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Yeah, there's social anxiety. But after you manage and overcome that, you have to then get over sexual anxiety, or else things still won't go anywhere
/r/seduction16/11/17 08:30 PM
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It sounds like you're doing fine. Don't compliment low SMV girls, they're terrible at receiving compliments.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:36 AM
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What are you saying/doing right before she says that? There's no context here.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:25 AM
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What kind of improvements did you make specifically?
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:21 AM
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Your intention starting off should be to find the truth. You don't approach because of assumptions you are making. You assume that she might have a boyfriend right there. You assume that other people will pay attention to your approach. You assume that if she rejects you you'll experience public ridicule. You have to approach with the intention of testing those assumptions, of finding the truth about approaching. I can tell you that often times, if she has a boyfriend in the vicinity, the situat…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:19 AM
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Has watching him improved your game personally?
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:13 AM
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You mean his youtube videos? Or is there a program you're referring to?
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:10 AM
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I don't think there is a stigma towards it if not many people know what it is. I have a similar but worse mental illness that I've overcome but still take meds for. When I've disclosed it to friends, even though it's more well known than yours, they didn't know what it really was. They could only judge me for me, which was a normal person. Since most people don't really know what it is, they'll never judge you on that but on how you behave around them. Do you take meds or therapy and have it und…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 09:34 AM
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Yeah, all women have the same hypergamy. That's why I don't waste my time with those I'm not attracted to.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 04:07 PM
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Emotions are beta? They aren't. They're an amplifier. If you have a solid core, emotions will amplify that. Confidence and drive are strongest as emotions for example. If internally you're weak and needy, emotions will amplify that. It's not that you shouldn't experience emotion, it's that you should trigger them in her, not talk about them to her.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 03:11 PM
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You need solid text game nowadays. It opens a lot of doors
/r/askTRP17/06/17 11:53 AM
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Shaming tactic used by betas and some girls. Usually used when the guy has a lot of alpha traits but no beta traits
/r/askTRP17/06/17 11:46 AM
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I agree. If she brings it up, say it was a good night confidently like you mean it, because you did have a good night, and then switch the topic.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 11:41 AM
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You're 23? Go out to bars/clubs on the weekends, don't think about women any other time. There's some balance.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:27 PM
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I think you're going about it the wrong way. If you don't have game, build game. If you look bad, lift and get fashionable clothing.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:23 PM
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I just wouldn't continue being friends with her. You're an orbiter right now.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:19 PM
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Just lurked the sub after you mentioned it. It looks like it's full of losers.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:15 PM
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I'm not sure why you're asking this. Do you want a long term goal to work towards when lifting? Here are three types of physiques, choose your favorite. https://youtu.be/QWR2skRS09o
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:32 AM
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See it as motivation and reinforcement, keep moving things forward. I'd also add a few plates if you haven't, doesn't have to be from the same school (I assume this is a HS post).
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:25 AM
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Haha
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:12 AM
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Your fear of losing this girl shows a bigger problem, a lack of confidence in generating more options. Dude actually lives on the other side of the country, but has brought up buying a plane ticket and meeting her This dude seems to have no options. The girl probably knows this. Normally, this means there's no real competition. You said you're 19? Your age puts you at a slight disadvantage. they spent the night watching a movie online. Which I'd say is super fucked since it was 12-2am ish for B …
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:58 AM
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Gay guys don't ask if they're gay, they know they're gay. They've lived their whole lives fantasizing about guys, what's there to question? You said you're fine when you fap. What do you fap to? If it's men, you're gay. If it's women, you're not gay. It's not that complex. I assume you bought this prostitute because you wanted to fuck her. Unless you were actually wanting to pull a sick expensive joke on her, you're not gay. If you're not getting hard with girls you clearly want to fuck you're e…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:32 AM
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Have values. Know where you rank by your own standards.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:19 AM
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It think it would benefit you to get off the computer and do what you need to do.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:17 AM
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Is this a troll post? Have you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:15 AM
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Yes
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:13 AM
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Too confident? Well, you didn't approach, so I'd say you were lacking confidence. Your friend maybe was telling you girls wanted to approach you but thought you would blow them off rudely. You being approachable doesn't matter if you just approach the girls you're into honestly. She was probably telling you this because she thinks you're making her look bad, but still wants you around. She was saying you're displaying alpha traits but were unlikable, lacking pro social or socially intelligent be…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:04 AM
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Did you consider you might not be the dad?
/r/askTRP11/06/17 09:23 PM
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Yeah, they just don't like it that you're changing. Sucks for them, because these changes seem worth it. Make sure to make alliances with anyone except the woman who is leading the shit talking. Slowly build each relationship in one on ones.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 07:03 PM
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As with how to deal with it now, I'd say, make alliances slowly, starting with the guys.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 06:34 PM
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People generally don't like it when someone they know changes. It's ironic because change is what's needed to go up. I'd say, keep going. You'll reach a tipping point where they'll stop and they'll start pursuing you. Women in general go through the psychological and social aggression route. Depending on their age, they might be hitting the wall. If that's the case, their behavior won't change, they'll probably get worse out of jealousy.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 06:33 PM
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This is hilarious. He also chose the username UltimateBeta just to write this.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 06:53 AM
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Beta and alpha are not demographics. They're traits. You can have a mix of both. If the girl wants to have sex, you're​ displaying alpha traits. If she wants a friendship or relationship, you're displaying beta traits or beta traits with an alpha mix. Soul mates, and thinking someone might be the one is a beta myth. There isn't a "one." There are good ones and bad ones.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 04:51 PM
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Be constantly building your SMV higher. I've heard dread game be used in LTRs in addition.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 04:44 PM
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If you're not having sex, which you aren't, you're her backup at best. An orbiter.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:33 PM
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You're on the wrong sub.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:29 PM
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You're on the wrong sub
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:21 PM
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Do you have a lot of other options? If you don't, that may be there source of it.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:14 PM
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Have you heard of dread game?
/r/askTRP05/06/17 06:47 AM
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Not a rejection. Also, why are you thinking this hard over a 6?
/r/askTRP05/06/17 06:40 AM
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The place isn't critical, but logistics matter imo. I wouldn't approach a girl getting on a bus I want going to get on. That's a logistical issue. But approaching during the day with people watching isn't a problem. I guess you're lacking the experience, but experience will show you it's not that bad, even if you get rejected.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 06:38 AM
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If you feel lonely, find friends. Don't try to solve that using women.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 02:58 AM
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You don't turn off red pill awareness. You turn on social awareness when making friends.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 02:55 AM
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Text her the day after. Have a conversation via text over some days. Eventually you set up another meeting. After sex, you don't have to be as aggressive.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 02:52 AM
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Hmm. Reminds me of the time I wanted to be an entrepreneur. Right now I'm going for engineering, but did attempt it for a year. My dad was against it, but it turns out he himself wants to start his own business at some point in the future. It also turns out you need money to start a business, so I ended up having to start with a job anyways. Even if you create an online product, you need money for marketing/ads. I can't really call my dad beta nor alpha, and he also knows some underlying red pil…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 09:56 PM
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I have no idea how I found TRP. I can't remember. But when I did find it, I was surprised that other people were talking about the hypergamic nature I'd first become aware of as an upperclassman in my high school years. Girls in LTR's and marriages during a brief moment were too quick to be willing to cheat behind their partners back, or switch loyalty quickly without a second thought. In other words, I'd already been reading evolutionary psychology and was seeing proof of it IRL. It wasn't real…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 09:39 PM
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I guess you're free to do as you wish. If it's a bad review, just don't mention my account directly. If it's a good review, just keep in mind that this is my reflection after a couple of repeated experiences starting out. The post I referenced in rankings is in the sidebar under the name, "how to manage your bitches."
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:18 PM
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Good review? Bad review? I've just started testing plate theory so I'm slightly shit right now.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:06 PM
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The name of the community is The Red Pill which is a reference​ to [...] Pretty self evident. I'm confused as to why you bring that up. I guess it's technically on the same topic. But you're right, not being coerced into a female imperative based on manipulation and lies which ruins men instead of helping is equally as important as sexual strategy, if not more. The people arguing Sexual Strategy vs Self Improvement are 100 IQ Normies. They will never understand the concept of ideological filters…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 03:57 AM
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Alternative? For the majority of men, beta game is their default.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:55 AM
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The Red Pill is about whatever it's leadership says it's about. I'm here for sexual strategy. If I just wanted to improve myself, there are other places for that. If RedPillSchool Rollo Archwinger and I collectivly decide that the Red Pill is about milking goats and can sell you guys on the new goat milking direction then the Red Pill is officially about goat milking strategy. I'd imagine trp would have a completely different audience, if any at all. That being said it's kind of difficult to say…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:37 AM
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She sounds like a feminist. Why are you friends with a feminist? Don't you have boundaries? With this girl in particular, she tries to subtly disqualify and desexualize me. She's probably trying to lie about your SMV, making it seem lower than it actually is. Why would she do this? Who cares, what a shitty person to be around. I would drop that relationship, even if it means leaving that group and finding other groups.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 12:58 AM
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Im having a hard time decyphering your text, especially the middle. Feels like you are talking to yourself. Well, you're completely right. I wrote this for myself with no intention to post and ended up with something that maybe could be useful to other people. I was thinking of maybe posting it, so I did some quick editing, and decided to go with it. I could've just posted the end points and called it a theory post. I didn't want to do that because what I wrote I just thought about and hadn't te…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 01:48 PM
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Hmm. I recall rsd had some good material for guy shit tests. Seems applicable here. I'll summarize what I can remember: Pretend like you didn't hear it because in your world its so unheard of someone to have the balls to do something so stupid. Look at him, pause, the respond directly to the comment in a stoic way unaffected way. " Hey bitch boy." Turn around/look up, whatever, face him. "Oh... Hi ___. How are you?" Essentially, frame it as he's doing something really socially uncalibrated and y…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 01:38 PM
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If you're doing it with the intention that you're indebting her, that does sound like a viable strat. That is, if she actually feels indebted and it isn't something already expected. If she expects guys to give her free shit, I doubt she'll feel like she has to pay it back.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 01:27 PM
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Power move? I typically ask her if she wants me to pay for her, and they often treat it as if I'm shit testing them. Other times they are lying and want me to pay for them. If you want to default to paying, I'd say that's more of a strat to possibly not lose some girls, not a hard requirement. If it is a shit test, as he says it, what is she shit testing? Who the best beta bucks is? Some girls out there only go on dates to get free food.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 01:24 PM
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Could be a shot in the dark, but you're maybe triggering sexual desire as well as a desire for a relationship in them. In terms of ratio, my guess, the relationship response is being triggered stronger than a sexual response. They're probably trying to categorize you, but you aren't hitting any category too strongly. Your ex might desire you but in an attainable, "I've got him before so he might be a safe bet." The girlfriend may think, "I may want to, but he'll probably not go along with it due…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 01:12 PM
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I meant rather "friends" who I meet with regularly not random people at the event. Those examples were friends who I regularly see. Those interactions wouldn't happen with randoms. But I show those examples because they were people I knew for a good while but never approached in front of before. I intentionally don't approach women if there's someone I'm trying to befriend, and focus on building that friendship before doing my own thing again with women. maybe it is different in your country, bu…
/r/askTRP02/06/17 12:46 PM
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Hmm. Ok. From what you're saying, you're giving yourself two paths. Focus on women and whatever deficit you think these guys who you want to be friends wont let you be friends with. My guess from my experience is here what you think is the case is actually a self fulfilling prophecy. They probably don't care that you can't escalate with women. But you think they do and you think your a loser because right now you haven't consistently, if at all. They most likely see that you think you're a loser…
/r/askTRP02/06/17 12:05 PM
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I relate to your post, but I'm a bit confused. Are you dissatisfied with your social skills and social life or is it the ability to escalate with women that you're dissatisfied with? If it's your social life, forget about actually dating these women and build your social life. Greg Greenway had great material on social intelligence free on his site. I'd start there.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 10:42 AM
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As indirect as women are, I don't think she's being fake with you. She probably genuinely isn't itching to have sex with you. Also, you think she's not that attractive? Every girl has the same hypergamy. Just because she's less attractive doesn't mean her underlying standards are any less than a girl who is attractive. Why would you waste your time with someone you're not that attracted to?
/r/askTRP02/06/17 09:28 AM
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What a confusing post. You mean, prioritizing what to work on? As in terms of SMV? You have looks in there multiple times. It all depends what you want and what you're getting right now. When are pluralistic in their sexual strategy. When they ovulate and want sex, they want good genes, or men with alpha traits. When they aren't, they're looking for a provider, or men with beta traits. And when I say provide, I don't just mean money, there's also emotional provision. In other words, women actual…
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:45 AM
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1 day is good. It will force you to do all the work you would normally do in 6 days instead of 7. In other words, it's a condition that forces you to get better, while also giving you time to recharge and enjoy yourself. It's up to you though.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:18 AM
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It seems she was trying to delegate you as an orbiter while she tested different options. She's mad because she didn't manipulate you like she wanted to.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 07:35 PM
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Like easy DTF? Impulsive Sensation seeking Under the influence of alcohol around other people drinking and getting sexual. It's not a race thing. It's the right girl in the right situation with the right guy.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 07:28 PM
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Haha, did you read anything else I wrote? Seems like you only like to focus on insecurities. You say you act intelligently IRL, but come here and act dumb af and get angry why you get the responses you do. I'll keep it shorter this time. If you're getting numbers, but not dates, your text game sucks. If you're getting dates but not lays, your escalation and date game sucks.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 07:00 PM
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I know the bulk of social calibration is in social awareness. From what you're saying, you have that down. After that it's self awareness in relationship to social awareness in terms of, "is my behavior appropriate to my surroundings? Am I making intelligent social choices?" A lot of times, unattractive social behaviors just come about when someone isn't feeling ok at some level. Someone comes across as try hard because they lack validation. Someone else can't maintain eye contact because they'r…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:57 PM
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My guess is in the way you interact. Based on how you interact here, you might be coming off as needy. Additionally, what I hear is you're improving all alpha traits. Women are pluralistic in their sexual strategy. They have both short term and long term schedules of mating. In the short term they look for alpha traits for good genes. In the long term they look for provisioning traits, often associated with betas. Ideally, they would want both. Which means, a pure alpha isn't the highest their h…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:39 PM
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Have one day off a week. In that day, do something that brings enjoyment. Test a lot of different things.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:12 PM
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Have fun? It's a fucking party, that's the purpose of them. If it's your first one, don't worry about who'll you'll hook up with, you'll have a terrible time.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:06 PM
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Have boundaries. If you're setting them, and they're not being respected, cut your ties. I wouldn't tolerate that with anyone I would associate with as a friend.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:02 PM
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They trust your opinion. Something about you has given you a positive reputation. In the end, it works in your favor. The person making the decisions is the person who is leading.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:59 PM
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Haha, what a situation. The balls on that girl. I don't know why you wouldn't hard next.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:57 PM
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It sounds like lekking. She doesn't want your attention, she wants you to escalate. If that doesn't work, and she only really wanted your attention, it's a waste of time for you. Next.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:52 PM
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Hmm, are you experiencing anxiety, stress or fatigue during those situations?
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:47 PM
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I'm more surprised that you're surprised with how she acts at work. As for how she treats you specifically, if she thought of you as an orbiter, that was your value to her. Since you didn't agree to be her doormat, you had no benefit to her, so no association with you is necessary from her perspective.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:44 PM
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FWB =/= LTR
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:39 PM
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It seems to me, you're more invested in the relationship than they are. In other words, they hold the power, even though you're spinning plates. That's the opposite that spinning plates is intended to do. I think it might come down to your confidence in acquiring new and better options. If you really had options, you wouldn't stress out about one specific girl during casual dating. Her behavior seems like she had buyer's remorse. You're right about her going with another option, I doubt not talk…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:37 PM
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I sit or lay down in a comfortable position, eyes open or closed. I then trigger an emotion I find pleasant. Then I just notice my breathing while sitting in that emotion for as long as I'd like. Sometimes it's five minutes, sometimes it's thirty.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:30 PM
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Yes. SMV considers a lot of things. There are more ways to improve your SMV than just working out. But physique and body language is the clearest to see on first impression, which from what you're saying seems to be the issue. As for what you see with your competition, if you have high SMV, you can have uninteresting conversations and still have the girl be overwhelmed in a good way. Other things that contribute to SMV are your social status connected to how much you make, whether you have alpha…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 08:49 PM
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It's your SMV. You're build, even though it's average (skinny), women perceive it as lower than average. Likely, smaller gains in SMV will lead to more significant results for you.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 08:14 PM
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Well, on a level, every girl is exactly the same. Every girl had the same underlying motivations written in her biology. Each girl may seem different, but they all have the same hypergamy. Hypergamy that you're seeing first hand. She's leaving her current option for what she deems the better one. From that perspective, it's easier to not catch feelings. Because she's not really committed to you, she's committed only for the moment. And she's also not special. The moment she sees your oneitus, he…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 06:21 PM
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Research has found that women with more partners tend to be less happy in marriage. Same studies found that a man's sexual past had no impact on the man's happiness in marriage. In terms of selection, women with bigger sexual pasts tend to be screened harder as likely to cheat, hence, the lesser choice for an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 04:28 AM
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I'd agree. My first guess was he knows them, wants to fuck them, or is fucking at least one, as you said. Looking at it more, he could be trying to protect the value and reputation of the venue also. OP said the venue was pretty empty, that brings more attention to your interaction for the people there.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 04:02 AM
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Yeah, I don't think the problem is strategizing in the moment. I think the problem here is not having enough experience using the information.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:48 AM
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All girls have the capacity to be unfaithful. I don't think you can enter an LTR and not have tight game when every girl is hypergamous. It seems you need to build LTR material, not find it.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:38 AM
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I've understood it as a tool for hypergamy. "If I tell them just to be himself, then I can easily screen who the best candidate is."
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:19 AM
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Reciprocity
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:16 AM
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You didn't say anything that made me uncomfortable. You gave a strategy that I could choose or choose not to adapt, no underlying truth. "Be on your mission" is something I've heard over and over, tossed out like a band aid usually for people who want LTRs, with no context on why. The underlying reason you're giving me here sounds like Oneitus, which can be handled a number of ways. I'm not saying your wrong, you gave a strat out of the many possible, and I didn't resonate with that one.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 07:55 PM
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And what's the "truth" you're talking about here?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 07:39 PM
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Sorry you view it as weakness. I'm a busy man and have to screen information quickly. I know you meant you should feel on a mission, and the mission isn't her, or that you aren't telling her some mission that has nothing to do with her. I'm saying I don't resonate with that, I've heard it several times before. By "sounds like the right thing to say" I meant, sounds like the right advice to give. Has a nice ring to it, like just be yourself. As for the try hard, it seems like there's a lot of eff…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 07:13 PM
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You ejected? You did mess up, but I think you blew it up a little. I don't think this interaction was entirely dead by one instance. You should keep in the interaction until she visibly rejects you (turns around, walks away), instead poorly reading her and assuming it's over, despite the discomfort you may be feeling.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 05:25 PM
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Don't girls just do this on their own? It's like mate guarding with suspected competition anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 05:17 PM
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I had an impulse to downvote because of the first few lines. The first thing you need to know about having conversations with women is that you don’t need to have a conversation with a woman to have sex with her. The purpose of a conversation is to demonstrate to her that you are confidently, joyfully, and resiliently pursuing your life’s mission, your life is fun and interesting, and that you will let her join your fun and interesting life if she emotionally invests in you and behaves properly.…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 05:04 PM
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I thought Feelz before Realz was to parody an adolescent level maturity girls seem to carry into adulthood. Why make a masculine version of that name?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 04:56 PM
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Beta game doesn't have a 100% fail rate. It's just a very low win percentage for sex. I'd rather it be zero, because when it does work they think it's THE viable route. Mostly because for me it seems that route relies heavily on cockblocking perceived competition.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 04:49 PM
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Or her hypergamy is deciding between you and her other options. You're not her best option at the time.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 04:45 PM
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There are more women in the U.S. than men currently.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:34 AM
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Would have liked to see a talk on Plate Spinning. I'm excited to see two speeches though.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:06 AM
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Is Tinder a viable route? I've never considered it since it came out. I know some guys meet girls consistently on there, making it their main way of meeting women. I've mostly taken the in-person route, and never got into any form of online dating.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 11:18 PM
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5-10 minute break every working hour. 1 day off a week. 4 weeks off a year, 1 week per quarter.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 06:27 AM
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Shouldn't this post be on askTRP?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 07:18 AM
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Well, I willed my way through my first approach. And kept approaching that way for a long time. The problem was that I had to put myself in an extreme state to do it every time. I still had anxiety after my 80th approach doing it that way. When I started focusing on the things I wrote here, I used far less energy. Any anxiety I had around it went away completely in a couple approaches. It made a huge difference in how convenient and easy the activity was.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 06:30 PM
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If you're talking about me, I approach pretty regularly.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 05:32 PM
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First dates, I usually do coffee, since it's cheap, that way I can afford a lot of first dates. Before ordering, I usually ask something along the line of, "do you want me to pay for yours?" They always say no, I'll pay for mine. Sometimes, they're very insistent on it. I never really understood it. Then I did the same thing with a female friend who I was catching up with over lunch right before we got the check. She said not to test her, and she almost paid for both of us (I decided we split it…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 01:00 PM
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I would just not respond to this text. If she brings it up in person, respond then with something. It could be her boyfriend, potential rape charges could also be a possibility
/r/askTRP21/01/17 05:57 PM
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You should put this in asktrp
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 05:42 PM
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If you're SMV is high enough, girls will laugh at seemingly unfunny jokes. They'll also joke more themselves and assume you were going to make a joke and respond to it before you've spoken back during a conversation, referencing jokes in their head that you could have made in that situation. They'll do more work and fill in some of the gaps for you. You can raise your SMV with humor if you get good at it as it may elevate prestige, one style of status. But you can also increase your SMV other wa…
/r/askTRP12/12/16 03:18 PM
1

You find other girls and move on from this one, hopefully learning something from the last one
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:38 AM
1

Focusing a bit on making a connection should help. Given everything else I was doing, adding that one part increased my number to date ratio dramatically. Douche typically is a term for someone with alpha traits but lacking social skills like teamwork and intimacy
/r/askTRP29/09/16 06:35 AM
7

First of all, lift. And capitalize on these 4 characteristics: fun, dominance, leadership, easygoing. Build friendships with other alpha guys that you'll hang out with often. Get connected to parties. And don't mess up your future career.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 08:12 AM
1

Makes sense
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:48 AM
1

This makes the most sense right now. Thanks
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:30 PM
1

Hmm. For C, I know what you mean. I mean, for hotter girls, that's all they really need sometimes. But usually the girls that tend to do that are the ones that are more attractive. For A and E, that would be unusual. You're assuming they're into me but want to plow past shitty behavior when what they offer isn't that much. I'm not sure if they're even into me in the first place. And for the later part of E, I do see that with attractive girls. Even if they're receptive before talking to them, wh…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:49 PM
2

They're just kind of average looking. They look like they need some sleep honestly. Are you a black girl by chance?
/r/askTRP28/08/16 08:00 PM
1

Having a great physique makes about 1/3 of your SMV. The other 2/3's are displays of status (alpha psychology/confidence, wealth/popularity) and your sexual capacity/prowess (sexual awareness and ability to escalate aggressively or assertively). These other guys may be capitalizing on the other two. But yes, working out builds some confidence, but mostly makes girls more physically attracted to you. If you have sex before having a great physique and after having a great physique you'll notice th…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 07:52 PM
1

Neither faces are that attractive, but the black girl is definitely hotter. Other than those examples, in general it's more contextualized. If there's just a lot more white girls in an area, you'd probably find several attractive ones, and not as many attractive black girls. If there were more black girls in an area, you'd probably find more attractive black girls than attractive white girls there. Even then, some guys are more biased towards one type than another, but hot girls are hot girls.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 07:27 PM
5

Go to an actual doctor. You may be diagnosing yourself incorrectly or may not have an actual problem.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 10:52 PM
1

You could him, but there's a possibility he won't believe you and make an enemy out of you. In this situation not that it matters much as he lives far away I'm assuming.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:17 AM
1

You can look for signs, but it's a waste of time. I look for girls I'm attracted to. Just approach.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:13 AM
4

From one perspective that's what's already happened. The Bible proposes that humanity is not inherently righteous, both men and women are driven by the flesh, or reproductive agendas. Just because your a woman you don't automatically become a saint.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 05:58 AM
1

Maybe your giving some aspects of your life a god like position. When you make something that's kind of good thing into an ultimate thing, whenever that god is challenged irrational anger is triggered. Say you like respect, someone disrespects you, you set a simple boundary and move on. Say you make respect into an ultimate thing, you lash out, cultivate anger and hold a grudge. When you place huge importance unto something you either make it into a God or the opposite into a demon. When you los…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 06:20 AM
1

My first couple of aproaches I just built a desire for the truth and focused on finding the truth about approaching. Then I just did it more often by having my actions dictate my emotions, not my emotions my actions. I don't really think of it as anxiety but more as hesitation.
/r/seduction09/06/15 02:50 AM
1

You should probably seek professional attention in addition to finding new places. Make an appointment with your doctor and ask him to refer you somewhere.
/r/seduction30/05/15 08:26 PM
2

4 Hour Chef by Tim Ferris, teaches effective learning; Models by Mark Manson; Way of the Superior Man by David Deida; 4 Elements of Game by Date Hotter Girls
/r/seduction22/05/15 06:33 PM
1

Nope, I get positive responses regularly and get regular dates. But whatever gets you results.
/r/seduction11/05/15 12:59 PM
1

Campus code, social man, for college. Models, attract women through honesty. Power of full engagement, for productivity.
/r/seduction11/05/15 05:20 AM
2

David Letterman is great at that
/r/seduction11/05/15 05:12 AM
2

Being direct without social awareness is being socially disconnected. Being direct with social awareness is being bold, which is attractive. Don't stop being direct, continue being ballsy but add social awareness to that.
/r/seduction11/05/15 05:09 AM
2

Humor, take notes on actors, read comedy writing secrets 2nd E. Practice with your friends. Helps inspire emotion and be expressive. Honesty and authenticity practices through vulnerability with anyone you talk to, helps create connection. Don't do porn or masturbate. Should increase your ability to comfortably move the interaction forward and get her aroused.
/r/seduction11/05/15 04:56 AM
1

She won't respond to you. Your best chance is bumping into get in person and not mentioning you messaged her.
/r/seduction11/05/15 04:51 AM
2

What's the issue? If you talk to a new girl you can't get the conversation started, but once it's started it's fine?
/r/seduction11/05/15 04:45 AM
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I do this all the time. Go straight up to her, focusing only on getting her full attention. I usually tap a girl in the shoulder from behind, hold eye contact with her until she basically asks me to say something. Then I say, "I thought you were adorable so I thought I'd meet you."
/r/seduction11/05/15 03:48 AM
1

What's the truth about approaching women? Find out by approaching this woman. What's the truth about her as a person? Find out by taking to her. What's the truth about making out? Find out by trying to make out. What's the truth about myself? Find out by taking action.
/r/seduction11/05/15 03:34 AM
1

I don't experience much, if any, negative emotion in response to a rejection anymore. Probably comes from a number of things. I approach girls regularly while I'm going throughout my day, so deep inside of me experience ingrained an abundance mentality inside of me. Action is the best way to confidence; not telling yourself something, but showing yourself something. Another concept you could use is seeking the truth when you pursue women. This concept is from Rob Judge. When you pursue the truth…
/r/seduction10/05/15 12:22 PM
5

If she says she has a boyfriend, she either does, which means she's not receptive, or she doesn't want you to hit on her, which means she's not receptive. If she's faking it or testing you, why would you want to date a girl who would do something immature like that? Either way it's a waste of time. Say, ok, and walk away, and talk to the several other single girls out there.
/r/seduction10/05/15 12:16 PM
3

Incrementally do things to get outside of your comfort zone towards getting sexual with women. If its awareness for you, begin by being aware of what you are aware of. After a while, when you have security, being desensitized is a bad thing. Why would you make yourself numb to something that feels great? The next step would be to embrace what turns you on about women.
/r/seduction10/05/15 11:51 AM
0

I do this all the time, but at a bigger university. I tend to approach three girls a day just going about my day in between classes. Some words to say for your case: "Hey, I've seen you a couple times but we haven't met..." or "Hey, I don't think I've seen you around before. My name is..." These words gives the assumption that your connected to the social scene at your university. Its easy, don't overcomplicate it.
/r/seduction26/04/15 06:03 AM
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