| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Woman in my buildingGreat idea. She did make it, and said so at the meal. How long should I wait to email? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/15 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Woman in my buildingI have her email address but not her number. I do not want to come across as a friend, I want to come across as a potential lover. I do not know how to do this, and therefore feel uncertain. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/15 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Perhaps I am not built for TRPThanks for your thoughtful reply. I am still thinking through this deeply. One issue I am not sure about is that the positive feelings I feel when giving to others is wholly attributable to an assumption of a "covert contract." You argue that otherwise "you would get the same satisfaction doing nice things for some hobo on the side of the street." In some ways, I do feel good when doing meaningful things for strangers, even if I know I will never get anything in return; sometimes, that very fact… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Told a plate I missed her and she got FREAKYwhat is not sustainable about just saying "miss you' every now and then to wet the wizard? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/15 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Told a plate I missed her and she got FREAKYwhy would she turn up the heat to move toward LTR if I acted like a beta bitch? I thought I would have totally killed the attraction with that comment but I seemed to have multiplied it | /r/askTRP | 12/01/15 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Telling a girl she is LAME? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/15 11:16 PM |
| 1 | No gym near me, how to liftI do not have room for a bench or power rack :( | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Contacting after hookupYou're right. I am extremely self-conscious; I am very aware of my actions and communication and am extremely deliberate about them. I do not think I can change this part of my personality. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Contacting after hookupUPDATE: just heard from her her: hiiiiiiiiiii! hows your day? me (1 hours later): Hello. Good thanks. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Contacting after hookupThanks. This is the best advice I received on reddit yet. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Contacting after hookupYou've been repeating but not EXPLAINING. You keep repeating that "NOT SAYING ANYTHING AND NOT GIVING A FUCK, she will pick up on that and be turned on by that" without explaining how this squares with evolutionary theory and common sense | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How to get a quiet woman to open upI have seen her interact around friends and actually really like her personality when she's with her friends this is what prompted my very question | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Contacting after hookupHmm. This is great advice. The complicated thing is that I plated her during my recent transition to Rp, before which we were friends, and I used to text her a lot with things like this, and have a good day, have a good night etc. won't she find it creepy if I just do this communicative 360? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 05:31 PM |
| 1 | How to get a quiet woman to open upPlate with gf potential | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Contacting after hookupResorting to ad hominum instead of replying rationally will get us no where I need to understand why this line of reasoning is flawed to adopt the mentality you suggest If you can't explain the apparent contradiction I have elucidated, just say so | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Contacting after hookupWell when she walks home at night through the dangerous parts of the city, sometimes I do ask myself whether she is still alive, and by not asking her about it, I show I am not interested in her survival, thereby decreasing my worth in her eyes. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Contacting after hookupExplain how the fuck this makes sense evolutionarily. You might be inclined to say some bs like by ignoring you're showing you're demonstrating desirability/value but when the ultimate drives are survival and reproduction this seems totally against the grain of evolutionary drives to be drawn to someone who will not show interest in your protection Edit: based on your example, which I for the most part agree with though its not exactly what I was asking about, if a girl is not good looking at al… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Contacting after hookupI'm not trolling and I want to learn, I feel like because of my upbringing it is so ingrained in me to show that I care. Also, if there is another guy who IS showing concern for her, wouldn't she prefer him to me?! Isn't this Like evolution 101 | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Contacting after hookupHow would I know she's alive if I didn't inquire about it? I sense you're confusing being alpha with being a dick. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 03:58 PM |
| 2 | How to get a quiet woman to open upI think I found the golden ticket (from sosiave)-- thoughts? The best way that I have found to get women to open up to me is to tell them that I am an extremely intuitive person. After a few minutes of light fluff talk, I work it into the conversation that I am very good at seeing a person for who they truly are rather than the image that they try to give off to everyone else. Once they hear this, the first question they always ask is "What can you tell about me?" At this point, their interest i… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 03:41 PM |
| 0 | Contacting after hookupHmm. What about her safety- for example if she walks home late at night in a dangerous neighborhood, would you inquire if she got home safely? Also, does game change if you are interested in possible future ltr with her And if SHE reaches out, do I ignore that too to show I'm above it or respond? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 03:34 PM |
| 3 | How to get a quiet woman to open upShe doesn't drink | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Contacting after hookupAt what point do you draw the line, though? If she won an Olympic gold, hypothetically, or some other major accomplishment, would you just ignore it? Do you EVER show interest/concern for their well being? Evolutionarily, don't women seek this kind of behavior? I feel like this is taking RP to extreme and point of lost returns | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 03:26 PM |
| -2 | Contacting after hookupWont she feel like I'm not being supportive and want to cut all contact with me if I just ignore the fact that she is competing today? The suggestions here run SO CONTRARY to my natural inclinations. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 02:56 PM |
| 2 | How to get a quiet woman to open upI feel like its a burden and somewhat exhausting to have to carry the weight in all discussions. I basically lead all of our discussions, choose what topics we talk about, manage the pace. It's just a burden, even though I enjoy being with her. I don't want her to become annoyingly rambling, periphrastic or pleonastic but it would be nice if she felt comfortable enough around me to volunteer what is on her mind. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How to get a quiet woman to open upNot sure if you're being serious. I want her to be less reserved and more expressive so that our interactions can feel more natural and I can actually get to know her personality, strengths and weaknesses to maximize the efficacy of future interactions.. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 02:38 PM |
| -2 | Contacting after hookupThanks. Since she has a swimming competition today, my natural inclination is to wish her luck or something.. when does RP become sheer impoliteness? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Telling a woman you're sickgreat idea | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Trying to get back with you after being IGNOREDthanks for the advice. I have already met two other women. Out of curiosity, why do you particularly suggest 'no more than every ten days' and 'three days after she gets home'? If I do not respond in a more timely way, will she not think that I have lost interest and shut off completely eventually? | /r/askTRP | 31/12/14 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Trying to get back with you after being IGNOREDI do not deny that I am recovering from oneitis. I realize that and want to maximize my options moving forward. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/14 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Trying to get back with you after being IGNOREDMy question is not whether or not I have oneitis. While I was in beta-mode I possibly did have oneitis, and now I am plating her. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/14 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Trying to get back with you after being IGNOREDWhile not 100% analogous, I was just struck by the following from The Rational Male: "A man’s default response should always be to excuse him from the LJBF situation. The reason for this is because it serves his best interest whether she is testing him or is rejecting him. If he is confident enough in himself to walk away from the sexually tense environment, he proves himself as decisive enough to put himself above being ‘played’ like this. Ergo, he leaves her with the impression that he is the … | /r/askTRP | 31/12/14 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Trying to get back with you after being IGNOREDWe did go out multiple times ... Are you suggesting that I stop ignoring her now and plan to go out again when she returns? | /r/askTRP | 31/12/14 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Can't handle the frustrations and failures I keep experiencing trying to attract women, need a power throughHow is your fitness? Do you lift? If not, start lifting. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/14 12:41 AM |
| 1 | chemistryHonestly, my goal is not to fuck as many women as possible. My goal is to find a LTR I can be happy with. I have already started to ignore her and she has been texting me. The reason I think she is worth more time is because we have shared | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 07:29 PM |
| 1 | chemistryThat is what I would have done had if I had swallowed RP at that point.. I just found it last night and want advice. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 07:04 PM |
| 1 | chemistryI have not found an answer that makes sense to me: on one hand people are saying that I can be very attractive to woman X if I start being alpha, and on the other hand saying that once woman X has perceived me as beta, "the ship has sailed" "no chance" "you're ingrained in her mind as beta" "nothing you can do." AND it is both intellectually and sexually interesting to me to see what it takes to flip this woman's perceptions. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 07:02 PM |
| 1 | chemistryNobody here seems to be comprehending my question. I never went for it in the first place because I was timid and did not know jack shit about RP until last night. She sees me as extremely high value, and has told me things to that effect, but I have failed to build chemistry thus far; my question is: if her perception of me fixed or will/can it change as I initiate my quest to becoming true alpha? If the latter, what steps can I take to maximize the magnitude of this perceptual change? | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 06:32 PM |
| 1 | chemistryMy question is not whether she is dry. I know that. My question is whether this can be reversed by starting to be alpha. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 05:21 PM |
| 1 | chemistryso she's not "holding back", she's totally not in touch with her sexuality yet | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 04:24 PM |
| 1 | beta => alphaJesus. I did read much of the side bar info, and most of what I found was about crafting the alpha persona ab initio and its implications for new women you meet rather than how it might affect the impressions of a given woman who is witnessing your transition rather than meeting you as the alpha up front. There is very little I could find on this particular question, which is why I posed it. Additionally, people here seem to be contradicting themselves, on the one hand saying that you will be ve… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 03:22 PM |
| 1 | chemistryShe's a virgin ATM | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 10:55 AM |
| 1 | chemistryAs noted above, things were getting increasingly sexual. I did not pay for everything, but I did pay for first date. If I start ignoring her and she comes chasing after me, what do I do then? Even if regional train has passed, but might the acela be on its way? Also, to clarify, my goal here is an LTR not a QF | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 10:27 AM |
| 1 | chemistryTo clarify, I do personally think there is chemistry, and I am more into her than any other person I've met. Things were getting increasingly sexual. I actually started to cut down my communication with her after we had the 'chemistry' conversation, and I have noticed her starting to contact me more; this made me think - I am turning into an alpha in her mind? Also I must add that because of my profession and other objective measures I am alpha and extremely high value; subjectively in terms of … | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 10:24 AM |
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