emeczka Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Is it bad to always be a "clown" or a "joker" with the girl you like? Not really, it depends how you interact with girls generally. If your jokes are really funny and smart, I think that it's a big plus for you - I prefer to talk with guys who have really great sense of humor and have witty responses, and if you can make her laugh, there is a bigger chance that she will be attracted to you. Sometimes you just have to take more time to know if she likes you or not.	/r/seduction	18/03/15 03:02 PM
4	Is it bad to always be a "clown" or a "joker" with the girl you like? Well... it's not bad if it's your normal behavior, but think about it from her point of view - if you are always joking, she would never know if you are serious while telling her that you like her or not. So balance it a little bit, try to show your serious side as well. Girls like to laugh and if she's into you, she will love your "clown" side as well. I'm a girl and I used to be attracted to the "clown" man, but I didn't know if he was serious while telling me he wants to be closer with me. So…	/r/seduction	18/03/15 12:31 PM
1	Is there any hope for someone like me?(Depressing trigger) Yeah, I can understand it. I have only 2 close friends as well, they want me to date with guys but I'm too shy to agree on a blind date or something like that - so it sounds a little bit like you are in the same place as me. So the point is - for me you don't have to be depressed. You should believe in yourself. I don't know, maybe if you will start working you will see how other people treat you (other than your friends). I spend a lot of time with my coworkers and nobody would tell that I'm we…	/r/seduction	08/03/15 09:28 AM
3	[Question] Advice on being awkward. the first one sounds for me like a normal joke - I have that kind of sense of humor and I would say something like that to the person who I know really well and I like him/her (not necessary like in a romantic way). It doesn't mean that she think this way - it depends on her personality of course, but for me it could be just a joke, especially that you were laughing from everything in life, so she started to laugh from it as well. The other thing is... some girls are mean to the person who they …	/r/seduction	08/03/15 03:09 AM
3	[Question] Advice on being awkward. Any examples? Because right now it's really hard to say anything. Sometimes I like awkward guys - it depends. You can be awkward in a cute or funny way or you can be really hard to spend time with awkward	/r/seduction	08/03/15 02:40 AM
1	A new hope... you know, after thinking about it... you can try to look miserable as well :D oh, and don't over-analyze what you want to tell (because it will be noticeable), don't tell creepy compliments - you can compliment how she looks (but in a natural way, like you've noticed her new hairstyle so you can mention that she looks lovely) but don't make creepy comparisons, don't call her kitty, don't make it sound fake. If you want to shorten her name, maybe you should ask if she likes it - I don't like cert…	/r/seduction	08/03/15 02:12 AM
1	A new hope... For me the best way to smile is as you're a happy puppy to see a girl. When I've started to think about it, I remember only smiling faces of guys. But you know - it work on me, I don't know how it works on others. I always hear that I'm smiling all the time so it's easier for others to smile back And yeah, I'm talking about that kind sense of humor :D you're doing well!	/r/seduction	08/03/15 01:41 AM
1	Is there any hope for someone like me?(Depressing trigger) You shouldn't give up because you can change your life and be happy again. Try to find happiness in small things. Maybe you should take a break from trying to have a girlfriend, find some nice friends (I know that it's hard) and do some cool stuff together. After that maybe you will meet nice girl who will be hanging out with you and your friends? I think that you should talk a lot to people, so you won't think about your problems. I know that for you not kissing a girl is a big problem. I had m…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 11:17 PM
3	What is a 9 or a 10 to you? Is it just physical? Are there other factors involved? Height, height and once again - height Sparkling eyes The way he looks at me Behavior between my friends and me and how he treats me If he's blonde he has bonus points. Or at least he should have something mesmerizing e.g., strange color of eyes compared to hair color, like black hair and light blue eyes Sometimes I know that he isn't a perfect 10 for others, or even 5 or 6, but for me a guy is 9 or 10 if I can see almost only him in a room full of other people. The way he smiles, how he treats …	/r/seduction	07/03/15 10:44 PM
1	A new hope... Girlfriend isn't ambitious at all, go for it :) I think that I thought that you're desperate because you mentioned that you're a virgin. But don't worry about it - if a girl is a nice and normal person, she won't mind, even better, some girls prefer to be the first ones to their boyfriends, just talk about it with her (but after a while, when you will be close enough). Especially that you're still young so it shouldn't be a problem. About playing piano - if it's your normal hobby I'm sure that i…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 09:50 PM
1	Why does it seem like the guys who don't approach anyone are the ones who have most friends and girlfriends? Maybe you're trying too hard? I don't know HOW you approach other people but sometimes even simple small talk can sound fake and wrong. You just have to relax, maybe bring one friend to this club whom you feel safe with, and it should work after a while. Smile is very important - if you smile, even with eyes only, but other people must feel that you really like to talk with and spend time with them. And listen to them (if they will approach you) don't change the subject on yourself every time (e…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 09:35 PM
2	A new hope... Wow, it sounds like you have a "project girlfriend" in your mind. I would suggest to chill out a little bit, because... you see, I'm not sure if changing yourself drastically because you want a girlfriend will work. I'm not saying that trying to be more fit, better looking won't work, because it will, but those plans on playing piano etc. it sounds a little bit like you're desperate. Keep calm! :) I'm a girl and I like different types of guys than my friends or coworkers. So it's really hard to …	/r/seduction	07/03/15 07:34 PM