emilydoooom Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
219	I was worried about dating an older man, until I realised I held the real power...	LEVEL UP	emilydoooom	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 10:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Men not understanding how it’s creepy for a woman to just be approached randomly on the street, at dusk! This is why so many guys are scared of gay men, they know how men think and behave and are terrified at that being turned towards themselves for once. Never mind that most gay guys wouldn’t touch them with a barge pole..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/20 07:04 PM
202	r/seduction shows us the real nature of men I see so many comments saying FDS is a toxic place. It just isn’t. Male dating subs are about tricks, capturing, possessing women. Here we just say ‘respect yourself, and demand that respect in return. If not, block and move on.’ It’s the utter opposite of toxic. They can’t fathom that this dating method is the opposite of capturing someone. They aim to get a date with confusion and tricks, and coercion. It breaks their brain when we refuse to play and assert instead for transparency, honesty, a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/20 06:54 PM
21	So many women are in relationships where they are just thankful the man doesn’t hit them, control them, rape them or cheat on them. That’s how low the bar is for men. Someone on AITAH the other day was locked in the basement by her husband for hours after an argument, but said ‘he didn’t hit me so I don’t think he’s abusive’ and I felt so damn sad....	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 11:50 AM
134	Men complain about how women use too much toilet paper. Yet you hold your genitals when you pee and some of you don’t even wash your hands afterwards🤢 I’ve legit seen guys write on Reddit ‘iTs bCus mY dIcK iS cLeAN’ lol no it ain’t.... When dating one guy I got cystitis constantly for almost a year. Since we broke up, never ever had it again. I am convinced it was because he did not wash his hands etc properly before touching me. Im more confident now and you better believe I’m never putting up with that again!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/20 07:38 AM
21	never ceases to amaze what men will demand The last guy I dated had the surname ‘Tugnutt’ - you better believe from day 1 I was never adopting that in a billion years...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 04:21 PM
49	I hate this channel This is why Devil Wears Prada annoys me - her friends are so unsupportive, literally steal her phone from her at one point. And her bf is a pro chef and somehow that crazy schedule is ok but OMG he’s sad when she isn’t around the second he needs company. She literally says if she can manage one year it will change her life and everyone around her is so selfish about it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/20 06:21 PM
51	FDS on the front page... as a hate group! The big difference is I’ve never ever heard even the slightest joke about being violent to men on here. Ever. The rule is, if unhappy, block and move on. Be clear about your expectations. Protect yourself. Expect respect. To them, that equals ‘being attacked’ which tells you everything you need to know about how terrified they are of women of all types believing they deserve better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/20 09:07 AM
8	My online dating experience in Israel The other day someone decided the best way to start a convo with me was ‘oi oi big’un!’	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/20 06:00 AM
27	What are some signs he JUST WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU that you wish you would have seen as a Pickmeisha? He flirted with every other woman we met. Including our flatmates. I thought it was just his ‘charming’ personality and the important thing was that he was going home with me. When we broke up because long distance was too hard after Uni, he slept with 3 of my friends, got a random one night stand pregnant then married a girl he’d only dated 6 months. Bullet dodged.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 06:59 AM
18	What are some signs he JUST WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU that you wish you would have seen as a Pickmeisha? Kind of the opposite for me, we broke up after 2 years while he was Navy training because we couldn’t do long distance. Then he started dating our ex-flatmate who lived in SWITZERLAND (we are UK)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 06:55 AM
8	Low self esteem is dangerous, as evidenced in Tiger King I just saw a clip when my flatmates were watching- he was choosing a nanny based on who was the hottest, like he was hiring a sex worker or something. that poor woman was desperately saying stuff like ‘oh she’s bilingual, she can teach the baby!’ While looking miserable af.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/20 07:28 PM
21	Why saying “not all men” is ignoring the problem. If you had a bag of candy, and were told 10% were poisonous and might seriously harm you, would you be furious at someone for saying all the candy was potentially dangerous? No.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 12:52 PM
20	"I was blindsided!!!" A guy on AITHA the other day claimed his wife ‘Suddenly’ wanted to be a surrogate without consulting him. I’m like, no one suddenly makes a decision that big. I bet she tried to talk about it and he ignored or shut her down. Then she made the decision alone and now he’s all butthurt about it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 11:15 PM
39	I was worried about dating an older man, until I realised I held the real power... Yup, last guy I dated was divorced- kept cancelling at last minute because of ‘ex wife stuff happening’ (they had no kids or property- literally no reason she could have any influence on his life). He tried to move in with me to escape his parents house, then ghosted me after 4 months, the day before we were due to go on a holiday i had paid for, because he was hooking up with some rando. (Who I found on Facebook and told her what he was like.) Learned my lesson. Never again! It was literally a …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 12:34 AM
42	I was worried about dating an older man, until I realised I held the real power... We were both busy over Xmas, he said he’d be free again after the 7th. It’s SO hard not to chase and text to organise the date.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 12:13 AM
10	Dating an Older Man FAQs Urg! My friend has been with a guy 10 years older than her for 20 years. (Got together when she was 18) He has NEVER had a job. He refuses. She is gorgeous and talented and I am working so hard to get her to leave him. He’s so financially abusive and negs her all the time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 11:38 PM