ender_regen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
42	[FR] 5 Minutes from Hello	Field Report	ender_regen	/r/seduction	28/08/13 03:43 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	From one girl to SO many in a few months Calm your tirade, and cut him some slack. I don't think the man is begging for attention and some of his points are valid: "I dont have much [...] so im grasping as much opportunity i can here." You go girl. "i carry no techniqes no more advanced than just listening and catering to a girls wants." It's definitely a challenge to do this without being a pushover. "Dont be over confident but be accomodating and humble" Another hard line to draw, but strong inward humility balanced with a radiant ex…	/r/seduction	03/02/15 02:42 PM
1	Regret does sting Not really something that happens in a day and there's no step by step guide to doing so. It's much more about being internally motivated, analyzing your thoughts and actions, and viewing situations from multiple perspective whilst attempting to avoid your innate bias. It's a habit and a lifestyle you have to work your way into. I wouldn't say that I'm purely present-minded, but the aspect of it that I do exhibit came at the cost of a strong emotional trauma and the process of learning to cope w…	/r/seduction	16/06/14 06:11 AM
1	When a girl says you look like or remind her of (insert celebrity). David Tennant? Yeah, had that one dropped on me at a rave last week. Found it quite odd.	/r/seduction	16/06/14 03:10 AM
2	So me and my friend are at Uni, he got a tattoo in his arm and that made him "alpha".Care to explain?Is society so superficial..? Peacocking is a valid psychological premise. A tattoo can be just that. A well thought out tattoo can lead to a great conversation piece and generate a lot of interest through the vibe of the conversation. A poorly thought out tattoo and an uninteresting canvas will lead to your mate still not catching any girl really worth it though. Foot-in-the-door, he's just opened a lot of approaches without really having to try.	/r/seduction	16/06/14 03:05 AM
1	Regret does sting Expectations, positive or negative, will color your view of the impending interaction, leading to anxiety. Present-mindedness helps to avoid expectations, leading to a centered neutral state where approach flows naturally and comfortably from your character.	/r/seduction	16/06/14 01:54 AM
9	Personality trumps appearance, by a lot. Don't understand the downvotes on this. Props to you, get your 10, but you will find that your 10 has flaws, just like everyone else. Those flaws might still be perfect because they are endearing, or manageable, or her other traits help you make up for it. But if you every manage to find a truly perfect girl, neither you nor any other male would be worth her time. Appreciate those imperfections.	/r/seduction	16/06/14 01:52 AM
1	Personality trumps appearance, by a lot. Most experiences I've had with traditionally "hot" girls proved them to be vapid, useless, and a waste of my valuable time. Over time the physical qualities in a girl that make her "hot" in my eyes have changed so that more often than not I'm physically attracted to women who are interesting in some way or another. Not necessarily compatible, but interesting.	/r/seduction	16/06/14 01:49 AM
1	Pull back after signs of interest Kino, escalate blah blah....etc. But fuck it, use your automatic reaction to your advantage. If you exit gracefully when she's already into you, it makes her MORE INTO YOU. To use PUA terminology, it forces her into your frame.	/r/seduction	13/06/14 06:09 AM
3	[17m] needs some tips from the pros You don't need "tips from the pros", you need experience. Not seduction experience, life experience. Develop a wide range of interests, talents, and hobbies. This combined with the stories you have from actually pursuing them give you a wide range of things to talk about if things ever go south. With all that fall back material, there is no reason a conversation should get stale. Oh and if things do get stale (for instance at a party scene) eject with something like "Hey, I promised my friend <s…	/r/seduction	13/06/14 06:07 AM
3	Confidence is not "She will like me." Confidence is "I'll be fine whether she likes me or not." So much this. Approach, greet, talk, whatever with girls out of your own interest, not some outward pressure to do so.	/r/seduction	13/06/14 05:55 AM
1	Gaming a group by myself Ga Tech huh? You actually have quite a few in the Atlanta area who do this shit. Come up to spsu and try, it's like hard mode.	/r/seduction	06/02/14 05:20 PM
3	[FR] 5 Minutes from Hello To be perfectly honest I have no idea why it moved that quickly. If I had to boil it down to anything it would just be that i wasn't trying to game this girl. I didn't care if it was a total washout, but I got a good vibe about her from the start so I just tried stuff to see what would happen. In retrospect it was all one compliance test after another. I wasn't too concerned about the other guys (okay I was, but if one was her bf he'd stop that shit anyway). Basically the instant i bounced her a…	/r/seduction	30/08/13 07:36 PM
3	[FR] 5 Minutes from Hello Ty kind sir. Its proving relatively easy to talk to and meet girls, even on this campus where the ratio is horrid. Oh and as a plus, I still don't even have a phone so I cant number close.	/r/seduction	29/08/13 01:41 AM
1	Indirect, is it worth it? Direct has been gold for me. It doesn't even have to come off as too forward. At its base level, it's merely being upfront with the fact that you're interested. Direct requires confidence and a not-give-a-shit attitude. For example, the difference between "I want to get to know you better." and "I'm going to get to know you better." The latter is assertive, you aren't asking for permission you are being a leader. It's a mindset change.	/r/seduction	28/08/13 06:32 PM
5	[FR] 5 Minutes from Hello He didn't set me up. He was simply in the group so I had a way to integrate. I started conversation and pulled her on my own accord. At first I just thought it'd be really funny to pull the only girl away from the group, but then it ended up working so well I decided to see how far I could push it.	/r/seduction	28/08/13 06:24 PM
5	How does one start a social circle of hot girls from nothing? Just remember, the people you'd have sex with should only be a subset of the people you're opening and becoming friends with. Befriends lots of guys too. Play sports with them, drink beer, w/e. Reciprocity is fucking awesome and you'll be invited to their social circles and parties.	/r/seduction	11/08/13 02:24 PM
2	Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it? <3	/r/seduction	11/08/13 01:23 PM
3	Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it? Barn swallow the rave?	/r/seduction	11/08/13 03:57 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/2/13 (please upvote - zero karma) There's an odd but somewhat predictable cause and effect in anything sexual. More experience gives you a lot more reference on how to push the right buttons so to speak. In general, its a good idea to keep her always wanting more, learning how exactly to do that is mostly trial and error. Think outside the box and judge the reactions you get.	/r/seduction	03/08/13 05:01 AM
10	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/2/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Kiss more girls, try to get into the headspace of the girls you are kissing. As weird as it sounds kissing is a form of communication, and just like words there is a time and place for both screams and whispers. Kissing doesn't always have to be lips locked, tongues jammed together either, there is a lot of room for improvisation. Try playfully biting her bottom lip, or my favorite sense when she is chasing the kiss and leaning into you and pull back keeping like a half inch between your lips an…	/r/seduction	03/08/13 03:57 AM
6	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/2/13 (please upvote - zero karma) It's hard to bond over long distances and nearly impossible to conjure attraction out of thin air with no actual presence. I'm in an oddly similar situation except this girl is already attracted. What worked for me was simply not putting too much stake into the relationship and every time you do meet up or hang out make it a unique and fun experience.	/r/seduction	03/08/13 03:51 AM
9	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/2/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Time - Cliche as fuck but if you are using your time well the healing process is much easier. Learn from it - Odds are if you are crushed from a relationship then you committed a fatal flaw with getting to attached, dependent, or value-stealing. My last LTR I put the woman on a pedestal, and became dependent on her for my value...avoid this trap in future situations. Identity - Learn and discover both the positive and negative aspects about who you are. Enhance the positive, minimize or eliminat…	/r/seduction	03/08/13 03:48 AM
7	I just made r/travelseduction => a place for sharing travel advice among single men r/travelseduction	/r/seduction	17/07/13 01:18 PM
4	What's the most Beta response you've ever said to a girl? Ouch, that's rough...but hey you probably seemed pretty alpha to her hah.	/r/seduction	14/07/13 06:17 PM
3	Talking to girls is like writing an essay. 3 examples A fun little challenge that keeps the energy up is to open using only one-word 'sentences' and body language. You have to be extremely expressive and confident for it to work, but something like "You. Girl." wave her over "Yes, you. Hi. Name." and then start talking. It's always so much much better for her to be thinking "Well this is new." than "Oh god, not again."	/r/seduction	11/07/13 10:46 AM