheating is the point. If the point is a taste for variety, then that's a different thing.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:41 AM
3

Yeah, I can't imagine most women who are getting sex regularly from multiple other sources are going to be able to also keep up with what their partners-- who are not being so lucky-- want, sexually. They weren't that attracted to them to begin with, or they wouldn't want to open their relationship.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:55 AM
5

That makes no sense, people who are prone to cheating dig the excitement and "wrongdoing" aspect of it. Making it consensual and expected and something they do together (?) negates everything that makes them cheat in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:39 AM
1

But not 90% of /r/relationships subscribers are guys. That shit is chick crack.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:36 AM
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While you are technically correct, you've missed the bait-and-switch intended by the video. You and I and most people in this sub know they are not talking about masculinity, but the public at large doesn't know that. The video itself makes no distinction between masculinity and "macho posturing," even though a woman says "posturing" at some point. Every time they talked about macho posturing, they sent the message that they were talking about masculinity. And that's the entire point. By tying v…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:27 AM
3

Most fathers of adolescents in the West today were raised by their moms.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 05:30 AM
1

Oh, they can. It's the fact that they don't that matters. Also, you can't really be that rigorous if you truly think 'most women you know' are like this. Most people I know don't have any outstanding qualities at all, regardless of gender. But maybe you're an statistical anomaly and live in a place with a high concentration of exceptionally honest and rigorous people.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 05:29 AM
1

It does. Two guys/restaurant owners might objectively be doing the same thing, but the one who thinks of what he is doing as "pleasing" customers/women is automatically in a weaker position. Pleasing implies serving, which is the point of a restaurant but obviously not the point of your relationship with women. The guy who thinks in terms of getting what he wants is operating out of a more dominant, manly mindset. Which is what we should attain.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 06:35 PM
3

I tend to think that's mostly a good thing. First, it makes it real easy to spot the real worthless ones-- the sluts who proudly go about talking about their sexual exploits, as if that's something to brag about. Second, this helps reinforce the idea that it's acceptable to do the things they do, so this encourages "normal" girls to do them as well, or at least normalizes them enough for the "normal" girls to feel it's ok to do them. They will keep quiet about it because they are not retards and…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 06:23 PM
1

I think you're better off saying "jumping through hoops to get women." That's the language that makes me think of hitting the gym, dressing sharp, etc. When you say "jumping through hoops to please women" it sounds more like you're talking about doing anything it takes to appease a woman.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 06:07 PM
0

It's better to teach him to never jump through hoops to please women. He'll get more pussy that way.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 01:37 PM
1

So it works.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 01:35 PM
5

They are, but not at the cost of social skills.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 01:34 PM
13

Well, in my culture, leaving without saying goodbye would be rude, and in this case, it could be construed as you being mad or butthurt about her flirting with other guys. But imagine you're out with a real friend. If you're leaving the place without him/her, you would go say goodbye because it's no big deal. If you treat a girl in this situation as if she's just another friend, saying goodbye showing you're unaffected by her games, I think that'd send a stronger message that you don't really ca…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 10:43 PM
1

Yes, I was being sarcastic.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:14 AM
4

He really is the real deal. I have dated enough losers and jerks in the past to recognize this. I don’t want to lose him. He is the only man I have ever wanted to marry. lol. Should've thought about that first.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:13 AM
5

Yeah, women hate men who can get with a lot of women.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 06:14 PM
35

I still have the phone, and he is frantic because it has all of his passwords (that he can't remember), plus all of his security questions, etc. I sort of feel bad about that, but oh fucking well. If shit gets really bad one day, I will have the ammunition to completely ruin his life. So she steals his phone and plans to use it to completely ruin his life. She sort of feels bad about that, but oh fucking well. And the guy is the bad one here. That's a keeper.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:01 PM
5

Instead of just telling you to "not care", as many here are doing, I'll give you some actionable advice to that end: ask yourself why do you care. Find out why this bothers you. Then keep recursively asking why until you find the root of the problem, then work on that. That's how you stop caring, truly.
/r/seduction17/02/14 01:38 PM
6

At least you're honest with yourself.
/r/seduction17/02/14 01:35 PM
1

I see, thanks.
/r/seduction23/11/13 03:53 PM
1

where a guy can compliment a girl by showing how much interest he has. How does this work? Based on the ending of your post, the Russian way is to go for the kiss? Or can it be less "aggressive" by maybe saying stuff "I'm going to kiss you now"?
/r/seduction23/11/13 11:29 AM
1

Sorry, I should have read the rules better.
/r/seduction23/11/13 07:10 AM
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