emryz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Approaching in germany		emryz	/r/seduction	23/09/20 03:14 PM

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2	How would you pick up girls in a company party? Don't. Never fuck the company. Trust me.	/r/seduction	14/08/22 12:24 PM
5	Critique the text? I personally thought it was funny. Was proud of it and even took a screenshot but she unmatched me after this. Yes, that's too much imo. It doesn't come off as funny but more arrogant - no offense, just want to give feedback. It is good, however, that you commented on one of her pictures, and not on her looks. The opener could be used, but drop the "it is rude". You could spin this in another way, like: Me: Stop staring at them while they are working. That could be dangerous. Her: why's that? Me: well I would definitely whack my finger with a hammer if I'd catch you staring at me. (I hope this translates…	/r/seduction	23/07/22 09:28 PM
1	PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps. Well on that account: op did not mention it as well. I always see these posts about tinder and OLD being bad and not worth it, but for me personally it's completely the opposite. I did cold approaching, and yeah it works. But I also don't have any problem with getting dates via OLD. In Germany. It's not impossible - and no, I'm no model with 6pack-ab-pics. And i get most of my dates via OLD, just because it fits better in my lifestyle. I get the hate, but I think it's wrong to destroy a source f…	/r/seduction	17/07/22 09:25 AM
1	I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhausting Well, it is a game nevertheless. It's hunting. A chase. Courtship behavior of humans. And yeah, it might suck sometimes - especially if you catch feelings that are not reciprocated. And that's part of the game. Look at it from another, more evolutionary standpoint: the games we as man and woman play are tools to effectively choose a mate. They're a bit different from culture to culture, but ultimately pretty similar. With that said, try to really internalize that that not every combination of ma…	/r/seduction	27/06/21 11:02 AM
3	I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhausting Isn't it independent? Like an independence of the outcome - if she says no, you move on. If she says yes, cool, let's ride the wave together - but in the grand scheme it does not matter to you.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 10:34 AM
1	You can't logically convince someone to find you attractive. True, true. Playing devil's advocate here, one could argue again that sex and pleasure are parts of the overarching idea of survival. If you look at it from an genetic standpoint, survival of your genes is the center of your life. Sex will of course spread those genes, but pleasure makes sure you're fit and healthy to eventually find more mates to spread those genes to. So in a nutshell: pleasure is a tool for your survival. And I don't think that this is a bad/sad/nihilistic mindset. It's actua…	/r/seduction	02/06/21 10:38 AM
1	You can't logically convince someone to find you attractive. I firmly believe in this. Everything we or other animals do is survival. Even recreational stuff - getting your stress levels Low will increase your chances of survival. Sounds depressing for most, but I thinks it's better just to not label it as good or bad behavior, just fact. But: this is my own view, which is distorted (like everyone's is). I appreciate and am open to everyone who has a different take tho.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 08:48 AM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? Dating apps work pretty well for me. But I was always into this, works best for my schedule. 34yo here.	/r/seduction	06/05/21 11:48 AM
2	Using a nickname You doing good, don't overthink this. It's a little inside joke for you two now. Don't overdo it ofc, but it's nice.	/r/seduction	28/04/21 05:03 PM
38	So many girls find you attractive, don't focus on the ones who don't Depends heavily on where you're from. I made a post a week ago on dating in germany. Online dating for most is the main source for dates if you want to meet someone new outside your social circle, or don't party at all. Approaching in daylight is widely regarded as creepy, although it works sometimes, but very rarely. Not beginner friendly. On the other hand, if you're in the US.... Delete them and go nuts Edit Typo: retarded -> regarded lmao	/r/seduction	29/09/20 07:26 AM
2	Approaching in germany Many do, actually. I don't know neu.de, but can vouch for bumble. Tinder is a bit hit or miss, but has a larger userbase. Of course paid ones like Elitepartner are probably your best bet if you want serious conservativism haha Send me a DM if you want some Infos with the apps	/r/seduction	23/09/20 06:37 PM
2	Approaching in germany I don't have any social media anymore. I understand the value of it and see it as great tool for picking up girls, but it's just not my cup of tea. We can dm on here tho	/r/seduction	23/09/20 06:02 PM
4	Approaching in germany Thank you very much for this! I check him out again, I did so before and did not get any new insights - but I'll give it another shot! The places you mentioned are the ones I tried, but the persistence may be a thing I could work on. And it's funny you mentioned the salesman - that's actually what I said sometimes to break the ice haha. Yeah, the views other people have on me when I approach don't really matter to me personally. But: know your target audience. As you correctly said, girls would …	/r/seduction	23/09/20 05:56 PM
1	Approaching in germany Alright, thank you! The beach example may be applied in germany as well I think! The gym girl on the other hand... Maybe if she gave definite IOIs like actually saying hey., but without it.....(i.e. a smile is not enough i.m.o, as german girls smile back if you smile, but that doesn't mean shit on the street / that you should talk to her. It's common decency.) She may think you want to stalk the gym now haha. But good to know, I wanted to visit Croatia anyways, seems like the girls are a bit mor…	/r/seduction	23/09/20 04:45 PM
2	Approaching in germany And it just works (if you got your profile on point). And I gotta say I kinda like Textgame. When you're in germany? How do you game in other countries?	/r/seduction	23/09/20 04:35 PM
1	Approaching in germany Thank you man! So those girls who told you that you are a brave guy - did you cold approach them? Or are those the girls you met during your daily activities? Appreciate your input man :)	/r/seduction	23/09/20 04:23 PM
4	Approaching in germany Thank you! I find it fascinating how dependent dating strategies are from the culture you're working in. Thing is, if a foreign guy approaches in Germany, the girls give them the benefit of the doubt and are pretty open. Of course, an american, french or italian guy seems more interesting (the thrill of the unknown), so it kinda makes sense. But I'm glad that apparently I'm not socially inept and someone shares the same feeling.	/r/seduction	23/09/20 04:20 PM
–	How to deal with other guys at the club? No man leaving shows you are the prize and you got better things to do than competing with probably a beta bux. Agreed, but it's always the context it must be seen in. I think there is a fine line between leaving because you are better or leaving because you're bitter. I would never let the appearance of another man - interested in her or not - control my actions towards her. If she sucks, is unfunny, seeks validation from us both, then yeah - I would definitely go. But it has to be because of h…	/r/askTRP	28/02/17 10:19 AM
–	How to deal with other guys at the club? He doesn't stay with the guy. He stays either with the girl or both. The tension doesn't go away, why should it? If she likes him, she'll like him with her friends around her or not. If OP is accepted by said friends, he earns more plus points either way. If they're no friends, and the other guy tries to get to her in front of OP, then staying is absolutely a must if he wants to succeed. Leaving shows weakness ("he is better, I'm going now"). Of course, it's easier to say than to act like this -…	/r/askTRP	26/02/17 11:01 PM
–	How to deal with other guys at the club? Walking away when a guy appears is not right. Stand your ground, stay. Talk to him and her. Become "friends". This shows perfectly, that even if she drops you, you have no problem talking to other people (and girls). But if you flee the scene it's off.	/r/askTRP	26/02/17 10:38 AM
1	I got invited to a party tomorrow. My social skills suck. Should I still go? Yes, you should go. And every comment on here is on point. I'd like to add something, maybe this will help you calm down and set your mood before you go out: Meditate for 10-20 minutes. If you never meditated before, check Google or SoundCloud for guided meditation. This one's OK: guided meditation Workout today. Don't beat yourself up with the weight, but do some sports to get a) your head free and b) release endorphins. Maybe practicing powerposing helps you too. Here is a Harvard paper about …	/r/askTRP	31/12/15 09:28 AM
7	LTR having coed sleepovers Not acceptable. Downgrade to plate (if you are emotionally able, ask yourself if you have oneitis). I would not break up per se ( I mean sit together and talk about it, this seems butthurt), just say that you are having girls for sleepovers now too. She absolutely can come too, if she wants to.	/r/askTRP	30/08/15 11:21 AM
1	Entrepreneurship Saved! Thanks for this, greatly appreciated.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/15 03:32 PM
1	Is there any RP ideas on getting out of the Friendzone? A first stop would be telling her to visit you., not the other way around. Also, limit the texting. It's for logistics. If she comes, you should go out with her and meet with the people and especially hot girls you know in your area and do the dread game to see if she is interested in more (that means, she may get jealous and tries to win you over). If not, get over it and use her as social proof. But to be honest, I don't think there is a good way.	/r/askTRP	26/01/15 08:55 PM
1	Tinder radio silence Puuhh... I guess 60-70% success. Fun fact: 2/3 of those girls called me in the evening on the day of the date (I only go drink a cup of coffee and then for a walk in the afternoon) to come over to my apartment "and watch a movie"	/r/askTRP	22/01/15 10:47 AM
1	Tinder radio silence I did not mention sex at all to my matches. I kept it light, short, asked for the number and continued in WhatsApp or called to set up a date. I mean you matched, so there is mutual interest, no need to say you want sex. On the date do your magic. Edit for clarification: when I matched, I made a playful remark (like "hey we matched, I guess we should marry now. Give me your # so I can set up a date for the wedding"), got it, and then left tinder and continued elsewhere. 3 to 5 texts at max.	/r/askTRP	22/01/15 09:51 AM
4	The Sex God Method: Wow Wow Wow Wow Wow Good god, try German! I can't do it as it sounds fucking ridiculous and like from some 70s porno. only very few girls I had were into it.	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/15 05:15 PM
2	Martial Arts Krav Maga and luta livre	/r/askTRP	11/01/15 10:12 PM
1	How to Fuck - RP Style Fuck her really hard Apparently I fuck like this automatically, but it often it ends with the girls asking me to stop because it hurts. You should always check your strength. Of course they like the feeling of strength, but I mean check the strength with which you pull the hair, pound her (after a long session, because it eventually gets very sensitive for her), and so on.	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/15 09:40 AM
2	How do you guys manage stress? Meditation or going out (not partying). Just going for a walk, alone. Meditation worked wonders for me, 10mins every morning right after getting up. (And slowly working up to 30mins+) I was reeeaaally unconvinced by it the first few times I did it, but after 5 days or a week I began to feel positive side effects. Try it for a week. Maybe it works for you too.	/r/askTRP	10/12/14 11:01 AM
31	Fake it till you make it...13 Ways To Appear More Attractive Than You Really Are! r/shittytumblrgifs all up in this motherfucker But anyway, some good advice.	/r/seduction	15/10/14 10:25 AM
1	A questions from a beginner regarding a plate Good point right there. I'm clean so far.	/r/askTRP	20/09/14 10:37 AM
2	A questions from a beginner regarding a plate You're perfectly right, i guess I'm really enjoying the sex with her too much haha. That's a great advice, thank you!	/r/askTRP	19/09/14 12:43 PM
–	A questions from a beginner regarding a plate Yup, that's what i also think. If the sex was bad with me she wouldn't have hooked up with me more than once. But yeah, could be another guy / she riding the CC. I mean we fucked on the first night. It'd be stupid of me to think i would be the only guy she would do this with. Thanks for your input man.	/r/askTRP
–	All my dates are non-sexual The revolt press? /r/theredpill FTFY	/r/askTRP